you are more than what you went through

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  • @mattipulu8390
    @mattipulu8390 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Absolutely great video, thank you! I discovered something new about myself through your video.
    I am 38 years old and I have suffered from various crises throughout my life (e.g. my father's suicide and bullying at school), which have had a debilitating effect on my self-esteem. Still, I managed to graduate from university and get a respectable job in the financial sector. But I recently lost a very important relationship and at the same time I was exhausted at work, which again made me think of myself as weak and incompetent, so I have been trying to rebuild myself here.
    Your video helped me in this process, because maybe I'm not really weak, but maybe I have strength and potential that I just haven't realized. In my case, however, the change still requires further work, but this is a step forward, thank you.

  • @DanielPattillo-z4z
    @DanielPattillo-z4z หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Awesome message Bailey! You have a lot of wisdom. Life taught you early on to fight trough your issues. I really wish the best for you.

  • @ni_kisanga
    @ni_kisanga 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It is very empowering when u realize that u are stronger than u thought u were and as a reminder to myself I don't think feeling "u are stronger than the next person" is healthy...i mean they are definitely dealing with some shit u know nothing about, shit maybe u and i never faced. Afta sayin that i gotta say u are very inspiring keep that light in u burning lord knows the world needs it ( and by the world i man me sometimes😅)

  • @grandiosa86
    @grandiosa86 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I always appreciate your uploads.

  • @jsil4265
    @jsil4265 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Bailey for being strong for us all too, your words really impacted me as i looked you in the eye, especially in the end of the video. Thank you thank you thank you

  • @Chefpavel
    @Chefpavel 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You just earned another subscriber. As a psychologist specializing in pediatric disabilities, I wish your story could be shared with more. Let me know what I can do for you.

  • @Tmax1462
    @Tmax1462 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Bailey,My phone was acting nutty so after i Vpn on'd it to London, You Appeared and i clicked Play,and Watched 2 Vids,and Im Like Wow, Being an Empath w A live feed to feelings around you,and a touch of spiritual warfare,. mixed w just normal life messed up crap, and a past to support that,its easy to feel alone and not identity with anyone that much and feel isolated.i didn't realize how much until I heard you speak,and i was mesmerized on WHAT you were saying,Your perspective of things.Thank You for That.if i think Your really Kool,and you are,then that part of me like you,that i suppress so much and feel ashamed of instead of Proud of and Use it for Good to Myself and others
    Instead of what i been doing, and its just how ive allowed myself to Cope with a Very Painful Circumstance,its Pretty Overwhelming,it would be for Anyone.i try to give myself a break,cause i do know that,but the obstacles im up against are relentlessly exhaustingly impossible seeming,but i know theres a way,and i do believe in exactly what you said about our bodies and healing and im very new to that idea,and just ordered some things last night for first time,and together ive been really trying to understand exactly how to do what it is you said,and believe it, understand it,grasp how,why and get rid of all that misdirected guilt,shame,for my past and go back to remembering who i really was,am,and what i wanted and be that again, and in the process get physically free from all the injuries that happened, or as much as im able,and learn to handle it differently, correctly,like i used to,before i was beaten so far down.even though i know this,ive never heard somebody Say it,like You did, it's Very Very Unique.Thank You.its hard for me to even hit post this,cuz i know i overflow,say to much, but i wanna so here,

  • @Eacoi
    @Eacoi 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was surprised as to how much your thoughts aligned with the kinds of line of thinking I've been undergoing lately. It compelled me to comment and share my perspective. I have an auto-immune disease called lupus, and the symptoms you referred to are relatively similar to the one's I experience. No dislocations, but GERD (mine developed because of lupus), fatigue, joint aches, rashes, brain fog, affects my kidneys, throat, ability to breathe, and a couple of other things. I'm a man, and have lupus, which for me personally has made it very difficult to deal with. Hearing your perspective actually resonated with me. I turned my entire life around, from being a very unhealthy individual that ate junk food, drank soda, and smoked cigarettes for 8 years of my life. 4 years ago, I cut away all of that (including smoking and drinking, 4 years clean from that as well), despite having lupus, I built my body and mind into something I am very proud of by being consistent with the gym, my diet, and philosophy (Gilles Deleuze and Felix Guattari, also Alan Watts were groundbreaking for me). My diet is relatively immaculate, fitting for my particular physiology and I am very proud of that. Relatability has been the most difficult part as of lately. This writing below is something I wrote recently that I believe ties into what you were stating

    In relation to one stating: what ideas or actions am I able to produce, or in other words, what am I capable of?, it is the statement itself that produces the subject’s capacity for potential action, in which, the capacity they have for potential action is rendered functional through the statement first, holding it as primary, where the correspondence of their produced action is evaluated on the basis of the statement, rendering their capacity for potential action, that is including the production of statements, as secondary. There is a reduction of the capacity for potential action to the statement itself, and in this reduction, there is a blockage that occurs that situates the statement as a constitution of interrelated ideas that correspond to lived experiences that have already occurred. To have such a statement correspond to one’s capacity for potential action, the statement itself must be situated at a present juncture, in which, the accumulation of already lived experiences are not perceived on the basis of limitation, but as starting points which unfold as thresholds of an underdeveloped capacity, the capacity to not reproduce what has already been conceived, but to produce action on the basis of that which one has thought, therein, one is able to actually think in terms of action.

  • @shabnumahmadmir582
    @shabnumahmadmir582 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are truly an inspiration for being overcoming the sufferings one goes through, letting us enjoy these sufferings ... You are brave and beautiful

  • @rajmathew6220
    @rajmathew6220 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I've met a bunch of dancers with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, so interesting. One is a pro into her 30s. I'm not sure how unusual that is but it sounded amazing to me, and was inspiring. You're just as amazing too. Appreciate your uploads and uplifting messages.

    • @bailey.schildbach
      @bailey.schildbach  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for saying this. ❤️
      And Yes!! I’ve noticed this too. Probably because of the extreme range of motion we have in our joints. It allows us to turnout more and have really high extensions, which gains us attention in the ballet world. It’s very interesting to think about.

    • @Bob-x1f
      @Bob-x1f หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful sweet​@@bailey.schildbach

  • @yellowblanka6058
    @yellowblanka6058 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm a 6'2 200+ lbs. man who turned 40 earlier this year, and it's a weird, uncomfortable feeling watching a video of a 20-something blond woman who seems to have 3x my resilience. Sounds like you had an early passion and talent for ballet that overrode any pain you might be feeling...I really admire people who find their passion early. I've been a dilettante(sp?) with a little bit of musical talent (well, I sang in Chorus for 6 years in middle/high school), some artistic talent/design sense a little bit of athleticism (hindered by the fact that I've been overweight to varying degrees pretty much since the age of 6, but the 40th birthday was the cold splash of water I needed to really start getting serious), but have never really had an overriding passion....well, I've been told a few times in my life that I'm a pretty good writer (though anybody reading my comments might think otherwise). It's easy to get bogged down by emotional baggage, especially when you take it on at a tender age.

  • @SerpMolot
    @SerpMolot 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You seem like the kind of person who would find Dostoevsky enjoyable.
    I would recommend much of classical Russian literature and Soviet cinematography (especially about the Great Patriotic War) as, I believe, you would find it relevant to your life.

  • @REZZA2020
    @REZZA2020 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your extraordinary. :( Thank you Bailey

  • @Nina.VanRobiart
    @Nina.VanRobiart 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She has the face who would play the black and white swan perfectly

  • @unfilteredhonor93
    @unfilteredhonor93 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I admire your strength so much. Thank you for sharing this. 😊

  • @tylermaxwell1990
    @tylermaxwell1990 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Woah!! I've seen a few of your videos now, and I've really appreciated them all, but this one just made me realize how weirdly similar you and I are. My mom has Ehlers-Danlos and I carry some of the markers for it. I also have been recovering from other traumas that I responded to with perfectionism for the longest time that over the past few years I have been seeing more and more as proof of my nerve and desire to live as fully as I can because I fundamentally wont accept being defeated by all of the pain. It's very bizarre, but also very timely in a synchronicity sort of way, to have found your videos at this point in my journey. Thank you for being you and for sharing your story with us!

  • @majohladky3249
    @majohladky3249 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is great to have an attractor something to move towards to. Its always the journey that brings joy. If one can set the destination always further in front of himself one never dies.

  • @squareapples5118
    @squareapples5118 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story. It's incredibly inspiring to see how you have leveraged all the odds against you to build such amazing levels of strength, resilience courage and wisdom.
    Hearing you really got me looking at life from a new perspective. It's people like you that can literally people's lives, and a lot of lives. Keep going🙏

  • @tomgilder1051
    @tomgilder1051 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Im very proud of you Bailey

  • @howtodrawcomicsnet
    @howtodrawcomicsnet หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brilliant video!

  • @robinpresmann
    @robinpresmann หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And if we would put that Pain behind something we are gifted at...

  • @20bndk05
    @20bndk05 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you this helped me

  • @gamer77444
    @gamer77444 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im proud of you, truly

  • @E-LLAW
    @E-LLAW หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are Amazing Bailey!♥️

  • @IvanSpaziano-ko5cv
    @IvanSpaziano-ko5cv หลายเดือนก่อน

    All problems comes out from our inner unability to remain alone into your room, in a deep inner state of peace within ourselves. Pascal was right on that.

    • @sinenkaari5477
      @sinenkaari5477 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's wrong on so many levels. Humans are social species so it's against our nature to stay isolated.
      To stay completely isolated would be to die.

  • @AbstractIntellectus
    @AbstractIntellectus หลายเดือนก่อน

    the end of the video really touched my soul. we really are more than we think we are. it reminds me of one of my favourite pieces of writing where a character in a story is speaking to their younger self: "You are cruel and arrogant and selfish, but you are more than that. You have always been more than what others saw. You are more than that." I hope you are well, Bailey. This video took a lot of courage to make. Of that I'm almost certain. Keep your head help up high, regardless of what path you take: being the ultra-marathoner or neurosurgeon or artist or mechanical engineer, you're going to be a good one. Much love and respect.

  • @wellnesswithmj
    @wellnesswithmj หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🙏 this was so helpful to hear

  • @ShakeITyEA
    @ShakeITyEA 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am nothing without you by my side

  • @edwardelkins8723
    @edwardelkins8723 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You seem like such an amazing person in your videos , I can tell you have leaned some spiritual wisdom and have Gods anointing to understand wisdom. I don’t know much about your medical condition but you seem vibrant and healthy hopefully your health will be lasting. I don’t know if you can do any kind of other excercise , have you tried any natural holistic medicine or practices?. Can you still stretch ? Seems like some moderate aerobic excercise and stretching would help keep you fit. Swimming might be of some benefit. I learned something that is really helpful to me , after taking some martial arts and reading some books , I bowed to God before some exercises one day and learned I can meditate about God and use my body spiritually with deeper understanding , so now after learning modern dance and two chicane yoga , I now to God and hold what I am meditating about in my mind as I bow , like maybe it will be a posture excercise so I bow thinking about my posture then I relax and let my mind freely move my body at will like a mediation to explore the healing nature of the spirit and get my mind and body in tune , kind shunning the evils in my mind , trying to find the sickness and wielding my heart and mind to let God guide me in my movements

  • @Belovedfriend-LSB
    @Belovedfriend-LSB หลายเดือนก่อน

    is THAT how mental illness became a lifesaver and not a dysfunctionality

  • @JasonCampbell91
    @JasonCampbell91 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's okay if the words don't come out perfectly. Everyone needs to acknowledge that what people say is just a glimpse of what they're trying to say. When you forget that, that's when you contribute to the world falling apart because of miscommunication.
    Another thing is hating the people themselves instead of the ideas and perspectives that they have. They're different things. Ideas take a life of their own. They control people. Tell someone an story and it will change how they see the world, and how they act. Stories, ideas, perspectives, they're alive - even if they're on some abstract plane of existence. Think about someone and ask yourself - how much of this person is a real person, and how much of them is a story that they're telling themselves about the world? Are you talking to a person or are you talking to a story controlling a person?

  • @johnpawelski7948
    @johnpawelski7948 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Do you have any suggestions on how to find happiness again? I realize this might be a silly question.

    • @bailey.schildbach
      @bailey.schildbach  หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not silly. Never silly. I love this question. I’ll make a whole list and make a video on it. Of subtle ways to rediscover happiness.
      In my experience, it’s about rediscovering what brings you joy and finding gratitude in the day to day moments.
      But also understand, happiness isn’t necessarily the goal. The goal is to create a mindset that allows you to experience negative emotions without being consumed by them. An acceptance of all emotions without judgement.

    • @johnpawelski7948
      @johnpawelski7948 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bailey.schildbach I know me being vague is not helpful. This question has more context. I prefer not to discuss it publicly. If you are interested or willing to chat more, we can exchange emails and proceed from there.

  • @underdogpsychosis2841
    @underdogpsychosis2841 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sister's goin off in this one 😅🙌🏻

  • @jo18533
    @jo18533 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What type of books/philosophy etc have you read over the years which has shaped your worldview? Your videos are quite intense but very insightful.

  • @wasabi333
    @wasabi333 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love you, Bailey.
    Have you heard of Joe Dispenza's meditations?
    I have a bunch of chronic issues too, so I can relate.
    Hope we can achieve what we're meant to. Thanks for the great videos!

  • @tbcstuff3634
    @tbcstuff3634 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Solid half time speach.

  • @thesilentknight4554
    @thesilentknight4554 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Struggle with society today, is simple. 90% of humanity is attempting to be artsy, and not genuinely themselves.
    I'm the 10%
    Which is why I'm friendless.
    Because I don't chatter about gooblygoop🙃

  • @Belovedfriend-LSB
    @Belovedfriend-LSB หลายเดือนก่อน

    GO YOU LINDSEY STIRLING IN DISGUISE YOU GOT THIS

  • @Abby35854
    @Abby35854 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good morning miss susanna!

  • @cristianbacu4010
    @cristianbacu4010 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Not related, but I hate the "Hi, I am Johnny and I am an alcoholic!" Maybe the first time they say it it's the honesty they needed for them selves. But after that it's just brain washing.

  • @fredyyfredfreddy
    @fredyyfredfreddy หลายเดือนก่อน

    brRRrr, alaska

  • @REMHOLDINGS
    @REMHOLDINGS หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes you are. Definitely special because I wouldn't be listening and commenting. I am here for a reason will find out what that reason is. If I can help you in any way I will. You have a wonderful evening. How are you at writing? Could you be a ghost writer? RENOVATION ANNO 970 REM HOLDINGS CC33 SIGMA

  • @vtcv-x9o
    @vtcv-x9o 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

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  • @MarcoSimple1Videos
    @MarcoSimple1Videos หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Hello, finally i see a woman with blond hair and blue eyes, and im not joking, about the video, im sorry you have to leave the dance, i like to dance too

  • @Waldotruter
    @Waldotruter หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My life where one of the hardest. single for 15years. Am now 36 can't see where the opportunity going to come from.
    Hello bye hello bye hello bye hello bye hello bye hello bye.

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  • @saculrykeb1760
    @saculrykeb1760 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look like Brie Larson

  • @MaxCortel
    @MaxCortel หลายเดือนก่อน

    So, one of the existential dilemnas you face is-are you going to procreate?
    That girl is a "synchronicity".