Psychology of Rapists | How Rapists Think
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ธ.ค. 2019
- Rocked by the recent brutal rapes, India is debating about different questions. What punishment do the rapists deserve? What can the women do to protect themselves. But to solve this problem, we need to know the answer to an important question: Why do men rape?
#Rapists #SexualAssault #MohakMangal
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Captions: Dhruv Bambhaniya ( / dhruvkumar_2920 )
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Sources:
1. Introduction
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2. ‘Normal’ People:
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3. No remorse
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4. Biological vs Cultural
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5. What can be done?
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First boycott Kabir Singh
He met his stranger girl for first time and then said 'Ye meri bandi hai'
As if she is his ancestral property
Edit:I never got 1.2K likes
Yep
@@jasrajsingh24 Are u a student of St.Marks
@@shifujikafan3720 No
@@jasrajsingh24 ok
That's my freind's name also
@@shifujikafan3720 he's lucky to be a frnd of chulbul pandey
Rape can never be a mistake it's always a crime.
now a days rape is happening due to sex video of pornstar on internet . Before internet rape was not there .That time male only married to reproduce . Think ...
True indeed.
It can be a mistake
Ladki OYO mein jaye apni marji se aur baad mein palat Jaye....relation mein,shaadi nahi ki toh rape case kar dungi toh yeh crime kaise hua??
@@satyamverma04nope, can't be. RAPE IS RAPE NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES WERE/ARE
"If a man cannot control he's sexual desires then he's not a man he's a failure"
Oh really have u ever lived ur life as a man?
@@cherrypie6784 yes i have
Then he is mutthal who's brain is controlled by their penis .
@Max Tax yes i am
True that
Heard a quote by some psychologist year back, I think it sums up pretty good: "rape is not a violent manifestation of sexual behaviour but a sexual manifestation of violent behaviour"
True....especially when done by someone in authority...its not lack of impulse control but an attempt to control, humiliate, terrorize and blackmail and some sick people use that as a means to punish.
exactly
Oooh that makes sense.
I saw this somewhere and I'd like to share it:
"Rape is becoming so common that only the brutal ones shock us."
True😡
@@8adarshikasingh302 what the hell? Look at what the video is about and the atmosphere. This becomes irritating after a while stop it! I am an ARMY too and don't want you to ruin our Fandom name
@@chandrashekharshinde9861 yes sometimes this also angers me . this was just out of nowhere .
@@8adarshikasingh302 Dude seriously? I mean why bring up Bts everywhere, even in such an important video?
Rape has become common because sexual content has also become normal in india. Hence, boy's mind has become even more dirty.
It starts from the parents who treat their sons and daughters differently.
Your right after this video I feel really insured. And scared to repist. I hope everyone is always be safe.
@sinless potato brother your right. I hope I will become more powerful and strong. Jai bhavani 🙏
Exactly! There's nothing wrong in asking your son to do the dishes and your daughter to carry the heavy bags and stuff. It starts from the home.
Ya.. & 100% agree wid u!
It starts with pre-natal testosterone in womb. Well, your room temperature IQ and ideological brain incapable of reason is another matter. 😎
Posting such a video is a real brave move in today's society, respect man
What century were you born? To be brave, this shit is like gravity. You find out how it works and tel everybody about it. Don’t be a pussy, tell everyone about it.
how tf is that brave lol, everyone knows rape is bad and it is generally a crime
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@@rise7056 whats the use?
@@nishugowda6172 the use of rape is for pleasure... this is so obvious
As a girl im terrified. I mean imagine someone ruins your life and has no remorse. Sexual assault is a horrible thing regardless of the gender of the victim. I feel sorry for anyone who had to go through that
Happened with me. I'm men. My father's younger brother had done with me in childhood. I didn't tell anyone
@@AdiHaiKya men can't get raped
@@AdiHaiKya🗿
@@LuluGen689there are few cases where men got raped
@@AdiHaiKyaOh so sorry to hear that 😢. Many young boys are also victims of similar rape incidents which they either hide or supress within themselves.
How come a man is greater than a woman if he himself is born from one
~swami vivekanand
I don't believe this shit
Both are not greater than each other both are important for the process
@Yash Hengne a woman breastfeeds their child, carries them in their bodies for 9 months, goes through a very intense labour process, possibly post partum depression etc. and all the guy has to do it give the sperm....you and i both know women put in most of the work into the whole birthing process of the child. however, both genders are equally important and are as valuable in life as each other
@@Neha-ue3uk yes womens are greatest contributors we respect girls and also sex
@@sohan-IA That's why he is written in history and you are not
Boys and girls should be made comfortable to interact,sit with each other so that they can understand the feelings of each other. Our so-called Uncle aunties make both of them uncomfortable.
Please, end sexual repression in our society.
@SAKSHAM MISHRA vahi bro ki don't talk about sex and stuff at all, girls and boys arr made to sit separately in schools, made to walk in separate lines. All this bullshit is just making our generations sexually repressed.
@SAKSHAM MISHRA bilkul sahi bola bhai
This is the reason that i can't sit or talk with any girl i never talked with them and now it's too late. Anyways even though all of this i still respect womens
@@sakshamtyagi7347 correct
After being caught by the cops, when the rapists say "Galti ho geyi sahab, maf kar dijiye" it makes my eyes pop up....
Rape can't be a mistake, it's a CRIME.. Girls or women aren't just play things for those monsters
Yeah it's crime done by mistake
What about girls or so called models who sexualise their bodies on Instagram?
@@ADITYAayayayay It is called having a career and regardless she does it for her career or simply for herself, there is a thing called consent. I think you should research more on it.
(And I'll turn my notification off because I simply don't want to engage in a conversation debating on a simple thing such as respect. You simply asked and I replied. That is it. )
why that man are getting seduces by child ?
@@ADITYAayayayayand what about boys showing their 6 abs on insta .....
As a man I can't be enough sorry for my sisters who have faced this disaster. I can't even explain how shameful this things are for high value men.
Hi, where are you from?
Your comment says a lot about you❣️. It is really genuine. You are indeed a gentleman 😊 in a dark world. You are a high value man. Because high value men don't like to have casual sex or one night stands.
Men🤡
@@Inspiring_Minds545women ☕☕
"high value men" tf u on about
I as a tax payer would like the government to feed beggars than rapists
But there are more mps who are rapists and not beggars. MPs take your money more than anyone.
Then the only way out is to evade tax.
Aren't you satisfied with your money given to the poor and making them lazy till date? Do you know much farmer or cloth waver gets to pay? Do you know how much scarcity of electricians, labourers, plumbers, ...
Govt is not accommodating them in 5-star hotels, see any convicts videos. If we hang everyone without a proper trial then where is justice in it?
If you really want to see change then go to slums and try to change their perspective.
escapism is a bad option.
@akshay Viswambharan My stepfather
The most important statement "India me zyada focus victims pe hota h rapist pe nhi". Each and every family should teach the moral values to EACH member of the family 🙏🙏🙏🙏
It not about Teaching!!
Its about actual practices to apply to release sexual urges
Right....moral values & understnding of physical need is most important to stop this kind of incidents.
u r right
our entire tv system is responsibly for this.
parents openly sex ki baatein nahi karte waha kya koi sexual knowledge dega ya kuchh bata paayega, maa baap sharmaate he sex ki baatein karne ke liye bachcho ke saamne, to kya batayengeye
Jaise hi Tumhara comment aaya unhone bhi same time pe bola 😂
Rape is not just a crime, It's a weapon used to limit women accomplishments by some regressive people.
a weapon that kills pussy
@@ShwetabhSenpai 🗿🗿
This is true.
@@ShwetabhSenpai🤡
Rape can happened to both men and women.
The best part about this video is that He himself is a Man and is speaking for Women. This is the kind of change we need in our society>>>>>
Yes,you are correct
In North India when a girl gets raped, people say “izath loot liya”. Why would a girl loose her respect if she got raped!! Unless we change the rhetoric and society’s thinking, the problem will persist.
Yup😑
That needs to change.
Bhai its like a word for rape victims ki "Izzat lut liya" or "izzat pe hath dalna".
Im waiting for the why women rape video.
Im tired of rape being used as a facade for bashing men.
Male Feminists have become so blinded by their natural instinct to protect women that they have forgotten that men can be victims too.
If mohak was really worth his salt he would mention that In 2014, as per a report submitted by Delhi Commission for women 53% of reported rapes in 2012-13 were found to be 'false'.
Check google if you doubt this information, I am sure that majority rape cases in India are fake and not only rape cases but also dowry cases and molestation cases too.. women also force for divorce from their well earning husbands purposefully so as to capture their half income and property (called Alimony) like Jeff Bezos's wife did.
Yeah not all women do that, but beware of the women you are with and also beware of any such women who can potentially send you to jail misusing Indian laws
@@Tushar_Talwar_09 exactly this issue is not gender specific. Both genders should learn to respect each other.
The meaning of "Consent"- has to be taught starting from primary schools itself
As a student currently in Australia, if anyone want to work or even volunteer for something, they need to do a small course on consent. You learn everything from what is consent, why it's important and to tell the signs of consent or not. It also taught the ethical side of everything. Basically, everyone has to learn this. I was impressed when I had to do this in the beginning.
If only teaching person , solves the problem then there might not be any rape , society plays a major role in one's. Mentality and many other factors including mental health and other
@@sudeepsingh9337 you me are society, teach yourself first then the people around you. This is how societal change works and yes education matters. Teaching people near you about consent will be a big change.
@@aanisahjahan7058 but that won't solve the problem , knowing the reasons are still important , places where rape rate is minimum need not be literate , but how the people think and how surrounding influences including stress and all plays a major role we can't ignore them
hey not from that young age, when they don't even know what sex is. Should teach to understand and respect others thats all at younger ages. And instead of telling schools what to teach Im gonna teach my kids how to perceive everything.
Reason for rape
1. Desperate for sex(need)
2. Revenge
3. Proving Dominance
4. Pschological factors
5. Substance abuse
6. Gender inequality
Correction...unfortunately...it's want not need 😢
It's only the first one.
2nd and 3rd points are really stupid and just Disgusting
not being able to control testosterone levels and hormones
@@vipulmali6884 thats 1st one
I am extremely saddened to see that Some males are blaming girls for wearing short dresses 😞 .
Shame on their mentality.
Man men should wear short dresses
Imagine shorts with crop tops
Specially the gym guys
😋🤤
Shame on their short dresses also
@@masterbateman2686 girls can wear whatever they want to grow up dude
@@masterbateman2686Shame on your self control
@@Jia_sanshame on your western colonial mindset.
The saddest part is when this video was getting played by so many people, somewhere in India a girl might be getting raped and still no one will take strict action against them
Yeah man
@Rohan 12 that's just excuse
Yes...exactly..I don't feel proud to be Indian!!
@Rohan 12 we can do a lot if we want too but no one is willing to do it
Im younger than u ppl perhaps and dont mind if im wrong but India s education system needs to be changed from the earliest stages,also ppl need to be more fragile and i feel ppl wont do bad actions when they realize the whole outcome and understand that the satisfication aint worth.Also btw lol i dont watch Hentai or Porn.Just anime is ❤️
The way husband treats wife infront of children plays a role. Open conversations and thoughts of well being should be given and demonstrated
well high crime , police not being able to solve crime and unsafe streets r the problem. people who prey on others usaully come from broken families and high crime areas. The US is a great example of this In blue states where crime is tolerated , high gun control laws and defunding of the police results in high crime areas . where in red states where the police are funded and managed well, eased gun control and does nto tolerate crimes ends up haveing way safer strees and dramatically less crimes
@Neptune little blessed we are.. I think having good influencers and watching good content aids in building our personalities and the way of thinking in life.. there are alot of good content too!!
@Neptune I'm so happy you changed yourself.
@Neptune yeppp ... We know it😎 we might sound like typical old people to kids😆
@Neptune omfgg same and I regret being a horrible person, I wasn't misogynist but I didn't protest as well when I confronted my guy friends being sexist or homophobic because I was afraid of being an outcast and after learning about how horrible I was, I changed myself for good and I do agree youtubers like carry and elvis are poisonous... It seems they're joking on people but after a certain point, they cross limits
To any girl reading this, I am not sure about if you have experienced some sort of harassment in your life but all i wanna say is that you are very strong.Yes you read that right! I believe in you. There might be a lot of problems both internal and external going on in your life but trust me everything is gonna be okay! Dont ever under estimate yourself. If u want you can do anything. Much more power to all the sisters out there!! Keep Shining And Never lose your smile! Its the greatest makeup you can ever have!!
Thank you so muchhhhh man ✨👏
Thank you so much Bhai.🙇🙇🙇🙇🙏🙌
Even though I’m a boy I have to say thank you. I have gone through these sorts of experiences and it hurts me every day
I was forced for sex by my ex don’t want to talk about 😢😢
One thing you are raised by a queen as I am
Posting this type of videos can really help our society to grow and it's really good that people like you are discussing this topic which is really common
Let's stay aware of the 660 people who disliked this video
But how to identity them!??
700 now 😔😔
Ha ha 714 right now.
757 it's now.
@Iᴄʜɪɢᴏ Kᴜʀᴀsᴀᴋɪ there is nothing to lol about
I would like to narrate an incident here:
This happened when I was in 10th standard, we had this chapter on reproduction in human beings and sexual health, which our biology teacher completely skipped. On being questioned she raised fingers at US and complained to our class teacher who in turn questioned us "what is so interesting that you need to read the chapter, we didnot learn this when we were in school" and much more along of the lines of the same.
This is the kind of awareness we are receiving in our schools, where students should be learning. These are our teachers. What will the youth be and what will we expect??
They should teach about consent. Sex ed is very important
Could't agree more!
When i were in 10th std, the teacher sarcastically said that it was our favourite topic and that there is no need to explain it to us.
That's ridiculous
many of these will be the same teachers who'll b responsible for marital rape coz their tr did the same
Seriously? My teacher taught me about that in 10th grade. Now, I'm grateful.
"Why males rape"
Female rapists: hm.. yes, interesting. this will be very important to my life.
And who are those female rapists? Men really love to do what aboutism when they talk about their crimes
@buxxyfields yeah bcoz the alarming rate at which men rape, mutilate and abuse women will never compare to whatever female rapists y'all talk about ( if they exist ) Men are physically stronger and have been women's oppressors since the dawn of time
What do you mean... female rap*sts do exist
Look.. I'm not trying to compare anything here, i just want you to know about the other side too that males are sexuallly harrassed too.
Rape and sexual harrasment is a crime and it is done by a person regardless of gender.
I do agree that females are harrassed More but that does not mean we can ignore the males that got harrassed too.
@@jeelee3096you a girl?
Sex without consent is rape
This should be applicable for both male & female
It's hard and desappointing to believe that we live in a society where a five year old girl is considered as "characterless"
😔
@@muskan8294 never
yes. i was called characterless many times by my father since when i was just 10 year old innocent child
@@shinyshine3466 It's Really Heartbreaking 😔
@@shinyshine3466 why?
I was shocked to see so many logical comments in the box. This made me realise there are youth who dont believe in bashing and abusing without understanding any context or even text.
:-) thanks
God See All
God punish All
@@proffesorp3026 there is no god
@@proffesorp3026 it's okay to have your beliefs you don't have to say them out loud on the internet lmao people would fuck w you and you wouldn't even understand. Just keep them in your pocket or something.
@@idgaf4691 It's just a "saying" or a way to say.. GOD is hope no one knows JYADA "EDGY " na bna kro
I am so glad that someone literally raised his voice against this issue. No one talks about it but this issue really do exist.
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Posting such videos for public awareness...you have my respect man🙌🙌
I had guests. One of them is a 6-year-old kid who came to my room asking what I was doing with the laptop. To that, I bluntly said, "I am working". The next thing that kid replied was "Larki kaam karta hai kya haha". You see... whatever it is, it all starts when we are kids. All the unhealthy and healthy concepts.
UPDATE, 7nov'22:
It's been a year I commented this. I read your replies. Some of you are concerned how the kid is being raised by his parents. I talked to the child's parents and even they concerned from where he is been learning such dialogues it seems. They have a different mother tongue but the kid is very fluent in Hindi and speaks sentences that even his parents aren't aware of. Simple minded parents concerned about their kid. The child is healthy and seems to be open to learning new things I noticed. Lots of room for improvement 👍
@@samsgaminggarage6138 bro you’re judging whole country by one kid 😂 wah bhaiya wah
@@imbored908 Thanks
I'd like to add, my neighbour asked her son to water the plants and he talks back and says you do it mom cuz it's a girl thing. P.S. he was just 5 back then.
@@hopeworldbaseline843 that's depressing. The magnitude of bias and annoying ideas and influence. This country needs to depopulate first literally.
@@dorobee It's highly unlikely during my primes that this country will depopulate. I'll try my best to relocate to somewhere sane cuz it's getting batshit crazy day by day in here.
Parenting is playing a major role!
Nope!
Not 100%
Every mom in India now days do makeup and tiktok and dads romancing the moms
@@Xavier-gk7cz wtf u are here too because of your dad romancing 💩
@@Xavier-gk7cz what's wrong in doing makeup 🙄🙄🙄
And education, friends and the mindset of the person.
It all starts from the environment/people around him, the person living with
A good step towards a reform.... I always thought of seeing societal changes which you depicted clearly.. Looking forward to see the growth of youtubers like you
I don't think it's just about sexual pleasures, many rapes are done to prove their male domination! Sad😠
True . Among their tiny social circles.
Sigma male🤡👑.
Edit:I saw some reply which said that i am justifying rape. No, i am not.
bird brain
This is called *lust* not sexual pleasure. Sexual pleasure is something any heterosexual person would have. Rapists have an uncontrollable desire.
yeah if you want sexual pleasure, go masturbate, it's the safest and the most harmless practice over there. or if you have money, go to a prostitute. i honestly think sex workers really help with sexual frustration and can have the potential to prevent rapes. i have no problem with them, i never had.
Im waiting for the why women rape video.
Im tired of rape being used as a facade for bashing men.
Male Feminists have become so blinded by their natural instinct to protect women that they have forgotten that men can be victims too.
If mohak was really worth his salt he would mention that In 2014, as per a report submitted by Delhi Commission for women 53% of reported rapes in 2012-13 were found to be 'false'.
Check google if you doubt this information, I am sure that majority rape cases in India are fake and not only rape cases but also dowry cases and molestation cases too.. women also force for divorce from their well earning husbands purposefully so as to capture their half income and property (called Alimony) like Jeff Bezos's wife did.
Yeah not all women do that, but beware of the women you are with and also beware of any such women who can potentially send you to jail misusing Indian laws
If it was only about sex, then men could easily go to prostitutes or even get one night stands on dating websites/apps these days. Rape is more about men being insensitive towards women, it’s more so about the power dynamic and ego satisfaction. It’s sad to say that I myself have been harassed by someone that I love, someone that I was dating with. He really didn’t understand the subject of consent and boundaries. All he thought was that I was his girlfriend so he was allowed to touch me whenever he wants even if I was saying no. One day, I was fed up and confronted him. That’s when I learned that he was just unaware that this is disrespectful and it shouldn’t be done. Most Men in this society don’t really understand the concept of consent. They just convince themselves that doing this is the right thing because nobody in their entire life truly, fully confronted them or taught them about respect, consent and boundaries. Most men go into marriage thinking that now they can have sex anytime they want because legally, or according to the society they have a wife. They don’t even realise what they do is forceful and wrong because they are convinced that what they do is justified. They have no idea of marital rape. The person who harassed me was responsible for his actions and he realised his crimes when I confronted him. He was truly guilty and apologised to me, even started doing his best to make me feel comfortable and not to cross my boundaries like that ever again. I’m not saying that he was innocent, but as a society, we have failed because we aren’t unable to teach our children about such important topics. Because I didn’t even realise that this was harassment until one and half years later of being repeatedly harassed. I was afraid to call it sexual harassment because I was never taught that your boyfriend touching you even when you don’t want him to, when you are uncomfortable with it is considered as harassment. It is crossing you boundaries. And this is just glorified by bollywood. It is considered attractive or cool in movies when guys try to charm their way into a girl’s heart/pants by being a douche, by catcalling them or forcefully touching them. We MUST educate ourselves and people around us on such topics to reduce the chances of such crimes.
This should be the top comment!
Typical Western mind. Not the solution at all.
@@vanshtheonebut better than yours
That's true my friend!!! Bollywood and easily accessible porn plays a crucial role in all this. Even some of my friends think that sex is all what we see in porn, that all women are always ready for it or I should say hungry for it and all they need to do is to start doing something stupid, what we see Bollywood actors doing around actresses to impress them but if you tell them that they are being really cheap and annoying for someone then they will consider YOU a stupid🤦
Yeah Even i think the same.
Dono agar khush na ho toh koi kaam nahi aisa sex karne se achha masturbation hota hai
This is very forward-thinking video. Wonderful initiative 👍🏻.
Nothing, I repeat NOTHING in this universe justifies something as heinous as rape or any form of sexual harassment. It can't be a reaction to any desire, emotion, or crime. If a woman says NO, it's a NO. It's a crime that has no space for mercy or explanation and if a man can't learn to respect consent and control their goddamn sexual desires then he's a walking failure, he's not a man anymore. End of discussion.
Aacha 🌜
Exactly, when I see people defending the rights of these sick and disgusting individuals I don't rule out the possibility that the defenders would do the same as well.
Well then control your hormones during periods, y do u have to scream at us then ? (I don't support rape)
Internet and Indian cinema(Which showcase women as a doll) has major psychologic impact in most of the Indian minds. This should be looked in to.Over generations this two has upgradation from private to public.
Only Indian cinema !?
Talk about age restricted videos of TH-cam !!
Kids know how to off restricted 'mode' !!
True
Lol y'all tripping, banning porn, item songs, hentai and literally banning any pervy media won't do jackshit about rape problems
As Richa said above, rapes have been happening since dark ages when humans hardly started speaking in coherent sentences to communicate, rape is more about a person going through egotistical issues with themselves and needing to burst it all on a helpless victim
That is the main problem with bollywood. It normalises rapes.
Bro why only Exaggerating Indian cinema haven't you seen Hollywood they have literal porn scenes in their movies and like american pie, fifty shades of grey etc their movies show women like a chick who is crazy for sex and men like totally focused people faltu me har cheez ke aage indian lagane ki zaroorat nhi hai cool dikhne ke liye
In my opinion,
1- Parents should really be taught parenting. In india I see this as a huge problem. It starts right at the beginning.
2- Bollywood and media too played a huge role in this. Promoting violence and "thoda cheekhegi chillaiyegi, ek din maan jayegi" attitudde.
3- Sex should be more openly talked by our biology teachers who just skip this chapter altogether.
4- Dads should have THE conversation with their sons.
5- And of-course education,
You have no idea how many random people I have talked to and pried into their darker side. It absolutely disgusts how many of them have it set in their minds "she is asking for it". Both educated and not so educated.
Totally agree! Especially the second point. Coz Bollywood has such a huge influence and I wish they used it for positive impact and were more responsible with the power they enjoy.
All of your 5 points are amazing.
Nice it’s good to see such a mature people in comment section
*sex education
Mother's should have THE CONVERSATION with their daughters too. Women also rape. Rape is a gender neutral crime.
Well said.. Brilliantly pointed out.The society really need to change
Not all men, but always men
Man they should do sex ed in school
Like in 8th std
Make pairs of students and teach em to mate
While teaching em contraceptive methods
2 teachers should do it in front of em for example
And zey will do it as a practical
If kids have hands on experience of coitus from a young age
And we normalize mating instead of making it a Taboo
I think this can prevent Vape
I mean ppl do kind of get attracted to stuff that is kept secret by society
such a underrated channel ..i guess people dont like logical things..
ranjan pal gadariya bhai apne desh me logic nahi magic aur emotional drama chalta hai
People are watching junk by Ekta Kapoor.
Soch even has a video on why people don't like to think much. I guess it's the video titled "Indians don't like democracy anymore . Why ?". Not sure.
😔😔😔😔
Exactly
Let's take the first step.
Let's acknowledged that boys and girls are equal and both of them are need to be taught the value of respect to each other. No gender is great than another.
Edit: this thread is becoming a gender war lol.
Yup. This is the basis. But put ur words to action. Children observe ur actions first.
@@rhythm2238 ?
Why would I comment this if I wasn't doing it already?
@@hrunavrajurkar6375 and also transgenders.
Ok so this might be controversial but I'll still say Men and women are not Equal they're different. Both have their strength and weakness and can't be compared.
@@shayofficial3969 true af
I once watched an Indian TV series "Kya qusoor hai amla ka" . The girl was gang raped and then was forced to marry one of the rapists... But the point is not that. This is so common in India that it doesn't even feel absurd.
The picturization of rape in the show was something that caught my attention for the longest time. The rapists didn't even seem to enjoy sexual pleasure. So sexual satisfaction was not the motive. The motive was just to prove the power they had upon a woman's body, that they could violate her. No fear, no shame, no guilt. Like raping someone was the most casual thing they did in the day. And then leaving her, they walked away. As if she really deserved it and they did just the right thing.
That was the show and the brutal picturization which has always intrigued me to think what really goes on in the mind of the rapists, their psychology and how could they really live with such a conscience.
This is written quite well. 👍🏽
Sometimes after marriage women didn't understand or question their husband if they are forcing them becoz society will say he is your husband and that's what mentality have made among us... And than marital rape happens without awareness
In my opinion 2 reasons that are really important to address in order to face this issue are -
1. Normalize boy girl casual friendly relationship (which is completely opposite in our society).
2.effect of porn, erotica and bollywood(these videos create a fake image in the mind of watcher than these things can happen in real life which might lead to in extreme cases - rape)
Im waiting for the why women rape video.
Im tired of rape being used as a facade for bashing men.
Male Feminists have become so blinded by their natural instinct to protect women that they have forgotten that men can be victims too.
If mohak was really worth his salt he would mention that In 2014, as per a report submitted by Delhi Commission for women 53% of reported rapes in 2012-13 were found to be 'false'.
Check google if you doubt this information, I am sure that majority rape cases in India are fake and not only rape cases but also dowry cases and molestation cases too.. women also force for divorce from their well earning husbands purposefully so as to capture their half income and property (called Alimony) like Jeff Bezos's wife did.
Yeah not all women do that, but beware of the women you are with and also beware of any such women who can potentially send you to jail misusing Indian laws
@@Tushar_Talwar_09 That is a prevalent issue too, it is often seen that many females take advantage of the situation by victimising themselves and the feminist come to the rescue bashing the accused without any proof or conviction. It ruins the image and life of the accused, I saw a ted talk related to this too where a boy explained how a false rape case by a girl ruined his life. The main reason for this our nature to take abrupt decisions without having the patience to comprehend any situation fully.
@@Random-fw4cq Yeah maybe those rape cases are false but the thing is that not a lot of women who actually get raped file such cases as they are traumatized and lack the support that they need.
Problem is that boys and girls don't know how to maintain "friendship" without being attracted to one another. I won't say all of these cases are bad but only when you become mature you understand that friendship with another gender needs some boundaries and lots of self control.. young people don't have it at all. There is a reason why parents are afraid of these friendships. But it's their fault to some extent too when they don't teach their kids what boundaries look like and YOU CAN SAY NO TO PEOPLE. Too often girls get trapped in situations where they intent to not get involved in anything more than friendship but it doesn't favor them.
True
In my school, boys and girls were free to sit next to each other until a case of molestation happened and the admin decided that separate seating of boys and girls was the solution🤦🏻♂️
imagine if our schools think this way, what do we expect from our society!
And my school was in a decent location in Delhi and run by educated people from kerala.
Then what else could've been the solution?
I don't think girls and boys sitting together can make things any better
The same happened in my school too, the public held the school accountable for it even though school had nothing to do with it except that the victim was from our school. They threw stones on our school and as a result, girls and boys were made to maintain distance, the seating arrangement was changed and we couldn't talk even in the recess! Moreover the couple dances in annual function were cancelled🤦🏻♀️ Fortunately things were back to normal after a month but our school is still questioned for no reason at all
@@programmer7927 Punishing the culprit and making an example out of it, rather than stigmatizing male-female interactions as a whole?
@@programmer7927 the solution could've been assigning punishment for any kind of assault! give students the choice to sit wherever they want! by separating girls and boys you're just basically saying that all the boys are dangerous while its not cuz not all men are shit but way too many are
Your knowledge and observations just wow thankyou so much for each and every topics❤
I sometimes feel that being a girl is a disadvantage. I don't know a lot about these factors but i just want to say please never hurt anyone whether boy or girl 🥺
Wtf? Your a gift to mankind! Just try adding value to your life!
AND DONT PLAY VICTIM CARD
Nature will always reward you...
@@mountainaustin a girl always love herself naturally,she adores everything about herself but when she finds that her body can become her biggest trouble what can she do?
This is not a victim card.....it's just you never had sisters or you never had discussion on such topics with her to understand the concept that's where the problem lies in society...
Actually it is. Monthly period which comes with mood swings, cramps, blood loss, and you have to be more careful so you don't leak. Then you see people laughing/shaming you for a natural process.
Girls have a weaker body than boys, making them more dependable in case of security, defence, doing some chores.
They need to be covered more, as they got extra meat pieces, making them uncomfortable. And they are judged if they show a little skin.
Some boys being jerks making them more uncomfortable. And then there is RAPE and MURDER!
Being a girl is hard as compared to a boy.
HELLO YOU SHOULDNT THINK LIKE THAT
Every gender has their fair share of problems saying one is worse than other is no good as you've only experienced one side throughout your life time, let's say things don't even depend on individual its just some people have hard life and some people have rather lil bit easy regardless of gender
I am not a certified expert on human psychology but can identify one significant reason for this problem. There is no healthy relationship build up between Male and Female from their childhood especially in rural areas or small towns. Schools segregate them and disallows them even to interact with each other. While what should be done is teaching them from a young age to respect opposite genders similarities and differences in a healthy way. Encourage them to build up healthy and respectful relationship with everyone regardless of gender.
While what is mostly seen is that Majority of Men and Women too from such Background do not even know how to interact with the opposite gender and thus result in sexual frustration and on extreme level might result in sexual violence.
Encouraging young kids for a positive outlook can cure many social evils prevalent in society.
Yess.. School mei khaas kar pehle pehle saalo mei girls and boys should not be made to sit segregated.. Sath mei hi baithana chahiye.. Make them normal with each other.. Ek dusre se interact to karna aana chahiye.
Also in India literally no mother teaches her son that they should see women equally, they are equal gender and no way less than a man and she has all freedom in all aspects from dress to do everything's just like him! And raping a women is a cheap thing to do and real men don't force women when she says a NO even if she is a wife!
@@vishu7478 Yeah that might be true for a proportion of households where they actually need to teach these things which can just be demonstrated by the elder people in the house by respecting each other.
That's why I focused on the point that schools should make positive changes on the issue so that kids who come from such families can get the right values.
Ure absolutely right!!!
True Af
Thanks to raise this topic 🙏🏻
You are a real gentleman
A brave and sophisticated analysis, which was much needed in our country! I hope you gain more traction.
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I highly believe that society is responsible for the mindset of many men. Everyone tells them to man up but never tell the solution to the situation due to which little boys often think that toughness and violence is solution to everything.
Edit: never expected to get this much attention. Thank you everyone for giving their views.
True.
Society needs to normalise many things.
Anywhere bw a toughness of man or a girl talking to a boy needs to be normal.
@shrey jauhari obviously the parents will tell their girls to stay away from guys. It's literally how women have to live, how does one know whether a certain man is good or no? It's India.
@shrey jauhari lol what? I would rather get robbed than raped. Obviously if you're a "decent" Guy which is the barr minimum, why would have they stay away? The basis is sex education, in India from a young age women are shown to boys like some treat or an object not a human. From a very young age we should be encouraged to play together, and this seems impossible but ban any shitty Bollywood movies,
@shrey jauhari 49 last for women
No laws for men
But
Whatever
i think the law needs to be more strict with such cases and also the education system should improve.
as a girl, it's shameful that sometimes, i wish i wasn't a girl. not feeling safe in your own skin, what home do you have if your body is a prison you were born into?
and because of the fact that these things generally don't affect the other gender, they have even less empathy towards people it does happen to. some boys that i know even go as far as making disgusting jokes about this.
it's not an issue that can be resolved in a day. i actually don't see it happening in the near future.
so, please, if you're seeing this, stay safe and keep your loved ones very very close to you.
Thank you so much for addressing this topic
Warning ⚠️: Stay aware of this 1.5k people who disliked this video. They are still in our society. 😰
The more you like the video the more the TH-cam algorithm picks up the video.
They are going to death now 😠
Can't believe
@@varunrao007 logical
@@vivekkrishna6238 I disliked it lol😂
I seriously want to show this my parents, but obviously I can't cuz these things are not openly talked about in all of our house hold....
Same 😞
I hope they understand and learn to empathise and become better at understanding this problem 😊
Indian society sucks.....
Hardest choices require strongest wills.
Same 😢
The fact that this video has been uploaded 3 yr ago and still no change has taken place in our society.
Yeahhh it's sad 🥲
This topic needs to discussed more, especially in India. Just correlate the thoughts of society and what you see here. You'll understand.
Credit goes to our movies also because in 90s most of the movies were not done without a rape case
Yess 😔
agreed, a guy would literally harass a woman and then call it love
@@yashaswigupta8421 true
true😢
I hate such frking Disgusting Movies.....
I even avoid my my family members to watch them it's not COOL AT ALL!!!!
Being a boy I feel sorry for the girls who had been raped
How can a boy or a man can be this much cruel and selfish 😞😞 .
Whenever I heard of rape a sudden pain comes in my mind what the girls had suffered from 😞😞
Same here bro
I am cruel and selfish. 😊
Even Men are sexually assaulted and yet it's totally overlooked
1 out of every 6 Man is sexually assaulted
We just don't go around crying and sobbing in the Internet thinking that those 2 'lost faith in humanity' comment would help us
We don't make it a big deal because we know that the court would believe the woman and that our evidence couldn't be countered just with a single statement by the real aggressor "I was r@ped" because if she did it
There would be samples of Sperm in the woman but no such evidence is available for a Man and the court won't ever believe a Man
Stop acting pussy just to get female praise.. just by the way you speak I can determine that you are insecure about your own opinion and would go with the Mob
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 yes you are
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 just to get some attention and creepy comment on you don't make this thing normal
Also, marital rape rates are very high, Indian men think the women is their property after marriage, there is no education on 'consent.'
A process of 'consent' has to be made as a highlight of the marriage over unwanted customs is what I feel.
frfrr
we have Domestic Violence laws for it.
Marital r@pe is not being made illegal as there is absolutely no way to verify the claim.
Imagine couple having s*x at night and the next day the woman accuses him of r@pe.
Medical result will ofc show sign of Intercourse but then what is the way to verify the CLAIM ?
Just because she said it is r@pe, so you should believe her ?
that is exactly why these all things under Indian Law falls under Domestic Violence.
edit: not to mention if too many cases start getting dismissed cause of lack of evidence, the real victims will also fail to get justice.
Many previliged women have been seen using these laws for their benefit, while the actual victims for whom the law was made get no justice.
@@MarcSpctr bhai logonko itni critical thinking krni aati toh India super power nahi bn jata?
Actually this is true....Boys always get much preference from the family side and also from the society side.
Is it?
@@nobita519 yes.
@@nobita519Of course.
Blame the one who said, "Ghar ki murgi daal barabar".
What does it mean?
What does it mean tho?
@@arpanmukherjee961 अरे मतलब जब अपना कोई कुछ बोलता है तो उसकी बातों का ध्यान नही दिया जाता है जैसे हम अपने मम्मी पापा की बात नही सुनते पर कोई और वही बात कही तो एकदम maan लेते है |
Sadly if you will understand the meaning of this and observe this in relationship..you will find it is True
Daadi aaammmaaaa
This is what called an intellectual. Looking forward and backward and coming on an organised well thoughtful conclusion.
the way our society perceives women has always been degrading since thousands of years, and it has been normalised at such rate where concepts like gender equality and feminism is considered as a threat to society, to some people atleast. Where people go against the most humane laws just to protect their 'manhood'. I would like to see the world where women are not seen in the background or as someone who could only live as long as the men do :/
Feminism oppression men and young boys..
No safety for boys Nowdays
My little cousin is no older than 5 and has recently started school. He was the sweetest bean last time I saw him. But when he visited recently, he uttered all this misogynist bs I was shocked. Such little age and such vile thoughts fed into his mind. Such as girls are bad, frowns at seeing pink clothes or colours, talking rudely with his mother. On asking who told him, he said his friends. I reprimanded him, asked my aunt to focus more on what he says about his school but she says it's alright, he'll outgrow it. This is how society damages kids and we can do nothing about it.
My young self was like that too, where we used bully each other on feminists colour, playing with toys and all those things we consider not to be manly(although we were 6-7🥴).Sitting next to a girl was the worst possible punishment at that time, and we all resisted to play with girls at sports period as we considered them weak. Eventually he will also realize and would stop in his teenage
W friends
@@lakshyasharma8519 hope so
People should understand rape is not about sex but about power over the individual. And who are the people disliking this video? In my opinion, this is brilliantly done and expertly narrated. I wish to see more such issues being talked about and factually explained. Thank you.
It wont erect if it's not about sex lol.
If it's *power,* then you have to sexualize that power.
If it's *aggression,* the again it's sexualized.
Whatever it is, it's sexualized, SO.... it IS about sex.
And people who disliked the video saw flaws in it, so maybe ask what could those flaws be.
Here's one: can't understand a thing he's saying.
@@andreyromashchenko8967 just a note, not trying to argue or anything but if it was really about the sex, it is quite easy, especially in current times, to have a one night stand or even have an escort for sexual needs so i don't see the point you're trying to make
@@rrxn can it happen with no sex whatsoever? lol
There you go.
@@andreyromashchenko8967 you are absolutely right , I agree with you nowadays everything is sexualized that's why rapes happens alot.
Once I was harassed. I told my parents about it. It was the biggest mistake I ever made. They blamed me for it. They said that because you went outside alone and you were wearing short clothes(cold shoulder top and leggings), that's why it happened. I really hate my parents.
Seriously I hate it.... I wish my parents had a little bit of sense
take care sis, everything will hopefully get better. don't trust your parents again, you are on your own now. more power to you
@@wazzaaaapshawtyy2929 thank you, it means a lot💛💛
Hey focus on your studies,get a job,move out of your house..this is the only solution to leading a better and soothing life
Kuch leke chala Karu
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Parenting n education plays the biggest role here
greatly explained. more power to women who had to go through this brutality.
By reading the no. of intellectual comments , It can be concluded that we've a huge population of Individuals who really understand this matter & want to disseminate information regarding this through the society . But most of us are constrained by the society itself to ignore discussions on such serious topics.
There are only 4.4k comments in this video. Even if we assume that the no. of the people who think like this is a 10,000 times more, which would be 4,40,00,000 people, that still makes up only 30% of our population. Reality is that the vast majority of indian society (especially in rural areas) is made up by misogynists and narrow minded people.
But this community of commenters are Selective selected who already had this thought in their mind.
And narrow minded people who finally create problems don't watch such video.
Im waiting for the why women rape video.
Im tired of rape being used as a facade for bashing men.
Male Feminists have become so blinded by their natural instinct to protect women that they have forgotten that men can be victims too.
If mohak was really worth his salt he would mention that In 2014, as per a report submitted by Delhi Commission for women 53% of reported rapes in 2012-13 were found to be 'false'.
Check google if you doubt this information, I am sure that majority rape cases in India are fake and not only rape cases but also dowry cases and molestation cases too.. women also force for divorce from their well earning husbands purposefully so as to capture their half income and property (called Alimony) like Jeff Bezos's wife did.
Yeah not all women do that, but beware of the women you are with and also beware of any such women who can potentially send you to jail misusing Indian laws
@@Tushar_Talwar_09 I agree with you brother 💯.
A few thousand comments are not a huge population 😂😂
Gosh...even as a psych student, this is scary. Even when I understand Cognitive Dissonance....
It all comes back to the mentality of the society. That's the core of all problems. That's what needs to change. And I'm glad that there's a begining to this reform!
Society is changing very very very slowly and innocent people are losing lives at a faster rate.
@@roshnik5137 So i guess we just need to keep doing our part in society.
@@chetsirene3835 i gets tiring tbh when all you want to slap another person for unhygienic times for telling them basics unlimited amount of time
Dude u r a pseudoscience student lol
Its very pathetic situation of our society
My mother still thinks that boy and girl can never be friends
Btw its not her fault she had been such that
My mothers mother always says that 'Ladki ko ladke ki har baat manni chahiye chahe wo galat kyu na ho'
Good point.
Thank you you for the information mohak sir
Desires separate a man from a dog, if a man can't control his cravings, he should be considered a dog.
@Seducer Kun lol
Same with females
@@aarinbishes3002 as if women are the ones raping men.
@@anitachandra2030 they are. Most of the cases remain deep in the darkness. Because everyone says "men cant be raped"
52% ®🅰️🅿️£ case are fake in india .
False case on boys
I know that this wasn't talked about in the video but, men can get raped too.
Anyone can get raped, whether you're male, female or non binary. If you're a rape victim, you should not feel discouraged, instead you should fight for justice. Reach out for help, we are all with you!
And sadly our country doesn't even consider it a criminal offence
You didn't use "non binary" correctly. It's not an option when listing sexes.
@@andreyromashchenko8967 ah thanks for informing me. But here i meant people who don't belong in the gender binary.
@@Raj_Pandya like what ?
Agree!
Thanks to you to take the initiative to explain the motive of rape in very simple words....
Ohhhh ❤❤❤❤
It's funny to find that one doesn't want daughters but miraculously when it comes to marriage and sex one wants a woman..
It’s because having a daughter is more difficult than having a son , they need more care and protection and people will hate you for the slightest inconvenience that happens to them
@@Uppensaidrugaddictit's not difficult. What society needs to do is handle their boys with care and teach them about love and respect. Then women won't need protection
@@meghanarora4136
Woman abuse and hurt men more than men do to them because if a woman gets hurt in anyway or faces any kind of negativity people will get too protective but if a man faces it they will be considered cowards which is why they don’t speak of there suffering ever saw a woman touch a guy in a weird way and get away with it but if a guy does it he’ll get disowned by society
@@Uppensaidrugaddict Kiruku da nee kirukamari pesuraa
@@Tamil_Atheist2023 what are you trying to say
When someone asked, "show me the world best channel I show them this channel" 😊😊😊😊😊
A really calm guy
true
you showed them the wrong channel
Yes...Definitely.Neither channel shows such researched explaination!
@@sandeshdhawade8235 researched doesn't mean that it's true, there are a lot of researches that didn't pan out.
Actually, we Indians are called "makeshifters'.. we have alternateives for all the problems, we don't go deep and never focus on the reason of problem i.e, If roads isn't good so we purchase imported vehicles, rape happens so we teach our daughters karate..but we never think why roads aren't good?.., why rapes are happening this much? And We leave these things for government and media & just calm cuz we think that this is the problem of government....
Yeah it's definitely our duty to focus on the problem and try to find a proper solution.
But that doesn't mean government does not have to play any role in it.
We as a society and the government has equal part to play in stopping this incidents from happening.
Govt. Should fund these kinda research and try to find solutions (like sex education in schools, teaching meaning of consent from childhood, that sexual desires are totally controllable).
And We As A Society should do our duty to implement those
copied dialogue from yash movie master piece....
You said it all .
@Suraj Sunil Bro but if we unite together we can!
*"SKY IS THE LIMIT, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE"*
@Suraj Sunil That's our problem, we need a leader for every work.. I'll!
I don't agree that death penalty is a regressive step. Death penalty for all rapists is a must and will give out a strong message that if you rape then you will die a painful death. This will act as a big deterrent for these animals. Yes they are heartless animals who think they can get away with just a few years of imprisonment. Death Penalty is a must
Instead of giving the message it will decrease the amount of cases reported. The vast majority of rape victims are assaulted by their family members and people they know. The fact that their friend, relative or family member will die if they report the case discourages the victim and they'd even be pressured by the family to not report.
Instead of giving out these ill-informed opinions I'd suggest to research these topics a bit.
How can we make change in the society? Ans 1-Mother teaching her own son to respect every woman and 2-by not asking a Bride on her 'Suhagraat' to abide her husband's every command and satisfy him.
as a girl i request that same should be taught to girls as well lets not forget false rape cases as well as men and boys being raped if u think this will help improve society no cuz those b****** type exist as well both should be given education then only conditions will improve and if u think i am saying false go do google search as well
I was in 5th grade when that shortfilm "komal" was released and it was shown to us by our school by making girls and boys sit in different rooms 😑 Great na!?
@Nationalist Comrade a film about sexual harassment, bad touch and good touch
same when I was in 7th grade there was a group of people who came to our school for the same topic but both the boys and girls were sitting in different classrooms and the representative of that group were also kept as boys for boys and girls for girl student
Bro then what's the point of showing the video?🙂
@@iamshishira557 exactly
i was in 6th grade when they showed that to us girls, i was honestly traumatised by that ngl
Ye bollywood movies bhi... No means YES.... Ka concept yahin se aaya.... Almost har movie LOVE story hoti hai aur Heroine ke manaa karne ke baad bhi Hero uska peechha nahi chhodta... 1960s, 70s, 80s...till date yahi chalta aa raha hai....
Rape was still an issue even before bollywood
Yes aap shi ho
Wo har jagah hai
Mai to movies dekhta hi nahi 2016 ke baad
You have a lot of guts to do this kind of informative videos
Hats off
Hats off to this channel to talk about this
"सोच" सोचने पर मजबूर कर देता है
as a teenager these are the reasons i think :
absolutely zero knowledge about sex or consent in schools
parenting, discriminating between sons and daughters
societal pressure, if a girl is raped, what will the society think of her
not teaching that both girls and boys can go through assault
concept of sex as a form of reproduction ONLY
Correct i also as a teenager think it that from our schooling system to our house there are many discrimination between boys and girls they think they can't date even my own parents think that i am fool who thinks dating is nice
@@Ritam_gg bhai agar dating tumhe itni hee achi lagti hai toh apne behen ko karne doge date hmm acha lagega tumhe
This video is very essential and valuable for today's world. Making this kind of video is really a difficult decision but this information should be given to every teenager. Please share this video more and support it.
True that.
the creepiest part is, "they sound like normal people"
4:03 wtf!! How a 5 yrs old provoked someone?
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Mentality of that old guy....
Cognitive dissonance- mind comes up with bizarre excuses to save itself from immense pressure of guilt
Maybe he didn't meant it sexually
@@spam1028 he meant it sexually read it again we are talking about how he raped her and than said she provoked me
Not only rapes but other violent crimes should also be stopped
You're right but rape cases are really major in india
@@jasrajsingh24 😂🤣secureless woman are more in ancient time, but it didnt become a heading in newspaper
Thanks for the awareness 😮
But at this time no one takes these things serious that is main cause of increasing in rape cases
This is a perfect example of a good educational channel on every social issue.