Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged - Dr. David Gudgel

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  • Choosing the person you want to spend the rest of your life with is one of the biggest decisions you could ever make. On this one-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Dr. David Gudgel offers insight and wisdom into things you’ll want to consider before making a lifelong commitment to your future spouse. From communication styles to spiritual beliefs, Dave encourages you to examine your own heart before giving it to someone else..
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  • @mchristr
    @mchristr ปีที่แล้ว +47

    The modern Church is very confused on this topic. Young people are marrying later and less (with more marriages ending in divorce) so in response Church "experts" instruct them to scrutinize a potential mate under a microscope. The antidote to divorce in the Church is not compatibility--how can two sinners be compatible?--but a radical commitment to Christ and their covenant.

    • @fifthof9501
      @fifthof9501 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed

    • @maia6192
      @maia6192 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I see your point, but would disagree. It's not a new thing in church, to coach couples on their path down to marriage or to the end of their relationship.

  • @nsff2001able
    @nsff2001able 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you! Order the book and keep praying for guidance.

  • @margaritajohns7907
    @margaritajohns7907 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I agree Great potcast Like always with Focus O T Family ⭐️❤️🙏🕊 wonderful advice.

  • @PRESCRIPTIVELIVINGDIAGNOSEPRES
    @PRESCRIPTIVELIVINGDIAGNOSEPRES ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm an introvert and am married to myself, happily.
    Has nada to do with introvert or extrovert. Has everything to do with healthy character development and alignment with identity (individually and as a bride of Christ.)

    • @fifthof9501
      @fifthof9501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree with you. I am very "extroverted" and married a super quiet, emotionless, and distant introvert. Quiet was not really the issue. It's the character, along with other issues. I, as a result, have been weary of dating an introvert as she never opened up (left me with no reasoning or conclusion). You helped me see the other side and why I may be wrong.

  • @Faithfullfertilitytv
    @Faithfullfertilitytv ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband never proposed to me too 😂. Love the oak tree idea 😊

  • @oneworldonehome
    @oneworldonehome ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Compatibility is very important. Your values concerning self-expression, money, health, career and providership-even your world view-must be in alignment with another. Again, there may be differences, and these differences can be very helpful, but if there are sharp contrasts and these contrasts are based upon the nature and design of both you and the other person, this will limit your participation together. This can limit your ability to accomplish any task together."
    _Relationships and Higher Purpose » Chapter 12: Establishing Relationships_ - by Marshall Vian Summers. (free online/highly recommend)

  • @linak7155
    @linak7155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Charmin, charming man!
    The point in the Kelly moment was well illustrated. Count the cost. What things are you willing to live n not live with.
    I would have given Kelly up too 🐕🍝🤣

  • @lindawheeler3479
    @lindawheeler3479 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    he lied about everything. 25 years later divorced.

    • @ginalorraine1899
      @ginalorraine1899 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That happened to me, too. I was quite vigilant…and naïve. I wish I had known how to trust my gut and possibly sniff out a con man.

    • @cryinginthewilderness5198
      @cryinginthewilderness5198 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What things was your gut telling you?

    • @abiechavez1738
      @abiechavez1738 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're husband? Or someone here on the podcast?

  • @KatherineSzot-ro7by
    @KatherineSzot-ro7by ปีที่แล้ว

    Do not propose. The time is short.
    If married, act as if you are not. IF not stay single.
    Work for the L-RD.
    ❤️❤️SHALOM❤️❤️

  • @starboard10
    @starboard10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I certainly hope Kelly got an owner that actually cared about him or her. Sheesh!

    • @jacobs1754
      @jacobs1754 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He should have read 101 questions to ask before you adopt a dog.

  • @andrewmartin2742
    @andrewmartin2742 ปีที่แล้ว

    I asked her I want to marry her I bought her engemnent ring after give her