I think a lot of people want to do that too, just get up and leave. But I also think it’s society’s fault for the “family is everything” mentality that makes it hard for children to rationalise abuse from their birth parents. I wished they taught children that family is not only blood related and that adults can be wrong. It would’ve save a lot of children from trauma.
@@lc4life369 no it’s also taught by society. It’s taught in school that your parents are always right. It’s taught by your parents that family comes first. Even if it’s natural for babies to feel for their parents, it is taught by society the “importance” of family. Many cases of child abuse go unnoticed because the child themselves don’t know abuse until much later. Society is to blame for that.
you are SO right about people gaslighting others about their own abusive parents 😞 especially hate it when people use “blood is thicker than water” when the full quote is “blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb” literally meaning the opposite of what dumbasses use it for
Aside from her problematic tendencies, it’s just important to have people bring to light this type of parental abuse. It’s important to allow people who are estranged from their parents to know that choice is valid. I was raised in an abusive home and every kid should get to deal with that in their own way. I like that she hasn’t always been incredibly open about this, she made an identity off of her personality and not her trauma which is something I think a lot of people online need to learn. Your traumatic past doesn’t define your future, so invest in showing people who you are- not just where you came from ❤
God I wish I could talk to Tana. I went no contact with my abusive mom a few months before her death. I do not regret it, and I fully get all the feelings she is having. I still cried, it still took me a month to feel normal. It still hurts but I don’t think it hurts as bad as if my dad who I have a great relationship with passed.
Growing up super Catholic and in a Mexican household, it was heavily ingrained that no matter what my parents did, I had to “honor” them and make an effort to speak to rhem. When my dad left, even though HE was the one who stopped contact, so many people would tell me it’s up to me to reach out, “because that’s what God wants.” Even after I finally opened up how abusive he was it was ignored and I was still made to believe I had to forgive him. It took years of therapy to finally realize it’s not my responsibility and it’s okay to not have any contact with him.
Tragic. I know so many people who's parents never showed any love and sense of security, yet expect it once the child is grown. It's such selfish behavior. I hope you are at peace now and know that you did all you could, those "respect" customs get abused so much.
People should see the abuse from the person you should trust most is the very reason it is ok to break away. It was his obligation that was broken never a child’s! ❤❤
I completely understand Tana on this topic so I feel for her, but I'm happy she can at least somewhat talk about it. There's nothing worse than hearing, "but that's your mom", because it's always from people who have good relationships with their parents or people who think they do.
I remember her mentioning in a video that her dad would take her to get dental work, not pay the dental place, and so if she needed follow up dental work afterwards she would just not get it. Because of that, she later needed to get A LOT of dental work, because some of the stuff she got done in childhood was never actually completed.
In tanas defense i remember her asking ethan if she could vape on the podcast before and he said yes, she also apologizes when she accidentally blew it towards him so she was being respectful
My mother was horribly abusive, my father as well, as he supported n encouraged what was done to me n what I was made to do, n when she died I felt so guilty because I was relieved, n numb. You kinda can't believe its come to an end. My entire life was abuse, once she died I honestly didn't know how to live. I'm still trying to figure it out.
If I’m remembering correctly she said something in a TH-cam video about her birth father getting mad that she had lights on during the day because it was expensive or something along those lines. From watching third podcast and her recently it seems like she’s growing as a person which is so great to see
I don't have the best relationship with my parents either, and it was horrible growing up. Both of my parents were abusive in their own ways (one of them still is) and I lived with my best friends family for years as a teen as well. I never knew Tanas upbringing was like that, it definitely makes me feel for her. I have RAD because of my childhood, I wouldn't be surprised if Tana does too. This definitely makes me look at her differently.
Tana has matured SO much , I used to watch tanas story times all the time and comparing that to now she’s so well spoken and the maturity is really showing and I’m so proud of her .
Honestly, as a kid that was neglected The dental work could be for a lot of reasons tbh For exampl, if you don't make sure your kid brushes their teeth or takes care of their dental hygiene, they most likely won't. Which is what happened to me Not being brought to the dentist just contributes to that, then too. And then of course the possibility of physical abuse.
A lot of people with narcissistic tendencies have either come from incompetent parents and/or were an only child. With little to no self awareness, they never realize why they have the negative personality traits they have and never work on themselves. Jury still out on Tana. Like Trisha, she puts on this performative act that she has changed yet her behavior doesn't match up a lot of the times. It's why it's thought that narcissists never truly change since they never gain self awareness. She lies a lot but I would bet a lot of what she says about her parents is true simply because of how she is.
I absolutely hate to hear Tana went through such a terrible situation. I remember that video too and something just felt so wrong. And i totally agree Adam! She seems to have become so emotionally mature and I hope she finds the peace and healing she deserves
I've always felt some empathy for tana. She's said and done some seriously questionable things, but I definitely empathize with her experience. I know what it's like to have sh*t parents, and hoping they will change someday. I hope she finds people who really support her in the way she deserves. PS Hila is objectively lovely idk what the beef is there
The thing with people like her though is that having people who really support her IS NOT enough. She needs to reach a certain level of self awareness to stat looking within herself and start acknowledging all the negative personality traits she has because of how she was raised, the people she's been around etc because she still has that defensive shield narcissists have where they feel attacked when you tell them a truth about themselves. They would only feel attacked by the supportive group if little to no self awareness is there.
I had similar upbringing and I hope she's doing the work in and outside of therapy. It's not her fault but unfortunately you need to deal with it in adulthood. She had to grow up too fast and didn't have routines which is such a struggle I relate to but doing the work and seeing the progress is worth it
i personally enjoyed hearing tana talk about this part of her life as i have a similar story and relationship with my parents. i find comfort in knowing that not only am i not alone in that but that she made it out and is very successful after growing up like that.
She might have won but some people its hard to face your abuser I had a chance once to do that I didn't take it I don't blame her its hard to go against your biggest bullys
This is very interesting as a girl who grew up in Las Vegas. Tana and my childhoods were very similar. Luckily I was blessed with better parents than she had. 😢
I relate to what she says so much. My father’s abusive and I always wondered if I’d cry in his funeral. I thought about it so much that I dreamt about it and I remembered I cried in that dream and felt confused when I woke up.
I feel for her. Having really shit parents are a real thing. My mom stole form me $, subjected me to abuse lot of really awful shit . My mom has seen no issue and we don’t talk. I feel for her and nice to see her open up
I had a bad relationship with my parents growing up and was emancipated early as a teenager because of it. Although we get along for the most part NOW (it took the space of me moving out and lots of therapy), I really feel for tans in this situation.
Wait what do you mean "lawyers who get paid by the hour, yuck"?? Lawyers should be paid by the hour, that's the only way to pay them ethically imo. It's the lawyers who only get paid if they win that are the problem, not the lawyers getting paid by the hour. Everyone should be paid by the hour imo
Watched/Listened to this stream... I am not a fan of Tana, but what she has gone through with her parents is terrible. All the abuse AND she isn't even allowed to talk about it in detail?! The fact her parents are able to silence her is yet another example of how F'd up our judicial system is in the US.
Tana's upbringing isn't ALL that uncommon imo - I can relate to a handful of what she went thru. Toxic household, living with friends at a young age, researching and seriously contemplating emancipation as a minor, not getting proper healthcare, having an estranged (at best) relationship as an adult and never having the proper emotional paternal and maternal support, parents that gaslight about what I experienced in my youth, the list goes on.
I remember in one of her old videos she talked about her dad cooking her and her friend disgusting food, not paying for ac and not allowing lights or windows to be open and if I remember correctly hes a nam vet and would watch war shows on tv with it muted..
Her parents lawyer wouldn't have gotten paid if they didn't win. So it doesn't matter how long it goes on for, it matters who wins, because if her parents lost, their lawyer wouldn't get paid.
I can really resonate with her as someone who came from a very difficult background but wow, I really feel for her. No one understands unless you live through it.
Refreshing to hear Tana speaking with insight and maturity. O always had a sneaking suspicion thos person was in there but yet she would endlessly play the offensive,chaotic brat who took no responsibility for anything. Either she's grown up lately or Naughty Tana was created for TH-cam. She is eloquent, emotionally intelligent and has a certain dignity that makes me want to hug her. I hope this continues.
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hila and ethan have talked about smoking a lot of cigarettes back in the day. also, Dan used to be a huge vaper. so i can imagine they’re used to it and don’t mind the vape, but probz don’t partake on their own
it’s a new feeling for me to relate to tana so deeply, i was raised in a similar way and share similar feelings towards my parents. these clips are very humanizing of tana and i know almost exactly the feeling of disconnect toward parents, and the heartbreak of feeling parentless
I have nothing to do with most of my bio family bc I just don't belong. That's not to say I don't have moments where I cry and ask why I'm not good enough
6:35 we went through this with our mum. She caused a lot of childhood trauma. A lot. Severe. Reason we had DID. yet when she died six years ago. The guilt, was unbelievably unbearable 😢 i hate that i had hate for her. But, obviously I did love her deep down cos her death traumatised me. But, it was grief and steroids.
It adds up that her parents are probably in their late 60s. My mom had me at 40 so raising me in my 10 years she was in her 50s when I was 10 his age they were in their 60s now in 30 and they're in their 70s. But there definitely is something different to having older parents.
I had a rocky relationship with my mum when I was younger but she was no where near abusive like this and it still effected me soo much as an adult and gave a lot of trauma and anxiety to work through so I can’t even imagine what tana has and still is going through 😢
That interview was so good and really was fascinating to hear her story. Heartbreaking. Seems like she's working on healing from that and her problematic past issues so I'm rooting for her!
When I remember Tana Mongeau’s parents I remember the video she made about her dad and how he just doesn’t make any sense lol. I assume her mother speaks to the lawyers. In my opinion.
This speaks to me and I have had lots of people tell me I can’t separate from my abuser because they’re my parent. I really feel her kind of guilt saying if she did see them on their death bed she’d only be there to give her parents peace
I have always wanted to know the story with her family. She always hinted about major dysfunction and said she would explain what it was like and never has.
i feel bad for her cuz i know what she dealt with since her family is similar to mine and i was also taken in by my friend and her mom what i was younger too.
I was brought up by my grandparents, my mum chose her husband over me also my dad F’d my mum and F’d off. So I don’t have much of a relationship with my mum and 0 relationship with my dad. So I don’t know how I’ll react to hearing that they have passed away. :/
Adam you should watch some of Ethan and Hila's old videos and do reactions of their old content that would be so fun, but going to Tana, I feel so bad for her upbringing and it explains so much. Her parents are extremely abusive this is so sad.
My mom is the same way towards me I relate to her and Jeanette so much not the same things by far but my mom never ever loved me she never even taught me to wipe after I pee I smelled like pee til I was 14 no one ever told me I figured it out myself 🙄 I don't think I'll care if she dies. She apologized a few weeks ago for everything she's done turned around a few weeks later told me I'm the worst mom ever for taking my best friend to the mall with me and my child while we shopped for clothes for me and my son with our taxes (at rainbow bro I buy $5 shirts etc) that my son will hate me that if I get him taken away it's on me meanwhile while we were there I was buying him clothes an indoor swing and indoor slide an indoor trampoline a new TV for his room on top of him getting g as much food as he wants his butt changed constantly etc. Like there is no reason to call me a bad mom whatsoever me and my son love each other so fucking much! But this bitch man! I'm sorry for the rant yall just know yall ain't alone with your abusive narcissist parents
Minus the having the MTV show and getting sued by your parents, I relate to so much of what Tana's saying. :') I understand painfully well what it feels like to grow up in a house like that, leave as early as possible, and to never have the peace of an apology or even acknowledgement of their actions from the people who hurt you (who were supposed to be the ones taking care of and protecting you).
Maybe I’m a bad person, but I will not feel guilty when my dad dies. I feel really bad for my brother. They seem pretty close. My brother’s been able to maintain a pretty decent relationship with my dad. I wrote my dad off years ago.
Since her parents are suing for deformation...and Tana's large past history of exaggerating EVERYTHING to the largest extent (even the smallest details)...I honestly don't know how much to believe her
My best friends dad used to steal her money too for his drug addiction, it broke my heart to see her so hurt from her own parent. My parents never stole for me, they just always charged me rent starting at 15 when I started working full time until I moved in with one of my best friends family.
Honestly, I’ve always loved Tana. She has scammed people, lied, but I’ve always seen it as a little girl with no foundation growing up while helping to contribute the rise of a huge platform. She made impulsive decision after the other with what seemed like sh** management for her initial stages. The more recent years I feel have been more an act or nod to her “iconic” days, but it’s been noticeable, at least to me, that she has been through a lot of stuff to grow up. Kind of like the rest of us but we aren’t on the grand scale of notoriety as she practically grew up into alone. No excuses for actions taken, but I don’t think she’s ever really looked for excuses like that - more so just doing her own thing and making mistakes through her journey of life.
Her parents would be in there 60s it’s only been 10 years since she was 14-15. Which is a normal age for parents our age but I get what she’s saying bc my dad was the same way- he was “old”
Maybe there's some skeletons in her closet from being a kid her parents might try to bring up like her getting rapped that she isn't ready for the public to know
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It literally doesn't matter if they are your blood, abuse is abuse. Nobody deserves to deal with that.
thank you, a lot of people think because someone is your blood you owe them something. abuse IS abuse, no matter who it is.
I think a lot of people want to do that too, just get up and leave. But I also think it’s society’s fault for the “family is everything” mentality that makes it hard for children to rationalise abuse from their birth parents. I wished they taught children that family is not only blood related and that adults can be wrong. It would’ve save a lot of children from trauma.
@@lc4life369 no it’s also taught by society. It’s taught in school that your parents are always right. It’s taught by your parents that family comes first. Even if it’s natural for babies to feel for their parents, it is taught by society the “importance” of family. Many cases of child abuse go unnoticed because the child themselves don’t know abuse until much later. Society is to blame for that.
“Some people are often narcissistic with abuse and they don’t believe they are that” i felt that in my soul
you are SO right about people gaslighting others about their own abusive parents 😞 especially hate it when people use “blood is thicker than water” when the full quote is “blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb” literally meaning the opposite of what dumbasses use it for
Aside from her problematic tendencies, it’s just important to have people bring to light this type of parental abuse. It’s important to allow people who are estranged from their parents to know that choice is valid. I was raised in an abusive home and every kid should get to deal with that in their own way. I like that she hasn’t always been incredibly open about this, she made an identity off of her personality and not her trauma which is something I think a lot of people online need to learn.
Your traumatic past doesn’t define your future, so invest in showing people who you are- not just where you came from ❤
She needs to release a tell-all book as a fictional novel 😂
like oj with the “if i did it” book lol
God I wish I could talk to Tana. I went no contact with my abusive mom a few months before her death. I do not regret it, and I fully get all the feelings she is having. I still cried, it still took me a month to feel normal. It still hurts but I don’t think it hurts as bad as if my dad who I have a great relationship with passed.
tana having abusive parents just makes so much sense
Growing up super Catholic and in a Mexican household, it was heavily ingrained that no matter what my parents did, I had to “honor” them and make an effort to speak to rhem. When my dad left, even though HE was the one who stopped contact, so many people would tell me it’s up to me to reach out, “because that’s what God wants.” Even after I finally opened up how abusive he was it was ignored and I was still made to believe I had to forgive him. It took years of therapy to finally realize it’s not my responsibility and it’s okay to not have any contact with him.
Tragic. I know so many people who's parents never showed any love and sense of security, yet expect it once the child is grown. It's such selfish behavior. I hope you are at peace now and know that you did all you could, those "respect" customs get abused so much.
People should see the abuse from the person you should trust most is the very reason it is ok to break away. It was his obligation that was broken never a child’s! ❤❤
That's one of my huge hang-ups with religion. The fact that abusive parenting can be brushed off and justified by some religions is beyond disgusting.
I completely understand Tana on this topic so I feel for her, but I'm happy she can at least somewhat talk about it.
There's nothing worse than hearing, "but that's your mom", because it's always from people who have good relationships with their parents or people who think they do.
I don’t support a lot of Tana’s actions but listening to this helps me understand her more. Wishing her the best.
I remember her mentioning in a video that her dad would take her to get dental work, not pay the dental place, and so if she needed follow up dental work afterwards she would just not get it. Because of that, she later needed to get A LOT of dental work, because some of the stuff she got done in childhood was never actually completed.
In tanas defense i remember her asking ethan if she could vape on the podcast before and he said yes, she also apologizes when she accidentally blew it towards him so she was being respectful
My mother was horribly abusive, my father as well, as he supported n encouraged what was done to me n what I was made to do, n when she died I felt so guilty because I was relieved, n numb. You kinda can't believe its come to an end. My entire life was abuse, once she died I honestly didn't know how to live. I'm still trying to figure it out.
NO ONE should tell an abuse victim to talk to their abuser more.
If I’m remembering correctly she said something in a TH-cam video about her birth father getting mad that she had lights on during the day because it was expensive or something along those lines. From watching third podcast and her recently it seems like she’s growing as a person which is so great to see
I don't have the best relationship with my parents either, and it was horrible growing up. Both of my parents were abusive in their own ways (one of them still is) and I lived with my best friends family for years as a teen as well. I never knew Tanas upbringing was like that, it definitely makes me feel for her. I have RAD because of my childhood, I wouldn't be surprised if Tana does too. This definitely makes me look at her differently.
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what’s an RAD?
@Lair Is vibing reactive attachment disorder.
Tana has matured SO much , I used to watch tanas story times all the time and comparing that to now she’s so well spoken and the maturity is really showing and I’m so proud of her .
Honestly, as a kid that was neglected
The dental work could be for a lot of reasons tbh
For exampl, if you don't make sure your kid brushes their teeth or takes care of their dental hygiene, they most likely won't. Which is what happened to me
Not being brought to the dentist just contributes to that, then too. And then of course the possibility of physical abuse.
A lot of people with narcissistic tendencies have either come from incompetent parents and/or were an only child. With little to no self awareness, they never realize why they have the negative personality traits they have and never work on themselves. Jury still out on Tana. Like Trisha, she puts on this performative act that she has changed yet her behavior doesn't match up a lot of the times. It's why it's thought that narcissists never truly change since they never gain self awareness. She lies a lot but I would bet a lot of what she says about her parents is true simply because of how she is.
I absolutely hate to hear Tana went through such a terrible situation. I remember that video too and something just felt so wrong. And i totally agree Adam! She seems to have become so emotionally mature and I hope she finds the peace and healing she deserves
I've always felt some empathy for tana. She's said and done some seriously questionable things, but I definitely empathize with her experience. I know what it's like to have sh*t parents, and hoping they will change someday. I hope she finds people who really support her in the way she deserves.
PS Hila is objectively lovely idk what the beef is there
The thing with people like her though is that having people who really support her IS NOT enough. She needs to reach a certain level of self awareness to stat looking within herself and start acknowledging all the negative personality traits she has because of how she was raised, the people she's been around etc because she still has that defensive shield narcissists have where they feel attacked when you tell them a truth about themselves. They would only feel attacked by the supportive group if little to no self awareness is there.
@@lonetardigrade she is objectively still so young. I’m not all the same person I was at 24 years old.
@@lonetardigrade I completely agree with you
13:35 I feel like that stuck with her bc her bio says “not bad for a 5 with no talent” :(
I had similar upbringing and I hope she's doing the work in and outside of therapy. It's not her fault but unfortunately you need to deal with it in adulthood. She had to grow up too fast and didn't have routines which is such a struggle I relate to but doing the work and seeing the progress is worth it
i personally enjoyed hearing tana talk about this part of her life as i have a similar story and relationship with my parents. i find comfort in knowing that not only am i not alone in that but that she made it out and is very successful after growing up like that.
She might have won but some people its hard to face your abuser I had a chance once to do that I didn't take it I don't blame her its hard to go against your biggest bullys
This is very interesting as a girl who grew up in Las Vegas. Tana and my childhoods were very similar. Luckily I was blessed with better parents than she had. 😢
When children are neglected dentist will notice an increase in cavities, teeth malformation, or just disappearing.
I relate to what she says so much. My father’s abusive and I always wondered if I’d cry in his funeral. I thought about it so much that I dreamt about it and I remembered I cried in that dream and felt confused when I woke up.
I feel for her. Having really shit parents are a real thing. My mom stole form me $, subjected me to abuse lot of really awful shit . My mom has seen no issue and we don’t talk. I feel for her and nice to see her open up
I had a bad relationship with my parents growing up and was emancipated early as a teenager because of it. Although we get along for the most part NOW (it took the space of me moving out and lots of therapy), I really feel for tans in this situation.
Wait what do you mean "lawyers who get paid by the hour, yuck"?? Lawyers should be paid by the hour, that's the only way to pay them ethically imo. It's the lawyers who only get paid if they win that are the problem, not the lawyers getting paid by the hour. Everyone should be paid by the hour imo
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Watched/Listened to this stream... I am not a fan of Tana, but what she has gone through with her parents is terrible. All the abuse AND she isn't even allowed to talk about it in detail?! The fact her parents are able to silence her is yet another example of how F'd up our judicial system is in the US.
Tana's upbringing isn't ALL that uncommon imo - I can relate to a handful of what she went thru. Toxic household, living with friends at a young age, researching and seriously contemplating emancipation as a minor, not getting proper healthcare, having an estranged (at best) relationship as an adult and never having the proper emotional paternal and maternal support, parents that gaslight about what I experienced in my youth, the list goes on.
Her parents look like siblings 😳
I remember in one of her old videos she talked about her dad cooking her and her friend disgusting food, not paying for ac and not allowing lights or windows to be open and if I remember correctly hes a nam vet and would watch war shows on tv with it muted..
Her parents lawyer wouldn't have gotten paid if they didn't win. So it doesn't matter how long it goes on for, it matters who wins, because if her parents lost, their lawyer wouldn't get paid.
I can really resonate with her as someone who came from a very difficult background but wow, I really feel for her. No one understands unless you live through it.
Refreshing to hear Tana speaking with insight and maturity. O always had a sneaking suspicion thos person was in there but yet she would endlessly play the offensive,chaotic brat who took no responsibility for anything.
Either she's grown up lately or Naughty Tana was created for TH-cam.
She is eloquent, emotionally intelligent and has a certain dignity that makes me want to hug her.
I hope this continues.
So maybe that’s a small part of her attachment to Shane. Cause he helped and protect her career since she didn’t have to many people around her would
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hila and ethan have talked about smoking a lot of cigarettes back in the day. also, Dan used to be a huge vaper. so i can imagine they’re used to it and don’t mind the vape, but probz don’t partake on their own
Tbf their whole thing used to be "Vape Naysh yall" lol
it’s a new feeling for me to relate to tana so deeply, i was raised in a similar way and share similar feelings towards my parents. these clips are very humanizing of tana and i know almost exactly the feeling of disconnect toward parents, and the heartbreak of feeling parentless
I have nothing to do with most of my bio family bc I just don't belong. That's not to say I don't have moments where I cry and ask why I'm not good enough
You are always enough. Let them go find less. You are enough. Keep going.
6:35 we went through this with our mum. She caused a lot of childhood trauma. A lot. Severe. Reason we had DID. yet when she died six years ago. The guilt, was unbelievably unbearable 😢 i hate that i had hate for her. But, obviously I did love her deep down cos her death traumatised me. But, it was grief and steroids.
It adds up that her parents are probably in their late 60s. My mom had me at 40 so raising me in my 10 years she was in her 50s when I was 10 his age they were in their 60s now in 30 and they're in their 70s. But there definitely is something different to having older parents.
ADAM! I spit out my Red Bull when you started singing 😂
I was also thinking about Jeanette McCurdy.
Is it bad that I thought that was Jason Nash at first?
I had a rocky relationship with my mum when I was younger but she was no where near abusive like this and it still effected me soo much as an adult and gave a lot of trauma and anxiety to work through so I can’t even imagine what tana has and still is going through 😢
I think this conversation with Tana is the most honest and genuine that she's ever been on the internet
That interview was so good and really was fascinating to hear her story. Heartbreaking. Seems like she's working on healing from that and her problematic past issues so I'm rooting for her!
Just listened to chosen family, I’m obsessed.
seriously one of my favourite songs ever
I really relate to Tana I have abusive narcissistic abusive parents I have diagnosed with severe depression / anxiety & c-ptsd
I watched the whole interview! So good and unfortunately I can relate at least to the 💩 parents part
I really thought you were about to subject me to listening to Hefner.
Omg u singing Anastasia!! You are so cultured it’s insane
People trynna force mom vibes on Hila, be a spoilsport. She just has an annoying husband and happens to be quiet.
When I remember Tana Mongeau’s parents I remember the video she made about her dad and how he just doesn’t make any sense lol. I assume her mother speaks to the lawyers. In my opinion.
This speaks to me and I have had lots of people tell me I can’t separate from my abuser because they’re my parent. I really feel her kind of guilt saying if she did see them on their death bed she’d only be there to give her parents peace
I have always wanted to know the story with her family. She always hinted about major dysfunction and said she would explain what it was like and never has.
i feel bad for her cuz i know what she dealt with since her family is similar to mine and i was also taken in by my friend and her mom what i was younger too.
I am actually glad Tana is finally OPENING THE F UP…. let’s see if it lasts and she becomes cool and doesn’t get in drama + Jeff has been good for her
I was brought up by my grandparents, my mum chose her husband over me also my dad F’d my mum and F’d off. So I don’t have much of a relationship with my mum and 0 relationship with my dad.
So I don’t know how I’ll react to hearing that they have passed away. :/
This was such a good episode
Adam you should watch some of Ethan and Hila's old videos and do reactions of their old content that would be so fun, but going to Tana, I feel so bad for her upbringing and it explains so much. Her parents are extremely abusive this is so sad.
My mom is the same way towards me I relate to her and Jeanette so much not the same things by far but my mom never ever loved me she never even taught me to wipe after I pee I smelled like pee til I was 14 no one ever told me I figured it out myself 🙄 I don't think I'll care if she dies. She apologized a few weeks ago for everything she's done turned around a few weeks later told me I'm the worst mom ever for taking my best friend to the mall with me and my child while we shopped for clothes for me and my son with our taxes (at rainbow bro I buy $5 shirts etc) that my son will hate me that if I get him taken away it's on me meanwhile while we were there I was buying him clothes an indoor swing and indoor slide an indoor trampoline a new TV for his room on top of him getting g as much food as he wants his butt changed constantly etc. Like there is no reason to call me a bad mom whatsoever me and my son love each other so fucking much! But this bitch man! I'm sorry for the rant yall just know yall ain't alone with your abusive narcissist parents
Minus the having the MTV show and getting sued by your parents, I relate to so much of what Tana's saying. :') I understand painfully well what it feels like to grow up in a house like that, leave as early as possible, and to never have the peace of an apology or even acknowledgement of their actions from the people who hurt you (who were supposed to be the ones taking care of and protecting you).
The lawyer would get a percentage of the winnings in the suit or it's free or the other side will be responsible for legal fees
Didn’t she used to say her mom was living with her after she moved out in her old stalker videos or am I not remembering right.
Maybe I’m a bad person, but I will not feel guilty when my dad dies. I feel really bad for my brother. They seem pretty close. My brother’s been able to maintain a pretty decent relationship with my dad. I wrote my dad off years ago.
Since her parents are suing for deformation...and Tana's large past history of exaggerating EVERYTHING to the largest extent (even the smallest details)...I honestly don't know how much to believe her
who remembers tana angel agency???
My best friends dad used to steal her money too for his drug addiction, it broke my heart to see her so hurt from her own parent. My parents never stole for me, they just always charged me rent starting at 15 when I started working full time until I moved in with one of my best friends family.
Yay glad u talked about it
ive always related to her and now i know why
Hila serving looks! Also this is sad, you need your parents to be there for you. This explains tanas behavior as well
Wait why was someone mad at you for calling Hila beautiful?? Lmao wtf
Honestly, I’ve always loved Tana. She has scammed people, lied, but I’ve always seen it as a little girl with no foundation growing up while helping to contribute the rise of a huge platform. She made impulsive decision after the other with what seemed like sh** management for her initial stages. The more recent years I feel have been more an act or nod to her “iconic” days, but it’s been noticeable, at least to me, that she has been through a lot of stuff to grow up. Kind of like the rest of us but we aren’t on the grand scale of notoriety as she practically grew up into alone. No excuses for actions taken, but I don’t think she’s ever really looked for excuses like that - more so just doing her own thing and making mistakes through her journey of life.
Not that tana didn’t do a great job but this just makes me feel hopeless
Her parents would be in there 60s it’s only been 10 years since she was 14-15. Which is a normal age for parents our age but I get what she’s saying bc my dad was the same way- he was “old”
does anyone know what sunglasses she’s wearing?
Maybe there's some skeletons in her closet from being a kid her parents might try to bring up like her getting rapped that she isn't ready for the public to know
Wow tana looks so much like her mom
why am i so early how did i end up here
Adam, hila & Ethan do acid, I’m sure they don’t mind vape 😝
I fkn laughed at your Anastasia impression 🤣