Top 10 Pre-Marital Counseling Questions 👰🏾🤵🏽

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  • Top 10 Pre-Marital Counseling Questions 👰🏾🤵🏽 Questions to ask before getting married!
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    Hey everyone! In this video Jamilah and Marcel sit down and discuss some pre-marital counseling questions in order to prepare for a successful marriage. In order to assure a healthy marriage we decide to participate in pre-marriage counseling questions before we get married. Topics we chose to focus on in this video: background, marriage goals, responsibilities, finances, faith/religion and children. These topics we chose to talk about first as these are the foundational areas of not only marriage but relationships period.
    In these pre-marital counseling questions Jamilah and Marcel discuss their ideas and their feeling towards certain topics in order to fully understand one another. Counseling is very important for establishing communication and understanding of one another on topics taken for granted. Do you want to have kids? Who is responsible for the finances of the house? How important is religion in your life?
    We thank everyone for watching and please make sure to give us a thumbs up. Please leave a comment if you want a part 2 of our counseling video, or a topic to consider. We appreciate you for watching and God Bless!
    Music By: Joakim Karud
    Top 10 Pre-Marital Counseling Questions 👰🏾🤵🏽

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  • @MsLee-oh7hy
    @MsLee-oh7hy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    1. Why are we getting married?
    2. Personal habits
    -Do you have a criminal history
    - How are we going to divide up chores
    3. Spiritual beliefs
    - What are your religious beliefs ? Are they similar
    - Do you think faith/ spirituality is important
    4. Finances
    - Who is responsible for paying bills?
    - What are your plans for purchasing a house
    5. Children
    -Do you want to have a children?
    I would love to see a part II

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There is a part 2, but maybe we can do a part three!!

    • @TommySpotts
      @TommySpotts 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Criminal history! If they do have a criminal history, I wonder if they would be honest about it?

  • @janethisbon2823
    @janethisbon2823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i LOVE the personality of this relationship. Love the honesty and reality of your thoughts about marriage. Would love to stay in touch as a facilitator of Primatial counseling.It is wonderful to be involved and hear an African American couple express their views from a cultural perspective. Rev. Janet Hisbon, Retired Minister and Chaplain.

  • @SharonHW
    @SharonHW 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yes, yes, yes to a part 2. You guys are such a beautiful, supportive couple and I wish for you many blessings and much happiness.

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much!!! Part two is on the way! 😊 Thanks for watching!

  • @TheSmally22
    @TheSmally22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    You should ask About DEBT and credit
    Fiancial issues are Number one for why couples get a divorce.

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Those topics definitely came up during our counseling and we'd love to make a video on it! Thanks for the suggestion! 👍🏽video coming soon

    • @therealmereal2642
      @therealmereal2642 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jared smallwood
      I truly agree because I just got engaged but I already know he spends to much money and I’m already getting on him before we get married so I see exactly what your saying

    • @panedole
      @panedole 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This was great, I have been researching "when marriage counseling doesn't work" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Siyadelyn Unthinkable Smasher - (just google it )?
      It is a good one of a kind guide for discovering how to mend your marriage minus the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.

    • @carlosmendez3757
      @carlosmendez3757 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cheers for this, I've been looking for "how long does marriage counseling take to work?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Siyadelyn Unthinkable Smasher - (do a search on google )?
      It is a smashing one off product for discovering how to mend your marriage minus the headache. Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my partner got cool success with it.

    • @sierrapadilla808
      @sierrapadilla808 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great Video clip! Forgive me for the intrusion, I am interested in your thoughts. Have you thought about - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (just google it)? It is a great one off product for Saving Your Marriage without the normal expense. Ive heard some interesting things about it and my old buddy Taylor at very last got great success with it.

  • @beachwaveyogaelidagarza4499
    @beachwaveyogaelidagarza4499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pls do a part 2!
    Please add how do y’all motivate each other to do better in life and accomplish each other’s goals.

  • @katrinafields4078
    @katrinafields4078 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jamilah I'm so happy for you girl you deserve it! I'm so proud of y'all ! I really enjoy watching you guys yall are really & inspiration to me !! Such a wonderful couple look beautiful on eachother!! Great 5 topics & answers ! I agree, lol I remember back then when you wanted a large family lol love you girl see y'all on next video 😀👌👍✨❤💙

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey! Marcel here! Lol I do not know about 7 children 🤔! Thanks for all of your wishes and compliments, and we are so happy we are able to serve as an inspiration to you! We appreciate you for watching! God bless!

  • @rachxoxo18
    @rachxoxo18 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes, Part 2 definitely!!

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Part two is on the way!!! Thanks for watching!🙂😊🙂

  • @londiwemaphumulo4232
    @londiwemaphumulo4232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful!!!Beautiful

  • @abc-bn8qe
    @abc-bn8qe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are sweet and it's so lovely to see young couples being enthusiastic about marriage. However, we older guys that have been around longer than you would propel all soon-to-be married couples to cover the most important issues such as: risk managements, finances, and exit strategy.

    • @qukumber
      @qukumber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exit strategy???

    • @abc-bn8qe
      @abc-bn8qe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@qukumber yup. If things go wrong how you're gonna deal with assets, children, support etc. Just talking about will reveal many aspects you didn't know about one another. Why are you so appalled by me mentioning exit strategy?! Look at the divorce rates and gender battlefield - it's been REAL!!! Anyone not taking divorce seriously is foolish.

    • @qukumber
      @qukumber 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@abc-bn8qe I’m not appalled at all. I just didn’t understand but you have outlined it very clearly in your reply 😌

  • @TommySpotts
    @TommySpotts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why are you getting married is a great question! Most people have shallow reasons, but never actually talk about it. Great initial question!

  • @whorrorstories4485
    @whorrorstories4485 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jamila is distractingly beautiful omg. What a cute couple

  • @pmarquez241
    @pmarquez241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video!!!!

  • @Awilson84
    @Awilson84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Part 2 please! This was too cute! I might have missed it, but have you all talked about how you two got together?

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Anita! We actually haven't! ..maybe we should do the Fiancé Tag!! I almost said we had talked about it, but that's because it's on our wedding website! Thanks for watching and commenting on our vids!!

    • @AntonioGonzalez-cu5lt
      @AntonioGonzalez-cu5lt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent Video! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you researched - Mahorrla Parting Outlive Method (search on google)? It is a smashing one off guide for learning how to bring back a relationship without the headache. Ive heard some decent things about it and my mate finally got excellent results with it.

    • @gsusmakama
      @gsusmakama 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent Video clip! Apologies for chiming in, I would appreciate your initial thoughts. Have you ever tried - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (should be on google have a look)? It is an awesome one of a kind guide for Saving Your Marriage minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my friend after a lifetime of fighting got astronomical results with it.

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My fiancé and i are getting married in June. We are living together and it made me so nervous when my pastor brought this topic up. I understand in the bible it says you should not live together before marriage but financially it was a smart decision

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, we were hesitant at first but we decided it was the best decision for us! We have no regrets! & You guys won’t either!!

    • @AbsoluteMdot
      @AbsoluteMdot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! I know some Pastor will not marry people if they are living together. We were afraid he wasn't going to marry us but he said he will.

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is really good! Blessing! We pray you two have a successful engagement and a blessed marriage. 4 months to go!🙂

    • @Alessiothetruth
      @Alessiothetruth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It comes down to obeying God, because he wants to protect us from the damaging effects of fornication and lust to name a few. It comes down to whether you lean on God's or your own understanding.

    • @abc-bn8qe
      @abc-bn8qe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess your pastor will provide comfort to your husband when he gets divorce raped in 5-8 years from now. Water tight prenup, 50-50 custody arrangement, no spousal support, no child support and everyone leaves with what they brought in. While living together you keep the separate accounts and you stipulate in the prenup that all earnings stay separate. If she decides to be stay home mom you decide what happens in that case.

  • @renostubbs8504
    @renostubbs8504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good stuff guys

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you and we're glad you enjoyed. Thanks for watching!

  • @williamrickson4843
    @williamrickson4843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely couple!

  • @blackoutd.s.g.b9738
    @blackoutd.s.g.b9738 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do part 2 asap!!!!

  • @hikaru2512
    @hikaru2512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part 2 please

  • @MrzCRiley
    @MrzCRiley 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Part 2, please.

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Part 2 is on the way! Thanks for watching!!

  • @aeyshamanning1213
    @aeyshamanning1213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Part2!

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for watching! We are glad you enjoyed pt.1 of our marital counseling series. The link below is for part 2!!! Hope you enjoy!
      th-cam.com/video/HKpPSOBCmP4/w-d-xo.html

  • @mishellevane7104
    @mishellevane7104 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yall are the cutest

  • @mishellevane7104
    @mishellevane7104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your babies are gana be sooooo perf

  • @justingudes6991
    @justingudes6991 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @justingudes6991
    @justingudes6991 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi this is Minister Justin from Tampa Florida I love your video I would love to see a part 2 I would love to see a part 3 I would love to see a part 4 I would love to see a part 5 I'm engaged and I'm getting married now or next year so I'm writing a lot of the stuff down so not give you take my marriage counseling classes I will already know

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/HKpPSOBCmP4/w-d-xo.html for pt. 2
      Thanks for watching, and we hope that your marriage next year and beyond is blessed!

  • @BeTheRamMedia
    @BeTheRamMedia ปีที่แล้ว

    My guy Marcel!

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ✊🏼 what's up coach?!

    • @BeTheRamMedia
      @BeTheRamMedia ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JamilahandMarcel hey Mrs Smith. Glad to see y’all doing so well. I was YT some videos for one of my marriage counseling sessions and hall popped up. Small world

  • @justingudes1110
    @justingudes1110 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you give me a list of things that I should work on in marriage

  • @coreydbryant
    @coreydbryant 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your second question, are you referring to immediately after getting married or over the long haul?

  • @xiaomei8025
    @xiaomei8025 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not realted; Teach us how you do your lips!!

  • @shreyajain3678
    @shreyajain3678 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Part 2??

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think we have Part 2 and/or Part 3 posted already!!

  • @HermitGod369
    @HermitGod369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why is criminal recor a problem?

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just a personal preference. No judgement!

    • @timothybuckley3621
      @timothybuckley3621 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Because criminal behavior is a way of thinking often..as opposed to a onetime event and the person had alot of remorse. Made real amends etc

  • @raydal
    @raydal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are ALREADY married if you are living together. What else is there to discover?

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I learn more about Jamilah, myself, and our marriage everyday. Everyday our marriage grows, and with growth requires learning. At least in our marriage.
      -Marcel

  • @dawsenharbison1094
    @dawsenharbison1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Should have got married years ago, 5 years?!

  • @lacoyianichelle
    @lacoyianichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hello! I wanted to share the gospel with you all, have a lovely day!
    Mark 16:15-16
    15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.
    16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
    John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
    Jesus Christ created only one church. And that is HIS church which is the (church of Christ.) (Not a (man made) church like: catholic, baptist, Muslim, Pentecostal, etc...) but His church is the only one you can read about in the Bible.
    And the members of the Lords church are called Christians.
    Acts 11:26
    And when he had found him, he brought him unto Antioch. And it came to pass, that a whole year they assembled themselves with the church, and taught much people. And the disciples were called Christians first in Antioch.
    In order to become a child of God, we must all obey the gospel; which is the plan of salvation.
    The plan of salvation:
    Hear: Romans 10:17
    So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.
    (You have to hear the word.)
    Believe: Mark:16:16
    He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
    (After you’ve herd the gospel, do you believe it?)
    Repent: Luke 13:3
    I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.
    (If you believe, are you ready? to repent, (turn away) from the sinful ways of living?)
    Confess: Matthew 10:32
    Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also
    before my Father which is in heaven.
    (After you’ve repented, do you confess that Jesus is the Son of God; the one who died for your sins?)
    Be Baptized: Galatians 3:27
    For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.
    (After you’ve confessed you are ready to put on Christ in baptism being submerged in the water.)
    [And then we all must live faithful unto death]
    Revelation 2:10
    Fear none of those things which thou shalt suffer: behold, the devil shall cast some of you into prison, that ye may be tried; and ye shall have tribulation ten days: be thou faithful unto death, and I will give thee a crown of life.
    (Live a life striving to be like Christ, even though we as children fall constantly, keep your robes clean, by living a life of repentance not willingly sinning but, repentance is a gift from God to get it right when we do fall short because no one is perfect.)
    HAVE A BLESSED TIME!😇

    • @TheMrpalid
      @TheMrpalid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s a changed and corrupted book. Even according to Bible scholars

    • @betglo8151
      @betglo8151 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Corrupted?

  • @symonewilliams8176
    @symonewilliams8176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful couple!

    • @nerdysuzcategui3811
      @nerdysuzcategui3811 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice video content! Sorry for the intrusion, I would love your opinion. Have you heard about - Mahorrla Guard Marriage Method (erm, check it on google should be there)? It is an awesome one off product for Saving Your Marriage minus the headache. Ive heard some super things about it and my close friend Aubrey got amazing success with it.

  • @JacksonAudi
    @JacksonAudi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Part 2 please

    • @JamilahandMarcel
      @JamilahandMarcel  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are glad that you enjoyed our part 1 of pre-marital counseling. The link below will direct you to part 2! Thanks for watching!
      th-cam.com/video/HKpPSOBCmP4/w-d-xo.html