I'm surprised you haven't got more views. I can so relate. Lately life has been hell and so isolating. Worst part is when people invalidate it, say I should stop the focus off it. But if it's trauma, of course it will be there.
I understand that feeling. Everyone telling you to “let go” “move on” “stop thinking of it”. It’s in my bones. It changed who I am. I’m not in the fire anymore, but I’m still scarred. The scars will always be there. If no one will validate it, I will. I love you, understand you, see you and relate to you. You are strong and loved. I wish you so much peace and healing. ❤️
You’re very wise! Pain is power! Suffering creates meaning and empowerment. Life can’t exist without suffering. Happiness cant exist without sadness! Thank you for empowerment 😊
I'm 4 min in. I agree face the pain rather then numb. I've been facing my self this whole month and come to realize.... I'm fucked. My ideas and what I believe are fucked but I'm coming closer to myself. Thanks for sharing
"Pain is an excess of energy" The deetachment you are describing is like an internal dissipation mechanism. When we cling to the pain it remains in our body. When you let go the pain dissolves in the rest of your energy. What you resist, persists.
Not for everyone. It was easy for me. I am sure there is a specific reason(s) for it. So, maybe it's not all that difficult, we just don't know something.
It’s hard getting over things you wish didn’t happen. And not thinking why did people do this to me. People can only do things to you as long as you allow them to. I think the pain I’m feeling right now is brought on by my childhood, and while there are negatives I’ve been able to make understanding of it all…I think friendship is more important than anything because people can value relationships or money or status.. when you break it all down friendship is all we have.
It makes me feel better when I'm in a dream when I wake up it hits again...these minutes were like I was in a good dream which helps me how to tackle the things which I go through in reality
Subscribed! You’re a very intelligent person, loved this wisdom, felt it was like having a natural conversation, so I look forward to future ones! Ruminating on the minute details like a book and overthinking why we feel the way we do is a very chaotic mindset, truthfully doesn’t itself fix anything, that’s something I’ve been very guilty of and I think a lot of it for me is because I felt I was good at doing it. Not sure if that’s something you’ve ever experienced with that. Appreciated everything else that was discussed as well, very relatable and solid job, Bailey 👌🏻
I’ll try to make a video on resources! Life has been the greatest teacher. Studying philosophy and psychology has been the other place I gain information.
Okay, I'm not saying that she said any of this in the video, I just want to type my thoughts out. Pain isn't bad to begin with. This is why the rights and wrongs of the world confuses me sometimes, because why is it that the pain I feel has to be associated to "trauma?" I don't feel any trauma. Now, if I was to experience war or something mentally and emotionally scaring, okay, I could see that being the case. But if I feel intense anger or sadness, I don't see how it would (in any way) consume my life to express it. I felt sad yesterday. And I know someone's gonna say, "but it's not understanding negative emotions. That's the problem." What? What are you actually talking about? I'm sad... How is that negative? What else is there to understand? I'm sad. That's it. Again, what else do I need to understand? There's nothing negative about it. If it's ACTUALLY negative, then why do we feel it? If I drink a coca cola and I think of my favorite cartoon character getting stuck, I'm gonna get pissed or sad. Period! Same goes for slamming my fingers in the car door. I'm GONNA cry. There is no, "maybe I'll cry tomorrow." No! My fingers freakin hurt, and I wanna pitch a fit NOW! Think how nuts I would sound if I said, "someone just insulted me, and I got some sick kicks and sillies from the insults. Hell yeah! I'm want more!" NO! You would think I was freakin nuts. No one says that. lol!
Pain is signaling you. Obvious with physical pain, less obvious with mental suffering (which always requires you to identify with the body/mind, an erroneous perspective). What you are is sheer perfection: consciousness.
Pain is one of the easiest ways for God to fool itself because when you're in pain all philosophy flies out the window, all concern for truth flies out the window, all spirituality flies out the window. If i stick an ice pick into your gut that's going to feel very real to you and the idea that you're dreaming is gonna fly completely out the window and yet in that moment you're completely dreaming. It's just a dream. Pain is part of the dream. Excruciating pain is part of the dream.
I think there's far too much compacted into this video, it steers all over the place. I completely understand that you experienced trauma; as have I. I can see it and feel it from how you are logically trying to organise the world. Life is chaos; and this video for me is a manifestation of wisdom that is yet to be accepted and smoothed over. For me; I see someone trying to convince themselves of all of these things; projecting it out into the world in hopes of being seen and heard. That's just how I view this video. I don't think the majority of quotes here can be proven; and I think it would be better for you to talk about why these things are relevant to you; rather than generically trying to say this is the universal way to live. Nonetheless; your human spirit is beautifully witnessed.
Isn't it always about being Seen or hurt? But also in the one hand Sharing the pain and ON the other Hand trying to Help Others coming over pain? What Bailey says resonates with me, so thank you for taking the time, Bailey Much Love
@@joshy2joshy haha sorry too much Autocorrect xD I think nearly everybody needs to be Seen or heard... But it can also be helpful Sharing or talking about one's Insights. Idk, right at the moment, it helps me as well...
@@mufterobombero247 Absolutely, it's human to want to be seen and heard. I think I hear what you're saying to me. I appreciate people like Bailey for putting themselves on the internet. I hope maybe my comment was helpful too!
You're very serene. You speak the truth so effortlessly. I have a lot to express and can't bring the right words to express it because I'm afraid of being watched and my traumatized brain is making it forgetful. But your video is very meaningful. It helped me. As soon as I find the solution to my problems, I'll definitely guide others too. Pain is excess. And yes art is a relief. Expressing yourself through art is very necessary. Where do you live? Suppression is the worst thing an artist can go through and perfectionism and expectations are even worse. One thing I'm afraid of the most is that if I express myself through art, if it is violent gorey and terrifying things they may start manifesting as per law of attraction. In your last video you mentioned God shows you that you're lovable. Same happens to me, but that just kind of wants me to leave the people who don't really understand or value me for who I am.
I'm surprised you haven't got more views. I can so relate. Lately life has been hell and so isolating. Worst part is when people invalidate it, say I should stop the focus off it. But if it's trauma, of course it will be there.
I understand that feeling. Everyone telling you to “let go” “move on” “stop thinking of it”.
It’s in my bones. It changed who I am. I’m not in the fire anymore, but I’m still scarred. The scars will always be there.
If no one will validate it, I will. I love you, understand you, see you and relate to you. You are strong and loved. I wish you so much peace and healing. ❤️
@@bailey.schildbach Thank you so much, that's so kind of you. Words do matter and yours help.
You’re very wise! Pain is power! Suffering creates meaning and empowerment. Life can’t exist without suffering. Happiness cant exist without sadness! Thank you for empowerment 😊
This explains genocide, but when it happens to us, hysteria begins. 😂
I'm 4 min in. I agree face the pain rather then numb.
I've been facing my self this whole month and come to realize.... I'm fucked.
My ideas and what I believe are fucked but I'm coming closer to myself.
Thanks for sharing
"Pain is an excess of energy"
The deetachment you are describing is like an internal dissipation mechanism.
When we cling to the pain it remains in our body. When you let go the pain dissolves in the rest of your energy.
What you resist, persists.
It is difficult to admit that bad things happened to you and it was meaningless
Not for everyone. It was easy for me. I am sure there is a specific reason(s) for it. So, maybe it's not all that difficult, we just don't know something.
Preach queen!
It’s hard getting over things you wish didn’t happen. And not thinking why did people do this to me. People can only do things to you as long as you allow them to. I think the pain I’m feeling right now is brought on by my childhood, and while there are negatives I’ve been able to make understanding of it all…I think friendship is more important than anything because people can value relationships or money or status.. when you break it all down friendship is all we have.
It makes me feel better when I'm in a dream when I wake up it hits again...these minutes were like I was in a good dream which helps me how to tackle the things which I go through in reality
Subscribed! You’re a very intelligent person, loved this wisdom, felt it was like having a natural conversation, so I look forward to future ones!
Ruminating on the minute details like a book and overthinking why we feel the way we do is a very chaotic mindset, truthfully doesn’t itself fix anything, that’s something I’ve been very guilty of and I think a lot of it for me is because I felt I was good at doing it. Not sure if that’s something you’ve ever experienced with that. Appreciated everything else that was discussed as well, very relatable and solid job, Bailey 👌🏻
❤️❤️❤️
youre gonna get over this girl. Sending you energy from brazil !
6:30 Summarises women well. No connection to anyone just temporary with them.
You're right, things do end...I guess.
you are a wise woman Bailey
This video really helped me today, thank you for making it.
Hey Bailey. Cool content! Thanks it is just what I needed. Keep it up and if you can share your sources from where you learned all of this!!!
I’ll try to make a video on resources!
Life has been the greatest teacher. Studying philosophy and psychology has been the other place I gain information.
But I’m by no means an expert. Just a girl trying her best 😂
Okay, I'm not saying that she said any of this in the video, I just want to type my thoughts out. Pain isn't bad to begin with. This is why the rights and wrongs of the world confuses me sometimes, because why is it that the pain I feel has to be associated to "trauma?" I don't feel any trauma. Now, if I was to experience war or something mentally and emotionally scaring, okay, I could see that being the case. But if I feel intense anger or sadness, I don't see how it would (in any way) consume my life to express it. I felt sad yesterday. And I know someone's gonna say, "but it's not understanding negative emotions. That's the problem." What? What are you actually talking about? I'm sad... How is that negative? What else is there to understand? I'm sad. That's it. Again, what else do I need to understand? There's nothing negative about it. If it's ACTUALLY negative, then why do we feel it? If I drink a coca cola and I think of my favorite cartoon character getting stuck, I'm gonna get pissed or sad. Period! Same goes for slamming my fingers in the car door. I'm GONNA cry. There is no, "maybe I'll cry tomorrow." No! My fingers freakin hurt, and I wanna pitch a fit NOW! Think how nuts I would sound if I said, "someone just insulted me, and I got some sick kicks and sillies from the insults. Hell yeah! I'm want more!" NO! You would think I was freakin nuts. No one says that. lol!
Pain is signaling you. Obvious with physical pain, less obvious with mental suffering (which always requires you to identify with the body/mind, an erroneous perspective).
What you are is sheer perfection: consciousness.
Thanks G
This storm too shall pass🖤
Pain is one of the easiest ways for God to fool itself because when you're in pain all philosophy flies out the window, all concern for truth flies out the window, all spirituality flies out the window. If i stick an ice pick into your gut that's going to feel very real to you and the idea that you're dreaming is gonna fly completely out the window and yet in that moment you're completely dreaming. It's just a dream. Pain is part of the dream. Excruciating pain is part of the dream.
sadly but true
Idk, pain kinda hurts!
Bailey, if I ever finish my movie script, would you check it to give some advice?
I think there's far too much compacted into this video, it steers all over the place. I completely understand that you experienced trauma; as have I. I can see it and feel it from how you are logically trying to organise the world. Life is chaos; and this video for me is a manifestation of wisdom that is yet to be accepted and smoothed over. For me; I see someone trying to convince themselves of all of these things; projecting it out into the world in hopes of being seen and heard. That's just how I view this video.
I don't think the majority of quotes here can be proven; and I think it would be better for you to talk about why these things are relevant to you; rather than generically trying to say this is the universal way to live.
Nonetheless; your human spirit is beautifully witnessed.
Isn't it always about being Seen or hurt? But also in the one hand Sharing the pain and ON the other Hand trying to Help Others coming over pain?
What Bailey says resonates with me, so thank you for taking the time, Bailey
Much Love
@@mufterobombero247 Thanks for your comment, can you help me understand your comment? I don't understand
@@joshy2joshy haha sorry too much Autocorrect xD
I think nearly everybody needs to be Seen or heard... But it can also be helpful Sharing or talking about one's Insights.
Idk, right at the moment, it helps me as well...
@@mufterobombero247 Absolutely, it's human to want to be seen and heard. I think I hear what you're saying to me. I appreciate people like Bailey for putting themselves on the internet. I hope maybe my comment was helpful too!
You're very serene. You speak the truth so effortlessly. I have a lot to express and can't bring the right words to express it because I'm afraid of being watched and my traumatized brain is making it forgetful. But your video is very meaningful. It helped me. As soon as I find the solution to my problems, I'll definitely guide others too. Pain is excess. And yes art is a relief. Expressing yourself through art is very necessary.
Where do you live? Suppression is the worst thing an artist can go through and perfectionism and expectations are even worse. One thing I'm afraid of the most is that if I express myself through art, if it is violent gorey and terrifying things they may start manifesting as per law of attraction. In your last video you mentioned God shows you that you're lovable. Same happens to me, but that just kind of wants me to leave the people who don't really understand or value me for who I am.
yo she look like John mayerz
anyone remember me
But I am Batman...
yap
I don't know you're background, but read the bible and the miracles of Jesus every morning. Worship the highest God.
First!