As an INFP, I have a natural aversion to schedules and the rigidity of time-bound commitments. However, it's interesting to note that I am consistently punctual, often arriving at least 10 minutes ahead of schedule. I believe this punctuality stems from the depth of emotions that INFPs experience, as we dislike the idea of being judged for lateness or feeling like we're letting others down.
For me ,it's more the dislike being there early and getting bored 💀 or staying with someone I can't really discuss fluently and being confronted to a silence ... So I'm often right on time, or late Hahahaha
Damn, the last one was SO TRUE that I almost cried. Knowing my personality type made me understand very well why many things have happened in my life. Maybe, if i knew my strength and weaknesses a bit better, probably I would have approached things differently. Now I understand why I am able to see the big picture, more than many other people, and, more importantly, this can be a strength.
Oh my god. I used to interview people for a living. I was fine with it! My subjects and I were always talking about SOMETHING. We'd part ways, I met my deadlines. It was all good. Now, I have associates who want to make small talk....people who don't share my interests or whatever. Then I end up listening and listening and listening. Then I'm exhausted. I currently have the option of going into work or working remotely. I haven't been in for almost two weeks because I keep getting distracted by people who want to shoot the shit about nothing, and avoiding the crazy ass, enabled a-hole who feels threatened by me and tried to get me in trouble with the director. I did nothing to him, so his actions are nonsensical to me. I'm bored by all this now.
These videos are the one thing that finally made my family understand that my differences with their personality types are not mistakes or errors on my part. They believe that i should be a copy of them and any aspect of my personality that doesnt mirror them, is me screwing up in life and failing to be the proper type of person. These videos have finally, after more than 30 years, shown them and made them see that THIS is my personality. Ive made them compare and contrast between our previous history and the videos talking points and understand why things went the way they did. Unfortunately, these videos did not exist 30 years ago. If so, life wouldnt have been as tormenting as it was. But better late than never. Perhaps theyll finally choose to get to know me as the man that i am instead of just viewing me as the sum of all my failures,(failures to be exactly who they wish i was, a copy of them.). I cannot thank you enough.
Don’t worry about family approving of you! ❤❤❤ and the end of the day they may judge because they love you and want you to be ok. But you are okay just the way you are
INFPs are so individualistic and emotional that each one is an immensely different person moment to moment and person to person. That didnt come out the way i thought it would but hopefully u get the point.
INFP's also hate fake stock photos and video. Would much rather see a pretty scenery background while you talk. It was so distracting I had to go back and listen to parts of the video again. lol
4:30 - on the background, you can spot that theblack steel bars of the stairs is literally going inside his hair texture hehehe Is it a Green screen bad edit? if you got me.. im 100% sure its green screen. and the guy was filmed in another location. Just spotted a mistake, and i felt that its should be pointed out for the future.(sorry english is not my native language)
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Great personality type!
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Welcome to the tribe.. ❤
As an INFP, I have a natural aversion to schedules and the rigidity of time-bound commitments. However, it's interesting to note that I am consistently punctual, often arriving at least 10 minutes ahead of schedule. I believe this punctuality stems from the depth of emotions that INFPs experience, as we dislike the idea of being judged for lateness or feeling like we're letting others down.
When I was a child, my mum would be late for everything and it made me want to punctual later in life.
For me ,it's more the dislike being there early and getting bored 💀 or staying with someone I can't really discuss fluently and being confronted to a silence ...
So I'm often right on time, or late Hahahaha
Damn, the last one was SO TRUE that I almost cried.
Knowing my personality type made me understand very well why many things have happened in my life.
Maybe, if i knew my strength and weaknesses a bit better, probably I would have approached things differently.
Now I understand why I am able to see the big picture, more than many other people, and, more importantly, this can be a strength.
Oh my god. I used to interview people for a living. I was fine with it! My subjects and I were always talking about SOMETHING. We'd part ways, I met my deadlines. It was all good. Now, I have associates who want to make small talk....people who don't share my interests or whatever. Then I end up listening and listening and listening. Then I'm exhausted. I currently have the option of going into work or working remotely. I haven't been in for almost two weeks because I keep getting distracted by people who want to shoot the shit about nothing, and avoiding the crazy ass, enabled a-hole who feels threatened by me and tried to get me in trouble with the director. I did nothing to him, so his actions are nonsensical to me. I'm bored by all this now.
Thank you so much for sharing!
(great video but the thumbnail is terrifying and unclickable change that and its gonna blow up easily) good luck!
Thank you for the suggestion!
These videos are the one thing that finally made my family understand that my differences with their personality types are not mistakes or errors on my part. They believe that i should be a copy of them and any aspect of my personality that doesnt mirror them, is me screwing up in life and failing to be the proper type of person. These videos have finally, after more than 30 years, shown them and made them see that THIS is my personality. Ive made them compare and contrast between our previous history and the videos talking points and understand why things went the way they did. Unfortunately, these videos did not exist 30 years ago. If so, life wouldnt have been as tormenting as it was. But better late than never. Perhaps theyll finally choose to get to know me as the man that i am instead of just viewing me as the sum of all my failures,(failures to be exactly who they wish i was, a copy of them.). I cannot thank you enough.
Don’t worry about family approving of you! ❤❤❤ and the end of the day they may judge because they love you and want you to be ok. But you are okay just the way you are
My relationship with my best friend recently got kind of one-sided :c bc of her boyfriend...
Alright!
INFPs are so individualistic and emotional that each one is an immensely different person moment to moment and person to person. That didnt come out the way i thought it would but hopefully u get the point.
yes! (not #1, that was dumb), but Small talk = a nightmare! Finishing tasks: so hard. Ok... all the others really, except for number 1. LOL
Okay!
One time I almost flunked my grades because I don't, or more like couldn't pass projects in time
INFP's also hate fake stock photos and video. Would much rather see a pretty scenery background while you talk. It was so distracting I had to go back and listen to parts of the video again. lol
Thanks for sharing!
now give me a video on ways how to solve these problems
Will do!
I feel personally attacked on 7. 😆
Literally, one time I went to a library and got bunch of books never to read a full page in peace......
So eerily accurate 😅
Glad it was relatable!
i am ENFP, but i know these struggles too
The best friends for us are INFJ and ISFP.
Not detailed oriented and struggle. Cant decide on a plan and get frustrated and not do anything.
Small talk makes me want to hurl myself into the sun!!
OMG not only am I ADHD but not finishing tasks is an INFP trait…UGH!!!
4:30 - on the background, you can spot that theblack steel bars of the stairs is literally going inside his hair texture hehehe
Is it a Green screen bad edit? if you got me.. im 100% sure its green screen. and the guy was filmed in another location.
Just spotted a mistake, and i felt that its should be pointed out for the future.(sorry english is not my native language)
all of these are so relatalbe im going to cry
So accurate😢
That was scary right 🤔 .
Wow
Sounds like my gf
The thumbnails are awful
This video made me cry..🥹i was able to relate to everything in this video🥲😅