5 PEOPLE YOU CAN’T BE FRIENDS WITH | TRENT SHELTON
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- In this video I'm talking about 5 People You Can't Be Friends With. This will OPEN UP YOUR EYES and this will help your life so much.
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Sometimes these people are your own friends and family sad to say but true
Yep and they disguise the gossip as concern for that person SMH
The Bible says, Bad Company corrupts good people.
Amen 🙏
Yes so true
@@Jojo-py8jj I am truly in my walk and if you study the Bible, yes GOD gives clear instructions and guidance through this amazing journey called Life. And he also provides free will. It's really up to us and what is embedded in our hearts. Love and Light. 👑❤💙💚💛💜💓🙏🙏🙏🙏
yes and homakers robed me cant stand it my mother bought chain
and shes dead
“IF THEY’RE bringing gossip to you, if they’re telling you things about someone else that was supposed to stay just between the 2 of them-you can BEST BELIEVE they are doing the same to you!”
This is nothing new. Wish i had realized this earlier.
@@amandakropen3273 same here-I wish I had realized it earlier also and understood it. I have loved people SO unconditionally that I deceived myself! Sending love to you! 🙏❤️
Right 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
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The jealous friend will secretly sabotage everything behind your back. Spread rumors, lies and gossip. They can’t wait to dish the dirt on you.
@Dwayne Solomon Oh Yes This Hit's Home They Will Destroy You I Know a Girl who Have Looks She is a Type of Person She is All About Her Looks and is Very Very Two Faced and Talks Bad About Any and Everybody Then Plays Victim This Girl was Going Around Spreading Rumors About me Saying I was Envious and Jealous of Her Looks and Was Telling People That I Kept Calling Her Phone Block Stalking & Harassing Her But The Funny Thing About it is I Never Had Her Cell Number to Begin With But I'm The Jealous One.
They think that dirt can't touch them. With people like that once trust can't be established move on from their trap. Guilt and fear motivates people to flip the script as if God is not in the equation
God knows the very heart of the matter and will step right in on time and reveal it to you. As friendship fold forget all the chatter. The whole truth 💯 in God's eyes is all that matters 🙏 🙌
1: People who want to be you.
2: Cant is friends with a terrible person.
3: Cant be friends with a person whose jealous of you.
4: Cant be friends with someone who are friends with your enemies.
5: Cant be friends with people who talk about others behind their back.
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@Nurse Raqki Joie
Thank you, for the notes!😊
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Fixed mindset for all area security
Introvert secured me bro
I've had experience with a jealous best friend who also befriended someone she knew was my enemy.
I had to distance myself and keep to myself because I watched her behavior and facial expressions when anyone asked about me or talked about me. I now have peace because I've left her alone. Through conversation I found she would talk about me to everyone behind my back.
I felt everything you said Trent you don't need a gossip in your life
Exactly.
me to gave up on life dont have my health my kids could care less about me
@@gloriacassey4887 faith and blessings
Unfortunately for me and maybe for others these people are in my family. Toxic people are toxic. It’s hard to discern these people as friends but harder when they are blood.
I agree on all your categories. ‘Loyalty’ gets thrown out when they are friends with your enemies. That one rang true for me.
Same here Delores. You have protect your peace no matter what. For some of us, the enemy is inside of our families.
Stay Strong.
I am a true friend to people, but somehow, I NEVER GET THAT BACK
Delores same here! The pain is equal to my fathers death. Something I never imagined in a million years! I STILL can’t get my head around it.
@@leannbuggs888 Same Here I Cut Everybody Off And I Do not Regret it🙌🕊️💕💖
@@bettabelieveit34 love your name.
I let go of my so called best friend for constants made fun of me in front of others, never allowed me to talk more then once abouty problems and just constantly took from me. Emotionally, financially ,and consistently made fun of me to my face and in front of others. It was hard but i finally ended ot. Thank you Trent Shelton
I had one of those too. I feel great about myself now!! :)
You saved me! I was at the end & couldn't take any more of this world. If I could talk to you directly, I would thank you and hug you brother!
Never let a secret hater make you leave this world, harm yourself or you often feel down and discouraged when you leave their presence.
I'm so ready for the level of friendship. I put people in categories cause folk are human. I try to learn from others and my mistakes
That’s awesome
not true told my best frind everything she was like my Cantbreamber is
needed some one to talk to I diddent talk about her always talked good about she passed away oh she was my mentor
“You can NOT be friends with someone who talks about others behind their back”. Thank you God for blessing me with the ability to just know this as common sense and integrity! Thank you Trent Shelton for this friendly reminder-this refresher course it’s not only a great reminder it is confirmation for my self-esteem of something I do right all the time because it comes natural it tells me that that’s the yearning that I have for the people that are in my circle to just automatically know the security of knowing they have my back there in my corner with THEIR lips shut knowing that information I have shared with them is between only me and them and if I wanted the rest of the world to know-that’s for ME and ONLY ME to share!!!
I don't befriend or re befriend with snakes
tonite said, "PLEASE STOP!" CAUSE I CANT BE RESPONSIBLE FO THE DRAMA. GET THOSE PPL #OUT
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@@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan I'm learning this as well.
Number 4 is a big one!!! I have always said “I don’t fw people who fw people I don’t fw”!!! I would always say you can’t be loyal to me and them and number 5 is big too and I’ve actually been having an issue with that lately with a long time friend of mine and I let her know that I didn’t wanna be cool anymore cause she stay gossiping about people she be in the face of and she started crying and all this bs but I think now I just have to cut her off without saying anything.
Jealousy !!!! Trent you are so right . Lord , I thank you for giving Trent the GIFT to be an incredible speaker to help others in this world who needs his help with the problems they are going through
AMEN!!! I have ALWAYS felt the same way..my mother ALWAYS said, "Never let your left hand know what your right hand is doing!" In other words, KEEP YOUR BUSINESS TO YOURSELF!!!
Facts!!
Dealt with all 5 types of these people, some people I have known almost all my life. Sad to let them go but my life is way better off without them!
I sure have experienced the enemies thing.
That jealousy is why I had to cut people off I’ve been friends with for years smh 🙄
Thank you so much for this awesome message. I really resonated with " don't allow your loyalty to become your slavery" Wow
Blessing 🙏
Protect your Peace 🕊️
I completely understand about the person who is jealous and wants your life. I was there, I lost everything I had, everything I always wanted because I had this friend that I truly thought was my friend, and later found out that she wanted my life. She also wanted to me all to herself. She was always planting seeds of doubt, the way she did it though was so underhanded that it wasn't until I lost everything that I realized what she was really doing.
I think that #4 should include coworkers as well because I've had friends at work who would befriend the coworker that would badmouth me to others and lie to the managers about me. It's because my friend was afraid of being badmouthed by this coworker. Also, that coworker had connections to big-name people so the friend would do whatever they could to be friends with them and hold their tongue whenever the coworker would spread rumors about me. But I definitely agree with the levels of friendship. I think I made the wrong people become my close friends that really should be my associates.
This
PREACH MY BROTHER ❤❤❤!!! I have a "BFF of 25 years" who did it around to "The FRAMILY that I created"! My frienemy of 33 years has exhibit ALL 5 of these characteristics.
Everything on the list sounds exactly like some I know
Thank you so much Trent for this message. You are talking to me directly. I almost lost my life because of a pastor I called my friend and my ex. I was POISONED. YES POISONED. HOW I WISH I CAME ACROSS THIS MESSAGE IN TIME.
I APPRECIATE YOU TRENT.
So true! The lack of loyalty hurts the most.
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Good morning trent.
Thank you for sharing this video.
I have people in my own family, that exhibit all five of these traits that you talked about.
The irony of it is that , they constantly tell me ," you can't trust people like this they will do everything they can, to hurt you ".
And I'm just sitting there listening like 🙄
I talk to God daily about what moves I need to make, because He's the only one I trust!
Friend of my enemy- truth!! First to betray me!! TRUTH!!
I had a therapist say that people who talk "about each other" but not "to each other" are super toxic.
I usually step back and say to myself "what is their intentions by telling me this?"
There's usually a negative energy that comes with these people also. Pay attention to the vibe!
I would also like to see more videos on how to cut toxic people out of your life.
Because sometimes when you do so they start a smear campaign and try to destroy your character.
I am not someone that stands up for myself or tries to defend myself. I just walk away.
At one point I had to move and just start over.
Walking away is standing up for urself 1000%
Moving away was the best thing God blessed me to do.
Thanks for this
Real talk…Gotta be careful and know whose in your circle.
I’ve experienced all of five, but with God Grace and Mercy I’m still standing.
Trent keep speaking these true messages and breaking down.
Thank you
Stay woke to know whose around you
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Straight up
Let’s get it
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W-O-W!!! #4 & #5! I’ve been unable to put this into words. I have experienced this w/ so called friends & even family! The same people that look at me like it’s me that’s off the mark-immature bc I expect that my people would be genuine enough that THEY wouldn’t want to hang out with or even be associated with these outsiders/users/bad people!
I don't believe in religion. (No judgment & no preaching please.. respect my choice and I will respect your choice. Please and thank you) I do believe in your words Trent Shelton . Your videos are seriously my go to on a day where I'm looking for someone to help me when I'm struggling. I've been watching you for a few years now. Thank you for being such a consistent steady force in my life. You have helped me quite a few times when I didn't think there was nothing that could help me. I struggle a lot with my demons. I struggle with being self destructive. I struggle with dealing with past trauma. The despair never seems to stay gone. I struggle to stay in the light. Thank you for the times you were that light. Your words honestly have saved my life. I've been in a good place mentally for quite some time now. ❤️ To anyone struggling just know that wherever you are at...you are not alone. I hear you. Stay in the light. Stay strong. ❤️
You can’t be family w/these people either.
That can be so true
Trent how do you deal with toxic family especially a mother but I will look on your channel Thank you for all you do ❤️❤️❤️
I went through this. It’s not easy and it’s a process. In the end I had to separate myself from the toxicity and the relationship. Love from afar.
@Barbie Thee... That's a tough one situation regarding your question. May God help you and guide you. Psalm 27
If u got money that's a way to go I'm in same situation
It’s rough BEEN THROUGH IT WITH MY MOM. Boundaries help me . Also with other people
Agents of the devil circle great ones like hungry wolves....be wary of the company you keep. Most are judas in plain sight. Also they're goal is to distract you & block your blessings. This go for family and friends. Blood and same name means nothing when you treat me like nothing. I really enjoy your content Trent. No one can speak on these things unless they've gone thru it. I appreciate you saving those whose listen🙂 you earned a new subscriber
Amen 💯
Everything you said is so true, I took a second look at my circle.
I Needed This... Everything You Spoke On Was *FACTS!*
God Bless You, Trent 💯🙏🏾💪🏾
Your AWESOME Trent! NOTHING BUT TRUTH!!
LESSON LEARNED! FAMILY AND FOES.... My former BFF was the one who talk about people to anyone who will listen (and talked about me behind my back to others), she would stay friends w/people who did me wrong and I believe she was jealous of me too. After 45 years, I ghosted her when I finally opened my eyes and saw how she just couldn't be happy for me finally finding love and deciding to move to another state w/my husband whom SHE INTRODUCED me too...hard lesson to learn but I did. Thx Trent for your real talk.
The fourth point is where I am- the friend that is friends with the enemy
I had a lots jealousy friends but not no more
Sir, thank you for sharing Godly, Bible wisdom. My family has verbally and mentally abused me most of my life. I've been told of family gatherings 30 minutes before events. My mom and sisters are bearers of jealousy. Well, they have baby mama drama and I don't, my mom rolls her eyes tells me she hates me, in the name of "Joking." Well, I felt loyal and took the abuse until recently, I distance myself from all toxicity without regret. Even my neighbors despise me, they turned my landscaper into a hater. So I had to get rid of him/ wife. And we broke 🍞 together. But, God cut a clan of 11 people out of my life in a week. Now, I'm too busy healing in God and working towards my destiny. 🙏🗣 ️🙌❤
I've had lots of people around me to want evening I have been blessed with. Lots of gifts from different people who know my character in our community and from the work I have done over the last 12 years being a Certified Caregiver. I've had Women and Men in my circle that I thought of as friends, but actually they were Wolves in Sheep's clothing. They have wrecked my relationships, wanted things people brought me before I could see what it was. I used to cook for my community until I realized that when my food is gone, they don't care if I eat or starve. These are just a couple of things I have experienced.
I definitely had a bad person around me. She was good to me but terrible to her own kids, to herself, then she turned on me because she was about herself. No loss for me, I treat me very well and she does not deserve me.
It’s OK to choose yourself. You only have one life to live. Are you going to live a life without boundaries or are you gonna live a life with boundaries?
I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much!
So true !! Never want what people have because they have a different race they're running. jealousy is not good .
It's great how Trent always keeps it real and honest !
Amen brother keep speaking the truth God is using you to change lives! On one of your other videos I posted that it's been 5 days that I broke a bad habit now it's been 3 weeks going strong feeling good.
I understand people being jealous. I feel the vibes and everything you said towards me in this season this was more confirmation to be more careful. Thank you Trent! God bless you and your obedience 🙏
You Certainly Called IT Trent!!✔♠💯💯 Proverbs says, "Choose your company wisely."
You've helped me over the years. I will be forever grateful. I was feeling like I'm not worth love and no one will ever. But I'm a God fearing person, loving, encouraging, loyal, compassionate, etc. I keep running into ppl that have so much pain n hurt. I pray that God puts ppl in my life that wants to be in my life and genuinely love me and pour into me as I do everyone. It's been a real struggle. To have reciprocation in these times feels impossible. You can be giving so much love and positivity. I've dealt with so many ppl esp men that find interest in me give mixed signals. It's hard out here. I'm trying to stay positive with so much negativity around me. I get depressed at times bc I feel like I don't belong on this earth. Struggling to find My Tribe.
Thank you for sharing. You pretty much summed up my life. I appreciate you.
I have experienced much envy in my life. Envy to me, is when people are uncomfortable and or resentful of your accomplishments. Family members especially
I feel what's this King is saying is sooo" true...thank you.
I think when some ppl been down for so long, they don't even have the willpower to celebrate ur blessings or happiness. They're drowning in their own sorrow. I know ppl like this. I don't think they're jealous of me. I am the person who will stick around and help that friend. I understand that if this person's circumstances were better, they would be equally happy with me. We all have to keep going. Someone not celebrating me is not gonna keep me from doing me. We all have our own lives. I wish the best for everyone.
Mr. Brother Trent listening to a Man with your Knowledge is the Greatest gift to give someone with the art of hearing and take heed. I'll like to Thank The GREATEST GOD our FATHER. for giving you the gift of Knowledge, Shalom😎
Going through that right now with a family member
Same here
You are a very wise young man! I think I relate most to the one about jealousy. Sometimes you can't even imagine why someone would be jealous, but some people are not happy unless they think they are miles ahead of you and have so much more. Keep up the good work!
Bad company corrupts good morals
So true i starred to clean not only my body n mind but also i stop friendships for that reason they weren't good not only to me to others.
I have people that I have helped out and they went against after I helped them out. I have had mental issues. I had 4 and 1 pass away just in my family. I had my step mom shoot her self in the chest on 06/02/2011. My brother which I found shot himself in the head 07/03/2011
My cousin came out and told the Family that he was Gay. The Family disowned him but my sister and myself told him he's still the same person that we know. It doesn't matter he is still the same person 09/12/2011. The I had my ex father in law shot himself in the head in front of of me on 07/02/2012
I appreciate you for all you do in helping me out. Listening to helps me.My counselor or psychiatrist doesn't understand my situation like you do.
Trent Sir I was mad at My GOD when I ran across your video last year and you have helped me to make the right decision for my life Thank you so much
I'm in a rehab and found your link. You r the man. Wise beyond your years. You helped me allot. Thank you!
Thank you Trent always enjoy watching you and listening to you. I've been thru all 5 of those that's why I'm 54 and don't have any friends except my husband, Mom and Auntie plus my 15 year old that had an old soul all her life. God Bless you and your family and Merry Christmas
Oh yes, dealing with this. Everything you say here is 100% true. Check your circle THOROUGHLY!
This video was confirmation!!! Especially the part about not being friends with people who are cool with your enemies.. Intuitively, I always felt that it wrong.. People like that... their loyalties are fluid. They play both sides of the fence indeed, and cannot be trusted. My mother and brother are exactly like this...
I thank you for reminding of these principles. I have lived on the streets of Eastside Long Beach for 9yrs.
Hi trade Teresa we need more people like you two in this world besides those other bad people that need to be prayed for need to be saved take care and have a blessed night bye
I am so glad this popped up on my feed. I was just about to text an old friend who have two problems on this list .this just made me verify why I let this person go in the first place.
Trent this is real facts even in family and friends we have a problem in our communities
SPOT. ON. Trent!
Wowww well needed. ‼️Time for me to let go of some people. It hurts but I needed this 💯💯
Gossip has to go.
#1 hits hard !!
This message is telling you nothing but true Facts. Period! Peace and love 💕 to you and family.
Totally agree with everything. I do use the word “friend” a lot tho but it’s out of endearment. I believe people’s happiness is a good vibe to all ❤
Jealousy!! The green eyed monster of greed, envy, betrayal…
Thank you so much!!!!
I needed to hear this. I've had people in my life that tried to destroy me, that acted like they were my friends.( And this was in the last 10 years.)
Thank you so much for the inspiration you are a wonderful person
Worse than a gossip is a betrayer.
Period.
Love your messagess Mondays Tuesdays and Thursdays I do a Counseling Group for my woman's unit at a non-profit drug rehab and before we get started we always pick one of your five or six minute videos that I can play for them to hear to get motivation for their recovery so thank you
i don’t know what kinda rehab u talk about but just as a person u r very motivated and motivating regardless
Preach it Trent!!! Amen!
Thank you for your advice Trent Shelton
Amen, Thank you Trent for sharing 🙏🏾
💯💯 percent facts ,so true ,one 💕 love jah 🙏 blessings peace
Everything you said is so on point !! Thank you because I really needed to hear this today !!
I went through the same thing you talkin about and that's why we no longer friends.
I love people but have very few friends that ain't really build with..if they are not about constant growth..... It hurt s but you have to distance yourself from bad energy....cause there energy will mess with your progress. Most of the time I'm solo or around people who are positive and winning.
Thank you for your voice 💜
So glad my sponsor found you and making this part of my journey, your asking everything I already knew but need to hear being new in recovery
Man, I seen this in myself and in my past friendships. #5 connected with me. Sometime when you hurting, all you can is spit venom to anyone who can hear. It’s makes sense for me why I had friends fade overtime. Thanks for the video, it made me looked at my faults
Thank you for this! Truth
Blessings & Shalom 🙏
Real talk!! Love you’re content 💯💯
Thank you I wasn't realizing the extent of the speech and behavior patterns that I was continuing due to my circumstances,and how dangerous and toxic it was becoming.thank God for your message,it can't reverse the damage that has already been done to my character but it can't help me to move forward now and be my true self thank you very much
Thank you for this message!💯🔥
Beautiful positive vibes ✨ 💖 💕 keep striving for greatness ✨
It's quiet sad, some of my friends deserted me when they noticed I had a break through. These are people I shared my heart bugging issues and possible ways to go about it.
"Humans are very difficult to handle "
I separate myself I stand alone my army is unseen but felt in a mighty way
If they are not supporting they should not be important right dad
I am dealing with this situation right now. And they surely are showing up their true colours now.
best advice ever its an eye opener.i know some of these people and doing exactly what you say it is very disapointing but God always reveal the truth. keep educating the people the world need more people like you keep up the good work and God blessing upon your life Trinidad and Tobago ❤❤❤❤❤❤.
🤔🤲🏽I wished I had this wisdom you gave cause I experienced pretty much everything you quoted. So called friends turned on me as it was a "PLOT"😲..I was in disbelief and your absolutely RIGHT. Had I not had DIVINE PROTECTION🤲🏽🕊️😇, I WOULDN'T BE HERE TODAY 🙏🏽❤️🗣️LISTEN TO THIS MESSAGE TIL YOU GET IT. TRUTH💯💯