Important Pre-Marriage Questions | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans
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- Most couples never have deep or detailed discussions about married life before entering into marriage. The result is inevitable conflict.
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Yeah, I got married at 27years old and never thought of asking those kinds of questions I was divorced two years later! I have never married since- (I haven’t dated since) and that was 19 years ago!...
Poor you
1. Love the part about answering separately. That sounds like the best way to do it. Some(many even) may not even think on these things. Only on hormones.
2. All churces should do this. No matter the denomination of the church. Like a requirement before continueing on to the ceremony.
3. I liked the questions he had. I'll bet he covered like everythig that would be important in the long run.
4. I believe more marriages would have a way better chance with something like this. Help to bring the divorce rates to 0% in the church. Like it should be.
5. I hope this catches on and helps people make choices not just based on feelings (like I just love them. My heart goes pitter pat.) Thier is the life after the honeymoon. The 'let's get real'.
Reality.
6. God bless you for this!
They should also have a very very detailed conversation about sexual activity in marriage. The church needs to talk about the female trick of bait and switch after they get married. Sex for a short time and then they restrict it until they want a child then they are all about it. Once the child is born and they got what they wanted it's back to restricting sex.
Biblically based pre-marital counseling opportunities are essential in every church.
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GLORIOUS WORD OF GOD!!!THANK YOU PASTOR.
So true...I feel shocked at myself that how i dared to marry without a proper counselling..
This is very interesting and good to know
Great list!
Colossians 3:18 "Wives, be subordinate to your husbands, as is proper in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and avoid any bitterness toward them. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your Children, so they may not become discouraged".
We need this on Victory Network
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This is amazing 👏👏🤩
Thank you Sir
Thanks ❤
how crazy that people dont talk about stuff they should? wow
Lol! I am so happy I watched this.
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OMG You Crack Me Up. Loving This is healing my heart ❤
Patricia Owens wow
You do know that OMG is swearing for Oh My God! Hardly appropriate....
Recipe for disaster if you think you have to agree on everything… the verse referenced simply means, you can’t walk together unless you agree to walk together, not that you have to first agree about everything in life in order to walk together… 🙄
I’m not a stay at home woman(wife)
What are some more great pre-marital questions?
Where can I listen to the full length of this message??
Where can we get the list of questions?
How much can you spend is a ridiculously arbitrary question. $30 can make or break some poor folks, $30,000 may be a blink to others.
🙄 so you can’t discus first and agree to disagree or adapt to each other? I wonder how long those couples lasted that did survive that session…
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How can we get that questionnaire
If you dated for a short while and released that you could never love that person or were really even attracted to them and told them that, yet they called and called and bugged you to get back with them and then to marry them, even though you wanted out, but finally gave in and decided to give it a few months to see how it goes as you were also feeling desperate, were you really ever married? You also were still in love with someone else that didn't feel the same, but you thought of them everyday, not the unattractive one that would not leave you alone. Or ever really married in our Lord's eyes, when you never really made a true heart felt vow? I've asked a few pastors that and they pretty all were taken aback and I never really got a straight answer as they didn't know what to say. I guess because they had never heard this one before. I wonder how Jimmy Evens would answer it.
pep you have to respect and honor Gods covenant. This type of confusion doesnt come from God. Marriage is not a light subject. If you have a kid and didn't really want it, is it really your kid or can you give it to someone else and consider you never had one? You got married and YES you were truly married. Now if you want to play the divorce, remarriage field because of mistakes you made, dont try to twist the Word. You're married its a commitment not about who you feel attracted to or think about. If you are thinking about someone else, you are already cheating. You woke up one day and made vows to this person in front of witness. Now you want a pastor to flatter You, and condone your sinful thinking? Yes you can find but really do what you want without trying to justify it biblically because it's NOT biblical. Either you abide by the Truth or you are trying to live in lies.
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Brothers and sisters, Men and Women the scriptures say
1 Corinthians 7
King James Version
7 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.
7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.
9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?
17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.
18 Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.
19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.
20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.
21 Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.
22 For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant.
23 Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.
24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.
25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.
26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.
27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.
28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.
29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;
30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;
31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.
38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.
40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.
Matthew 5:32
King James Version
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
What if the Holy Spirit tells a couple to get married?
He never does! Look at it this way : God who never forces you to be born again and saved( key to eternal life) will never tell you to marry X,Y or Z. ( mariage will not continue in heaven). He gave us a free WILL to chose our partner. All He can do, is maybe advise you on whether that person is good for you or not( i.e if you ask for His opinion). Otherwise, the decision is totaly yours!
So If you ever meet anyone who tells you :" The H-Spirit told me to marry you..." , please flee in the other direction!! They are LYING!
he does!
I have seen such couples who told their testimonies to me.
that other have not seen it doesn't make it impossible.
so long u r certain it is the Holy Spirit.
And he will certainly authenticate it with the word of God.
Be prayerful though.
They say you should know as much about the person as possible but when it comes to sex you aren't allowed to know about that.everything else is fair game but sex is off limits
Oh yesssss God will reveal to you who he has for you to marry. Just ask him and its up to you to be obedient and let the Holy Spirit connect you too!! I've heard ppl say God told me who my husband/wife was. I believe 💯. That's the relationship you have with God!!
A Christian should ONLY be attracted to the Mind & Soul and NOT the body that is Worldly.