It’s never okay to date a married person even if they say they are going to divorce their partner. I wish people would stop doing that. If nothing else, why would you want to be with someone who you know is lying to their partner? That just means they will have no problem lying to you too.
I have enough Dignity and Respect for myself to BEVER be an Option for anyone, nomatter how much I loved them, whether it was Me v Football or Me v Other Supply if I knew about them and especially had evidence. If my conscience tells me I've done absolutely nothing to deserve his cheating, or constantly cancelling dates etc so he could watch Football I'd be gone. Period. 🍒
They always think the wives are the ones without dignity. Most of the wives just don't know, and if they did ,they'd probably leave quicker than the other women who choose to be used . The narc spends so much effort and time lying to his wife and covering his trail. It's super disgusting. These freaks of nature make me sick🤮
I met a guy who love bombed and future faked me and never told me for 10 months that he is married. He came to my dinner events alone and never wore a ring. He wanted to "spend time together" with me and be a great team together. Are these married people delusional? what do they think they can actually achieve? He was always under a time limit whenever he was out with me. He could only meet between.2 to 6 pm. How do they think they can actually even have an affair like this?
I have noticed that some ppl I dated or tried to did have booty calls and were actually open talking about how they did with me. Then I had an ex who I've been broke up with for the last 3 yrs, had nerve to take me to meet one of their "used to be" booty calls after we just got back together and it upset me when when they told me that's who they were when we showed to the function we went too and they looked at me like I was crazy for not appreciating meeting them. Not to mention they kept hidden booty calls in their phone and work and so I couldn't pin point when they cheated until they end of our relationship when I basically caught them by them coming home from work later and later every day until we broke up. They decided to be "done" because they got caught. Still lied to me after the break up. They kept throwing red flags out there but it just wasn't enough to prove them cheating visual, it was their actions that clearly screamed they were. So yea I can safely say that yes narcs steady keep disposable booty calls in their privacy. It makes them feel powerful and that they are "better than you" because they pull ppl into their trap. Not even thinking that you can't. I've noticed too that the booty calls they keep are not that attractive and simple minded hoeish individuals. They seem to enjoy destroying ppl lives they are around just so they can say "look at me, look at me, picking up trash ass ppl over you". Hahahahaha...😑🙄
I’m not quite sure how anyone can not know someone is married there will always be a trace of a spouse somewhere and most the time when these woman are approached by the narcs main these woman believe the main is insecure and that they are filling the needs the main is not and this is where the new supply screws up thinking they won someone else’s partner and I’m sorry but I don’t want no one else’s partner so no I cant seem to understand why others would willingly involve themselves
@@RawMotivations It wasn't my fault, no. His actions are his own. But I'm the one he's targeting because I'm the one that stood up to him for the both of us. So even when the nightmare ends, it doesn't. Not really.
@@GTrading8 yea but it gets old. Keep it to 20 or 30 seconds as an intro. Watch any successfully engaged creator - they don't spend 3 mins every video.
I get where you’re coming from , but keep in mind the very thing he does is more than just educational videos. He has a longer intro to make sure people who are struggling have an outlet to get help
Fast Forward I say. Like MaxyX21X mentioned providing the information of where to go to receive support is very essential. Especially keeping in mind some people might be joining for the first time. Ben keep those intros up those are the foundation of platforms that allow for you to share your content. My opinion
I am the ex wife and I am still very much in a trauma bond. We talk and spend time alone. I know of her and she doesn’t. He says it works to his advantage because she doesn’t question his visits with his children. I’m not proud of myself but I’m recognizing that this is extremely toxic and negative. Our marriage was a nightmare.
There's NO WAY on this Earth I'd want to be an Option. If she doesn't know about you, yet you know about her, it seems a little one-sided and u fair. This man of yours seems to want to have his Cake and eat it. Children or not.
This is super toxic. You will never win this way or break your trauma bond. Some people use trauma bonds as an excuse to stay stuck. You will eventually wake up when she's done with him, and he chooses someone else, and you're still playing his toy. Sadly, he probably cheats on both of you guys. He didn't value you when he was married to you, and he clearly still doesn't. You're giving him you for nothing, like he is playing with you😐
Why date A MARRIED MAN there so many man out there. Have respect for yourself and the other woman and tell him to decide first, before you ever start something with this men. That's where women goes wrong. We need to support each other, instead of constantly competing with each other. Specially when it comes to men with no value or proper morals. Stop being selfish and also think the hurt you are causing someone else. 💯
My narc’s new supply knows he is married and sleeps around with escorts. She used that as a tool to have him stay around when they had an argument and he tried to cut her off. She said that I wasn’t giving him attention and he would have to go back to escorts without her. Now they live together. I can’t wrap my head around how they think what they are doing is okay.
Stone hearted, he COMPLETELY lacked self control. As the former partner, lied for the past 11 months, with this NEW SOUL LOVE. He buried truth, would have keep the side car if I had not found out! Now she can have the parasite. With the Pink cloud recovery(1 yr., after 15 yrs of drink), help this victim as his callous love bombing, his future faking, and trauma patterns are NEVER changing. "Why should I change for anybody, they should just love my contast needs. Oh did YOU forget I am your HERO" So glad to remove toxic person from my mind,body & heart
It’s never okay to date a married person even if they say they are going to divorce their partner. I wish people would stop doing that. If nothing else, why would you want to be with someone who you know is lying to their partner? That just means they will have no problem lying to you too.
Make sense!
I have enough Dignity and Respect for myself to BEVER be an Option for anyone, nomatter how much I loved them, whether it was Me v Football or Me v Other Supply if I knew about them and especially had evidence. If my conscience tells me I've done absolutely nothing to deserve his cheating, or constantly cancelling dates etc so he could watch Football I'd be gone. Period. 🍒
They always think the wives are the ones without dignity. Most of the wives just don't know, and if they did ,they'd probably leave quicker than the other women who choose to be used . The narc spends so much effort and time lying to his wife and covering his trail. It's super disgusting. These freaks of nature make me sick🤮
I met a guy who love bombed and future faked me and never told me for 10 months that he is married. He came to my dinner events alone and never wore a ring. He wanted to "spend time together" with me and be a great team together. Are these married people delusional? what do they think they can actually achieve? He was always under a time limit whenever he was out with me. He could only meet between.2 to 6 pm. How do they think they can actually even have an affair like this?
Thank you for talking about this side of things.
Thanks for watching!
I have noticed that some ppl I dated or tried to did have booty calls and were actually open talking about how they did with me. Then I had an ex who I've been broke up with for the last 3 yrs, had nerve to take me to meet one of their "used to be" booty calls after we just got back together and it upset me when when they told me that's who they were when we showed to the function we went too and they looked at me like I was crazy for not appreciating meeting them. Not to mention they kept hidden booty calls in their phone and work and so I couldn't pin point when they cheated until they end of our relationship when I basically caught them by them coming home from work later and later every day until we broke up. They decided to be "done" because they got caught. Still lied to me after the break up. They kept throwing red flags out there but it just wasn't enough to prove them cheating visual, it was their actions that clearly screamed they were. So yea I can safely say that yes narcs steady keep disposable booty calls in their privacy. It makes them feel powerful and that they are "better than you" because they pull ppl into their trap. Not even thinking that you can't. I've noticed too that the booty calls they keep are not that attractive and simple minded hoeish individuals. They seem to enjoy destroying ppl lives they are around just so they can say "look at me, look at me, picking up trash ass ppl over you". Hahahahaha...😑🙄
Hey
They are married
Let me repeat
They are married
My narc will not let me on his FB as a friend and his status is single. Having an affair sounds completely accurate
I’m not quite sure how anyone can not know someone is married there will always be a trace of a spouse somewhere and most the time when these woman are approached by the narcs main these woman believe the main is insecure and that they are filling the needs the main is not and this is where the new supply screws up thinking they won someone else’s partner and I’m sorry but I don’t want no one else’s partner so no I cant seem to understand why others would willingly involve themselves
Your insights on this topic have been so helpful and informative, thank you for sharing them with us!
I was the one who didn't know. I suspected, but I never could pin him. She(main supply gf) actually messaged me
Hope you are doing better, it wasnt your fault!
@@RawMotivations It wasn't my fault, no. His actions are his own. But I'm the one he's targeting because I'm the one that stood up to him for the both of us. So even when the nightmare ends, it doesn't. Not really.
Can you do some videos where you don't do your 3 min intro of everything you do? Most subscribers just want the info regarding the title sometimes.
Just foward it
@@GTrading8 yea but it gets old. Keep it to 20 or 30 seconds as an intro. Watch any successfully engaged creator - they don't spend 3 mins every video.
Just fast forward past it.
I get where you’re coming from , but keep in mind the very thing he does is more than just educational videos. He has a longer intro to make sure people who are struggling have an outlet to get help
Fast Forward I say. Like MaxyX21X mentioned providing the information of where to go to receive support is very essential. Especially keeping in mind some people might be joining for the first time. Ben keep those intros up those are the foundation of platforms that allow for you to share your content. My opinion
I am the ex wife and I am still very much in a trauma bond. We talk and spend time alone.
I know of her and she doesn’t. He says it works to his advantage because she doesn’t question his visits with his children.
I’m not proud of myself but I’m recognizing that this is extremely toxic and negative.
Our marriage was a nightmare.
There's NO WAY on this Earth I'd want to be an Option. If she doesn't know about you, yet you know about her, it seems a little one-sided and u fair. This man of yours seems to want to have his Cake and eat it. Children or not.
He’s using you trust me I’m a narc 😢
This is super toxic. You will never win this way or break your trauma bond. Some people use trauma bonds as an excuse to stay stuck. You will eventually wake up when she's done with him, and he chooses someone else, and you're still playing his toy. Sadly, he probably cheats on both of you guys. He didn't value you when he was married to you, and he clearly still doesn't. You're giving him you for nothing, like he is playing with you😐
@@GTrading8 there's an oxymoron for you "Trust me, I'm a Narc"! 😆
For the love of yourself, put up as much distance as you can.
You deserve and are worth so much more.
Why date A MARRIED MAN there so many man out there. Have respect for yourself and the other woman and tell him to decide first, before you ever start something with this men. That's where women goes wrong. We need to support each other, instead of constantly competing with each other. Specially when it comes to men with no value or proper morals. Stop being selfish and also think the hurt you are causing someone else. 💯
Yes
Say it Louder for the woman who think it is ok even after being approached
My narc’s new supply knows he is married and sleeps around with escorts. She used that as a tool to have him stay around when they had an argument and he tried to cut her off. She said that I wasn’t giving him attention and he would have to go back to escorts without her.
Now they live together. I can’t wrap my head around how they think what they are doing is okay.
Stone hearted, he COMPLETELY lacked self control. As the former partner, lied for the past 11 months, with this NEW SOUL LOVE. He buried truth, would have keep the side car if I had not found out! Now she can have the parasite. With the Pink cloud recovery(1 yr., after 15 yrs of drink), help this victim as his callous love bombing, his future faking, and trauma patterns are NEVER changing. "Why should I change for anybody, they should just love my contast needs. Oh did YOU forget I am your HERO" So glad to remove toxic person from my mind,body & heart
The dirty little secret that is his wife meaning me