Ladies, never leave your children with anyone. I don’t care how long you know them that’s not their father. no they don’t need to babysit them. No, they don’t need to bathe them.
@@Tommiequinn wow!!!!! I'm so sorry to hear that. I thank God for a lot of things because Lord knows I would never be able to mentally deal with anything like that I would be under somebody's prison smh. I hope your friend finds the strength to carry on and I hope he's paying for that decision forever
We always say “don’t leave your kids with anyone” let’s be realistic people have to work , family can do this, hell people at the daycare can do this. Hell a biological parent can do this. He wasn’t even supposed to be with her she was 17 this Naker was 23
I'm glad you said this. See, some of us live in the real world. Unless you just don't have to work or go anywhere, you'll need a babysitter. This can happen from a family member. We just can't predict what's going to happen in our lives. Some of us are lucky. I left my young daughter with my husband and he treated her like his own. We just don't know. I know of a dad that killed his own daughters.
Exactly I'm sure she regrets this everyday people are bashing her I'm sure she lives with this guilt every day she doesn't need hatefulness or negative comments telling her what she should or shouldn't have done. Not everyone has the help they need in order to work or go out realistically it could have been anyone who could've did this people in the comments are saying leave the kid with the biological dad or family member like things like this don't happen with loved ones I'm glad you made this comment .
Upsets me to my core! I don’t have kids but, I be feeling like these kids are my kids. Cus if it were me idk what I would do. Honestly scared to have any cus no.
I hate that people literally come on videos just to bash people. Let me say this no one is to blame except that monster that took that baby’s life. He’s to blame, him and him alone. It doesn’t matter if she left him alone, he spent the night, etc. that devil was inside of him the whole time he was going to be that monster regardless.
But honestly not to sound heartless which this will probably come off as more then likely his violent tendencies didn’t just come out of nowhere more then likely he didn’t just go from the sweetest man in the world to bashing her baby open if anyone has anything to say it would be don’t stay with abusive men unless your the only one at risk this baby did not deserve the consequences of the mom making bad choices in men that’s the victim I see in the situation the baby
@@lakrishahillsman7313 lakrisha please ! He wasn’t abusive graduated school worked yes it did come from nowhere what’s ur background tell me about you n urs are u single married in a relationship donu work if so who are your kids wit mfkers come up here w that negative shot don’t even k ow what they’re talkin about two have no degree in law at all 3 be cap life in shambles but y’all wanna come up here to talk negative looking and sounding stupid asf have a good one lakrisha
She definitely is dealing with extreme guilt. She over explained why he had the baby the night she was murdered because she knew people would judge her because she went out to a club.
Oh i wasn’t finished w u and I ain’t know shit like I said I know I was real n genuine y’all wanna see ppl crying falling out like them realiity tv shows if u o ew me personally but ya don’t !!!!!!! You’d understand now until then it a fuckin fan w diarrhea at the fuckin mouth girl !!!
@@Luciano19309 hello I’m doing much better I think nd I hope ii just rethink putting my story out there so much negativity so many ppl swearing they know me know my story I just regret this fr
This made me cry it was like reliving my baby girls murder! My first born daughter! I understood everything she said! Wishing peace and harmony to her!
Wow, I'm so sorry you both experienced such a loss. Perhaps you can get in contact with her. It's healthy to be able to talk to someone who has lived your trauma. We all need someone who truly understands.
She was young but I feel like her moms shouldn't have allowed her to date a 23yr old at 17 and took her to a club that night . Yes! He's to blame so sick for an adult to hurt a child 😢 But better parenting would have helped
I literally said the same thing , I came from another video but your the first comment I seen that said this I hope I find their contact so I can come back n give it to you . May god bless you and sorry for your lost 🙏
My mother is the only person that watches my kids . I don’t play the radio . BOYFRIENDS should NOT be watching your children alone . That didn’t JUST happen ..
@@Tommiequinn your mama had no business allowing him to be around you in the first place because of the age. I genuinely pray you have peace today though
Don’t come on here being disrespectful. She was young and most likely grew up in an environment that was toxic plus learning to depend on men for comfort. A lot of young women see that from their mothers. She was young and trusted a monster. Pray for her.
That’s crazy that he was in her life for that short amount of time and then she never heard from him again. A Stranger just came and stole her child’s life and then boom he’s gone. A 23 year old man. Wow! The pain she lives with, I can relate and also the whole relationship thing.
@@gunitundaboss2404he asks the right questions, shows respect & doesn’t judge. He has a certain interview style that works for the type of stories he’s sharing
Wow smh this same exact thing happened with my cousin. She left her 2 y/o daughter with her boyfriend so she could go to work. He beat her to death, busted all her insides open. He also did 18 years. She was killed on Halloween 1992. RIP Briana 🙏🏽
Based on the interview, she had to have been 15 when she had her baby if her daughter was almost 2 when she was with that monster. So, yes, she was extremely young and vulnerable. I suspect he may have hurt that baby to cover something else up that he had done. 🤔 This is such a tragic story that keeps repeating. 😢😢 🙏🏽🙏🏽 for healing and R.I.P 👶🏽 🥀. I think she really should talk to someone professionally...
I love how the interviewer ask his questions with such care and compassion. He doesnt let his judgement or thoughts take over his interviews. I pray for the mothers strength and pray they dont let that monster out for nothing idc if he is a "good" inmate or not 🙏🏾
I have a 19 month old little girl, it’s very difficult to not place judgement here. I could never see myself leaving my daughter alone with any man I’m dating. There are evil people in the world, just waiting on the opportunity to prey on our defenseless babies. Moms please stay paranoid when it comes to your babies, your instincts are always right.
So why even be with them to inform you I was w him since my daughter was four months you might as well stay single if you can’t trust them !! And sweetheart my friend baby’s biological dad murdered their baby so yea this post is pointless friends hurt children gmas family members do some research boo
@@Tommiequinn ew what’s with the nasty attitude. First of all every situation is different. My point is to protect you kids! No matter who tf it is now carry on.
My boyfriends 4 year old son was murdered because of his children’s mother not wanting to be a mother anymore she ran off with the kids gave them to some random strangers on Facebook and that evil wicked man beat his son to death a poor baby I pray for you sister the emotional bouts he goes through is hard to deal with but I’m sticking by his side & staying strong for him ✊🏾 may god bless & heal you from the inside out 🙏🏾
Omg hugs and strength for him and you as well to have to be there through his different transformations and emotions and thnk you for being judge free ! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🙏🏾
@@freshmanjeans some random old lady she was talking to on Facebook she had a son that had a baby mother the mother of the man took 2 of his other kids and the son & baby mother took his son they beat him to death 😔
My first question would've been how do you have a live in boyfriend watching your 2 month old. So it takes 9 months to have a baby, and within 2 months of the baby living, you already have a new dude living in your home. Smh
Nothing is worse than the pain of loosing ur own child unexpectedly . 😢 I too lost a child no words can express that pain. I feel for her praying she stays strong n keeps her babys name alive by bringing awareness prayers to her ❤❤🙏🙏🙏
He should have been sentenced to life in prison for first degree murder of her child! Sounds like he got a plea deal. Even second degree murder is 25 years to life. Dude sounds cold and callous he didn’t admit guilt or apologize after he killed her child. He had no business dealing with her as a minor he was an adult. Everything he done was intentional. He’s evil and God takes care of those like him. I’m sorry she lost her baby.
I will never understand any mother that are so quick to leave their child with just about anyone!!! My babies don’t stay with anyone besides their dad or me and we are under the same roof!! My girls aren’t staying anywhere without mom or dad!! I don’t want to ever know what that feels like losing my children!!! R.I.P. beautiful baby girl
Processing trauma is hard. I help my participants who suffer from severe trauma everyday try to process what happened in their lives. Taking accountability and understanding who you are today was a big step. My condolences and I wish you well. I do hope he never gets out!
I’m glad she’s sharing this so these young girls can stop being so dumb. There are sooooooo many cases where the boyfriend rape and kill their children. My mama NEVER EVER left us with her boyfriends. Even the two who lived with us. We were never alone with them and she was very wise about who she brought around. These girls want a man so bad. The fact that her mom asked him to watch the baby because she didn’t want to is interested. She is brave for sharing this knowing she will be bashed but her sharing this could save lives!!
And that is why I chose to do so I know there’s going to be some negativity but they don’t know me didn’t know then don’t know me now so it goes unnoticed
@@reinasanchez1718very much that but imagine having to try keep it together because you now have two boys who admire you and love u and feel everything u feel
Everyone is to blame here! & there's no way there were no previous signs of abuse. Sad the child had to go through this! Mom & gma should've known better
I don't believe the people in the comments are judging any one just voicing there opinion's. RIP Baby Girl,to the family you have my deepest sympathy.🙏🏽
She was a 17 yo mother. Her mom wanted to go out and network for her security business ( that’s what I’m taking). Grandma asked him to hold the baby down, while they were out. Nothing out of the ordinary. No red flags from him. What happened that night to drive him over the edge. They seem to have a good rapport, and he just flipped out on her baby….WHY? Like she explained, it’s nothing that has never happened before, all was good and truly trusting. They should have done a toxicology on him, it makes no sense.
I think If she see him in the streets she will lose it on him. She calm now due to time but his face will bring it all back. I don’t understand how a grown man can do this to a helpless child.
I was SO happy to hear her say she doesn't forgive him. I feel sometimes us black people are a litte too forgiving of the people who have wronged us. I hope she finds peace eventually. RIP to babygirl💕💓
She was 17, he was 23! Roughly a 7 year age gap, her mother allowed it, allowed it in HER HOME, let this predator watch the baby alone & y’all saying don’t judge? Don’t blame her? She was young? 🤦🏾♀️
Thank goodness, you are brave enough to tell your story! Sometimes people come from such such a horrible place of judgment. They don’t realize that sometimes you have to hear stories like this to decide that this is not the person that you want to end up as keep your head up queen
Couldn’t imagine. I’m really about that mom life. And I’m bashed for it daily. People tell me “I’m Nothing without my babies” or “you will always be lonely bc you never go anywhere”.. really mean things. But then.. I come across stories like this. I don’t care what anyone thinks of me. Until my babies are old enough… I don’t need a “life”, they ARE my life. My time will come later.. No disrespect to this young lady one bit, and I applaud her for telling her story and blessing us so we can remember our “whys”!
YOU KNOW, SOME OF THOSE SAME FOLK INSULTING YOU ARE PROBABLY THE MOST MISERABLE. 😂😂😂 KEEP YA HEAD UP MOM!!! AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. IT'S THE SMART WAY TO MOVE😊 PROUD OF YOU😊
That’ blows me she openly admitted to still caring about him after what he did to her baby && she literally smiled the entire time talking about memories of that weak ssA n!gga !!! but didn’t share 1 memory about her daughter 😞that baby is finally safe 🙏🏽💔🕊️🥀 she didn’t have a chance smh
THE THROWING UP BLACK STUFF SENT CHILLS THROUGH MY BODY!! THERE IS A SIGNIFICANCE. OLD BLOOD, FOR HER IT WAS THE SOUL LEAVING THE CHILDS BODY FOR THE GUY IT WAS GUILT!!!!😢😢😢
My mother asked him to watch her “because I didn’t want to” that’s very telling! How often did she have him watching her? Then you don’t kiss her because he said not to? Sounds like she was running the streets & he was becoming the care giver. I hate to say this but I feel like he was SA’ing the baby.
He definitely was not becoming no care giver boo I didn’t want to ask him because he said he had something to do ! Ask don’t assume u know what they say when u assume
I had my mother I had a grandmother I had family to become the caregiver if I wanted to run the fuckin streets i was a young mom in school working in the summer and yes I I went outside sometimes so tf what
My sister baby's father of her third born child killed her second born. He's still serving time today. He brutal murder her. I always wondered how my sister felt because it's just something we don't speak. After hearing her story gives me better a understanding. You know what someone will do. Some people are really good actors.
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The fact he was dating and impregnating her underage was the biggest red flag of him being a sick person who shouldn’t be trusted. There might have been other signs she didn’t recognize since she was so young and use to him. I hope he doesn’t make parole EVER 🙏🏾
Understandable but we were together a min I work n shit at that time we all thought he was a good man she was never ever molested autopsy would have shown but respect ur opinion mama thnks ❤️🩹
nah I'm married and my daughter isn't my husband's child he ain't allowed to wipe her take her to bathroom OR BATH her! period and we been together 3 years!
@@Tommiequinnoh you the mother.. that's why you said do I want a prize instead of saying that's great.. but you contradicted yourself in the video saying oh that's good if you find someone you can trust with your kids then I tell my story and it's do you want a prize TF.. very childish.. but I get it.. Goodluck
I remember meeting her a few months after this happened,We was Little girls And I must say she was strong Then n Strong Now! Only God! I’m So Proud of the Woman She has Become!
My nephew was 19 months old when he passed. The hardest thing is i never got to see him walk and run around. He never walked he was a preemie who never moved through the walking stages.
This woman needs some healing! I pray that she talks to someone about what she’s going through I’m not bashing her or anything I feel this is a lesson in it’s self to be aware of who you bring your children around what’s the dark comes to light 😢 I’m praying for her
She grew up to fast. Already had a baby and living with another man at 18 years old.. That's a lot. I want to know the killers back ground was he already a felon.. Young mother. She must forgive herself.
Sadness is an understatement for this story! Stay, focused, and prayed up you Beautiful Queen! We may never discover the reasons Behind many tragic situations! But never lose sight of faith! I'm speaking through experience! 💪🏽👌🏽❤️💯
This is where women go wrong and as a single mother I'm to over protective over mines nobody can keep them they are never left alone with NObody because at the end of the day I feel like if that's not there child they will feel like that " it's not their child"
Don’t get on here judging her she obviously was young and I’m sure she’s regretful but don’t sit here and bash her like she was the worst mom ever I’m pretty sure she’s learned from her mistakes.. I hate that y’all get on here acting like y’all perfect
Friends asking questions doesn’t tell you if someone is abusing your child, you better believe this was not his first time doing this!! It was just his first time going to far!! Stop leaving your children with men that are not their fathers!!! She couldn’t even tell you if she was being abused!!! This is crazy! The red dots are called petechial hemorrhage it presents as a rash so you thought you were seeing a rash naw baby you was seeing abuse
That 18years pissed me off when they gave him that little detention time…I looooove how you held it together baby…but I was over hear crying …I love you …its still unreal to this day smh 😢
Y’all quick to say who shouldn’t watch who no matter how long you’ve known them but y’all forget parents kill their own kids, siblings kill each other… strangers kill you. In this case, I get it but let’s not forget you never know someone fully no matter who they are or how long you’ve known them. Ii just watched a documentary where the grandmother killed her grandson. Some of these comments aren’t thought through
Why is your boyfriend bathing your daughter ? Omg! I respect her honesty and transparency but that just didn’t sit right with me. I pray for us women to be stronger and more protective of our precious children. God give her peace and tranquility. ❤
He bathed my daughter because he didn’t wanna leave her her all messy he called me before he did n I came in five mins later damn !!! Rather that then to come in n my child dirty in her mess all day
Wait. She was out CLUBBING & had this man watching her baby girl??? And why was she "afraid to ask him"? Like - stay home & take care of MY responsibilities while i be out with my MAMA'S CARD getting rachet. Make this make sense.
@ZaniyaKeyria 17. And not at all in the mindset to be a mother. Had she any maternal instinct, she would have done the merciful thing and had an abortion. A baby is no badge of honor. No one is going to award a woman for bringing a life into this world & then f*@king that life up.
I’ll still never understand why women are comfortable leaving their small children with a man who’s not the father and barely know. Boy or girl it’s not happening. I don’t care how long you know him either. I never did that with any of my kids. If the grandma’s can’t watch them I’m not going anywhere.
Grandmas kill kids too. Fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, cousins you name it. She just happened to meet a murderer and that’s unfortunate. In this case her mom was out with her. She was 17. Things happened and clearly she’s not healed from it. Y’all blaming her for a choice somebody else made. We’re not safe as people with anyone fully. Husband’s and wives kill each other everyday luv. How do you really spot a murderer if it’s not already a known thing? He gave her or family no reason to believe he was capable of this until it happened. That’s normally how it goes
Wow. Thanks Soo Much for sharing. This interview brought me to tears! Am my advise would to add to to Women, baby daddies Are included under mistrust umbrella too!
She literally was a child herself when this happened stop blaming the mom yes things could of been different but we all live a life n we learn from it lets not bash a child a baby at that lost her life n this man needs to pay 💯💯💯🥹🥹🥹🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽prays to her n Family
I’m starting to think everybody from New York a little off cause the stories I hear from there are crazy why would you leave your child with a man that’s crazy
Yall ppl act like women don't commit these same kind of atrocities. She left her child with a person whom she trusted at the time. He committed the crime. It is his fault ALONE.
This is a disgusting narcissistic mother with too many holes in her story. Im sure there was child abuse in that home she was aware of. She started off saying she didnt want to ask the dude to watch her daughter on that day. She try to erase all blame from her hands talking about her mom asked the dude. She telling her story nonchalant and as if she wearing a badge. She remembering insignificant stuff about leaving shoes and money at the bar and her mom djaying or promoting at some party. Throwing out celebrity names and glowing. Your allowing a man who not that babies father to bath her. Than keep a tattoo of his name and say she feel for him but she never had a dream about her daughter and try not to think about her is telling. She never had a motherly attachment to that baby. She picked a crack head or crazy manbwhen she was warned before hand by friends and his cousin. This tragedy is her fault.
It isn’t casual if you knew me like not off this interview you would know that ever since my daughter was murdered this is how Ive been just there but not really there
This the one thing you don’t do is leave your child with a man that is not your child’s father!! I can’t fathom why anyone would want to do that!! It’s bad enough now that children are dying by the hands of their own parents!!
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Ladies, never leave your children with anyone. I don’t care how long you know them that’s not their father. no they don’t need to babysit them. No, they don’t need to bathe them.
I respect this comment but you can't even leave children with their biological parents because they doing weird stuff to smh it's crazy
I was literally about to say, biological fathers can’t be fully trusted either so don’t bash
No realistic to tell ppl…
@@itsjustkeishap2584exactly a week later my friend on the news her baby daddy killed their child
@@Tommiequinn wow!!!!! I'm so sorry to hear that. I thank God for a lot of things because Lord knows I would never be able to mentally deal with anything like that I would be under somebody's prison smh. I hope your friend finds the strength to carry on and I hope he's paying for that decision forever
We always say “don’t leave your kids with anyone” let’s be realistic people have to work , family can do this, hell people at the daycare can do this. Hell a biological parent can do this. He wasn’t even supposed to be with her she was 17 this Naker was 23
Right !
I'm glad you said this. See, some of us live in the real world. Unless you just don't have to work or go anywhere, you'll need a babysitter. This can happen from a family member. We just can't predict what's going to happen in our lives. Some of us are lucky. I left my young daughter with my husband and he treated her like his own. We just don't know. I know of a dad that killed his own daughters.
Exactly I'm sure she regrets this everyday people are bashing her I'm sure she lives with this guilt every day she doesn't need hatefulness or negative comments telling her what she should or shouldn't have done. Not everyone has the help they need in order to work or go out realistically it could have been anyone who could've did this people in the comments are saying leave the kid with the biological dad or family member like things like this don't happen with loved ones I'm glad you made this comment .
@@kimberlylamala9759 exactly 🫶🏾🙌🏾
Exactly
How can you hurt a child ? I can never wrap my head around that
I agree. Pure evil
Upsets me to my core! I don’t have kids but, I be feeling like these kids are my kids. Cus if it were me idk what I would do. Honestly scared to have any cus no.
I hate that people literally come on videos just to bash people. Let me say this no one is to blame except that monster that took that baby’s life. He’s to blame, him and him alone. It doesn’t matter if she left him alone, he spent the night, etc. that devil was inside of him the whole time he was going to be that monster regardless.
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Need more empathy
But honestly not to sound heartless which this will probably come off as more then likely his violent tendencies didn’t just come out of nowhere more then likely he didn’t just go from the sweetest man in the world to bashing her baby open if anyone has anything to say it would be don’t stay with abusive men unless your the only one at risk this baby did not deserve the consequences of the mom making bad choices in men that’s the victim I see in the situation the baby
@@lakrishahillsman7313 oh but baby it did come out of nowhere I’m sorry did we hang together at that time or something?
@@lakrishahillsman7313 lakrisha please ! He wasn’t abusive graduated school worked yes it did come from nowhere what’s ur background tell me about you n urs are u single married in a relationship donu work if so who are your kids wit mfkers come up here w that negative shot don’t even k ow what they’re talkin about two have no degree in law at all 3 be cap life in shambles but y’all wanna come up here to talk negative looking and sounding stupid asf have a good one lakrisha
So sad to hear that. She said people said he was "offish" when he was younger and his cousin said he was "crazy". Those were flags.
She definitely is dealing with extreme guilt. She over explained why he had the baby the night she was murdered because she knew people would judge her because she went out to a club.
Oh i wasn’t finished w u and I ain’t know shit like I said I know I was real n genuine y’all wanna see ppl crying falling out like them realiity tv shows if u o ew me personally but ya don’t !!!!!!! You’d understand now until then it a fuckin fan w diarrhea at the fuckin mouth girl !!!
Talkin bout some over explain I was mfkin nervous at that anteater
Extreme guilt ? Girl go suck ya mutha lmaooo y’all wanna know me personally so fuckin bad go make sure ur kids good
@@Tommiequinnhow have you been , I remember your story. I hope your doing better 🥰
@@Luciano19309 hello I’m doing much better I think nd I hope ii just rethink putting my story out there so much negativity so many ppl swearing they know me know my story I just regret this fr
This made me cry it was like reliving my baby girls murder! My first born daughter! I understood everything she said! Wishing peace and harmony to her!
Thank you and same to you ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
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Wow, I'm so sorry you both experienced such a loss. Perhaps you can get in contact with her. It's healthy to be able to talk to someone who has lived your trauma. We all need someone who truly understands.
@@realascanb222this is great advice if you can help others with your story then you are doing God's work ❤
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She was young but I feel like her moms shouldn't have allowed her to date a 23yr old at 17 and took her to a club that night . Yes! He's to blame so sick for an adult to hurt a child 😢 But better parenting would have helped
Exactly and the cycle will repeat itself
Absolutely agree
what the mama supposed to do?
Right mama & daughter at the club together. Just a whole ghetto low class mess. Babygirl didn't stand a chance
She couldn’t predict what someone else would do. Biological dad or not.
Right ❤️🩹❤️🩹
People called him crazy and he’s obviously a predator because he’s grown and she was 17.
How can I get on here to share my story. This mom motivated me to tell the world about the death of my daughter
😢 god bless you . Condolences on your loss
So sorry for your loss. May The Most High continue to be with you.
I literally said the same thing , I came from another video but your the first comment I seen that said this I hope I find their contact so I can come back n give it to you . May god bless you and sorry for your lost 🙏
R.I.P to you, daughter🙏🏽😶🌫️💯
Sorry for your loss 😢
So he never paid attention to if the baby sleeps with her eyes open but he’s been watching her for two years he knew he killed that baby
My mother is the only person that watches my kids . I don’t play the radio . BOYFRIENDS should NOT be watching your children alone . That didn’t JUST happen ..
The grandmother failed her & her baby too . they’d just be pulling me up off my mama
Before this happened was w him for a while and trusted him if u can’t trust a mfker especially around ur children then u don’t need to be w em
Yea
Grandparents kill too so we just never know
@@Tommiequinn your mama had no business allowing him to be around you in the first place because of the age. I genuinely pray you have peace today though
Don’t come on here being disrespectful. She was young and most likely grew up in an environment that was toxic plus learning to depend on men for comfort. A lot of young women see that from their mothers.
She was young and trusted a monster. Pray for her.
Well said.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you ❤❤
Exactly 💯
Thank you
Naw FOREAL
That’s crazy that he was in her life for that short amount of time and then she never heard from him again. A Stranger just came and stole her child’s life and then boom he’s gone. A 23 year old man. Wow! The pain she lives with, I can relate and also the whole relationship thing.
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Yess so many things run through my mind and I’ve watched your story which made me want to tell mine thank you ❤️🩹🙏🏾
@@Tommiequinn 🫶🏽💋💋stay strong baby girl. I feel your pain my love u are not alone! This pain is forever! Make the best of it all 💋💋❤️❤️💋💋
the pain
Very poor decision on mommy/ the biological father part facts!!
This brother is so thorough in his concept, content and his exert. His mindset and thought process is truly on another level
How so his question are a lil boring?
@@gunitundaboss2404he asks the right questions, shows respect & doesn’t judge. He has a certain interview style that works for the type of stories he’s sharing
Wow smh this same exact thing happened with my cousin. She left her 2 y/o daughter with her boyfriend so she could go to work. He beat her to death, busted all her insides open. He also did 18 years. She was killed on Halloween 1992. RIP Briana 🙏🏽
Omg, she said her daughter would’ve been 15 today. My baby is 15 now & I couldn’t imagine. It’s utterly disgusting. My deepest condolences
Based on the interview, she had to have been 15 when she had her baby if her daughter was almost 2 when she was with that monster. So, yes, she was extremely young and vulnerable. I suspect he may have hurt that baby to cover something else up that he had done. 🤔 This is such a tragic story that keeps repeating. 😢😢
🙏🏽🙏🏽 for healing and R.I.P 👶🏽 🥀.
I think she really should talk to someone professionally...
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He saw a teen mom of a girl and took advantage of her and her baby!
He’s sick af!!
She was 17 going on 18
Trust your instincts, protect your children, RIP baby girl
I love how the interviewer ask his questions with such care and compassion. He doesnt let his judgement or thoughts take over his interviews. I pray for the mothers strength and pray they dont let that monster out for nothing idc if he is a "good" inmate or not 🙏🏾
A grown man punching and beating this 22 month old child as if she is a worthy opponent?! If I say how I really feel, I’ll be put in TH-cam jail 😒🤬
Talk your shit I’m right here baby so I can put u back in ya place speaking
I have a 19 month old little girl, it’s very difficult to not place judgement here. I could never see myself leaving my daughter alone with any man I’m dating. There are evil people in the world, just waiting on the opportunity to prey on our defenseless babies. Moms please stay paranoid when it comes to your babies, your instincts are always right.
So why even be with them to inform you I was w him since my daughter was four months you might as well stay single if you can’t trust them !! And sweetheart my friend baby’s biological dad murdered their baby so yea this post is pointless friends hurt children gmas family members do some research boo
@@Tommiequinn ew what’s with the nasty attitude. First of all every situation is different. My point is to protect you kids! No matter who tf it is now carry on.
@@ohthatsdiana should’ve stated that then boobie cakes
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real talk don't ever leave her
My boyfriends 4 year old son was murdered because of his children’s mother not wanting to be a mother anymore she ran off with the kids gave them to some random strangers on Facebook and that evil wicked man beat his son to death a poor baby I pray for you sister the emotional bouts he goes through is hard to deal with but I’m sticking by his side & staying strong for him ✊🏾 may god bless & heal you from the inside out 🙏🏾
Omg hugs and strength for him and you as well to have to be there through his different transformations and emotions and thnk you for being judge free ! ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🙏🏾
Don’t let his trauma become yours especially if y’all not married 💯 that’s not your pain. Don’t volunteer for it 💯
@ashleyrockett6 I agree.
What random people on fb?
@@freshmanjeans some random old lady she was talking to on Facebook she had a son that had a baby mother the mother of the man took 2 of his other kids and the son & baby mother took his son they beat him to death 😔
This young lady is full of trauma that she has not yet dealt with. I feel for her & her story
How
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? Y couldn't the father watch the baby?
She won’t ever heal from that!! She can’t forgive him which said she won’t ever forgive him!
I feel for her and completely understand
My first question would've been how do you have a live in boyfriend watching your 2 month old. So it takes 9 months to have a baby, and within 2 months of the baby living, you already have a new dude living in your home. Smh
@@#hineau, 22 months old.
Nothing is worse than the pain of loosing ur own child unexpectedly . 😢 I too lost a child no words can express that pain. I feel for her praying she stays strong n keeps her babys name alive by bringing awareness prayers to her ❤❤🙏🙏🙏
@@RawVeganJenNYC ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
😢My truest condolences
He should have been sentenced to life in prison for first degree murder of her child! Sounds like he got a plea deal. Even second degree murder is 25 years to life. Dude sounds cold and callous he didn’t admit guilt or apologize after he killed her child. He had no business dealing with her as a minor he was an adult. Everything he done was intentional. He’s evil and God takes care of those like him. I’m sorry she lost her baby.
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I'm so tired of hearing stories like this this is so sickening what a wicked evil heartless man
I will never understand any mother that are so quick to leave their child with just about anyone!!! My babies don’t stay with anyone besides their dad or me and we are under the same roof!! My girls aren’t staying anywhere without mom or dad!! I don’t want to ever know what that feels like losing my children!!! R.I.P. beautiful baby girl
She was a child herself🥺
Processing trauma is hard. I help my participants who suffer from severe trauma everyday try to process what happened in their lives. Taking accountability and understanding who you are today was a big step. My condolences and I wish you well. I do hope he never gets out!
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Very hard
U listen to her & do not believe see saw the writing on the wall..
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I’m glad she’s sharing this so these young girls can stop being so dumb. There are sooooooo many cases where the boyfriend rape and kill their children. My mama NEVER EVER left us with her boyfriends. Even the two who lived with us. We were never alone with them and she was very wise about who she brought around. These girls want a man so bad. The fact that her mom asked him to watch the baby because she didn’t want to is interested. She is brave for sharing this knowing she will be bashed but her sharing this could save lives!!
And that is why I chose to do so I know there’s going to be some negativity but they don’t know me didn’t know then don’t know me now so it goes unnoticed
@@Tommiequinn💔💔💔🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 praying for you
STOP WITH THE SHAMING... stfu
Your mother's two boyfriends lived with you guys and yall were never left alone with them. I find that hard to believe.
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🤬🤬🤬 she sounds detached from reality 😢 that’s so sad and she’s just not emotional to me but I understand it from the point of being traumatized 💯
How
Its like she lost a part of herself when she lost her child 😢
@@reinasanchez1718very much that but imagine having to try keep it together because you now have two boys who admire you and love u and feel everything u feel
Everyone is to blame here! & there's no way there were no previous signs of abuse. Sad the child had to go through this! Mom & gma should've known better
@@MyPrettyWings83 thanks for the view and comment
I really appreciate her sharing her story and I pray that god bless her with whatever she stand in the need of🙏🏾
Ty so much ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I don't believe the people in the comments are judging any one just voicing there opinion's.
RIP Baby Girl,to the family you have my deepest sympathy.🙏🏽
She was a 17 yo mother. Her mom wanted to go out and network for her security business ( that’s what I’m taking). Grandma asked him to hold the baby down, while they were out. Nothing out of the ordinary. No red flags from him. What happened that night to drive him over the edge. They seem to have a good rapport, and he just flipped out on her baby….WHY? Like she explained, it’s nothing that has never happened before, all was good and truly trusting. They should have done a toxicology on him, it makes no sense.
Exactly!! Till this very day I don’t get it
I think If she see him in the streets she will lose it on him. She calm now due to time but his face will bring it all back. I don’t understand how a grown man can do this to a helpless child.
Just pray for me 🙏🏾❤️🩹
@@Tommiequinn definitely 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Stop leaving your babies with everybody. This is so sad.
Too sad
for real talk I don't leave my daughter no family no man period I barely let her go to day care most time she with me I ain't going
I was SO happy to hear her say she doesn't forgive him. I feel sometimes us black people are a litte too forgiving of the people who have wronged us. I hope she finds peace eventually. RIP to babygirl💕💓
Thnk youuuu ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🙏🏾
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This‼️
This!!
You forgive for you not for them. Don't give anyone power over you. Forgive but NEVER FORGET!🙏❤
She was 17, he was 23! Roughly a 7 year age gap, her mother allowed it, allowed it in HER HOME, let this predator watch the baby alone & y’all saying don’t judge? Don’t blame her? She was young? 🤦🏾♀️
Exactly what I said. Craziness it’s a 70% on the person that did it and 30% on her for neglect of her child
Thank goodness, you are brave enough to tell your story! Sometimes people come from such such a horrible place of judgment. They don’t realize that sometimes you have to hear stories like this to decide that this is not the person that you want to end up as keep your head up queen
Couldn’t imagine.
I’m really about that mom life. And I’m bashed for it daily. People tell me “I’m
Nothing without my babies” or “you will always be lonely bc you never go anywhere”.. really mean things. But then.. I come across stories like this. I don’t care what anyone thinks of me. Until my babies are old enough… I don’t need a “life”, they ARE my life. My time will come later..
No disrespect to this young lady one bit, and I applaud her for telling her story and blessing us so we can remember our “whys”!
Well said
YOU KNOW, SOME OF THOSE SAME FOLK INSULTING YOU ARE PROBABLY THE MOST MISERABLE. 😂😂😂 KEEP YA HEAD UP MOM!!! AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. IT'S THE SMART WAY TO MOVE😊 PROUD OF YOU😊
👏 👏 Mfin right! They didn't ask to be here. And once something happens, it CANNOT be undone. The damage cannot be undone.
Shocked he’s still alive with those charges. All this time
That’ blows me she openly admitted to still caring about him after what he did to her baby && she literally smiled the entire time talking about memories of that weak ssA n!gga !!! but didn’t share 1 memory about her daughter 😞that baby is finally safe 🙏🏽💔🕊️🥀 she didn’t have a chance smh
I KNOW, RIGHT!!!❤
She was young, yeah but her mother wasn’t… my mother would’ve checked tf outta me smh, rest in peace baby girl
How many times must i stress this
STOP LEAVING RANDOM MEN / PSYCHOPATHS WITH YR CHILD 😮
THE THROWING UP BLACK STUFF SENT CHILLS THROUGH MY BODY!! THERE IS A SIGNIFICANCE. OLD BLOOD, FOR HER IT WAS THE SOUL LEAVING THE CHILDS BODY FOR THE GUY IT WAS GUILT!!!!😢😢😢
That’s immediately what I thought!!
My mother asked him to watch her “because I didn’t want to” that’s very telling! How often did she have him watching her? Then you don’t kiss her because he said not to? Sounds like she was running the streets & he was becoming the care giver. I hate to say this but I feel like he was SA’ing the baby.
He definitely was not becoming no care giver boo I didn’t want to ask him because he said he had something to do ! Ask don’t assume u know what they say when u assume
I had my mother I had a grandmother I had family to become the caregiver if I wanted to run the fuckin streets i was a young mom in school working in the summer and yes I I went outside sometimes so tf what
@@Tommiequinn if that’s your baby it was deff your fault more than you let on based on how the story was told!
You didn't see any red flags b/c you were intoxicated. And running the streets. And letting a wierdo bathe your baby.
@@2ClapsOraclethe fact that she hasn’t been back to respond
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Sending you prayers and hugs 🙏🏽❤️
My sister baby's father of her third born child killed her second born. He's still serving time today. He brutal murder her. I always wondered how my sister felt because it's just something we don't speak. After hearing her story gives me better a understanding. You know what someone will do. Some people are really good actors.
Did he ever say why?
Oh my 💔
How much time did he get, I’m soo sorry for your loss
I recently came across your channel on accident, im happy that I did, your doing a phenomenal job with the community !! I will never stop watching you, and yes I'm subscribed.
That tattoo woulda got covered in the next hour ! Jesus
The fact he was dating and impregnating her underage was the biggest red flag of him being a sick person who shouldn’t be trusted. There might have been other signs she didn’t recognize since she was so young and use to him. I hope he doesn’t make parole EVER 🙏🏾
This is one of the best interviews I’ve ever experienced. Bravo, Chris.
This can happen to anybody. That woman is brave and he was a pure evil monster.
THE ONLY THING I'M REALLY MAD ABOUT IS HIM BATHING HER DAUGHTER, SHE WAS YOUNG YES BUT THAT'S ALWAYS A NO NO!!
Understandable but we were together a min I work n shit at that time we all thought he was a good man she was never ever molested autopsy would have shown but respect ur opinion mama thnks ❤️🩹
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nah I'm married and my daughter isn't my husband's child he ain't allowed to wipe her take her to bathroom OR BATH her! period and we been together 3 years!
Good for you mama u want a prize tf ? 😂
@@Tommiequinn don't see what's funny under a post like
this, ppl weird af
@@Tommiequinnoh you the mother.. that's why you said do I want a prize instead of saying that's great.. but you contradicted yourself in the video saying oh that's good if you find someone you can trust with your kids then I tell my story and it's do you want a prize TF.. very childish.. but I get it.. Goodluck
I remember meeting her a few months after this happened,We was Little girls And I must say she was strong Then n Strong Now! Only God!
I’m So Proud of the Woman She has Become!
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Thank you so much boo ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹 miss you 😘
@@Tommiequinn LOVE YOU GIRL STAY STRONG!!!!
Blessings...this lady rushed st8 in a relationship with a stranger and left her baby wit him.... very very careless. So sorry that happen too her.
Rushed ?
My nephew was 19 months old when he passed. The hardest thing is i never got to see him walk and run around. He never walked he was a preemie who never moved through the walking stages.
My condolences! 🙏
@ShanelleWashington, condolences.
This literally broke my heart🙏💔🕊...I was a young mom from the hood ..im not here to judge sending ❤❤❤🙏💯
This woman needs some healing! I pray that she talks to someone about what she’s going through I’m not bashing her or anything I feel this is a lesson in it’s self to be aware of who you bring your children around what’s the dark comes to light 😢 I’m praying for her
She grew up to fast. Already had a baby and living with another man at 18 years old.. That's a lot. I want to know the killers back ground was he already a felon.. Young mother. She must forgive herself.
My heart goes out to this Mother ❤ bless her and and her sweet angel baby
Sadness is an understatement for this story! Stay, focused, and prayed up you Beautiful Queen! We may never discover the reasons Behind many tragic situations! But never lose sight of faith! I'm speaking through experience! 💪🏽👌🏽❤️💯
❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🙏🏾 thnk you so much
@@Tommiequinn Ever need a conversation, or a shoulder from someone that can relate to such an impact of loss...or anything! I'm here! ❤️🌹
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Wow this story is heartbreaking! 😢
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very much so sad man
This is where women go wrong and as a single mother I'm to over protective over mines nobody can keep them they are never left alone with NObody because at the end of the day I feel like if that's not there child they will feel like that " it's not their child"
I lost my son as a new born, the pain that comes from this is unbearable sometimes. 💔
Don’t get on here judging her she obviously was young and I’m sure she’s regretful but don’t sit here and bash her like she was the worst mom ever I’m pretty sure she’s learned from her mistakes.. I hate that y’all get on here acting like y’all perfect
Real
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Her baby is Dead behind her & the biological father are to blame..
No one is perfect but some of us have common sense and have a support system to do better .
Friends asking questions doesn’t tell you if someone is abusing your child, you better believe this was not his first time doing this!! It was just his first time going to far!! Stop leaving your children with men that are not their fathers!!! She couldn’t even tell you if she was being abused!!! This is crazy! The red dots are called petechial hemorrhage it presents as a rash so you thought you were seeing a rash naw baby you was seeing abuse
There was a reason she didn't want to ask him to watch her daughter..so her mom asked him.
The reason is I don’t like the word no so incase he did I told my mom to ask
I pray that this mother does well in life. Dont let these negative comments get to you. Your daughter would be proud of who you are today❤
It is her fault. Her child is her responsibility. She took that risk.
I'm sending love and light to her. She is so brave, to be able to speak about this is so hard. 🙏🏾👼🏾
Th k you I really regret it tho I would never hurt my kids never ever I can’t even hurt an animal ppl are crazy
That 18years pissed me off when they gave him that little detention time…I looooove how you held it together baby…but I was over hear crying …I love you …its still unreal to this day smh 😢
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Love u so much sis one of my day ones ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🙏🏾
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Maybe she could've just let the biological father watch his own kid..😢
I couldn’t sit speak about this calmly
It was over ten years ago
Y’all quick to say who shouldn’t watch who no matter how long you’ve known them but y’all forget parents kill their own kids, siblings kill each other… strangers kill you. In this case, I get it but let’s not forget you never know someone fully no matter who they are or how long you’ve known them. Ii just watched a documentary where the grandmother killed her grandson. Some of these comments aren’t thought through
Yupppp
Yesssss❤
this
Period
Why is your boyfriend bathing your daughter ? Omg! I respect her honesty and transparency but that just didn’t sit right with me. I pray for us women to be stronger and more protective of our precious children. God give her peace and tranquility. ❤
He bathed my daughter because he didn’t wanna leave her her all messy he called me before he did n I came in five mins later damn !!! Rather that then to come in n my child dirty in her mess all day
@@Tommiequinngirl you don’t owe none of these people any explanations. Keep being strong and blessed.
Wait. She was out CLUBBING & had this man watching her baby girl??? And why was she "afraid to ask him"? Like - stay home & take care of MY responsibilities while i be out with my MAMA'S CARD getting rachet. Make this make sense.
What ?
Y’all act like moms don’t need breaks or have fun. She was 17 still a kid. Y’all are judgemental asf and god see yall
@ZaniyaKeyria 17. And not at all in the mindset to be a mother. Had she any maternal instinct, she would have done the merciful thing and had an abortion. A baby is no badge of honor. No one is going to award a woman for bringing a life into this world & then f*@king that life up.
I’ll still never understand why women are comfortable leaving their small children with a man who’s not the father and barely know. Boy or girl it’s not happening. I don’t care how long you know him either. I never did that with any of my kids. If the grandma’s can’t watch them I’m not going anywhere.
Mmmm
Grandmas kill kids too. Fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, cousins you name it. She just happened to meet a murderer and that’s unfortunate. In this case her mom was out with her. She was 17. Things happened and clearly she’s not healed from it. Y’all blaming her for a choice somebody else made. We’re not safe as people with anyone fully. Husband’s and wives kill each other everyday luv. How do you really spot a murderer if it’s not already a known thing? He gave her or family no reason to believe he was capable of this until it happened. That’s normally how it goes
can you stop blaming the mom, she clearly trusted the man… things happen…people surprise you everyday
She was a child herself, didn't know better
💯 I totally agree & believe she & the biological father are to blame..
I feel for her so badly 😢
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Wow. Thanks Soo Much for sharing. This interview brought me to tears! Am my advise would to add to to Women, baby daddies Are included under mistrust umbrella too!
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rest in peace baby girl im so sorry you had to go threw this 🙏🕊️
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She literally was a child herself when this happened stop blaming the mom yes things could of been different but we all live a life n we learn from it lets not bash a child a baby at that lost her life n this man needs to pay 💯💯💯🥹🥹🥹🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽prays to her n Family
Let’s roll up to that hearing deep, in solidarity 💪🏾🙏🏾 for that baby girl ♥️
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Gosh, usually men that do this lack patience. People are so weird. Why did he do it. Bless her she looks so tired and exhausted
I ain't leaving my girls with no Men i got trust issues now a days they can't even stay with their own father.
I’m starting to think everybody from New York a little off cause the stories I hear from there are crazy why would you leave your child with a man that’s crazy
He was a Man I met when my child was a newborn what do u mean
Yall ppl act like women don't commit these same kind of atrocities. She left her child with a person whom she trusted at the time. He committed the crime. It is his fault ALONE.
I hope y’all keep in mind she was freakin 17 or 18
I was very much 17 right before my birthday
Yessss
Her mama wasn't!
This
But still in most states, the age of consent is 16 or 17. Completely legal. So no sex offender charges for their relationship
This is a disgusting narcissistic mother with too many holes in her story. Im sure there was child abuse in that home she was aware of. She started off saying she didnt want to ask the dude to watch her daughter on that day. She try to erase all blame from her hands talking about her mom asked the dude. She telling her story nonchalant and as if she wearing a badge. She remembering insignificant stuff about leaving shoes and money at the bar and her mom djaying or promoting at some party. Throwing out celebrity names and glowing. Your allowing a man who not that babies father to bath her. Than keep a tattoo of his name and say she feel for him but she never had a dream about her daughter and try not to think about her is telling. She never had a motherly attachment to that baby. She picked a crack head or crazy manbwhen she was warned before hand by friends and his cousin. This tragedy is her fault.
Leaving ya baby with a man to go out is so wild smh
Do you know the full story I mean like not this interview this is questions he wanted to ask ? But do u ask what u wanted to know oh ok
He brutally tortured that baby….bro wtf.
To me the worse part about this is she doesn't even know why he did that... like what's the reason... smh
Wats me up everyday ❤
Don’t even need a reason smh
Smh
I have to admit I was surprised to hear her say how she still brings her dates around her 3 and 9 year old.
ABSOLUTELYLOVE THIIS CHANNEL REALLY SHOWS HOW LIFE IS SO SCARY AND WATCH EVERYBODY
That man is a monster.
The casual way these mothers talk about what happens to their kids is so weird.
It isn’t casual if you knew me like not off this interview you would know that ever since my daughter was murdered this is how Ive been just there but not really there
I hurt I cry and all but I also have two boys to raise who cannot see me hurting n crying all the time
@@Tommiequinn damn boo, I’m so sorry this happened to you. 💔
@@Phenomenal-ti4yv 🥺😢🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾
I am so sorry that she experienced this tragedy...her testimony is awesome ❤😢🙏
Thank you so much I appreciate people like you 🫶🏾🫶🏾
Amen
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God bless this little angel. I 👏🏿 she's resting in peace 👏🏿❣️
This the one thing you don’t do is leave your child with a man that is not your child’s father!! I can’t fathom why anyone would want to do that!! It’s bad enough now that children are dying by the hands of their own parents!!