Gora gora rang: Why do Indians love fair skin so much?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ต.ค. 2018
- Indians have long been obsessed with white, fair skin. Endorsed by famous Bollywood celebrities, skin whitening creams are extremely popular among the Indian masses. Why are Indians crazy about fair skin? What can be done to counter colorism in the Indian society?
#Indians #Fairskin #MohakMangal
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Indian mentality:
white color = beauty
English speaking = intelligent
i agree 👍
nice
@@wholeworldwithhole9659 thank you for appreciate
Exactly
Sahi kaha
bikul Shi kaha bhai .. english is a language, just a language but it used in India as a status symbol . And intelligent people can be from any language, it show that we are still slaves of the Britishers (mentally).
Cartoons like chota bheem even made it worst. The show had a guy who was dark skinned and his name was kaalia. Almost all kids in India watch this show and they replicate that in school
True...
Hnn yrr😔😞
That's been happening sinde the birth of Indus valley civilization ,mainly Harappan . It's normal when you call someone *Kaalia* & *Gora* coz of their colour . People who are don't feel offended & I'm sure we all have done it . Blacks in u.s don't feel crap over this thing.
@@realog868 I think the context matters. When someone is called black in US they are mainly talking about their race whereas in India kaalia is used only to mock a group of people who have dark skin. I don't think we need any theory on whether or not that word is offensive or not. If people are using that word to mock others that means it is wrong
@@BigFatSandwitch surely context matters the most 🙌🏻 no words on that & I got your point . Hard to solve this issue as well
We live in a country where mother-in-law wants a fair daughter-in-law even though she herself is dark skinned....
Exactly
bolna chahta hu....Jharkhand Bihar Odisha Chhattisgarh ..some Gujarati people ...yeh sab Kale hote hai but....tum log South Indian ko hi target kyu karte ho
@@kkkk2569 because of extra dark colour n d state u hv mentioned r mostly brown in colour
Facts
It's OvER for darkskin
I used to be very dark skinned when I was little because I was very suntanned as I never used sunscreen, as I grew older and started taking care of my skin, the tan wore off. As I grew "fairer" I noticed how people genuinely started to treat me better. Same facial features, same hair, just the skin color was different. One relative told me "bachpan Mai kitni gandi dikhti thi I'm glad tum Gori ho gayi" It made me sick to my stomach. How can you look at a literal child and go "hmm ugly because they're dark skinned." I used to love to sing and perform as a child, but everytime I joined in for a competition I was always put in the back row for the given reason of "Sundar bacche front mai hone chahiye", Imagine comparing kids on the basis of conventional beauty.
same thing happened with me. I was extremely tanned in childhood due to continuous roaming when the sun was very harsh. Many people treated me bad due to colour including some relatives. Now I left roaming in harsh sun and my original colour came back. Now people are giving me importance.
Same bhaii same😭😭 and there's always that one relative jo aaapki looks specially colour ke baare me bolegaa whenever she used to come in my house she always used to Comment about my skin tone
@@aadi-sharmaU don't look dark 🙄
@shubham943 I'm not fair tho
I'm 16 and have been experiencing this since the day I was born. (My mom told me) I used a home remedy and really thought my skin would change i literally scratched my face with my nails when it didn't work out. I was 6.... Just a little girl. A little girl being called Kali chudail by a 25 year old grown up. I was bullied by every fuckin person around for my skin tone at different stages of my life. I still hear it and ik it'll continue forever. The thing is that im starting to accept it. But ik if I'll be offered to change my skin tone I'll do it . I hate myself for it but the world made me think like that. Please people I'm not asking you to change your type but please do not make them feel unworthy or unlovable. You don't like black it's okay keep it that way but please do not call her a "gobar jaisi dikhne wali Kali chudail" ever doesn't matter she's 6 or 20.
Indian celeb : Fair n Lovely
Also Indian celeb: Black life matters
Exactly
So true
They can put Fair and Lovely on themselves. It's just not right if they tell other people that they also should use the product.
Man you are totally off the topic do you even know what black lives matter really is about
Because social media
Indians : we aren't racists
Also Indians : ae kaalu, ae Bihari, ae angrez, ae Chinese
Kaalu bolna is Colorism not racism and Bihari bolna is Discrimination, again not racism... But yeah Angrez aur Chinese bolna is racist
Edit (OCT 2022): Lmao ye comment maine 12th me kiya tha aur ab mein final year me hun....log abhi bhi bhadak rahe hai....Don't get me wrong, people use different words to describe different things and so I made that comment, but then some people said that Racism doesn't mean discrimination only on the basis of Race. At this point, I have no idea which one is right.
@@enigmaticambivert4767 so colourism and discrimination is not wrong?
@@dancewithgoli7817 how did you came to that conclusion? see this is the problem...What I meant was that Everything is not Racism and *Racism is not the only bad thing* so stop using the word Racism for everything...did anything get in your head now?
Agreed!
Most people don't know what racism actually is, me too
Even lord Krishna was shown super fair in TV serials like Ramayana and Mahabharata.... That's so .....i have no words
and he's supposed to be dark blue lmao
Fact
Fact
@@occultsupport Bro read vedas
@@pardeshikumar2098 bro is real life avatar
My cousin was UP topper. She was the first girl form her village who topped in not also district but also in her state.
But she got married after her 12 th because of her dark skin.
Her parents thought that she wouldn't get a perfect groom because of her colour even beacuse of this ideology she accepted that she should get married.
😶i wish I could have talked to her family before.
😒 wtf
Kya fayda aisi padhayi likhayi ka?
we live in a society where beauty is judged by skin color, intelligence is judged by marks and respect is given by money. sad but true
in 1900 india literacy rate was 6% and in 1947 india literacy rate was 12%.
@@kingofthejungle7566 I wrote that in exam today lol
@@SriDevi-ug3qg listening to your illiterate grandparents is like making an 10th fail a doctor. You should have wrote this too.
Beauty is subjective. Some may not find dark skin attractive. What are you gonna do about that? Thats like saying, oh I have a big crooked nose and hence everyone should find it attractive or the society is shit
Actually intelligence is judged by how much fluent you are in English.
Lmao people these days
it is harder when your own family makes fun of it than other
Yeah and I am here just like "What ?!?? What's so wrong" maybe it's because I spent most of my time watching TH-camrs from different countries and that's why I am not racist/or maake fun of dark skin colour people , I have fair skin ,so I don't have to go through such comments but I pity people who do go through racist comments
@@fairiesarefair thank you for understanding... it's just a dumb logic I think for having a thought that only having light skin is a beauty.... like whaaaa.. we all are pretty..... bruhh like sometimes when people are being so noisy around me by making the comments about my skin tone... I tell them to go ask God because I didn't create myself
@@noorhasinamohamad1277 yes, God created us so he knows that every part of our body is perfectly suited for us!!!!!!
@@fairiesarefair Exactly!!! Thank you for sharing it out:):) we might be different than each other, but we are all perfect our own way:):)
@@noorhasinamohamad1277
In your profile pic is she gigi Hadid?
Black is everyone's favorite color Until it comes to skin 😔
_imad khan
As someone who is dark skinned, I have faced a lot of racism in my 19 years of existence. I still clearly remember when my classmates and the staffs of my school calling me with some weird names when I was just 5 years old and had just started going to school. Yes just 5 years old! Could you imagine what a 5 years old kid would be going through after being a victim of racism at such a young age? Not just my classmates but my neighbours, my parents, my relatives, my teachers and the entire society around me made fun of my colour. Earlier I thought that the people around me are teasing me and insulting me because I thought I had some problem with my colour. But later on I realised that the problem is not with my colour but with their mindset. And I don't need to change my colour rather they need to change their mindset. Currently, I don't care if someone insults me or rejects me just because of my colour because I know the only thing that isn't right is their mindset. All thanks to education that made me a good human with a good and a strong mindset : )
U r strong.People like u are real role models
Same. My childhood name is kali maiye because my skin color is Dark.
I can totally relate to that. I didn't argue with anybody cause I knew they'd use the word "Kali" . Hah how stupid.
I scratched my face when I was 6 for being Kali. I abused God for making me Kali. Everyday of my life has been spent in me asking the universe what if I was "gori" that would've made no change in the world. Hufff i pity the little me
Bollywood portrays dark people as villains or side characters and fair people as heroes and fair women as heroine or goddess. Bollywood is curse to this society.
Honestly that's not even true tho It's like that in most movies there are barley black heros and in villages tho there are only black people maybe 2 or 3 fair skinned people but mostly there are only black people so they were just doing reality
Not exactly it depends on person
Not exactly Bollywood and the other film industries want "exotic" side characters and villains. They get both white as well as black villians in their movies.
@@captaindeadpool7174 hmm ikr
hollywood too har jhaga hai ky kare soch hi aisi hai
Bollywood has a HUGE influence in that mentality
The mentality of people has a huge influence on Bollywood.
@@eara8426 Some one spoke up 🔥👍🏼
People will be born hypocrites blame bollywood🤦🏾♂️
@@eara8426 Then what's the point of watching bollywood if it's a time waste. They tell that they've huge responsibility in delivering content to society. Still violate it
Bollywood is made by us
@@eara8426 no dude
I remember one day my aunt asked why I was much darker (I was doing a lot of sports at the time) and lamented over the loss of my relatively fair skin as a child. I remember the look on my sister's face, when she heard that comment (she has darker skin than me even when I spent a lot of time in the sun). I felt absolutely heart-broken on the indirect affect that colourist, ignorant comment had on my sister. My aunt meant no harm and yet this mild incident tells us colourism is so ingrained into the Indian psyche that we don't even know we are affecting others. Dark is beautiful too. Others who think otherwise are brainwashed and should just shut up.
I feel like they are forgetting that Priyanka Chopra and miss universe 2021 is NOT the fairest but still are considered icons and are considered to be unbelievably gorgeous.
Same here
As a girl who is neither super white nor very dark but i do get tanned sometimes & the difference of how people treat me when I'm fairer is insane!
Bro is Michael Jackson female version
Brown guy to browner guy:
Abey Kaaley!!!
No black guy to black guy
PreDators brown and black are a whole different race
me too both abbey salle
And a fair guy calls another fair gori billi😀😀
@GO BLOOD not all Indians, I’m half Indian and I never say those
Lol a fair skinned girl in our school got the role of a queen and I because of my darker shade and so called average looks got the role of a servant. And we were in 3rd standard. I actually laugh thinking what a cheap thinking our teachers had and we actually idolised them 🤣
I can relate to it even in my school people who look fair were selected as Gods as ther were considered beautiful
@VILL AIN And here we go, "Thank GOD I don't have this problem, let people suffer"
@VILL AIN you spoke for urself, I reiterated. What you saw in my comment is a dark reflection of your own thought process, gudluck living with that.
@VILL AIN lol I didn't even talk about you being white or whatever, I talked about the thought process, I guess this is way too much for you to process, let me break it down for you.
We all have different skin colors, we have different looks, we speak different languages, we follow different religions etc but when these trivial grounds become valid reason for discrimination in society, it becomes problematic. When you said thank god I am fair, you basically cleared it for all that you are ok with problems in society as long as you are not the one at the receiving end.
@VILL AIN here is what you said "thank god I m fair/semi white boy". Now if you don't see the problem in it then I can't make you see it, gudluck.
No one is born ugly, we are just born in a judgemental society.
-Kim Namjoon
"Jo actors gore nhi the, wo ab bn gye" 100% True.
I am the darkest in my family, they all called me kali. Hated my childhood. My family will continue to be miserable even with their Gora complexion because they have done nothing else in life. Super proud of my achievements while they have none. So to conclude your looks only cannot get you anywhere in life but your brains will definitely get you the success you deserve. Thank you for the video. You guys are awesome!
God made you best. 😊
You are beautiful.. fair is not equal to beautiful.
Esther 🥰 love ur confident
Well
Myself Kalu :)
Yaar I have dark complexion as well
I wisited many countries aur nujh say hamesha gori friends ne ye e poocha k how did you get this gorgious skin colour? When i told them its natural they all were loving it. I am very happy with my skin colour.
Worst part is, the southern movie industry hiring only fair-skinned North Indian females who can barely act.
Clearly, you know nothing about the southern industry, where we produce so many talents. Your statement is relevant 20 years ago, not today
True bro
Worst part is dad is of dark skin
And his daughter is like snow
How's that possible
@@lioness9025 why slavery is legal in islam
@@lioness9025 to apne pass rakh na bhaai.. Q preach kr raha
@@lioness9025 Why do you have to sell your belief to others? You believe what you want to. Besides, religions are kinda outdated & is for politics or hate now.
4:21 still cannot belive this movie isn't banned and still played on Television
When i was in 5 th grade, i remember a few of my classmates tore a red piece of paper from the bulletin board and threw in on me. They called me bull because of my complexion and apparently the red paper was supposed to 'trigger' me. I remember feeling devasted that day. Since the age of 5-6, i have been constantly ridiculed for my skintone. My friends never missed an opportunity to call me kaali. Because of these events my confidence was really low. I am still learning and trying to accept myself. It's 2022 but still people keep pointing out to me that, " areey ye to kaali hogyi." I have made peace with the fact that no amount of education or awareness can change these baffling idiots.
In school, while doing any group dance performance,or group singing i was selected but i was kept always behind the first row.Gradually,over period of 2-3 years, i observed and understoodthat my teacher was putting every fair girl in the front row to please audience(parent,guardian and teacher).IT BROKE MY HEART WHEN I WAS INNOCENT KID AND FELT INFERIOR.
Same here😔
What that is horrible, also I have we have the same name
Riya Rani I’m glad I did not have to go through that
Same here 😔
its the uncle aunty generation that are responsible for propagating many social evils to the modern era. Hopefully due to exposure to internet and global culture, the current generation will educate their kids better.
When a superstar like Shahrukh is promoting fairness what can we expect.
And now sharukh 's daughter is facing racism.
@@superi.qstudy2922 😂
Sharh Rukh Khan himself is dark.
@@Phjghh nope
@@krishnamishra7619 I have seen his real photos taken during shooting of koyla without makeup. He is dark 100 percent.
black is everybody's favorite color until it comes to skin.
- somebody
India is changing. Thanks to content creators like you. Colorism is crime.
90% of the commenters here will surely ask for a fair bride.....
just a small edit. - pls keep in mind a person can not be forces to be with someone who they are not physically attracted to just bcuz they feel sorry for the other one.. in a relationship their has to be attraction..
Including YOu
True. Most of them are hypocrites.
Including you and me and all the people here as well...😝
Bitter Truth
Bhai meri gf to savli he😂
NOT ME .I will a marry a dark attractive women .
being a dark skin male isn't hard, but being a dark skinned female is really tough
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Edit: thank you for the likes, and to this point I would want to add that, being myself a dark male, It's hard for us too. Just that for females, it's more harder for them
Be successful , no body is going to judge you on the basis of your complexion 😎
@@shivammandal2676 yes 👍
But idc what ppl call me...ik I'm pretty even in dark skin cause my skin in fresh
@@indiangirlypiano8431 you are obviously very pretty..gurl❤️
no it is equally hard in my perspective
I am a fair skinned girl, earlier in my school days i had a friend of mine who was dark - skinned. She was new in school and no one approached her coz of her complexion. My own friends were like - usse friendship ki to humse tod dena, initially i forcefully followed that but the things went on peak as the boys also started calling her 'kaali'. I fighted for her and made her my friend, from then onwards she was treated like a normal student.
Whenever i remember those scenes of her being discriminated, i feel so bad for her.
People need to understand that dark is not bad. It's pretty normal. Dark people can also be beautiful. Beauty doesn't means fair skin.
When it was my first day of school in city life which was probably UKG, no one sat near me and everyone mocked me for being black!
So if the children of UKG have such mindset, it raises the question on the whole community!
Once my bf asked me to be grateful to him because he was dating me despite me being brown or darker than him . as if he was doing me a favor !! ......anyways i'm glad it didn't workout 😅
Great to hear that! I hope you broke off with that imbecile the minute he said that crap. A sensible guy will surely come along 👍
😆
@@keerthichandra376 ty ❣ and yup broke off with him within a month ....he still calls me to patch things up 😂
@@dikshajadhav8988 grateful haha. If i were you i would have kicked his @$$
yess good for you, you deserve better hope u find someone who will cherish you for your personality and I'm glad ur dumped the colourist idiot
That 9x AD made me cringe out of this world 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same
😂😂😁😀
Desi Sophie Turner.
1:52 That's Atmaram Tukaram BHIDE
even hair colour has changed 🤦🏻♀️
In my childhood , every relative and neighbor used to call me and my elder brother kaala and kaali , one day my brother sarcastically said ,"if you hate black so much then please stop the nonsense of worshipping goddess kali in the name of diwali . From that day no one dared to call me kaali even once. But they used to tease my brother too much by calling him kaala but he was calm and quiet just used to ignore. When he was about to get married , the brides' father after hearing about my brother was very interested in him, but when he saw , he was tanned type , he called off everything. All the relatives, taunted our parents but suddenly my brother came from nowhere with a smile in his face and with a book in gift wrap. Everyone started to taunt him and he said with a smile , that the book is given by his girlfriend Everyone was stunned by this. He came and told our mother , " Sorry mummy but do you have any problems in accepting a Nordish girl as your daughter in law? the whole council of relatives was stunned and at that day, they didn't have any contact with us.
wow so are they now married?
I love how your brother supported you, I have the same story when one of my cousin whispered to my older sister's ear that I have become so dark and she savagely replied "Of course she is, she does not stay at home, she is an athlete and a student, she is beautiful all the way." ❤❤
I have dark skintone but nobody bullied me in school,
Maybe because i was the bully of the school and everyone were afraid of me 😂😂
You're way worse than others
Once a dark skinned female friend of mine told me that she'll have to achieve more in life to get a suitable groom for herself. Felt so bad for her.
That is the sad reality.TBH girls have to be very rich. My friend had to give huge amount of dowry just because she was ugly in guy's eyea
@Hello Bruh bro I don't consider dark skin as ugly. If you are calling her bhature due to dark skin then I condemn you.
@Hello Bruh yup, I also find fat girls ugly. Also it is unhealthy
shadi zindgi ka hissa bn chuki hai..shadi krne se kuch ni hota h
@@chiefrabbi6735 wtf body shaming is even worse bro , some girls can have pcod so they have health issues which can cause this being fat is not always cuz of over eating 😆
As a Brown girl I want to share one of my story . Although there are many stories I faced in my childhood and now facing as a teen and it will be continue till my death but this story is something special..when I was in 9th grade I had huge crush on my class monitor it was so obvious that my whole classmates can read it on my face that I like him a lot but kisi ne kabhi mujhse pucha nhi everyone's like ok ..so u like him but he is not your type .. I always thought that his cold /rude behavior towards everyone was the reason but the truth was different. One day at school I decided to express him about my feelings but it gone wrong..that day I was selected in drama for school annual function and I was happy till one of my friend she was also doing in our drama part suddenly came and asked me that if I have crush on someone... I told her happily about him and she told him later .. And when I went back to classroom after practise there was something written on the board "Crow searching for diamond".. That's it.. I hope you guyz enjoyed my story.. 🙂 💔
This wasn't the end of the story
He later told me that how unlucky he is that he is liked by someone like me.. 🙃 .
Omg , you are beautiful
That is terrible, also sorry I don’t understand all of the end part cause it’s in Hindi I don’t really understand hindi as much, is my third language
doesn't matter, I have fairer skin yet am single, gf/bf depends on your over-confidence and chhichorapanti, if you are humble and loyal, chances are you will stay single until you get married, I mean arranged marriage which I believe is better than love marriage, after all, most love marriages fail, what's the point of having known each other before marriage if its going to fail more than arranged marriage!!
@@gulshanchaurasia2233
we must look at these statistics carefully.
You're saying love marriage is worse than arranged marriages because they're more likely to fail. We have to consider that people who get arranged marriages are more likely to NOT divorce because of family pressure, shame, etc.
Furthermore, when you said most love marriages fail... then it's not actual love.
I'm not saying arranged marriage is better or love marriage is better. I'm talking about 'causation or correlation' in statistical reference.
😪😪 but it's not a joke because Shree Ram was black shree Krishna was black but still they are loved because of their personality 🙃🙂😉
I never understood our society,
Why is every dark skinned person treated so badly . When will our society change ?
Even though I'm a lazy person, one thing I used to do diligently was use all sorts of creams and whatever the elders told me to apply to lighten my skin tone as I was tired of hearing people complain about my it. As expected nothing helped, nobody tried to realise that maybe my "real" skin color isn't a fairtone, but the one I am in right now. Thankfully, I did not fall into this trap and realised that this is how I look, this is how I was created and nothing can change my genes 🤷♀️ I have ever since stopped applying anything other than what will keep my skin healthy. I learned to accept myself and have never been more confident.
Until people stop thinking black as dirty, there is no end to racism
tumhare saro par jotiya gory rang walo ny mari hain afghan gory the mughal gorry the or gora tha hi gora isi wja se tumhe gora banna hai bramno se bacho kiyu ke yeh sab barry shetaan haain
humm haai kaly ya sawly rango walo hum main kon goory hain yeh tu bta do mujhe asl kaly ki fasad ki jarrr hain wo hum
The prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said we all are children of Adam, An Arab is not better than a non arab, a non arab is not better than an arab, a white man is not better than a black man, a black man is not better than a white man except by piety and good works,if you wanna know more about islam than read from this site-onereason.org/
lioness 902 well said why should anybody suffer because of the colour of your skin this is outrageous
lioness 902 until we don’t realise that our body is only a vessel till we die and the accounts of our deeds are more important than criticising another for his skin colour you can never understand humanity
1:39 Bruh she changed her freakin race all together....
Lol
Lol 😂
😂
I cringed hard
Sudha ko sun daisy bana diya ,
I hope you get my reference ;)
I think lot is changing.. I'm dusky and never had any major discriminations .. everyone evenregarded me very beautiful.... and I am glad that I have the original indian color
😍
I think "White is beautiful". I am a dark skin man, but liking white skin in India is a crime today ???? no one force me to say dark skin is beautiful. liking skin colour is a personal choice. and dark skin colour is beautiful this statement some time is a big " HYPOCRISY".
You're genuine person
no it's not a crime. I am a brown skinned female I like lighter skinned/white men too. That's the only type of men I've dated. I think opposites attract
It's not just in India, here in Pakistan, people obsession with fair skin is endless. If your skin is white, u are consider beautiful, but if ur skin is brown, u are consider ugly. People needs to understand that white skin does not mean to be beautiful, beauty comes from the heart, from the soul, and not from the face
Sb bolne ki battein hai!!
Not limited to India or Pak, this fair skin bias is there in most parts of the world.
Not only in ind or pak the whole Asian mentality is the same
@@MihirS84 it’s also most of very common in China, Japan and Korea.
But Pakistanis by Majority are Fair or Pale. We are not that much racist Maybe In Punjab or Karachi
I will never forgive myself for calling a girl “black” in my class
Thanks for being aware of your mistakes
@@ananyasrivastava7730 ❤️
@ Not Chris - Self awareness is a beautiful quality, my friend. You are special.
You are guilty now which 85% indians are not .
U have admitted that u made a mistake and thats great dude forgive yourself
Most important thing is
1. keeping your body fit by doing exercises and eating healthy, cutting fat, sugar and excessive salt.
2. Maintaining a clean body, hairs and your soul.
As for skin colour, embrace what u have.
the funniest thing is that ki vo asian se blonde ho gayi😂😂😂
I remember back when I was in school many boys in my class called me "kaali", they called me "kaali mata" , "blackboard" and whatever black they could think of. I remember I used to cry alone in school washroom cussing my skin colour, and I always hid my frustration and told my freinds I was ok and I didn't mind. But tbh it was devastating for me. It hit my confidence so hard that I stopped doing anything on stage or going out with freinds and anything that would involve interacting any "fair" people. I tried to avoid those boys in my class as much as I could, at a point when I used to hide in my home to skip school, and stopped interacting much with people. My mentality was destroyed and my confidence in myself was crushed, as a result I did so bad in my exams. I developed an inferiority complex and stopped showing myself to people because I thought I was too ugly for anyone to even see me. But now I'm matured and I realized I'm not ugly at all, I feel like I need to become powerful enough to tell these people that they need to stop with such a treatment towards young girls. Being a black girl in India, for me felt like a curse, but now I stopped giving any fuck about that and just focus on myself so that I can help spread awareness about this issue, to stop such discrimination.
More power to you 🙌
This is what basically I am going through
@@avika4450 When I was young I had no one I could talk to about this because I was really embarrassed to do so. But you do not have to be embarrassed and let those goons hurt you, girl be brave and everytime they tease you, give them back answers like "so what if I'm black? " and do talk to your teachers about this, let them know that it's really bothering you, I'm sure they'll take action. There's no need for you to feel embarrassed, you've done nothing wrong, fight back and be brave girl, I know it's gonna be hard but you should not give up, good luck sweetie :)
God bless you. ❤️
@@shrutimeshram2560 thank you so much for replying and I have realized that shutting up your mouth and ignoring these people will never do anything you should fight back for your rights. Once again thank you for your sweet words
I'm a proud dark-skinned girl. In my schooling days, I used to get into a lot of fights with people who made me feel less of a person due to my color+ being a south Indian. (I was the only one in my batch). Recently, I was having a conversation about beauty with someone and they instantly assumed I must be upset and felt ugly even after telling them I felt beautiful. I'm strong-headed and don't give a damn about it. Never did. I hope everybody gets through this and becomes stronger. :)
That's the spirit. You go girl!
@EXTREME well, there's nothing wrong with that either. Some people just can't accept what they have and that's okay. Doesn't make them wrong or bad. Why'd you assume I was blaming North Indians tho?
Have I hurt your sentiments?:)
@EXTREME hate is a strong word. there's multiple underlying reasons to why people behave the way they do. Accept it or not but not everything is perfect. Aaaaand, there's no such thing as a "healthy society" lol
Sure, I am. I've been telling people to accept themselves and I'm ignorant 🤣
Don't get me wrong, but let people live. And if you want to make a change, start small. :) 👍
@@radii2624 don't reply him, he is a troll.
I was also get bullied at my school days becoz of my complexion but later it gave me strength n i enhanced my personality with this skin tone only as i realised that skin color is just a part of life ..n if people will judge you on that then I think they wasted money by going school as they are highly uneducated ...not accepting Indian skin tone is somewhere being not appreciating Indian culture as our Hindu God n Goddess have the same skin tone 🙏🙏🙏🙏
If the person in your DP is you, then I wonder why people bullied you. Your skin isn't 'dark' by any standards.
@@daredevil30000it's actually but she has applied a lot of filters to make it fair 😂😂😂
Fair skin people look preety as simple as that
Joke of the universe 🤣
@@zipvarseit’s facts no one can deny it
@@YTMRCODER Not at all 🤣
@@YTMRCODERno lol, grow up kid
@@zipvarse it’s facts no one can decline
I'm from haryana, my cousin who is a wonderful intelligent hardworking girl and the nicest human being I know; she has been rediculed so much for her dark skin that she has lost all her confidence, given up all goals and very sad because of it; I want to help her. my heart brakes when I see her sad because of the discrimination she faces even within family
Tell her she rocks from my side :")))
Such a nice u r ..atleast u r understanding them ..🧡🧡
Couldn't relate more than this 😶
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Break*
Was that 9x girl also applying that cream on her hairs
How she became a blonde?
Had blue eyes too!
That black hair before was a wig
Light Morningstar magic*
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tumhare saro par jotiya gory rang walo ny mari hain afghan gory the mughal gorry the or gora tha hi gora isi wja se tumhe gora banna hai bramno se bacho kiyu ke yeh sab barry shetaan haain
Jo gift nature ka h nobody can beat that
In India it is your skin colour which decides that your beautiful or not.
"Hum kale heh toh kya hua dil waleheh"
When I was small I never took this lyric seriously but now damn this is so problematic. The way this song basically tells dark skinned people are not desirable and can only be loved cause of the content of their heart is so so so so so -I don't even have words
exactly
the way i see it is "even if you think i am dark and not desirable. i have a good heart" and that is what matters..
but still dont come @ me on topics like this i tend to think differently and i might say smtg wrong
@@sigh213 Well, my opinion, is that whether youre black, Or youre white, it doesnt matter. Youre human. Having a great heart is good for a human. Black and white are unique and beautiful in their own ways. so it doesnt matter what colour a person is, im choosing the one who has a good heart
@@sigh213 that is the thing. "Even if I'm dark" why do people think that? People don't go "even if I'm fair" cause fairness is something celebrated.
Darkness isn't. That's what the song says. That dark complexion is already a road block to find love but with my "good heart" it doesn't matter.
Thats the underlying bigotry
@@lalitthapa101 yeah makes sense
Many say , "She is beautiful despite being dark complexioned!"
Feel like telling them "You are ugly ( because of your insensitivity) despite being fair skinned."
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bolna chahta hu....Jharkhand Bihar Odisha Chhattisgarh ..some Gujarati people ...yeh sab Kale hote hai but....tum log South Indian ko hi target kyu karte ho
@@kkkk2569 true. Dark skined people are in every part of India and not just Southern part.
@@kkkk2569 Those ppl should have shame on them who target South Indians 🙄 for being dark skinned. Tbh,I have never seen such beautiful 😍 facial features in any other place's ppl which are seen in South Indians. They are extremely beautiful 😍 ❤. Their eyes 👀 omg. And rest,beauty comes from the heart,soul and not from the skin
@@kkkk2569 I am bengali and I am black
We live in a samaj 🤡 where everyone wants a Gulabi
Tera dp bhi toh White European hai
@@dhruvnegi5426 wo toh maine kuch hafto phela change ki hai aur jiski maine photo lagai hai woh meme hai
Im glad that good TH-camrs like you use such public platforms to shows what’s real world and how these are different form the Bollywood image of beauty everyone has grown up watching the Bollywood and behaved as per their society standards of beauty thanks for creating realistic videos and making people aware of rights things
I've experienced or observed this since school when good looking and fair kids are automatically selected for more dramas, speeches and other activities or being fair and cute will give you the tag of smart everyone will assume a good looking friend of mine is shareef or more intelligent and even teachers will behave leniently towards him while me being dark and ugly even if I was not in fault or didn't do anything they'll assume that I am mischievous.
It's soo deeply rooted in our society.
True bro I have also experienced this
Well said !!
In our class I was among top 3 guys. 2 were fairer and I was brown (not dark) but thanks to stupid (new) teachers I would always be considered at number 5 because there were another 2-3 very fair guys in the class.... It would take them month or 2 to realize that I was also among top 3 intelligent guys 😂
What I wonder is that how the how darker guys cop with such stupid teachers.
Arya Nair Look at it this way. People with beautiful souls don’t care how people look. ❤️🙏🏻Namaste
@@arminius6506 Hi brother same with me too... I was the second ranker of our class and our teacher was choosing top 3 group leaders ...so my frnd told her that he is 2nd topper (she was new btw) as soon as she saw me she was like no no he is 2nd topper na he might be having many responsibilities and all..but she instantly choosed our 1st topper coz he was very fair ... And there are many more worst incidents than these...😟
I hv seen many ugly fair people, while beautiful dark people too..
Black or white, it's just a color
Mind matters, not color
No dude white is richest and dark or brown is the poorest. In India some people have their own skin black but they love to resist another black or brown people. I'm also a victim of kind fucking mentalities.
Well I am a dark and I have preety amt of money
ecs RaiNy if you have shit features it doesn’t matter how fair you are.
@@whatsinaname2706 exactly
The prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said we all are children of Adam, An Arab is not better than a non arab, a non arab is not better than an arab, a white man is not better than a black man, a black man is not better than a white man except by piety and good works,if you wanna know more about islam than read from this site-onereason.org/
I have never experienced colourism in school (maybe because i wasn't that dark). But my relatives and neighbours say lots of things about my skin tone and consider my cousin sister who is fair skinned as beautiful. They casually say a lot of things without even realising that its wrong.
It is common and totally fine for a fair person to desire darker tone and vice versa. We all look for the things we don't have
I used to date a guy back in school , we had a minor altercation and he said that he's ashamed of me cz I am darker than him, I was 15 back then , and decided to not be with a colorist/racist and broke up.
That's a great thing you did. You deserve much better.
I can understand dear.. same happens with me too but only difference is you are a girl and I am a boy 😂😂
Wow r u indian or african American?
I had a crush on a tamilian girl during high school (btw I'm a guy from North India) ... She was dark but can't forget her expressive face... Sharp nose... Slim neck... She looked liked a model and was really good in bharatnatyam ... Helped her on studies... Was thinking to ask her out... Then rakshabandhan came and she brought a rakhi for me.... Moral of the story is go for whole thing including thought process not just on skin color!
@@virtualatallDid she tied rakhi on your hand?
One of the most underrated channel on TH-cam
Very Nice Video
Sahi Analysis Kiya Aapne ye TV ads Gorepan Ko itna badawa dete he, amir log to jo kale bhi hote he to unke istemal se banawati gore ho jate he Lekin jo Gareeb he aur kale he to unme talent home k babjood bhi be public place pr inferior mahsus krte he.
Thanks, Sumit! Do tell your friends about this channel so we can spread the word :)
Vry nyc video keep up the gud work..
Well lets be honest white people look more beautiful thats the only reason why people want to be white, these 2 guyz are already fair thats why they talking bullshit like this, 😂😂 arey you showed rekha ji, shilpa shetty and kajol's before after pics, but didn't you understand the difference ?? Why did they do it ? Are bewakoof logon they are looking much beautiful now than they did before in dark skin. Yes we should not discriminate between black and white people, respect everyone, but just be honest, and honestly saying 90% of the world population believes fair skin people look more beautiful. Thats truth and will always be a universal fact !! So if you can do the fairness treatments and become fair ! Doctors just have to advance in the technology side of being fair ! No harmful effects should come !
Or !
*TRY BEING HAPPY IN WHATEVER YOU GOT*
@@mohak_mangal what is the real name of the song afraid of the black guy?
I'm 16 and have been experiencing this since the day I was born. (My mom told me) I used a home remedy and really thought my skin would change i literally scratched my face with my nails when it didn't work out. I was 6.... Just a little girl. A little girl being called Kali chudail by a 25 year old grown up. I was bullied by every fuckin person around for my skin tone at different stages of my life. I still hear it and ik it'll continue forever. The thing is that im starting to accept it. But ik if I'll be offered to change my skin tone I'll do it . I hate myself for it but the world made me think like that. Please people I'm not asking you to change your type but please do not make them feel unworthy or unlovable. You don't like black it's okay keep it that way but please do not call her a "gobar jaisi dikhne wali Kali chudail" ever doesn't matter she's 6 or 20.
I think Korean drama ,k pop ,c drama ...etc influencing Indian people so much about fair skin 🤔 .
Yes, I think u r 💯% correct.
Even they do make up to look good, that's creating a mindset to people to look fair.... 😐
As someone who watches kdramas, i agree. Many times the handsome one gets all the girls and the person who doesn't seem to be good enough is rejected and also never talked about. 🙂
Nah lol, you parents are brainwashing you since birth about color, not kpop
Of course they are
After applying 9X on her face, her hair became golden, How????
White people influenced.
Balo p bhi lga li hogi 😂
@@nupoorr5295 😂😂😂😂😂
LOGIC 100
Miracle miracle😂
I am from Bangladesh. Its the same here. I have lighter skin, but my mom is darker. My mom had to face many embarrassing situation for that. People used to insult her with their filthy reaction "how she had fair daughter"
Its really disgusting!
In Bangladesh, the case is much worse. I don't know why, I don't know how, being a member of the younger generation, many people around my age either want to be fair-skinned or want their future partner to be fair skinned. I mean, literally, WTF!
Understandable. I dunno how but in my who family I somehow is fair skinned and PPL r thinking I'm adopted 😭. Especially they insult my Di and my best friend who is dark skinned
@@supersipra3782 and here my cousin and relatives taunt me for dark skin...and irritating me why having dark skin...so great you have supportive family
@@ethanmanjhi4007 Wait looks like I made a grammatical mistake. I mean, I'm the only one who is fair-skinned in my family, thus it make the people think that I'm adopted. I don't like when they say "yeh toh itni gori hai iski didi kyu itni kaali hai?" And "Yeh iss kaali ladki ke saath kyu dosti kar rahi hai?" 😭
@EXTREME yeh kaisa mazak hai huh?! Me indian toh hu magar yeh comment thik nahi hai
Indian books are also responsible for this.
I'm one of those who faced discrimination for being dark..not just discrimination,a lot more.. being 90's kid i can relate a lot to these ads..but I'm lucky enough bcoz aftr growing under these circumstances i have become so strong.. sometimes worst things made us strong..still it is an evil n i dnt want my child to face all these.. thnks mohak
Dislikers are the Brand manager of Fairness Creams
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1:42 cream se Baal ka rang bhi change ho gya,,,aur jisne wo cream Diya uska kuch nhi hua.waah waah !!
Sahi kaha 😂😂😂
Hahahahaha exactly! Main bhi yahin soch rahi thi
It's a parody. It's an imitation of an idea which is exaggerated for a comical effect
Baal choddo uski nationality hi badal di 😂
😂😂
Beauty lies in the mind of the beholder.
Don't know,why people don't want to accept the reality
that fair skin is more beautiful than dark,
this is brutal reality
Believe it or not
This is not my opinion but reality 💔
No hate
No, you are just forced to believe this
Maybe ur lord krishna nd every Hindu god is ugly thn right?
That's NOT the reality
That's your opinion.
The real meaning of beauty is the personality of an individual. This is what we should accept rather than judging people based on their colour,looks etc. Fair skinned people came to India and thought we looked like mud and they treated us badly. This is the reality. Guess what in the Bible it is said that God created humans using clay (mud)
I am deeply offended by what the politician said about the south indians. I am a south indian and my skin color is non of your business. I live in north but no one ever told directly like him.
But will You get offended if someone calls You black
People are just ridiculous
@@sanatanidaliturfkafireazam5726 Will you get offended if we call you are the product of some Irani Aryans?
@@sarath14k56 Not at all because all People In India come from foreign lands Like my ancestors
And i am not Irani I am A puru (Pashtun) Hailing from persent day Amb(Ambavati) distrit of Paksiatn and a proud hindu
@@sanatanidaliturfkafireazam5726 The South Indians ain't migrated. So you are saying we can treat you just like the brits. Quit India? lol
I feel bad that even Bollywood ppl does these ads
It's all about the money bruh fuckall colour grades
India me paiso ke liye koi kuch bhi kr sakte hai chahe koi rich actors hi kyo n ho
Paisa bhai Paisa. Anpadh logo Ko Paisa doge to tatti bhi kha lega. Shadio me nach lega
Sab saale mil kar ......
Paise Ka khela hai sb babuji
It’s not just Indians,it’s the world!
Before trolling any dark skin girl y'all remember diary milk has more fanbase than milky bar, so never underestimate about your skin colour.
It's all red blood inside everyone.
I am a dark skin girl this video really makes me feel so happy....for the first time I am watching your channel ... Now I am your fan... You have researched a lot for this video.. hard workers...
You are beautiful
Yes I also see this video first time I love thought colour no matter humari thinking 🤔 ki black colour is ugly it depends upon our thoughts and poor mentality that's so cheap 😐
But still you are using whitening cream to pretend. The main problem is your mentality about yourself.
and your DP is of a fair skinned girl.... ammmm we need to have huge respect for ourselves and accept the way we were born... with pride... everything will fall in place automatically.
Still your not real
Bro as a fair skinned guy I always played the role of lord Rama in my school and one of my friend who was dark skinned had to play the role of Ravan ... This discrimination took place when I was 11 ... Then how can we think of a society that doesn't discriminates on skin tone of a person ???
In fact it was opposite, Rama was an dark person with good looks, while ravana was said to be so handsome with damn good looks too. They both were dark.
I wad once offered the Role of most revered Bapuji in my kindergarten because my parents had shaved my forehead at that time during prior to mine and Gandhiji's birthday. (Mine is three days after his). I was too naive at that time to understand who is Gandhiji and what were his struggles in his life and our Satyagraha. So after a lot of crying and hesitation (during rehearsals i cried a lot for the sterotype) the teachers replaced me for some other kid.
And the irony is that it was opposite rama was dark in colour ...but these sitcoms nowdays let fair skin guy play the role of ram
@@shiksha2784 even They are making Krishna White
@@anhilatorofignorance2584 while the word Krishna literally means black. People will bullshit till no ends. Smh
When i was little, fair and lovely cream was the only fairness cream brand. One day i saw my auntie was using it. She is so fair, so i literally thought it was due to the cream. Then some times later I saw my mom was also using it (who has little darker shade). And at the age of around 8-9 years of age I realised that we shoulnot believe in ads and everything what are shown in ads are fake. Well this black and white concept or in general body shaming was so deep in uncouncious mind, it took years to get rid of it and be confident about how I look.
A person should be judged by his or her actions and thinking but not by skin color, caste, class, race, gender or any other social system.
I'm a Kashmiri dude and my gf is from delhi she's having dark skin and she's hot & i love her...
Are you Indian or not
@@PreyingAssassin Yeah, Indians discriminates not just based on color
Well lets be honest white people look more beautiful thats the only reason why people want to be white, these 2 guyz are already fair thats why they talking bullshit like this, 😂😂 arey you showed rekha ji, shilpa shetty and kajol's before after pics, but didn't you understand the difference ?? Why did they do it ? Are bewakoof logon they are looking much beautiful now than they did before in dark skin. Yes we should not discriminate between black and white people, respect everyone, but just be honest, and honestly saying 90% of the world population believes fair skin people look more beautiful. Thats truth and will always be a universal fact !! So if you can do the fairness treatments and become fair ! Doctors just have to advance in the technology side of being fair ! No harmful effects should come !
Or !
*TRY BEING HAPPY IN WHATEVER YOU GOT*
@@mybeautifulcat7011 that's the problem.....a new born baby do not knew anything about racism or black and white......the fact is society, parents tell the child that white is superior and black is not.....just think for a min, if we do not tell anything to child about white or black then he will never differ between black and white ...
@@mybeautifulcat7011 Just because you worship light skin it does not mean that the whole of Indian society has to do so.
When I was in 5 grade, in our annual program the ' Rapunzel and the Prince' Drama was organized. Where the leading character Rapunzel was played by the fairest girl in our class who could barely act and her witch mother was played by my bestie who was dark. She wanted to be Rapunzel.....she was so sad after madam offered her the role of witch mother. I still feel sad for her. She was a child, didn't know about racism.
it is not called racism!
its called colourism not racism :))
8:33 what about rajarajachola
Even I've the darker shade...when I was in my school I was rejected in dance programmes just because of my complexion and it happened many times with me in stage shows skits etc even my relatives say they don't like me because of my complexion and the best part is now these things don't effect me and my personality..I'm complete and I'm grateful to almighty for whatever I've and whatever I am... I know it's not easy but it's not even tough...i feel pity for my school teachers mindset
Back when Peach or flesh tint colour was called SKIN COLOUR
So subtly engraved in our head
I called it potato colour
I hated that
@@Chandrashekhar-jp7xx legend
Maybe I could call chocolate brown skin color.
To be honest Kajol and Priyanka looked better dark. Cant believe they would be so weak to undergo skin lightening.
If a woman has to stay relevant in the industry, she has to be white and fleshy ... we can always blame the regressive audience. Who's to question?
And then they give lectures on feminism
Kajol ma'am was lookin hot in dark complexion. :)
@@drd.n4695 yeah! something wrong with the Industry. I remember Nandita Das being pissed off about the fairness obsession in India. She never got good roles even though she is a good looking actress.
@FizZ: Ms. Das is more than an actor. She has literally been an ambassador bridging India and Pakistan via movies. She had raised her voice in the most legit way against our idiocy (obsession for a color). She has staged plays (witnessed her maiden attempt in person at Amdavad) and has spoken on a host of issues as a sorted individual. She hasn't rushed to make 100 movies: she's made two with heart and soul and both has made it to International Film Festivals. She is aging gracefully. Kajol's a zero. Chopra hasn't made inroads in Hollywood. Not quite yet. Yes, she's known fairly well in America but her body of work is relatively negligible.
A few other overarching pointers is feminism currently sells in Bollywood and that actors promote consumer feminism: the same Ranaut and Padukone won't promote feminism unless Nike and Adidas are in the equation! (Irfan) Khan is required to help the naive audience to come out of their obsession for stars. Go through this playlist if you have the time and interest: th-cam.com/play/PL9oxhJrV9mDaLwFHuFIEnevmss4gB6vKH.html and contribute your bit. I have no monetary interests: I am trying to educate myself where Bollywood truly stands. Best.
I have dark skin and I have been bullied alot by not just guys but also girls in my school. Trust me guys it all starts from your family. My all cousins have fair skin and I am the only one who has dark skin. In any family function i was the topic of discussion I was highlighted as the most darkest girl in the family. My elder cousin used to call me kaali . I used to complain this to my mother and she used to scold them for not calling me that way even as a joke. So i started to feel insecure about my complexion and looks. Generally boys donot accept the fact that even girls get rejected by boys because of looks. I have been rejected by many guys because of my dark complexion. And then I decided to not let any other guy reject me , i am done and now I donot Even want to have any partner. I will live my life alone. Sad thing is even dark boys want fair girls. So it's not tough for boys because girls eventually like dark skin guys and If he has govt job it's so easyy for him to get the girl of his dream. Dark skin female has to suffer alot. Because boys like onlyy fair and beautiful girls.
That's not necessarily true, there are some guys like me who have a preference for dark skin girls over light skin girls, especially those who are much more darker than me. If anything it makes life easier for me to find the beauties that others are too blind to see
@@roshansri1636 Yes it is true, Go to Africa ten
@@dhruvnegi5426 I find African girls to be very beautiful, so thank you for the compliment. I hope all dark skin girls understand that even if a large amount of guys do not like them, there will always be guys like me who do!
3:43 Fact - jaha dark skin wale log zada honge, people will prefer light skin colour and vice-versa.
In Western countries jaha gore log zada hai, waha brown skin colour ko log zada prefer karte hai
That's not brown...olive skin tone
My girlfriend rejected me because of dark skin tone when she left me she gave me this reason.. I'm happy for her because she left me before we get married 😂
U married to whom?
Good for you
Your ex was savage!
@@Phjghh 🤔
my first gf left me because I have dark skin but my current gf is way better than her in all aspects and way more beautiful and well, she is really fair and she likes my dark skin
The irony that one of my teachers who are supposed to be our "Idols" once told in class that "Kaale Log" or Dark skinned people are not "Pretty". And when I opposed what that teacher said, No one even spoke up in class and found it wrong. Well, eventually the teacher had to accept his mistake in front of class because I spoke up. But what still makes me sad is that not even a single soul in the class found it offending and had the courage to speak up against the "Teacher"
thats- next level blood boiling thing to happen the audacity to call "BALCK?!" people?! first of all calling someone straight up "BLACK" is really bad and the audacity to teach kids in the class rasicim is really some next level stupidity she/he didn't even think bout the students complaining the principle gladly in my class a teacher student even the principal himself speaks shit about people being themselves then we would spoke up and it even happend in our school and that teacher got kicked out we got a good principal who is strict bout these thing and good thing you did that cuz at some time I was also like that but my eyes eventually opened and I saw this disturbing and disgusting obsession of people with pale no blood skin colour
@EXTREME I understand that commenting on a person's skin colour over and over can leave a lasting effect on their idea of what skin colour is "good" or "bad", but yeah the op is being a snowflake here fr💀
@EXTREME hehe but then again sometimes we really have no clue just how important their skin colour is to them, I mean Ive seen discrimination happening, even though subtly so
@EXTREME well in my defense I've yet to meet an Indian who gets offended at being called fair🙄
I can understand how u feels when no one supports u in this matter 😭😭
I don't know why this channel is so unrated this channel provides a such unique content
7:04
Dude she was beautiful as flowers
@Sumit Yadav bhai ab thik hai??
She is a kid.....damn you
@@ssandhu6382 what damn?? Kids beautiful nhi ho sakte??
Ikr she was so cute
@@ssandhu6382
Bro chill he is just saying she looks pretty he probably didn't mean it in a creepy way
That 9X ad made her skin fair to the point she was not even recognizable
From Africa to Europe in a single cream!
@@umapathikrishna not African
Someone explain me this:- it was a fairness cream for skin right? Then why her hair become blonde? It is applicable for hair too?!
@@supersipra3782 side effects of the cream
@@supersipra3782 Such thing happens when ad director has IQ of a reptile, and ad company is high on weeds.
It's isn't about colour fair of dark
It's about the glow u have on ur face and a positive approach
Entertaining but informative, bold but at the same time correct ,good msg for society...... Goosebumps content bro ❤😊
Let's start a campain of no racism so who all want to be in this campain
#Rules
1)will never discriminate someone on basis of colour
2) will never use these beauty creams
3)proud on aur colour and make people motivated that black colour is their pride
4) Will expose the harsh chemicals of these products
Jai hind 🇮🇳
Bro where can i fill the form
There's nothing to be proud of a colour
@@bhartiyacreature4950 ik but he's saying that people shouldn't be sad because of their color
@@averagewaterenjoyer1460 yeah but this is different ...imo while we try to empower someone we don't have to make them feel speacial, instead they should feel as normal as possible
@@bhartiyacreature4950 me kia khe raha hu samaj kia rahe ho bruh