The Oxford Dress Shoes - Men's Wardrobe Essentials - Best Mens Dress Shoes

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  • @marcnacianceno154
    @marcnacianceno154 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love your video! I'm 50 yrs old now. But I remember when I was in my teens(circa 80's) my Dad gave me a black wing tip and a brown cap toes( all hand me down Aldens). My friends were all laughing at me every time I wear them with jeans! Look at them now they're all stuck in those lousy square toed shoes!!! FYI. Those Aldens are still in perfect condition!

  • @shadab9543
    @shadab9543 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a lot Ashley for this great video.

  • @gonzaloa.1121
    @gonzaloa.1121 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashely thank you for helping me improve my appearance! I greatly enjoy all your videos and respect that you do not promote sponsored items, instead promote your perspective. More gansta Ashley please! lol

  • @jroark101
    @jroark101 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think the cap toe looks a little more casual. Also some people like the square toe shoe. I personally don't mind it With some loafers. I don't think people should "burn" then if that's all they own ;) lol. Love you videos btw. Thank you for all the information!

  • @eddyvasquez7
    @eddyvasquez7 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job Ashley.

  • @tikiduck
    @tikiduck 7 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    She is right about the square toed shoes...Hideous!

  • @latetotheparty7551
    @latetotheparty7551 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video. The first point about not having squared toes shoes is so on point. The point about utility and rather to invest in quality vs. value was also spot on and not addressed often enough. Having a live model sure helps in the actual visualization. Just my two cents on the first one. It seemed quite casual overall so the Oxfords seemed slightly out of place, but that second one went together quite well.

    • @latetotheparty7551
      @latetotheparty7551 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Ashley Weston Ah, if they look darker in person that would make it work more. Good point. I actually recently went with brown brogues versus black Oxfords for my dark wash jeans.

  • @joshuaflores8187
    @joshuaflores8187 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow great vid keep it up ashley

  • @mohammedrazak3786
    @mohammedrazak3786 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    so helpful thank you

  • @bouncydemon
    @bouncydemon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I honestly think an oxford is a bit too formal for a pair of denim, no matter the wash. I would personally go with a derby. Derby's are a lot more versatile, you can pull them off with a suit AND denim.

    • @Harrypotterxx2
      @Harrypotterxx2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree but I think that brown wingtip oxfords are acceptable with dark wash jeans but a blucher or derby is more appropriate.

    • @jeremyemilio9378
      @jeremyemilio9378 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bouncydemon double monkstrap,right in the middle

    • @wongpantai1533
      @wongpantai1533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its more about the color then the style, fashion its about balance and color matching

  • @user-zx7zq3eu5d
    @user-zx7zq3eu5d 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    luv u Ashley!

  • @NeonBuzz
    @NeonBuzz 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    That coat! I'm dying.

  • @rbtamms
    @rbtamms 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This video made me finally decide to buy a quality shoes. Good thing, there's an Allen Edmonds store in SF. I usually wear size 10 US shoes, but the guys at AE recommend that I wear size 10.5. The Black AE Carlyle looks so good in person & it's so comfortable to wear. I want to buy another quality shoes, what other brand can you recommend Ashley?

  • @muymuyot
    @muymuyot 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are such a beauty, Ashley! All the love! :)

  • @TubeDeviant
    @TubeDeviant 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have to say, I would love to play dress up with Ashley..!
    But back to the shoes.. I did a bit of shopping this last Black Friday and Boxing Day and bought four pairs of dress shoes.. I originally bought five pairs, but returned one because I didn't notice the squared toe on one.. LOVE my Oxfords..!! =) ALL except one pair were 50% off..!! I was almost in tears putting items on my wish list, waiting for the next sales..
    I swear, I saw about 30 ties I wanted.. haha..
    Don't even start on shirts or suits.. But now I'm rambling..
    Waiting patiently for Black Friday and Boxing Day again..!!
    Love your videos, Ashley..!!

  • @SuperShawn2020
    @SuperShawn2020 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a ton help - I knew you would have strong opinions! 😎

  • @spectre5x5
    @spectre5x5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video as usual Ashley! What shoes do you recommend for a black tie tuxedo and white tie tuxedo?

  • @MrSlitskirts
    @MrSlitskirts 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great clip and subject. I personally prefer black 'no cap toe' Oxfords as I like the 'clean lines', plus I like the 'pointed' closed lace holes at the bottom. I'd just have one pair as described as I'd only use them when wearing a Suit and Tie. I don't actually own any Oxfords yet but I do have a pair of black RM Williams 'Tambo' (extra wide 'Craftsman') Chelsea style dress boots that can be worn with either a Suit and Tie or various Business Casual/Smart Casual (jeans) combinations. I too match the leather belt colour with leather shoes colour; kind regards..

  • @markg7460
    @markg7460 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I've enjoyed the videos. Have you ever reviewed To Boot New York shoes?

  • @nikosioannou7100
    @nikosioannou7100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A very good video, but by definition the cap toes are the less dressy option (jeans, chinos) than the ones with non cap toes (slacks, suits). The general rule is the more complicated the less dressy the shoe.

  • @daleykun
    @daleykun 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I just wanted to point out that you didn't actually explain what defines an oxford shoe so people know what to look for. Also, in your article's recommended 'go-to oxfords for clients' you've included a set of derbys in there - the Christian Louboutins. The thing that defines an oxford shoe is having a closed lacing system.

    • @pjmccabe5923
      @pjmccabe5923 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ashley Weston ..v

    • @ashishsamabraham3794
      @ashishsamabraham3794 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ashley Weston I personally am not a fan of derbies but can they substitute a oxford

  • @kirktuchten2762
    @kirktuchten2762 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A red/ burgundy/ oxblood, will add an additional layer or depth to a man's wardrobe once the 2 basics are covered. .. Like you covered so elequintly :-)

  • @wpharding
    @wpharding 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When your article says "brown/cognac", is cognac just a lighter brown? How light can you go for an "essential" shoe? I am thinking of AE's bourbon or dark chili color. Thanks!

  • @SteneArtStudios
    @SteneArtStudios 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Ashley, I'm looking to update my shoes and get the Oxfords you recommend as well as the dress boot. My question is; I fell in love with John Lobb shoes however those are way out of my price range. I'm considering going Crockett & Jones for all three but was wondering your opinion. Should I go with a $200 Oxford and save the money, and use it else where, or just go for this Crockett pair. The shoes would be worn 3-4 times a week for work for a business or business casual look. I'm not one for brand names but man those John Lobbs were awesome when I tried them on. I'm thinking of just treating myself and just going with a more inexpensive brand. Thanks for the input.

  • @danielrussell3362
    @danielrussell3362 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, Ashley would you say Johnson and Murphy is a good brand for a decent pair of oxfords? I'm trying to decide between those or paying the extra for Allen Edmonds.
    Thanks!

  • @TomRNZ
    @TomRNZ 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Ashley. What do you think about Chelsea boots? I love them. They're currently my favourite footwear, but what do you think about wearing them in more formal situations?

  • @H8tthis
    @H8tthis 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    AE is awesome

  • @MattDo
    @MattDo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Ashley, I work in an environment where you need to wear dress shoes but frequently crouch down, which ends up bending/creasing the top cap area of the shoes. Do you still recommend Oxford or should I maybe invest in an alternative? (I heard Cole Haans is amazing)

    • @NEHEM24
      @NEHEM24 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cap toes would divert people's eye from the creases. Just make sure it's always clean.

  • @Penguun
    @Penguun 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    what are your thoughts on black Oxford's with tan leather sole that can be seen from the side

  • @nicolas.pascal
    @nicolas.pascal 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No cap toe is more formal. If you give it a high shine, it can pass for black tie and maybe even white tie events.

  • @sayanji123
    @sayanji123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks a lot Ashley for this great video. I have a quick question on Oxford Shoe. I recently bought a pair of Oxford Shoe. Even though the shoe is great, it does not have a wax finish (shining) on it. Is it expected that the dress shoe should always be shining?

    • @sayanji123
      @sayanji123 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Ashley Weston Thanks Ashley for the guidance. I bought the shoe from Bacco Bucci. Now I am feeling that I should consider returning the shoe as it is not shiny at all. Please let me know if you have any feedback about the Bacco Bucci brand.

  • @nthekitchen162
    @nthekitchen162 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please forgive my ignorance on the subject. In the military we wear bates dress shoes with our service uniform, will these work in a nice suit as well?

  • @jinkim402
    @jinkim402 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I feel like you’re wearing the viral shirt that’s either blue or gold. lol

  • @dodgeblake1096
    @dodgeblake1096 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm confused about what type of oxford could be worn with jeans + shirt for music playing and with jeans + T-shirt for more casual moments. Are wingtip oxfords more apropriate?

  • @abbaby5084
    @abbaby5084 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Respect And Love Leaned A Lot From You Mam

  • @Knottykid
    @Knottykid 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've a question about men dress shirt most people go to color are white and oxford blue so what about the other color are they only meant to be worn in Proms ??

  • @samyselim7075
    @samyselim7075 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    While round-toe is a traditional and conservative choice, chisel-toe/eagle claw (see Gaziano & Girling/Rain last by Carmina) are another extremely elegant choice. Watch sartorial talks.

  • @ApartmentKing
    @ApartmentKing 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Ashley, for the AE brown oxfords do you suggest the Brown Burnished Calf or Chili? The Burnished Calf appear darker and to my eye the Chili most closely matches the shoe displayed on your site. Thanks much.

    • @ApartmentKing
      @ApartmentKing 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the prompt reply...chili it is! Your site is a fantastic resource and is the best I have found for allowing a rapid transformation to those looking to build a quality wardrobe. Very clear and precise with options for every budget. All the best.

  • @jdavid941
    @jdavid941 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What do you prefer: leather or rubber sole?

  • @Pasighat101
    @Pasighat101 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about a wingtip dark brown version?

  • @aarondavidison9924
    @aarondavidison9924 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can I wear this for my school, my uniform is black pants and white polo

  • @ganeshraj555
    @ganeshraj555 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    CAN I WEAR A DRESS SHOE WITH TROUSER AND SHIRT WITHOUT A SUIT

  • @TheDoctor4901
    @TheDoctor4901 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saddle shoes master race

  • @HappyKanomKrox
    @HappyKanomKrox 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want Tommy. >.

  • @FatherTime10
    @FatherTime10 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll take dress boots without laces, like Chelsea and jodphur boots over oxfords and derbys any day.

  • @michaelenns8872
    @michaelenns8872 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    what about the shape? How should the pair of shoes be shaped?

  • @mehmetakifalakurt249
    @mehmetakifalakurt249 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your intro reminds me Harry Potter. :D

  • @X1OAFREED0M
    @X1OAFREED0M 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    You know what's sad? A lot of companies constantly mislabel derbys as oxfords.

  • @VeganMan007
    @VeganMan007 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It was due to this video that I purchased a pair of Allen Edmonds Carlyle. I just got them today. I have MS and have very little money. But for once in my life time, I wanted something nice, handmade tailored shoes. Well... I have never been more disappointed in my life. The first thing I said was--is this a joke? They look like someone made them and forgot to put their glasses on.
    I will start with the right shoe: Part of the stitching on the bottom of the sole is outside of the grove. That means I would be walking on the stitching. On the stitching at the bottom tip, the grove is twice as deep as the rest of the grove. Many places on the siding of the sole isn't smooth. At the back, it looks and feels like it was sanded and has a bit of a tip on it. It looks like no one paid attention to it at all. Under outer top of the soul where the shoe tucks in, the stitching seems deep inside. Due to this, there are a few places on the bottom of the shoe (where it meets the sole) that the sowing needle stabbed the leather shoe. I don't think its waterproof with the holes in the leather.
    The left shoe is not as bad. The bottom of the sole is fine. The sides of the sole is uneven and at one point it was sanded much deeper and it looks like they panicked and they came out too far making it look very odd. This is so noticeable that I'd be embarrassed if someone looked at them. On the front of the top of the sole, the stitching come around right at the edge.
    There are marks on both shoes and I am not sure if they can be buffed out, despite spending over $150.00 on polish and special brushes.
    Despite using the same machine to size my shoe size and using the online sheets to size my feet, the shoes seem to be a bit tight. I put them on and walked around my living room for a minute unlaced hoping they would loosen a little. All it did was put a lot of creases in them which I was very surprised because I didn't do much walking.
    I am more the type of guy who gets depressed over it and throw them away just to get it out of my mind and get rid of the stress asap because stress causes real problems with MS. I am so sad and disappointed. I ordered the Nordstrom in USA to Canada just to save a few bucks. Instead of moving forward and trying to save money for a good outfit so I can feel good wearing something nice, I have gone backwards and totally wasted my money. Now it all seems hopeless. Shame of Allen Edwards making such terrible quality shoe and making false claims about there workmanship and inspecting each shoe. The shoes don't even meet 'second factory shoes'. And shame on Nordstrom for selling such terrible quality shoes. And shame you two for have such high reviews on Allen Edwards shoes. I can't trust you or anyone anymore.
    I am heartbroken and very disappointing with you all. :(

  • @4846maxt
    @4846maxt 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    you didn't mention about the close lacing systems of an oxford!

    • @latetotheparty7551
      @latetotheparty7551 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +James Tu This series seems to be more of a primer rather than a detailed guide but she does go into more detail, in general, with the articles on her site.

  • @dontaecrane4
    @dontaecrane4 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you have some African American men models so I can see what I look like in the shoes or clothing. Thanks nice videos

  • @joselitopascual7117
    @joselitopascual7117 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alright! I promise Ashley to match my belt. I just bought a pair last night with square toe online :( they're going straight back, not even gonna open it.

  •  6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Legal!

  • @juanpablogonzalezs.v.8319
    @juanpablogonzalezs.v.8319 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    she called us stud muffins :]

  • @fatumteam
    @fatumteam 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really want to hear once JUST ONCE what the heck he said to her when they meet :D

  • @code0312
    @code0312 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where's the code?

  • @MisterUntouchable
    @MisterUntouchable 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have seen square toe shoes that throw oxfords under the bus and also the man makes the shoes. Not everyone can pull of square toe shoes just like the square shape is not applied properly to the shoe design.

  • @theagent3
    @theagent3 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happen to cordovan? Nobody wears cordovan no more?!

  • @NEHEM24
    @NEHEM24 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Black shoes here are an epidemic.
    Almost everyone wearing them square toed.
    And that's not the worst part of it.
    Those square toe shoes looks are too long.
    Like shoes worn by elves, the tip isn't pointy though but square toed..
    Imagine, Long Square Toed Black Leather Loafer Shoes..
    Thank god I only worn a normal square toed black derby and I pledged that I never wear them again. Its covered in dust now and I might throw them away, it's cheap though.
    I even bought a dark tan cap toe oxford..

    • @NEHEM24
      @NEHEM24 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      www.metrocharm.com/v/vspfiles/photos/Delli-Aldo-M-19259-2.jpg
      This is what I meant

    • @matibf2
      @matibf2 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nehemiah Antalan uhhh sorry dude but they are ugly...

  • @BigTechWorldx2
    @BigTechWorldx2 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tuxedoes: Always plain toe, never cap toe

  • @Sbayo9
    @Sbayo9 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am I the only one who thinks she has crush on the model?

  • @inspir3d81
    @inspir3d81 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I disagree with pairing the jeans with black oxfords. It’s a clash of formalities. If you’re wearing jeans the most formal oxfords you should be wearing are brown full or half brogues. Save the black oxfords for formal wear.

  • @websaint
    @websaint 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wtf. tommy is well handsome.

  • @Dadee3
    @Dadee3 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What's up with that Batman intro music lol

  • @TFM8
    @TFM8 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I personally dont like the black oxford shoes that much. 9 out of 10 will wear them in the room... you'll never get any compliment or notice if you look like everyone else...

    • @TFM8
      @TFM8 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh it was not meant as a bad critique. I quite enjoy double monk straps and I know its not meant to be super formal but in every day office work it definitely works (for me at least). So does brown or oxeblood but yeah the video was about black shoes.

  • @yaadahmed3884
    @yaadahmed3884 3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @colofthedead6101
    @colofthedead6101 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    brb, off to burn my square toed shoes...

  • @hscriven3089
    @hscriven3089 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Captoe is less formal than plain toe. Edward Green=John Lobb>Crockett Jones>Church>Cheaney. AE overpriced and way down on quality compared to the Northamptonshire shoemakers.

    • @jjnatteri1245
      @jjnatteri1245 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are comparing Allen Edmonds with shoes that cost two, three and four times as much. Not sure how you can say that AE is overpriced

    • @hscriven3089
      @hscriven3089 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      JJ Natteri actually if you order online from the UK, due to the weak gbp and removal of VAT, you can undercut AE prices for C and J and Cheaney. So yes, in that respect AE are overpriced at rrp of 400usd for a pair of Oxfords. Sites to order from are herringshoes, robertold etc.

  • @jim_dog
    @jim_dog 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    "They are VERSITILE"... Shows a loafer. Lol

  • @migui8850
    @migui8850 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Donate them, don't burn them.

    • @Quandussy
      @Quandussy 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      migui8850 It was a joke bud

  • @edwardcoleman8251
    @edwardcoleman8251 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stole from rmrs

  • @clydebk
    @clydebk 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oxford is a brand, so what is she talking about?

    • @ChicagoJeans
      @ChicagoJeans 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oxford is not brand, its actualy type of dress shoes like Derby

    • @9alt0
      @9alt0 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wat lol

  • @wongpantai1533
    @wongpantai1533 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Black captoe is overrated, nowadays fashion become more casual. Black doesn't have patina and looks cheap, instead invest more in dark brown or burgundy, and buy cheap black cap toe and shine them well as you wear them in 0.001% of your life (job interview, funeral)

  • @oneeyedjack2254
    @oneeyedjack2254 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    These videos seem to always assume that money is not an object, and all we have to do is go out and shop anytime we want. I wish I lived in that world. And I will never own brown shoes. Brown shoes equal brown belt; brown belt equals traumatic childhood memories . (Yes I know, TMI)

  • @airborne8290
    @airborne8290 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    if we will not listen to you then whom we will