Because they lose their punching bag they don’t see her as a person rather an object to beat on to make themselves feel better I Guarantee you that after op left the golden child became the punching bag.
@@jacobnelson2480 Of course most do…it’s just a story that people readily respond to. Perhaps out of similarities with their own stories or they have the freedom here to let others know their personal feelings/ opinions on this type of scenario.
@@superiorrule34 this, my older sister lost her crap when I told her to get lost from my life altogether after she tried to get me to move in with her in a different country. Hell no to that
Story #1: The logical part of me is telling me that was wrong, but I just can't bring myself to care enough to feel guilty. Ummm... No. That is NOT the logical part of you. That is the doormat part of you.
She gave her mildly darker shade sister BLEACH.. Besides that triple meaning that could come from it, she also demanded her clothes she felt "didn't fit her"... the parents are no better and only mad their punching bag is gone so turned to her.
@@CG-yb6zj my wife (a Filipina) did it right up until we got married. She doesn’t get as upset now as she did back then when she gets darker after spending time outside. Watch their Television shows and what their actors look like. It’s still going on, one of our nieces is actually doing it right now.
@Odd_Interaction I know it's still rampant in Africa, which is why the before vs during pregnancy vids popular now are annoying and really fear mongering cuz they're leaving out the important facts that they're faces and necks are now only bloated, blackened, and full of acne cuz: 1. They stayed using filter 2. The bleaching cream and makeup they used prior are NOT to be used while pregnant, and they're only "ugly" as the new hormones darken them faster (returning to normal), and acne bad as their pours are clogged from all the creams and makeup. I haven't heard the same happening in Asia or if it's still hush over there about, but know they use the 'moon' filters a lot for those that bleaching don't work on
I just want to say mil is the mvp. She saw her daughter being attacked and RESPONDED. When op said the husband told her brother to throw mil a party, I was low-key, hoping for an update that it happened.
I honestly think that suicide should be legal, you should be able to walk into a hospital and request it, as long as you sign up to become an organ donor, this fixes the organ shortage all around the world, giving people who want to live a chance to live, and letting those who want to die, die a painless death under professional control, it is perfect, unfortunately people seem to view suicide in a bad light for some reason.
I remember st2 She not only partially tried to destroy his life by illegally evicting him, lied to the police to try to get him arrested, tried to get him fired from his job and tried to turn his friends against him but she and her partner were drink driving and could have killed an innocent person with them, why would OP have any sympathy for them, she and her partner was selfish with their actions. Her parents are horribly themselves trying to guilt their son-in-law especially knowing what their daughter put him through. Why should OP sell the house, it’s now his house, that she kicked him out of illegally.
Even if it's his again there's still memories of her there and what she did. It might be easier for OP to sell that house and be free from all of that then try to start a new there. But that's on him some people are able to separate a place from bad memories easier than others.
Op 2 is an abuse victim, just because the abuser is gone now doesn't mean they are okay. No one should expect them to cry over it, or really feel much at all, seeing as emotional exhaustion is a thing.
Story 2's OP may not be ethical, but I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't be celebrating in the exact same situation. People who set out to destroy the people THEY cheated on are just the worst.
OPs still being nice in the end. He's giving her family a bit of money for a funeral. Plus handling shipping the wife's stuff to their storage. I wouldn't have done any of it. That accident would be the greatest thing for me. They can come and get her stuff. Just pay for the cremation with the cheapest container. They want a funeral,take up a collection. I would treat myself to small getaway. That insurance money would be put to my debts. I would want to get a new place to live. Probably rent that house out.
How is he not ethical? What’s wrong with not caring or even celebrating that people that objectively made the world a worse place are no longer in it? As far as the ex’s parents, they’re crap people too based on the story - there was evidence the ex was lying, that they saw/knew of, and they still supported her actions.
@@LegendStormcrow I had a friend who worked at a crematorium, and he said that the ashes you're given are only from the deceased. Perhaps other countries' procedures are not so diligent and caring?
Second story: why are people mad at him for breathing a sigh of relief after a horrible year of dealing with the burden of his ex-wife? Let that man be in peace
His wife and her lover weren’t the only ones who died in that car crash. An innocent child lost its life too. His complete lack of concern for the baby’s death is (I think) the most concerning part
@@emmawilliams8119he doesn't owe the unborn baby to care. He is just indifferent about it. Which is understandable because it was for so long a sign of his ex betrayal.
@@emmawilliams8119who know what sort of behavior they would encourage. So better 2 bad people and a blank then 3 bad people and who knows how many more
@@taetannim3581 No it's not, if you don't want the people you wronged to spread the word then don't go around being awful, she's lucky op waited until she died
@@taetannim3581Overtly evil people do not get that honor of humanity. In S2 OPs tormentor of an ex with evidence of her deeds lost that honor by dehumanizing OP.
Story 1: People who threatened suicide like that aren't actually suicidal. It's just a control tactic. Sister wants life to back to the way it was: where it was okay to bully and abuse her sister without consequences to herself. OP ain't no idiot for replying "go ahead" to a coward who is finally getting a taste of the reality she subjected OP through. After all, OP wasn't born to be her or her parents emotional punching bag.
In the first story. I wonder did the sister tell some mad story to the ex. Which is why they ended hooking up and when OP ran off he discovered the truth and is why he dumped her.
S1: when someone uses their own life as leverage to try and control you, just Remember, you are not responsible for their own actions and call their bluff; S2: she tried to destroy you, narcissists will attempt to destroy anyone who leaves them or people they consider expendable (which is everyone), the fact that she was married to you doesn't matter, it's clear you never knew the real her, so why cry over a stranger?
Story #1 I’m so glad OP had a good life and people who love her enough to defend and stick up for her. Story #2 The monster is gone, the nightmare is over. OP can start healing.
Story 1: Violence is almost never the answer. Every once in a while, however, it is lol. No matter how much you try to talk it out with certain people, they'll never understand anyone's feelings but their own. Everyone understands the threat of a broken nose, though :) Story 2: it is really unfortunate that 3 people had to die in order for OP's life to not be a living hell...but, I mean, that just means there's not oxygen being wasted on those trash humans, so 🤷♀️ Story 3: it's amazing to me the lengths some people will go to in order make others as miserable as they are instead of taking accountability for their own unhappiness and trying to do better
Story 1: Bar-Jesus!! What a horrible family (minus Cam). They needed OP as supply to project their superiority complexes onto and abuse. Once OP rightfully left for the sake of her dignity and self respect, they got to see how insignificant they really are and couldn’t handle it. So they had to reach out to OP to suck her back into their abusive lair, because how dare OP move on to live an awesome life while they’re miserable with their golden child’s entitlement issues. Her husband knew what was up and that’s why he left Christy…
S1: I wish more people responded to toxic family or partners like that. What Christy was doing was manipulation. Even OP pointed it out. S2: Another toxic person getting karma? Enjoy yourself OP🍷🍹 🎊
S1: OP, you are not in the wrong here. Her life is hers to do with as she wishes. I’m surprised after all the smart moves you made that you left Facebook open for her or your worthless family to track you down. I’ve been full NC with my parents and four of my golden siblings since 1976. I have heard that now that they are older and have no grandchildren other than mine that they have been trying to get in touch with me. Not going to happen, not in this life or any other life. Stick to your guns and stay far away from you so called blood family.
@@avaphynx is a HUGE thing in a lot of Latin American countries. I think the biggest example of that is the Dominican Republic. Sammy Sosa, a Dominican, famously was accused of lightening his skin.
Story 1 - sadly this still happens alot with black families. Were if everyone is lighter while some are darker or where some are lighter and everyone else is darker. Its horrible people keep being toxic about it. Also the reason why the family was upset was in the mom and sisters minds, that op was meant to be live in maid and do everything for sister. Since they ignoredd all of ops achievements. Also i doubt that will be the end narcissist family members never give up. More so when they know you have money and are living better then them. Story 2 - thats just all kinds of effed up. Wife ruined op's life and had them kicked out and lost their job. I question if op was a nice guy or not. But seems karam happened and sadly 3 people lost their lives. I think it was people pointing it out to him that made him realize he was being heartless. I think ops lawyer told him to do as much as he is for the ex's family. Story 3 - step sister sounds like a golden child that is used to getting their way. Shes mad op has her ex. Tired turing the family on op which is sad because they knew op her whole life. Some believed the sob story. But those might be people who enjoy the drama.
There is no doubt in my mind that Sarah views Tim as "the one that got away" and is angry that OP is now living what should've been HER life so she's trying various schemes to "take back her man"
Christy had been living life on easy mode for the first 18 years, only to find out that she's not as special as Mommy and Daddy made her believe once it was time for adult life.
S2: As for the baby, why should OP feel bad for it when it's the product of cheating and not HIS so he have no emotional tie to it. And for those who said OP is heartless, it's none of your business like are you the father or the mother to it? Why do you care so much for a yet to be borned human, miscarriage happens all the time and if anything karma did it a favor and saved it from having cheaters as parents maybe one will cheat again and leave it with a shitty childhood.
If someone takes this step, it's not your fault. They are trying to control someone. If they go through with it, it's on them. She loves herself to much to do as she threatened. She just wants her punching bag back. 2. Not the jerk.
Last story, sara is a lying narcissist who Just wants to ruin your and Tim s life... She needs to do a Dna test to tell Who the baby s father really is. I would ignore and go No Contact on your Family with backing Sara..Live your best life without these toxic people..... Sara is not a good person..
Sadly, "Go ahead" is the only correct answer. If they themself are not the number one supporter of their own survival, everything will go downhill. Once you take that from them, they will NEVER improve. And how that you have to take care of two lifes, yours will go downhill two.
I'm really shocked by how siblim favoratism is common. As someone from Africa, this is unthinkable & I'm absolutely shaken by how many favoartism stories I've read about. Definitely a cultural thing
Story 1: The age difference isn't that rare. I know a brother and sister who were born the same year but one in January and the other in November. There's a sad history behind skin bleaching, Jamaica especially has an epidemic. (Unrelated) People should try loving themselves first, nothing selfish about that. Bleaching, bbl, Botox... worse thing people can do to themselves. Except for burn victim or abuse victims. There's nothing shameful or selfish about loving yourself. Doing it too much and annoying about it is. Story 2: the title is a bit cruel and misleading. He isn't wrong in his reactions but one should never celebrate another's death regardless of who they are or what they did to you. Karma is a b*tch and she's always lurking.
Judge me if you’d like, but I’ve never been able to understand why celebrating the death of someone who’s been monstrous to you is supposedly fodder for karmic retribution. 1) Karma isn’t real 2) Even if it was, what’s the logic here? Is it just the idea that it’s your burden to act nice and keep the peace no matter how much abuse you go through? Is it the idea that being ‘mean’ is somehow “just as bad” as deliberately putting someone through hell?
You couldn't have moved Emma with a tow truck. She had spent years figuring out what she wanted to say to your parents if she ever got the chance and you could not have stopped her. She just decided that hitting her was better than words lol
The fact that the sister threatened to kill herself to get OP to respond means the sister isnt going to do it. Truly suicidal people don't tell anyone if they're actually serious about it.
Op should move back home aswell as take the life insurance. Tell the family her stuff is being dropped off at yours on day x after block her and move on
The bleach as a gift isn't telling her to kill herself, it's telling her to lighten her skin to be considered prettier bc skin bleaching is an actual part of a thr black beauty industry
OP #3 better receive a sincere apology from her parents before even entertaining reconnecting with them. They tried to destroy her relationship with her future husband 🤨
s3: I think OP is kind of an AH here. Not because of how she handled the stepsister, but because of how she talks the father of the child. How is he a deadbeat? He appears to have solid work, he wants to be in his kid's life so much that he's willing to reach out to her relatives and he helped OP out with clearing up the whole situation. Is he a deadbeat because he doesn't want to be together with the clearly mentally disturbed stepsister? Or because he had a one night stand or possibly casual relationship with the stepsister?
That's what the stepsister calls him not op, Because op doesn't believe that but the stepsister calls him that, when in reality she lied to him and use him and his unborn child to harass tim, so it's not op saying she is just repeating back what the stepsister calls him.
He could have changed his mind and left after the baby was born. OP isn’t a part of their lives, and has no mutual connections, so Christie’s Facebook update is all OP had to go off.
Last story: I don't think they know what "deadbeat" means. If the guy said that the girl told him that she was going to get an abortion, then that doesn't make him a deadbeat that just makes him a guy that assume that the girl he knocked up got an abortion. He reached out after he found out to let them know that he was the child's father that doesn't make him a deadbeat so I don't know why Opie is still labeling him as a deadbeat. To me Opie is a doormat and she's quite stupid towards her family she allows them to run all over her and doesn't take up for herself.
For that first story with the bleach for the spa kit, I think she should’ve said that’s very sweet of you, but I think that we should do this together and since you’re older that you can go ahead and show me how to use the bleach and everything moving forward. So then she had to admit to her parents that she couldn’t use it.
My sister is the darkest in our family… we exalt her over all the other family memebers. As she is the most beautiful. She was born super light then darkened up over time and my God she’s the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen. Dare I say it I am so jealous, she’s got the most beautiful chocolate skin with no blemishes she’s a Barbie who doesn’t cheerleading. I could gush about my little sister forever! I just know that mine is far more ethereal than yours could ever hope to be.
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Crazy that you mistreat someone for no reason and then you get upset when they leave
Because they lose their punching bag they don’t see her as a person rather an object to beat on to make themselves feel better I Guarantee you that after op left the golden child became the punching bag.
I had the same issue with my sister. I wasn't even allowed to keep living there after 18, I was kicked out, I didn't abandon shit
Golden child misses her punching bag.
@@jacobnelson2480 Of course most do…it’s just a story that people readily respond to. Perhaps out of similarities with their own stories or they have the freedom here to let others know their personal feelings/ opinions on this type of scenario.
@@superiorrule34 this, my older sister lost her crap when I told her to get lost from my life altogether after she tried to get me to move in with her in a different country. Hell no to that
Story 3 - Sister is a nutcase.
Story #1: The logical part of me is telling me that was wrong, but I just can't bring myself to care enough to feel guilty.
Ummm... No. That is NOT the logical part of you. That is the doormat part of you.
OP1'S MIL IS THE 🐐
😂😂😂
Agreed😄👍! G.O.A.T. and MVP, all the way🥳.
Yes!
😂👍 mil is a boss
“I should have hit her harder” took me outttttt 🤣💀
She gave her mildly darker shade sister BLEACH.. Besides that triple meaning that could come from it, she also demanded her clothes she felt "didn't fit her"... the parents are no better and only mad their punching bag is gone so turned to her.
And said lighten up when she was offended.
Sadly that is popular here in the Philippines.
Light skin is supposedly more attractive.
@@Odd_Interaction Jesus 😮💨
@@CG-yb6zj my wife (a Filipina) did it right up until we got married. She doesn’t get as upset now as she did back then when she gets darker after spending time outside.
Watch their Television shows and what their actors look like.
It’s still going on, one of our nieces is actually doing it right now.
@Odd_Interaction I know it's still rampant in Africa, which is why the before vs during pregnancy vids popular now are annoying and really fear mongering cuz they're leaving out the important facts that they're faces and necks are now only bloated, blackened, and full of acne cuz: 1. They stayed using filter 2. The bleaching cream and makeup they used prior are NOT to be used while pregnant, and they're only "ugly" as the new hormones darken them faster (returning to normal), and acne bad as their pours are clogged from all the creams and makeup. I haven't heard the same happening in Asia or if it's still hush over there about, but know they use the 'moon' filters a lot for those that bleaching don't work on
I just want to say mil is the mvp. She saw her daughter being attacked and RESPONDED. When op said the husband told her brother to throw mil a party, I was low-key, hoping for an update that it happened.
if you have text proof of the suicide threat, you can always call the cops with it as proof
You don’t need proof to call a wellness check
@@ButchPleaseImFabuloustext can be used to force a 5150 pysc hold and assessment
Story 1 Don't let her back in your life I'm in my 60s and the only dark one. They haven't changed 20+years good years without them in my life
I honestly think that suicide should be legal, you should be able to walk into a hospital and request it, as long as you sign up to become an organ donor, this fixes the organ shortage all around the world, giving people who want to live a chance to live, and letting those who want to die, die a painless death under professional control, it is perfect, unfortunately people seem to view suicide in a bad light for some reason.
I remember st2
She not only partially tried to destroy his life by illegally evicting him, lied to the police to try to get him arrested, tried to get him fired from his job and tried to turn his friends against him but she and her partner were drink driving and could have killed an innocent person with them, why would OP have any sympathy for them, she and her partner was selfish with their actions.
Her parents are horribly themselves trying to guilt their son-in-law especially knowing what their daughter put him through.
Why should OP sell the house, it’s now his house, that she kicked him out of illegally.
I think the commenter that mentioned selling the house was thinking in terms of a fresh start for OP.
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Even if it's his again there's still memories of her there and what she did.
It might be easier for OP to sell that house and be free from all of that then try to start a new there. But that's on him some people are able to separate a place from bad memories easier than others.
Op 2 is an abuse victim, just because the abuser is gone now doesn't mean they are okay.
No one should expect them to cry over it, or really feel much at all, seeing as emotional exhaustion is a thing.
Story 1 OP is incredibly based. People who threaten sewer slide to get someone's attention only deserve to responded to with "Bet."
Or "do a flip when you jump!"
Facts, it’s always a bluff when they do that
Story 2's OP may not be ethical, but I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't be celebrating in the exact same situation. People who set out to destroy the people THEY cheated on are just the worst.
OPs still being nice in the end. He's giving her family a bit of money for a funeral. Plus handling shipping the wife's stuff to their storage.
I wouldn't have done any of it. That accident would be the greatest thing for me. They can come and get her stuff. Just pay for the cremation with the cheapest container. They want a funeral,take up a collection. I would treat myself to small getaway. That insurance money would be put to my debts. I would want to get a new place to live. Probably rent that house out.
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Forget ethics it's worth it
How is he not ethical?
What’s wrong with not caring or even celebrating that people that objectively made the world a worse place are no longer in it?
As far as the ex’s parents, they’re crap people too based on the story - there was evidence the ex was lying, that they saw/knew of, and they still supported her actions.
I don't believe in ethics. Morals are the only code I follow.
Story 1 - The parents are the true monsters in this story.
I agree, but the sister knew better too. It is sad that they turned against her when OP left. That doesn't make sense.
Kekw
@@coureenlawrence4915 it is common for abusers to redirect their abuse to other close t them when their original target escapes
Story 2: ashes come in a cardboard box. Urns are optional
Funny thing about cardboard boxes: They're urns you can burn. The sad thing is the ashes you get are never from just one person, or I'd say flush it.
@@LegendStormcrow I had a friend who worked at a crematorium, and he said that the ashes you're given are only from the deceased. Perhaps other countries' procedures are not so diligent and caring?
@@karenbrown1485 Either it's just his, or there is a common myth in the US.
@@LegendStormcrow I guess we'll never know!! 😄
Second story: why are people mad at him for breathing a sigh of relief after a horrible year of dealing with the burden of his ex-wife? Let that man be in peace
His wife and her lover weren’t the only ones who died in that car crash. An innocent child lost its life too. His complete lack of concern for the baby’s death is (I think) the most concerning part
@@emmawilliams8119he doesn't owe the unborn baby to care. He is just indifferent about it. Which is understandable because it was for so long a sign of his ex betrayal.
@@emmawilliams8119It's not his child. It's an illegitimate bastard conceived of his wife's infidelity. He's under no obligation to care.
@@MinkxiTesWell said. I agree.
@@emmawilliams8119who know what sort of behavior they would encourage. So better 2 bad people and a blank then 3 bad people and who knows how many more
Story 2: it's not speaking ill of the dead to truthfully out their evil actions.
Yes it is. It's a shitty thing to do.
@@taetannim3581 No it's not, if you don't want the people you wronged to spread the word then don't go around being awful, she's lucky op waited until she died
@@taetannim3581Overtly evil people do not get that honor of humanity. In S2 OPs tormentor of an ex with evidence of her deeds lost that honor by dehumanizing OP.
@@taetannim3581Generally speaking maybe, but if justified then who cares?
@@taetannim3581 nah fuck her and him. the only casualty worth being slightly upset about is the kid but it's not even his.
Story 1: People who threatened suicide like that aren't actually suicidal. It's just a control tactic. Sister wants life to back to the way it was: where it was okay to bully and abuse her sister without consequences to herself.
OP ain't no idiot for replying "go ahead" to a coward who is finally getting a taste of the reality she subjected OP through. After all, OP wasn't born to be her or her parents emotional punching bag.
so true
In the first story. I wonder did the sister tell some mad story to the ex. Which is why they ended hooking up and when OP ran off he discovered the truth and is why he dumped her.
I wouldn't be surprised. When cheaters/homewreckers get with a crazy person, they find out too late that the person they got with is crazy.
S1: when someone uses their own life as leverage to try and control you, just Remember, you are not responsible for their own actions and call their bluff;
S2: she tried to destroy you, narcissists will attempt to destroy anyone who leaves them or people they consider expendable (which is everyone), the fact that she was married to you doesn't matter, it's clear you never knew the real her, so why cry over a stranger?
S1: Not even that. Don't respond, just call the cops.
Story #1
I’m so glad OP had a good life and people who love her enough to defend and stick up for her.
Story #2
The monster is gone, the nightmare is over. OP can start healing.
I don’t know if you intended to but I read your comment about the second story to the tune of Beautiful Boy by John Lennon 😭😭😭
story 1 OP i’m so happy you’re new family is amazing. i have a similar history but with a brother and mum. i wish i got your happily ever after.
Story 1: Violence is almost never the answer. Every once in a while, however, it is lol. No matter how much you try to talk it out with certain people, they'll never understand anyone's feelings but their own. Everyone understands the threat of a broken nose, though :)
Story 2: it is really unfortunate that 3 people had to die in order for OP's life to not be a living hell...but, I mean, that just means there's not oxygen being wasted on those trash humans, so 🤷♀️
Story 3: it's amazing to me the lengths some people will go to in order make others as miserable as they are instead of taking accountability for their own unhappiness and trying to do better
S2: Understandable. I would feel the same too and I wlaos hope OP shares everything his wife did to him to destroy him in detail
I wouldn't feel pity at all
The level of hating towards OP is just too much.
@@ramendope2894 I wasn't
And nothing of value was lost
“Do it for -Dan- Christy!”
I was thinking the exact same thing😂
Omg, yes!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Damn it, why did you remind me of that story? I'm mad just thinking about that.
Husband Derek & Brother Cam =
**BASED SIGMA MVP CHADS 💯😎🚬**
Funny when terrible people threaten to off themselves. Sure. Threaten me with a good time.
Bro, GOD HIMSELF AND KARMA decided that he needed a fucking break for everything they put him through
Story 1 i never understand how people thinks treatning to kill themself is gonna hurt the Other people. 😂😂
That initial "worth it" warmed my heart.
OP’s MIL in S1 is a hero. I absolutely love her! 😂
Story 1: Bar-Jesus!! What a horrible family (minus Cam). They needed OP as supply to project their superiority complexes onto and abuse. Once OP rightfully left for the sake of her dignity and self respect, they got to see how insignificant they really are and couldn’t handle it. So they had to reach out to OP to suck her back into their abusive lair, because how dare OP move on to live an awesome life while they’re miserable with their golden child’s entitlement issues. Her husband knew what was up and that’s why he left Christy…
S1: I wish more people responded to toxic family or partners like that. What Christy was doing was manipulation. Even OP pointed it out.
S2: Another toxic person getting karma? Enjoy yourself OP🍷🍹 🎊
Story 1 - The in-laws are the tops.
Honestly I wish more people reacted like Story 1 OP and refused to bend to the will of someone threatening SH as a form of emotional manipulation
So? Let her off her self. What’s that got to do with you? Nothing.
I love her mil so much 🥺💖
S1: OP, you are not in the wrong here.
Her life is hers to do with as she wishes.
I’m surprised after all the smart moves you made that you left Facebook open for her or your worthless family to track you down.
I’ve been full NC with my parents and four of my golden siblings since 1976.
I have heard that now that they are older and have no grandchildren other than mine that they have been trying to get in touch with me.
Not going to happen, not in this life or any other life.
Stick to your guns and stay far away from you so called blood family.
that Mother in Law she's a keeper
So, it’s a thing in some African American communities to hate others…because they’re a couple shades darker?
To quote Jontron: “WHAT!? …WHAT THE FU-“
Yup colorism impacts a lot of groups, Asian, Latino, etc.
@@avaphynx is a HUGE thing in a lot of Latin American countries. I think the biggest example of that is the Dominican Republic. Sammy Sosa, a Dominican, famously was accused of lightening his skin.
Colorist is in all the communities even in the white communities the Arab the Latino ect the paler u arethe more "beatifull " and preferable u are
@@adamkaufman724accused? Have you seen his before and after pictures?!?? Lol
@ilovesports5468 I mean it's not Michael Jackson levels lol but I was trying to be polite
Story 1 - sadly this still happens alot with black families. Were if everyone is lighter while some are darker or where some are lighter and everyone else is darker. Its horrible people keep being toxic about it.
Also the reason why the family was upset was in the mom and sisters minds, that op was meant to be live in maid and do everything for sister. Since they ignoredd all of ops achievements.
Also i doubt that will be the end narcissist family members never give up. More so when they know you have money and are living better then them.
Story 2 - thats just all kinds of effed up. Wife ruined op's life and had them kicked out and lost their job. I question if op was a nice guy or not. But seems karam happened and sadly 3 people lost their lives. I think it was people pointing it out to him that made him realize he was being heartless. I think ops lawyer told him to do as much as he is for the ex's family.
Story 3 - step sister sounds like a golden child that is used to getting their way. Shes mad op has her ex. Tired turing the family on op which is sad because they knew op her whole life. Some believed the sob story. But those might be people who enjoy the drama.
Story 2: why cry over a loss of evil people.
There is no doubt in my mind that Sarah views Tim as "the one that got away" and is angry that OP is now living what should've been HER life so she's trying various schemes to "take back her man"
When Christy tried to contact her she should have just replied with a bunch of 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 emoji's cold but IDC
I feel so bad for op in story 1, no one should go through that abuse, but I just want to know why did OP's parents favor her sister more?
Because OP's skin was darker than the rest of her immediate family
S2, I don't blame this op. What goes around comes around
1S: People saying she should care a lot about someone who abused her are abusers themselves.
By "I need my sister" means she needs her punching bag, right?
Christy had been living life on easy mode for the first 18 years, only to find out that she's not as special as Mommy and Daddy made her believe once it was time for adult life.
S2: As for the baby, why should OP feel bad for it when it's the product of cheating and not HIS so he have no emotional tie to it. And for those who said OP is heartless, it's none of your business like are you the father or the mother to it? Why do you care so much for a yet to be borned human, miscarriage happens all the time and if anything karma did it a favor and saved it from having cheaters as parents maybe one will cheat again and leave it with a shitty childhood.
The sister is more of a deadbeat than the plumber with plenty of money. Just saying.
I don't know why, but I automatically thought of Mario.
I don’t understand why someone threatening to kill themselves is your responsibility
I swear I’ve heard the update on story 1 before but not the initial post
S2- nothing wrong with OPs reaction. Do not put out what you are not willing to come against you threefold! 🤷♀️
I love first OP and the first story but the story loses writing coherence by the update.
MY GOD, OP'S MIL IS A FUKING GOD
Ok am i stupid or something why is it always about skin color?
It's called Karma
Feels a little harsh in that last story to keep calling the guy a deadbeat after saying he has a good job and wants to be in the kid's life.
If someone takes this step, it's not your fault. They are trying to control someone. If they go through with it, it's on them. She loves herself to much to do as she threatened. She just wants her punching bag back.
2. Not the jerk.
Last story, sara is a lying narcissist who Just wants to ruin your and Tim s life... She needs to do a Dna test to tell Who the baby s father really is. I would ignore and go No Contact on your Family with backing Sara..Live your best life without these toxic people..... Sara is not a good person..
Sadly, "Go ahead" is the only correct answer. If they themself are not the number one supporter of their own survival, everything will go downhill. Once you take that from them, they will NEVER improve. And how that you have to take care of two lifes, yours will go downhill two.
I'm really shocked by how siblim favoratism is common. As someone from Africa, this is unthinkable & I'm absolutely shaken by how many favoartism stories I've read about. Definitely a cultural thing
“she gained weight and was still as attractive as ever” sorry to break it to you, but it doesn’t work like that
It depends on how big she was before, she may have been skin and bones before.
@@juliearmfield2634 that’s fair, in that case I am incorrect
Story 1: The age difference isn't that rare. I know a brother and sister who were born the same year but one in January and the other in November.
There's a sad history behind skin bleaching, Jamaica especially has an epidemic. (Unrelated) People should try loving themselves first, nothing selfish about that. Bleaching, bbl, Botox... worse thing people can do to themselves. Except for burn victim or abuse victims.
There's nothing shameful or selfish about loving yourself. Doing it too much and annoying about it is.
Story 2: the title is a bit cruel and misleading. He isn't wrong in his reactions but one should never celebrate another's death regardless of who they are or what they did to you. Karma is a b*tch and she's always lurking.
Judge me if you’d like, but I’ve never been able to understand why celebrating the death of someone who’s been monstrous to you is supposedly fodder for karmic retribution.
1) Karma isn’t real
2) Even if it was, what’s the logic here? Is it just the idea that it’s your burden to act nice and keep the peace no matter how much abuse you go through? Is it the idea that being ‘mean’ is somehow “just as bad” as deliberately putting someone through hell?
You couldn't have moved Emma with a tow truck. She had spent years figuring out what she wanted to say to your parents if she ever got the chance and you could not have stopped her. She just decided that hitting her was better than words lol
That mil is Gang Gang for life what a goat
Op sister just want op to comeback because she needs op to take care of her baby story 1
Guy steps up and still gets called deadbeat, that's nice.
Because her best laid plans would further be destroyed.
I bet you ten bucks if she ever went back original poster would end up taking care of that kid most of the time and she'd be out partying 5:51
What does OP mean
Original Poster
The funeral home will have paperwork that will wait for the car accident insurance to pay for the funeral
I honestly don't blame OP in story 2 for feeling happy that his "wife" died considering she tried make his life absolute hell
The fact that the sister threatened to kill herself to get OP to respond means the sister isnt going to do it. Truly suicidal people don't tell anyone if they're actually serious about it.
She passed in a car accident, there's insurance there as well that the parents can access
Op should move back home aswell as take the life insurance. Tell the family her stuff is being dropped off at yours on day x after block her and move on
Message her "cross the stream for attention, down the river for results"
Im just here for the Minecraft content...
I only feel bad for OP and Christy’s kid. Like not the kid’s fault
S2: op owed his (ex)wife NOTHING. Feeling nothing will pass he'll move on.
The bleach as a gift isn't telling her to kill herself, it's telling her to lighten her skin to be considered prettier bc skin bleaching is an actual part of a thr black beauty industry
>she was bailed out immediately
Boy I hope so 😂
good to have a good mil story on here
OP #3 better receive a sincere apology from her parents before even entertaining reconnecting with them. They tried to destroy her relationship with her future husband 🤨
s3: I think OP is kind of an AH here. Not because of how she handled the stepsister, but because of how she talks the father of the child. How is he a deadbeat? He appears to have solid work, he wants to be in his kid's life so much that he's willing to reach out to her relatives and he helped OP out with clearing up the whole situation. Is he a deadbeat because he doesn't want to be together with the clearly mentally disturbed stepsister? Or because he had a one night stand or possibly casual relationship with the stepsister?
What I got from that is that she’s just quoting her stepsister, and she doesn’t actually believe that, especially with the quotes around deadbeat.
That's what the stepsister calls him not op,
Because op doesn't believe that but the stepsister calls him that,
when in reality she lied to him and use him and his unborn child to harass tim,
so it's not op saying she is just repeating back what the stepsister calls him.
He could have changed his mind and left after the baby was born. OP isn’t a part of their lives, and has no mutual connections, so Christie’s Facebook update is all OP had to go off.
That's literally what the sister told her about the dude.
Only 32 guests?!?! You call that small?!?!? This is why i fucking loathe weddings.
Story 2: get the champagne man🍾🥂🎉🎊
Telling someone to go kill themselves IS messed up. But telling someone to do something or they will kill themselves is straight up psychotic.
I'm sorry, i just had to say.... those are some great in-laws I've ever heard of ❤
Edit: i love them more abd more as the story progresses ❤️🔥
"Don't speak ill of the dead"? How about "Don't be an asshole while you're alive"?
Last story: I don't think they know what "deadbeat" means.
If the guy said that the girl told him that she was going to get an abortion, then that doesn't make him a deadbeat that just makes him a guy that assume that the girl he knocked up got an abortion.
He reached out after he found out to let them know that he was the child's father that doesn't make him a deadbeat so I don't know why Opie is still labeling him as a deadbeat.
To me Opie is a doormat and she's quite stupid towards her family she allows them to run all over her and doesn't take up for herself.
For that first story with the bleach for the spa kit, I think she should’ve said that’s very sweet of you, but I think that we should do this together and since you’re older that you can go ahead and show me how to use the bleach and everything moving forward. So then she had to admit to her parents that she couldn’t use it.
can you guys explain what mil dil lil stand for or at least these youtubers can put some info under the video, thanks
Story 2: OP went full magneto on that incoming nuclear warhead😂
"I'm just so happy someone loves me enough to be angry for me."
Ooff, I felt that one.
Family " how dare you leave when we where mistreating and abuseing you"
Anyone on here not actively saying that telling someone to kill themselves is just as bad as the sister and family.
Me and my sister don't really get along but she would never try to intentionally hurt me.
MIL saw a problem and pulled out two problem solvers.
Let Sarah have all of them. You don’t need any of the toxicity in your life
Well you know what they say. Karma is a massive b#tch.
Heard second story before.
My sister is the darkest in our family… we exalt her over all the other family memebers. As she is the most beautiful. She was born super light then darkened up over time and my God she’s the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen. Dare I say it I am so jealous, she’s got the most beautiful chocolate skin with no blemishes she’s a Barbie who doesn’t cheerleading. I could gush about my little sister forever! I just know that mine is far more ethereal than yours could ever hope to be.