They call you difficult, "complicated" cause you refuse to settle for less. Choose you always, cause that is what you going to have at the end of the day.
You have been here before. Thank you for being real you are me in the form of a Man. Robert Cherry, Sr. said to me over 40yrs ago God should have made me a man. People can not handle the truth. But the Truth don't change. I have done so many things for people too, they didn't look back just keep going. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amen.....letting those things continue....and put people into a type of possession.....I've experienced this first hand....even witnessed it.....boundries healthy ones promote keeping our peace and center
7 years after getting out of the USAF, I moved over 400 miles away from toxic people. I went back, for a weekend, to forgive those who bullied me back in school. The worst of them CLAIMED they didn't remember being a bully. I walked away from them feeling lighter, because the forgiveness was to lighten MY heart. Haven't been back there since. There's no reason to go back there, ever again.
To all dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If your surround yourself with love and with right people, Anything is possible. Cheering for you✨
Sent this to my son when he said he needed some space from me. I sent this to him and said I finally get son. I am here for you when you need me to be and I thanked him for his honesty.... SO MY SON CAN PROTECT HIS PEACE as I grow!!!!!
Don't let people used unconditional love as a advantage to able to live off you. It better to love some people from a far to see if they will always be there for you even during your downfall.
2014 I learned who my friends were and now I'm a introvert. You learn about peeps when you get diagnosed with a inherited disease like fibro and can't say yes anymore. I had a best friend for 30 years but she had a love hate love for me and I finally had to say goodbye. I did call her recently and told her I still love her and had a short convo but we will not get together and hang out. I can't do love hate relationship with anyone. I know my worth. I give respect until I can no longer give respect and walk away. Thank you for reconfirming I am worth more.
Settling leads too suffering, settling is a sickness that leads too suffering in your soul. That void is real nothing can fill it. People will present you paradise and give you pain. Those people suck. All you can control is "what you give and what you accept". Don't let the history keep you in the misery. Trent Your videos truly help Thankyou! Respect and God bless!
Wow Trent!!! My mom is a good person but she was never present. Life happened and age 11 I decided I will never love no one. I became a rebel yeal and society labeled me as a problem child, I completely understand why. I got into drugs and the list goes on. I have changed my whole life around and I was open and honest about my life to my kids. Saying to them I can never allow them to make the same mistakes as me. What the thing that bothers me most about my mom is that she was never strict and I realised strict is love. Guess what, this morning I realised I am my mom. I am completely involved but no consequences and I realised my kids has no respect for me. I'm nearly out of my marriage of 26 years because the father wants to discipline and then we fight. We fight because I feel so guilty for not being a role model mom when they were younger and we've made mistakes but my kids were always well looked after, they were actually spoilt and I have literally realised that they are playing me so well that I've become an enabler instead of a mother. Your message was such a huge confirmation of the decision I made just an hour before I saw this. I decided not to tolerate their disrespect anymore. I'm not tolerating them destroying my present by reminding me of my past. I'm not tolerating me being the mother of unconditional love so bad that I'm enabling my kids to do what they want. Today I'm putting my foot down. If I don't do this, I'll be sending them to prison or to their graves. Thank you Trent for being so brutally honest. Honesty is what we need to hear to make change. Be blessed my man
Man this💯💯i had enough of being too tolerant. I had to set boundaries and keep my distance.I choose me and my peace is more important💯People showed their true colours ,it ain't my business.Protecting my peace at all cost even if that means i have to be all alone in this season.God got me,🙏🏼💪🏽
You are 100% right. I finally got sick and tired of being sick and tired. I set a date along with the "necessities" and felt freedom for myself and what my God wanted for me.
You are So Right !!! That's what I'm doing keeping a distance !!! And God Delivered me from the hurt and pain I feel better than I had felt in 11 Years Trent God healed My Broken Heart Praise God that's what held me and my Self Esteem !! I am Demanding You are going to treat me like you want to be treated and I'm standing.strong on it !!!
Right on time Trent!! Thank you !!! You put it all in perspective!! You are great motivational Speaker. Keep up doing your work for the Lord.👍😇💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Oh boy!!! I needed this so badly!!!! I can’t tell you how many times people have told me I don’t really love them unconditionally because I finally chose me! Nah bro! Nah! God said to honor HIM and who He says I am! That’s the real unconditional love, love of self.
It's amazing that you use the word "Confirmation". It's the word my church family used when I w.aa battling court issues. I thank God He sent me the word now. Thank you Trent for being who you are.
I have subscribed to your TH-cam channel and watch your videos almost everyday. I am so thankful for you daily texts. Today I had to remove someone from my life because after a year of friendship we were starting to get closer to a romantic relationship. But after much prayer and tears he showed his true colors and that was God's way of showing me that I was going to have to stop all communcations with him. It's killing me but God has used your videos and texts to prepare me for such a time as this.
You should drop the mic on this one Superman Shelton. Great Message! PS. When you was talking about your mother, you were explaining my mother to the point. My mother's no longer here physically either.
Thank you Trent, I really needed to hear this, I struggle all the time with confronting people and demanding my respect, it drives me up a wall that I'm like this and keep quiet, but I grew up around so much fighting and honestly I'm just too tired and sick of it. I only really stand up if I feel like it's worth it, and unfortunately my mind deemed my self esteme, respect to not be worth it. And unfortunately I'm now attached to a toxic person now that I know I need to stop being friends with, but everytime I start to leave they cry and ask me to not go and that's all it takes to stop me. The worse part is, I know she's lying and manipulating me, and I have so many good friends that are there for me, they want me to leave her and understand why it's so hard not to, they're truly amazing friends. I know I need to do what's best for me, so thank you for this, I needed to hear it, I put up with her toxic behavior for to long, I need to start loving her from a distance and start respecting and being kind to myself instead
In life we constantly make decisions. Even when we do nothing, that is a decision ! I heard TD Jakes say "You come in this world looking like your parents, you leave this world looking like your decisions.
Praise God That's way my Mother was also She ministered for 28 years until Breast Cancer took her and dimes appear in strange places and I feel Mom is ảound
I definitely needed this for the confirmation of knowing that putting myself first isn’t cold hearted it’s necessary my peace, joy, growth, and happiness is necessary ❤ thank you Trent always
I have to make a LIFE-CHANGING DECISION in my life within the next few weeks... and it's killing me inside.... and these Rehab videos have been truly helping me to gain more wisdom, understanding, and strength! My heart so heavy... but I know with God by my side...I can get through anything!!! Praise the Lord for Trent... He's encouraging me tremendously!!!
I love running in everyday ur videos. U have helped me in the most stressful times in my life. I deal with stress every single day... Without u doing these videos idk where my state of mind would be. I'm alone most of the time cause of the stress I deal with . U are on point with ur motivational speeches,it feels like ur talking to me, but I know there is a lot of ppl out there just like me . So keep doing wat ur doing cause it's working for me. Let's get it!!
AMEN. No more, done !!!! This is a great message that speaks the truth. I have been a Target of not only my daughter my grandson a little bit of my granddaughter but family is the worst then men come in second so-called friends come in third class mates coming fourth. Yes I will pray for them I will love him from afar but I have been a punching bag for way too long. Thank you for this message
Boundaries is the key, but difficult! I was to a place where my mom was sleeping under a bridge a block from my apartment, but I’d see her every morning with fresh tea. Showing love, but still holding strong on the boundaries and not reinforcing her drug habits Anyone relate? I’d love to have you on my channel so come on over and I’m gonna explain more soon
@Your Brother Mike can relate.. Been on both sides.. Different circumstances. Same feels/emotions tho. Not my mum. Was me. Been clean since 12/30/04 We can't take everyone with us. Each must do, inner work. For self. Boundaries are hard. Detachment via discernment helped me maintain boundaries. Bc my ❤️ was too big at times, to my detriment...
I've listened to you for a few years and i always knew but you hit me at the exact perfect moment. Thank you. You might have saved my life and made me fight for my beautiful daughters and I to have the best life. Thank you
Thank You So Much Trent. Your topics be right on time for my life. I thank God for you and your inspirational teachings. Please keep doing what you do. A LOT of people need it. 😊
Peace of Mind,( doing the right thing ), Peace on Earth( making the earth better), Peace of Soul ( Meditating, Studying the Word Inner peace) Being successful is a Decision, you have the power to decide EVERYDAY!!
Settling is a sickness, that Leads to suffering in your Soul
Absolutely 💯 🗣️ it happened to me for 32 years and I finally left last year and happier m, single and feel at peace ✌️
Know it all too well. 4.5 years. Left 2days after Xmas he was MAD MAD 🙄 but...I had to put me 1st luscious 😅🤣 never been better💅🏾😎
So right on.
Facts
They call you difficult, "complicated" cause you refuse to settle for less. Choose you always, cause that is what you going to have at the end of the day.
❤️💯😍
You have been here before. Thank you for being real you are me in the form of a Man. Robert Cherry, Sr. said to me over 40yrs ago God should have made me a man. People can not handle the truth. But the Truth don't change. I have done so many things for people too, they didn't look back just keep going. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
U said it beautifully 😍
Why can the world just break it down to 👏 them 👏facts!👏!
Amen.....letting those things continue....and put people into a type of possession.....I've experienced this first hand....even witnessed it.....boundries healthy ones promote keeping our peace and center
Confirmation that I’m not selfish for putting my needs first. 💪🏽🙏🏽
Amen Sista!!!
💯
Yess
Anen
No , no , no .
What you give and what you accept is ALL you can control
Totally Agree!!
7 years after getting out of the USAF, I moved over 400 miles away from toxic people. I went back, for a weekend, to forgive those who bullied me back in school. The worst of them CLAIMED they didn't remember being a bully. I walked away from them feeling lighter, because the forgiveness was to lighten MY heart. Haven't been back there since. There's no reason to go back there, ever again.
Big Hugz 💕
To all dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If your surround yourself with love and with right people, Anything is possible.
Cheering for you✨
❤️😍💯
Sent this to my son when he said he needed some space from me. I sent this to him and said I finally get son. I am here for you when you need me to be and I thanked him for his honesty.... SO MY SON CAN PROTECT HIS PEACE as I grow!!!!!
Don't let people used unconditional love as a advantage to able to live off you. It better to love some people from a far to see if they will always be there for you even during your downfall.
Amen 🙏
@@tammyvaughan8078 AMEN!😇🙏🙌👏✌
Facts
2014 I learned who my friends were and now I'm a introvert. You learn about peeps when you get diagnosed with a inherited disease like fibro and can't say yes anymore. I had a best friend for 30 years but she had a love hate love for me and I finally had to say goodbye. I did call her recently and told her I still love her and had a short convo but we will not get together and hang out. I can't do love hate relationship with anyone. I know my worth. I give respect until I can no longer give respect and walk away. Thank you for reconfirming I am worth more.
Settling leads too suffering, settling is a sickness that leads too suffering in your soul. That void is real nothing can fill it. People will present you paradise and give you pain. Those people suck. All you can control is "what you give and what you accept". Don't let the history keep you in the misery. Trent Your videos truly help Thankyou! Respect and God bless!
Man… what a message, I needed to hear this
Wow Trent!!! My mom is a good person but she was never present. Life happened and age 11 I decided I will never love no one. I became a rebel yeal and society labeled me as a problem child, I completely understand why. I got into drugs and the list goes on. I have changed my whole life around and I was open and honest about my life to my kids. Saying to them I can never allow them to make the same mistakes as me. What the thing that bothers me most about my mom is that she was never strict and I realised strict is love. Guess what, this morning I realised I am my mom. I am completely involved but no consequences and I realised my kids has no respect for me. I'm nearly out of my marriage of 26 years because the father wants to discipline and then we fight. We fight because I feel so guilty for not being a role model mom when they were younger and we've made mistakes but my kids were always well looked after, they were actually spoilt and I have literally realised that they are playing me so well that I've become an enabler instead of a mother. Your message was such a huge confirmation of the decision I made just an hour before I saw this. I decided not to tolerate their disrespect anymore. I'm not tolerating them destroying my present by reminding me of my past. I'm not tolerating me being the mother of unconditional love so bad that I'm enabling my kids to do what they want. Today I'm putting my foot down. If I don't do this, I'll be sending them to prison or to their graves. Thank you Trent for being so brutally honest. Honesty is what we need to hear to make change. Be blessed my man
Strict is Our loving heavenly father's warning & blessing 💝
I feel you.. This is part of his program... it has been life changing. I am so glad you got to see this. I totally know how you feel. Don't give up.
Man this💯💯i had enough of being too tolerant. I had to set boundaries and keep my distance.I choose me and my peace is more important💯People showed their true colours ,it ain't my business.Protecting my peace at all cost even if that means i have to be all alone in this season.God got me,🙏🏼💪🏽
Exactly ,alone ,the hard part but it won't be forever it will b in GODS TIME,AND YOU KNOW THAT MEANS ITZ RESLLY YOUR TRUE TIME AS WELL .XO
@@alishacolon1107 Amen, thank you 😊
Wow! I have to write down your PowerPoint.
Amen
You are 100% right. I finally got sick and tired of being sick and tired. I set a date along with the "necessities" and felt freedom for myself and what my God wanted for me.
People say to me "ugh girl you funny acting now, youve changed" I respond "yes I have, I hope so, thank you"
Settling is a sickness that leads to suffering in your soul! That’s a quote we got in SWM! Engrave that truth in your heart.
You are So Right !!! That's what I'm doing keeping a distance !!! And God Delivered me from the hurt and pain I feel better than I had felt in 11 Years Trent God healed My Broken Heart Praise God that's what held me and my Self Esteem !! I am Demanding You are going to treat me like you want to be treated and I'm standing.strong on it !!!
This is the hardest part and I am realizing it over time it’s the closest people and family. Thank you for the message ❤️
So true!
As Trent said, "when's you choose you you'll see who's really there for you." YESSSSS💯💯💯💯
I learned this the hard way, but glad I learned it! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Same.
❤️😍💯
Right on time Trent!!
Thank you !!!
You put it all in perspective!!
You are great motivational
Speaker. Keep up doing your work for the Lord.👍😇💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I had to let some people go in my life. Peace over everything ❤️✌🏾🙏🏽
Oh boy!!! I needed this so badly!!!! I can’t tell you how many times people have told me I don’t really love them unconditionally because I finally chose me! Nah bro! Nah! God said to honor HIM and who He says I am! That’s the real unconditional love, love of self.
Amen. I'm over all of this. God first and the rest will follow.
I know this is gonna be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 and came at exactly the right time for me🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Exactly!!! Always on time🔥🔥🔥
His program is hands down the besrt. Are you a part of it?
It's amazing that you use the word "Confirmation". It's the word my church family used when I w.aa battling court issues. I thank God He sent me the word now. Thank you Trent for being who you are.
My own sister tries to make me feel like I'm nothing but bad .
I Love Nature Trent! It's so Peaceful, just me and God
You see things differently
Amen..amen..amen!🎯💯
Love you Trent. I did need this. I’m going through this right now.
Peace thats my word nơw !!! I won't accept nothing but !! Yessss Nature heals you You can hear God feel him Be Still and hear him and know ,!!
I needed this, especially in relation to an emotionally abusive parent. You can love them, but it doesn't mean accepting toxic.
Good Morning Trent!! I needed to hear this on 02 22 2022!! 🥺🥰
Never settle for less. Too long I’ve done that and it was already time to make a change so I did it. And I know you can too. Amen 🙏🏻
I have subscribed to your TH-cam channel and watch your videos almost everyday. I am so thankful for you daily texts. Today I had to remove someone from my life because after a year of friendship we were starting to get closer to a romantic relationship. But after much prayer and tears he showed his true colors and that was God's way of showing me that I was going to have to stop all communcations with him. It's killing me but God has used your videos and texts to prepare me for such a time as this.
You should drop the mic on this one Superman Shelton. Great Message!
PS. When you was talking about your mother, you were explaining my mother to the point. My mother's no longer here physically either.
I used to love climbing in the mountains. I think some of my happiest moments. So true….
Just came up on this message! Praise God,, HE KNEW I needed this TODAY!!!
With one video you saved my life. ❤
Settling leads to Suffering in your Soul!
Oh!! This hit home!! Truth. The response becomes automatic over time - it’s hard to break the cycle.
AMEN!!!
"Settling is a sickness that leads to suffering in my soul"!
Thank you Trent, I really needed to hear this, I struggle all the time with confronting people and demanding my respect, it drives me up a wall that I'm like this and keep quiet, but I grew up around so much fighting and honestly I'm just too tired and sick of it. I only really stand up if I feel like it's worth it, and unfortunately my mind deemed my self esteme, respect to not be worth it. And unfortunately I'm now attached to a toxic person now that I know I need to stop being friends with, but everytime I start to leave they cry and ask me to not go and that's all it takes to stop me. The worse part is, I know she's lying and manipulating me, and I have so many good friends that are there for me, they want me to leave her and understand why it's so hard not to, they're truly amazing friends. I know I need to do what's best for me, so thank you for this, I needed to hear it, I put up with her toxic behavior for to long, I need to start loving her from a distance and start respecting and being kind to myself instead
Feel you... Give it to God in prayer
#BOUNDARIES ARE SELF CARE 💝
In life we constantly make decisions. Even when we do nothing, that is a decision !
I heard TD Jakes say "You come in this world looking like your parents, you leave this world looking like your decisions.
It's time to move on.
I'm sending you all the courage you need to detach yourself 💜
Settling is not standing for self or family or God's Truth! Shared as many need this. Mostly me
You have a beautiful spirit 🥰
Thank you soo much, I feel that!!
Praise God That's way my Mother was also She ministered for 28 years until Breast Cancer took her and dimes appear in strange places and I feel Mom is ảound
Accountability of actions and words cause turmoil and wars because the truth hurts.
I definitely needed this for the confirmation of knowing that putting myself first isn’t cold hearted it’s necessary my peace, joy, growth, and happiness is necessary ❤ thank you Trent always
💯 So true I am feeling reassured that it is not just me .
I hear you . I love my Son but I'm not going to let anyone use me. Good topic. Oh , I demand my respect , and I give it. Unconditionally
I want to say Thank You for the help you have been to me. I watch and share your videos.
May God Bless You and Your Family Always 🙏❤️.
I know I've said this before, but it needs to be said again. Trent, you are amazing. ❤
You had me in the first minute. This message was meant 100% for me! Thank you Trent!!!
Put this out exactly when I needed to hear it. Thanks man, for real, thank you.
I have to make a LIFE-CHANGING DECISION in my life within the next few weeks... and it's killing me inside.... and these Rehab videos have been truly helping me to gain more wisdom, understanding, and strength! My heart so heavy... but I know with God by my side...I can get through anything!!! Praise the Lord for Trent... He's encouraging me tremendously!!!
I love running in everyday ur videos. U have helped me in the most stressful times in my life. I deal with stress every single day... Without u doing these videos idk where my state of mind would be. I'm alone most of the time cause of the stress I deal with . U are on point with ur motivational speeches,it feels like ur talking to me, but I know there is a lot of ppl out there just like me . So keep doing wat ur doing cause it's working for me. Let's get it!!
You are on point! If you let it go to long.. it can affect your ability to trust others.
Yesssss.......Trent........you are speaking real truth from the heart........Thank you so much!!!!......:).....:)
SO RIGHT!!!
You are awesome. Thank you Trent. Peace and love ❤️
So many of us thought it did mean unconditional tolerance. This is so needed.
I truly needed that Trent! You have no idea what a true blessing you are!
I have learned to love family and friends from afar and we are both happier for it💯✔
AMEN. No more, done !!!!
This is a great message that speaks the truth. I have been a Target of not only my daughter my grandson a little bit of my granddaughter but family is the worst then men come in second so-called friends come in third class mates coming fourth.
Yes I will pray for them I will love him from afar but I have been a punching bag for way too long. Thank you for this message
Boundaries is the key, but difficult! I was to a place where my mom was sleeping under a bridge a block from my apartment, but I’d see her every morning with fresh tea.
Showing love, but still holding strong on the boundaries and not reinforcing her drug habits
Anyone relate? I’d love to have you on my channel so come on over and I’m gonna explain more soon
@Your Brother Mike can relate.. Been on both sides.. Different circumstances. Same feels/emotions tho. Not my mum. Was me. Been clean since 12/30/04
We can't take everyone with us. Each must do, inner work. For self. Boundaries are hard. Detachment via discernment helped me maintain boundaries. Bc my ❤️ was too big at times, to my detriment...
Sometimes you gotta leave people where they at to protect your peace!!!!! YUP!
You are right. Thank you so much. I really appreciate you!
SO True Thank you!!! 😊
Wow.. I can learn something every time I watch this and learn something new every day.
The real truth has been said ❤️💯
Thank you so much my Brotha, 💯 powerful.
I'm grateful for the inspiration of the motivation Trent that You share with the world.
I love to hear you speak, I feel God drew me to you because I feel as if God speaks to me through you! I am so grateful! Thank you! God bless you!
Thank you so much
So grateful for the self worth method! Keep your alert up for when it opens again! It’s POWERFUL!!!!
You are so right Trent Shelton. Blessings on you always and forever 🙏❤❤🙏🏻
One of the best phrases ever! Unconditional love does not mean unconditional tolerance. Absolute truth!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Oh my God it is the little things that add up quick whether that's the little things for you or stacked against you.
“Just because you love someone, doesn’t mean you have to accept Toxic” Hit different 😩😩😩😩
Amen To This!!!!!!!!💯💯💯
Everything you spoke on is so true! Thank you for a great word!
God brought you into my life for the first time in a moment 🙏 when I needed this message the most. On point!
This was so needed and you are absolutely correct!!
Thank you so much I needed to hear this time for me to be Happy again tired of all the drama
God bless you Mr trent
So good!!! I need to watch this a few more times!!!
Yes. Amen to that!! 🙏 ❤
I've listened to you for a few years and i always knew but you hit me at the exact perfect moment. Thank you. You might have saved my life and made me fight for my beautiful daughters and I to have the best life. Thank you
Right and respect is respect. I don't like when people disrespect me
Thank You So Much Trent. Your topics be right on time for my life. I thank God for you and your inspirational teachings. Please keep doing what you do. A LOT of people need it. 😊
Peace of Mind
Peace on Earth
Peace of Soul
Yes Yes Yes!!!
Yes you are making my life better. Thank you very much. I want to feel better and this is the first step for me. Amen
Peace of Mind,( doing the right thing ), Peace on Earth( making the earth better), Peace of Soul ( Meditating, Studying the Word Inner peace)
Being successful is a Decision, you have the power to decide EVERYDAY!!
Beautiful. Well said sis.
💝
Thanks for these Words You keep Real 🦾🦾🦾🦾
Needed this so much today❤️
Amen Trent!!!💯🙏🙏🙏
Yesss lawd..preach!
I get you
Thank you Fam I need to hear that likewise everything you saying am going through it now help me Lord 🙏