Step monster Sabotage - custody dispute - Therapist controversy
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The girlfriend comes into the child's life in August of 2021, and by Christmas 2021, she's saying she never wants to go back to her dad's & wants to die / harm herself. That can't possibly be a coincidence. They've been divorced since 2014 and until December 2021, were co-parenting with no issues, and even the daughter said her parents had a good relationship. BTW, did his attorney say that she needs therapy because someone ended or attempted to end themselves in front of the kid? That was glossed over real quick.
That's what I heard. It's baffling that he wouldn't want therapy by anyone qualified as soon as possible with that event. Let alone her then stating she wanted to harm herself. But he's so focused on the "truth" of everything.
@Kirsta K his attorney said it so casually I thought I misunderstood what her response was. I didn't care for her attitude 😒
I was shocked at that revaluation. Wow 😳 I went back and listened to it again. She had said the. Hold had witnessed a suicide. How awful! Poor kid
I'm guessing this was known to everyone and they wanted to keep it off TH-cam.
I think dad doesn’t want something coming to light with the child in therapy. That’s why he keeps sabotaging the sessions.
The way that girlfriend blatenly acts in the presence of a therapist is very concerning. Imagine how she behaves when other people aren’t around
Scary
Sounds like the GF is a huge part of the childs problems. I hope Dad will see this & drop her fast. Also Dads lawyer is one hateful B
@@MrsTooTall If I lost visitation w/my child because my sig other couldn’t be within 500ft of my child, they would be kicked out the soonest possible second. You get 29 days, 23hrs, and 59sec!
She is definitely the problem
The girlfriend is the reason he’s limited in seeing his child yet he’s still with her. If he was truly interested in the welfare of his child above all else he’d dump her.
I have a feeling that dad doesn’t want something to be said in the sessions by Kinsley and that’s why he’s sabotaging all the therapist appointments.
I’m wondering if he’s being manipulated by the girlfriend because that sounds like a narcissistic type of manipulation, whereas all relationships were good prior to the girlfriend entering the picture.
@@thelmadickinson6811 good point!!
Maybe he’s afraid of his girlfriend maybe she threatening to leave him if he doesn’t do what she says. You just never know what goes on in behind closed doors. That said it all started to change once the girlfriend came on the scene and that is not a coincidence.
He’s a disgusting 🤮 creep
@@thelmadickinson6811 Excellent point!
A man who allows anyone to touch his child disrespectfully and with malice is not a man at all.
This is so bizarre, I don’t believe dad can’t leave the house but I do believe that he’s adamant about virtual only so his Monster girlfriend can see and hear every little thing.
He was sitting there so still i thought it was a profile pic. Only a weirdo would sit in a dimly lit room with shades and a jacket on.
100%.
She couldn't help herself. Had to walk in and sit down in view. It's not her business. Loved that the judge ruled she can't be anywhere near the child. 👍
@@sjones2195 sunglasses or tinted glasses are likely medical.
@@North_West1 sure. What's the reason for the jacket ok n tje house? He's a weirdo.
I bet 💯 he sat in an unlit room because he didn't want people to know what he looks like clearly as well. Given how these court cases can blow up over the internet and him knowing that it most likely won't likely go his way. Him and his gf are monsters. He should be protecting his daughter 1st and foremost. Before any other person. The fact that it does not makes him a piece of $hit.
I have a still have a relationship with my ex's daughter and he doesn't!!! I am not her mother. I am SO LUCKY AND THRILLED to be a part of her life!!! I would do anything to make sure she was and is happy. Children are a blessing whether they are yours or not. PUT THEM FIRST!!!!
You sound like a wonderful role model. She's lucky to have you in her life.
She’s a fortunate girl!
The man who raised my son is not his biological father, we were never married and split up when he was around 10 years old and he remained in my son's life. He was a better dad than a lot of other dads out there and he lived in Texas while we were in Michigan. His family has always treated my son as part of their family. My son is turning 20 soon and he still talks to his dad on the phone twice a week. I've always had this feeling that fate brought us together not for us two to fall in love but for he and my son to meet because they are wildly different but wildly the same. I've longed felt they were meant to be father and son. I've always known you don't have to be blood related for a bond because my dad adopted my older sister and now I know you do not need any legal ties whatsoever to be an entirely involved, loving parent. I'm so grateful you have that relationship with your little girl ❤️
My son lost his father October 2021 but he still has his amazing stepmom in his life. It took a few years but within time I got over my jealousy and realized she only cared for him like another mother. We actually became great friends over the years, as did my husband and my son's dad before his passing.
No matter where life takes her she'll always be my son's other mom. She is an amazingly strong woman and one fierce mama 🐻.
I am incredibly close to my stepdaughter and we share a very special relationship. I always jokingly tell her she's my favorite child because she didn't give me stretch marks. I will never understand mean step-parents. No matter how ugly and contentious the relationship between the exes is, the poor kids are innocent in it all. I also don't have any respect for parents that allow their partner to mistreat their child(ren).
His choice of partner, who is damaging his child, shows parental incompetence. If he was concerned with his child, he would not let anyone like that be near his child and he would not be attracted to anyone causing his child harm. The pictures of an almost 9 yr old undressed also shows lack of parental judgment. That is not a stepmother either. Just a girlfriend, not his wife.
Even if it was his wife He still shouldn't be with anyone that treats his Child Wrong .
Ok..step-bitch
👏👏👏👏 YES! That "girlfriend" wants control of the child in order to hurt the mother. That is it. She wants to hurt the kid, to hurt the mom. And idk what kinda mom would stand around and allow a girlfriend to grab her child, pull her around, and stand in front of her, the way the therapist claimed in the office
He’s a jelly-spined POS who is also simultaneously controlling of his daughter. He’s a puppet for this ‘girlfriend’
I think we should also remain mindful that children often manipulate when a divorced parent becomes involved in a new relationship...so, this could be the child's method of "sabotaging" dad's new romantic interest. Personally, I don't think that's it...but kids are psychopaths! I remember the horrible things I did to many of the girlfriends that my single-father tried to have and my kids were absolute terrorists to the boyfriend (now husband) when we started dating after their father and I's divorce...they flattened tires of vehicles, removed license plates, lifted wallets, changed the contact numbers saved in cellular phones, and more...
What an awesome therapist! She did an amazing job advocating for what she believes is best for the child to feel comfortable and empowered in her decisions. She knows her stuff too, I would feel very confident and comfortable if she were my child’s therapist, she’s really there to help and make a difference
I agree
You are so right. 💯
Definitely
One sides story and she's making decisions? This woman is evaluating exactly like the therapist did for Amber Heard . Total hack that only reads folders and never meets with all parties involved.
@@anthonyschake9821 only been on YT for 3 weeks? You must be Dad.
A day before the hearing, the father actually makes an appointment. I'm so overwhelmed by his effort at co-parenting.
Right! Why haven’t they given him a dad of the year award yet? 🤣
Not only Dad of the Year but stepmom should be praised for her compassion 😂
Seriously though, imagine what this poor little girl is going through. Breaks my heart 💔
I'd say underwhelmed.
Dad's lawyer is a real piece of work. Im glad the therapist is standing her ground.
True if by piece of work you mean f ing beeyatch.
would have been nice for judge to step in and give nasty lawyer a clip on the ear. Therapist is awesome.
Right? She was so arrogant and rude. It makes you think she was bullied or something so now she’s just defensive and snarky at all times. It’s not a good look, Ms Kaye. 😂 Also glad this stepmom is being kept away from the little girl. She sounds unhinged and waaaayyy over involved in the situation.
@@bearmarshmallowinc.1979 agreed …
seems that girlfriends and “new” wives always want to stick their nose where it doesn’t belong …
*if you’re a “good” one, please don’t be offended ;-)
@@kinsley7777 🤣🤣 No I’m a first wife, but I did have a miserable, over-involved mean stepmom, so I feel extra sorry for this kid. It’s not a fun way to live, being a pawn in your immature parents games.
So at 1st, during the testimony of the therapist, I was thinking "oh my, that's not good" and then the dad testifies and during direct he didn't seem all that bad and it was a nice reminder to myself to not jump to conclusions and get all the facts first but then the cross examination of the dad began and I was like "Jesus Christ!" and it reminded me that one should probably go with their instincts and not think too much about things
Best comment🤣 literally was me!!
Yep it was a roller coaster!!
😂😂
ALWAYS trust your gut. The amount of times you unfairly judge someone will be more than balanced out by the bullets you dodge. This guy is a freaking creep, and he found the most catty, disingenuous lawyer to represent him. Really shows where he's coming from
@@monkeyisgreat every time
My stepmother was my savior between my unstable parents.
Not all steps are bad parents some are actually better than the blood draining the life outta children.
You're lucky. Mine was nice one day, competitive and jealous the next.
@@dawnadriana1764 I was so lucky never saw anyone better as step parents. She was truly one of kind
@@All5AJz I’m truly happy for you ❣️
@@dawnadriana1764 I wish my story was the normal bur it just isn't sadly
I have a stepdaughter and she has a lot of interests that her mom and dad don't have but I do and my wife is happy that she has a parent that she can share in those interests. Not all of us are loons xD
Yooo the therapist really threw that shit back at her!! “You can’t confirm it was him reaching out to your office, can you?” “No ma’m, including through the portal.”
She tried it😂
I nearly died when the therapist said the IP address proved all of those appointment attempts weren't done by dad, lolol.
Simple Practice is a great electronic health system.
I think dad’s attorney may have died a little bit, too. She was so sure she could just skewer this therapist to the wall. Nope!
@@justanothersmith6012 so good!
I wish the judge would have addressed that straight up lie.
@@christina5kids16grands at around 36:30 the judge does address the portal/access. I think she made her own judgement with that info without having to call him out. I think that was a smart/safe move.
Edit: then more clarification later in the video around 1:13:00
I am so glad the judge made it clear that the Girlfriend stays completely away from the child. She's not considered a step mom if she's just the "new girlfriend" IMO. Obviously the girlfriend I doing something wrong to this poor kid, thankfully there are a handful of people involved. Mr. Kaye was looking kinda dumb when the dad was outed as a liar.
I'm a stepmother to a beautiful, amazing young woman who I love every bit as much as my biological children. She was a little girl of 5 when I married her father over 20 years ago and I always made sure she knew that I was an ally, a friend, a confidant, a shoulder to lean on, whatever she needed me to be. I can't stand people that mistreat their significant others child(ren) and I really despise parents that allow it to happen.
I think the GF in this case is a clear immediate danger to the child. If she was dragging the child around in public at a therapy office & physically blocking the child in there, imagine what she is like behind closed doors - add to that her taking out rage about the child's Mother out on the child. She needs to never be within 500 feet of that child.
Wow, dad's snarky lawyer keeps turning words around but steps into it with her assumptions because she made the therapist look good!
Very true, but in fairness the therapist looked great all on her own. Dad and Stepmomster’s attorney was doing her level best to shine a giant bright spotlight on her and provided a pedestal on which she could stand and be prominently seen shining in that light! 😂
Let’s not blame the lawyers. It’s sorta her job. We are blessed to have such a system where all side get equal vigorous representation
Dad and his lawyer doesn’t get it. It doesn’t MATTER what HIS side of the story is. It’s about how his DAUGHTER is feeling.
And how do you know that mom isn't putting all this c*** into that poor child's head
Correct
Ms. Mistic is a fantastic ad Litem for kids. I've seen her work before. She's even tried to prevent herself from tearing up during other cases. You can tell the judge respects and takes her advice very seriously.
She seemed to read the Dad like a book. She's seen the likes of his type before.
Father has been able to delay by refusing 3 previous therapists..typical overbearing control freak..add a stupid and destructive gf to this..feel so badly for little girl..the Judge kicked his butt ..gf is banished ...Father's lawyer surely has no heart with the manner in which she was speaking
Welll spoken
Dad was 100% 'therapist shopping' until he could find one he could push around & manipulate.
I'm only 25 minutes in but so far the child's therapist is doing great.
I loved it when the therapist called out the attorney on the evidence she submitted, I bet that lawyer didn't anticipate her checking IP addresses to see if it was actually from him or from another party that is one smart therapist I kind of get the feeling that she has dealt with this problem several times as she knows exactly how to handle it
@@AJsWorld2021Any therapist that contracts with the Dept of Children Services is very, very used to dealing with this type of behavior. Dad was successful in scaring off the 4 prior therapists. He didn’t expect this one to stand up to him. The sad reality is that CPS doesn’t pay well enough for most clinicians to be willing to put up w/this much nonsense. Not when there’s a waiting list of easier patients to work with. Fortunately for this little girl, she finally found a therapist unwilling to be bullied.
Every video I watch that covers this field I say a prayer for each child. I hope they ALL grow to be healthy both physically and mentally in their lives and the mistreatment, neglect, abuse, (etc) that they faced as a child fades away in their memories.
I see stepmom a lot but they are all calling her his girlfriend?? If they aren’t married she needs to be all the way out of the picture. If she’s doing this and dad knows then he is pathetic allowing anyone to treat his kid like that, let alone his girlfriend. Disgusting! They are trying to hide something. I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t want their child to benefit from some therapy to work out their own feelings.
Dad’s attorney??an experiment?? She is really grasping there. No child is going to tell the truth about their home life if they know in an hour they have to go back there.
Omg last edit: did she really go with the deadbeat dad route?? You can be present and still be a deadbeat parent. If you are trying to control everything, that’s not being a good parent.
That judge and her ruling was badass is all I can say. I almost cried happy tears for this kid.
"He's not a lawyer he doesn't understand when the order was changed." Man if only he had a lawyer to help explain that and tell him that.
Yeah, that was not a very complementary argument to his attorney.
Every order has a date on it. Dad has a lawyer. Is she not explaining things in "plain english" when they are in a meeting.
The judge didn't address dad sabotaging every single therapist? That sucked.
She kinda did by telling dad to engage with the current therapist as arranged by the therapist and CPS.
But her decision spoke volumes..lol
Moot point to rub it in to him... she saw through him and his girlfriend. Great job team kid!
Mrs. Mistic did so that was good.
I think where that will come to fruition is the Compliance Hearing. If Dad is still acting a fool he will either continue to have restricted access to his daughter or it will become even more so until it's is stopped entirely. He's putting his unhinged GF before his child. The fact the the GF was at the hearing with Dad making sure she was in -frame was unsettling, especially give the accusations towards her. She seems to not be able to step back & allow the parents to co-parent.
The father looks like he is in the witness protection program.
Right what is wrong with him?
Haha. For real. Or a member of the band ZZ Top! 😂😂😂
Right!💙😂🤣😂💙
@@beeintelligent3259
🎶SHE GOT LEGZ! SHE KNOWS HOW TO USE THEM!🎶🤭
So true!
I so hope this little girl gets the help she needs. When the lawyer said she was in the home during an unaliving my jaw dropped.
Her stepmother sounds scary.
patricia schiro... WTH does "unaliviving" mean excacly?!?
@@strife3084 It means what you think it does. Maybe you're new to TH-cam but there are certain words that are not allowed so we must use substitutions.
@@strife3084it means someone lost their life.
@@strife3084It means someone lost their life by their own hand. Very sad & I am sure traumatizing for the child.
Dad lawyer: “can you see my Dropbox?”
Judge: “I don’t know what a Dropbox is but I see something with a bunch of stuff in it.”
This judge is hilariously bad with tech and she totally owns it. I love it 😂
I also love how even the judge has to make her dog stop barking during zoom 😆
I hate it. I feel like a judge should be able to fully understand what’s presented in order to be a “referee”
If Dad can go to the doctor, he can get his behind to therapy. He should do whatever it takes to see his child, not stall and make excuses. And his lawyer painting him to be an absolute idiot who can't figure out electronic health records is pathetic. People do it every single day just fine.
I agree with your statement.
I have a health portal where I can access my health information, check my lab results see what the doctor has written.
I love it.
Yep. If he can't drive, he can call an uber
If only all therapists could be like her. She is a great child advocate.
What informs your prejudice that all therapists are not good advocates for their clients?
@Brainsplosion You would be amazed, and you would be amazed at how many of them lie. I don't trust this one for some reason sorry just don't
@@brainsplosion3000 I know you're kidding.
@@sararummelTx i don't either. I think its that its sooo against one side. seems like there's bias before she even knows if he is a jerk (and he very well may be).
Ms. Mistic is an absolute gangster of an attorney. All the questions she asked cut right through his BS. He was trying so hard to explain when he had no excuse.
Also, shame on this dude, a child's therapist is about the kid.
I agree. So often you watch these hearings and are amazed when attys don't make the obvious arguments and miss out on stressing key points of testimony. She missed nothing ... and made sure that the record was clear so no one else missed it either. But she didn't overplay her hand either. I thought it was impressive as well.
Hell yes! Wonderful attorney. She put all his manipulation on BLAST
The dad is desperately trying to HIDE something BAD that HE is doing .
@@vromanoff84njI worry he & his GF are taking photos of that child to distribute. It's disgusting but sadly it happens. I hope that's deeply investigated.
Oh boy, sabotaged by a stepmother, I don’t know if I can handle it, these cases make me so angry.
Again - a man sacrificing his daughter for some hussy that will be gone soon. Just don’t make no damn sense!
Although, he might be trying to hold on to this chick because of his medical condition and out of fear that if she leaves him - he will be alone for the foreseeable future!
He’s gotten on my very last nerve. I’m ready to terminate his parental rights already! 🤣🤣🤣
Same here, I see RED and find myself yelling at my phone sometimes!
He’s mad he couldn’t run the narrative to the therapist BEFORE his daughter had her first appointment.
I don't know how you find all these cases but they are all so fascinating! I'm addicted to your channel!
they always ALWAYS find a lawyer who matches their energy. yikes.
I am SO impressed with the child’s therapist! She is a strong advocate for the child.
But she didn’t understand that stepmom would be lurking is the therapist did the sessions with the child and dad.
Clearly, the girlfriend is cruel to the child and the dad doesn't have the best interest of the child. So glad that the judge addresses the toxic girlfriend in her ruling.
That's telling too because it's rare a judge will edge out a romantic partner of a parent. They typically don't interfere with that.
If the seizures are so bad he can't leave the house... how can he watch the children in person
That’s what I’m thinking! The child isn’t safe in his care if he is THAT ill. Can’t have it both ways. Can’t be ill enough to do everything over zoom but not ill enough to still function as a single carer over a child in the home.
@@jamieisredandangry this is what happens when peole lie so stupidly they loose in the end
All I can say is OMG...that poor child.
Thanks for posting this video for us ONT.
Don't think you have to be a rocket scientist to figure out who is the problem in this situation, just the fact that the GF even behaved in the manner that she did at the therapist and then had the AUDACITY to file charges on the therapist says everything, Dad sounds like a control freak who wants it his way or no way without giving consideration for the child, he should put down his pride and ego and acquiesce to the need of the child, his fee fees don't matter
His attorney stood on him making contacts for an appointment. Even put the logs into evidence and scrolled thru while Dad sat there and lied claiming yep, those were him. I about died when it Mistic brought Jordain back to point out those contacts were in fact MOM! Sit down Kaye. 🤣
What's funny is that at 55:36 Ms Kaye asks again about those contacts, and if you watch Ms Mistic, she smiles, then covers her face. She couldn't contain herself
Dad's attorney is a Witch 🧹😂 she has such a attitude about her, apparently she didn't learn you get more flies with honey then vinegar 😂
@@bytchesagainstbullshyt3696 could be, the Dad's girlfriend has a prior connection with Kaye, Dad's attorney
The attorney probably knew this, because she showed the messages after the therapist was excused. Why not confront the therapist with these messages when you questioning her?
I was scratching my head over those‐ thanks.
This was very disturbing on many levels. My heart goes out to the child for being subjected to the wicked stepmom. As for Dad, I too developed a seizure disorder later in life. I take reasonable precautions per my doctor’s advise along with anti seizure medication and still manage to go to work every day and live my life. Hopefully he will get to that point as well.
Did he become sick after the girlfriend came in to the picture ??? I wonder 🤔
Notice no one argued against the step mom grabbing and pulling the daughter around.
He’s a seriously dangerous man. Whatever he’s hiding is so bad he will let his girlfriend abuse and torment the daughter to keep it covered up. His lawyer is dark as well.
I developed seizures at 40. They made me agoraphobic. I was scared to have one out of my house. It's an emotional reaction and can be overcome.
Want to, has a lot to do with what people accomplish.
What I noticed is that the therapist is also epileptic. So the therapist can relate to that part of his issues. The judge has apparent first hand or close understanding of elpilepsy and it seems they do not undersand his inability to totally leave the house.
@Denise Piva, I wonder also when he became ill. Apparently the suicide occured after girlfriend came around, and am wondering the relationship of the child with the deceased. A whole lot of questions in my mind on this case. CPS, in my opinion, should make a motion or whatever like the judge, that the gf be away any time the child is there. I loved the 500 ft stipulation the judge put in place with the gf.
Why does the dad need to control THE CHILD'S therapy so badly? What's he so scared of her disclosing? I've had a child in therapy and the appointments were mostly with and all for my child. I was greeted, my child went back and then we talked a bit before leaving about recommendations or things we needed to do at home or school. Otherwise, it wasn't my time to control or manipulate.
Although this theripist seems sincere, TBH; I'd be quite hesitant these days to have my child see any therapist unless the parent could supervise... Because there's some crazy ideas being pushed on young people!
6:06 blocking out the flashing screen was very thoughtful. (Interesting that it occurred during a testimony regarding seizures). Anyway, thanks!
I have had Epilepsy for 40 years and I have worked, attended College and raised two children! Plus, I have also been HIV positive for 33 years! Please, tell me why he can't leave the house?
It could be dependent on the specific type of epilepsy...some forms of epilepsy manifest with seizures that result in brain hemmorages, because of this, each episode will become progressively dangerous, and eventually life-threatening over time.
i have epilepsy i live a normal life i was never told to do anything except drive. i raised two babies
This is very concerning, I absolutely agree this child needs far from the gf. I am thankful she has so many advocates pushing to keep her safe. I really hope to see follow up in this case
When he moved his camera you could see the step mom sitting right there listening in!!!! That’s crazy, especially with everything being talked about how she treats this child… I bet she’s texting him what to say
Oooo...I didn't even think about that! I bet you're right...if that's true, perhaps the dad's in an abusive relationship and actually needs intervention!
@@NunYaODad’s way WAY too controlling to be a “victim” of abuse by his gf. Much more likely is the scary reality that he & his gf are perfectly aligned in their desire to alienate the child & keep her from seeing any therapist. Period.
@@maryb6672Agreed. They're the type of people you see accused of k*lling a child in the news via chronic ab*se.
Shame on dad! If he cared about his child he’d drop his side piece!😢 breaks my heart
why would anyone sacrifice their personal freedom and happiness for a child? I say put all children in group homes asap after birth and never allow parents and children to see one another till the child is 21yo min and 25 to 30 preferably. Children cause nothing but issues between otherwise loving couples.
@@D.J.Trump2024MAGA I assume you are being sarcastic? If not, unfortunately, this is the mindset of my father and his second wife, my stepmother/monster. The sick, sad thing is that after they were done ruining my sister and my childhood, they did the worst to their own kids, my half-siblings. My half-sister was abandoned in a group home at 11 yrs old. Babies are cute and narcs can live through them up until around age 10-11 bc that's when the child develops their own opinions, wants and desires. As the oldest, it was harder to watch my father and stepmonster abuse my half-sis than sustain the abuse myself.
@@D.J.Trump2024MAGA😂 Surprised you haven’t gotten more venomous replies…Sometimes it’s hard for people to catch sarcasm through text/comments. Lol
I can’t believe this lawyer got away with screen recording and nobody held her in contempt it totally showed it
Based on how _not_ tech-savvy the judge is, she probably wasn’t aware. Honestly, everyone other than Ms. Jourdain seemed quite far from being technologically savvy and probably weren’t aware either.
IMO, recording any court hearing should be entirely permissible ... especially when someone is a participant at the hearing. I mean, obviously SOMEONE has recorded this entire court proceeding, and they've posted their recording into the public forum via social media for our entertainment...so, what's the big wazoo if someone who's AT the actual court hearing records it?!
@@NunYaOit could be manipulated.
That’s why you can request Court documents.
Wonder how he met his girlfriend since he can’t go anywhere?
Good point!
This is from my personal experience. I have 3 chronic (2)illnesses/(1)disease, when I was diagnosed with the second (it’s rare) I joined online support groups, and used SM to connect w/others that share the same disease. Lurking in these groups are grifters… people looking for disabled people that are lonely. Although SSDI does not offer additional money for caregivers, Medicaid (you can be on booth) does. Being on SSDI can get you free housing or low income housing, discounted internet, food stamps, supplemental income… Now that you can get reimbursed for over the counter meds, I’ve heard of ppl maxing out monthly, and turning around and selling them, including they OTC cold medication used to make meth, also buying ppl’s groceries w/the food stamps in exchange for cash. It’s really sad to see ppl taken advantage of like that. Obviously idk if this is the situation, but I didn’t get the impression she is above this.
Online probably, like nearly everyone on the planet 😂
Miss Jourdain seems to be doing very well answering questions! That child needs to be kept away from dads girlfriend
ALWAYS choose your child over a significant other. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for people to do that.
Thanks!
I've had seizures for yrs.
Why did that flashing screen NOT BOTHER HIM??????
Fake!!!
I HATE when low life abuse the system
Thank you so much for this.
Exactly, this really seems odd
Good point!
Dad claims he can't leave the house due too epilepsy but says he goes out for blood work.. IF his epilepsy was so severe that it required him to never leave home then why aren't his Dr's having phlebotomists come to his house? Home health care has come a long way and blood work at home is probably one of the easiest things to have done. I think Dad might want to think about this woman in his life. Is she causing problems that could cost him precious time with his daughter? Time he can't ever get back. He better wake up before it's too late.
Exactly. If he is that ill he qualifies for ADA accommodations.
Wow, that was creepy af when all of a sudden the stepmom appeared behind him, she seems like a real nut, actually I have a feeling they're both nuts. Anyone else think the attorney for the father is overly hostile, I mean I get zealous representation for your client but she just comes across like a beeotch....
I agree about dad's atty. I don't know what lawyers are thinking when they decide to go with abrasive sarcasm and dramatic exaggeration. Do they really think that helps their client's cause? She could have made some of the same valid points in a calm reasonable manner and been much more effective as an advocate. When someone makes an argument that's dripping with attitude, you automatically begin to view the substance of what they say with a skeptical eye. Only a simpleton falls for this kind of manufactured outrage and flippant passive aggressive questioning. How can an atty not know that? Does she really think her approach is impressing this seasoned judge?
@@-HeyLyd- something tells me he is her only client. She has some real misplaced anger issues.
A pushy btch tht gets her way by speaking over and blaming others of ridiculous crap. Many people dont know how to respond to people like tht
I saw that too and that would be EXACTLY what she would be doing on the online visitations and therapy if not ordered to stay away.
The judge took no sh** I'm glad she made the right choice at the end of that. Clearly dad's gf is not very nice to say the least, to the child and dad is allowing her around his daughter knowing she has clear issues with her. He needs to give his head a shake.
I could never be in a relationship with someone that didn't 100% put my children first. Even if there was a hint of a concern, that would be enough to end the relationship for me.
The only people that should put YOUR kids 100% first is you and their father.
@@Anne-pv9cb ooof. 🤣
This is the most drawn out, expensive and proper version of, “get a girlfriend the hell out of your business with your daughter!” Jabba the butt head needs to be told to mind her business. That poor child! Also all the flashing on his end! Are they trying to prove he does not have seizures?! It’s all too weird
Why wasn’t the lawyer busted for recording??? She was LITERALLY caught in 4k
She’s sharing her screen, that’s why
Sooo much to weigh in on here , it was more than her saying, she never wanted to go back, killing herself, etc., had to be extreme, dad seems utterly dishonest, damn near dark room, with sunglasses, big, leather jacket, or whatever jacket, creepy, and, of course, the yee ole stepmother, 😱 so that’s two therapists they have messed with in a legal way, I just hope Kinsley gets the help she needs, and no one messes with her🙏🏻✌🏻💕
Gotta love parents choosing their significant others over their own children 🙄
WOW, that poor child. The judge saw right through the bio dad's bs and his gf too. Please, please have an update on this. 3/29 cannot come fast enough.
You know, dads development of seizures is suspicious. Adults usually don’t develop epilepsy in adulthood, but they can begin having seizures. If they have a brain tumor or, more commonly, they’re an alcoholic. Given the fact that his doctor wrote the recommendations only for a temporary span of time, I suspect that the man is an alcoholic and began having seizures. The good news is that they may have been because he gave up alcohol, cold turkey. Of course just because he’s being treated for seizures now does not mean that he has not been drinking again.. and everybody don’t get all over me because I don’t know. Of course I don’t know if neither of you. I’m just saying that medically this is a very likely explanation.
That's exactly what I was thinking
Are you a doctor? My brother-in-law did
I developed seizures after going septic and my temp going above 104. Nowadays I'm to report to the ER if I'm over 102.7. Oh, and lights don't trigger seizures for me. Just body temperature.
My goodness! You've concluded that Dad is an alcoholic and that's why he developed seizures later in life!? 🤣😂 Weirdo.
These therapists have to put up with a lot. I imagine it's very difficult to stand your ground. It appears at least to me she's trying to do right by the child.
Absolutely! On top of that, CPS doesn’t pay much for therapy. It’s about 1/2 the rate a clinician can make through standard commercial insurance.
Wow this is heartbreaking. It is a clear very clear issue. No problems for years coparenting etc UNTIL a new person is inserted and now there are issues. That certainly points to an issue with that person. The testimony of Dads GF’s behavior and pulling the child by the wrist (that made me angry) is a real problem and I’m glad the judge removed that problem from this situation. I’m heartbroken for this little girl. Significant others and even step parents play an important role and can be very positive - but there is a level of understanding of that role and a respect for the parents and their relationship and coparenting needs that don’t include anyone BUT the parents and child that must be respected for that to work.
This dude and Miss. Piggy deserve one another. They’re both whack jobs… clearly!
psycho GF pressed CHARGES against the therapist claiming that the therapist attacked her and the child and left both bruised and physically harmed. Therapist said she never even met the GF. Obvi, the GF is using the accusation to keep therapist from child so dad and GF can control. So glad judge bit this all in the bud. It will be interesting to see if GF sy=tays 500 ft away
If your the step parent you have no say. Stay out of it. This step monster is crazy and shame on dad for allowing it. She shouldn't be allowed near that child. This is an amazing therapist and I'm glad she is standing up to this loser. And dad's lawyer is ridiculous. Gross really.
They aren't married to begin with.
“Did you expect the father to put the child in an Uber alone to drive her to the appointment?”
Oh idk…maybe dad could get IN THE UBER WITH HER. 🙄
Yup. If he can't drive he can escort the child in the Uber. He can use dark sunglasses & be anti-seizure medication compliant to help lower his seizure threshold. He's full of BS & excuses. I have epilepsy & while I realize it's a spectrum of symptoms, most can function on a basic level if they utilize support tools, medical interventions, & supportive people in their lives. Enough he could get his child to a therapist once a week with help.
If a 9 year old loves her Dad, she might have a problem voicing her discomfort. Especially if there’s a new dynamic with another adult coming into the picture. This poor child.
How can he take care of his daughter if he is so ill?
The JUDGE nailed it! Thank you, your honor!!
I know an analogous case. Dad lost custody to Mom bc his GF tried to control the kids & block the mom to access through registering them for school & listing herself as primary parent on all paperwork including medical forms. She also tortured Mom emotionally through social media, texts & email. So sad. But for "step monster" they could co-parent in peace.
Mr. ONeal is definitely recording the court hearing.
Sheeeeeeit! That one's the best we've seen! Thank you and please continue updates. All those folks really came out hard to protect this little girl! Bless you all.
What I don’t get is why Dad doesn’t make that wicked witch he’s dating STOP her interference! She’s the typical girlfriend/ step mother who’s jealous of another woman’s child! I hate this and feel so sorry for the little girl.
That Dad has no balls to let her run things and then lied to the court. If he were such a great Dad he wouldn’t be trying to get to see his child because he’d already have visits and he’d check that evil girlfriend!
Dads lawyer lives to snark for a living. It’s obv the step mom is a huge problem. Getting nit picky to clear dad shows zero concern for the child. Step mom deserved arrested. Dad isn’t stuck at hime c’mon. If he doesn’t drive it’s on him to make the plans somehow. Retraining order against stepmom needed
Dad's lawyer has a comprehension problem because she keeps making crap up claiming the therapist said something she didn't.
Children should not have to learn to cope with crazy parents or their partners. But thank goodness this therapist is there for her. Children should not have to feel unsafe with any parent.
Thank you for making this available. Your comments were like you were reading my mind.
If this dad truly loves his child, he better be vigilant around his girlfriend. Down here in Tennessee, my cousin shared custody of her son with her ex husband. The dad moved in new girlfriend, they have a baby girl, then the new girlfriend ends up killing the son. she choked him with chicken nuggets literally. He would've been 4yrs old December 4th 2022 but she stole him from us a month before his birthday. I don't know how someone could do that to a baby nor how a dad could let it happen. Praise to this mom for being able to try and get to the bottom of what's going on with her child. Protect our children! Thanks for letting me rant and thank you for the video!!😉😊 this channel is awesome!🤘
Oh Man so sorry for your loss. Hope step mom or GF is rotting in hades. Jealousy really does kill.
OMG I'm gonna cry now. I share a birthday with him. I'll say a little prayer for him and your cousin. Fuck it, I am crying.
Idk about anyone else but I was getting strong narcissistic vibes from the dad, my son's father is the same way and I have been dealing with that for 25 years now. Misery loves company and this guy acts like he has never been told no in his entire life.
Properly done! It’s easy to see through the manipulation taking place, here. Judge
Is correctly non-biased, in making no ruling.
Hopefully, things work well, and this child may heal and thrive, both mentally and physically! 🙏🧡
My heart just breaks for this kiddo! So sad! I'm still with my husband, but if my child had a step mom like that I would expect my ex to step in and step up and kick her to the curb. You're child and child's well being should always be first!! I think the therapist did an amazing job. And Kaye please sit down! Rude much! And dad having an issue with every therapist the child had been to .. I did a big eye roll at that ! Our son has frontal lobe epilepsy. His epilepsy is rare as in it kills 1/100 instead of 1/1000 ... He works, married has a beautiful baby boy. He doesn't let his disability hence epilepsy define him as a man,husband or father. Not being able to leave the house and he is on medication is beyond belief. My prayers go up for the mom and child and well as the people involved in this case. Thank you so much for never disappointing with your videos. I am definitely hooked. God bless
If he is sooooo sick, should he even have unsupervised visits with his child???
I'm glad the judge agrees with the therapist.
My Dad never stood up to my stepwhitch and the result was we were not close and i never felt welcomed by her. My Dad passed when I was 17 so I never had a chance to tell him how I felt. Im 58 and resent her to this day
I admire the child therapist. She presents as having a lovely nature and it must be a very difficult job stress wise. The judge caught the father out possibly recording this. He certainly did not deny it.
I get the feeling dad is a total control freak
Yep. Around 1.00 to 1.10, he said, as much. He wanted a therapist from his list. Mom choose 4 other therapists. He rejected them all, by failure to attend, or failure to simply use his custody documents to show he has access to a therapist. He doesn't want mom to choose. And m9re likely, doesnt want kid in therapy at all. The dad could have had mom do the transportation to child's therapy, even if it is during "his time". He is demanding things are his way, and without regard to cooperate with kid, mom, or therapist.
I wonder if the pretrial for the therapist having been charged for assaulting the gf and little girl will be zoom?? Cause i wanna see that video plus the office cam of incident. 😁
I love Dori! She is a great advocate for children.
It's a parents job to get them to therapy. Not the therapists.
dad doesn't want her in therapy
This therapist is a good one! I'm gladshe ruled in the child's best interest.I feel like step mom is behind the child's issues.
Another man who can’t grow a pair. Needs a woman to guide his whole life. Not to mention the “male only therapists” showcases her mental instability LOL he’s allowing his wife to ruin his relationship with his daughter. Can’t blame the mom for that!
I found the male only therapist an odd request too.
The father's attorney was so unprofessional, I'm from the south but I would never say y'all when representing someone in a court hearing. She came off more like she was arguing in Publix parking lot.
The dads lawyer is QUITE a tool! Unnecessarily nasty and combative. It’s not a necessity of the job, she’s just being a jerk. Glad this therapist has stood her ground
I will be waiting for this to continue.....this was so worth the watch....Thanks so much from a new SUB in Canada
Why do some lawyers go with the snarky attack approach? This is about children and getting two folks who no longer get along to somehow find middle ground with child best interest. So snarking up the courtroom is pretty gross!
"She's got a rapport with Kinsley, right?"
"From what Kinsley said, she only likes her because she's an animal lover like herself."
I facepalmed so hard. I literally said, "THAT'S RAPPORT, YOU MORON"
And then Ms Mistic said the same thing and he's like "Well sure if that's how you define it der" smh
Kristin Kaye really shouldn't be able to trial child custody cases. She doesn't give a sh*t about the child, just about winning, even if that places the child in danger.
There's clearly a reason why dad doesn't wasn't the counselor to meet with the baby first. It doesn't make him look transparent
When the therapist said she had epilepsy too and asked him to turn the camera away from the flashing BOOM
Ok- ive read thousands of medical records. The extensive time to avoid light and sound stimulation is something i have never encountered before.
It's probably do to a brain injury and they can't control them which is probably where they should've came from instead of the argument with the therapist
simple camera filter - childs work.
dad's attorney is aweful