Sounds just like him all the way! Whenever I try to approach him about anything at all. He shuts down and just plain won't listen at all. It drives me crazy anymore! I'm ready to pull my hair out anymore.
Very true. Mine considered it to be love because I was his favorite and he slept in my bed every night. He couldn't understand why I had a problem with that. Why wasn't I grateful? Don't you see what I'm doing for you? How can you not believe me when I say I love you. They truly are in the dark about their toxic behaviors
Everything I did had to be for the purpose of their greater glory. As long as I was being an asset to that I was tolerated. If I upset the balance I was severely punished.
Thanks for all of your content Ben! Always insightful, clear and concise. And always accurate as to my experiences where I’m nodding my head saying “yep! Yesss! Yep!” In agreement because it’s all 100% relatable. It’s like my therapy in a sense lol 😂 Unfortunately, I’m stuck dealing with the narcissist who has been wreaking havoc in my life for over 11 years, because he’s my 7 year old’s father. ( to be clear, no regrets to having my daughter she is the best thing to ever happen to me!) Oh boyyy..the crazy ass stories I could tell 🤔 would trip people out lol. Your perspective gives me better perspective. Thanks
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We made plans to hangout on a Saturday she was going to call when she got up, 3pm came around all my texts were still on delivered and no call, finally getting fed up that this happened way too often in the course of two and a half months I decided to look into it, found her car at somebody's house, didn't tell her I knew already 830pm came around she picked up the phone, she was doing laundry at her ex-husband's house all day and forgot that we were going to hang out but you would call me tomorrow morning "Sunday" on the way to the gym her car was at the same house at 5am... Didn't get a hold of her till Tuesday, she said she was sick Sunday called in sick from work on Monday and barely made it to work on Tuesday, when I got upset I was taking her "doing laundry way too seriously" 🤦🤔 WTF!!!!
@@RawMotivations3 months after telling me he hates me he did a reverse discard. Then kept calling me up and turned my friend into his flying monkey and did triangulation between her and I. He wanted to chat to make out he is the victim and make out I'm so black hearted and a blackmailer. I kept sending him screenshots of his text messages and proved everything was lies and future faking. He couldn't handle me showing him proof so he kept calling me a blackmailer. I went completely quiet on him just over a month ago. I think he doesn't believe yet that I'm gone for good. Everything turned out to be future faking, relentless lies, manipulation, verbal/emotional/pshycoligical abuse and betrayal, there is no reason to stay. He got himself hooked on cannabis and alchohol and who knows what other substances and picked up hepatitis B from sleeping around relentlessly. Now he is married to a woman that can get him Canadian papers. My use and "value" is therefore over because I just come from a "measly" country like South Africa ..... he wants Canada and will plunder and deceive to get it.
My advice is Run while you can if you have no kids together-for the sake of your own well-being. I truly believe you’ll be happier once you get to the other side
Can be many things. They may not be bothered at all because they don’t care or they maybe like- how dare they ignore me and start being all creepy and stalkerish sending flying monkeys n all that or just become quiet for some more time and try again. Maybe depends on the type of narc.
@@RosaR-dd6vb he may already be seeing someone else so he may not come back or he may try again trying to gain your sympathy somehow. My ex also tried to reach me using sympathy twice. Once I didn’t know about all this, never heard about narcissism so I went back and got treated badly, silent treatment and rude words and it was terrible but now I know so when he tried again I just ignored. He tried last week through my brother and tried calling me directly but I have him blocked everywhere. I just hope he stays away for good.
@@RosaR-dd6vb we just have to become mentally strong and love ourself. Then it just won’t matter to us how they are who they’re with, will they come back etc etc. nothing about them will matter. Just peace and happiness
Can you help an narcissist and if the chances are small what are the advice? I made him cry has I know his weakness I tell him like you described he will walk away and say like you said I don't want to talk about it... but I wont let go ill keep at him until i break him down again . Do you think I can get through him with this technique?
Need your advice, I stumbled on a video that I feel largely being a big success on helping a narcissist and ourself as victims and I need your opinion please I'll post the link next
A Narc doesn't care if we feel they treat us wrongly. All they care about is getting their needs met. 🍒
Exactly, and nothing will get in their way ..... until karma strikes
Spot on
Sounds just like him all the way! Whenever I try to approach him about anything at all. He shuts down and just plain won't listen at all. It drives me crazy anymore! I'm ready to pull my hair out anymore.
Very true. Mine considered it to be love because I was his favorite and he slept in my bed every night. He couldn't understand why I had a problem with that. Why wasn't I grateful? Don't you see what I'm doing for you? How can you not believe me when I say I love you. They truly are in the dark about their toxic behaviors
Thanks for sharing, hope you are healing from all these and finding an environment the love that you deserve
Oh. They fucking know. They just don't care.
Leave them don't take offence and let them sink themselves
Everything I did had to be for the purpose of their greater glory. As long as I was being an asset to that I was tolerated. If I upset the balance I was severely punished.
It evan goes deeper i beleive they have a demon in them literally.
Facts!
Thanks for all of your content Ben! Always insightful, clear and concise. And always accurate as to my experiences where I’m nodding my head saying “yep! Yesss! Yep!” In agreement because it’s all 100% relatable. It’s like my therapy in a sense lol 😂 Unfortunately, I’m stuck dealing with the narcissist who has been wreaking havoc in my life for over 11 years, because he’s my 7 year old’s father. ( to be clear, no regrets to having my daughter she is the best thing to ever happen to me!)
Oh boyyy..the crazy ass stories I could tell 🤔 would trip people out lol.
Your perspective gives me better perspective. Thanks
I’m glad to know that thank you always for the support Tiffany!
Omg This is everything that’s happening in my relationship
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We made plans to hangout on a Saturday she was going to call when she got up, 3pm came around all my texts were still on delivered and no call, finally getting fed up that this happened way too often in the course of two and a half months I decided to look into it, found her car at somebody's house, didn't tell her I knew already 830pm came around she picked up the phone, she was doing laundry at her ex-husband's house all day and forgot that we were going to hang out but you would call me tomorrow morning "Sunday" on the way to the gym her car was at the same house at 5am... Didn't get a hold of her till Tuesday, she said she was sick Sunday called in sick from work on Monday and barely made it to work on Tuesday, when I got upset I was taking her "doing laundry way too seriously" 🤦🤔 WTF!!!!
Your amazing!!!
You too!!
We have different ideas of what love is 😢
Love does not hurt
Hurt people, hurt people. Read this agian. It is the truth.
Well ..... he did tell me he hates me
Hates you but wont leave?
😢
@@RawMotivations3 months after telling me he hates me he did a reverse discard. Then kept calling me up and turned my friend into his flying monkey and did triangulation between her and I. He wanted to chat to make out he is the victim and make out I'm so black hearted and a blackmailer. I kept sending him screenshots of his text messages and proved everything was lies and future faking. He couldn't handle me showing him proof so he kept calling me a blackmailer. I went completely quiet on him just over a month ago. I think he doesn't believe yet that I'm gone for good. Everything turned out to be future faking, relentless lies, manipulation, verbal/emotional/pshycoligical abuse and betrayal, there is no reason to stay. He got himself hooked on cannabis and alchohol and who knows what other substances and picked up hepatitis B from sleeping around relentlessly. Now he is married to a woman that can get him Canadian papers. My use and "value" is therefore over because I just come from a "measly" country like South Africa ..... he wants Canada and will plunder and deceive to get it.
My advice is Run while you can if you have no kids together-for the sake of your own well-being. I truly believe you’ll be happier once you get to the other side
@@tiffanygriffin8647 that's exactly what I did. I see him now as completely fake and abusive
How does a narcissist feel after they try to hoover you one time and they aren’t successful?
Can be many things. They may not be bothered at all because they don’t care or they maybe like- how dare they ignore me and start being all creepy and stalkerish sending flying monkeys n all that or just become quiet for some more time and try again. Maybe depends on the type of narc.
@@smithashekhar9539 am sure he's a covert narc
@@RosaR-dd6vb he may already be seeing someone else so he may not come back or he may try again trying to gain your sympathy somehow.
My ex also tried to reach me using sympathy twice. Once I didn’t know about all this, never heard about narcissism so I went back and got treated badly, silent treatment and rude words and it was terrible but now I know so when he tried again I just ignored. He tried last week through my brother and tried calling me directly but I have him blocked everywhere.
I just hope he stays away for good.
@@RosaR-dd6vb we just have to become mentally strong and love ourself. Then it just won’t matter to us how they are who they’re with, will they come back etc etc. nothing about them will matter.
Just peace and happiness
th-cam.com/video/qZsSamYJ2XQ/w-d-xo.html Hope this video helps
Can you help an narcissist and if the chances are small what are the advice?
I made him cry has I know his weakness I tell him like you described he will walk away and say like you said I don't want to talk about it... but I wont let go ill keep at him until i break him down again . Do you think I can get through him with this technique?
Hope this video helps th-cam.com/video/PP9n1n-9lhk/w-d-xo.html
Need your advice, I stumbled on a video that I feel largely being a big success on helping a narcissist and ourself as victims and I need your opinion please I'll post the link next