guy in vr explains cases he still thinks about
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- i talk with Kaos, a mortician, about the worst things he's seen on the job and advice for people interested in following this career. if you haven't seen my first video with Kaos check it out here • guy in vr explains his...
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hello here is your sleepy time upload 😴 if you haven't seen my first video with Kaos you can find it in the description! hope this video is helpful to anyone considering
work as a mortician. keep up with me and the channel on twitter.com/SyrmorS
Can u respond to me?
Thank you
howdy
@@craze_7582 DAMN DANIEL! My dude, you didn't ask anything
marry me Syrmor
You can tell just how aware he is of the emotional state of people around him. What a professional.
Thank you ;)
@@CaptainKaos are you the guy? If so your stories were really interesting
@@prod2k_ I am indeed ;) if you check the video description he also links me, cause I am going to upload more stories and other related things on my channel :)
@@grimm3972 yeah not the BEST question... Murdered people sure probably. GSWs and shit but yeah.
@@grimm3972 I actually have, there was a mass shooting in munich a few years back, burried the shooter and some of the victims as well
each person featured on this channel fits their avatar in a strange way
as long as you choose your avatar, it will always fit you. your avatar in a game like this is just like choosing clothes or how you cut your hair and choose to present yourself to others
Like the penguin who was in the airforce
He is the blacksmith Andre from Dark Souls 3
because before recording video they converse on what bases will story take place and so on, hence making best out of the visuals
@@Zamalshkay I've always used this Avatar, I just really like dark souls
My heart goes out to those little girls and their mother, they deserved a full life
@xXx_EpicGamer_xXx go back to roblox habibi
The Dank Wizard Everyone shall bow down for the edgelord, your edginess makes you look really cool
I love how he likes his own comments too... Cute kid, but please note that a lot of edgy jokes you make, you'll look back on with regret
@@civpr0 except i didnt like my own comments
@@arthritis1097 it's very weird how you get 1 like everytime
Bob is a concept that knows no borders
love a bit of gallows humour
In italy we usually use "pinco pallino" that is not an actual name but idk its fine
Beach Bob
Look up Karate Bob
Bob is a state of mind
Everybody: What a horrible job
Unemployed me: Aha, a potential job
I'm literally about to google mortician jobs in my area lol
Its one of those jobs that probably don't require a lot of experience.
night shifts are also chill like at a hotel
I am also looking foward to get a job like this bc ever since ive been a kid ive never been affected by death if ive seen someone dead I never feel anything so I think I will handle this kind of job very well
Could you imagine the amount of bodies they had to go through with covid, though? It must have been super hard and overworked. I heard (this might not be true, correct me if I'm wrong) that Italy was so overrun that dead bodies had to be kept in the relatives house for sometime because there simply wasn't enough room at the morgues.
I personally am thinking of becoming a mortician. Watching this has helped me basically confirm that I'd be okay with this profession. I guess I just want to help people with the idea of death, and allow families to cope with it. This video has helped me a lot, as well as your previous one.
Great choice ;) And glad to be of help haha
It's a really important thing and not everyone is up to the task. No one ever realizes they need someone who's comfortable with it until they have to face it themselves one day
check out the youtube channel "Ask a Mortician" if you haven't already! Caitlin Doughty really knows how to make death interesting.
@@LilChuunosuke Oh I have known her Channel for quite some time now ;) She is great
My gfs dad did it for years. Pretty crazy shit you see, & the pay is not great, but it’s an interesting experience from what he’s said. Takes a bachelors degree I wanna say.
"That was... not fun"
- A mortician, about collecting charred remains of a murderer and the woman and children he murdered.
bruh that along w the edit for that part of the story shot chills eeeveryywhere
The understatment of the decade came in early!
Imagine showing up at the place that "Confirms the corpse's identity" and finding out that the body was indeed not Bob.
That happend one time, oh god have mercy lol, might talk about that on my channel, thats a good Story
@@CaptainKaos RIP
Well good thing they paid $100
@@CaptainKaos definitely gotta hear this one 👀
This guy is gonna have some gnarly stories to tell his kids in the future
Hello again
What type of hentai have you watched Mr. Guy Without a Mustache
Sometimes i wonder if i could run an account like you here on youtube since i spent most of my days here, personally i do run a "Reminding_you_to_drink_water" account on rule34 xxx but my comments keep getting deleted, i might as well make the change and feel how being an active commenter feels like
What the Hell? Okay. This reply section is weird as hell.
Johnny ER talk about random. Wtf
Lowkey this guys voice for some reason makes me feel comfort, like he is always ready to give a hug if need be.
I will give you a hug if you feel better after ;) You might be happy to hear that I am starting a youtube channel on my own, talking about other storied and related things :P
Captain Kaos I actually really am! Excited to see what comes up
Captain Kaos just subbed! And I agree with TOUT. You seem to be a very chill and comforting person, and I feel that’s perfect for the profession you are in. Also, Thanks for the work you do; cause it’s definitely not a popular job and it takes special people to be the ones to step up and do that kind of work.
@@Gracejkay Thank you very much! I really appreciate it :)
@@CaptainKaos subscribed too! Good luck in your journey ;)
This was really touching. I recently lost a family member and the people who prepared him were very disrespectful. It's good to know that there are people who take this job seriously.
Sorry to hear that, always sad about hearing that :/ hope you are doing well either way!
I hope your doing well and I'm very sorry for your loss much love goes to you
Retendo You’re deadass blaming him for rude personnel....
@Retendo You're deadass blaming him for rude personnel...
@Retendo and the asshole award goes to...
syrmor is the most underrated “therapy youtuber”
I'd call him an interviewer.
@@WTFisTingispingis he's actually joe rogan interviewer level but in VR
@@WTFisTingispingis Beat me to it. They dont offer help or are qualified.
@@CorndogPoncho yea I get you, but sometimes after a long day of work or when I’m upset I just watch these vids vibe, and go to sleep
@@Jonny-xj7hj yeah I get u, I think a lot of people do
“I should be holy myself now”
Yep. He’s German.
As long as he don't want to start an empire... Again.
🤣
He’s very good at telling stories. Hes good with serious speaking obviously coz of the funerals he’s had to perform. That has to have helped. Anyway he’s very good and I enjoyed both videos. I think you should make him a regular on your channel if he’s comfortable with it
Thank you very much ;) means a lot to me, I would be glad to appear more often, we'll see ;) Either way I am starting my own TH-cam channel to talk about stories and other related things, if you'd like you can stay around :)
@@CaptainKaos man, you've got a subscriber. I've just had my relative come to visit (distant one), and she is pathologist, just was thinking about how I can approach her with questions about her job, and here is your video.
I'm writing a story for a girl I like about the loss of her father, and there is a point where I have to get close to the trauma of seeing a dead relative, but I have to describe it detached (and Its hard for me due to my own experiences), so some of your insights and ones in the comments were really helpful.
@@alexandersakhnenko3150 Thank you and no Problem :)
"Hes good with serious speaking obviously coz of the funerals he’s had to perform"
Nah. He's good at serious speaking solely because he is german, and everybody knows they are the most serious of people to ever serious. Ever.
@@Peluceus thats an overstatement if I ever heard one lol
In regards to Kaos' first story bit: My mother is a chaplain at a hospital and she deals mainly with parents who have either miscarriages or pre mature births. And yes, she puts tiny shirts on the fetus sometimes and has little coffins made (often just small wooden boxes you can buy at a craft store.) She told me that it helps bring closure for the parents and makes them feel like their child was a real person and not just a collection on cells.
My wife and I had two second trimester losses before the birth of our beautiful daughter. Both of them were boys. It’s hard for someone who hasn’t experienced it to understand what a parent goes through after a loss like that. The mother spends months carrying the baby, you’re picking out strollers, setting up cribs, painting the nursery, researching types of bottles, just getting ready for this exciting new journey....
Then one day, out of the blue, your entire world, your plans for that stroller and those bottles you were researching all of a sudden don’t matter anymore.
You have to decide if you want to name the baby, and if so, do you want it to be the name you had picked out or save it for another time. Do you want to hold the baby? Do you want to bury it or have it cremated? If the nurse doesn’t know what they are doing, the mother may be wheeled down the hall of a maternity ward in a wheelchair towards the exit, with empty arms, right past rooms of crying babies knowing she’s leaving the hospital without hers to go back to a house with a crib in a painted nursery that’s going to be empty.
That’s why you give those babies a burial. That’s why you give them a little tiny blanket and hat and a little box. Different things help different parents cope in different ways with literally one of the most heart breaking thing my wife have ever had happen to us.
A nurse named Lisa Brady was our nurse for our first loss. She treated us with such kindness. She was with us through our process and helped us navigate the process. She put together our little memory box for our boy with his little blanket and hat he wore in our pictures and a little bracelet with his name. When we asked for her by name for our second loss she made his as well. She was with my wife through her entire pregnancy with our beautiful daughter and is a close friend to this day. She impacted our lives with that little blanket and a hat in a way that few people ever had. Thank you to all of the maternity ward nurses out there. It’s easy to do a job where you get to see the families walk out together. It’s a lot harder to see broken hearts day in and day out.
If anyone reads this and knows of any woman who’s experienced a loss due to Incompetent Cervix, please feel free to reach out to me. There’s hope and it’s called a TAC and It’s the reason our perfectly healthy daughter is here today.
It was a real person
David Martin David no one can be prepared for something like that. Just know energy can't be crated or destroyed it always just changes forms. From a certain perspective they are really always with you. I'm sorry for your loss
A still birth, miscarriage or premature birth is no more or less a 'collection of cells' than an adult is.
My greatest parkor yet
P a r k o u r
Lit
I like how u just stood there most of the time like:
Is his Avatar Andre? Funny if it is considering that Andre helps the undead.
It is yes ;)
Andre of Astora telling his tales from his mortician side job at the Undead Parish.
Andre from where?
@@L16htW4rr10r Dark souls
@@CannonXG Thank you. ^^
"I've gotten so much holy water on myself that I should be holy myself by now" I'm sorry guys but I laughed way to hard at this
"never the front door"
Ive seen someone bring a body through the front door of a senior home and load them into her car. The body was nicely covered in a velvet sheet and the car was just an ordinary SUV without the backseats. Very eerie experience
why isnt mortician in the title? i almost didnt click :'(
the vid with the title with mortician in it was getting demonitized and i couldn't figure out why when i was testing different combos. didnt want the vid to get punished by alg :(
that makes sense. shit. maybe undertaker could work lol or funeral worker
@@shottysteve no more csgo content?
upload more
@shottysteve we miss u
I've always looked at these kinds of jobs impassionately. I've never met someone who has done it but I could never see myself looking down on them or being disgusted with them like he describes some people's reactions.
At the end of the day, someone's gotta do it.
*sits down with chipotle bowl* “this looks like a good video to watch while I eat” *describes dead babies floating in alcohol* “:l”
Syrmor is pretty much the real Midnight Gospel.
Midnight gospel was real, visuals aside
The what?
Kaos has a great voice, and a knack for telling stories. You can tell he has a lot of empathy.
I never really realized how hard their job was until now..
I like that this guy's avatar is Andre. I imagine that the he feels the way Andre looks on the inside during some of his cases. Tired, old, and weary.
This is probably one of my favorite ones now. The Andre avatar fits with his subtle wisdom in some way.
"A dead body, let's call him 'Bob'"
Ehhh, let's not please. Please.
oh no
It’ll be fitting tomorrow at 11:36pm
July 26, 2022
Really appreciate these death prophecies keep them coming!
August 5, 2027
Hey Syrmor, long time no talk. Idk if you remember me but I used to stream Toontown rewritten under Anonsass and we played a bit together. Crazy to see how much you've taken off, congrats dude
My boyfriend was watching one of your videos and I saw your name at the end and was like... Wait a second... Is that the same Syrmor I knew? Cool stuff man keep it up
Damn what a small world! I remember you! why did you have to bring up our dark past like that 😔
@@syrmor you can't run from the past my friend muahahaha... I'm thinking about starting streaming again but I changed my display name to start off on a new foot kinda
This reminds me of the book "Smoke Gets in Your Eyes." Being a mortician sounds like a tough job that requires a lot of awareness of other peoples traditions and feelings.
One question I would’ve asked or been interested to know his answer to (unless I missed it) is to ask something along the lines of “if someone you deeply cared for, be it family, friend or love; would you be able to perform your tasks as a mortician on your loved one?”
Hard question, i think it depends, for my Patents, yes but my girlfriend who is my most beloved Probably not
Captain Kaos
thanks so much for the answer! I can definitely understand why it may be different for particular loved ones.
I think it would like medical doctors in the way they don't perform surgeries on family members or people they know cause they get emotianally involved and that clouds thei judgement and capacities.
Also even if they were allowed I don't most people would want in the sense this time you are the one who is grieving.
"You can't be rain and see the rain at the same time" - Theater metaphor
Personally I wouldn't want anybody other than myself to touch them if it were my beloved.
@@luisrogelio98 yeah, its not actually allowed to treat your own family when they die
These videos help me through really rough times ☹️
Me too.
If you don't mind can you share it so I can try to help or others can help
We are all equal in death, man and woman, child and infant, young and old. Death is the great equalizer it has no favorites and is both cruel and merciful at the same time. When your time has come there are no extensions to be made, no deals to cut, and no more time left to waste. Live your lives to the best of your ability and understand that this life is a very fleeting moment. I only hope that anybody who reads this takes a moment to reflect on their life and ask them self if they did everything in their power to be happy and do what makes them happy. Did they let everyone that they hold dear know how much they love them? And did they have an impact on at least one person? Leave behind legacies friends for times cruelty will remove every other trace of ourselves eventually.
8:17 the advice he gave at the end hit so deep for me. thanks alot for that
Thank you :)
This guy seems perfect for this type of job. Very mindful, respectful, emotionally intelligent, I'm sure he's a great friend to people too.
It's funny how his username is Kaos and he is a super chill dude, love this interview, never thought how was the life of a mortician.
Thank you! :)
@@CaptainKaos A pleasure my dude!
Chaos is relative, anyway. To a default state of turmoil and all that, quietness is technically chaos. To a state of disorder, order itself is chaos, since it destroys the unorder to create order.
Although I realize that that also sounds fake deep and probably is fake deep, but I like it, damnit.
And with Andre as the avatar....my most beloved character in DS.
for anyone who's interested in mortuary talk/death-positive discussions, Ask a Mortician's channel is a great source
Thanks!
She has awesome stories!
Regarding my last comment, I am very happy he discussed the daily life of a mortician and how heavily talking to the families and stuff is. Excellent interview. I am considering being a mortician and this helped alot! It seems like writing recently has pointed me to trying it at least. Keep up the good work guys and I hope everyone is having a good day/night. I'm so glad you're here today❤
4:16 in the Philippines it’s kinda different but similar. We do a mass first in a large church with the coffin and then each of the family (even kids) shake holy water on top of the coffin that has like a glass showing their face. After that, we move the coffin and follow the car that takes the coffin to the burial place.
So nice to listen to someone in the business talk about it for more people to hear! My wife is also a mortician, and even though she works in a smaller city in the US, there are so many similarities. It's really amazing work helping people; I'm super proud of her and have a lot of respect for everyone who does it.
"Did the headstone have a better name than just 1 and 2?"
fucking ruthless
A good interviewer asking the *Real* questions.
Do you ever plan to like hour long interviews?
for conversations that are harder to condense to a 10-20~ minute video, i've been thinking about doing a separate channel/spotify with a podcast like format
Syrmor fuck man, I’d love to see a podcast and you’d have a really unique one since it’s in vrchat
@@syrmor I'd be interested in something like that
@@syrmor that would be amazing
@@syrmor I usually hate podcast, but I might actually enjoy this one
His words are inspiring to me honestly God bless that man and rest in peace to anyone who has died no matter who you are
Thank you!
Your comment on the song that saved me (cold little heart) made me feel much less alone. Thank you
really enjoy that song. no need to thank me! glad you're feeling a little better hope stuff is going OK at least
Syrmor thank you for taking time out of your day to respond. You’re one of the most wholesome creators
I love how the playermodels almost allways fit the voice and the stories. It's very immersive.
this guy has single-handedly encouraged me to pursue a career as a mortician
I grew up in a family than ran a mortuary and went on body calls most my childhood I'd say, yes 100% what this guy said.
Really enjoyed both of the videos. Loss is hard, and getting through it is difficult, but there are always people who care for you. Reach out to them in your time of need, and cry your heart out until you can't cry anymore.
I really like your channel. These are real and serious topics you all cover during your VR chat sessions. It's always nice to see and listen how you all openly talk about your experience, which is quite rare to be found on platforms like youtube, reddit and co. Thanks for uploading these enlightening videos :)
It’s time to watch a cat talk to people about their life
His advise ad the end was pretty simple yet meaningful and powerful. I want to die comfortably knowing that my kids, spouse, and the future of human kind are going to be ok.
"i got so much holy water on me i think i became holy myself" i couldn't stop laughing
WHY ARE THESE ALWAYS SO FASCINATING
I love how....just.....human this series is. Much appreciated. Thank you.
This is such a fascinatingly cool format for deep, vulnerable conversations. Absolutely love what you're doing with this channel and this medium. I also love the way you conscientiously edit bits of levity in at precisely the right moments. These are very well constructed and I love the content. Much appreciation for what you're doing! Keep it up! 💚
I actually really needed to hear the advice at the end
What a really interesting profession I never really payed much thought to! I wonder how current social distancing measures in the US would make the job harder
Syrmor, i fell in love with this series thank you. these are all super real stories and man I can’t get enough of them.
That last bit of advice was probably the most relatable I've gotten from this channel. Very helpful too. Thank you
4:16 in Ireland we do a similar thing but we have the coffin open and it’s usually in a private place eg the persons house or just a building made for that sort of thing, a lot of people don’t know this so I wanted to share it here. If you have questions I can probably answer them.
"Prithee, be careful. I don't want to see my work squandered."
This is a good man, he has so much respect for the dead, but keeps a respectful distance and doesn't let himself get too attached or see them as objects. He's young, I can tell from the voice, so I hope he doesn't become jaded later down the line.
Thank you :) I promise I won't
Your interviews give big lesson about life. Not just this one that makes me think about my mortality and they way I view life, but all I've watch till now.
Love the work you're doing here Symor and crew, love all these previously unheard stories getting some light.
I wish I had VR headset. I got a hell of a story. I'm a survivor of the worst shooting in US history and I was a security guard for it too
Was it Waco? That's the pretty much the only major shooting I can think about that didn't happen in a school.
All you need is a computer and a microphone, you can launch VR Chat in non-vr mode if you download it from Steam
@@josecarioca8785 Las Vegas Oct 1 Massacre
@@CROCUTA98 i ought to give that a shot, thanks man
Darth Vendar yeah bro try and get in touch with syrmor, would be a crazy story
"We're gonna have a weekend at Mort's."
This is my first day watching these videos and man when I tell you I went through emotions a mile a minute I mean It. I was watching some of his other videos and I started going into a dark place that I sometimes find myself slipping back into filled with self-pity, negative thoughts and not feeling like I was allowed to feel those things at the same time. But something about part one and two and the way this man talked through all his thoughts pulled me back and helped me possess my thoughts.
This guys is litteral death. I like that he said that yiu dont have to show grief but you dont show you dont care. Respect.
I loved hearing about the job. My dad used to work with a mortician and he'd tell me stories sometimes.
I've always thought of becoming a mortician weirdly enough. It's interesting hearing him talk about this.
I listen to these like podcasts. It's very new for me to do but lately Its been very helpful for my mind state. I just turn the video on and listen. Seeing the video is more of a bonus. Either way thank you man
I just discovered this channel and it’s better than anything anywhere. Thanks for the content keep being as real as possible 🙏
I thought it would be a good idea to sit down and eat while I watched some videos.
I thought very incorrectly.
Part two lets goooooo
Love this channel so much guys!!! Keep at it
Love these videos! They're really interesting. You're what got me into VRChat, Syrmor
If you name your kid “blah blah blah Bob” he’s going out early and hard.
i clicked faster than flash after seeing this video on my notifications
I’m so happy that your uploading so much
This guy is so unbelievably down to earth and it's honestly inspirational
How do you not just scream into the night to release some of the darkness you stumble unto?
You really get used to it and learn to focus on the more positive things in your life :)
This is pretty coo coo crazy
Just watched the whole thing, wow man.. respect. To the Mortician and to Winnie @syrmor for posting. Amazing content
I like this one a lot honestly was a series time to listin cuz I was supper depressed but helped me realize we all end but just enjoy your life you never know when it will end
I’m actually happy I clicked on this notification
Dude it's
11:30 PM!
That last thing he mentioned about worrying about the now and what you're feeling now. That helped me a great deal. Virtual hug to that man all the way from the US. :)
Finally, the second part! Thanks!
I wish you asked him how he feels about handling the death of younger people - or maybe people his age.
The first few times were hard, now I don't care anymore although it is sad to see every time
Hi Symore I really enjoy your videos man :) maybe This comment was a little too cheerful for the theme of the video
Love your interviews keep the good work! :)
Those shots from 6:04 onwards fit really well with the mood and tone of the story being told.
hmm... 10:30pm.. ill be fine
oh... im drinking soda too. i don't think thisll be fine
Me, who goes to sleep when the sun arises: *oMG sYɹmOr y r u uploaᵈⁱⁿg so late?!1!1?*
"Lmao coolkid69 hes probably some 9 year old nerd XD"
The Coolkid69: I witnessed a brutal murder and then my job was to collect the dead bodies.
I think that last one advice was really wise and maybe what I needed to hear. I loved the 2 videos
"The Smoke Gets In Your Eyes" is a great book about this same subject.
I couldn’t do this job dude idk how he does it.
You get used to it I guess
If it was me I’d just compartmentalize work and regular life. Just completely detach from work when you’re in your life
Damn it I’m too early
I keep coming back to your channel once and awhile, I love it keep it up man...from a fellow Canadian
The advice at the end really helps thanks for that