😱😱 after my 3 years situationship!, last night she was staying away from texting me, this morning she accused me of controlling after sending two or three texts! She didn't even texted me anything about Christmas night SO as of this this afternoon I officially broke up with her!
I am married Now. But when I was single, I had zero tolerance for women with low level of interest. If she's showing low level of interest, I simply delete her number and she will never hear from me. Why? In my mind, I am the best man she will ever have in her life because I had done the work to grow physically, mentally, financially, career, socially, etc. I had an abundance mindset that every woman is attracted to me, and I acted accordingly Guys, stop getting hanged up on a girl who shows zero interest in you. There's too many women to get fixated on one chick. It's called oneitis!! Stop the scarcity mindset and develop an abundance mindset.
To all the people saying “oh wat if she never texts back” well ignoring her and letting her go is always better than being the desperate clingy guy that she probably makes fun of to her friends
Yeah true, especially in their 20s. Once they hit their mid 30s to 40s, they are effectively out of the game. 😂 so my idea is find other young chicks to get with rather than hang out with those that dump you.
Are you saying they might be interested but are playing hard to get, and stuff like that? Or are you saying that they should just flat out tell you they aren’t interested in you? (I would prefer they do that tbh. It would sting but only for a moment.)
Dudes play games too...I just experienced it last Night when I confessed my feelings to a guy who messages me and flirts with me every day. He apparently isn't ready for a relationship 🙄
Agree, I guess that means she was not interested. Did not message her for 3 days, when I tried to schedule something she was busy all week. Guess it’s best to figure that out quicker then later.
This dead ass happened to me with this girl today we haven’t spoken since the last time we seen each other and at work we made I contact and everything I juse kept walking them on break She came up to me and was so worried talking about are we beefing ? I dead ass laugh and said No beautiful. Lol all you have to do is let shit work out and if she never said anything that’s when you know when you stand.
Luckily for me, whether I ignore her or not, I can predict with 100% certainty that she's not interested! Oh wait...that's not something to be happy about...
@fuzzypanda1684 that is something to be happy about! most of these girls in this generation love to waste your time and money 💰 and if you don't have anything to offer them then they friendzone you, they time wasters that's all
@@Deek2Concious I don't care that SHE'S not interested, it's the fact that she's just the latest in a long, unbroken line of girls who weren't interested that bothers me.
@@MoneyOverHoezzstop lying and bullshitting him the truth is his going to find out the most hardest truth and it's going to change him in a bad way thier point in time she's going to just leave him even if he give her respect and space
A girl is either interested in you or not. If you suddenly disappear you do her a favor. If you chase her she’s gonna friend zone you. So just move on if they’re not interested in you
If she likes you, nothing will keep her from replying same day. If shes acting like this and the silence advice works, shes keeping you on the hook for an ego boost and not actually into you. Just be done dude.
"If she likes you, nothing will keep her from replying same day"...dude, you're living in another world. I've never once had that happen in my entire life.
What if a guy is super quick to respond, initiates convo regularly, seems interested...but when you tell him you like him, he says he's not interested in relationships? Why talk to me so much then?
Miss the days of asking a girl on a date, if it went well you plan another one, if not you move on. Technology has done many great things but it's screwed up dating/relationships.
This! And it’s mostly affecting black people although I see others engaging in the toxicity as well. Sometimes I drive though white neighborhoods and I see families enjoying life and building generational wealth. Then I look at black people and we are fighting each other. Men and women both exposed to toxic strategies via the internet which spills over into the real world. It’s sad because it weakens our foundation. No one should be chasing anyone. It should be 2 people coming together 🙏🏾 like intertwined hands, healed and ready to be vulnerable and give love to other person. This is why I’m single. Because I refuse to engage in the war. I sit on the side lines and watch y’all fight each other and play the games. Eventually I’ll run into a man who is also on the sidelines. In the meantime y’all can have at it.
If shes not responding 2-3 times just move on. I even unfollow them or block them. Some may say that's toxic but I dont need that childish energy with playing games leaving you on seen.
Guys, when it’s the right woman for you… she will not treat you like crap and play games. If she drops communication and is a flake she is showing you who she is! Believe her and move on! The real one may be around the corner! Thank God for sparing you and move on! ❤
Look, it doesn’t matter because I have a crush on Sophia rollando and she wants me move on, but I can’t move on because I really wanted her To be with me and when it comes to a communication men and women texting and calling Each other I think that you should not believe her because if you really miss someone is Crawling back to you. that’s my preference and that’s the only thing that matters.
mmm i dkn.. the one i found around the corner asked me if i could give her a ride and if i had $40.... a few minutes later i dropped her off and i was sleepy. 😪
Over the summer, she ignored me most of the time (asked her a couple of times if she wanted to hang out & told me why she couldn’t. Somehow she can make time for other people…I guess she’s closer to them 🤷🏻♂️), I give her space & then notice that she’s with a guy once Fall comes around…I guess that guy’s lucky she isn’t ignoring him & will probably never understand what it’s like Almost at the point where I just assume every girl has a boyfriend & I have to be selfish (care more about myself than others)
The only thing is if she shows interest in you, be prepared that she might be broke, ditched by the CHADS or pregnant with another guy’s kid. That’s just my real advice. This is how chicks can show attention to you.
Im gonna give you some real simple advice be a chad not a nice guy what yiu displayed was being a nice guy desperate responding fast too much you should have ignored her barley responded also focus on your self make that money these woman nowadays modern age arent worth it i hope u feel better bro
I feel ya dude, dont be anything else but yourself its ok to be nice but its more important to be nice to yourself i wouldnt call it selfish. runnin after a girl often hurts more than just accepting that she is not into you and moving on. better yourself, workout, care for your physical and mental health and do things that make you happy.
I will share my experience. Girl just up and stopped texting for 5 days. I didn’t text, call.. just let it rest. All of a sudden I got a text then a call and she blew me up for a few days. She told me she appreciated me giving her space and found it as a turn on then said she wanted to hang out. We hung out however it didn’t go anywhere but I would recommend what he is saying on this one.
dose that mean. if you do that the same way for guys .that will happened too ? i because i am going the same thing . i don’t just simply mean . don’t talk them . but i stopped taking to them . after they left me on read and haven’t talkin to me for 6 days. now. all i do , don’t reach out and is just share videos and pictures of my dog. i feel like not putting anymore effort with them … :/ i just feel like i am a burden or a bother 😅. l definitely don’t wanna be cause :/
believe what you want but in that time she was getting so much attention / validation and catching bodies elsewhere. when that dried up, she reached back out to you to filll the void...... in other words, you are a placeholder. there's somebody else that she is more into and whose rules she will comply with 100%. when that person is available she'll drop you to focus there. and when that person gets tired of her she'll come back to you to feel the gap for the attention she needs. guys we need to wake up wake up wake up
@@JP-cx6th thanks and man to man I'm sorry you had to live through that situation....man if you heard my stories!! But this is how we grow, learn, adjust and come back stronger and better It's just a shame the games that have to be played nowadays, but I myself don't even consider any woman from my country, the United States, for anything serious at all. There are certain other countries that I like to spend time in and the problem becomes too many good women to choose from.... it's so refreshing when you know where to look and what to look for. Completely different energy.
This ain’t during a relationship most likely before first date or few dates this shit happens. If she’s distant and cold during a relationship you cut that shit off real quick, most important thing is communication. If she ain’t your girlfriend, she’s talking to other dudes so naturally you’re not owed any attention.
If you gotta ignore her most likely it's exactly what she wanted in the first place. If she was just using you for validation..Well...She obviously has plenty of other guys to turn to.
Yeah you right bro women not a loyalty women are sneaky they will taking a good guys kindness for weakness but I totally agree with you dawg I need learn how to ignore her I don't bother nobody just stay my own lane being my self.
When you ignore her, dont pretend to ignore her, remove her from your contacts its not even worth being with someone who makes you second guess yourself. Have some respect for yourselves and find someone else
Think about fellas. If she’s not communicating with you, then she’s not interested. Don’t ignore her. Don’t play stupid games. Instead, go find yourself a nice girl who is interested in you.
I went from talking and texting and hanging out with this girl who is quite a bit younger than me. Then she just went silent and hasn’t said anything. I’m making it my mission to not initiate contact with her unless she reaches out first. Even if she never comes around I will practice respecting myself by not begging for her attention more than I already have😅
@@Aklmnopqrs Bro they think they’re doing something by not offering any explanation for leaving. I am sincerely hurt by them refusing to be clear about how I fucked things up. I want to improve for the next one! It’s like don’t rob the next girl by not telling me what I did to fuck it up.
@@JoshuaJamesWagoner they are immature!! Maybe it's not you and them . As someone who has gone through this i just know its hard but once you move on its over up your standards work on yourself and you'll know what you bring to the table so focus eventually you'll find your perfect partner.
I’ve learnt the hard way after many years, he’s 100% right. Is it hard to do this while feeling great about her? Yes it is, very hard. Your head is spinning, I get it, but if you keep your contact up all the time with her, you will lose her. It’s too much for her. Channel your emotions into other things, and that will give you the confidence to put his advice into action..
Good!! Be happy.. just to show you she never had a high interest in you anyways she was just gonna keep wasting your time for months on end forget her forget her.. it's more to life than women
@@Deek2Conciouswhat being a sexless basement man depressed loser who who probably hates his life do you understand wtf your even on about Of course he wants to date
This is advice for like a young 20s dude to get more attention from some chick trying to play games. If you’re into that, go for it. But know it’s probably not going to lead to anything. The girl you actually want to date won’t play this shit, she’ll just be straight with you and it should be easy, no mind game bs.
Exactly these girls are literally fatherless hence their constant need for validation.. Me personally, I don’t feel like validating every hole in the ground I walk by .. “Hey you’re not completely gaping or anything.. No definitely not” .. 😬
In my case, it takes almost 5 - 12 for her to reply, or sometimes she will only reply 5 to 7 times a day 😢,.. Is she giving me value? After she told me, she showed me where she lives?
Advice is good, you don't want to be needy, but because you wan't to keep self respect. What happens next in most cases is you will never hear from her again and it is obvious since she didn't want to hang out in the first place
Win win situation. Don’t chase her, if she’s into you, by not chasing she will be even more into you. If she’s not into you and not playing games by ignoring you, then you win by not chasing and looking desperate and needy. Either way you get to keep your dignity and she will respect you for not being a simp.
Going through this now. I set a boundary with her saying I don’t like how when we hang out everything is one sided and etc and then when she replied she just said ‘okay sorry’…. Yea that hurt a lot and I realized she only used me for attention and validation
Avoid the women who crave alot attention from many avenues. Don't be treated as a option! Respect yourself and put up boundaries! Pass on the Dead ends and free yourself up for the right one to come along who will see your value
@@MoneyOverHoezzjust wait when tgey finally introduce you to thier new man yeah the best advice to hear from some guy on the internet who doesn't even know wtf he's on about
what happens next is that body count is getting run up 300%, she's on the carousel.... she'll get back around to you eventually. so ya.... I agree ...just ignore
While everything you said is completely right. The last part is a bit iffy because you can make plans with a girl for the next day and she says “yeah I’m down”. Tomorrow comes and you say absolutely nothing to her and vice versa. You never went out with her because you both didn’t text eachother meaning she really didn’t have any interest in you in the first place and after all that nothing really happens and you both completely lose contact with eachother. Very strange world we live in
She’s been replying slower, I reply slow too.. few days later i told her imma respect her space and focus on things; she can reach out when she wants.. she replies that she “has been busy but likes me a lot and can’t wait to see me again”.. but actions speak louder than words.. imma still give her that space and told her to reach out again when she’s not busy.. if she does reach out. I’ll set a date again THEN.. let’s see how this goes
Absolutely. That’s the cruelty of life. The worst part is down the period of a few months & she comes running back to fall in love with you, she’s already had another man’s kid or she’s broke. It means you are her piggy bank 😈. Either way, with the high divorce rate, don’t put too much priority on relationships. Chicks this days are not into relationships.
I did the exact same thing of reaching out to her and being there for her. She never respected or loved me back. I made a tough decision of just letting her go, not waiting till a week. I just know it was already over.
its the truth. if yall had somethin special and were close, regardless if the breakup was messy, give her at least a week or two of no contact. she will send you signals to contact her, or she will do it herself. i actually just went two weeks of no contact and am now hanging out with my ex girlfriend and meeting up on friday. we are having very positive and fun conversations and i never thought we would get back to this. head up and keep going💯
You never know , she could be going on though a tough time for any reason. Before cutting off contacts, if you're really interested in someone take a moment to ask about their wellbeing.
wild that every girl is going through something so bad they stop talking to me. If I don't text, they lose interest. if I do text they get bored and im too available. Im done and am really losing interest in dating at all. girls are on their own bullshit so hard, they don't care to get to know me.
@@MoneyOverHoezz tells how much you really want to be with a person. Your relationships are actually going to be shallow if you can't provide emotional support to that person and only be talking to then, during good times .
Yess, you're absolutely right. Because there was that guy, we just started talking and hanging out and i wasn't thinking much about it YET. But then he started wanting to hang out EVERY day.. And i am not exaggerating, he really texted me every day to go out and that really frustrated me, and everytime i said i can't he wanted an explanation, i have other things to do, it's called having a life.., so of course our frinedship and potential (at the begining) relationship was finito, i put an end to it... Moral of the story : Guys, don't be desperate, and pleease don't rush things Enjoy the process however slow it is, dedicate yourself, there is nothing sexier in a man than that! To the one reading this, thank you for your time, and may you have a blessed and beautiful day! 🙏🤍
OK but what if when you guys exchange numbers you both said you wanted a relationship but then the girl is taking 2 or 3 hours to respond to a text or doesn't answer questions and just skips over them like they were never asked
@@wandering_gnome2868Bro she is for the streets if she’s a flake.. It’s real simple. If she has class etc she will respond in a timely manner, otherwise.. Zinc walker.
This is solid advice. If more men did this - Women would learn over time that we aren’t down to play their games anymore. A lot of men nowadays would rather stay single and focus on themselves and their careers than put up with a women’s trivial bs. Can’t say I’m not one of them. Not worth the headache and heartache right now. If she requires too much effort to even talk to casually?? Delete her number, bro. Cultivate self-respect and move on.
"...you're gonna be amazed at what happens next" or not, and she keeps ignoring you because she took you not saying anything to her as you not being interested. 🤪
It’s so hard bro pulling back and ignoring the girl for a week or so when your really into her 😲 the only way this is easier is if you have another girl on the go. I need to learn how to be more distant
@@80skid83 yep..thanks bro working on finding stuff to occupy my free time. I’m good at getting numbers and meeting girls but then I message them every day
Mate i made all the mistakes and lost the girl i loved, its so backwards. The more effort i made, the more she pushed me away, the more love and care i showed, the more she ignored me even tho she complained no one cared, she rejected it and accused it of being fake when you give it to her 🙃 The more time and attention i wanted the less i got. Then the excuses and lies started. Looking back at her acrions now and researching about it, a lot of her traits were narcissistic :( all i know is i loved, cared and tried to support genuinely, just to get left mentally and emotionally destroyed over two years of manipulation, mind games and other stuff 😞 Why is love in this generation so fucked up 😢 Seems like all the attention they get from social media feeds their ego and makes them feel superior, they are so self centered and lack empathy. They just use you for their own gain, then replace you when a new supply comes along. Thats my experience anyway 🤦🏻♂️
Well it's clear that he tried to show you that he liked you and you didn't like him back. So why should he waste his time on you? You dropping him is actually a favour that you've done for him.
WTF! "but couldn’t show it." I'm sure he was trying to show YOU or gave you many hints in the texts he sent you, but you chose the immature option of Ghosting him, didn't you? This confirms more and more Girls lack Accountability!
What happened next …. New guy comes into play lol 🎉😂❤.. if you really like a girl don’t ignore her if she ain’t replying to your call and text for 3-4 times then move on meaning she don’t like you…. She’s not interested… next…
Gonna give everyone a quick tip. 99% of girls nowadays AND MEN are just addicted to notifications. Try to hang out ASAP but don’t be desperate. Show her ur a busy man even if you’re not. Give her occasional compliments and really think before you send that next text. Don’t be stuck texting all the time or calling all the time. Try to hangout and make plans asap and you’ll be good to go. If not you’ll stay in those messages and won’t go any further.
Its been 3 years. She must really miss me by now.
Yeah keep going king 🤴
This guy is a quack
Head up brother. She might let you meet her husband and kids.
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😱😱 after my 3 years situationship!, last night she was staying away from texting me, this morning she accused me of controlling after sending two or three texts! She didn't even texted me anything about Christmas night SO as of this this afternoon I officially broke up with her!
If she asks for space , make her an astronaut
💀💀💀I'm done
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes I'm dead.
Facts.
If you’re focusing on her it means you are spending less time focusing on your purpose. It won’t be hard with the right one. Stay strong brothers!
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This 🎉
DAM THTS SO REAL DOGG
I am married Now. But when I was single, I had zero tolerance for women with low level of interest. If she's showing low level of interest, I simply delete her number and she will never hear from me. Why? In my mind, I am the best man she will ever have in her life because I had done the work to grow physically, mentally, financially, career, socially, etc. I had an abundance mindset that every woman is attracted to me, and I acted accordingly
Guys, stop getting hanged up on a girl who shows zero interest in you. There's too many women to get fixated on one chick. It's called oneitis!! Stop the scarcity mindset and develop an abundance mindset.
Well said young man.
Facts!!
Very well said and so damn true.
amen brother
Hallelujah!! ⛪
To all the people saying “oh wat if she never texts back” well ignoring her and letting her go is always better than being the desperate clingy guy that she probably makes fun of to her friends
He’s just pushing men to be away from females. When this is clearly feminine energy vibes he’s giving out
True
i was that guy bro. never ever again
@@prod.0penri0tz38im in that phase
@@prod.0penri0tz38i feel that my g
Chase a check, never chase a chick!
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Gave me what i needed bruh
And she be gone lol to embrace the next alpha male who is always there showing her the attentiom she needs 😂
Shout out to my boy future
@@dianaverano7878 Who tf cares.
Unfortunately, this is very true. Instead of women just talking and displaying their interest in you, they play games.
Yeah true, especially in their 20s. Once they hit their mid 30s to 40s, they are effectively out of the game. 😂 so my idea is find other young chicks to get with rather than hang out with those that dump you.
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@@clementtroaming5435it dont matter they age them bitches paying games………
Are you saying they might be interested but are playing hard to get, and stuff like that? Or are you saying that they should just flat out tell you they aren’t interested in you? (I would prefer they do that tbh. It would sting but only for a moment.)
Dudes play games too...I just experienced it last Night when I confessed my feelings to a guy who messages me and flirts with me every day. He apparently isn't ready for a relationship 🙄
What happens next is you never hear from her again lol
That means she is not interested. Move on, you don’t need to waste time on a girl who doesn’t want you
Agree, I guess that means she was not interested. Did not message her for 3 days, when I tried to schedule something she was busy all week. Guess it’s best to figure that out quicker then later.
Good. Who cares? She’s literally doing your work for you. If she ghosts then you’ve got all the answers you needed.
Why do you care?
This dead ass happened to me with this girl today we haven’t spoken since the last time we seen each other and at work we made I contact and everything I juse kept walking them on break She came up to me and was so worried talking about are we beefing ? I dead ass laugh and said No beautiful. Lol all you have to do is let shit work out and if she never said anything that’s when you know when you stand.
Give her so much space that she feels like Neil Armstrong.
Lol
Ya, fake af
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If you have to ignore a girl to get her interested, she's not the one. Don't waste your time.
This is it right here.
Luckily for me, whether I ignore her or not, I can predict with 100% certainty that she's not interested! Oh wait...that's not something to be happy about...
@fuzzypanda1684 that is something to be happy about! most of these girls in this generation love to waste your time and money 💰 and if you don't have anything to offer them then they friendzone you, they time wasters that's all
@@fuzzypanda1684be glad she's not interested, most of these girls aren't relationship material anyways
@@Deek2Concious I don't care that SHE'S not interested, it's the fact that she's just the latest in a long, unbroken line of girls who weren't interested that bothers me.
Everytime i ignored a girl she just ignore me forever
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
saved ur time
Don't let it worry uu cus uu ain't missing out on anything.
@@MoneyOverHoezzstop lying and bullshitting him the truth is his going to find out the most hardest truth and it's going to change him in a bad way thier point in time she's going to just leave him even if he give her respect and space
Yeah that's because they never ever had 1% interest in you. So it saved you time. And self respect is intact
A girl is either interested in you or not. If you suddenly disappear you do her a favor. If you chase her she’s gonna friend zone you. So just move on if they’re not interested in you
bingo
You don't do her a favor because she needs and will miss the attention. You do a favor to yourself. God... Be a man, value yourself
@@Nothingelsematters.w
Exactly how is it doing her a favour by stripping her of her drug of choice, attention? Fookin muppet comment 😅
@@Nothingelsematters.w
If she likes you, nothing will keep her from replying same day. If shes acting like this and the silence advice works, shes keeping you on the hook for an ego boost and not actually into you. Just be done dude.
dont fall for the trap. make her show her interest when she comes back. become a dick.
"If she likes you, nothing will keep her from replying same day"...dude, you're living in another world. I've never once had that happen in my entire life.
@@fuzzypanda1684 They think its still the 1980's, women not the same no more which is why I don't fw em.
What if a guy is super quick to respond, initiates convo regularly, seems interested...but when you tell him you like him, he says he's not interested in relationships?
Why talk to me so much then?
@@fuzzypanda1684that sounds like a skill issue
Miss the days of asking a girl on a date, if it went well you plan another one, if not you move on. Technology has done many great things but it's screwed up dating/relationships.
Look at the way he’s dressed, he’s giving advice through a car wearing a hoodie 😂
@@Qolajyoure watching these types of videos with an anime pfp, stop criticizing others and look in the mirror.
This! And it’s mostly affecting black people although I see others engaging in the toxicity as well. Sometimes I drive though white neighborhoods and I see families enjoying life and building generational wealth. Then I look at black people and we are fighting each other. Men and women both exposed to toxic strategies via the internet which spills over into the real world. It’s sad because it weakens our foundation. No one should be chasing anyone. It should be 2 people coming together 🙏🏾 like intertwined hands, healed and ready to be vulnerable and give love to other person. This is why I’m single. Because I refuse to engage in the war. I sit on the side lines and watch y’all fight each other and play the games. Eventually I’ll run into a man who is also on the sidelines. In the meantime y’all can have at it.
Bro I give your comment all the respect.
Your comment is 100% accurate
Technology has destroyed us all
Women hate being ignored. Their ego are unable to come to terms with it.
Lol a woman doesn’t mind being ignored if she doesn’t care about you RELAX🤣🤣🤣🙏
If shes not responding 2-3 times just move on. I even unfollow them or block them. Some may say that's toxic but I dont need that childish energy with playing games leaving you on seen.
Guys, when it’s the right woman for you… she will not treat you like crap and play games. If she drops communication and is a flake she is showing you who she is! Believe her and move on! The real one may be around the corner! Thank God for sparing you and move on! ❤
Look, it doesn’t matter because I have a crush on Sophia rollando and she wants me move on, but I can’t move on because I really wanted her To be with me and when it comes to a communication men and women texting and calling Each other I think that you should not believe her because if you really miss someone is Crawling back to you. that’s my preference and that’s the only thing that matters.
mmm i dkn.. the one i found around the corner asked me if i could give her a ride and if i had $40.... a few minutes later i dropped her off and i was sleepy. 😪
No such thing as "right"
Absolutely NEEDED to see a comment like this here.
What if it was your fault
Over the summer, she ignored me most of the time (asked her a couple of times if she wanted to hang out & told me why she couldn’t. Somehow she can make time for other people…I guess she’s closer to them 🤷🏻♂️), I give her space & then notice that she’s with a guy once Fall comes around…I guess that guy’s lucky she isn’t ignoring him & will probably never understand what it’s like
Almost at the point where I just assume every girl has a boyfriend & I have to be selfish (care more about myself than others)
The only thing is if she shows interest in you, be prepared that she might be broke, ditched by the CHADS or pregnant with another guy’s kid. That’s just my real advice. This is how chicks can show attention to you.
Im gonna give you some real simple advice be a chad not a nice guy what yiu displayed was being a nice guy desperate responding fast too much you should have ignored her barley responded also focus on your self make that money these woman nowadays modern age arent worth it i hope u feel better bro
Get a dog if you want love. If you want 🐱 be an 4hole.. Real simple.
I feel ya dude, dont be anything else but yourself its ok to be nice but its more important to be nice to yourself i wouldnt call it selfish. runnin after a girl often hurts more than just accepting that she is not into you and moving on. better yourself, workout, care for your physical and mental health and do things that make you happy.
She just didn’t see your value, King. Keep ya head up, the right one will.
I will share my experience. Girl just up and stopped texting for 5 days. I didn’t text, call.. just let it rest. All of a sudden I got a text then a call and she blew me up for a few days. She told me she appreciated me giving her space and found it as a turn on then said she wanted to hang out. We hung out however it didn’t go anywhere but I would recommend what he is saying on this one.
dose that mean. if you do that the same way for guys .that will happened too ? i because i am going the same thing . i don’t just simply mean . don’t talk them . but i stopped taking to them . after they left me on read and haven’t talkin to me for 6 days. now. all i do , don’t reach out and is just share videos and pictures of my dog. i feel like not putting anymore effort with them … :/ i just feel like i am a burden or a bother 😅. l definitely don’t wanna be cause :/
Im sorry but thats just not healthy
believe what you want but in that time she was getting so much attention / validation and catching bodies elsewhere. when that dried up, she reached back out to you to filll the void...... in other words, you are a placeholder. there's somebody else that she is more into and whose rules she will comply with 100%. when that person is available she'll drop you to focus there. and when that person gets tired of her she'll come back to you to feel the gap for the attention she needs. guys we need to wake up wake up wake up
@@BizBuyer7X completely agree and well said
@@JP-cx6th thanks and man to man I'm sorry you had to live through that situation....man if you heard my stories!! But this is how we grow,
learn, adjust and come back stronger and better It's just a shame the games that have to be played nowadays, but I myself don't even consider any woman from my country, the United States,
for anything serious at all. There are certain other countries that I like to spend time in and the problem becomes too many good women to choose from.... it's so refreshing when you know where to look and what to look for. Completely different energy.
I just block her I rather be alone than be treated like I’m nothing 🙅♂️
Facts, no time for the bs.
we need to stop normalizing getting out of relationships because “they lost interest” a true relationship will last through good times and bad
One of the most selfish mindsets of our generation. Relationships are only as good as the current circumstances of that relationship.
This ain’t during a relationship most likely before first date or few dates this shit happens. If she’s distant and cold during a relationship you cut that shit off real quick, most important thing is communication. If she ain’t your girlfriend, she’s talking to other dudes so naturally you’re not owed any attention.
What man wit sense gon stay if she loses interest.
On God ! Ignore and level up
What will you achieve?
@@emperornephew6487A hell of a lot more than sniffing the taint of some low class cooze 😅 .. Do you enjoy asking such pitiful questions or?
@@emperornephew6487 A lot.
There's a 3 day rule. If neither of you make any effort of contact for 3 days- It's over.
Mine is a week king 👑 good rules
Time is irrelevant and purely subjective
@@earthboundmisfit7654wrong
If you gotta ignore her most likely it's exactly what she wanted in the first place. If she was just using you for validation..Well...She obviously has plenty of other guys to turn to.
This girl said just Let me know when your done I’m not gonna respond for her for a week
She’s nice but takes time to respond to my text shoukd I message her on Xbox less or
Nah you dont need an advice keep up being an man with no honor or dignity that'll surely make you a good bestie at best .
Yeah you right bro women not a loyalty women are sneaky they will taking a good guys kindness for weakness but I totally agree with you dawg I need learn how to ignore her I don't bother nobody just stay my own lane being my self.
If she's being vague and distant, you weren't getting the hint. If you ignore her, she won't notice lol.
Then good riddance for both 😉
I completely agree. Some men think they're smart but they're far from that.
@@jeenadjo1238 each eye have interpretation in their own
this video is for men
What is the hint help me!!!!
These TH-cam advice givers are something else
He's correct
@@ScotsmanJ No moron, he's not.
@@ScotsmanJ lol
And if she doesn't get back to you, just leave it. There is plenty of fish in the see.. Abundance mindset !!
Lies and more lies thier isn't plenty out thier thier given people more false hope is biggest lie you can do you can tell them the truth
@@vladimirmakarov334 what crack are u on
When you ignore her, dont pretend to ignore her, remove her from your contacts its not even worth being with someone who makes you second guess yourself. Have some respect for yourselves and find someone else
Think about fellas. If she’s not communicating with you, then she’s not interested. Don’t ignore her. Don’t play stupid games. Instead, go find yourself a nice girl who is interested in you.
UU said don't ignore her cus uu the type to keep chasing her.
I am quick to dismiss, if she doesn't care about me then I don't care about her, PERIOD 😁😁😁
I went from talking and texting and hanging out with this girl who is quite a bit younger than me. Then she just went silent and hasn’t said anything. I’m making it my mission to not initiate contact with her unless she reaches out first. Even if she never comes around I will practice respecting myself by not begging for her attention more than I already have😅
I really don't understand how people suddenly disappear like growuppp don't waste time or easy communicate
@@Aklmnopqrs Bro they think they’re doing something by not offering any explanation for leaving. I am sincerely hurt by them refusing to be clear about how I fucked things up. I want to improve for the next one! It’s like don’t rob the next girl by not telling me what I did to fuck it up.
@@JoshuaJamesWagoner they are immature!! Maybe it's not you and them . As someone who has gone through this i just know its hard but once you move on its over up your standards work on yourself and you'll know what you bring to the table so focus eventually you'll find your perfect partner.
If she is vague and distant, you did her a favor by ignoring her.
Nahh we did ourselves a favor.
Good advice. I just ignored my girlfriend for a week and she broke up with me. 🙃
Hahaha
😂😂😂
@@spicydragon04 true story. But I did know it was a coming.
Hahaha. This guy thinks to much
Good riddance, she wasnt meant for you bro, the ocean has got plenty of fish, continue fishing you can catch a Tuna this time.
I’ve learnt the hard way after many years, he’s 100% right. Is it hard to do this while feeling great about her? Yes it is, very hard. Your head is spinning, I get it, but if you keep your contact up all the time with her, you will lose her. It’s too much for her. Channel your emotions into other things, and that will give you the confidence to put his advice into action..
Either she likes you or she doesn't
No in-between 💯 brooo look at it this way if Coco Jones text me to hang out you think I wouldn't go?
@@Deek2Concious Exactly!
@@MoneyGreen you can die doing a bungee jump on live TV and she still wouldn't text you loll
@@Deek2Concious Hahaha 🤣
@@MoneyGreen I'm telling you some of these girls are so cutthroat broski
Stay vigilant, not every girl is sent from God, and few are sent by the enemies to distract us, FOCUS!
Don’t play games period. That goes for men and women. It’s common courtesy and respect.
A foreign concept nowadays
Bro we not into the old days no more, wake tf up.
U aint having any girl to ignore.
He still spittin facts tho.
It's true....Women won't admit it but they like you more when you ignore them and or treat them like they don't matter.
Tbh yes, it is true. I fuck with their heads.
Exactly.
What happens next is you’ll never hear back from here which is probably the best thing for you
No cap this works, ghosted a girl I’m into for 5 days and she hit me back wanting to link up this week😂😂
Every time I ignore a woman, I never hear from her again.
Good!! Be happy.. just to show you she never had a high interest in you anyways she was just gonna keep wasting your time for months on end forget her forget her.. it's more to life than women
@@Deek2Concious Yeah, but I'd kind of like to actually get laid on occasion.
@@Deek2Conciouswhat being a sexless basement man depressed loser who who probably hates his life do you understand wtf your even on about Of course he wants to date
This is advice for like a young 20s dude to get more attention from some chick trying to play games. If you’re into that, go for it. But know it’s probably not going to lead to anything. The girl you actually want to date won’t play this shit, she’ll just be straight with you and it should be easy, no mind game bs.
Finally some real advice here.
Exactly these girls are literally fatherless hence their constant need for validation.. Me personally, I don’t feel like validating every hole in the ground I walk by .. “Hey you’re not completely gaping or anything.. No definitely not” .. 😬
Sureee buddy.
Thanks for your advice, it's been the quietest month of my life😂😂
realll lolok
In my case, it takes almost 5 - 12 for her to reply, or sometimes she will only reply 5 to 7 times a day 😢,..
Is she giving me value? After she told me, she showed me where she lives?
Advice is good, you don't want to be needy, but because you wan't to keep self respect. What happens next in most cases is you will never hear from her again and it is obvious since she didn't want to hang out in the first place
Basically what he is saying! Never be into a female MORE!! Then she’s into you!!! GOLDEN RULE!!
I needed a big bro like you in my school days. Love from India 🙏
Win win situation. Don’t chase her, if she’s into you, by not chasing she will be even more into you. If she’s not into you and not playing games by ignoring you, then you win by not chasing and looking desperate and needy. Either way you get to keep your dignity and she will respect you for not being a simp.
Cope
@@guilhermehx7159 wrong context botty boy 😅
Going through this now. I set a boundary with her saying I don’t like how when we hang out everything is one sided and etc and then when she replied she just said ‘okay sorry’…. Yea that hurt a lot and I realized she only used me for attention and validation
She will text you if she is interested thats it!
Roght
In my case it takes almost 12 for her to reply
You’re a genius David - greatly appreciated and the right message at the right time, regardless of the outcome in the moment
Avoid the women who crave alot attention from many avenues. Don't be treated as a option! Respect yourself and put up boundaries! Pass on the Dead ends and free yourself up for the right one to come along who will see your value
Yes
Dawgg ain't no "right" one, done wit em all.
I really laughed when you said the right one bro tf wants the right one if she's not what man date
I would listen if I was you guys . I did it and avoided her for 5 days of not texting her and after that she texted me
I been doing this, always works. Now I'm ignoring all women cus of the bs they be on.
@@MoneyOverHoezzjust wait when tgey finally introduce you to thier new man yeah the best advice to hear from some guy on the internet who doesn't even know wtf he's on about
what happens next is that body count is getting run up 300%, she's on the carousel.... she'll get back around to you eventually. so ya.... I agree ...just ignore
She'll get back to you... never 😂😂 she never cared about you in the first place
bro i ignored her still 7months later. i guess she wasnt that into me😂
While everything you said is completely right. The last part is a bit iffy because you can make plans with a girl for the next day and she says “yeah I’m down”. Tomorrow comes and you say absolutely nothing to her and vice versa. You never went out with her because you both didn’t text eachother meaning she really didn’t have any interest in you in the first place and after all that nothing really happens and you both completely lose contact with eachother. Very strange world we live in
Thank you brotha. This is what I needed to hear today
if you need to do this to get her interested to you, she's for the streets.
I go through this all the time. I'm sick and tired of the Bullshi
In other words: if you wanna have women, you need to already have a woman.
If you want a job, you need to already have a job
Don't know abt the job part but uu right abt the part where women only want uu when uu already got women.
Facts bro just says it’s cool and do your thang
I stopped texting her for 2 weeks and she unadded me
Aye bro, that's her loss.
It is true, giving space is the cure. Good luck brothers.
She’s been replying slower, I reply slow too.. few days later i told her imma respect her space and focus on things; she can reach out when she wants.. she replies that she “has been busy but likes me a lot and can’t wait to see me again”.. but actions speak louder than words.. imma still give her that space and told her to reach out again when she’s not busy.. if she does reach out. I’ll set a date again THEN..
let’s see how this goes
when she's not busy fkn another dude LMAO
how did it go bro
Tell us
Update?
What happened bro?
Facts thank you bro you saved me
If returning a txt takes hours and you call her she never picks up, your on silence, she is married or has a live in bf, bye! Lol
Absolutely. That’s the cruelty of life. The worst part is down the period of a few months & she comes running back to fall in love with you, she’s already had another man’s kid or she’s broke. It means you are her piggy bank 😈. Either way, with the high divorce rate, don’t put too much priority on relationships. Chicks this days are not into relationships.
Or her phone is on do not disturb
I needed to hear this
Damn used this on my wife and she wants a divorce, best advice ever!
💀
I agree with David here!!
Give her the world they said. I did more and I gave her space
Block her! Move on.
“You need to go back to regular teeth” she’s ignoring because youre taking advice from a guy who thinks the top of a toilet is the same as a tooth
LOL
Nahh luh bro, uu jus cant let her go.
I did the exact same thing of reaching out to her and being there for her. She never respected or loved me back. I made a tough decision of just letting her go, not waiting till a week. I just know it was already over.
I have been married 10 years now just be yourself no games
@@Silver86777 you sound salty bro are you mad because girls wont pay attention to you
It aint always that easy for everyone, nor are we always lucky like you are
@@Silver86777tf is that defensive ass response lmao. “No one cares” you mad you aint married? lmao like wtf
@@Silver86777 congrats on the transition
@@dukes4636 you realize the point was be yourself right you think thats controversal lol
its the truth. if yall had somethin special and were close, regardless if the breakup was messy, give her at least a week or two of no contact. she will send you signals to contact her, or she will do it herself. i actually just went two weeks of no contact and am now hanging out with my ex girlfriend and meeting up on friday. we are having very positive and fun conversations and i never thought we would get back to this. head up and keep going💯
You never know , she could be going on though a tough time for any reason. Before cutting off contacts, if you're really interested in someone take a moment to ask about their wellbeing.
wild that every girl is going through something so bad they stop talking to me. If I don't text, they lose interest. if I do text they get bored and im too available. Im done and am really losing interest in dating at all. girls are on their own bullshit so hard, they don't care to get to know me.
Not finna be her crash dummy n make her problems mines. Maybe she should fix em rather than tryna talk to dudes.
@@MoneyOverHoezz tells how much you really want to be with a person. Your relationships are actually going to be shallow if you can't provide emotional support to that person and only be talking to then, during good times .
@@_witi That is "Simp" behavior. The 2Hole can go cry on another 2Holes shoulder. Never ever be that guy. Ever.
Thank you my brother❤
Yess, you're absolutely right.
Because there was that guy, we just started talking and hanging out and i wasn't thinking much about it YET. But then he started wanting to hang out EVERY day.. And i am not exaggerating, he really texted me every day to go out and that really frustrated me, and everytime i said i can't he wanted an explanation, i have other things to do, it's called having a life.., so of course our frinedship and potential (at the begining) relationship was finito, i put an end to it...
Moral of the story : Guys, don't be desperate, and pleease don't rush things
Enjoy the process however slow it is, dedicate yourself, there is nothing sexier in a man than that!
To the one reading this, thank you for your time, and may you have a blessed and beautiful day! 🙏🤍
OK but what if when you guys exchange numbers you both said you wanted a relationship but then the girl is taking 2 or 3 hours to respond to a text or doesn't answer questions and just skips over them like they were never asked
@@wandering_gnome2868Bro she is for the streets if she’s a flake.. It’s real simple. If she has class etc she will respond in a timely manner, otherwise.. Zinc walker.
Never text back in months
This is solid advice. If more men did this - Women would learn over time that we aren’t down to play their games anymore. A lot of men nowadays would rather stay single and focus on themselves and their careers than put up with a women’s trivial bs. Can’t say I’m not one of them. Not worth the headache and heartache right now. If she requires too much effort to even talk to casually?? Delete her number, bro. Cultivate self-respect and move on.
"...you're gonna be amazed at what happens next" or not, and she keeps ignoring you because she took you not saying anything to her as you not being interested. 🤪
Or she was never interested in you..
Yah bro you are totally right , cause I I’m doing this right now and it’s working 😉 , I recommend every guy to do this ,
Whats funny is ive never been in a relationship i just watch these videos for future reference
You're doing yourself a favour **Salute**
Never heard from her again 🔥🔥🔥
It’s so hard bro pulling back and ignoring the girl for a week or so when your really into her 😲 the only way this is easier is if you have another girl on the go. I need to learn how to be more distant
Don't even need another girl, you need bigger things than woman which will keep you occupied.
@@80skid83 yep..thanks bro working on finding stuff to occupy my free time. I’m good at getting numbers and meeting girls but then I message them every day
@Alex Tanguay book a flight go somewhere, enjoy yourself. Fuk women
😂😂😂😂 bro Ignored her to a point that I forgot her
1 month and going…still no signs of her 🤷♂️ still lurking my ig stories and when I post a photo there it is…her like…
Big respect bro
Mate i made all the mistakes and lost the girl i loved, its so backwards. The more effort i made, the more she pushed me away, the more love and care i showed, the more she ignored me even tho she complained no one cared, she rejected it and accused it of being fake when you give it to her 🙃 The more time and attention i wanted the less i got. Then the excuses and lies started. Looking back at her acrions now and researching about it, a lot of her traits were narcissistic :( all i know is i loved, cared and tried to support genuinely, just to get left mentally and emotionally destroyed over two years of manipulation, mind games and other stuff 😞
Why is love in this generation so fucked up 😢
Seems like all the attention they get from social media feeds their ego and makes them feel superior, they are so self centered and lack empathy. They just use you for their own gain, then replace you when a new supply comes along. Thats my experience anyway 🤦🏻♂️
Realist sht i read all day
My manipulation was 5 months
This really fucking helps thank you
DO NOT LISTEN TO HIM if you ignore a girl you’re interested in for even a day she’s gunna assume you’re not into her i guarantee you
Nahh we don't got time to be chasing females.
Exactly! Men like myself have to let women chase us instead of us chasing them.
it goes both ways but u should never chase a girl because if a girl wants u bad then she will make it happen trust me i’m a girl
This is the dumbes advice ever
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i understand know this is exactly what i’ve been doing to her and now i gotta follow this guys advice
I‘m a female who dropped a guy exactly for this behaviour today. Turned out, that he is into me, but couldn’t show it.
So this advice is NOT helpful
Did he ask you when you were free to get together?
Well it's clear that he tried to show you that he liked you and you didn't like him back. So why should he waste his time on you? You dropping him is actually a favour that you've done for him.
WTF! "but couldn’t show it." I'm sure he was trying to show YOU or gave you many hints in the texts he sent you, but you chose the immature option of Ghosting him, didn't you? This confirms more and more Girls lack Accountability!
Even when i show it or straight up tell her im disposed of. Like walking on eggshells all the time around women.
This advice is NOT helpful
Nahh it sounds to me like uu were playing games so he dipped. He dodged a mf bullet.
Yes been there and wasted my time and energy for the people that are not for me
What happened next …. New guy comes into play lol 🎉😂❤.. if you really like a girl don’t ignore her if she ain’t replying to your call and text for 3-4 times then move on meaning she don’t like you…. She’s not interested… next…
No one cares abt the new guy, y'all cant ignore em cus y'all too busy chasing em.
Gonna give everyone a quick tip. 99% of girls nowadays AND MEN are just addicted to notifications. Try to hang out ASAP but don’t be desperate. Show her ur a busy man even if you’re not. Give her occasional compliments and really think before you send that next text. Don’t be stuck texting all the time or calling all the time. Try to hangout and make plans asap and you’ll be good to go. If not you’ll stay in those messages and won’t go any further.