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  • Dave's Advice To Engaged Couples - Dave Ramsey Rant
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  • @sunset6010
    @sunset6010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Dave is causing so much more financial responsibility
    And so much less emotional strife

  • @aldelgado9343
    @aldelgado9343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Been married for 23 years, uncle Dave is right on this one

    • @Arizona9001
      @Arizona9001 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can i ask why did you get married and in what state?

    • @aldelgado9343
      @aldelgado9343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Arizona9001, because i love my wife and i live in so cal.

    • @TedPatrickBaird
      @TedPatrickBaird 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Al Delgado Congrats man!

    • @willwesten3749
      @willwesten3749 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its papa dave, good sir

  • @CasinoMoney2000
    @CasinoMoney2000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The mother in law can definitely ruin a relationship! When I was married if I came home from work and my mother in laws car was in front of my house I kept on driving

    • @j.vosier6786
      @j.vosier6786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol wow thats crazy

    • @prodigals6862
      @prodigals6862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Wise man 👌 thank you I’ll keep that one in mind 🤣👊

    • @JiisTube
      @JiisTube 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol😂

  • @MMA-mh9uv
    @MMA-mh9uv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    My wife and I are both on the same page financially, even before I discovered Dave Ramsey. Financial compatibility is paramount to a successful marriage.

  • @NK-ke6yy
    @NK-ke6yy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Dave Ramsey is so real. And smart enough to know that the initial romantic infatuation is not going to sustain a marriage. Lol

  • @mikenelson8377
    @mikenelson8377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I’m a just-turned 36yo Bachelor who doesn’t want kids and won’t date a single mom so I have to ask the lady up front relatively quickly (2nd or 3rd date) if she wants kids of her own. It saves a lot of time and grief cause just as DR says, if you don’t want the same things, the relationship or even marriage won’t work.

    • @chartuck
      @chartuck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here.

    • @auroramothergoddess
      @auroramothergoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m probably going to be single forever like you

    • @katy3901
      @katy3901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen. I'm on the opposite side to you, but agree totally with the mindset. I'd rather be 100% upfront about what each of us want and expect than either cause or be the subject of pain further down the line. If it's not meant to be, there's no harm in staying friends.

  • @joeythemoose
    @joeythemoose 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I wish that “all you need is love” was an accurate statement. Sadly, you can be madly in love, and have different views and life goals, to the point where it just doesn’t work out. Even now, I still love the mother of my child, but I just could not remain married to her. I tried everything I could, but we never did premarital counseling, and by the time I suggested marriage counseling it was too late. Do the counseling and don’t be afraid to decide you’re not ready for marriage. There’s no rush, sometimes you just need to ask tough questions that may determine your compatibility 🤷‍♂️

  • @juliarevaloarevalo
    @juliarevaloarevalo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are right! We discussed those topics before getting married! And we are always open to have the money conversation whenever there are changes

  • @PLuvsLife
    @PLuvsLife 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is the truth! I feel like my relationship of 5 years is getting no where because we cant agree on finances. Forget marriage.

    • @SuckerPunch92
      @SuckerPunch92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      P LuvsLife wow, you mean like end your relationship?

    • @trippin9298
      @trippin9298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Try to have him take fpu with you w/o suggesting he change

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you still together

  • @emilyhowe3359
    @emilyhowe3359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    After five years of marriage i found out the one thing that makes marriage difficult is financial struggle, its not like my husband and i aren’t making money it’s just we barely have time for each other and there’s no amusement or new event it’s just work and the kids and that was fine but i wanted more..then i heard of a financial advisor on the radio who basically makes money for me and right now i have close to 100grand with her in my portfolio. now we pay for our vacation without breaking a sweat or losing sleep

    • @vanhall9513
      @vanhall9513 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      this is very good advice

    • @feliciasherbert989
      @feliciasherbert989 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i was literally just worried about the exact same thing. may i know your FA please it’s urgent?

    • @gagnecaron658
      @gagnecaron658 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      i think i might have just blown my wedding budget, wish i knew this a month ago

  • @gammayin3245
    @gammayin3245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Test pilot for a broom factory" - LOL!! Dave you are so awesomely funny!! As a 2-time MIL (for both sons), sure hope to Never be one that my dear daughters in law would think of as a witch. Because . . . grandkids!! It's always such fun and a joy to see them! But then, I'm lucky because the two women that my sons married - they are each tremendously loving and sweet.

  • @wkdravenna
    @wkdravenna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My uncle was eaten by a bear in the woods off Willow Lane, Dave is spot on. 🐻

  • @gigimargal9234
    @gigimargal9234 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was a sahm for the last 3 yrs... But i started serving tables as a part time job a few times a week... Just to get out of the house and Im making a little extra cash on the side but using it to create our savibgs fund and sinking funds its not much but Im so happy im able to put that money aside for the family... And I know my husband is happy tpo because his entore check pays all the bills and theres barely any leftover by then end of the month... Its not a lot of money but a little extra cash is amazing... And we put $25 dollars aside every week and every two weeks we go out somewhere nice with our two little kids...
    And if theres leftover cash we will put it back in its envelope to add to the next outing...
    Like i sad i know its not much compared to a ton of people but im so happy we have that tiny little income as a family blessing at the moment. 💞💞💞

    • @NoaNoir
      @NoaNoir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm happy for you gigi. Keep up the good work

  • @bebeconnection
    @bebeconnection 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice, thank you

  • @thomasjefferson5727
    @thomasjefferson5727 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My ex wife left days within receiving a half million dollar inheritance from her father that I had no intention of using for our life, had no interest in being named on, and really wanted nothing to do with. All I cared is that she used it in a way that honored her father. She left, ruined me financially, and immediately her mother bought her a house on property.

    • @dericofdorking
      @dericofdorking 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should have entitlement to half of that inheritance.

  • @Jones22_
    @Jones22_ ปีที่แล้ว

    I like this guy!! He speaks tha truth

  • @gidsmono8044
    @gidsmono8044 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just saved this video I'll definitely need it in the near future. This is gem.

  • @jewnessa7
    @jewnessa7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Test pilot for a broom 🧹 factory🧙🏻‍♀️ 🤣

  • @camadams9149
    @camadams9149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:20 Love is such a misunderstood concept. The honeymoon phase is not love. Love is long term commitment to a relationship & a willingness to prioritize someone else's needs before your own.
    People should stop viewing marriage as an emotional thing but as a business relationship with an emotional component. I wouldn't start a business relationship with someone unless I knew their finances and how they handle crisis/problems

  • @iamstarfox87
    @iamstarfox87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those poor people on Willow Lane!! 😂😂😭😭

  • @broloaf1209
    @broloaf1209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Do a credit check on your partner and if they’re resistant to doing that, you have all you need to know. You don’t want any surprises, especially after you tie the knot or during the divorce. Protect yourself.

  • @thedon7845
    @thedon7845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Like Tina Turner said, "What's Love got to do with it."

  • @CHATNTELLwithALLECIA
    @CHATNTELLwithALLECIA 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🌸Dave Ramsey knows exactly what he's talking about. Yes! Yes! Yes! End of story🌸

  • @nealp885
    @nealp885 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "DATA POINTS"

  • @jamesp9226
    @jamesp9226 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I wanna let you all in on a little secret.... don't repeat this. Its just between us. (PEOPLE CHANGE!)
    So for all you dummies out there... what that means is. Two people can be in 100% agreement today and may disagree 2 years from now.
    That's when the fun starts. ;-)

    • @552mustang
      @552mustang 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      James Pearle Thats true. But I think the point hes making is that most engaged couples dont even have conversations on these specific points.

    • @JamConcerned
      @JamConcerned 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A good indicator of how they will be in marriage to you is how there parents are in marriage with each other. People take on the roles in marriage that they are use to seeing for the most part. If someone is financially responsible before they enter the marriage I doubt they are going to all of a sudden do a 360.
      If they have major debt issues it's going to be difficult, unless they come to the understanding on their own. I just don't think people change that much they just start to get real once they are married and feel comfortable being themselves.

    • @Jones22_
      @Jones22_ ปีที่แล้ว

      @@552mustang I agree, before anyone gets engaged, they need to ask Heather other questions and pick each other's brain apart about, life, religion, politics, financial all of that

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The in laws .. lol praise the lord

  • @rmac8012
    @rmac8012 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    FPU will definitely end some engagements.

  • @AliiReviews
    @AliiReviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if we agree on everything but religion?

  • @thecurrentmoment
    @thecurrentmoment 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Plan your marriage before you plan your wedding

  • @nml9374
    @nml9374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are there tax advantages to being married..? Thanks..

  • @tinal3269
    @tinal3269 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💙

  • @kendal690
    @kendal690 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Do not get married

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏻👌🏼

  • @celestialmorpho
    @celestialmorpho ปีที่แล้ว

    religion over politics bc politics can change. core beliefs don't

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Religion

  • @spiffcats
    @spiffcats 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ban religion and most the worlds problems would go away, even some divorces apparently.