@@cynthiaguzman7130 if not him, then one of the other creeps he gave all these women's addresses and personal info to. He was putting them in major risk of harm and somehow just goes free.
I agree, i m glad Kathleen did spyware. I did this before with highstermobile. Caught my husband & best friend it had been going on 3 yrs. Not including all the other women. Notice I said EX... NOSEY WIFE'S CAN SAVE LIFE'S
It stopped being "just a fantasy" when he started involving and endangering real people in these conversations while also abusing his access to information to further endanger REAL PEOPLE. That is no longer a fantasy.
@@bunnyonz I agree with you. Yet, Who is to decide/interpret wither you actually have crossed that barrier though? If not wise we'll have thought police knocking eventually as reality. Bailey said right: I don't know
my stomach dropped when you said that they took pictures of random women to use on that site....as soon as they did that it became a non consensual kink act for the victim and is just so disturbing on so many levels
This!!! Having his own personal fantasies wasn't the issue, it's that he shared people's information and photos without their consent, to other people who could now easily get to them
I don't think Shame is very useful at this point actually. Maybe we should study where these things come from? I doubt that this is a thing like you're born with... it seems more like a trauma event reaction. If that's the case then he's as much the victim as his victims. Reactionary victim blaming isn't useful. We need to trace back where these violent tendencies emerge and when and try to cut it off at its source. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. The fact that he used their rental information was incredibly Reckless and I agree he should not have done that. Beyond breach of privacy and that being very very icky though he seems to not be a dangerous maniac.
@@skystarlit3713but he also said that his childhood didnt have much "trauma"- the only thing was that his parents separated which they kind of brushed off
They should’ve got him on charges of stalking, misuse of the NYPD database, etc. They tried to get him on much more extreme charges and overlooked what he actually did.
My thoughts exactly. Had they actually tried to get him for the crimes he actually committed it would of stuck. But they went on to prosecute his thoughts/stories/fantasies instead. When they went that route they made a mistake because than it would put authors of books like dark romance in jeopardy for prosecution.
That’s what I was shocked by. I’m extremely surprised that after they overturned his crimes they didn’t change the one involving misuse of the police database! He even admitted to it.
Can we applaud at the fact that a wife finally saw the red flags and DID something about it.!!! We always hear about the wives having no clue, sometimes being victims and seeing their kids be victims of their fathers.
Or knowing and coming forth after they've acted. I get how fear and intimidation works, but come on, at point you can't tell me you can't tell someone your husband is doing XYZ
Yeah, because father's are never victims of their wives and or children either. Sure they aren't. It's always the poor female vs the big bad wolf. Some of you women are as evil as they come.
my thoughts exactly!! the fact that the people he was talking to were later arrested in sting operations just proves this, even if he wasn’t being for real, the other person might have been and he’s giving out information that could potentially make these women end up victims.
So many people are like : "I'm not kink- shaming." I am, big time! Especially when it comes to something like that. He thought he was in an accepted community.
Even if Gil never intended to act out his fantasies, some of the people he associated with online clearly did. By referencing his wife and other real people in their conversations, Gil recklessly endangered those close to him and should have at least done some time for that.
@@IJustWantToBeEmoyes, but imo, not enough. he should be considered an accomplice, even if he didnt mean to. most ppl dont know their accomplices, but still do way more time than under 2 years.
@@LB_King08 but without an action, what is he accomplice to? Accomplice to fantasising? I don't doubt one of them would have done something sooner or later though.
Exactly. Even if he didn't do anything/or plan to (though I have my own thoughts ON THAT) he potentially opened the door to those that DID have criminal intent.
The alarming red flag was that he was using the police database to get information. If it's just a fantasy, why does he need real-life information? If the women in question feel threatened and scared, is it just a fantasy? Waiting for someone to commit a horrific crime doesn't sound like justice.
@@lieslwright70 okay people say this so much but i have never found any information on me or my family or my friends online, like it's really not a thing unless you do an extremely in depth search that only stalkers will do
honestly I feel like society just doesn't care about women. Looking up people's private information, sharing it, writing down plans, and on top of that using police databases to do this? Gross.
@@lieslwright70 he still used his job to do things that are illegal and wanted to harm people by kidnapping and eating them. He needs to be in a psychiatric hospital at the very least before he acts on those thoughts. By posting info, he’s putting not only those people in danger but also their families.
The fact that all his "online friends" got caught eventually acting on these 'fantasies' is quite telling, and I'm sure somewhere out there someone is asking why something wasn't done to those men before it got to that point. Also, police typically want to "lure" you out of your home for their safety, especially when the person is known to have weapons inside, such as a fellow law enforcement agent. They don't know the layout of the home or where the weapons are, so a controlled environment, such as a hallway is safer for all involved.
Exactly, his friends got caught trying to act out their fantasies, and he would've been caught too if his wife hadn't installed that software on his computer. So many stories we've heard on this channel where people have disgusting fantasies for years and always end up acting on them cause no one knows what's going thru their heads. Obviously, now he won't do anything cause he knows people are watching.
Honestly my biggest issue is the searching and sharing of the photos. If this dude was truly innocent, there are still very dangerous people online with legitimately bad intentions. A lot of women were put at risk. That much can be proven.
Couldn't agree more. I can't help but think about how I'd feel if I was one of the women who not only didn't consent to having there FB photos used in that way but also had personal details searched. It would be different if women where submitting there photos as willing participants. Possibly even stock photos of women that he didn't know, at least it's public domain, but even that would be pushing it in my opinion. Sure it's okay to have kinks but consent is important and that includes how your photos are being used.
Okay but imagine being one of the women he wrote about. Like I would be forever paranoid that he or one of his online buddies would end up acting on these fantasies. Those poor women, especially his wife, are probably so traumatized and scared and he’s just walking free.
Riiight! Like he shared their info with some strangers online. With people who were actively saying that they want to hurt those women. Maybe he was no serious about it, but he could not be sure about everyone else.
I couldn’t be his wife. I couldn’t see that. Like if it were fictional people, disturbing but as long as you’re not actually hurting anyone or it doesn’t involve children, we don’t kink shame. But real people, sharing photos, sharing personal info, making plans that’s terrifying. I literally wouldn’t go outside
For me, it stops being fiction when you are stating you want to commit acts of violence against a real person. Then it becomes a threat. This case sets a scary precedent for what people can plan without consequence.
That's a poor take.What he did wrong is involving real life women and invading their privacy. However, the kink alone when no actual people are harmed, is not a wrong thing. If writing fiction on that is criminal, go arrest the people who make horror movies.
I have an undergrad and a masters in forensic and clinical psychology, I am not a trained forensic psychologist though and I doubt I could fool one. Not saying he didn't, just that his degree would have only given him so much
So wait until he killed someone? No thanks. He could have been charged with a crime for every person he accessed at work. He was already a criminal at that point.
Gil found a loophole and justified it as, “people can’t help what they’re aroused by, it’s just a fantasy.”and just stuck with it. He deserves to be watched for the rest of his days.
Instead he's out speaking at Crimecon and publishing horror fiction that is reviewed as deeply dark and is hard for most horror lovers to even stomach. Soooo, there's that.
then you'd have to lock up most americans: " 50-91% of people surveyed on university grounds in various places in the United States admit to having had a homicidal fantasy."
Who said that? The psychologist? Tbf, nothing was said about his actual parenting skills or relationship with his daughter after she was born, other than he worked really late and was tired because of that and a very high-stress job, which is valid. If you're working until 2am or whatever, you have to sleep in the daytime when the kid is awake. The disinterested/uninvolved dad opinion was his (presumably) ex-wife, so....not a dude. 😂
Yeah right?! How can an uninvolved, absent and law violating, violence obsessed creep be THE NICEST GUY EVER. Ugh so disgusting! If this was a woman he would have for sure spoken very differently and probably call her a danger to society. Which THIS GUY IS. Ew! Imagine now with better technology and VPNs and the dark web... i dont even want to know what this freak is up to now... Like he has a freaking daughter himself! How can you be like this.
The thing about kink is that you get used to it after a while and it takes more and more to get off. Eventually he would have given in to the thoughts.
It’s public information. Google your own name. Photos you post online are also public because we publish them ourselves. That’s probably why they didn’t pursue this.
@@992dancer we don’t know that. Bailey said it was phone numbers and addresses and that’s public information. Police records can even be accessed online. He accessed through police records for convenience, not because it was privileged information. That would be FBI and CIA records. As exposed by Edward Snowden. I’m not defending the guy, I just think people should be more aware of all of the information that is available online. It was numbers and addresses. That information is available online. I think you can take measures to scrub personal information from the internet, but it’s not necessarily easy. It just seems by the comments that people are blissfully unaware that their information is already public.
It's so gross that they overturned his conviction for using police equipment to get people's information, that has nothing to do with whether his fantasies were just that. That is actively breaknig the law, it doesn't matter the context
Just started listening to you, and I love how it feels like a friend is telling me a story while we’re hanging out. Thank you for doing so much research!
The scary part about this is he was giving real information to people he only knew online. Who's to say they wouldn't take it a step further and target those individuals? Those two guys were ready for the next step, who was next? This is a wild one.
Agreed, and how is it not illegal for him to endanger those people’s lives by giving their photos and information to strangers who could’ve actually caused harm? It’s one thing for him to say he would never act on the fantasies; but there was a very real risk that the other guys would.
Agreed. He can’t possibly know what the other people are capable of doing or how far they are willing to take their fantasy. Extremely naive and dangerous!
I was watching the wade video you made, and fell asleep at the end and this played. I had a nightmare 😂 never falling asleep with true crime videos on again
To have fantasies is one thing, but when you move it to looking up the addressess and photos using a database that is restricted to need to know. It crossed over into planning
Girl how many times have we gone through videos similar to this and say dang if someone would have just said something earlier it would have saved so many people! Like there are red flags just a waving everywhere around this guy! Major props for the wife stepping up and turning him in because now he's going to think twice about doing any in the real world!
Yeah and let's say even if he himself won't be the one who will take that one step further into acting out those fantasy, what about the other people in his little web? It won't be a stretch of the imagination that at least one will make this fantasy into a reality...
Now he's out here selling paver stones! Could you imagine this guy coming to your house to sell you pavers for your garden and it's the guy from the true crime doc you just watched?!?
The fact he searched up peoples information and how tos takes it to the next level. That’s not inside your head anymore, that’s not fantasy, that is action!!!!
The buying of the supplies is what got me… What else was he planning on using all that equipment for?!? I feel like everyone just glossed over that part and is only talking about his searches.
I feel so sorry for his family.. i cannot imagine how she felt being in love with this man, having his baby and finding out he fantasized with strangers about unaliving her and watching her bleed to death..
Going through this right now. Even after two months of expressing my pain and anger he still doesn't think he did anything wrong because it was just words and pictures.
@@KarenSutherland-yv4kv Girl, you deserve so much better. If he doesn’t understand it’s not worth it, leave him. There is someone better out there for you
I think having disturbing fantasies should not go beyond your own thoughts. Once you start sharing them and having others feed into them, things get scary. Also, your make-up looks fantastic!
He said, “can’t control what turns us on” or whatever but I was basically told when I was getting sober “you’re not responsible for your first thought, you’re responsible for your second thought and your actions”. Lol bro was literally riding that thought train to the station. 🙄
If he can't control it, he should be in prison then. That should be the response, because if he has no control over his desires (which evidently, he doesn't as he caved and used wife's computer when he had no other way of doing it) then he is a danger to society and should be locked up.
Dr. Deets was a red flag to me. When he said, “ he found it troubling… that people weren’t able to separate the two [Gil’s fantasies and his actions],” that sounded like a man who ALSO has dark desires that he’s hiding because he knows how others will react.
Exactly, I thought the same too. A cop who has dark fantasies and imaginations of butchering and eating human flesh is not something ordinary and normal to have in mind everyday. That's how crimes all starts to begin. It always begins such disturbing and creepy thoughts. Him and the Dr. D are have something common and are obviously partner in crime.😢
Yep came here to say he was a red flag .... The psychologist saying "hes a nice guy." Narcissists are also known as "nice men/ women" unless you are their victim. Of course they treat everyone way better than they treat their victim, they don't want their friends or the public to think they are the truly selfish, mean, narcissistic that people they are!
You are the kind of people the Dr is talking about. You aren’t able to separate fantasy from reality. If you think people should be locked up for their thoughts, then most of the internet should get locked up. I’ve heard some pretty terrible statements about wanting to harm others. It’s not any different. There are more people than you know that have very dark fantasies. I have a friend like this. The only reason you don’t know about them is fear of exactly what a lot of people are doing……..condemning them for thoughts.
"Nothing illegal happened!" He STALKED and THREATENED people he knew!!! He mis-used the police database and shared private information to strangers online!!! Whether or not he was conspiring, HE COMMITTED A CRIME!!!
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I just feel so bad for cathleen, her husband is cheating and noncon posting sexually about her and women they know and saying HORRIBLE stuff about them, all while basically being a single mom. And thinking it was her fault. Horrible
6:28 I love the fact that you're not sugar coating anything (😂 that's punny) and no censorship in this video. It just makes for a richer story. That's just that more enjoyably!
Having the bad thoughts isn’t grounds to get arrested on its own. But he took it soooo far. Was making specific plans, airing out his wife as the target and all that. All of that effort makes it something he needed to go to prison for. It feels more like intent to go through with it. And eventually fantasies wouldn’t be enough.
That's just speculation, though. You don't know for sure he intended to do anything. You can't jail people for something you think they *might* do in the future.
When you’re using government sites that are supposed to be strictly for justice purposes, and spreading that information around to other people it’s gone FAR beyond thoughts. Even if there isn’t any intent to cause harm.
“You know what I’m tryna say, but he like pulled out chairs and stuff” is the typical Bailey explanation for chivalry😂😂I want an episode of just Bailey explaining abstract concepts, it would be so entertaining
The main problem with Gil is the fantasizing about women without consent like talking about your wife with other dudes about committing violence against her like that is deeply disturbing. I don’t kink shame but you gotta have morals and that behavior is just wrong. I’d argue they didn’t prosecute his thoughts, they prosecuted the actions he committed on the internet
Bailey is hilarious all on her own. But her editor is phenomenal. The little editing quips she throws in are exactly your humor so the two of you together is 😚🤌🏼
The fact that so many of his “fantasy” friends were actually doing what they talked about and/or were proved to be planning to do so says a lot. I think he would escalate. 🤔
I agree! Just give Gil time, and he will make headline news for taking his fantasy thoughts to action. IF/WHEN he does, the sad question is, how many innocents had to take the fall before he was actually caught?
@@jvang2293that is a hard one for sure. He didn't have any physical objects in his possession that he talked about using, like his online friends. So would it be a wait for him to have those situation? Such a hard question.
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This world is scary enough without having people write "fan fiction" of fantasies like this. I HATE that he wrote a "fictional" book about this at the end.
In my personal opinion he should absolutely be put away, he is a danger to the women around him who were not consenting to being objectified and having their information abused online.
It is not normal or healthy to obsess over hurting other people!! Other human beings aren't disposable toys there for this guy's amusement - truly disturbing
This is such a thought-provoking situation - on freedom of expression, where to draw the line on if a person is a danger to society, and where dark fetishes come from. All I can say is I hope him going through this makes sure he never escalates the fantasies into something tragic, and may his wife heal from this terrible and traumatizing experience.
He had already escalated the fantasies by violating their privacies and contacting others to kidnap these women. I HIGHLY doubt it won't escalate to real-life as he has no control over his desires. And I can't believe the wife took him back having an entire child to protect. Such a disappointing case.
@@denisesmith8915I don't see anything anywhere to corroborate that. He isn't listed as married or in a relationship. He has said in the past that he has had women come on to him that are interested in the same sort of fantasies but it doesn't show him currently married or in any sort of relationship. I imagine if he was that would be all over the tabloids.
Dahmer also had thoughts... bundy also had thoughts, all other cannibals also have thoughts... People like this cannot control it, it was becoming a serious addiction.
When I was a kid someone told me "Say it and forget it. Write it and regret it.". Be mindful of what you put in writing. A lesson Gil learned the hard way.
Human meat recipes? I have never wanted to Google something so badly in my life, while simultaneously not wanting to know they actually exist. Your stories are always such conflicting roller coasters for me! I wanna know more but I also don’t want to know! I can’t imagine doing the research on this. What a mess!!!
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He used people's names and pictures... Which is what makes it seem like intent. Especially since there are laws for uttering threats and stuff. So, I can see how this went in that direction. Who knows. This sounds like it was a preventive situation which is the best we can hope for
What about the crime of sharing women's pictures who did not give consent? They're out there on these sick sites being used by people who DO take it to real world?? 😮
@@ducky19991 nah, this was close family, friends and co-workers he had on facebook that he was putting in danger, not just random people who he found their images publicly online. They were probably images that people felt safe sharing because they were family and friends. If I got attacked and it turned out, say, my cousin had shared my personal info and pictures to a dark fetish forum, would that be my fault for trusting my cousin enough to share my face on facebook?
Once you post it on the internet it's public domain. If they were actually stalking women and taking pictures that would be the crime. Or stealing their personal photos directly from them.
It isn't a thought prosecution because he used the police database to give the info of unsuspecting women to others. Were all of the women he doxed checked up on and still alive? Gil may not have acted out his fantasies but what about his friends that asked him for sensitive information to locate their victims? He was willing to endanger women by doing that and is indicative of him being willing to go further.
Yeah and he was talking about random prices, so he clearly was planning on acting on his fantasies. He should’ve at least been put in a psychiatric hospital.
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I don’t think Gil should of been in jail for the awful fantasies but he defiantly should of been held accountable for having that data and searching peoples addresses. It’s like he hyper fixated on the fantasy and crossed major lines by sharing his findings with people who were absolutely following through.
He should’ve been charged for using the police database for his sick fantasies tbh. Also can you please do a little mermaid inspired look! I think I would be so cute! 🧜♀️
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Nice to hear a story that someone didn’t actually die- but I DO believe it was escalating!
Oh, it would have escalated and I would venture to guess that it would have happened within a year.
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My thoughts exactly 😄
@@cynthiaguzman7130 if not him, then one of the other creeps he gave all these women's addresses and personal info to. He was putting them in major risk of harm and somehow just goes free.
I agree, i m glad Kathleen did spyware. I did this before with highstermobile. Caught my husband & best friend it had been going on 3 yrs. Not including all the other women. Notice I said EX... NOSEY WIFE'S CAN SAVE LIFE'S
It stopped being "just a fantasy" when he started involving and endangering real people in these conversations while also abusing his access to information to further endanger REAL PEOPLE. That is no longer a fantasy.
no.. that's clearly still a fantasy
@@PanosSchmitAlmeirayou’re sick. go get help
I agree, too many risks with someone like this.
@@PanosSchmitAlmeira stops being a fantasy when you have a plan to take action.
@@bunnyonz I agree with you. Yet, Who is to decide/interpret wither you actually have crossed that barrier though? If not wise we'll have thought police knocking eventually as reality. Bailey said right: I don't know
my stomach dropped when you said that they took pictures of random women to use on that site....as soon as they did that it became a non consensual kink act for the victim and is just so disturbing on so many levels
This!!! Having his own personal fantasies wasn't the issue, it's that he shared people's information and photos without their consent, to other people who could now easily get to them
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Cannibalism and imagining women being abused should most definitely be kink shamed. Shame.
Exactly. It’s evil.
I don't think Shame is very useful at this point actually. Maybe we should study where these things come from? I doubt that this is a thing like you're born with... it seems more like a trauma event reaction. If that's the case then he's as much the victim as his victims. Reactionary victim blaming isn't useful. We need to trace back where these violent tendencies emerge and when and try to cut it off at its source. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
The fact that he used their rental information was incredibly Reckless and I agree he should not have done that. Beyond breach of privacy and that being very very icky though he seems to not be a dangerous maniac.
@@skystarlit3713but he also said that his childhood didnt have much "trauma"- the only thing was that his parents separated which they kind of brushed off
They should’ve got him on charges of stalking, misuse of the NYPD database, etc. They tried to get him on much more extreme charges and overlooked what he actually did.
He is a cop of course they cover up crimes
My thoughts exactly. Had they actually tried to get him for the crimes he actually committed it would of stuck. But they went on to prosecute his thoughts/stories/fantasies instead. When they went that route they made a mistake because than it would put authors of books like dark romance in jeopardy for prosecution.
That’s a great point
That’s what I was shocked by. I’m extremely surprised that after they overturned his crimes they didn’t change the one involving misuse of the police database! He even admitted to it.
I think its cause it came from the fruit of the poisoned tree@nancymccarthy8914
Can we applaud at the fact that a wife finally saw the red flags and DID something about it.!!! We always hear about the wives having no clue, sometimes being victims and seeing their kids be victims of their fathers.
Or knowing and coming forth after they've acted. I get how fear and intimidation works, but come on, at point you can't tell me you can't tell someone your husband is doing XYZ
Alot of the time they don't know, these people are masterminds at manipulation to make you doubt your memories.
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Yeah, because father's are never victims of their wives and or children either. Sure they aren't. It's always the poor female vs the big bad wolf. Some of you women are as evil as they come.
Ok but don't victim shame
Even if HE didn't do anything, he gave detailed information, photos and springboard to others that COULD and MIGHT.
Forreal I thought doxxing was illegal 🤔
exactly, he put so many women in danger
Wouldn’t that be human trafficking?
my thoughts exactly!! the fact that the people he was talking to were later arrested in sting operations just proves this, even if he wasn’t being for real, the other person might have been and he’s giving out information that could potentially make these women end up victims.
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So many people are like : "I'm not kink- shaming."
I am, big time! Especially when it comes to something like that. He thought he was in an accepted community.
Even if Gil never intended to act out his fantasies, some of the people he associated with online clearly did. By referencing his wife and other real people in their conversations, Gil recklessly endangered those close to him and should have at least done some time for that.
In total he did 21 months before his conviction was overturned. So technically he did do time.
@@IJustWantToBeEmoyes, but imo, not enough. he should be considered an accomplice, even if he didnt mean to. most ppl dont know their accomplices, but still do way more time than under 2 years.
@@LB_King08 but without an action, what is he accomplice to? Accomplice to fantasising? I don't doubt one of them would have done something sooner or later though.
Exactly. Even if he didn't do anything/or plan to (though I have my own thoughts ON THAT) he potentially opened the door to those that DID have criminal intent.
Exactly my thought. He was encouraging for the crime and that is accomplice.
The fact that he had a daughter is scary. How can you view women like that while having a daughter? "Fantasy" or not, he's crazy.
I think he just genuinely doesn’t care about his daughter, that’s what it sounds like to me, I feel so bad for her
How can you have a wife or mother also...like dang. Dude had no humanity towards ♀️
@halroxdynasty8683 his mum blamed his wife so it's obvious why he's the way he is
Luckily he'll never see her again,his mum won't either. His ex wife's daughter is safe ❤️
I wouldn’t want to date anyone that has dark thoughts like this at all, I don’t and I prefer to date someone like me. 😅
Scary!!!! 🫣
The alarming red flag was that he was using the police database to get information. If it's just a fantasy, why does he need real-life information? If the women in question feel threatened and scared, is it just a fantasy? Waiting for someone to commit a horrific crime doesn't sound like justice.
Exactly!
Thank you! He took it from fantasy to "real life" when he used the police database to do searches on real people.
Most people’s addresses and even phone numbers are available online. Do a search on your own name.
@@lieslwright70 okay people say this so much but i have never found any information on me or my family or my friends online, like it's really not a thing unless you do an extremely in depth search that only stalkers will do
@@lieslwright70 With twenty bucks you can find whatever info you want on someone. I can't imagine the info available on the police database.
Can’t imagine how heart broken and traumatised his wife is from that. What a betrayal and how scary
honestly I feel like society just doesn't care about women. Looking up people's private information, sharing it, writing down plans, and on top of that using police databases to do this? Gross.
Google your name.
@@lieslwright70 he still used his job to do things that are illegal and wanted to harm people by kidnapping and eating them. He needs to be in a psychiatric hospital at the very least before he acts on those thoughts. By posting info, he’s putting not only those people in danger but also their families.
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Same
If you can look up someone's information, it's not private.
The fact that all his "online friends" got caught eventually acting on these 'fantasies' is quite telling, and I'm sure somewhere out there someone is asking why something wasn't done to those men before it got to that point.
Also, police typically want to "lure" you out of your home for their safety, especially when the person is known to have weapons inside, such as a fellow law enforcement agent. They don't know the layout of the home or where the weapons are, so a controlled environment, such as a hallway is safer for all involved.
Exactly, his friends got caught trying to act out their fantasies, and he would've been caught too if his wife hadn't installed that software on his computer. So many stories we've heard on this channel where people have disgusting fantasies for years and always end up acting on them cause no one knows what's going thru their heads.
Obviously, now he won't do anything cause he knows people are watching.
Yeah, I’m inclined to agree.
Kink should ABSOLUTELY be shamed if it involves any non consensual activity or acts of violence. 100% shame that.
THISSSSSSSSSS
EXACTLY!!
The system is made to fail. They disregard alot of disturbing things.
EXACTLY
Facts! If it involves harming someone, it may be legal but it’s still immoral.
I am loving the way she tells the story, is like she is next to you, telling it like friend. Very natural.
Honestly my biggest issue is the searching and sharing of the photos. If this dude was truly innocent, there are still very dangerous people online with legitimately bad intentions. A lot of women were put at risk. That much can be proven.
My thoughts exactly
Couldn't agree more. I can't help but think about how I'd feel if I was one of the women who not only didn't consent to having there FB photos used in that way but also had personal details searched. It would be different if women where submitting there photos as willing participants. Possibly even stock photos of women that he didn't know, at least it's public domain, but even that would be pushing it in my opinion. Sure it's okay to have kinks but consent is important and that includes how your photos are being used.
He shared a picture of his WIFE, what's stopping him from posting one of his DAUGHTER?
😬😤 I can only imagine!! 😤@@jenniferestes5293
Yes I agree with the putting woman at risk. Also if we use social media and post we put our own selves at risk.
Okay but imagine being one of the women he wrote about. Like I would be forever paranoid that he or one of his online buddies would end up acting on these fantasies. Those poor women, especially his wife, are probably so traumatized and scared and he’s just walking free.
Aren't we paranoid anyways? Isn't that why we come to to class on Mondays to learn...?
Riiight! Like he shared their info with some strangers online. With people who were actively saying that they want to hurt those women. Maybe he was no serious about it, but he could not be sure about everyone else.
I'd really be scared if I was the wife or the college "friend"..
I couldn’t be his wife. I couldn’t see that. Like if it were fictional people, disturbing but as long as you’re not actually hurting anyone or it doesn’t involve children, we don’t kink shame. But real people, sharing photos, sharing personal info, making plans that’s terrifying. I literally wouldn’t go outside
Imagine if the wife never saw the webpage or installed the software?
For me, it stops being fiction when you are stating you want to commit acts of violence against a real person. Then it becomes a threat. This case sets a scary precedent for what people can plan without consequence.
But imprisoning him for it would set a scarier precedent for our constitutional rights. Yes, he’s gross. But we can’t have thought policing.
exactly, they should have never let him go
@@lieslwright70 you and OP are both correct here and that's what makes cases like this so difficult. Jury duty for this trial would have caused ptsd.
There are exceptions to the first amendment including encouraging acts of violence @lieslwright70
Millions yes.
Just because it’s a “kink” or “a fantasy” doesn’t mean it’s acceptable. Some things should absolutely be shamed and we’ve become way too tolerant
That's a poor take.What he did wrong is involving real life women and invading their privacy. However, the kink alone when no actual people are harmed, is not a wrong thing. If writing fiction on that is criminal, go arrest the people who make horror movies.
1. He was arrested too early, before anything bad happened.
2. He manipulated that psychologist test because he studied human psychology.
I have an undergrad and a masters in forensic and clinical psychology, I am not a trained forensic psychologist though and I doubt I could fool one. Not saying he didn't, just that his degree would have only given him so much
That philologist had some kink too. That’s why he was so protective of Gil.
No. Those are both such erroneous points.
So wait until he killed someone? No thanks. He could have been charged with a crime for every person he accessed at work. He was already a criminal at that point.
@debbmiller2003 That’s what I thought as well. That guy definitely has his own dirt.
Gil found a loophole and justified it as, “people can’t help what they’re aroused by, it’s just a fantasy.”and just stuck with it. He deserves to be watched for the rest of his days.
Instead he's out speaking at Crimecon and publishing horror fiction that is reviewed as deeply dark and is hard for most horror lovers to even stomach. Soooo, there's that.
then you'd have to lock up most americans: " 50-91% of people surveyed on university grounds in various places in the United States admit to having had a homicidal fantasy."
Exactly this! & because of his job & the training they get, he fully knows what to say & how to act & behave to come off as 'normal'
Yea it's kinda like someone watching chid corn they need to be in jail
Tell that to Jeffrey Dahmer 😐
Only a man could say an uninterested uninvolved dad could be the nicest guy in the world. Eye roll
Who said that? The psychologist?
Tbf, nothing was said about his actual parenting skills or relationship with his daughter after she was born, other than he worked really late and was tired because of that and a very high-stress job, which is valid. If you're working until 2am or whatever, you have to sleep in the daytime when the kid is awake. The disinterested/uninvolved dad opinion was his (presumably) ex-wife, so....not a dude. 😂
I have a female friend who would agree with this. Your sexist side is showing.
Yeah right?! How can an uninvolved, absent and law violating, violence obsessed creep be THE NICEST GUY EVER.
Ugh so disgusting! If this was a woman he would have for sure spoken very differently and probably call her a danger to society. Which THIS GUY IS. Ew!
Imagine now with better technology and VPNs and the dark web... i dont even want to know what this freak is up to now...
Like he has a freaking daughter himself! How can you be like this.
@laurenskee2665 well, u need a new “female” friend
@@Littlewings1211yeah and? Women do all that and still spend time with their children, there is no excuse.
The thing about kink is that you get used to it after a while and it takes more and more to get off. Eventually he would have given in to the thoughts.
Bailey: I’m not here to k!nk shame
Me: I am, I am absolutely am. Bring back shame!!! People are way too comfortable
Agreed!!
100% agree!!!!
Straight facts!!
Yes!
We are all judging Gil!
Isn't the fact that he posted their real names, etc, that this is a violation of their privacy??? I would be livid!!!
Exactly my question!
It’s public information. Google your own name. Photos you post online are also public because we publish them ourselves. That’s probably why they didn’t pursue this.
@@lieslwright70she said that he used his police database access so no it wasnt all public information
@@992dancer That's exactly what I was thinking!
@@992dancer we don’t know that. Bailey said it was phone numbers and addresses and that’s public information. Police records can even be accessed online. He accessed through police records for convenience, not because it was privileged information. That would be FBI and CIA records. As exposed by Edward Snowden. I’m not defending the guy, I just think people should be more aware of all of the information that is available online. It was numbers and addresses. That information is available online. I think you can take measures to scrub personal information from the internet, but it’s not necessarily easy. It just seems by the comments that people are blissfully unaware that their information is already public.
It's so gross that they overturned his conviction for using police equipment to get people's information, that has nothing to do with whether his fantasies were just that. That is actively breaknig the law, it doesn't matter the context
Literally though! That was wild to me.
I agree totally 😮 There should be at least a charge for using The Police data base to find personal information!!!! This case is terrifying 😳 😬 😐
cops always get away with abusing their power. i was disappointed but not surprised
This.
And thinking about the topic of the second book he wrote…👀 that’s disturbing
Just started listening to you, and I love how it feels like a friend is telling me a story while we’re hanging out. Thank you for doing so much research!
"Mukis Kitchen... not sponsored." 🤣😂 You are so naturally hilarious.
That part made me lol 🤣
That got me, too 😂
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TOOK ME OUT
Always 😂😂😂😂
The scary part about this is he was giving real information to people he only knew online. Who's to say they wouldn't take it a step further and target those individuals? Those two guys were ready for the next step, who was next? This is a wild one.
For real.... So scary
Agreed. It’s not *just thoughts* when you’re putting these images of other people online for potentially dangerous people to see.
@@chachrocket agree plus, and how can he not act out if he can interact with them in real life.
Agreed, and how is it not illegal for him to endanger those people’s lives by giving their photos and information to strangers who could’ve actually caused harm? It’s one thing for him to say he would never act on the fantasies; but there was a very real risk that the other guys would.
Agreed. He can’t possibly know what the other people are capable of doing or how far they are willing to take their fantasy.
Extremely naive and dangerous!
Makes sense that he picked law enforcement with the hand cuffs and detaining people against their will and all.
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And the NYPD psych exam is clearly a joke
I was watching the wade video you made, and fell asleep at the end and this played. I had a nightmare 😂 never falling asleep with true crime videos on again
To have fantasies is one thing, but when you move it to looking up the addressess and photos using a database that is restricted to need to know. It crossed over into planning
Girl how many times have we gone through videos similar to this and say dang if someone would have just said something earlier it would have saved so many people! Like there are red flags just a waving everywhere around this guy! Major props for the wife stepping up and turning him in because now he's going to think twice about doing any in the real world!
Right, exactly. No relatively normal and mentally stable person would have fantasies like this. He was a ticking time bomb.
Yes! Exactly my thoughts!
Yeah and let's say even if he himself won't be the one who will take that one step further into acting out those fantasy, what about the other people in his little web? It won't be a stretch of the imagination that at least one will make this fantasy into a reality...
Now that he knows that people are watching him. I hope he sticks to writing his books
This EXACTLY!!
I'd love to see a purple and gold look. Let the royalty shine for the queen of true crime
I'd like to see purple and silver for our queen of the YT night.🎉
Yes!!
@@RaeCarson
love that idea
Oooh yes great idea
Now he's out here selling paver stones! Could you imagine this guy coming to your house to sell you pavers for your garden and it's the guy from the true crime doc you just watched?!?
Would total freak out , cancel the services and call911😂😂
The fact he searched up peoples information and how tos takes it to the next level. That’s not inside your head anymore, that’s not fantasy, that is action!!!!
The buying of the supplies is what got me… What else was he planning on using all that equipment for?!? I feel like everyone just glossed over that part and is only talking about his searches.
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I feel so sorry for his family.. i cannot imagine how she felt being in love with this man, having his baby and finding out he fantasized with strangers about unaliving her and watching her bleed to death..
I have a feeling we'll be hearing more about Gil in a few years.
As of now he’s on social media trying to reinvent himself. It’s so creepy.
Yeah... Not looking forward to the "Update" or "Part 2" video on him, when people will inevitably say "BUt wHy diDn'T thEy aRrEst hiM EaRliEr ?"
I hope it's because a few of his charming friends invited him over and had him for dinner.
Fantasies that violent and grotesque usually end up as reality at some point, IMO.
28:12 Point of fact: Emotional/online affairs are STILL affairs and STILL cheating when partner/s aren't aware or consenting.
Real
totally
TRUEEE if your partner says otherwise he is gaslighting you and manipulating you !!!
Going through this right now. Even after two months of expressing my pain and anger he still doesn't think he did anything wrong because it was just words and pictures.
@@KarenSutherland-yv4kv Girl, you deserve so much better. If he doesn’t understand it’s not worth it, leave him. There is someone better out there for you
My cat “Gil” was super confused while I was watching this. Every time you said Gil, he was like 👀👀👀😂😂
Bailey: Was Gil a monster or just a man with a dangerous imagination?
Your cat: I’m a cat.
@@coryshann Okay, that's too cute. 🤣
@@CarrieF90 cat.. monster.. what's the difference? Lol
Poor gil😂😂😂
I think having disturbing fantasies should not go beyond your own thoughts. Once you start sharing them and having others feed into them, things get scary. Also, your make-up looks fantastic!
I think you need to not control thoughts and words, because you Yankee colonists do enough of that
Why do I feel like 10 years from now we are going to hear about him again 😬
Agreed!!!
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He said, “can’t control what turns us on” or whatever but I was basically told when I was getting sober “you’re not responsible for your first thought, you’re responsible for your second thought and your actions”. Lol bro was literally riding that thought train to the station. 🙄
As a victim of child r*pe from age 6 that statement makes me so angry
If he can't control it, he should be in prison then. That should be the response, because if he has no control over his desires (which evidently, he doesn't as he caved and used wife's computer when he had no other way of doing it) then he is a danger to society and should be locked up.
But he could control hid chosen profession And that's the issue
@@marietighe6328I was too. I felt the same way. 😡
Well said
Dr. Deets was a red flag to me. When he said, “ he found it troubling… that people weren’t able to separate the two [Gil’s fantasies and his actions],” that sounded like a man who ALSO has dark desires that he’s hiding because he knows how others will react.
My thoughts too
Exactly, I thought the same too. A cop who has dark fantasies and imaginations of butchering and eating human flesh is not something ordinary and normal to have in mind everyday.
That's how crimes all starts to begin. It always begins such disturbing and creepy thoughts. Him and the Dr. D are have something common and are obviously partner in crime.😢
yeah that guy needs to be looked into
Yep came here to say he was a red flag .... The psychologist saying "hes a nice guy." Narcissists are also known as "nice men/ women" unless you are their victim. Of course they treat everyone way better than they treat their victim, they don't want their friends or the public to think they are the truly selfish, mean, narcissistic that people they are!
You are the kind of people the Dr is talking about. You aren’t able to separate fantasy from reality.
If you think people should be locked up for their thoughts, then most of the internet should get locked up. I’ve heard some pretty terrible statements about wanting to harm others. It’s not any different.
There are more people than you know that have very dark fantasies. I have a friend like this. The only reason you don’t know about them is fear of exactly what a lot of people are doing……..condemning them for thoughts.
"I think I'm looking a little too natural" said with the brightest green neon eye makeup. I
"Nothing illegal happened!" He STALKED and THREATENED people he knew!!! He mis-used the police database and shared private information to strangers online!!! Whether or not he was conspiring, HE COMMITTED A CRIME!!!
The $5000 to kidnap part! That is a crime
How's that not conspiracy to commit? He gave that dude her real name, photo and address.
this! like what in the world?!
I feel like no one is addressing this.
What do you mean cannibalism is legal in 49 states?! I need a Dark History of Cannibalism episode 🤣
It's legal but not really. Like you wont get charged with cannibalism but will get charged with something like abuse of a corpse
That was a disturbing fun fact
Wait then which state is it illegal in? And I need a dark history of that state 🤣
@@lindseynilsson2073 I think it’s Idaho there was a TikTok about it.
Me moving to Idaho!😮
Bailey still is and always will be TH-cam's queen of true crime and makeup
She's definitely the one who started it all
I've been with her since she had 350,000 subs and look at her now and it's so well deserved. She cracks me tf up 🤣🤣
I won't even watch other TH-camrs that try to imitate the way she does things. Delete, never show me this channel again. 🤷🏽♀️
Are there other makeup crime TH-camrs?
@@luceromanjarrez349 they try. But they don't have her personality that makes her channel so great. I don't know any specific names.
@@luceromanjarrez349Danielle Kirsty is one. I really like her.
I just feel so bad for cathleen, her husband is cheating and noncon posting sexually about her and women they know and saying HORRIBLE stuff about them, all while basically being a single mom. And thinking it was her fault. Horrible
Birds of a feather flock together. I think he would have eventually acted on his fantasies. His internet buddies did!
Love the neon!
Id love to see a blue eyeshadow/ 80s inspired look next!
Yes, with blue eyeliner and pearly pink lips
Sheeesh this was a crazy one! I couldn’t even imagine reading someone making those comments on a picture of myself. Soooo unsettling
Internet is scary. The world is scary 😢
6:28 I love the fact that you're not sugar coating anything (😂 that's punny) and no censorship in this video. It just makes for a richer story. That's just that more enjoyably!
These stories make me wanna delete social media and lock myself in my house forever.
Having the bad thoughts isn’t grounds to get arrested on its own. But he took it soooo far. Was making specific plans, airing out his wife as the target and all that. All of that effort makes it something he needed to go to prison for. It feels more like intent to go through with it. And eventually fantasies wouldn’t be enough.
I think we may hear about this guy agan in the future, unfortunately.
That's just speculation, though. You don't know for sure he intended to do anything. You can't jail people for something you think they *might* do in the future.
@@Littlewings1211 He was discussing payment. That’s enough evidence for me.
When you’re using government sites that are supposed to be strictly for justice purposes, and spreading that information around to other people it’s gone FAR beyond thoughts. Even if there isn’t any intent to cause harm.
He had no way of knowing the intent of the people he was sharing that info with, no way of telling if they'd act on their violent fantasies.
@@lynniewood precisely that and many other reasons
“You know what I’m tryna say, but he like pulled out chairs and stuff” is the typical Bailey explanation for chivalry😂😂I want an episode of just Bailey explaining abstract concepts, it would be so entertaining
EW, this guy is such a creep! 🤢 Imagine finding out you were one of the women he was talking about!
Lime green, we've got a brat look!!! So excited for the new video
I was literally just thinking this !! Brat summerrrr
She rocked it
The main problem with Gil is the fantasizing about women without consent like talking about your wife with other dudes about committing violence against her like that is deeply disturbing. I don’t kink shame but you gotta have morals and that behavior is just wrong. I’d argue they didn’t prosecute his thoughts, they prosecuted the actions he committed on the internet
You just kinkshamed….. and that’s perfectly okay to do. The only people against kink shaming are people with shameful kinks.
Swap the red lip for purple and that is the perfect Beetleguise makeup look.
it's the fact that he was using POLICE DATABASES to cyberstalk women. he should be locked up for that alone.
Seriously....that's abuse of Power.
Bailey is hilarious all on her own. But her editor is phenomenal. The little editing quips she throws in are exactly your humor so the two of you together is 😚🤌🏼
I love that Bailey uses relatively affordable products amongst her commissioned stuff; she's such a down-to-earth queen.
Weell you got that wrong. L earn more...
Bailey nobody can tell a dark story or dark history like you!! Love it!!! The DFF small monologue is cracking me up!!
TOTALLY TRUE!!!💯💯💯
The fact that so many of his “fantasy” friends were actually doing what they talked about and/or were proved to be planning to do so says a lot. I think he would escalate. 🤔
Absolutely he would. But where do we draw the line between fantasy and reality?
I agree! Just give Gil time, and he will make headline news for taking his fantasy thoughts to action.
IF/WHEN he does, the sad question is, how many innocents had to take the fall before he was actually caught?
@@jvang2293idk I feel like pulling pictures of real people and talking about what you’d do to them is a pretty clear cross into that line 😬
@@jvang2293that is a hard one for sure. He didn't have any physical objects in his possession that he talked about using, like his online friends. So would it be a wait for him to have those situation? Such a hard question.
I need to thank you for teaching me how to properly apply makeup. I’ll be 67 in two months and I never knew how to do it correctly! You are amazing at your trade. And of course I love the true crime. I’ve always been fascinated from my younger years. You are the best! Thank you!! ❤️
Would love to see a current skincare/skin prep routine. Your skin is looking extra healthy and glowy (:
I would love for Bailey to do makeup for money! Even it's expensive, it would be worth it! 😊 I went to Menifee last weekend, and I felt like I was visiting a celebrity place - Bailey is from Menifee. I wonder if she still has a family there and visits sometimes
I thought the same thing:) she is the best and sometimes she talks about her face breaking out but it’s looking extra beautiful today. Wonder if she is doing something new or different
Maybe she’s pregnant 🤷🏻♀️
@squirrelypopsbananamukbangyou stop 😂
@squirrelypopsbananamukbangagreed dont know why people think she preg all the time, she dont want kids she happy being an aunty like alot of women out there, ngl she make some adorable kids but if ya head aint in it then thats dangerous for the child so quit egging on pregnancy for ladies that do not wish to do so. Ily bailey❤
Just wanna drop in and say I'm a new Subscriber and I can honestly say I will probably watch every single video on ur channel. I love ur personality girl, and watching u do ur makeup while telling these True Crime Stories and the "Dark History" videos is addictive!! 💯 Also I just wanna say that even without makeup u are Gorgeous!! Lovin ur Channel Girl!!
When Bailey was fighting with the word “chivalrous”🤣
Thanks Bailey. Lots of love and support from South Australia 🇦🇺 ❤
This world is scary enough without having people write "fan fiction" of fantasies like this. I HATE that he wrote a "fictional" book about this at the end.
In my personal opinion he should absolutely be put away, he is a danger to the women around him who were not consenting to being objectified and having their information abused online.
It is not normal or healthy to obsess over hurting other people!! Other human beings aren't disposable toys there for this guy's amusement - truly disturbing
This is such a thought-provoking situation - on freedom of expression, where to draw the line on if a person is a danger to society, and where dark fetishes come from.
All I can say is I hope him going through this makes sure he never escalates the fantasies into something tragic, and may his wife heal from this terrible and traumatizing experience.
He had already escalated the fantasies by violating their privacies and contacting others to kidnap these women. I HIGHLY doubt it won't escalate to real-life as he has no control over his desires. And I can't believe the wife took him back having an entire child to protect. Such a disappointing case.
@sashapalma2033 Wait. What? They're still together?
Couldn’t have said it better! Totally agree
@@denisesmith8915I don't see anything anywhere to corroborate that. He isn't listed as married or in a relationship. He has said in the past that he has had women come on to him that are interested in the same sort of fantasies but it doesn't show him currently married or in any sort of relationship. I imagine if he was that would be all over the tabloids.
Side note: let’s talk about how amazing Baileys skin is looking. She is GLOWING ✨
Let's not.
@@brutalhonesty6742 you ok? You need help?
Love that you're using essence mascara! I love that range so much
Dahmer also had thoughts... bundy also had thoughts, all other cannibals also have thoughts... People like this cannot control it, it was becoming a serious addiction.
Also wasn't he sharing ppls photos without there consent
Yes! I’ve been looking through the comments and no one is talking about addiction. But that’s what I was thinking throughout the video.
Whoa. He has a child that may (probably) one day read his book and then need a lifetime of therapy.
she has to be like 13-14 now too
He should be in jail simply for abuse of power as a police officer. And he should stay there.
I don't care what anyone says you're the best storyteller
When I was a kid someone told me "Say it and forget it. Write it and regret it.". Be mindful of what you put in writing. A lesson Gil learned the hard way.
Human meat recipes? I have never wanted to Google something so badly in my life, while simultaneously not wanting to know they actually exist.
Your stories are always such conflicting roller coasters for me! I wanna know more but I also don’t want to know! I can’t imagine doing the research on this. What a mess!!!
We need a merch that says "I'm laughing cause I'm uncomfortable" also bring back the tyedye colored goodies they were the cutest
I have been an admirer of your storytelling for many years, and I must express my utmost admiration for your exceptional narrative skills. The latest story you presented surpassed all my expectations!! Your confidence is inspiring!! Thank you for sharing your talent with us.
Look idea: My daughter recently went to a music festival and did a different look each day. My favorite was her mermaid look--wavy hair, sparkly blue eye shadow, sunkissed complexion, etc. So pretty! I'd love to see you do a mermaid-inspired look.
That sounds so pretty!
😂😅"Keep him busy with the writing" thank you Bailey. I laughed many times and exwife did the right thing.
Girl… I’m going through it rn. Yesterday I had to break up with the father of my twin sons after I caught him cheating on me. You, your energy and your sense of humor is going to take me away from my pain for 1 hour, 4 minute and 6 whole seconds. I always feel like I’m talking with my friend. Thank you 🙏🏻
Heya hope you’re doing ok. That was a beast of a decision with a lot of pain but you totally did the right thing - you got this going forward!! 🩵
You are gonna get thru this, mama! ❤
Proud of you for getting out and hope you eventually find a partner who will respect you like you deserve and teach your twins how to treat their partners in the future ❤️
It only hurts for a little, this too shall pass! Just co- parent!
@@casacan77 you are so kind and my love your hair is BEAUTIFUL. The blue compliments you so well.
"muki's kitchen... NOT sponsored" sent me 😆😆🤣🤣
He used people's names and pictures... Which is what makes it seem like intent. Especially since there are laws for uttering threats and stuff. So, I can see how this went in that direction. Who knows. This sounds like it was a preventive situation which is the best we can hope for
What about the crime of sharing women's pictures who did not give consent? They're out there on these sick sites being used by people who DO take it to real world?? 😮
I agree but this is a risk you take when you post photos of yourself on the internet unfortunately
@@ducky19991 nah, this was close family, friends and co-workers he had on facebook that he was putting in danger, not just random people who he found their images publicly online. They were probably images that people felt safe sharing because they were family and friends. If I got attacked and it turned out, say, my cousin had shared my personal info and pictures to a dark fetish forum, would that be my fault for trusting my cousin enough to share my face on facebook?
Once you post it on the internet it's public domain. If they were actually stalking women and taking pictures that would be the crime. Or stealing their personal photos directly from them.
It isn't a thought prosecution because he used the police database to give the info of unsuspecting women to others. Were all of the women he doxed checked up on and still alive? Gil may not have acted out his fantasies but what about his friends that asked him for sensitive information to locate their victims?
He was willing to endanger women by doing that and is indicative of him being willing to go further.
Yeah and he was talking about random prices, so he clearly was planning on acting on his fantasies. He should’ve at least been put in a psychiatric hospital.
Hi Bailey love the video, I’m not sure if anyone commented this, but officers want to lure a suspect out of the house to make sure they don’t try and delete any incriminating evidence from their phones, computers etc. cause if you knock on the door and scream police, it gives suspects the chance to be spooked and delete evidence before officers can break down the door. ❤
I don’t think Gil should of been in jail for the awful fantasies but he defiantly should of been held accountable for having that data and searching peoples addresses. It’s like he hyper fixated on the fantasy and crossed major lines by sharing his findings with people who were absolutely following through.
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I just about died. The comic timing on that Bailey!
i love how symmetrical bailey does her makeup, its so satisfying to see the results 😣
He should’ve been charged for using the police database for his sick fantasies tbh.
Also can you please do a little mermaid inspired look! I think I would be so cute! 🧜♀️