Remove Toxic People From Your Life | Trent Shelton
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- There are always people in our life that are bridges or connections that are leading you to different places in our lives. Make sure that the people that you keep in your life are bridges to positive things in your life. You need to remove toxic people from your life.
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Trent Shelton is a former NFL wide receiver and author of The Greatest You: Face Reality, Release Negativity, and Live Your Purpose. Trent has collaborated with powerful voices over the years including Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Tom Bilyeu, Gerard Adams, and many more.
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"You let a broken person break you" Dayumm, I felt that on another level 😭😩
Right!! I felt that to my soul.
Amen!
Same here!!!
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Have a your number I need help to start my day off right
At 63yrs old I'm finally standing in my own truth, not feeling guilty, and especially not letting my family's abuse/toxicity hold preference in my life. Better late than never.
#REHABTIME
Facts!!
Keep your head high up sois courageuse
I’m proud for you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Amen I just turned 52 & didn’t start until I was 49 getting rid of all of the toxicity. Family included
“Never feel guilty about protecting your heart” don’t let people’s judgements of you define who you are
I wish I had this kind of advice before. Glad I have it now.
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means nothing some people will judge you for walking away from a situation that is so bad and wrong for you only because they try to normalize things that they do that is wrong.
I was told I was cold as ice because I was being treated bad by multiple people in a past relationships and it was effecting my health on so many levels. Well the opinion of a stranger
You can’t change people, even if you love them you have to remove them from your life and sometimes that’s hard but you will be much better off and time will heal !
Mary H.- At first it’s difficult, but much like driving out from under a storm- everything improves.
Removing toxic people was the best decision to protect my peace. I can breathe better, have less anxiety and stress. I’m happier.
Yep, but ship people are a parasite and they need to hang on for life
“Don’t let the history keep you in the misery” 💯
Amen
AMEN 🙏🏾💯
AMEN 🙏🏾💯
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Yes 🙌🏼 amen🙌🏼
Im an ex crack smoker years ago. So this neighbor of mine asked me if I wanted to do a line. My response back to him was, NO SIR I HAVE BEEN DELIVERED FROM DRUGS. U are ✅ right. Don't allow ur self to be entertained with people who are not going in ur direction. Im a leader not a follower. Eagles don't fly with chickens!!!!
MR. DECEMBER LIKE YOU I WAS AN ADDICT TO EVERYTHING. , CRACK,METH,AA, 💊, PEOPLE, YOU NAME IT I'VE PROBABLY DONE IT.😭 HAD TO LOSE IT ALL TO GAIN MY SOUL. MY IDENTITY. MY LIFE. MY HOME. MY PEACE 🕊️ . LIKE TRENT SAID. PROTECT YOUR HEART,SOUL,AND MIND LIKE YOU WOULD FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE 🙏🙏
@@dawnmichele6847 u got that right
Happy that you're clean now!
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Amazing response to negative, keep soaring as an eagle, God bless you 💕
Don't let someone's perception of you become your reality! Straight up, it's Rehab Time!
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I won’t!!!! I’m done w these toxic fools….God’ll get em!!!!!
@@camisnyder3460 hard facts people swear they can g et away with anything nono nothing is working like that if someone does You wrong karma will comeback to them 10 or 20 times harder be careful own You treat people 🤭
They take are kindness as a weakness . They take over and toxic people suck the life out of you . Need to protect my peace straight up now
Keep listening to Trent, he'll help you thru it!
Likewise sis. Choose you 🙂
Real talk ‼️ it's like you can't be nice to anyone anymore 2021 I'm not allowing people to use me no more I'm done ✅
Misery love company
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"I REFUSE TO LOSE MYSELF IN HELPING PEOPLE"....Lord knows I needed to hear this at this moment 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Me too, I felt like he was directly speaking to me on that!
I stay in my lane 2021
I feel you
@@Rodogg7787 ct actYou can't help someone if they don't want to help or do different tjier own self I learned u can not change people when I was in my 20tus that don't get u any where but disappointed u can only change your self I've helped people and it's not worth even trying alll I get is the worst of the stick
Have wisdom we are to help people
"Stop letting people make you feel guilty for you choosing you"!! EVERYTHING is on point!!! I needed to hear this, especially since the one who broke me is trying to come back in.
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I'm in the eye of the change. I've been verbally abused off and on for 19 years, I'm at a hotel room because I don't want to go home. He's not even home and I don't want to be there. Bad memories every time I turn my head. Searching for an apartment, very scarce but I'll continue to fight for the change!!!! I really want the change!!!! All alone with no family! Pray for me 😔🙏
"Don't let the history keep you in the misery."
"You let a broken person break you."
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So true
That line hit me hard...Don't let the history keep you in the misery...yeah, it did.
So true
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That second one smacked me in the face
“When you keep toxic things in your life, you’re going to feel toxic!” Preach!
This is sooo true! I feel you 💯 on that because to stay in the toxic relationship means you automatically become toxic by accepting low standard of treatment or just plain old sad unrequited love or you guys are fighting each other often, that which in itself creates the toxicity too! You are so on point!
So true had a frind allways made me feal good about my self but she passed away
@Angela Grainger I’m sorry you are to hear you are going through this. I care about anyone going through domestic violence. Here is an anonymous hotline if you need help/resources/safe escape if you need that. You always have a choices, but also realize that it can much more difficult during quarantine. Here is a number: 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE) . God bless you!
@@gloriacasey9947 thank you mister Trent my name is Mary White and I just started listening to you inscribed and my son white is white always listens to you and I'm 60 years old he's 29
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"I'd rather be viewed as cold hearted than broken hearted".....Amen👏🏽👏🏽
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Wow! I really needed this message. My ex was trying to inch his way back and I blocked it. This message I know was not a coincidence. I truly believe the universe sent this to me. I'm on a new path and now ready to transform. Thank you. 🥰
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“You have to learn how to guard your heart.” You can’t control others, but you can control how you react!
Yes!!
yes!
I've been cutting the cords on a lot of dead end relationships, jobs, friends, and even family... The weight that's being dropped off me is letting me fly higher
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You are right !!
Amen!!!
Hey James, You have to let FAMILY GO!!!!
I made the decision to remove what's causing me STRESS and any negative vibes without any regrets.
I need a shirt that says that.... “I would rather be viewed as cold hearted then live broken hearted” 🔥❤️🙏
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I'd rather be viewed as cold hearted than live broken hearted!...A philosophy I've lived by 😁
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Good one 😄
Just hanging around certain people, brings back the vibe of the old you
So true!!!
I agree those flash back Start to come back.
@@vanessabell7154 always
A situation happened recently with a family member, I let a broken person get to me . I cut all ties with my family because I’ve helped at least one realize who they are and basically acted as if they didn’t know what I was talking about, if their not helping me “over floweth” my cup then I don’t need them , their just some energy vampires , even if they are family.
EXACTLY! .... Just went through same thing ... I'm too old for that mess.
My,my,my...Do not let a"broken person" break you..Powerful!
I’ve had to get rid of toxic relationships so I can continue to protect my peace!
Me too! It is very peaceful to not have certain people in my life than to fight to maintain a relationship with a toxic or selfish person.
My mother is toxic and I want to run far away but I can’t because she’s elderly and I have to take care of her.
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Yes we need peace to live a good life! 100
@@idontcare1481 nice of you to still want to even help. But that doesn't mean that you need too swallow her toxic stuff. Try to talk with her, maybe with time your relationship will get better. Good luck
Certain things aren't meant to be repaired! 🎯
I feel this so much.. Sometimes it's hard when it's family.
Especially when it's your own mom.
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@@marciejones6873 or pops
Never make it hard to choose you first!
Family is enbarassing and humiliating even when we can't share the hurt and pain with anyone!
I'm done!
Toxic people don't make your life better, it only hurts your heart & soul. So we need to protect us! Especially our hearts! What do you do when it is your family members that are toxic in your life? Then what Trent? Love you! Praying 🙏for your mom too! ♥️ Peace! Have a blessed day! ♥️
You gotta know what you don't need. Posion look at it like that. If you must go around them say like holidays find that family member that you know isn't even close to be that way. It starts with respect first being that you need to respect yourself enough to know that anything that is harming you, disrespect you and is all and all toxic is never good for you. I had some people that I don't care to deal with on my best or bad day. Some people are so miserable that when you know you don't need the bullcrap they bring and you deserve better their own toxic and dysfunctional habits like trying to manipulate people in a way that their own unresolved issues like not being able to respect other people who don't and shouldn't have to fool with their drama and negitivity will have them doing the most toxic shady messy things. Don't keep company with Misery or unhealthy people who try to normalized toxic, disrespectful behaviors. We all have some people even people who be trying to call us friends who are not good for us on all levels and we know we need to walk away.
@@ladybug6055 bruhh biggg factsss
@@ladybug6055 bruhh biggg factsss
A mistake over and over and over again is NOW A CHOICE!”
“You’re no living the life God created for you. You’re living the life pain gave you” wow.
This hit me because my siblings always expect me to continue to be strong about things. When I got Cancer and had to leave home they were mad at me because I choose to not getter better around them. All they wanted to do was for me to continue doing what they wanted. Now that I don't have the amenities that I had when I was working they have no use for me and are not here with me. Especially my oldest sister. Now I don't have a car that she can use. It goes on and on. It hurts too.
Why are you saying that
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Exactly! I changed my number and distanced myself from toxic family and frienemies. Life is so peaceful 😎
Yas!!!
They say 'hurt people hurt people," but it's immature people who perpetuate this cycle of hurt. Im'a say NO, more. Thank you!
I can no longer keep having relationship one sided, I’m guarding my heart from this day forward. I won’t be cruel toward anyone. I have one heart and I will guard it. Put some respect on it...
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I felt that.” We keep seeing a person for what they don’t want to become”
👁 was removing everyone that 👁 thought was toxic and 👁 realized 👁 was going to be alone with no one. Let them remove themselves. They will but remember: God loves all. 😍😘💕
I was HOMELESS and nooooo one cared not even my FAMILY...straight UP
Unfortunately I walked away from what I wanted to be Love...
But it was TOXICITY..
I just pray God continues to heal me..
I'm right there with you Sis...And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose - Romans 8:28
@@savedbygrace555 Amen Yes!!!
And because I know that we didn't want the same thing.... which is GOD FIRST!!!
The TOXICITY was getting worse..
He will. Love God, and yourself. You will feel better eventually.
@@keierrareenell877 thank you
@@hisdaughter5700 You are most welcome. Blessings to you.
“Above all the things that you guard, safeguard your heart, For out of it are the sources of life” ~Proverbs 4:23
AMEN!! WORD OF GOD SPEAK!!
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I also read that. Amen 🙏
Absolute truth Martin! 🙏🏻❤️
Truth
" we keep seeing people for who they don't want to be"- WOW that is deep.
" I can control what I accept"- control is my main word for the year 2021!💪
" just because it looks good for your life doesn't mean it is good for your life"
"Certain things are not meant to be repaired"
"You let a broken person break you"
Hearing this video strengthens your level of discernment if you really listen and hear God!
Wow! Control what you will accept, that is big and important and NEEDED
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You let a broken person, break you. Truth. 🔥
Thats right... You can't run your race trying to carry people that don't want to go where you are going. You can love people without hanging out with them every day 🙏🏻Be blessed today family!
True facts
I so needed to hear that today. I've had to leave the toxic people from my life. I can feel every word you are saying. I need to work on burning bridges soon. 1000%
@@davidgourdine8916 Right? Coulda saved a few years wasted if I got it sooner.
@@tammywooc150 you can do it. His grace empowers it, and He says, “I want to give you something healthier.”
So true
I lived like that for many years with an abusive husband. When I left, I left everything, a good job, friends and my home. Plus it caused financial hardship. But I made it and my life is so much better. I am 65 and I am finally happy.
You go girl !!!!
God bless you! 👍
Sometimes it takes a min but it's better late than never right? I've also been where u were, it's not easy just to leave an abusive relationship, u have to plan a lot and plan everything just right or ur taking that big chance of them finding us and hurt us or possibly kill us
So true - never feel guilty for protecting your heart, your integrity, your truths, your true self. We have to guard our hearts so that we are not taken advantage of, not abused, scammed, conned. Better to be cold hearted than broken hearted. Have strong boundaries. Cut off toxic people who lead you astray. God bless you 🙏
I am so happy for you
Amen, sometimes people are scared to let others go due to being lonely but lonely is better when you have peace and happiness. You will attract the people you need in life by doing right and staying positive just like you attract negativity.
The real problem is people don't know they have toxic friends or family because that is just what they know! that's all they know. It takes a person that wants to change to figure out they are in toxic relationships.
I stopped hanging out with a group of friends and my life got better! i started hanging out with them again and my life started getting worse, I looked around and started looking at peoples actions and really listening to what they say. When people say snooty comments once in a while, they don't like you and they talk behind your back. when i did something positive they will say you are not better then us! I start laughing because i know i have to cut them out of my life. Life is Great if you want it to be great
I am 50 years old and I only learned this lesson about 10 years ago. It lead me to having a Stroke before I learned. I've learned to PROTECT MY PEACE! 😃
I'm 51 and I just started to learn this message when I was 50. I had to cut people out my life to live a better life.
This message was needed today. It’s scary cutting people off and feeling alone. It’s worse having the wrong people surrounding you. Thank you for the reminder.
I have cut ties with "friends" who I thought would always be here for me, but I found out quick that I was the only loyal one!
Agree
In this situation now, the lonely feelings are coming but have to keep reminding myself why I didi it
I stay away from negative people
Please pray for me y'all.... I could use some prayer's... For the past few years, I have been dealing with a very toxic situation.... I just pray that God gives me the strength and will power to get rid of this situation 🙏🏽
The lord is your strength. Prayers your way.
@@genstaroxxs Right!! Thank you so much, I really appreciate it 😊
I’m almost 46 yrs old and lived this my whole life! I’ve been emotionally, mentally and physically abused starting at a very young age. I’m not only an sympathetic person; I’m an empathetic person. My two highest spiritual gifts are discernment and mercy so it’s like hello I can see the bad and toxic in you but it’s okay my light can fix you. It’s nearly destroyed me. I’ve been following Rehabtime and Trent for a decade and have always been inspired but I wasn’t done learning life lessons. Now I am realizing I cannot save the world and toxic people not only drain me; they hinder my growth spiritually. Protect your peace was amazing and totally inspiring!! Thank you ♥️
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I totally Feel u!! Much love from Nuremberg, Germany
I once lived that way, it's about me life can be short, 🤗😊💃💃💃💃💃Live you BEST LIFE
Thank you I'm empathy also I feel your information thanks for sharing
Facts 🤨
“Stop Making People Feel Guilty For You Choosing You.” Come On With The Fire.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
And That's What Was Happening!
Cold hearted over broken hearted. Facts.
I saved this in 2022 and it was already 2 years old. But, thank you because it still stands today
When history repeats its self hopefully you'll remember the first lesson
I am getting rid of toxic people but it’s hard when it’s your spouse.
You let a broken person break you 🤧 so true
I let a a broken person break me I felt that. I wasted my time thinking love would change him. "Guard your heart"love that.
I've just recently left a toxic abusive relationship and I definitely needed to hear this today.
Good for you! I wish you the best
Me too!
Is very true
You are very brave and im proud of you. 💪❤⭐🔥
I will GUARD MY HEART ❤
I choose cold-hearted over
Broken hearted 💔
Exactly!
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You’re right man, I don’t wanna have regrets
This man will be blessed 4ever!❤
If you're reading this then so will you if you're not already there then you're on your way. Keep striving for the better and positive you. ✨ You're worth it and deserve it! Much love! ❤
It’s hard to get rid of these people when they’re family....I am 52 but finally learning to love them while letting them go....
So hard
“You Have To Learn How To Guard Your Heart.”‼️
Sometimes we learn the hard way 😒
Absolutely, always guard your heart.
I agree with you !!
@@rosiepartida3570 I agree with you !!
"Don't let the history keep you in the misery"... "You have to guard your heart"
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Bless you my brother so true 2021 I may be cold hearted but not broken hearted. cause I'm guarding my heart and not allowing drugs and alcohol to control me and I'm not allowing toxic people in my life nor take my kindness for weakness ever again....
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“Don’t keep misery because of history” That spoke to me 😊
Yes. I agree!
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This couldn't be more true. I kept someone that was toxic in my life for too long because I loved him. I felt like a new person when I finally decided I had enough.
When you down on life ain't nobody checking for you 💯
Thank you!!! I have removed toxic people from my life and new people, adventure and experiences are coming into my life. I have new plans for myself and a big smile on my face. And, I refuse to go back and want go back to that toxic life. I deserve better!!!
Exactly what I’m going through in this season praying that God keeps revealing and removing 🙏🏽
Removing makes room for restore
This is definitely the time of exposure! We will see this on a much larger platform b4 it's over!
“We keep seeing a person for who they don’t want to become” and “ I would rather be viewed as cold hearted than broken-hearted” 🔥🔥🔥those touched me right there. We as people always carry high hopes and high expectations for those we love. But when you go into things with those expectations we are setting ourselves up to be hurt, let down, to cause us to have trust issues and we tend to take those same problems into every type of relationship we get in because you haven’t moved on and forgave yourself for having a big heart. We have to love ourselves first to know how to love another individual but to also know what you will not accept. It’s not that we may have low self esteem or are insecure it’s just that we love love and we love hard. So having a big heart sometimes can be a gift and a curse all at the same time. But know yourself and love yourself to avoid allowing anything and anyone whose toxic in your life. Don’t be afraid to remove toxicity out of your lives, people will try to make you feel guilty for choosing you but take your life back! Hug yourselves❤️love you rehab family🤗🤗🤗
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So very true !!
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People's perception of you....is not your reality ! Never allow anyone to define you ! ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
Protect what you accept.....never feel guilty for protecting your ❤
🤘🏻💯DONT LIVE IN PERFECTION LIVE IN PROGRESSION💯🤘🏻
I like that!! 🙌🏾💯
I believe this has been the hardest year in my 54 years on this Earth. I pray for all if us to have the personal strength we need 🙏
I’ve learned when you let or keep messy people in your life then you get messy. You are the sum of the 5 people you hang around most!.....don’t let negative people, destructive people drag you down, hurt your spirit, influence your truth!!!! Guard your heart!!!
My,my,my..Pray and ask God to remove the Toxic people and Toxic things out of LIFE😊
I want to say “no regrets”, when ive lived my best life! Progression over perfection. ❤️
This hits home so much. Thank you for this message. Sharing.
You’re right man, I wanna have no regrets
Much love and respect Trent❤
Yeah and not to be used manipulated controlled and discarded or lied to trait of the devil!?
Over, Over, over and over again is called 'Insanity'. If ppl can be with you on your highs, and a true friend will be there for our lows. Some people 'bring us down', bcuz we are at a good high place so they have only will bring you down bcuz that's where they are. Some people are only around for whatever ANGLE they have for the purpose of keeping you around, it's for what they can get from you...anything from money to just flat out taking your energy and happiness. Bcuz misery loves company! Choose wisely my friends and have a great day and make good choices 😊
Yessss I get tired of being used but it's my own fault because I fail to speak up. Thank you Trent
You better preach Trent. Amen 🙏
Yes! You can't get caught up in the history of friendships. Best friend blocked very toxic.
“Don’t let the history keep you in the misery” ‼️ SAY THAT🗣👏🏾 that’s my favorite phrase to live by!
That's right Trent we don't have to accept toxicity!!
Hard truth. It's always best to protect yourself
A better you, a better me, a better us, a better life and a better world!!!
I was just talking about this with my girlfriend I needed this cause I can no longer let toxic ruin my mental health and let it break me down thank you trent I'm protecting my peace and my heart #textcommunity
Thanks trent for another powerful message. Thank God I choose myself and not people. Guard ur heart from negative people. I thank God I remove toxic family and ex and friend s from mylife who never meant me no good
My dad used to say " if we do the same things over and over and get the same results, but EXPECT different results...that it is a sign of insanity ". I think there is truth to his words!
This includes family members! Facts!
When I got divorced, I lost a lot of bridges. A lot of unworthy people left all at once. I have grown a lot since then. Thank you for clearing my eyes while on this journey.
They were not your friends if you think about it its there so call friends WHO believe his or her lies.
I just got a toxic person out of my life last night!
People always changing,keep checking your souroundings.
Trent you are telling nothing but the TRUTH. THANK YOU
I really needed to hear this bc I have a had a hard time letting go of people who don't really care about me. 😔
Me too i have family i let go of cause there just there out of no were when they need or they see u have something they want and all of a sudden there around all nice I had to finally wake up i go to family functions and say my hellos but guard myself and have to remind my self you were invited for a reason for them and remind myself smile but keep careful from them
Your words always hit. 🙏🏻 “don’t let the history keep you in your misery”
i have a toxic friend in my life right now that i wish can change but wont. i do so much in this friendship and not getting that in return im tired of it
Protect what you accept! Guard your heart! Stop letting people in your life who bring you down!
This is the perfect message for the holidays when so many people feel obligated to spend time with toxic family members who hurt them. Thank you so much Trent for coaching me on how to protect my peace. Its been a challenge, but with your support I am finally making progress.
I am setting my boundaries more & more. Some "friends" aren't understanding the change in me. You have to get rid of negativity to feel better about yourself. I have learnt the hard way. "Enough is enough" is what I have decided!!
You are correct. Those so called friends and some family members can't handle it.
Choosing yourself puzzles All, but is understood by very Few.
I'm living the life that pain created for me! I allow people to create the negative storm's in my life!
Refuse to stop anyone who brings you down!
Guard your heart!
Don't accept someone's words! You're going to believe the lies that some broken person told you to break you!