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Premarital Counseling | The Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before Marriage

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  • Premarital Counseling | The Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before Marriage
    In today’s video, we are talking about the questions every couple should ask before marriage and premarital counseling experience. Individual and couples counseling is so important to the foundation of a marriage. Do not say "I do" until you invest in premarital counseling. You will learn how we selected our counselor, the questions that surprised us the most, and the overall benefits of pre marriage counseling.
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  • @courtneye.3276
    @courtneye.3276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you for making a video about this! It's so amazing to see a couple (especially a couple of color for me) share and advocate for couples counseling. This video has really helped me get excited about finding a counselor for my partner and I to work with. We're not engaged (yet) but I do want to have majority of the hard conversations before we get to that stage.

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you so much for sharing. Yesss to counseling pre-engagement. There is sooo much value in that🤍 so I’m so proud and excited for y’all to take that step! I hope you find an awesome counselor to work with. Please feel free to update me and consider joining our FB community for more support. m.facebook.com/groups/flourishinginlove

    • @courtneye.3276
      @courtneye.3276 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FlourishwithDelores thank you!!! Just requested to join 🤗❤️

    •  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome 😎👍th-cam.com/video/RoQyZRWIenY/w-d-xo.html

  • @FlourishwithDelores
    @FlourishwithDelores  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Marriage takes work but it rocks! I included info on our premarital counselor and other resources in the description box. Drop a comment below if this was helpful & if you want to see more videos like this 💕

  • @moniquejohnson7600
    @moniquejohnson7600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really liked the positive advise provided. My boyfriend and I are looking to start pre-marital counseling and I am going to share this video with him today. Thanks.

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! Congrats to y’all for taking that step, it’ll bless your relationship for sure. Feel free to join our FB group flourishing in love for more support 🤍
      facebook.com/groups/flourishinginlove/

  • @LindseyRago
    @LindseyRago 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for this! My fiancé and I are doing some self-counseling and I loved these questions and insights!

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awww love that! You’re so welcome🤗. Wishing you and your fiancé the very best!!

  • @ireneatam8161
    @ireneatam8161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a helpful video my wedding is 2 months away and we've been together the same amount of time as you'll. We'll definitely be doing counseling. I just hope I can find one that isn't to pricey. Thank you for sharing!. May God bless your union!

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Irene! Whooohooo to your wedding in two months! Praying you feel as beautiful as you are and completely at peace on your day. Praying God remains the center of your relationship and that the two of you put each other first in all things 🙏🏾🤍.

  • @jacobthompson5934
    @jacobthompson5934 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is awesome and encouraging. Blessings to both of you :)

  • @Xxbliss
    @Xxbliss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ugh ! You guys are too cute ! Loved this !

  • @renatarodrigues4779
    @renatarodrigues4779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really like this video!!!

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Pre marital counseling really set the tone for our marriage 🙌🏾🤍

  • @Lulygarcia204
    @Lulygarcia204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    wow this video was great!!!! You should do a video on budgeting!!!!😊

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thanks Lourdes! Yesss, that'll be a great video, I will definitely work on that because I loveee budgeting hahaha

  • @Jowanad
    @Jowanad 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What would you suggest if the guy you are dating refuses premarital counseling?

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That would be a red flag for me. I would ask him why he is refusing marriage counseling. Maybe he has a misconception about it. If he’s willing to share why he’s opposed to it; hopefully it’s something that you can help him dispel and move forward with a marriage counselor who is the right fit for the both of you. Good luck🤍🙏🏾

  • @alexarp9502
    @alexarp9502 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just glued to your video...watched till the end. How can I reach Pastor Dave ? The Thumtack link is no longer available. I'm about going into a relationship, and have always wanted to know as much info about having a successful marriage, just to plan better ahead. Also, having access to most of those questions would be so helpful. I loved your video, and you guys would make a blessed home, and happy married long life together.

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aww thanks Alexar🤍 here’s pastor Devin’s info. Good luck!!
      Pastor Devin Miller
      817.968.4373
      Devinlmiller65@gmail.com

    • @alexarp9502
      @alexarp9502 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FlourishwithDelores Thanks a lot

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    7 years?! How old were y’all when started dating?

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We were 20 & 21 🥰. We’ve been tighter for 10 years now🤣

    • @nahambohilma8598
      @nahambohilma8598 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FlourishwithDelores wow, ur blessed 🙏🏽❤️

  • @DrineThePoet
    @DrineThePoet ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @tonikraus8665
    @tonikraus8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great, down to earth conversation. I want to do this but trying to convince him. Urg
    How do you search for this? Thanx

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Praying he’ll be down to give it a try. Maybe ask him to try just one session and if he doesn’t like it then you won’t make him continue. He’ll love it! We searched online through psychology today and thumbtack.

    • @tonikraus8665
      @tonikraus8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@FlourishwithDelores good idea. really doesn't like the word counseling cuz it implies something is wrong. thanks

  • @zeeshan.khan1993
    @zeeshan.khan1993 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2:59 after 7 years of relationship, she came to understand how "down to earth" he was😅

    • @FlourishwithDelores
      @FlourishwithDelores  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi there, I was referring to the reviews we read about our premarital counselor and why we picked him. I wasn’t talking about my husband 😅

    • @zeeshan.khan1993
      @zeeshan.khan1993 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@FlourishwithDelores okay 👍

  • @motumasackie8310
    @motumasackie8310 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    hi

  • @evelinarene-bute7524
    @evelinarene-bute7524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soooo I’m Charles and Jerome is you 😆

  • @HermitGod369
    @HermitGod369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He will hate investing

  • @theylovedemari2258
    @theylovedemari2258 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Me demari

  • @theylovedemari2258
    @theylovedemari2258 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi