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  • @abowaseem1186
    @abowaseem1186 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I can't imagine having a mother like that, my mother works very hard is a dedicated woman who raised 4 children by herself. so seeing how a mother can be this selfish just makes me disgusted.

  • @queenrhubarb1676
    @queenrhubarb1676 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    It’s so gross how some moms are this obsessed with their sons

    • @beaby1977
      @beaby1977 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not just the mom the sister is just as crazy obsessed with him.

  • @MCBRUCE76
    @MCBRUCE76 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The problem is not the MIL or the SIL, it is the husband who doesn't stand up for OP which is his responsibility and duty as a husband to protect his wife from his own vile mother and sister, and have strong boundaries, right from the start. Notice, how these husbands don't want to rock the boat, and want their wife to be the bigger person all the time, and want them always ignore them for whatever they do or say. How long will you allow your wife to be insulted by your mother and sister, and keep turning a blind eye. What if the roles were reversed, would these scumbags tolerate the crap.

  • @twistykristie
    @twistykristie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    “Do it for Dan” IYKYK

    • @francescofrasca8587
      @francescofrasca8587 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's what I INSTANTLY thought

    • @xryxix
      @xryxix หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LITERALLYYYYYY

  • @AdassahPauline
    @AdassahPauline 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    if your seeing this late like it to make it a memory for the first ones here

  • @livipulido8035
    @livipulido8035 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Am I the only one that wants to run to the local bakery? Mmmmmmmm nom noms.

    • @kimkeller5155
      @kimkeller5155 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Those cakes and desserts looked fabulous...especially the minion and the pink party dress! Too nice to eat!!!

  • @Hannahlovesstrangethings
    @Hannahlovesstrangethings 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I can’t imagine a mother like this. My mom worked hard with all four of us while my dad was deployed and loves us very much. This is insane

  • @pawan-bk4hc
    @pawan-bk4hc หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    The story is quit good but that chocolate skelly cake is something🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @leegraves8878
    @leegraves8878 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    She brought this on herself by staying with the spineless guy.

    • @salady738
      @salady738 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly my thoughts 😢

  • @happynoteskidsmusic
    @happynoteskidsmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This video truly encapsulates the essence of family! It's so heartwarming to see how you captured the highs and lows of family life-every challenge, every celebration. Family is where we learn love, patience, and resilience, and this video beautifully reminded me how blessed I am to have mine. Absolutely love the way you told this story!

    • @carriemays6935
      @carriemays6935 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      If this is what normal family os to you. Then you're in a bad situation...

    • @iiceMK
      @iiceMK หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carriemays6935 Sadly there are people out there with family like that.

  • @firstnamesurname8531
    @firstnamesurname8531 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Wait when did he become an ex husband?

    • @iiceMK
      @iiceMK หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think it's an error lol.

  • @SpunByStories-q6u
    @SpunByStories-q6u 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    really appreciate the honesty in this video, it’s refreshing to see someone stand up for their own family. but honestly, I can’t help but feel that cutting ties completely might be a bit extreme. shouldn’t there be a chance for healing and communication instead of just shutting people out? what do you guys think?

  • @me23435
    @me23435 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As her charges grew more serious 😂😂

  • @sylsuthss
    @sylsuthss หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This has sooo many errors throughout. Sara is one minute married then just has a boyfriend. OP is married at one point husband becomes ex husband. Either OP has made this up or this creator has made errors.

  • @Nalatheswiftieandpjogirlie
    @Nalatheswiftieandpjogirlie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    there's adoption surrogacy and other options. Im not trying to be rude btw

  • @TaleThreads-w7u
    @TaleThreads-w7u 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a thought-provoking video! I really appreciate the way you shared your story with such honesty. However, I can’t help but wonder if completely cutting ties was the best solution. I mean, isn’t there a chance for growth and reconciliation? It just seems drastic to me. Would love to hear what others think!

  • @giselioliveira630
    @giselioliveira630 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sara is just too interested in Jacob like... Alabama?

  • @MccallonPrime
    @MccallonPrime 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    i really enjoyed this video, it's great to see personal stories being shared so openly. that being said, i can't help but wonder if cutting ties is always the right solution. i mean, family dynamics are super complex, and while some might say it's necessary for mental health, others might argue that working through issues could lead to healthier relationships in the long run. just a thought!

  • @TaleThreads-w7u
    @TaleThreads-w7u 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what an intriguing video! you did a great job sharing such a personal experience. but honestly, i can't help but wonder if cutting ties is always the best solution. i mean, family dynamics can be complicated, and sometimes a bit of communication might go a long way. just my two cents!

  • @carriemays6935
    @carriemays6935 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Girl needs to run for the damn hills. Marrying into crazy sucks the life from you.

  • @CuentosdeRelacionesRotas
    @CuentosdeRelacionesRotas 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was really well put together, and I appreciate how you shared such a personal journey. but honestly, I’m surprised it took him this long to cut ties. sometimes, putting family first can be a huge mistake, especially when it’s about protecting your own happiness. what do you all think?

  • @รุ่งทิวาขุนราช-ร6ถ
    @รุ่งทิวาขุนราช-ร6ถ 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    really loved the honesty in this video, it’s refreshing to hear someone share their experience so openly. but i can’t help but wonder if cutting ties is really the best solution. i mean, family dynamics can be super complicated, and sometimes it seems like there might be a way to approach things without completely severing those bonds. just my two cents!

  • @IlysmCarrot
    @IlysmCarrot 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    In reddit stories why is the toxic sister always called sarah/sara?

    • @pawan-bk4hc
      @pawan-bk4hc หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Cuz they mostly written by same Ai😅

    • @yashgodsniper1568
      @yashgodsniper1568 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe it's cause they usi g Aliases instead of real names and they r common names

  • @dequetta_lashae
    @dequetta_lashae หลายเดือนก่อน

    So if they gave up the apartment how would the bills get paid ?

  • @chaoticdemise4494
    @chaoticdemise4494 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im confused, when did he become the ex husband......im confused

  • @SpunByStories-q6u
    @SpunByStories-q6u 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what an interesting video, you did a great job sharing your thoughts! i can’t help but feel that cutting ties with family, even toxic ones, is a pretty radical move. it seems like there could be room for reconciliation if both sides are willing to work on their issues. but then again, setting boundaries is essential too. what do you all think?

  • @BonierRipley
    @BonierRipley 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    great video! you handled a really tough situation with so much grace. but honestly, i find it a bit controversial to completely sever ties. sometimes, even toxic relationships can be salvaged with boundaries. just my 2 cents!

  • @Sagasofbetrayal
    @Sagasofbetrayal 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what a well-made video! i really appreciate you sharing such a personal experience. it's tough to navigate family dynamics like that. honestly, though, i have to say that cutting ties completely might not always be the best solution. sometimes, there's value in trying to heal those relationships, even if it's challenging. what do you think?

  • @DelorbeZentner
    @DelorbeZentner 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, this video was really eye-opening and I appreciate the honesty! It's tough to see family dynamics like these. Personally, I feel like cutting ties can be a bit extreme; it seems sometimes there's a middle ground that could allow for healthy boundaries without completely severing relationships. But I get that it’s a personal choice, and every situation is unique!

  • @rbgbreezie4633
    @rbgbreezie4633 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was in dcfs and my mom was a meth head throughout my whole childhood she is better now. She would never do this,

  • @zainabanjum6175
    @zainabanjum6175 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Why are there so many bot comments?

  • @kissablestar
    @kissablestar 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No one on reddit says "aback" this freaking much! I keep trying to find channels who read aloud reddit stories. But all the channels are fake 😭

  • @HedonPerolta
    @HedonPerolta 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow, what a powerful video! I really appreciate your openness in sharing this experience. It’s tough to choose between family and your own peace of mind. However, I can't help but wonder if completely cutting ties might have been too extreme. Isn’t it possible to set boundaries while still keeping the door open for future communication? Just food for thought!

  • @JennaRedditStories
    @JennaRedditStories 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was really well done and brought up some important points. however, I can't help but wonder if cutting ties is always the best solution. sometimes family dynamics are complicated, and it might be worth trying to have a deeper conversation before going to such extremes. what do you guys think?

  • @sywhhwjer
    @sywhhwjer 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this video was really well put together, I appreciate the way you shared your story. but honestly, I can't help but wonder if cutting ties is always the best solution. sometimes, communication can lead to better understanding, even in tough family dynamics. anyone else feel like there might still be a chance for healing instead of just severing ties?

  • @AntonietaMonteiro-i2z
    @AntonietaMonteiro-i2z หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really well made and I appreciate your honesty in sharing such a personal experience. but honestly, I can't help but wonder if cutting ties is always the right solution. sometimes, family dynamics can be complicated, and maybe there’s a way to address these issues without severing relationships completely. just a thought!

  • @DanaJones-pq9fb
    @DanaJones-pq9fb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel bad for the kids and Jacob

  • @ArmenMoir
    @ArmenMoir หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really well done, I appreciate the perspective you shared. however, I can't help but think that cutting ties with family can be super complicated. while it’s great your husband took a stand, I wonder if there's a chance for reconciliation later on? sometimes, family drama runs deeper than we realize.

  • @tomboymjr
    @tomboymjr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel like this might be an Asian family or this is ripped from a k drama =_=;; super sus

  • @RemerLudvigsen
    @RemerLudvigsen หลายเดือนก่อน

    this video was really well put together, and I appreciate how you shared such a personal journey. honestly, though, I can't help but wonder if cutting ties completely is really the best choice. sometimes it seems like no matter how toxic family can be, there's still a chance for healing if everyone’s willing to work on it. what do you all think?

  • @SociaVanlue
    @SociaVanlue 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    what an interesting take on a complex family dynamic! i really appreciate how you navigated this sensitive topic. that being said, i wonder if cutting ties is always the healthiest choice. sometimes, maintaining boundaries can be just as effective without going to extremes. what do you think?

  • @SplittKaupu
    @SplittKaupu 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i really enjoyed this video, you did a great job presenting the situation. however, i can't help but feel like cutting ties might be a bit extreme. family dynamics can be complicated, and sometimes it's worth trying to mend those relationships instead of completely severing them. what do you all think?

  • @FaradayDave-x2s
    @FaradayDave-x2s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @lightningsamurai4482
    @lightningsamurai4482 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm sorry, but I don't believe most of the OP's story
    She said that she & Jacob worked hard to get money for the wedding, but then she said that she said that Sarah was marrying him for his money & then had pictures of her affair.
    Sarah reiterated that she was a gold digger when they both paying for the house. She said that her mother in law favored Jacob, but admitted that Sarah was defending him.
    Going back to the gold digger situation, she said that her mother & father in law had a small house.
    My conclusion is that she did marry him for his money & that Sarah was telling the truth; the OP admitted that she had pictures of her affair, but Jacob didn't want to see it. The OP also admitted that he was on buisness trip, while she was staying at home, which means that he was paying for the house by himself.
    Going back to the affair, it was likely that Sarah &/or her mother in law hired a PI to find out about his infidelity. I do believe that the mother in law did ask them to take of Sarah & they said even though the 6 kids story might be an exaggeration or maybe not. I also believe that the husband was the deadbeat that she made him out to be.
    I don't believe that the mother favored Jacob over Sarah; I believe that it was the other way around because if he was then why would he flat tell them no, while working on a business. They were right when they said that Sarah & her kids weren't their responsiblity
    On a side note, if they wanted kids then they could've just adopted; keep in mind that I'm not calling Sarah or the mother in law saints, but what I am saying that the OP nearly lying about everything she's

    • @jennifern.2740
      @jennifern.2740 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think it’s a fake story, alot of stiff doesn’t make sense, like you pointed out
      Also, how OP has less money than them but was the only one that went to private school? 🤔
      She also calls him her ex-husband sometimes which doesn’t make sense, just seems fake

    • @sadiasheikh2263
      @sadiasheikh2263 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s AI

    • @carriemays6935
      @carriemays6935 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's fake, everything on here is fake.