Sad. And prob has the type of “Mom” that swears she was a good mom. Unhealed, toxic, hateful, and proud. I really want and encourage ppl to heal and it’s NOT just the blk community I’ve seen toxicity in almost every race.
I really appreciate her self-awareness and acknowledging how her choices impacted her children. I hope she beats her addiction and goes on to live a happy, healthy life.
@@Talk2thahand24 I have a family full of addicts sadly. That's been my experience. I had an uncle that I hadn't seen in ten years opt to go shoot up instead of visit with me for ten minutes.
Young lady, Thank you SO much for being vulnerable and open. As you talked I felt ur energy and I couldn't help but to pray for u. You have a purpose in this life, for good. This is NOT ur path. You ARE able to move forward. FREE from all the chaos and confusion! U are important and needed. You got this! Your CHILDREN WILL be great! You will get thru this. #Put forth effort daily and often. Thank u for bringing this to us! Appreciate the way u handle ur guest's vulnerable moments with care and respect. Keep up the good works!
I commend her for being so honest and transparent. She’s broken but don’t know just how bad. She didn’t realize and still don’t realize how bad that situation with the pimp was. Lord please heal /deliver this lady and have her serve you the rest of her days!!
I pray that this young lady sees better days and her family will understand and truly forgive her. Also , I hope she can forgive herself and be drug free.
She is so numb off of these pills that she made bad choices. She left her children to take a charge for a man. Her children went through difficulties, and are now wrapped up in drug life. She even took another charge for one of her sons. Nothing good can come from this. She needs rehab before it’s too late. She has one small child she’s raising at home (who was born in prison) . She needs to think clearly. But she can’t because her mind is clouded by the pills. Statutory rape, and being pimped out at a young age has obviously done a number on her. Even though she downplays it. I pray she gets it together.🙏🏾
Ain’t no mfkn way, they would have known my husband’s momma job, where his siblings stay, his daddy’s side piece info bout time I got done talking. Ain’t no way I’m hell I’m leaving 4 kids to save a man 😂
I tell a man, don't count on me to go to jail for you, I ain't snitching but I'm not going down for you!!!!! U just a next dude... I'm just a next woman...
You weren't stupid...you were influenced by your heart and sometimes that can put us in bad situations. There's nothing wrong with PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST! If you don't do that, ain't no way you gone be able to be there for those who depend on you. You are beautiful and worthy! Keep going and tell your story with pride because it's powerful and can help someone if it hasn't already. You got this! @designer2turnt404
Hold up lol she left her 4 kids 😮 like huh? That’s was shocking to hear. But this women is strong asf! Before she started crying I thought she had no emotions towards this thing here. I wish her the best. It just seems like she’s a very loving person and was looking for that in return. I hope she beats her addiction …
Ppl be quick to say I could never but she can hear your story and say I could never. My point is we so quick to judge. This happens everyday this real life hopefully her story can help the next young lady to do better we all have demons we fighting some stronger and harder than others. Stay strong sis keep fighting you got this 💯💯❤️❤️
Life taught me this recently: God , time and space combined will make us all experiences the same things at least once. NOBODYS EXPERIENCE IS ACTUALLY UNIQUE we just all live different ways until the same things happen. Long story short. I can see myself in everyone's story now❤
Natira you are one strong woman! Thank you for telling your story and we need a part 2! Your story should be on TV - you have no idea how getting your life story out there will save so many young women! @Trapping Anonymous we need a part 2!
Thank u so much I appreciate u reaching out to me giving me so much love and support, it made me feel so good inside to know that I’m loved and that people care ❤
I wish to express my appreciation for your wonderful guest for her complete honesty in sharing your story. The host is a phenomenal interviewer the ability to engage the guests and ask pertinent questions this is a teachable moment!!!
I've said I'm not going to do certain things for a man but I did! When you want attention,help,love, male company and just someone there for you,you might do something extreme for a man that's not worth it at all! AMEN!
She’s hurting. I’m sure the guilt is really got a hold of her. Momma we can never go back and fix the past., just focus on your future..because you do have a bright future. Talk to God, he’s listening. Prayers and healing for you and your family❤
Thank you all for liking and supporting my podcast. This community just keeps growing. I asked this question on our IG. Would you do a year in prison for the person you love the most? 🤔
it depends on multiple variables; age, person, family dynamics, education level, finances, environment, etc. Presently, no! Keep your mouth shut, exercise your Miranda Rights, and I got some $ for counsel.
first interview I felt a connection . Definitely wanted this one to be longer … keep pushing Queen our stories makes us unique … God is still working on you don’t give in … keep fighting
Your story is going to minister to these young ladies out here who are going through the same things. Also, think about writing a book about your life. Stay encouraged and continue to lean on God for strength. He can turn everything around in your favor. I love you!
I literally subscribed to this channel yesterday when I saw her Facebook post saying she was going to be on here. You are a gifted interviewer with a kind heart ❤️.
The woman was nevessary at home that man was suppose to do the time..he made his bed lay in it .....that family lost so much more with her gone.traumatic
It's sad cuz she felt guilty for leaving the kids behind the first time and now she on her way back to prison and the baby is now 5yrs old and gonna experience the hardship as well. They definitely need a better, stable, loving home 😔
So blessed I had a good foundation & support system. Thank God my family had common sense & loved me enough to instill confidence in me. I could've ended up just like her but I was able 2 see through the BS bc my family made sure I loved myself & showed what love really looks like. I hope she finds her peace & forgives herself. We are all human, not perfect at all but it's nvr too late 2 change 4 the better.
Yeeeeea ain’t notice that good! But it makes me sad that a women’s mental can be at a place where they would sacrifice themselves for a man that would even put them in that position. Of lack of man!!
I see you so differently now in a good way. We never know what each other went through, how we would handle situations but I love you and appreciate this story❗️
Praying for your continued healing and blessings 🙏🏾❤️ Im so proud of you. Your story needs to be heard and will help others. There are many women in prison doing time for taking a charge for a man they loved and were too loyal to.
@@designer2turnt404 I'm sending you so much love, I'm in tears watching this. You're going to make it, you're going to be alright ❤️❤️❤️. I will be in touch with you. ❤️
Baby girl if you see this comment you are LOVED. You will help so many people by your story and transparency. I pray you heal totally from everything you endured and continue to flourish. Be blessed
Thank God you don't look like what you've been through. Keep your head up, & stay strong, beautiful. Who knew that you had been through all of this ish. 💪🏾❣️👏🏿🤗 Thank you for sharing your story with us❤
I remember my ex Osiris Lester told me to get a gun for him and report it stolen thank god my discernment told me not to do it ! Plus my aunt was like girl are you crazy as hell !? No real man would ever put you in a position where your life can be over
He does great interviews! Keep up the good work! It’s so many of us out here that have the same stories and it only takes one things to help a person going through something.
God Bless you Queen. Work on healing the little girl that has been, hurt, abused and broken. You are Love, Life and light. I pray you work through your addiction. And i pray the best for you and your children. May God continue to cover you all. ❤
I appreciate her honesty and it’s not a cockiness that she is personifying it’s real life! I understand her completely even down to the baby! I overcame the same addiction to P’s and it is extremely hard to get off because of the sickness associated with it. I pray God bless you sis because I’ve been clean since 11/2018. She is speaking facts y’all better listen!
This Lady was really and entrepreneur if she had been mentored,correct! She had to be very smart! She was offered scholarships, but again this is how a man, that don’t care! Seize the opportunity and pray on vulnerable women! I pray that God heals her wounds! 🙌🏼💯❤️
35:05 " they holding it down." lol wooowww. So, as a mom, you didn't tell them to get a legit job?! I've yet to hear her say anything like that at all. Lol woowww. Those poor kids!
I’m sorry that you loved that man more than you loved yourself enough to take a charge for him! It’s truly sad to see my queens devalue themselves for a man😢
She doesn’t even know how impactful her story is . & how stand up she is as a person . It’s so messed up how she was done and I hope she can forgive herself , she’s taking a lot of ownership for stuff that was done to her . Like 12/13 going through what she went through , she didn’t deserve that . I know she thinks she says her kids didn’t deserve it , she didn’t deserve it either
@@designer2turnt404 sugarpudding.... if I could reach out to you and heal you with my hugs , I'd do it as long as you needed it. Best of luck on your healing and sobriety ❤️ you got this shyt sis🖤 do this for you and your babies, they deserve to know they can turn it around as well. ASÈ
I had my first child the day after my 16th birthday! I dropped out of school to take care of my child that I made! There is no way that your child calls your mother mom unless you weren’t being present in his or her life ! Anyway I went back to school for my GED when I was 32(you’re never too old) had another son 18 years after I had my second child (my one and only daughter) moved to Las Vegas from Illinois to give my children a better life. Had my second son at 36 and went straight to trade school and graduated as a medical assistant. Had my third son at 38 and decided that I make more money working from home as a benefit advisor! And believe me I’ve been through some shit as a young girl but the point is to get yourself together for your child!
This story hit different keep being strong but one day it going to come to a point where you might rail road your self if you dont start forgiving yourself. Set boundaries for yourself. Show them who and what they can be. Keep trying to reach them mentally they still need you. It sound like they in survival mode because the lack of trust and they may still feel like they are alone. Bless you on your journey
Sister you got this take it one day at a time . Forgive yourself . Keep utilizing your resources in your home state focus on your children ,but stay strong you got this . Life and success is what you make write a book . Your testimony will inspire others by your story amd strength keep going amd pushing in life. SENDING YOU LIGHT AND HEALING TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THERAPY QUEEN in your local state stay blessed ❤
I pray that you find redemption and healing. You are actually the best person to tell someone else in your shoes what not to do because you lived it! Please give yourself patience and grace. You were an abused child, and you are deserving of self-love.
He et you take that charge.??!! Men abusing you all of your life. My heart hurts for this woman, no one deserves this. kind of disappointment so early in life. She keeps justifying by saying, "but he never beat me.' Is that the bar? Im holding you and your kiddos in my heart right now. I hope they pull through, they have a strong mama. Thank you Christy for uplifting and encouraging her
@ 18:09 .. baby girl.. I pray you get that under control. I hope that in the meantime you don’t get the counterfeits, and that your liver can hold on long enough for you to get it right!❤ you are keeping it all the way 100 and we all appreciate that.
Any man that allows his wife/gf/bm or any woman he claims he loves, do prison time for him is a coward! Idc how much time he's faces versus her. It was stupid for her to do also 🤦🏾♀️
Going to prison for somebody else in my 30s and I have four kids already. That’s wild. I shouldn’t be judging, but this story sounds so dumb. And I’m not surprised he left her and the kids. I knew it was coming from the beginning of the episode. 🤦🏾♀️
Most black men think this way,it just shows up in little ways but you have to be strong enough to accept reality and from now on be strategic when dealing with black men! AMEN!
@@diamondjack-cooper5322first of all most black men are not some jail birds … don’t date criminals and you won’t be in a situation like that. It’s that simple
Iam going through the same struggle w pills u are not alone, iam single black mom with to kids of my own . It felt so good to hear your story and struggle. I pray for your journey on to recovering ❤
Thanks for listening to my story and I help u get help with your addiction as well because it ain’t easy it’s going on 14 years for me and I still feel like I can’t stop but hopefully it’ll be soon and it won’t be too late ❤
I’m 48 years old and I have four kids ages 32,31,12 and 10 and I’m not leaving my kids to take a charge for no man! Shidd the popo’s don’t even have to take me to the station to question me because I’m telling them everything they want to know in the car because I’m definitely going home to my babies !
I hope she finds and wants the appropriate level of treatment. If your current program is not working, step up to something more intensive. Her story of trauma and generational curses have taken a toll on her families lives. She has hope which is a great antidote for self forgiveness. I wish her and her family peace, truth and a new beginning. I also hope this interview doesn’t interfere with her pending case.
You got to start with self first mom… stop the pills it’s programs & help out here.. & until u do that, thats when u can ask for forgiveness & start a new beginning with the ur kids because now ur thinking clearly! Action speaks louder than words.. show up while u have the chance mom.. loyalty starts with self first!
🚨🚨He was prob paying for everything and he prob said he would make sure she was straight and that she would prob just get probation for first time offenders -It doesn’t work like that. He prob knew she would be in a different type of jail since she was pregnant. 👉🏽👉🏽She didn’t care about herself, her other 5 kids, or the new baby if she risked all 7 of their futures for one person. Choosing a man over your kids. That’s crazy. They’re gonna have all sorts of PTSD from this whole ordeal.
Wow wow wow . Knew you from a baby and didn’t know this story. 😢 you know our family love you always . Your story will help all these young girls out here
I feel for you lady you’re are speaking for a lot of women that have made the wrong choices and I can relate in some ways just keep on living beautiful ❤
This was very sad to watch. I will pray that the good Lord will touch the hearts of her children so that one day they will forgive their mother and rebuild their relationships. She was young herself but I know that generational curses can be broken. I will keep this family in prayer 🙏🏾
I was Employed by a Correctional Facility all women’s and so many women find out they are pregnant inside…. I herd so many stories & Testimonies on how they Ended up inside Made me thankful and grateful I never ended up being bars, But I’d you think about it any tire is abuse is like being Shackled spiritually…
Please follow @trappinanonymous on Instagram and DM if you have a story that needs to be told.
Ladies, no real man would let you take a charge for him.
Was literally just typing this.
This is not a lie!
Facts.
Period!!
She loved the whong man😢
She says she failed her children, but ultimately, having a baby by an adult at 13 she was failed also. Break the cycle girl. You’re strong ❤
I really love this page, I also had my son at 13. Forced into marriage by 17 while being pregnant with my 3rd child. Life was definitely lifing!
Wow you need to tell your story@@Alphaluv1
Aa
@@Alphaluv1omg whaaat?! Sorry to hear that! Just wow. Was the man you married your children’s father?
Sad. And prob has the type of “Mom” that swears she was a good mom. Unhealed, toxic, hateful, and proud. I really want and encourage ppl to heal and it’s NOT just the blk community I’ve seen toxicity in almost every race.
I really appreciate her self-awareness and acknowledging how her choices impacted her children. I hope she beats her addiction and goes on to live a happy, healthy life.
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Yes it was refreshing to hear. I'll give this to addicts, they're usually very self aware of their feelings, it's your feels they don't care about.
@@one_ice_cold_chiqcrazy but true
@@Talk2thahand24 I have a family full of addicts sadly. That's been my experience. I had an uncle that I hadn't seen in ten years opt to go shoot up instead of visit with me for ten minutes.
Chile, I'd have that man turned in faster than a Diddy settlement. FOH.
Lmaoo that’s so funny this is the first comment that made me laugh thanks for watching my story u are appreciated ❤
trust
@@designer2turnt404😅😅😅
@@TrappinAnonymous that comment had me laughing so hard 😂😂😂😂
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🚨A real man wouldn’t let u take a charge for him. He was a coward.
Especially when she already had 4 kids. That’s sick
I wouldn't even date a man of that caliber
The husband lawyer on demon time made sure she took the charge thats savage
U noticed that part right?
Yeah that was crazy as hell
@TrappinAnonymous That was some.wild shit he was like shit you gone take what we agreed on smh
@@KiaWilliams-sc9jd Super crazy I swear
exactly! a whole different evil
Young lady, Thank you SO much for being vulnerable and open. As you talked I felt ur energy and I couldn't help but to pray for u. You have a purpose in this life, for good. This is NOT ur path. You ARE able to move forward. FREE from all the chaos and confusion! U are important and needed. You got this! Your CHILDREN WILL be great! You will get thru this. #Put forth effort daily and often.
Thank u for bringing this to us! Appreciate the way u handle ur guest's vulnerable moments with care and respect. Keep up the good works!
Thank u so much u are appreciated ❤
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I pray she can get counseling. Shes forgiveable and redeemable.
I commend her for being so honest and transparent. She’s broken but don’t know just how bad. She didn’t realize and still don’t realize how bad that situation with the pimp was. Lord please heal /deliver this lady and have her serve you the rest of her days!!
I pray that this young lady sees better days and her family will understand and truly forgive her. Also , I hope she can forgive herself and be drug free.
Thank u so very much ❤
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Thank you for being so gentle with this woman❤
She is so numb off of these pills that she made bad choices. She left her children to take a charge for a man. Her children went through difficulties, and are now wrapped up in drug life. She even took another charge for one of her sons.
Nothing good can come from this. She needs rehab before it’s too late. She has one small child she’s raising at home (who was born in prison) . She needs to think clearly. But she can’t because her mind is clouded by the pills.
Statutory rape, and being pimped out at a young age has obviously done a number on her. Even though she downplays it.
I pray she gets it together.🙏🏾
Thanks for listening to my story and also for your feedback ❤
Ain’t no mfkn way, they would have known my husband’s momma job, where his siblings stay, his daddy’s side piece info bout time I got done talking. Ain’t no way I’m hell I’m leaving 4 kids to save a man 😂
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Okay
😂😂😂
Yea, I was shocked to hear her say that she walked away from her 4 kids. That was a horrible decision.
I tell a man, don't count on me to go to jail for you, I ain't snitching but I'm not going down for you!!!!! U just a next dude... I'm just a next woman...
She needed guidance. 😢 She's loyal
Thank u so much for listening to my story and at times I’m too loyal but it was a lesson learned lol thanks for the support and the feedback ❤
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Loyalty and stupidity different
@@Adoretayyyy thanks for ya feedback and yes I was very stupid it was definitely a lesson learned thanks for watching my story ❤️
You weren't stupid...you were influenced by your heart and sometimes that can put us in bad situations. There's nothing wrong with PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST! If you don't do that, ain't no way you gone be able to be there for those who depend on you. You are beautiful and worthy! Keep going and tell your story with pride because it's powerful and can help someone if it hasn't already. You got this! @designer2turnt404
Hold up lol she left her 4 kids 😮 like huh? That’s was shocking to hear. But this women is strong asf! Before she started crying I thought she had no emotions towards this thing here. I wish her the best. It just seems like she’s a very loving person and was looking for that in return. I hope she beats her addiction …
Thank u so much for those kind words u are appreciated ❤
God bless this woman 🙏🏽
Strong?? You mean stupid.
@@designer2turnt404Are you planning on having a TH-cam channel?
It’s hard out here for women
Ppl be quick to say I could never but she can hear your story and say I could never. My point is we so quick to judge. This happens everyday this real life hopefully her story can help the next young lady to do better we all have demons we fighting some stronger and harder than others. Stay strong sis keep fighting you got this 💯💯❤️❤️
Thanks for listening to my story ❤
Ummm...I COULD NEVER...and clearly neither could she.
She's in her 30s doing this ish ..wtf.
Life taught me this recently: God , time and space combined will make us all experiences the same things at least once. NOBODYS EXPERIENCE IS ACTUALLY UNIQUE we just all live different ways until the same things happen.
Long story short. I can see myself in everyone's story now❤
@@FromtheeyesofShaunI couldn't have said it better myself ❤
Natira you are one strong woman! Thank you for telling your story and we need a part 2! Your story should be on TV - you have no idea how getting your life story out there will save so many young women! @Trapping Anonymous we need a part 2!
Thank u so much I appreciate u reaching out to me giving me so much love and support, it made me feel so good inside to know that I’m loved and that people care ❤
@@designer2turnt404 you have been through so much! But so transparent and sweet!! You are powerful!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾 praying for you!!
The burden of the black woman.
The burden of that black woman. She a fool.
It’s the burden of billions of women.
It’s the Burden of millions of women.
I wish to express my appreciation for your wonderful guest for her complete honesty in sharing your story.
The host is a phenomenal interviewer the ability to engage the guests and ask pertinent questions this is a teachable moment!!!
I can’t make any sense of this. There is no damn way I’m taking ‘ish for no man. My husband would never let me take no charge for him. He’s a sucker
Straight SUCKKA
🗣Not even for my husband. No such thing as loyalty when you play with my kids or my freedom. Sayonara mf. And many women do this.
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I've said I'm not going to do certain things for a man but I did!
When you want attention,help,love, male company and just someone there for you,you might do something extreme for a man that's not worth it at all!
AMEN!
She’s hurting. I’m sure the guilt is really got a hold of her. Momma we can never go back and fix the past., just focus on your future..because you do have a bright future. Talk to God, he’s listening. Prayers and healing for you and your family❤
Thank you all for liking and supporting my podcast. This community just keeps growing. I asked this question on our IG. Would you do a year in prison for the person you love the most? 🤔
Do you have a background with being incarcerated for an extended period of time?? Just curious, great podcast by the way ❤
@@ayana188I’ve actually never been to prison before lol why do you ask?
Absolutely not.
it depends on multiple variables; age, person, family dynamics, education level, finances, environment, etc. Presently, no! Keep your mouth shut, exercise your Miranda Rights, and I got some $ for counsel.
I won't do an hour. Now if I lose my freedom for having to end date somebody, it'd be because of my baby(11) only.
What an authentic woman and honest mother!! Love her awareness.
I pray she gets better, and her family life
Thank u I’m working on it ❤
first interview I felt a connection . Definitely wanted this one to be longer … keep pushing Queen our stories makes us unique … God is still working on you don’t give in … keep fighting
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Thank u so much for listening to my story ❤
Yes she is amazing! It’s was meant for me to hear yo message! I feel u so much ❤
@@Moesonlyloveawww thank u so much thanks for listening to my story ❤
Your story is going to minister to these young ladies out here who are going through the same things. Also, think about writing a book about your life. Stay encouraged and continue to lean on God for strength. He can turn everything around in your favor. I love you!
I love u more Aunt Tanya ❤
@@designer2turnt404 Your story will get God's glory! 🙌🏾❤🙌🏾❤🙌🏾❤
Thank you for sharing your story. This takes a lot of courage to share.
Thanks for listening to my story ❤
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Thanks!
As a woman who previously dated a drug dealer: He never let me be privy to what he had going on (plausible deniability)
Mmmmm
And we know not to ask
That’s cus he cared
This young brother boy !! He poured into her so positively wow!!
I literally subscribed to this channel yesterday when I saw her Facebook post saying she was going to be on here.
You are a gifted interviewer with a kind heart ❤️.
Wow thank u so much
The woman was nevessary at home that man was suppose to do the time..he made his bed lay in it .....that family lost so much more with her gone.traumatic
Word
Praying for her healing
It's sad cuz she felt guilty for leaving the kids behind the first time and now she on her way back to prison and the baby is now 5yrs old and gonna experience the hardship as well. They definitely need a better, stable, loving home 😔
So blessed I had a good foundation & support system. Thank God my family had common sense & loved me enough to instill confidence in me. I could've ended up just like her but I was able 2 see through the BS bc my family made sure I loved myself & showed what love really looks like.
I hope she finds her peace & forgives herself. We are all human, not perfect at all but it's nvr too late 2 change 4 the better.
Thank u so much ❤
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I wish tf I would I ain’t doing time for nobody
😂😂 STG , Hubby would have to hold that 😫
And ain't!!
Honestly, not a soul?
Yeeeeea ain’t notice that good! But it makes me sad that a women’s mental can be at a place where they would sacrifice themselves for a man that would even put them in that position. Of lack of man!!
Only my child, that’s for damn sure.
I see you so differently now in a good way. We never know what each other went through, how we would handle situations but I love you and appreciate this story❗️
Thanks so much boo u are appreciated thanks for watching ❤
You are a great interviewer, you ask great questions and genuinely show empathy to these people who are brave enough to be vulnerable.
Thank you for the transparency! You are a strong woman. Get your sobriety on track, it’s never too late. God forgives❤🙏🏽
Amen
Thank u so much for listening to my story ❤
I pray for healing and blessings for her and her family ❤🙏🏾
I’m a new subscriber I love ya channel ur great at this interview stuff keep up the great work ur doing!!!!!!!
Praying for your continued healing and blessings 🙏🏾❤️
Im so proud of you. Your story needs to be heard and will help others. There are many women in prison doing time for taking a charge for a man they loved and were too loyal to.
Thank u so much boo we hardly know each other but thanks for never judging me u are so appreciated I thank God for ppl like u ❤
@@designer2turnt404 I'm sending you so much love, I'm in tears watching this. You're going to make it, you're going to be alright ❤️❤️❤️.
I will be in touch with you. ❤️
Amen
@@sulaiminahburns5814awww thanks a bunch ❤
Baby girl if you see this comment you are LOVED. You will help so many people by your story and transparency. I pray you heal totally from everything you endured and continue to flourish. Be blessed
Thank God you don't look like what you've been through. Keep your head up, & stay strong, beautiful. Who knew that you had been through all of this ish. 💪🏾❣️👏🏿🤗
Thank you for sharing your story with us❤
I remember my ex Osiris Lester told me to get a gun for him and report it stolen thank god my discernment told me not to do it ! Plus my aunt was like girl are you crazy as hell !? No real man would ever put you in a position where your life can be over
He does great interviews! Keep up the good work! It’s so many of us out here that have the same stories and it only takes one things to help a person going through something.
God Bless you Queen. Work on healing the little girl that has been, hurt, abused and broken. You are Love, Life and light. I pray you work through your addiction. And i pray the best for you and your children. May God continue to cover you all. ❤
I appreciate her honesty and it’s not a cockiness that she is personifying it’s real life! I understand her completely even down to the baby! I overcame the same addiction to P’s and it is extremely hard to get off because of the sickness associated with it. I pray God bless you sis because I’ve been clean since 11/2018. She is speaking facts y’all better listen!
My first time watching one of yr video/interviews & I do must say he does an excellent job making them comfortable to open up & talk
I'm so glad her first Child's father went to jail. He is a predator!
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This Lady was really and entrepreneur if she had been mentored,correct! She had to be very smart! She was offered scholarships, but again this is how a man, that don’t care! Seize the opportunity and pray on vulnerable women! I pray that God heals her wounds! 🙌🏼💯❤️
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35:05 " they holding it down." lol wooowww. So, as a mom, you didn't tell them to get a legit job?! I've yet to hear her say anything like that at all. Lol woowww. Those poor kids!
Great interview!!
Such a smart young lady , i hope you prosper in life girl ,❤
They were already messed up before she. Went to jail. But i think this experience helped her turn her life around. God bless her
I’m sorry that you loved that man more than you loved yourself enough to take a charge for him! It’s truly sad to see my queens devalue themselves for a man😢
She doesn’t even know how impactful her story is . & how stand up she is as a person . It’s so messed up how she was done and I hope she can forgive herself , she’s taking a lot of ownership for stuff that was done to her . Like 12/13 going through what she went through , she didn’t deserve that . I know she thinks she says her kids didn’t deserve it , she didn’t deserve it either
26:07 a travesty. Trafficked and pimped at 16😢 but unaware she was preyed upon. He is dirt. I really pray healing over her and her children.
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@@designer2turnt404 sugarpudding.... if I could reach out to you and heal you with my hugs , I'd do it as long as you needed it. Best of luck on your healing and sobriety ❤️ you got this shyt sis🖤 do this for you and your babies, they deserve to know they can turn it around as well. ASÈ
@@TrappinAnonymous you do such a wonderful job, I know your mama is proud❤️
Continue to tell your story baby girl!! God is gonna work this thing out for you!! Myself and the family love you always!! ❤❤❤
Thanks Aunt Mary I love u guys more ❤
I had my first child the day after my 16th birthday! I dropped out of school to take care of my child that I made! There is no way that your child calls your mother mom unless you weren’t being present in his or her life ! Anyway I went back to school for my GED when I was 32(you’re never too old) had another son 18 years after I had my second child (my one and only daughter) moved to Las Vegas from Illinois to give my children a better life. Had my second son at 36 and went straight to trade school and graduated as a medical assistant. Had my third son at 38 and decided that I make more money working from home as a benefit advisor! And believe me I’ve been through some shit as a young girl but the point is to get yourself together for your child!
This story hit different keep being strong but one day it going to come to a point where you might rail road your self if you dont start forgiving yourself. Set boundaries for yourself. Show them who and what they can be. Keep trying to reach them mentally they still need you. It sound like they in survival mode because the lack of trust and they may still feel like they are alone. Bless you on your journey
How can this man treat you so well and he pimped you out?🥺Wow this is so sad . It’s called grooming !!!
I was 16 at the time I didn’t know better but I do now and thanks for the feedback and watching my story u are appreciated ❤
@@designer2turnt404tell ‘em
@@designer2turnt404 much love to you mama❤️❤️❤️of course you didn’t know ❤️none of this was you’re fault.
God bless your soul 🤞🏽it’s never too late ,keep going and keep pushing 🙏🏽
Sister you got this take it one day at a time . Forgive yourself . Keep utilizing your resources in your home state focus on your children ,but stay strong you got this . Life and success is what you make write a book . Your testimony will inspire others by your story amd strength keep going amd pushing in life. SENDING YOU LIGHT AND HEALING TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THERAPY QUEEN in your local state stay blessed ❤
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God bless her and her children
Thank u very much ❤
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Chris you are a boss young interviewer keep growing
🙏🏾🙏🏾 She is stronger than she gives herself credit. Keep pushing 💪🏾💪🏾
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@@Naiiii44thanks for listening to my story ❤
Absolutely, she’s a survivor
Lord have mercy!! The prison life grip- your boyfriend, you, your 2 boys and a baby born there!!
So very sad! No real man would do this to their wife.
Everyday you wake up is a new day never give up .we all make mistakes just learn from them and stay positive ❤
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This was the best episode everr!
Thank you for listening to my story u are appreciated ❤
Wow this hurt my heart so bad. Everyone has a story!!!!! Get help for the pill addiction , forgive yourself ❤
I pray that you find redemption and healing. You are actually the best person to tell someone else in your shoes what not to do because you lived it! Please give yourself patience and grace. You were an abused child, and you are deserving of self-love.
He et you take that charge.??!! Men abusing you all of your life. My heart hurts for this woman, no one deserves this. kind of disappointment so early in life. She keeps justifying by saying, "but he never beat me.' Is that the bar? Im holding you and your kiddos in my heart right now. I hope they pull through, they have a strong mama. Thank you Christy for uplifting and encouraging her
@ 18:09 .. baby girl.. I pray you get that under control. I hope that in the meantime you don’t get the counterfeits, and that your liver can hold on long enough for you to get it right!❤ you are keeping it all the way 100 and we all appreciate that.
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I feel so bad for her but I pray that she stays on the right track 🙏🏾❤️
For a MAN!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ that goes to show he cared nothing about you nor ur kids…. Smh
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She is strong 💪🏽🙏🏽
Having her take the charge?? Thats crazy. The men i know not letting their women take no damn charge smh.
Love this for you friend keep living in ur truth….keep pushing beautiful luv u 👏🏽💪🏽🙌🏽💯😘
I love u more Tara thanks boo ❤
Any man that allows his wife/gf/bm or any woman he claims he loves, do prison time for him is a coward! Idc how much time he's faces versus her. It was stupid for her to do also 🤦🏾♀️
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@@designer2turnt404 You're welcome! I'm glad you and your kids are well.
Going to prison for somebody else in my 30s and I have four kids already. That’s wild. I shouldn’t be judging, but this story sounds so dumb.
And I’m not surprised he left her and the kids. I knew it was coming from the beginning of the episode. 🤦🏾♀️
Same here! He lost all respect for her when she did that.
Most black men think this way,it just shows up in little ways but you have to be strong enough to accept reality and from now on be strategic when dealing with black men!
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@@diamondjack-cooper5322first of all most black men are not some jail birds … don’t date criminals and you won’t be in a situation like that. It’s that simple
“That’s so sweet” took me out lmaooo
I dead cried Watching This Felt every inch Of it ‼️💯🥺😔
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Iam going through the same struggle w pills u are not alone, iam single black mom with to kids of my own . It felt so good to hear your story and struggle. I pray for your journey on to recovering ❤
Sending love…..hope you get the support you need 🙏🏾
@@butterflyblessbless5836 thank u
Thanks for listening to my story and I help u get help with your addiction as well because it ain’t easy it’s going on 14 years for me and I still feel like I can’t stop but hopefully it’ll be soon and it won’t be too late ❤
U welcome
How many pills do you take a day?
Mother's please speak life into your children and be more active in their life
I’m 48 years old and I have four kids ages 32,31,12 and 10 and I’m not leaving my kids to take a charge for no man! Shidd the popo’s don’t even have to take me to the station to question me because I’m telling them everything they want to know in the car because I’m definitely going home to my babies !
This was a good interview
So glad I found tis .
The host reminds me so much of Chadwick Boseman, what a talented young person continue expand your skills
I hope she finds and wants the appropriate level of treatment. If your current program is not working, step up to something more intensive. Her story of trauma and generational curses have taken a toll on her families lives. She has hope which is a great antidote for self forgiveness. I wish her and her family peace, truth and a new beginning. I also hope this interview doesn’t interfere with her pending case.
You got to start with self first mom… stop the pills it’s programs & help out here.. & until u do that, thats when u can ask for forgiveness & start a new beginning with the ur kids because now ur thinking clearly! Action speaks louder than words.. show up while u have the chance mom.. loyalty starts with self first!
🚨🚨He was prob paying for everything and he prob said he would make sure she was straight and that she would prob just get probation for first time offenders -It doesn’t work like that. He prob knew she would be in a different type of jail since she was pregnant.
👉🏽👉🏽She didn’t care about herself, her other 5 kids, or the new baby if she risked all 7 of their futures for one person. Choosing a man over your kids. That’s crazy. They’re gonna have all sorts of PTSD from this whole ordeal.
Wow wow wow . Knew you from a baby and didn’t know this story. 😢 you know our family love you always . Your story will help all these young girls out here
Yes, these girls need to listen and learn from her.
Thank u so much and I love u guys more thanks for listening to my story and for all the support ❤
Thank you for your transparency
Thanks for listening to my story you’re appreciated ❤
I feel for you lady you’re are speaking for a lot of women that have made the wrong choices and I can relate in some ways just keep on living beautiful ❤
This was very sad to watch. I will pray that the good Lord will touch the hearts of her children so that one day they will forgive their mother and rebuild their relationships. She was young herself but I know that generational curses can be broken. I will keep this family in prayer 🙏🏾
I was Employed by a Correctional Facility all women’s and so many women find out they are pregnant inside…. I herd so many stories & Testimonies on how they Ended up inside Made me thankful and grateful I never ended up being bars, But I’d you think about it any tire is abuse is like being Shackled spiritually…
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She definitely loved that man more than she loved her kids
At one time I loved him more then I loved myself but trust me I learned my lesson thanks for watching ❤