1 year without looking at myself (this is what happened)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 ก.ย. 2024
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I did this for like 3 years. I was so depressed. I had 0 selfies or pictures of my self on my phone for years. I know how u feel
Just lose weight and improve yourself and become successful
@@Goals9 ew
@@Goals9 well I talk on this channel a lot about how that wasn't possible for me. To tell someone to simply just "lose weight" and "be successful" greatly undermines the complexities of an individuals circumstance
@@averyintelligence 💖
@@Goals9 why would I lose weight?
I struggle with self-image. I can't look at myself in the mirror in public restrooms or public places, never could. It's like when I see how I look, I'd get anxious/depressed immediately and it would ruin the moment to the point of a meltdown. I only look myself in "safe mirrors", mainly my bathroom one.
PS: just wanted to say I think you are soooo beautiful!!! I love your eyelashes and how you look like a fairy.
@viviane_casella awe that is sooo sweet of you! and I appreciate you speaking up about your story ❤️🩹 self image can be so crippling.
Sending love ❤
Damn, girl, you might have not looked upon yourself for a year but I can't stop looking at you! 😍Moss, you look like a boss!
@Iksvomid that's sooo sweet of you to say 💕🥰
@@thoughtsofmoss It's sweet of you opening up like this in public. You're far braver than I and a gorgeous girl with a gorgeous soul.
Wow... Thank you for sharing your story with us ❤️
@smolfrog03 thank you for listening 💕
This is such an interesting video. I'm kind of doing the same thing(not looking at myself/no selfies/etc) just bc I don't want to have so much of my thoughts focused on my appearance.
@breh9243 wow, that's great! It can take a lot of strength do it on your own like thar but it's just gotta do good for mental health it seems!
you're such an amazing person and I can't believe you have the strength to share this story, thank for sharing your story and I love you Queen❤️❤️
@ramzie8680 aw thank you so much, I really appreciate this 💞
We think we look worse than we do. Every time i point out one of my flaws, people tell me they didn't even notice and that its not even that bad. There's really nothing wrong with you, and you can always do little things to improve your image as i've learned. It's hard to not be a cookie cutter version of everyone else. But i think a fairy aesthetic would be so charming on you!!!
@doktorzhigonzo9165 aw thank you!! 🧚♀️ and your encouraging words ring sooo true!
About the ''Eat when you're hungry'' thing. I don't always get hungry. I can go a whole day eating nothing or very little, feeling very good. Then suddenly something, often my legs start hurting in a very specific way, and that's my reminder to eat. And that's pretty much the only sign I get. Sometimes I feel it in my stomach, but mostly not. And then, how much should I eat? What's feeling full, but not too full, I'm not sure. (Apparently, it's common with autism.)
@PetrichorIsNice Wow this was me for a long long time. It's still a constant thing I have to remind myself every day to eat 2,000 calories (which was literally more than double what I ate before). Since maintaining that, I've healed tremendously. Our adrenals suffer when we don't take care of ourselves.
So, totally get what ya mean! Kinda glad I'm not alone lol 😅
Awesome vid it's nuts to see the kind of wisdom you extracted from that hardship. I've always been hypercritical of the way I look but over the last year or so I've become less attached to the finer details of the way I present. I might try the mirror thing though for a bit as I'm still not 100% over it. Thank you for sharing your story :)
Me too i detached and i dont look in the mirror becuz i just totaly no purpose in life that moments days and maybe years
Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you feel better.
I’m obsessed with looking at myself. I have the opposite problem.
@AbianahAlmeida ha that is how I was before toxic mold.. it was definitely toxic for me tho
God is waiting for each one of us to seek him for all our needs.
I just sub to you today i relate to this i love your videos now why i feel like that too
@@aikachan0883 welcome to my channel 💕💕
Wow, thank you for sharing this
@@marypoppins6403 thank you for listening!
What a beautiful story❤. Thanks for sharing. Really authentic self expression in any outlet is the key to happiness. I started this dance channel here 2 weeks ago and I love the improvements have on my image. I just subscribed 🫶 , we can do this!
@Ludovicus_Dance 😊 thank you! and wait, a dance channel? That's awesome I'm gunna have to check it out!
it's tough. ive had acne/skin disorders for 15 years.. it has distorted how i see myself. i still struggle.. i avoid so much. i don't know if it will ever get better
@Ghostgrl95 I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling ❤️🩹 it can be sooo hard to embrace those shadowy parts of ourselves that we've been told are undesirable.. they make us unique tho!
in the most superficial and shallow way possible, you’re beautiful. i’m a waitress and if you came in i’d think to myself oh she’s pretty i like her face
@@RaeAguirre-sr8cu awww 💕💕 haha thanks!