Its crazy how these Dawah guys come off as "holier than thou" but when you get a glimpse into their personal lives they're literally Shaitan incarnate lmao.
I'm not suprised. It's the exact same with Christian leaders who pretend to be holier than thou but in reality have affairs, sa people under their care and other nicities. :(
In fact Islam is Barberic ideology mixed with God concepts like poison coated with sugar. Religion is the best tool for power: like Arab countries ruling by particular royal family, no election they are enjoying with massive oil wealth. Even men are getting authority over women. All this possible due to fake God concepts. After death nobody come back and say the reality... This political game will continue as long as stupid people are there for believing this imaginery God and there will be a after death life in heaven or hell.
It's crazy how morons rush to voice their slanders, without even bothering to check any fact. What happened was a misunderstanding, both of them signed a contract to settle the issue and make clarifications. th-cam.com/video/6b1YWd4ytng/w-d-xo.html
That holier than thou attitude, is the perfect cover, for quite despicable behavior. Because chances are these people never live up to their professed moral standards.
God this is so disgusting. Basically just going up to a single mom in need and say "hey since you have no expectation and not many options, lets hook up until I find someone better than you" Just sick.
@@deborahdonald9323 and I find that sick no matter the nationality. But it’s even sicker when some dudes claim it’s ok because their religion says it’s ok.
@@Mira-gu6we But it's worse if you're a Muslim or a Christian and claim to have higher standards, in regard to these things and then don't manage to live up to them.
I'm a Christian, and I'm just here for the education on Islam. I feel so bad for that Muslim single mother. I really hope she's able to realize that the systemic problem with Muslim men started with the religion itself and that she can get out ASAP.
@@isabelbard853 do you find - based on Pew Center data as well as online comments on single Moms by the Christian communities - that she would be treated within Christian churches as someone who has „more options“?
@@c.a.r.4834 yes for starters most Christians in uk are not Christians lol and are open minded the virgin thing is a peado thing let's be honest back in the day all cultures thought this way along time ago am 55 not reglious if that's how women are treated ij any reglion u better of out
@@c.a.r.4834 basically people more educated now in west regions can be a problem if people still follow how people think thousands of years ago humans are supposed to evole over time know right from wrong women are not a peice of meat
@@c.a.r.4834 Yes, as a Christian, she would be treated as a a potential wife, at least based on the religion itself, because all of us are new creatures in Christ. No one of us was better before we came to Christ. We were all wretched sinners who are now saved by Christ.
I once knew a British-Pakistani woman who was one of the preys of a famous UK dawah boy, he married her in a nikah ceremony with her family side only, no legal marriage in British law, she left her job and independence for him, only to survive poorly maintained by him in a dodgy area, she felt lonely and eventually found out he was married to a public wife and had kids and that she actually was his secret wife She was then abused by him and his first wife when confronting them and eventually he divorced her and she had to go back to her parents' house with no job and deep emotional and mental trauma. I was not at all surprised to find out her ex-husband is close to the dawah boy in this video. I salute you for speaking about these sickening stories compatible with islam. #withoutliesislamdies
When i was at zuni this one muslim guy invited his muslim friends and his white gf and made her celebrate a temporary wedding without her understanding anything and when she told me, i explained to her what it meant and she refused to talk to him again and him and his whole crew had a beef with me ever since
He was keeping his conscience clear while he used her for temporary sex until he can do tripe talaq over phone messaging apps. He was arranging a “muttah”
@@WillowCeleste-ut5tx Do not speak about Western women. Youre mad you cant control them! you Muslim males arent being falsely accused, You are despicable
Thankfully I left Islam but yes this is a real problem. Funny how the men can have as many partners as they want but their wife must be pure and untouched. I will be single forever before I sleep with a man that wishes he was with ANYONE else but me
As a non-Muslim man, let me get some of that left behind Muslim women!! I mean I can’t be worst than Muhammad!! Ladies I don’t mind, you can be non- virgins!! Trust me I’m better than these Dawah boyz!! I’ll help with the bills, but you will be #2 if you know i what mean!!😊
I will tell you something curious. I met a Russian woman who went to an Islamic country (I don't remember the country, but she told me it was an Islamic one), and once she was there, some people offered her marriage even though she was already married. One of them said that because she had been separated from her husband for two months, they could marry. I think the Islamic religion is too obsessed with sex and has no limits. You can marry underage people, practice polygamy, and engage in prostitution. Marrying a person for a month is just prostitution, but they dress it up, saying it's holy. Clearly, this has no logic; it is very different from the holy scriptures where a man and woman marry forever until death (with some clarifications in cases of adultery, allowing for divorce, etc., but under normal circumstances, it is forever).
And then you have the Quranic verse, " lawful for you are those that your righthand possess" which actually means that it is lawful to have sex slaves. Which is exactly what Isis did.
Islam using west women freedom to their advantage what is wrong had they been taught God and his love they will submit themselves to their husbands but good to see atleast Islam uses these out of brain women to their advantage
@@pankaja7974 She may work it out eventually. Single women with children are seen as damaged goods in Islam, sadly, what she still has in her favor, is her looks and youth, once her youth is gone which , in Islamic terms that doesn't take long, say about 30-35. . She will see how badly things are stacked against her as a female Muslim.
Why should she expect a religious man to make a proposal like this? She is a human being with feelings and emotions just because she is a single mum, it doesn't mean she's ready to prostitute herself for his benefit. And without any benefits for herself and child.
@theodoreconstantini2548 as a single mum, I find your remark extremely offensive. Please widen your reading and educate yourself and the wider Muslim community
I felt badly for her when I first saw this. The lecture after she said no was so unnecessary. The quest for virginity is sad, disappointing, and trivializes women. Too bad women do not feel that they can make the same demand.
They pretend that virgins and virginity are so precious when they themselves are not willing to keep their own virginity for marriage... This is the problem... And thats why they cheapen all their women and would replace them at a drop of a hat(4:34 And if you fear disobedience etc) This means obedience(compliance) not virginity is valued more than anything else... The goal posts are always moved... And they can literally complain about their wives and make countless excuses to divorce them
@@Mulhid_Al_Islam Would be useful to be a hafiz, but - look at Uthman,he claims to be a Sheikh without even knowing arabic, covering it up by knowing a lot by heart.
My hats off to this young single mother for not only showing that she has both a healthy dose of self-respect - as well as integrity. Not to mention courage too, bringing light to an issue such as this.
My Muslim neighbour told me her sister was widowed when young. She'd wear niqab in London. When dropping her son off to after school madrasa, the Muslim men ( other dads) would proposition her for sexual relationship because they knew she was a widow. It got so bad that she took him out of the Arabic school.
@@SWOTHDRA its not legal, wtf ru on about wierdo.....maybe others claim it is but its not....even as a s3x slav3 she doesnt pass because she is most likely a sunni.
@@TayWoode sounds like you are the last one to hear about this Hadith. Your prophet after lusting after a woman he saw in the street ran home to his child bride when she was tanning leather. All hot sweaty and dirty he did her right there. In your books. Read.
I always found it funny how within Sunni communities they always whinged and complained about Shia temporary marriages whilst so many Sunnis in one or the other way slept around as well.
@@truecrimeallofthetime Congratulations to both of you! Both of you should consider doing a video on how you got together and advice for ex Muslims with kids, young or older children.
So he's 'protecting himself from doing zina'... by doing zina. XD You can't make this shit up. I had a guy who I previously had a tumultuous relationship with for around a year and a half, dumped me to marry someone he'd only known for a couple of months. After putting me through soo much emotional pain, he had the audacity to come crawling back after the marriage went caput, and ask me to effectively be his booty call and 'not be upset or surprised' when he finds someone else. So yeah, this video struck a real nerve in me. I can at least imagine some of the sheer humiliation it must have felt to even be asked to agree to something like that.
But, we are judging it from the perspective of the Judeo/Christian values and principles. The Islamic values apply here just fine, what Zaid did here is perfectly halal. Islam is evil, and this is just one example of it.
@@KeanHor Nop, human values is a very simplistic way of saying humans have great values and principles at any time in history. Nop, name me any time in history or any area of the world were they had heck of good behavioral principles. It was ONLY when Jesus came and gave them to the very STUBBORN humans that we have them now.
I’ve seen his video. Worse is there are so many like him defending his actions and saying it’s halal. It’s permissible. What BS. Good job for this young lady from exposing him. And Good job friendly ex Muslim for giving light to this topic. Thank you to you and your wife. ❤❤❤❤
Islam still to this day has within its doctrine the right for muslim men to enslave the women and female children of their enemies still alive after battle/war turning them into sex slave war booty......What do people expect from such a vile misogynist ideology?
As a gay ex muslim convert. It boggles my mind that some heterosexual, homophobic, muslim men would see her as a TEMPORARY thing and not their forever girl. If I was straight I would marry her and make her my one and only. Though I am also an apostate so I don't think it would work out. But hope this girl get a great man for her.
Why would you marry her? I don’t think she is special. She is yet another hijabi that will continently wear a scarf (full lashes and big lips) to secure a guy. The religion has no relevance it’s a tool to find a father for her kid.
37:12 reading his text. He’s trying to act like she would’ve been a wife and he would’ve kept her forever. He wasn’t even willing to pay her basic maintenance ( which we know is not much anyway) .
I think Zaid was so niave he didn't even realize that his proposal was insulting to the Muslim Woman (whats her name?) from her standpoint he was asking her to basically be his secret side chick (so he can satisfy his own selfish desires) because she wasn't good enough to be his public Wife 😆 thats messed up, he basically just wanted her to be a bridge that he could use for a little while wow
This is sad. How deep it must have impacted her. We can understand a strong decision she must have taken and a powerful step. I personally applaud her boldness. But, the question arises, what is this happening? Didn't this woman knew this thing is Halal in Islam. Didn't she exposed of her own religion. If this impacted her conscience; did she reconsidered the source of her faith. If this is bad for the good hearts, which are allowed in Islam, Isn't it the time to re-evaluate the Islam religion.
I had a part time job and there was a muslim security guard who used to talk to us all the time. He told us he had been married 17 times. I thought he was kidding. Turns out, it was true. He would marry American women, get an apartment etc etc, she would give up her job to move etc etc..... and then he would walk out 4-5 months later and divorce her. . And he did this 17+ times. Why ? Because he wanted to get laid and in his head, he needed to be married to do that and have it be ok with Allah, so he would marry the women and then dump them. in his religion, temporary marriage was ok. He had absolutely no thought as to how much he was messing up these women's lives. The women he married had given up their apartments , their jobs etc... because they thought they were starting a married life with him and he was treating them like temporary wives.
@@Fruitytooty6969 You don't get anything in Misyar as you have contractually declined to have it.Its kind of a Mutah Premium subscription just by staying 'married' to a person with no benificaries.
She had to find out for herself what Islam actually is it’s a man and only man clubs women are attached to it so it don’t look like a gay club. Thank you for Christianity and welcomed women as equals 🙏
I LOVE it when your wife is a commentator on your show. She is so smart. The love between you two is evident and beautiful. You two are a terrific power couple. Please put her on every one of your shows!
There's also the added danger of Zaid El-Omar and other dawah bros using this single mom for their own selfish ends and they won't necessarily have single women's and their daughters' best interests at heart. 😒😡
If she really is raising a child "by herself" as her name says then she is not held by familial or cultural ties. I'm also a little skeptical of women who dress so modestly but wear so much makeup and false eyelashes. It makes me think that they are using modest dress for attention. In a world where lots of women are online showing skin, an easy way to get attention can be by covering up excessively. One thing that we know about men in general (don't take offense if you are an exception) is that men like something different. They don't even necessarily feel attracted to the best. They just like something new. And if a man is in a place with a smaller percentage of people dressed like this, it's novel. I know plenty of Muslim ladies in Western countries who dress modestly but do it in a way that doesn't stand out (baseball cap and a scarf, long shirt, long skirt). So I don't have a ton of sympathy for this story. Lots of attention-seekers.
@@1108-g1q Even if she likes attention (and you're only assuming that based on the fact you don't like the way she presents herself, because... make-up bad, I guess?)... does this mean it was okay for this a-hole to DM her and basically suggest that she becomes his f***-buddy because she's no good for anything better? Can you hear yourself? And have you ever heard the concept of an "imperfect victim"? People like you (who dismiss bad things that happen to someone just because this person doesn't live up to your personal standard of whatever) are a big part of the reason why victims of various kinds of abuse or mistreatment are afraid to come forward. Because instead of focusing on the wrong that was done to this person, you choose to focus on finding faults with them, even if it's got nothing to do with the situation at hand. Doesn't matter what she does and what she looks like - this guy shouldn't have treated her like that, because no one should be treated like this. End of story.
@@AW-uv3cb yes, I do "hear" myself because I grew up Muslim and I know that this level of makeup is totally haram even to the most liberal imam fatwa. I am so tired of seeing converts who are desperate attention-seekers. Yes- Islam may have been preferable to some things that came before it (introduction of mahr, for example) but converts today in this age are just stupid. Or they have found their attention-seeking niche on social media.
So whats the bennifits for her and what does he come to the table with? Absolutely nothing! Why would any woman in her rite mind even consider such a proposal!
Does this happen in Islamic countries to single women who have children as a result of marriage, temporary marriages? They may be widowed, not necessarily divorced.
Here in Indonesia muslim called it SIRI, basically an undocumented marriage which you only need an imam and two witnesses it's done. So if you feel like divorcing her, just leave.
The irony is a lot of arab mouslim countries wimen will go around the virginity status by having an operation that will sew back.I had my share a girlfriends in morrocco,algeria,tunesia ,all wanted to experience a taste of America before marriage😂😂s@@Melay-b4x
He is not tone deaf, he is acting according to Islams rules. So yes, we can all tell it is wrong even from a secualr view, but the religion allows it. He isn't offended about degrading her, he is offended that she exposed him to shame for something that's allowed. Imagine how many of these stories we don't know of, with girls much younger !
If you don’t want to go out with him he threatened to tell everybody that you are sleeping with him and to make you embarrassed at front of everybody 😮
52:18 if he was really interested in this and she had nothing to do with it. Why did he not go to somebody else? Why not go to a man ?they know everything I mean, her advice is only equal to half that of a man’s why waste his precious time with that? Hmm…..🤔
The other comment I left you I was using speech to text and I’m not sure what I was trying to say so I just deleted that comment it didn’t make any sense. Sorry about that. 😊
The comments under his video rn are mostly delusional. But to be fair, it's allowed in Islam, so I dont understand her complaints (from a logical perspective).
@@iiddrrii6051 "Slavery is allowed in Islam" Well, not for free Muslim women. They can not be sold into slavery nor taken as slaves as war spoils. There is unfortunately a disturbing amount of women that have no issue with non-Muslim women being subjected to this however.
What would Islamic angels do to this woman for rejecting a Halal proposal from a BROTHER and going to the extent of exposing what is supposed to be secret, IF angels curse women ALL NIGHT for not allowing their husbands till their farms at will?
This guy's epic whine across those messages is exactly the same nonsense that fills complaints of Islamophobia directed at criticism from outside the religion.
Buddy, the eye lashes are the least of the problems in islam. Go look nto the character of rasool allah: - grooming and mounting 9 year old aisha - keeping sex slaves and graping - demon-possessed and receiving false revelations - beheading people who criticised him - breaking an oath he swore to his wife hafsa and breaking a peace treaty - lusting after his son's wife zaynab and breaking up her marriage - receiving convenient "revelations" that condoned his deviant and disgusting behavior RIAI
minor haram is mekruh, wigs and eyelashes are mekruh that require small punishment, in sharia god created human and should accept oneself as such unless there is medical intervention needed.
I cannot be a part of any religion organization Christians, Islam, etc that teaches my daughter or girls or women that they are less than men. And to say we are equal to men … should not be said…equality is not necessary. I am a human ….saying I am equal to men is same as giving me permission to breath air. I don’t need your permission I just breathe. I don’t need your permission to be equal . Man is human I am human …we live, we breathe, we die…I show you respect I expect the same
I think once a male child has tasted the power that Islam gives him over women they will very rarely relinquish it willingly. A religion that says that the WORST man is better than the BEST woman is,sadly,not beyond belief Thanks,Friendly,for drawing our attention to this. What a BRAVE woman! 57:56
It's a real happening in the political realm in Malaysia. This were the words : it's better to have a corrupt leader as long as he is muslim than an upright non muslim as a leader! It was said by an ulama. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
It is similar. Except mutah is renting a female on a so-called agreement for such-and-such a time ie. pwafitstitution. Whereas these "looking for a single mother" types are simply practising another form of fornication. Actually now that I've just re-ead my comment, it's exactly the same crap. 😬🤣
He wants to use her like toilet paper and when he’s done, he wants to throw her in the trash She would never go for it because she does not want to show her daughter or son that’s how you treat a woman. I hope she stood up for herself and looked elsewhere. He thinks he’s such a catch also maybe there’s a reason why he’s single. I was a very attractive, single mom, who married a man now for 30 years. I knew I was a single mom, and it was much more difficult to find a husband, but I was a traditional wife and was not single because of me. it was real important not to teach my children that I had a revolving door with men. I was very select only was dating for marriage. I do not practice Islam. Another bad thing about Islam is you cannot adopt children so if you’re a single mother, and you marry a Muslim man, he cannot adopt your children, even though your husband passed away. I’ve learned a lot about the Quran and Mohammed these past 12 months. I actually feel bad for the women were born into Islam because they’re treated like property. I’ve had many different girlfriends over the years, different religions, different race, but I’ve never had a friend that practice Islam. If there were wives in my business, I could not make friends with them because they weren’t even allowed to speak English but their husbands cheated on them with any woman they could get. I felt so bad.
The ummah is urged not to open the aib ( shortcomings ) of another muslim, especially when it involves the aib of a political or community leader especially involving accusation of malappropriation of funds or sexual misconduct. The line between an individuals responsibility in speaking up or even reporting a crime and an act of self censuring in favour of the public image of their own leadership is so very grey and thin. That is not even touching the already alarming number of people who reject and question the judiciary process claiming the trial cannot be just and fair to the convicted because it wasnt a trial under shariah laws. ( not sure if it has anything to do with these two types of crimes specifically or if these two types of crimes happens most often when it people in positions of leadership. )
I am Christian, more spiritual than Christian. The theme with a lot of religions is that women are below men, I do not think this is of God but more so man made to give men more power. It's so freaking weird this obsession with virginity, so do Muslim men who aren't virgins also have a title of being "damaged goods?" I'm going to say no, but I'm not muslim so I'd love to know about it. Thanks for discussing this
While Islam definitely has a bit of a tilt towards virginity whether it be narrations where a companion was asked why he chose to marry an older woman compared to a younger one his age, or the 72 virgins in heaven, I think the Muslims of the 7th centuries were actually less obsessive about it than modern-day Muslims. Same with views on marriage which were arguably way less grand and stressful affairs than modern day marriages are. "so do Muslim men who aren't virgins also have a title of being 'damaged goods?'" They definitely get less of a stigma than women do, especially in patriarchal societies, but the vast majority of Muslim women do not prefer to get married as a second/third/fourth wife, or to marry someone who is divorced (especially after a long term relationship). This is amplified in Western countries where Muslim women have far more independence to be able to work, travel, and live in society without a male partner meaning they can be more selective of their partner, if they even want one. The problem is that in many Muslim societies women do not have means to exert that level of autonomy. In theory they have the ability to reject a marriage proposal for example but familial pressures as well as economic pressures mean that many women have to make pragmatic choices that result in better conditions for them and even their family. While Islam does provide avenues of divorce (more limited than in secular countries today), they are under pressure by societal influences to avoid it.
Really great content Mr. Friendly ExMuslim. Really appreciate your wife's contribution to this struggle for so many Muslims who are questioning their faith. Just a suggestion here for an extra layer of protection for her, maybe you should distort her voice too so that no-one can get her voice profile. Anyway keep up with the great work.
Being non muslim but being interested in the spiritual part of islam, I've been reading and researching about it for more than two months. And the more I know the more I see how deceiving it is, specially for women. I found you two days ago, literally, and can't stop listening to your videos. Thank you for your good work!
Really he is honest and amazing followers of 7th century Islam and using it to his pesonl ambitious to gain excess to single mother and help less young girls
That guy, using his status towards women, treating women like that, is probably a narcistic personalty! My respect for the Courage that woman showed up to expose him! NO WOMEN DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT!
Just came across ur channel and I’m not sorry. I’m not a Muslim and I hope that’s ok. I really enjoyed watching ur video. My heart goes out to the Muslim women who have to go through this. I’ve read a little bit of the Quran but I don’t know much. Ty for a brilliant video
30:05 I don’t see how these women can ever remarry maybe they would be considered for second wives, but she don’t know that because she has not read the text it seems and I know women are not allowed to, but she’s already non-traditional (whether she likes it or not). She needs to go ahead and read the scriptures.
why is she complaining about the sharia law, lol. at least the guy is one of the rare cases who is transparent , honest enough to reveal his intention and expectation and waits for a woman to consent instead of lying, pretend to love and marry some day and divorcing or worse killing her. in iran the temporary marriage was used massivly to exploit women as sexworker, it was well known at all social class and political figures couldnt do much against it, since its halal.
I have learned something important. No religion and no belief can change human nature, specifically sexuality. Even the most devote religious people are secretly doing sexual things. I also feel that religion makes people more sexual because it's so repressed, it makes them crazy
This poor Lady is in Britain, she could really be in danger now. I'm not kidding, things are kicking off. I'm a Christian and I'm worried for her. Please if she ever needs help, I'll help.
There's no secret marriage in Islam, his actions doesn't reflect what Islam teaches, in Islam it's a must to let people know your married there's no secret marriage " ولا تواعدهن سرا" And do not mate with them secretly
Its crazy how these Dawah guys come off as "holier than thou" but when you get a glimpse into their personal lives they're literally Shaitan incarnate lmao.
Ikr on social media their Muslims but after that their Muslims to😂😂haraaam
I'm not suprised. It's the exact same with Christian leaders who pretend to be holier than thou but in reality have affairs, sa people under their care and other nicities. :(
In fact Islam is Barberic ideology mixed with God concepts like poison coated with sugar. Religion is the best tool for power: like Arab countries ruling by particular royal family, no election they are enjoying with massive oil wealth. Even men are getting authority over women. All this possible due to fake God concepts. After death nobody come back and say the reality... This political game will continue as long as stupid people are there for believing this imaginery God and there will be a after death life in heaven or hell.
It's crazy how morons rush to voice their slanders, without even bothering to check any fact. What happened was a misunderstanding, both of them signed a contract to settle the issue and make clarifications.
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That holier than thou attitude, is the perfect cover, for quite despicable behavior. Because chances are these people never live up to their professed moral standards.
These same muslim women will conveniently ignore the source of these anti-women teachings because they are scared of the truth.
They live in a free country and want to put a revisionist spin on the pagan sex cult to make it more like Christianity
@user-jt8vj1vm6y yes, I understand and sympathise with these ''muslim feminist'' in the Islamic countries but not those in the West.
@Slayy05a well said.
There is a lot of cognitive, dissonance going on and a lot of denial to deal with the cognitive dissonance.
Wmn love a bad boy, and the ultimate badboy gave some teachings
God this is so disgusting.
Basically just going up to a single mom in need and say "hey since you have no expectation and not many options, lets hook up until I find someone better than you" Just sick.
Sounds like some American men
@@deborahdonald9323 and I find that sick no matter the nationality. But it’s even sicker when some dudes claim it’s ok because their religion says it’s ok.
And she seems like a lovely lady, way too good for those religious Neanderthals .
This is common male behavior. Men start acting weird whenever im outside with my kid. But stay the hell away if they see my husband.
@@Mira-gu6we But it's worse if you're a Muslim or a Christian and claim to have higher standards, in regard to these things and then don't manage to live up to them.
I'm a Christian, and I'm just here for the education on Islam. I feel so bad for that Muslim single mother. I really hope she's able to realize that the systemic problem with Muslim men started with the religion itself and that she can get out ASAP.
@@isabelbard853 do you find - based on Pew Center data as well as online comments on single Moms by the Christian communities - that she would be treated within Christian churches as someone who has „more options“?
@@c.a.r.4834she woukd be treated as someone.
@@c.a.r.4834 yes for starters most Christians in uk are not Christians lol and are open minded the virgin thing is a peado thing let's be honest back in the day all cultures thought this way along time ago am 55 not reglious if that's how women are treated ij any reglion u better of out
@@c.a.r.4834 basically people more educated now in west regions can be a problem if people still follow how people think thousands of years ago humans are supposed to evole over time know right from wrong women are not a peice of meat
@@c.a.r.4834 Yes, as a Christian, she would be treated as a a potential wife, at least based on the religion itself, because all of us are new creatures in Christ. No one of us was better before we came to Christ. We were all wretched sinners who are now saved by Christ.
I once knew a British-Pakistani woman who was one of the preys of a famous UK dawah boy, he married her in a nikah ceremony with her family side only, no legal marriage in British law, she left her job and independence for him, only to survive poorly maintained by him in a dodgy area, she felt lonely and eventually found out he was married to a public wife and had kids and that she actually was his secret wife She was then abused by him and his first wife when confronting them and eventually he divorced her and she had to go back to her parents' house with no job and deep emotional and mental trauma. I was not at all surprised to find out her ex-husband is close to the dawah boy in this video. I salute you for speaking about these sickening stories compatible with islam. #withoutliesislamdies
who is the ex husband
@@sarahm4516 mr tortoise 🐢
Hamza Tzortzis? @@libervita
Congratulations to the dawah guy and used his property to his advantage LOL nice story
Hope she left Islam after that.
When i was at zuni this one muslim guy invited his muslim friends and his white gf and made her celebrate a temporary wedding without her understanding anything and when she told me, i explained to her what it meant and she refused to talk to him again and him and his whole crew had a beef with me ever since
He was keeping his conscience clear while he used her for temporary sex until he can do tripe talaq over phone messaging apps. He was arranging a “muttah”
...because she wouldn't have sex with him again! She probably wouldn't even speak to him again!
Thanks for saving her ❤😢
Hi, sorry, what do you mean, can you gimme more info about this occurrence pls? :) Intrigued!
I don't know but looks like an forced Islamic marriage
Aisha is quoted as saying in the Haddiths "I have never seeing anyone suffer as the believing women do suffer".
Quando você tiver uma mulher ocidental, e sofrer falsas acusações, você vai discordar dessa sua fala.
@@WillowCeleste-ut5tx Do not speak about Western women. Youre mad you cant control them! you Muslim males arent being falsely accused, You are despicable
@@WillowCeleste-ut5tx anybody who does good but gets falsely accused for it.. Jesus will handle it.
@@WillowCeleste-ut5tx lmao delulu
Thankfully I left Islam but yes this is a real problem. Funny how the men can have as many partners as they want but their wife must be pure and untouched. I will be single forever before I sleep with a man that wishes he was with ANYONE else but me
As a direct North European I can say: he was looking a f**k buddy 😣.
As a non-Muslim man, let me get some of that left behind Muslim women!! I mean I can’t be worst than Muhammad!! Ladies I don’t mind, you can be non- virgins!! Trust me I’m better than these Dawah boyz!! I’ll help with the bills, but you will be #2 if you know i what mean!!😊
😂😂😂😂
Found few Muslim ppl having 2 or more wife in Northern Europe too.
So the number might be big.
Nothing wrong with that - lots of wmn want precisely that and nothing more to do with him
I will tell you something curious. I met a Russian woman who went to an Islamic country (I don't remember the country, but she told me it was an Islamic one), and once she was there, some people offered her marriage even though she was already married. One of them said that because she had been separated from her husband for two months, they could marry.
I think the Islamic religion is too obsessed with sex and has no limits. You can marry underage people, practice polygamy, and engage in prostitution. Marrying a person for a month is just prostitution, but they dress it up, saying it's holy. Clearly, this has no logic; it is very different from the holy scriptures where a man and woman marry forever until death (with some clarifications in cases of adultery, allowing for divorce, etc., but under normal circumstances, it is forever).
correct… there are more talks of Sex rules in Islam than the islam itself…
Well said. The fruit of Islam is perverted lust, and all these people following it are clearly perverted or blinded in some way.
And then you have the Quranic verse, " lawful for you are those that your righthand possess" which actually means that it is lawful to have sex slaves. Which is exactly what Isis did.
Islam using west women freedom to their advantage what is wrong had they been taught God and his love they will submit themselves to their husbands but good to see atleast Islam uses these out of brain women to their advantage
Not to mention, they can have an even shorter marriage, say a few hours.
She should have seen this coming. She's considered to be property in Islam.
still she think easelame is not the problem 🤣🤣🤣🤣
No she’s not property, u can stereotype all u want , the more u point ur filthy fingers at Islam the more it attracts people and they accept Islam 👍👍👍
@@pankaja7974 She may work it out eventually.
Single women with children are seen as damaged goods in Islam, sadly, what she still has in her favor, is her looks and youth, once her youth is gone which , in Islamic terms that doesn't take long, say about 30-35. . She will see how badly things are stacked against her as a female Muslim.
Why should she expect a religious man to make a proposal like this? She is a human being with feelings and emotions just because she is a single mum, it doesn't mean she's ready to prostitute herself for his benefit. And without any benefits for herself and child.
@theodoreconstantini2548 as a single mum, I find your remark extremely offensive.
Please widen your reading and educate yourself and the wider Muslim community
If I was a religious person, I'd have no issue saying these dawah men are agents of the devil.
Agents of Allah more like as its allowed in their cult.
@@ssnap7028 Allah and Satan are indistinguishable.
Maybe. Or they’ve just discovered the Islamic “cheat codes”
@@DHOP-tm2ch Well they're both not real so there is that.
@@iridoscyclitis Agreed!
This is sounds very sleazy . And then he probably looks at western women and looks down on them, talk about having a moral blind spot.
Muslims defending him. th-cam.com/video/ztx9gN76zjk/w-d-xo.html
Não posso julgar, eu faço a mesma coisa.
Sou mulher e odeio o que as mulheres ocidentais se transformaram!
Well, now I wouldn't be surprised if one day she is on your channel or starts her own ex-muslim channel.
If she's smart enough, she will. But if not, the chick will stay in KFc forever.
With all that make up on she is already an ex-muslim , pathetic she wants the benefits but cant handle the reality of her religion
@@yourbuddy6556 😂😂😂
She won't leave islam leave.She's still calling hi m muslim brother.Just dumb.Stay in the cult
i doubt she will leave out on this incident and even though she is being roasted on social media
Muslims online actually came out defending this guy
it is the the teachings they just follow it
Women where against it. But men kept trying to explain it allowed in Islam lol😂 funny situation on Twitter. 🤦🏽♀️
Lol...😂 Ridicoulessness
They have to defend their brothers
It's a barbaric culture
I felt badly for her when I first saw this. The lecture after she said no was so unnecessary. The quest for virginity is sad, disappointing, and trivializes women. Too bad women do not feel that they can make the same demand.
Virgin women is a straw(wo)man to scare women. It has no reality.
They pretend that virgins and virginity are so precious when they themselves are not willing to keep their own virginity for marriage... This is the problem... And thats why they cheapen all their women and would replace them at a drop of a hat(4:34 And if you fear disobedience etc) This means obedience(compliance) not virginity is valued more than anything else... The goal posts are always moved... And they can literally complain about their wives and make countless excuses to divorce them
You just said it! Make the same demand and ask: where art thou virgin men?
If Islam was a fair and just it would demand the same of men, and because it doesn't we know it is man made. God could do way better than that.
Eu acho isso justo
He should have said “A friend of mine is doing research” 😂
😂
This is his stepping stone to sheikh level scholarship. Remember Numan Ali? He became the top scholar after his scandal.
Lol ya
@FriendlyExmuslim is this all we need to do to become a scholar? 🤭
@@Mulhid_Al_Islam Would be useful to be a hafiz, but - look at Uthman,he claims to be a Sheikh without even knowing arabic, covering it up by knowing a lot by heart.
@@himmel-erdeundzuruck5682ridiculous
🅰️shahado Ala La Ilaha ILL (bemar / Sick) Nallah
Wa Ashahado Anna (blind) Mahamd ul Fazool Dalllah.
My hats off to this young single mother for not only showing that she has both a healthy dose of self-respect - as well as integrity.
Not to mention courage too, bringing light to an issue such as this.
She falsely accused him.
she lives in a western country where she is protected by law. if she was in an easelamic country she would cave in
@@Asquarecircl
No she didn't.
Severely allergic to the truth, are we...?
@@lena-mariaglouis-charles7036 th-cam.com/video/ztx9gN76zjk/w-d-xo.htmlsi=G2brI-uv1EFIbmXG
@@lena-mariaglouis-charles7036 th-cam.com/video/ztx9gN76zjk/w-d-xo.htmlsi=KB2Lh_58e47iyGoV
My Muslim neighbour told me her sister was widowed when young. She'd wear niqab in London. When dropping her son off to after school madrasa, the Muslim men ( other dads) would proposition her for sexual relationship because they knew she was a widow.
It got so bad that she took him out of the Arabic school.
Oh. He wants a mistress…nice.
Completly legal in their religion, so that weird woman shouldnt complain
Halal mistress
@@SWOTHDRA its not legal, wtf ru on about wierdo.....maybe others claim it is but its not....even as a s3x slav3 she doesnt pass because she is most likely a sunni.
Common thing to have a bootycall
No. You pay for mistresses. He stated “since you have money” to let her know he picked her because he does not intend to financially support her.
I get more and more disgusted with this sick false religion that has caused so much misery and suffering
OK , in short . a famous dawah guy asking a muslim woman to islamically hook up and got rejected.
This reminds me of the hadith where Mohammed said if you see a hot woman in the street, run home and get off with your wife.
Haha where does it say that?
None of the men adhere to that
@@TayWoode sounds like you are the last one to hear about this Hadith. Your prophet after lusting after a woman he saw in the street ran home to his child bride when she was tanning leather. All hot sweaty and dirty he did her right there. In your books. Read.
@@TayWoode I believe David Wood made a video about that
@@TayWoode Sahih Muslim 1403a
Hahaha 😂😂😂 Fluffer!
I always found it funny how within Sunni communities they always whinged and complained about Shia temporary marriages whilst so many Sunnis in one or the other way slept around as well.
At least in the Shia marriage the woman knows where she's getting herself into
Literally all neighbors of Saudi are like huge brothels under the open sky. And they still pretend with such saint phizes. 😂
There is no concept of marriage as the rest of the world knows it in Islam. It is a contract for sxe.
That's because it's quranic practice. It's tought in the quran. Has nothing to do with shia or sunni!
Check out Misyar in Sunni Islam.
Mashallah this is what you call friends with benefits 😭😭😭😭😭🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
Lol, I don't think he even wants the friend part. Just the benefits
Satan idiology.
😂😂😂😂
Mashallah ! The good Muslim guy is just following his pedo Muhammad.
Abdullah, thank you for not making your wife use a whiteboard.
A whiteboard?
😂
It would take me a really long time to say what I needed to say with a white board 🤣
Wives of Dawah guys must learn to write super fast to have an opinion 🤣
@@truecrimeallofthetime
Congratulations to both of you!
Both of you should consider doing a video on how you got together and advice for ex Muslims with kids, young or older children.
She keeps calling him a "brother" 😭😭😭😭😭🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘
She shouldnt talk, with all that make up on 🤡🤡🤡🤡, the muslim women are the worst
What was this "halal hookup". Was it mutta or something else.
Friend zone lol
@@JoanneArc-or9sr No Please tell me in detail.
🅰️shahado Ala La Ilaha ILL (bemar / Sick) Nallah
Wa Ashahado Anna (blind) Mahamd ul Fazool Dalllah.
So he's 'protecting himself from doing zina'... by doing zina. XD You can't make this shit up.
I had a guy who I previously had a tumultuous relationship with for around a year and a half, dumped me to marry someone he'd only known for a couple of months. After putting me through soo much emotional pain, he had the audacity to come crawling back after the marriage went caput, and ask me to effectively be his booty call and 'not be upset or surprised' when he finds someone else. So yeah, this video struck a real nerve in me. I can at least imagine some of the sheer humiliation it must have felt to even be asked to agree to something like that.
This lady explain islam perfectly 😅
Quite frustrating, degrading and heartbreaking
Thats so denegrating and despicable. Idc about her views, no woman should be talked to like that.
Disgraceful behavior by Dawa guy. The devaluation of women in the virginity cult is disgusting.
But, we are judging it from the perspective of the Judeo/Christian values and principles.
The Islamic values apply here just fine, what Zaid did here is perfectly halal.
Islam is evil, and this is just one example of it.
it destroys human values and descend into animal behavior
@@KeanHor Nop, human values is a very simplistic way of saying humans have great values and principles at any time in history.
Nop, name me any time in history or any area of the world were they had heck of good behavioral principles.
It was ONLY when Jesus came and gave them to the very STUBBORN humans that we have them now.
She should be blaming Islamic Ideologies.
He did he want to Marry Her or Her Daughter!?? LOL
He should have asked...If she is nine, she will be fine
I’ve seen his video. Worse is there are so many like him defending his actions and saying it’s halal. It’s permissible. What BS. Good job for this young lady from exposing him. And Good job friendly ex Muslim for giving light to this topic. Thank you to you and your wife. ❤❤❤❤
Islam still to this day has within its doctrine the right for muslim men to enslave the women and female children of their enemies still alive after battle/war turning them into sex slave war booty......What do people expect from such a vile misogynist ideology?
Why doesn't he decently get married
He wants more than 1 woman so he doesn’t want to commit but still wants to use her.
He hasn't found a virgin yet.
He's trying to follow divine footstep of chilli molesta (pbuh) 😆
touba touba astakhfar 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
I just watched the video with that reference before this one 😂
U silly person
Pubg*
And once again...Welcome to Islam!
👍
He was thinking she'd be too embarrassed to tell anyone.
The guy still is her brother as she repeatedly using the term brother 😂 Good relationship between these siblings 😂😂😂😂
Damn, he’s not even gonna offer no financial support. Geez, this gets worse and worse it was already horrible. 10:59
As a gay ex muslim convert. It boggles my mind that some heterosexual, homophobic, muslim men would see her as a TEMPORARY thing and not their forever girl. If I was straight I would marry her and make her my one and only. Though I am also an apostate so I don't think it would work out. But hope this girl get a great man for her.
Why would you marry her? I don’t think she is special. She is yet another hijabi that will continently wear a scarf (full lashes and big lips) to secure a guy. The religion has no relevance it’s a tool to find a father for her kid.
37:12 reading his text. He’s trying to act like she would’ve been a wife and he would’ve kept her forever. He wasn’t even willing to pay her basic maintenance ( which we know is not much anyway) .
I think Zaid was so niave he didn't even realize that his proposal was insulting to the Muslim Woman (whats her name?) from her standpoint he was asking her to basically be his secret side chick (so he can satisfy his own selfish desires) because she wasn't good enough to be his public Wife 😆 thats messed up, he basically just wanted her to be a bridge that he could use for a little while wow
This is sad. How deep it must have impacted her. We can understand a strong decision she must have taken and a powerful step. I personally applaud her boldness. But, the question arises, what is this happening? Didn't this woman knew this thing is Halal in Islam. Didn't she exposed of her own religion. If this impacted her conscience; did she reconsidered the source of her faith. If this is bad for the good hearts, which are allowed in Islam, Isn't it the time to re-evaluate the Islam religion.
No, that would force her to admit what a slimy ideology she's following.
@@lisadabbs2181yes so she can leave the religion
I had a part time job and there was a muslim security guard who used to talk to us all the time. He told us he had been married 17 times. I thought he was kidding. Turns out, it was true. He would marry American women, get an apartment etc etc, she would give up her job to move etc etc..... and then he would walk out 4-5 months later and divorce her. . And he did this 17+ times. Why ? Because he wanted to get laid and in his head, he needed to be married to do that and have it be ok with Allah, so he would marry the women and then dump them. in his religion, temporary marriage was ok. He had absolutely no thought as to how much he was messing up these women's lives. The women he married had given up their apartments , their jobs etc... because they thought they were starting a married life with him and he was treating them like temporary wives.
"Place-holder" "marriage" -- everything is in quotation marks in Islam.
Wearing a hijab while also wearing 12lbs of make up. Love irony 🤡
Yes.... the makeup makes a statement... it certainly has nothing to do with wishing to look modest, quite the opposite 😂
Thinking the same thing. She looks like a freaking p0rn star with a headscarf.
@@user-km2bk8zb4m "Oh yes, I'm so very modest, but I'm also so very hot and sexxxy." 😆
🤣😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Her excuse will be that it modestly covers her true face 🤷🏾♂️
He can pay a prositute. This is what he wants.
Pay for this.
He wants free satisfaction 🎉😂
Misyar marriage is nothing but an updated innovative 'Halal' sunni version of Mutah.
Sort of
In misyar You can even not pay a single dollar tho, mutaah at least you have something
@@Fruitytooty6969 You don't get anything in Misyar as you have contractually declined to have it.Its kind of a Mutah Premium subscription just by staying 'married' to a person with no benificaries.
She's funny, and confused. She blame the sickening ideology while wearing its symbol.
My guess is he is upset to be outed because all his other hook-ups will know they are not the only ones.
She had to find out for herself what Islam actually is it’s a man and only man clubs women are attached to it so it don’t look like a gay club. Thank you for Christianity and welcomed women as equals 🙏
*_Islam uses and objectives women_*
May I just say, your wife is a great addition to the channel! Love hearing her opinion and viewpoint on these sorts of topics. Great job both of you!
I LOVE it when your wife is a commentator on your show. She is so smart. The love between you two is evident and beautiful.
You two are a terrific power couple. Please put her on every one of your shows!
Thank you 😁❤️
Study Quran an hadiths before your revert to islam.😢
Convert*
I never want to hear that revert word ever again.
@@sarahharris2729yes it is so messed up
Revert my ass
"Revert"... 🤮🤮🤮
He is not even attractive and not a provider what is making him so entitled 😂
The comments below that woman’s post are disgusting. Sad reflection of our times.
Sad reflection of their intrinsic values.
She looks like she has been realy hurt by the "indecent propsal" of this guy
It’s what her religion teaches. Why is she shocked and appalled?
Looks like she was negotiating for a better deal
She is hurt as she could not take her intentions to it end, before her he attained his goals women give for something they need in return
@@Manamal-uu8dy She's still a human being ffs. Maybe a bit gullible about what her religion endorses, but that's also very human none the less.
There's also the added danger of Zaid El-Omar and other dawah bros using this single mom for their own selfish ends and they won't necessarily have single women's and their daughters' best interests at heart. 😒😡
Which is lawfull in his religion, if she doesnt like it, she should leave that evil cult
If she really is raising a child "by herself" as her name says then she is not held by familial or cultural ties. I'm also a little skeptical of women who dress so modestly but wear so much makeup and false eyelashes. It makes me think that they are using modest dress for attention. In a world where lots of women are online showing skin, an easy way to get attention can be by covering up excessively. One thing that we know about men in general (don't take offense if you are an exception) is that men like something different. They don't even necessarily feel attracted to the best. They just like something new. And if a man is in a place with a smaller percentage of people dressed like this, it's novel. I know plenty of Muslim ladies in Western countries who dress modestly but do it in a way that doesn't stand out (baseball cap and a scarf, long shirt, long skirt). So I don't have a ton of sympathy for this story. Lots of attention-seekers.
@@1108-g1q Even if she likes attention (and you're only assuming that based on the fact you don't like the way she presents herself, because... make-up bad, I guess?)... does this mean it was okay for this a-hole to DM her and basically suggest that she becomes his f***-buddy because she's no good for anything better? Can you hear yourself? And have you ever heard the concept of an "imperfect victim"? People like you (who dismiss bad things that happen to someone just because this person doesn't live up to your personal standard of whatever) are a big part of the reason why victims of various kinds of abuse or mistreatment are afraid to come forward. Because instead of focusing on the wrong that was done to this person, you choose to focus on finding faults with them, even if it's got nothing to do with the situation at hand. Doesn't matter what she does and what she looks like - this guy shouldn't have treated her like that, because no one should be treated like this. End of story.
@@AW-uv3cb yes, I do "hear" myself because I grew up Muslim and I know that this level of makeup is totally haram even to the most liberal imam fatwa. I am so tired of seeing converts who are desperate attention-seekers. Yes- Islam may have been preferable to some things that came before it (introduction of mahr, for example) but converts today in this age are just stupid. Or they have found their attention-seeking niche on social media.
@@AW-uv3cb💯🎯
So whats the bennifits for her and what does he come to the table with? Absolutely nothing! Why would any woman in her rite mind even consider such a proposal!
The excuse will me that all this has been given by Allah to avoid promiscuity.
🅰️shahado Ala La Ilaha ILL (bemar / Sick) Nallah
Wa Ashahado Anna (blind) Mahamd ul Fazool Dalllah.
I’m ngl, men wanting virgin women is more of a general misogyny problem than just an islam problem. But it’s much definitely much worse in Islam.
Does this happen in Islamic countries to single women who have children as a result of marriage, temporary marriages? They may be widowed, not necessarily divorced.
There are no single mothers in islamic countries
Widowed, divorced women with or without children is seen a low status against virgins. ...it just sad and pathetic.
I dont thunk there is divorce in sharia law countries.
Here in Indonesia muslim called it SIRI, basically an undocumented marriage which you only need an imam and two witnesses it's done. So if you feel like divorcing her, just leave.
The irony is a lot of arab mouslim countries wimen will go around the virginity status by having an operation that will sew back.I had my share a girlfriends in morrocco,algeria,tunesia ,all wanted to experience a taste of America before marriage😂😂s@@Melay-b4x
He is not tone deaf, he is acting according to Islams rules. So yes, we can all tell it is wrong even from a secualr view, but the religion allows it. He isn't offended about degrading her, he is offended that she exposed him to shame for something that's allowed. Imagine how many of these stories we don't know of, with girls much younger !
If you don’t want to go out with him he threatened to tell everybody that you are sleeping with him and to make you embarrassed at front of everybody 😮
52:18 if he was really interested in this and she had nothing to do with it. Why did he not go to somebody else? Why not go to a man ?they know everything I mean, her advice is only equal to half that of a man’s why waste his precious time with that? Hmm…..🤔
The other comment I left you I was using speech to text and I’m not sure what I was trying to say so I just deleted that comment it didn’t make any sense. Sorry about that. 😊
The comments under his video rn are mostly delusional. But to be fair, it's allowed in Islam, so I dont understand her complaints (from a logical perspective).
Slavery is allowed in Islam, that doesn’t mean she would be ok with being sex slave either
@@iiddrrii6051
"Slavery is allowed in Islam"
Well, not for free Muslim women. They can not be sold into slavery nor taken as slaves as war spoils. There is unfortunately a disturbing amount of women that have no issue with non-Muslim women being subjected to this however.
What would Islamic angels do to this woman for rejecting a Halal proposal from a BROTHER and going to the extent of exposing what is supposed to be secret, IF angels curse women ALL NIGHT for not allowing their husbands till their farms at will?
😅😅😅😅
This guy's epic whine across those messages is exactly the same nonsense that fills complaints of Islamophobia directed at criticism from outside the religion.
Alot of Muslim men have narcissistic traits.
Culture places high status to male family members. Mother puts them on a pedestal.
Eyelashes are Haraam
Buddy, the eye lashes are the least of the problems in islam.
Go look nto the character of rasool allah:
- grooming and mounting 9 year old aisha
- keeping sex slaves and graping
- demon-possessed and receiving false revelations
- beheading people who criticised him
- breaking an oath he swore to his wife hafsa and breaking a peace treaty
- lusting after his son's wife zaynab and breaking up her marriage
- receiving convenient "revelations" that condoned his deviant and disgusting behavior
RIAI
She's into haram. That was not what she complained about.
Not really.
@@osiris8519he’s being sarcastic
minor haram is mekruh, wigs and eyelashes are mekruh that require small punishment, in sharia god created human and should accept oneself as such unless there is medical intervention needed.
He probably would view her daughter as a prospective wife
I cannot be a part of any religion organization Christians, Islam, etc that teaches my daughter or girls or women that they are less than men. And to say we are equal to men … should not be said…equality is not necessary. I am a human ….saying I am equal to men is same as giving me permission to breath air. I don’t need your permission I just breathe. I don’t need your permission to be equal . Man is human I am human …we live, we breathe, we die…I show you respect I expect the same
Exactly
I think once a male child has tasted the power that Islam gives him over women they will very rarely relinquish it willingly. A religion that says that the WORST man is better than the BEST woman is,sadly,not beyond belief Thanks,Friendly,for drawing our attention to this. What a BRAVE woman! 57:56
It's a real happening in the political realm in Malaysia. This were the words : it's better to have a corrupt leader as long as he is muslim than an upright non muslim as a leader! It was said by an ulama. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
It was uttered during the infamous days of 1MDB.
Isn't Mutah marriage kinda similar?
It is similar. Except mutah is renting a female on a so-called agreement for such-and-such a time ie. pwafitstitution. Whereas these "looking for a single mother" types are simply practising another form of fornication.
Actually now that I've just re-ead my comment, it's exactly the same crap. 😬🤣
Same thing, different names
Correct, muttah just puts the expiration date in the contract. This other type makes a contract where the woman relinquishes several of her rights.
No
@crypticmystic5316 wrong. They are similar.
Is anyone actually surprised by this, read the ideology they espouse, look at the culture it developed.
the comments on her IG post are wild, wild, wild
He wants to use her like toilet paper and when he’s done, he wants to throw her in the trash
She would never go for it because she does not want to show her daughter or son that’s how you treat a woman. I hope she stood up for herself and looked elsewhere.
He thinks he’s such a catch also maybe there’s a reason why he’s single.
I was a very attractive, single mom, who married a man now for 30 years. I knew I was a single mom, and it was much more difficult to find a husband, but I was a traditional wife and was not single because of me. it was real important not to teach my children that I had a revolving door with men. I was very select only was dating for marriage.
I do not practice Islam.
Another bad thing about Islam is you cannot adopt children so if you’re a single mother, and you marry a Muslim man, he cannot adopt your children, even though your husband passed away.
I’ve learned a lot about the Quran and Mohammed these past 12 months. I actually feel bad for the women were born into Islam because they’re treated like property.
I’ve had many different girlfriends over the years, different religions, different race, but I’ve never had a friend that practice Islam. If there were wives in my business, I could not make friends with them because they weren’t even allowed to speak English but their husbands cheated on them with any woman they could get. I felt so bad.
The ummah is urged not to open the aib ( shortcomings ) of another muslim, especially when it involves the aib of a political or community leader especially involving accusation of malappropriation of funds or sexual misconduct.
The line between an individuals responsibility in speaking up or even reporting a crime and an act of self censuring in favour of the public image of their own leadership is so very grey and thin.
That is not even touching the already alarming number of people who reject and question the judiciary process claiming the trial cannot be just and fair to the convicted because it wasnt a trial under shariah laws.
( not sure if it has anything to do with these two types of crimes specifically or if these two types of crimes happens most often when it people in positions of leadership. )
I am Christian, more spiritual than Christian. The theme with a lot of religions is that women are below men, I do not think this is of God but more so man made to give men more power. It's so freaking weird this obsession with virginity, so do Muslim men who aren't virgins also have a title of being "damaged goods?" I'm going to say no, but I'm not muslim so I'd love to know about it. Thanks for discussing this
While Islam definitely has a bit of a tilt towards virginity whether it be narrations where a companion was asked why he chose to marry an older woman compared to a younger one his age, or the 72 virgins in heaven, I think the Muslims of the 7th centuries were actually less obsessive about it than modern-day Muslims. Same with views on marriage which were arguably way less grand and stressful affairs than modern day marriages are.
"so do Muslim men who aren't virgins also have a title of being 'damaged goods?'"
They definitely get less of a stigma than women do, especially in patriarchal societies, but the vast majority of Muslim women do not prefer to get married as a second/third/fourth wife, or to marry someone who is divorced (especially after a long term relationship). This is amplified in Western countries where Muslim women have far more independence to be able to work, travel, and live in society without a male partner meaning they can be more selective of their partner, if they even want one.
The problem is that in many Muslim societies women do not have means to exert that level of autonomy. In theory they have the ability to reject a marriage proposal for example but familial pressures as well as economic pressures mean that many women have to make pragmatic choices that result in better conditions for them and even their family. While Islam does provide avenues of divorce (more limited than in secular countries today), they are under pressure by societal influences to avoid it.
How to hookup and still keep it “Halal” 😂
Really great content Mr. Friendly ExMuslim. Really appreciate your wife's contribution to this struggle for so many Muslims who are questioning their faith. Just a suggestion here for an extra layer of protection for her, maybe you should distort her voice too so that no-one can get her voice profile. Anyway keep up with the great work.
Thanks. She's okay with sharing her voice.
@ashuuzie. Total nonsense. What she’s saying is what matters not what she looks like.
Being non muslim but being interested in the spiritual part of islam, I've been reading and researching about it for more than two months. And the more I know the more I see how deceiving it is, specially for women. I found you two days ago, literally, and can't stop listening to your videos. Thank you for your good work!
Really he is honest and amazing followers of 7th century Islam and using it to his pesonl ambitious to gain excess to single mother and help less young girls
He did an offer. She was not interested. Now other women are aware of this kind of business. All fine
I saw her video yesterday! It was fascinating.
That guy, using his status towards women, treating women like that, is probably a narcistic personalty! My respect for the Courage that woman showed up to expose him! NO WOMEN DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT!
Just came across ur channel and I’m not sorry. I’m not a Muslim and I hope that’s ok. I really enjoyed watching ur video. My heart goes out to the Muslim women who have to go through this. I’ve read a little bit of the Quran but I don’t know much. Ty for a brilliant video
Thank you for the comment and welcome!
30:05 I don’t see how these women can ever remarry maybe they would be considered for second wives, but she don’t know that because she has not read the text it seems and I know women are not allowed to, but she’s already non-traditional (whether she likes it or not). She needs to go ahead and read the scriptures.
why is she complaining about the sharia law, lol. at least the guy is one of the rare cases who is transparent , honest enough to reveal his intention and expectation and waits for a woman to consent instead of lying, pretend to love and marry some day and divorcing or worse killing her. in iran the temporary marriage was used massivly to exploit women as sexworker, it was well known at all social class and political figures couldnt do much against it, since its halal.
I have learned something important. No religion and no belief can change human nature, specifically sexuality. Even the most devote religious people are secretly doing sexual things. I also feel that religion makes people more sexual because it's so repressed, it makes them crazy
That’s very evil. Trying to explore another person and take advantages. That’s not from God. Well-done for exposing him.
She's pretty. He looks like the creep he is.
She is pretty and he is good looking. Both are using their religion as a tool to secure a better life. He comes off as a needy little simp.
55:34 perhaps he’s not ready for marriage. He’s tired of being a virgin, but that’s not her fault or any other woman’s.
Years ago I read that temporary marriage was popular among young Iranians. They would marry for a few days.
I really love your wife's input (as well as yours, of course:)
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This poor Lady is in Britain, she could really be in danger now. I'm not kidding, things are kicking off.
I'm a Christian and I'm worried for her.
Please if she ever needs help, I'll help.
its like trying to create a loophole for their own invented religious boundaries
There's no secret marriage in Islam, his actions doesn't reflect what Islam teaches, in Islam it's a must to let people know your married there's no secret marriage
" ولا تواعدهن سرا"
And do not mate with them secretly