This Is the End of Quiet Luxury!

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  • @a.w5533
    @a.w5533 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    My family was shocked to see how much I saved on a measly teacher salary because I love bags and shoes and expensive knitwear …but this girl is too lazy to buy coffee, takeout, getting waxed, and getting my nails done. I like my sleep, I like eating less, I prefer the privacy of me and my wax pot, and I prefer clean polished nails without breathing in finger nail fumes and having someone cut into my cuticles 🤭😅 saves me $$$$

    • @nightreader1264
      @nightreader1264 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      We had folks laugh at us as well as family members for both being teachers. The joke is on them. Paid off house, 4 paid off cars, guaranteed pension with healthcare, and money in a TSA. Yep, priorities and spending. You go girl!

    • @seabreeze4559
      @seabreeze4559 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah I don't know how some people can pay someone to invade their privacy like that.

    • @a.w5533
      @a.w5533 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nightreader1264woohoo! Huge accomplishments for you both! I even changed careers and have a 401k now and save even more $$ now. Love financial literacy 💆🏻‍♀️💗

    • @darlahays2471
      @darlahays2471 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Welcome to real world 🙄

    • @judyblume0408
      @judyblume0408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree 100%! I’m a DIY Queen so I spend where it matters to me and save the rest.

  • @margaretfederal7378
    @margaretfederal7378 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    The Fashion Industrial Complex is dead. The houses that sold out to them are over, too. It lacks creativity, quality, opulence, panache. Their crap is not selling. Real fashion, real style always came from the grass roots and rose to the echelons of society and not the other way around, as much as they want you to believe it. You, the individual: Make your own style. Create your own fashion. That's where it's always been and where it will always be. Everything else is nonsense.

  • @akong331
    @akong331 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’ve been frugal my whole life. I’m finally in trend 😂❤❤❤

  • @c.m.7734
    @c.m.7734 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This is so me LOL Im older (50 ish) and can afford to buy pretty well whatever I want but I'll go to the dollar store to buy toothpaste when I have no problem buying a $10 k bag. It's all about balance. Ha! Splurge & save. I will also stuff candy into my Gucci tote for the movies.....

    • @estelajoloya5520
      @estelajoloya5520 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You’re my twin although I would not buy toothpaste from the dollar store since some of these merchandise are from 3rd world countries with questionable ingredients BUT you might find coupons,candies even sodas in my Chanel tote in the movies ! Lol. Hubby gave up questioning me .

    • @c.m.7734
      @c.m.7734 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@estelajoloya5520 Ha! My kids always give me a hard time for using coupons. I do too. ;-) Hubby just rolls his eyes.

    • @catnip4587
      @catnip4587 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I will buy a Chanel bag but not pay 10 dollars for popcorn at a theatre😀 Bring my own

    • @pa5666
      @pa5666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I watched a segment on dollar store products and I think you'd save more money buying from a store like Costco. The products may be cheaper at dollar stores, but per oz, they actually cost more than their regular counterparts! 👍

  • @lesliecraven3087
    @lesliecraven3087 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The young kids are not reinventing the wheel here just giving it a new name

    • @pa5666
      @pa5666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's the essence of Tik Tok. They all think they're doing something, but it's been done and without a ridiculous name lol.

  • @YouAdii
    @YouAdii 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Since the pandemy I have been living in 3 dollar Costco sweats., but love using Diptyque cleaning products. Who knew. 😂😂

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How fabulous 🥰😍🎉🎉🎉

    • @YouAdii
      @YouAdii 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SuperDacob Yes, darling, you ARE! 😘

  • @knepri
    @knepri 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Loud budgeting is ultimate old money. Don't spend money unless you really have to and then spend as little as possible for the maximum gain. Like the aristocracy did. Because where should your money be? That is right, in you bank making you more money

    • @jessigreer
      @jessigreer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So true

  • @Oceangirl1234
    @Oceangirl1234 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have done quiet budgeting. Smart budgeting is a better term

  • @NaomiJones-pc3bz
    @NaomiJones-pc3bz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Dacob, your insightful discussion on "Loud Budgeting" is a refreshing take on smart spending and enjoying life's luxuries within one's means. I appreciate how you've highlighted that being financially savvy isn't just about saving money, but also about finding joy in the process and feeling a sense of accomplishment. Your personal anecdotes add a relatable touch to the concept, and it's great to see how this approach is universal, transcending income levels. It's empowering to hear how we can all embrace this smart and fun way of living. Keep bringing these enlightening topics to the forefront!

  • @SilentMuse
    @SilentMuse 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello, Super Dacob. Just wanted to say thank you for your work. As a fashion novice on a budget, I absolutely love your sense of humor and really appreciate the chance to learn from you. Best wishes

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Silent Muse 🙏🏻🥰💖

  • @anonymous-uo7cb
    @anonymous-uo7cb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Funny story about loud budgeting (?)- I bought a $100k+ car but choose to drive the 120K+ miles car instead. I've got the expensive one, without blinking. But now I don't care what people see me drive because I know I got it back home.

  • @alicetrieu7733
    @alicetrieu7733 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Let’s practice quiet luxury & loud budgeting. That’s how you do it! I can afford, but there are times, I do refuse to pay for it! I.e shipping fee!!!!

  • @moniquecassandro595
    @moniquecassandro595 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so excited for this channel. You are alot of fun

  • @cocothetravelingdog
    @cocothetravelingdog 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I spend as little as possible for maximum value. I felt like winning when I save even cents

  • @lakamatte4975
    @lakamatte4975 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am thinking of to start doing my nails by myself.

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I gave up on the nails. Time-consuming and expensive. It's just not me.

  • @CariSalgado
    @CariSalgado 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wonder if using free gift pouches from luxury houses as a high end bag qualifies as laugh budgeting too.

  • @deborahcurtis1385
    @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Going to the food pantry is mean if you can afford it. Seriously? No. I can't approve.

    • @pa5666
      @pa5666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I thought the same. I'm pretty certain they only have limited stock depending on the amount of donations they receive so taking away from a family who actually needs it is very heartbreaking.

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@pa5666 Yes it is cruel in fact. I can't believe anyone would be actually proud of taking advantage of others' misfortunes like that. Sell a luxury bag FGS but don't take food from those who desperately need it! Saving money is not the right motivation. IMO

  • @judyblume0408
    @judyblume0408 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I do the same thing at Sephora!!! I too have been doing this my entire life.

  • @angiemasimore
    @angiemasimore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've got my bowl of extra sauces from McDonald's! They come in handy later 😊

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I only go to Macca's when in dire situation. Never routinely.
      Keeping some Kim Chi to put on a sausage in a roll that I cook myself in 2 shakes of a lamb's tail, is way better than Maccas. They are making you into addicts and slowly clogging your arteries and fat cells. I know it's boring to listen to but it's true.
      Please swear off Maccas for all our sakes.
      ('2 shakes of a lamb's tail' is Australian idiom, it means fast - as the lamb is wagging its tail).

  • @camiq1245
    @camiq1245 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    These are things many of us have done and watched our parents do. We used to call that saving pennies so that the $ would save themselves.

  • @NurseKirsten
    @NurseKirsten 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lmao omg me with dior beauty. It’s clearly luxury brand for makeup and skincare but I’m all for the promos to get the free cute little gifts ahaha and sometimes I split my purchases into two or three instead of one so I can get more samples and gifts! Ahahha

  • @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb
    @Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can definitely relate to loud budgeting. Just the.othet day, I was waiting for my banana bread to be warmed up at Starbucks and I was offered free samples of their new coffee drinks with olive oil and they gave me samples of the hot coffee and iced coffee ones so I skipped buying a coffee at Starbucks. I have plenty of kitchen bags from fast food places in the fridge. A huge thumbs up for this video Dacob! Your eye shadow looks amazing today!

  • @neebieslittleluxuries
    @neebieslittleluxuries 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This😂😂😂. I do my own lashes, I’ll paint my own nails and I’ll take my own coke to the theatre! But I have NO problem spending on a bag I love!

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Coke in the theatre? But it's dark!

    • @neebieslittleluxuries
      @neebieslittleluxuries 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@deborahcurtis1385 the drink usually fits in my purse! I just put it in the cupholders once I’m in 😂

    • @deborahcurtis1385
      @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah I know...there's another kind of coke that's not so easily managed in the dark. Not that I have any experience in these matters.@@neebieslittleluxuries

  • @Raynedead
    @Raynedead 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for making posts like this. The world needs to see this perspective! It’s the only way to break out of the monetary matrix we live in. Keep going queen ❤️

  • @divacirce2845
    @divacirce2845 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what is the line between loud budgeting and just being cheap? It’s very thin…

  • @Gravity.96
    @Gravity.96 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dacob, your necklace under the collar is just 💯💯💯

  • @brandyoshields2004
    @brandyoshields2004 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I sneak wine 🍷 in at the movies 😂 I'll by a glass when I get there and refill with the little single bottles of wine I bring in 😅

  • @WinnieBeeLV
    @WinnieBeeLV 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My loud budgeting, Ordering 2 McDonald’s cheeseburgers and asking for lettuce and Mac sauce on the side. Then making my own Big Mac at home 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I do that too Winnie! IYKYK! 😉💖 thats just us being clevva!

    • @WinnieBeeLV
      @WinnieBeeLV 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SuperDacob 🤣🤣❤️❤️

  • @artiesopinion9135
    @artiesopinion9135 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    OMG I also request Sublimage eye cream because I love it and prefer the little tube so easy to apply the right amount ❤ I also maximize credit card points & rewards, pay off cards in full every month and shop through cash back portals😊

  • @Babygirl80572
    @Babygirl80572 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think loud budgeting is talking about how you thrift the unique Chanel bag and frequent the most popular estate sales around town, which makes it so much easier to purchase your second home on the beach which you Airbnb out to make sure it’s giving you a return on investment right away. 😂

  • @deborahcurtis1385
    @deborahcurtis1385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The Chanel samples thing would only work if you aren't paying for shipping. I guess free shipping in the US or UK is standard but in Australia we are ...REMOTE! Oh well!
    I've met lots of wealthy people who budget like mad. It's a bit annoying TBH because they're pretending to be povo when they really could buy the entire shop and block that's on it.
    The wealthy put their hands out for freebies, bag gifts, promotions, publicity events blah blah blah.
    When we do it, it's called being povo? or Loud budgeting? Ok. LOL!
    (povo = poverty stricken in Australian parlance).

  • @lindapoppe8361
    @lindapoppe8361 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a fun topic! I think most of us are guilty of trying to get any extras or freebies when and where we can. It feels like one is getting more bang for the buck. You’re too funny and clever with the cream samples….Watch the movie Friends with Money with Jenifer Aniston and how she stocks up on her free favorite moisturizer samples.😂
    Dacob, please lmk what eyeshadow color palette and brand you have on in this video….fabulous smokey eye! 😍

  • @SmilingGreyhound-co1qb
    @SmilingGreyhound-co1qb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loud budgeting for me means expressing your misgivings if a certain item is unreasonably priced.

  • @ahoneyman
    @ahoneyman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Or you can shop in the bowels of the used market for undervalued used goods (ie anything Loeve that isn't a puzzle bag) Then you can do your "if you know you know" quiet luxury cosplay AND be loudly cheap. 70% off MSRP sounds like a deal to shout from the rooftop.

  • @CariSalgado
    @CariSalgado 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    lol, I do those same laugh budgeting 😂😂😂 specially Dior

  • @CarolineNedwab
    @CarolineNedwab 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hysterical 😂 You going around corners like a Formula One pedestrian 😂😂😂😂You look stunning btw - flawless 🥰

  • @jessigreer
    @jessigreer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your sublimage story reminds me of the movie Friends with Money. Love that movie. I use every single free sample to the last drop. Why waste it!

  • @AnneSyG
    @AnneSyG 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It sounds exhausting to relate to trends the way many do. In my head its just all a matter of tastes. Personally I have never liked the big logos. I always see it as "Hey, so shes been to the bazars in Turkey." But to each his or her own. But I do understand that this is not what this video is about. Love you, Dakob!

  • @IAMBLISSFUL..
    @IAMBLISSFUL.. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Jacob, nice video.
    So whether I am saving up for a dream vacation or trying to pay off debt. I Do Loud Budgeting.
    😊

  • @SmilingGreyhound-co1qb
    @SmilingGreyhound-co1qb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is the height of hypocrisy to claim that a person prefers quiet luxury than loud. It is luxury, plain and simple. We try our best to increase our earnings to afford more comfort, better quality of life with leisure. Whether it is a classic or just fad, heavy spending is relative.

  • @DawnDonuts
    @DawnDonuts 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was such a funny video. I spent the majority of my time laughing. My visual of you at the store going around corners makes me laugh!

  • @KS-zd4ew
    @KS-zd4ew 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Save urself buying tissue papers by grabbing free ones fr wash rooms & restaurants 😂

  • @treesun-ps3xr
    @treesun-ps3xr 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Proud to say i also loud budget

  • @shikmabonfil286
    @shikmabonfil286 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good to know that I’m no alone 😂😂and finally I’m on trend 😜

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Definitely 🥰💖🎊

  • @nicolehuff8455
    @nicolehuff8455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who knew I've been 'loud budgeting' my entire life?!😂

    • @chinchillin6280
      @chinchillin6280 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too….its just shopping smart and with intention! INTENTIONAL SHOPPING

  • @thomastalks3841
    @thomastalks3841 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the end, hold your breathe and count to ten...

  • @giedrebey5444
    @giedrebey5444 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol Dacob, sushi chopsticks 🤣 ….at Starbucks I always stock up on Stevia and long straws 😜. Yes shopping Chanel beauty online is great way to stock up on samples. Usually I don’t buy just one item per purchase, but since last October, when for some crazy reason, my orders would not go through, but the charge would happen, and hold my order over 1000 for couple weeks, i buy one at a time, in case again happens glitch or… But to my huge surprise, I just received today a gift from Chanel😳. It was one of those sparkly cosmetic pouches , i think it’s smaller, like square one, but very nice, and what a nice surprise 😜🙏 Have a blessed day🙏❤️

  • @annaliesjetrees8219
    @annaliesjetrees8219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Gggggggurl, I just love you 😂🤗

  • @Robbie_LeMeow
    @Robbie_LeMeow 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Argh, I always tell food workers not to give me ketchup or other stuff. Because I have all condiments at home and I don't wanna collect a bag full of packets. Unless it's honey mustard sauce for KFC strips. 😅 I also don't want KFC fake butter and fake honey. And who is it going to the food pantry when they can afford to shop? Sheesh, don't do that. Someone else needs that bagful more than the person who hates to spend their own money. 😮

    • @cat-bi2qn
      @cat-bi2qn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If i forget to tell food worker not to give me any condiments, i would accumulate and drop them into food donation box. not sure if ur country has food donation drive. probably can check it out to avoid wastage if u really dont want them ;)

  • @camillaoggiano2980
    @camillaoggiano2980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ti adoro ❤

  • @CarFanTasia
    @CarFanTasia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s giving… bujét

  • @DenmarkScandinavia123
    @DenmarkScandinavia123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🧡

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💖

  • @Lindy88888
    @Lindy88888 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We love you #intelligent #gorgeous #dacob ❤❤❤😘

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Alecia 🥹💖💖💖💖

  • @lskitty2001
    @lskitty2001 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is this trend about money and not about fashion?

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cuz it seems money is fashionable these days

    • @chinchillin6280
      @chinchillin6280 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@SuperDacob😂😂😂

  • @bellad1063
    @bellad1063 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loud budgeting: only buying bogo in Publix and feeding off that for the week. A really great boho goes in the freezer.

  • @mister-amazing
    @mister-amazing 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some smart shopping here, a little frugaity there, one of these days ill have enough saved up for my new ROLEX

  • @RaqReviews
    @RaqReviews 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂❤

  • @Restless318
    @Restless318 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this noting new you we all do this you asian it life goal you are so handsome Dacob

  • @bsk6707
    @bsk6707 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Quiet luxury dog whistle for elitist wannabes.

  • @TheSuperSupreme
    @TheSuperSupreme 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Here is loud budgeting for you: Calling customer service and telling them your order is missing so they send you a replacement. Now you got two of your order.

  • @jrochest4642
    @jrochest4642 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Every retiree in the world has a kitchen drawer of desiccated ketchup packets. Shoving free saltines into your pockets at the deli soup counter is cheapskateness, not 'quiet luxury'.

  • @AliTass
    @AliTass 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    so loud budgeting is frugality?

  • @iwannaseethereceipts
    @iwannaseethereceipts 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I always brag about the deals I manage to find. Nearly everything goes on sale these days, so some patience and a little luck goes a long way!

    • @SuperDacob
      @SuperDacob  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. Patience is key 💖