Thank you Kendall and Josh for continuing to care and wanting to help us get justice for Jelani, I truly appreciate the both of you. I appreciate everyone that cares and wants Justice for my son, this is not a easy journey but your support and prayers are truly appreciated.
You’re welcome Carmen, we’re happy to help. Thank you for taking the time to come out to Colorado and record with us and trusting us with his case. JUSTICE FOR JELANI DAY!
Your strength is admired. I will Continue to keep you and family lifted in prayer. I asked the lord to provide Justice for Jelani and continued strength, grace and mercy for you and your family. ❤
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I pray you find peace and can let go of some of the guilt you feel. You are an amazing mother and are doing everything you can for your son even now you are still fighting for him.
I'm continuing to pray for your family. Thank you for sharing Jelani's story with us. Something isn't right and justice needs to be served for Jelani. I pray for comfort and peace in your family. You are a incredible mother. 💙💙
Right she’s so strong, and raised such incredible children for the sound of it. I believe her love for her son will get the justice he deserves. It’s beautiful to see such a tight family 💙
I watched this episode three weeks ago and I have been moved by the way these parents raised their children. We may never know, fully, what happened to Jelani, but no one could possibly doubt that he was loved.
The FACT that the head of the group of coroners in the area proposed a peer review of Jelani's autopsy that was DENIED ( and this caused him to actually leave his position) says everything about the disregard for finding the truth for this incredible family ...
@paradoxtru5831 You're so right. Fresh Eyes. Many cases have been solved because a fresh set of eyes comes in and assist with the case. Blessings to The Day Family.❤ Justice for Jelani. 🙌🏾🙏🏾💪🏾
Along with fresh eyes.. they can call out any actions they did that were not done properly . The fact anyone is thinking “will this even help” anything at this point will help.. and wouldn’t you want everything and anything done if this was your son or brother.. 🙄
I love you Josh and Kendall for bringing the victim's loved ones on your show. It shows you do care. Mama Day, my heart goes out to you and your family.
Man I think about Jelani often.. I can’t explain why but hearing Carmen talk brings me to tears .. she’s such an incredible person. As is Seve and the rest of the family. I know they take care of their mama you can tell how much they support each other. So much love to this family, I hope his case reaches the masses. Thank you so much Kendall and Josh for always advocating for victims and their families. JUSTICE FOR JELANI DAY!
The sound of Jelani’s mother’s voice is so broken. God Bless this family. Thank you Josh & Kendall for giving them this additional platform. Justice for Jelani ❤
I am a speech-language pathologist, and the loss of Jelani has been felt by so many in our field. It takes a very specific type of person to pursue speech- the light and love Jelani would have brought to his patients and students is unimaginable. Praying constantly for this beautiful family. Their ability to turn such tragedy into light and love is truly inspiring.
the one thing that keeps sticking out in my mind is Cara Boester contacting a “police friend” to help out… who is that friend and how involved were they
I can totally understand why Jelani would call his mother at the end of each day just to hear her voice. She has such a beautiful, calming, and comforting voice. What a truly beautiful person she is. Inside and out. It radiates out of her. It’s no wonder her children are so close and so protective of her. This family is such an inspiration and we need to protect them and help them in any way that we can. Lets do this. Let’s get justice for Jelani.
It made me smile how Carmen would say "Jelani *is*" because that's how I just naturally refer to my grandmother that passed away, in present tense. Because her presence in my life has never left me. Carmen should be extremely proud of all her children. I pray her and her family get answers and soon and that they can heal.
This episode made me so angry!!! I can feel the frustration, and there is no denying the negligence of the investigators on this case. It is always so impactful listening to the family give their personal insight. Thank you for always providing us with resources on how we can help!!
Me too!! I’m sitting here furious too! I sat through this whole thing didn’t move once!! And to see the ending…with the PO Sarah?!!!! Sitting there chuckling with pics of HER child behind her!!!! Ooooo I’m mad!!!!
I was a student at ISU when he went missing and this situation was very heartbreaking to watch. Thank you for giving his family a platform and continuing to promote his story. Hopefully we can get justice soon❤
Carmen, last year I watched Kendall’s video about Jelani. Of course none of the stories Kendall covers are easy to listen to, but I was particularly moved by Jelani’s story specifically. Part of what stood out to me was how beautifully you spoke about your boy and how active you’ve been in seeking justice for him. Because of your efforts, I immediately remembered Jelani’s story when I saw that Mile Higher had posted a new video today. Your work has been so effective and you are honoring your son’s legacy while also helping other people get a sense of the incredible young man he was. While it’s just so unfair that none of us will have the privilege of meeting him ourselves, I know I’m not alone in feeling like through your use of your voice, I’ve been able to get to know Jelani. Thank you for sharing your son with the world. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into his gorgeous, vibrant life that should have been four times longer than it was. I am so, so sorry for your profound loss and I so desperately wish that you and your family didn’t have to endure this pain. You are so correct in saying that Jelani loves you-not past tense, but present and future. He loves you with all his being and he will love you forever, from now until the day you two meet again and beyond that. This stranger is sending all of the love and strength I can muster to you and your beautiful family. I think you are an absolutely remarkable woman and you are the best mom in the world.
Thank you so much for those words, I hate speaking of my baby in past tense. He loves me and I love him, I can't think of a time when I haven't been there for him until this happened and I'm angry because I wish I had of been there. But God allows everything to happen for a reason, I don't know the reason as of yet but Jelani has a purpose, I miss my baby so much.
This was one of the most impactful interviews I’ve ever seen. I’m so sorry what this family has been through. I hope and pray for justice, however it may come about.
Thank you so much for bringing this to your podcast as well. I was a senior at ISU when Jelani went missing and it impacted our community so deeply. My heart aches for his family and I hope he gets justice ❤
Hey Mile Higher Team! Just a small note. On the thumbnail of this video, you used an image from the University of IL campus. This is a different school and in a different town than IL state university, which is where Jelani attended. Just nit picking but didn’t want people to think Jelani was in Champaign-Urbana when he went missing as that might confuse any potential witnesses. Thanks!
Former crime analyst. It takes a very long time to go through a phone!!! If they really tried to say "there's nothing on it", that's BS. I spent months on one case going through a Cellebrite extract. This doesn't sound right at all, especially considering everything else.
Well...in a matter of 24 hours they told me that there was nothing in the phone, that it was connected to cellebrite and brute force... I know this can't be possible
@sashas7837 girl, he didn't delete a mfing Thing. He could've been on a call. He could've been doing a lot of different things. But, what you don't need to do is come on here talking about something you know nothing about. Unless you coming to march with the family or clean ,mop, wash clothes you need to go somewhere Ms. Daisy 🤬 🤬 🤬
@@Mysterymachine3 even if information was deleted, Cellebrite would show that something was deleted, which is an indication of activity. Meaning, there's not "nothing".
Almost 4 hour podcast ??? Yes PLEASE !! And THANK YOU for so thoroughly covering Jelani's case. He deserves his justice & I don't think his case is ever covered in enough depth.
I am 43 years old and it was this case that opened my eyes to what a Sundown town is. The ripple effect is also education. I will be making a donation to your foundation and I want to thank you, and Jelani, for continuing to teach me the hard things I wasn't taught in school.
This family is so educated, tight knit, and well spoken. What class they showed in a time when they are so frustrated by the lack of movement in this case. god bless their family. Praying for justice.
She is such an amazing mother! All of her kids are brilliant and beautiful! It hurts so much when decent people have it this hard. Kendall, you did such an amazing job helping them show us what an amazing person her son was!
I’ve been watching this episode over time to make sure I get all the information and try to really understand. One thing, the way that boy took the phone from his mom after just one change in the tone of her voice. 😢 what an amazing child, protecting his mom from the pain, what an incredibly strong family. This episode is tearing at my heart. 😭
1:48:24 Just to reinforce what Carmen said - during COVID at the Beyond/Hello dispensary (when masks were still required for entry), all customers were required to briefly pull down their mask and look at the security camera. This was a security measure to verify that their identity matched their photo ID given while at the store.
Wow. This case had me in tears. I had no idea about it. Which goes to show you that the media needs more involvement in missing persons cases. Being a southern Illinois native and not far from this is so heartbreaking and unnerving. I will be signing petitions and helping in anyway. Thanks for putting this out in the light Mile Higher.
I have a friend that went missing from Missouri in 2005. Its so sad how law enforcement blows off the family. She was experiencing some mental health issues at the time but she didn't leave her kids. The only person that supposedly seen her was her ex husbands cousin. She was a respiratory therapist and hasn't used her license since. The LE in our small town threatened her mom w harassment when she kept "bothering" them about looking into her disappearance. Her mom was in Flordia and couldnt relocate here to see they did their job. So sad, I hope you get closure.
Carmen is such a strong, devoted mother and her never-ending persistence in the face of poor case management shows so much resilience. Jelani and his family deserve so much better. Thank you Kendall + Josh for working with families in this capacity and holding space for them to share their grief. This work is so important.
During the first 10 mins i was already crying because you can physically hear the pain in his moms voice. I am so sorry this happened (and is still happening) to your family.
In all honesty whenever you guys have guests the sadness of these stories amplifies on another level especially when you hear these personal details of Jelani's life. Kendall and Josh thank you so damn much for doing all this work. You guys make this world a better place. Jelani,a restless and helpful soul that deserves all the justice. I'm sending all the love and support to his beautiful and courageous family.
Listening from Ireland. My heart goes out to Jelani, Carmen, and the Day family. I pray for this beautiful family. “I arise today, through the strength of heaven, the light of the sun, the radiance of the moon, the splendour of fire, the speed of lightning, the swiftness of wind, the depth of the sea, the stability of the earth, the firmness of rock.” - irish blessing for Strength
I’m 1hr into this podcast, not even into the details of Jelani’s disappearance/death, and I’ve been crying for a while now. Hearing his family speak of how Jelani was, their family dynamic, their stories and relationships - it’s so heartbreaking to think that such a key part of their family is gone and that they have to fight to keep his name alive and for justice. What you do here is so important, thank you. ❤
Kendall, could you please put this or portions of this on your main channel as well? It would get to such a wider audience and help push Carmen’s and Jelani’s families voice out to the masses
Peru isn't a Sundown town. I lived in this area my whole life. Anyone walking through LaSalle-Peru with no clothes on would have caused police to be called.
God bless you guys for bringing on his family!!! This is why you guys are so successful. You guys bless others with your blessings (one of them is this successful TH-cam channel) and you guys show humility and genuine care for your fellow human beings especially those in these kinds of situations. You may not be believers but I firmly believe you guys are following a calling that God had planned out for y’all. Thank you for helping others. Thank Jesus for you guys!
What makes me so mad the disrespect from these so called professionals treating this mother and her family!! Who were just trying to find answers of how Jelani died. His death is suspicious and no way he did this to himself. Jelani was murdered and they wasted so much time finding the answers. Thinking of the family. hope they find the truth!!!!! Justice for JELANI
The blue lives matter flag in the photo on police officer Sarah’s desk in that clip of her chuckling about Jelani… absolutely astounding. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and frustration Jelani’s family feel. My heart goes out to everyone 💓
Thank you so much for continuing to cover Jelani's case. I'm from that area and an ISU alum, so this one literally hits close to home. My heart breaks for his family and I feel their frustration.💔
I don't often get affected emotionally by cases but this one got to me. As someone who is extremely close with a parent (we call everyday) I cannot even begin to imagine the heartbreak his mama must feel. It hurts me to know that this family has not received justice after two years, that's not acceptable. I will be following this case and giving support to the family where I can. Thank you so much for covering this. Regarding the family - you all are so strong and I hope justice comes soon and swiftly
This is such a massive loss... He already achieved soo much in his short life and helped soo many.. i can't even imagine how much good he would have done or how many accomplishments he would have had if his life wasn't stolen from him. I love what Kendall and Josh are doing for this and soo many other families. I pray that he gets the justice he is owed and his family's questions are answered.
You can really hear the hurt and pain in Jelani’s mums & brothers voice, it’s heartbreaking 😢 Thank you both for been another voice for the family of Jelani and continuing to cover the case, sending love and prayers 🩵
this case has been so heavy on me. i’m from danville and this case rocked our community. kendall thank you so much for your work and for bringing Mrs Carmen and Seve on the podcast. 💜
Out of all the tragedies that you have covered, Jelani’s has been one of the saddest I think. Not only was he lost from his family and friends who loved him deeply, but a true loss to the world. All of us lost someone who really was determined to make the world a better place. It’s hard not to think of all of the kids who won’t get to see the Dr. They needed.
Kendall, Josh, and Mile Higher crew… thank you for giving victims’ families the space to share their story. Thank you for caring so much about these wonderful people and the lives that were taken too soon. I am usually a silent viewer, but this episode touched me. You gave them the space to speak freely and factually, which is so so important. Carmen and Seve, thank you for coming to speak about Jelani. Your family is so incredibly strong and I’m so sorry your family has to even go through this. It’s clear Jelani was such a positive light and would have gone far. Your family has never stopped fighting, which is incredibly inspiring. JUSTICE FOR JELANI DAY!
I STRUGGLE to watch this case. It always affects me a little more when the victims are poc and don't get the resources and investigations they deserve. I wanted to comment and give my condolences to Jelani's family. The police have failed you imo. I am more than willing to sign your petition and I hope Jelani gets true justice, because he deserves it. You can tell his passing was a huge loss for this world.
To be honest, I always tried so hard not to watch anything about this case, because the initial stories when he was found and the story the police spun, boils my blood and breaks my heart so much. I just took the courage to watch this and i still feel that strong feeling of frustration about it😢😢😢 What a beautiful soul cut off from this world. Beautiful family in and out, it is a real tragedy.
Can people outside the US sign this petition? This case breaks my heart so bad. I wish this beautiful family the strength to bear this painful loss and pray you get justice for Jelani, all my love from Nigeria❤❤❤❤
Isn't it a great idea, what a beautiful lady to be hurting and still so pure of heart and caring ♥️ My heart breaks for this amazing family 😢 I pray for the answers for them.
Hearing her say, *_" don't know why I got to come out here to see you, but I'm here."_* Profound and heartbreaking. That young man had so much going for him, a candle extinguished too soon. One day somebody will answer for his demise.
I think the police is hiding something. This is not right im so mad i could cry. I wonder if the teacher and her husband did something. Im so so sorry, rest in peace Jelani
total cover up... if the teeth are missing and they removed the jaw bone, its to cover up a fracture .. and a facial attack.... the cops are pushing the story they want, which is what they want everyone to believe, that he drowned himself... utter bullshit.. My heart goes out to his family... just shocking Huge Hugs
Been following this from the beginning- my daughter was Senior undergraduate in the same major at ISU. Thank you for humanizing him in a way the press has not done.
I'm a speech-Language Pathologist just two years older than Jelani - I can attest to the stresses of all the schooling. My heart goes out to your beautiful family. Thank you Kendall and Josh! Fantastic episode to spread awareness. Justice is needed.
Thankyou for not just leaving people with just a name Jelani. You put a person behind that name and it resonates that much further. Jelani isn't just another statistic he was a son a brother a friend he lived he made impacts in peoples lives and if the police could see that he's not just another name maybe they would have done their jobs correctly. So many things were missed in this case it's infuriating.
My heart breaks for this family. Despite all the pain and everything she’s gone through, Carmen is so well spoken. It’s clear she is an intelligent woman and loving mother who just wants the answers she deserves. And Seve is so strong as well to stand by his mother and help with their investigative efforts. I really hope Jelani gets his justice. Kendall and Josh, thank you as always for truly helping the victims feel heard and supported.
I've been fighting tears hearing the strength to continue over the pain of this mother to keep going until she have the closure her family needs. God bless you all guys. Thanks
FINALLY! light shed on this horrible case. This haven't left my head since I've heard it! Thank for shedding light on this! Jelani day may you RIP and find justice!
Thank you so much for always showing such respect, care, and tact in the way you execute these podcasts; especially when you have family members on as guests. It adds a level to true crime that is much more personable than just retelling the events. It makes people feel. In a world where people have become so desensitized to true crime, that is so important. We are eternally grateful for everything y’all do 💚💙 praying to the universe for this family, they are so strong, the way they present themselves while battling this trauma is inspiring. 💜🤍
Josh and Kendall, I am a Bloomington-Normal native and to see you bring attention to a case so close to me is so touching. I've followed Carmen's updates about Jelani's case since he first disappeared. I sincerely hope for Jelani, his family, and our community that justice is brought to light.
Wow! This is the first episode in a long time that I watched over TH-cam instead of just listening over Spotify. This is truly heartbreaking. I absolutely fell in love with Jelani's mother the second she started speaking. Such an amazing person. I cannot believe the level of corruption and hate they experienced. Hopefully one day soon, Jelani will receive the justice he deserves
I'd bet anything that those police officers found tons of crucial information on that phone, and knew that if they turned it over it would look bad for them. It'd prove that they didn't do ANYTHING to help this family get answers. Why else would they refuse to give it to the family? The detectives have proven time and time again that they aren't interested in getting justice for this family. Unbelievable.
Thank you for this video. I live in Illinois. I work in Morton and Bloomington, and the fact that there has been radio silence on this has boggled my mind. I didn't know they found anything in Morton, and I know people who live there. I have been wanting an update on the situation. I'm so happy the family was able to speak. Thanks again.
Thank you for bringing awareness to this case. I am from Bloomington Illinois and I have followed this case since day 1. I am hoping and praying we can get answers for this family❤️
As a Momma of a girl born in '96, this story hits me straight in the heart. The love and heartache I have for this family, which makes me so sad. Momma and Daddy, y'all have raised your children right!! I am so sorry for your hurt and pain. I signed the petition and will absolutely send out the more aggressive email. Please reach out if you need anything 💓 It truly takes a community and we are all here for ya!!❤
The disrespect some of these police stations/forces have for families is something else. It makes me sad some people still don’t see it. I hope the family gets all the answers they deserve.
I don’t think I have ever left a comment and I watch it all - Kendall, Lights Out, The Sesh, etc - and have been a loyal fan for years. I am also a true crime junkie (obviously), but I hate to watch unsolved cases. However, I don’t think I have ever been so moved to tears and filled with empathy for a family as I am with this family. As a mother, the bond she describes with Jelani reminds me of my relationship with my son. I can’t even begin to fathom how I could even begin to breathe if I were in her shoes. She is so genuine, strong, compassionate, and has so much grace during a time when most people would just fall apart. I am going to share this on my socials and sign the petition. I also plan to purchase merch and donate to the Jelani Day Foundation. Please keep us posted on any developments. My prayers and love go out to the family. Kendall & Josh, you should pitch this to Netflix and Hulu. It was amazingly done. Now I think I’ll go squeeze my kiddos and remind them they are my entire world. ❤
i watch these on my days off while i'm walking around my house cleaning & tending to my momly duties. seeing this is an almost 4 hr video & the family is involved? made my whole day!
This case is one that has always bothered me. Hearing Carmen talk about Jelani brought tears to my eyes, my heart goes out to the family 🩷 & I hope they are able to find answers soon
Wonderful interview and both Carmen and Seve are so eloquent. You seem to be wonderful people and your family sound so close and loving. Carmen, you have such a lovely voice, so soothing and melodious. I remember Kendal talking about Jelani before and I'm disgusted at the treatment you've received. I truly wish you all the best and pray for justice for Jelani
The way they have been treated is horrific. I just can't understand why they aren't getting the help from law enforcement that they need. I could not imagine what they are going through and I hope and pray to God that they can get answers as to what happened to their loved one. I am sending all of my positive thoughts and deepest condolences their way and will also be reaching out to law enforcement to let them know how poorly they have done and this family NEEDS answers. This is absolutely horrific.
So sad and senseless. Jelani had his whole life ahead. I hope the family gets answers soon. Sending lots of Aloha to Carmen and Seve. So sorry for your loss. Thank you Kendall and Josh for revisiting Jelani’s case. Breaks my heart. 💔
As a mom of a son who is entering college this interview really got to me. My prayers are with Carmen and her family and I pray there is justice for Jelani.
Not to be insensitive to the situation, but his mom does not look old enough to have a 25 year old kid. She’s beautiful on the inside and out. God please help their family receive answers. ❤
I have so many things to say, I don't even know where to begin. First, thank you Kendall and Josh for allowing Jelani's mother and brother give us so much insight and background about Jelani and his case, and giving them a platform to get more coverage on this devastating case. Jelani didn't deserve this and it is obvious there is so much foul play at hand. We will get justice, I don't care what I have to do to help, but I will do my part!! His family has my prayers and support, its time to get in the FBI's behind, THEY NEED TO DO THEIR JOB
Ms. Day is a FIERCE MOTHER AND WOMAN OF GOD. I am in awe of her strength. I'm so sorry this happened to your family. I Pray Peace for your family and Justice for Jelani. You worked hard; God's got you and your family's got you. Rest, Jelani.❤🕊
Condolences and love to Carmen, Seve and family. Thank you Kendall and Josh for your contribution and for bringing awareness. I don't know how Carmen and Seve are so composed. Sending love from Australia.
this episode really got to me. my heart goes out to carmen and her family, this case is so upsetting. I’m going to grad school for speech pathology this fall and i’m truly inspired by jelani to put my all into it and to not give up when times are tough. rest in peace and may this family get justice
Kendall & Josh thank you so much for including the personal stories & memories about Jelani & his family. It really made this interview special & I was so touched hearing Carmen & Seve talk about the love they have for Jelani. This case is so heartbreaking & thank you for bringing his case more attention.
I knew about this case from your episode on YT. But this episode and seeing Jelani’s family and hearing them has torn me apart….I have no words. I have shared on my ig, signed the petition and donated what I could at the time. I am so passionate about getting answers. To the Day family, I cannot even fathom what you all have been through. I hear it in your voice and saw it on your faces…it moves me the way you all love each other and I wish so badly we could turn back time to make sure this never happened. I am sending all of my love to you guys and promise to do everything I can to help, for Jelani and your whole family. I am so incredibly devastated and I hope everyone takes action to get answers and Justice. Thank you for opening up to us so we can get the full picture, no matter how hard that must have been. Stay strong. ❤️
This case is beyond sad and frustrating. The pain in her voice is tangible and I can only imagine the sentiment she's describing, the torture of simply not knowing what happened and not being able to find answers 😔
Sitting here listening to this poor mama talking about visiting her son's grave. I'm in tears. As a boy mom my heart just can't imagine. Stay strong mama, you will get your much deserved answers. ❤
You guys are truly amazing at what you do. Thank you for using your platform for helping families, and allowing them a safe space to tell their story. Such an amazing episode, and it tugged at my heart seeing how more comfortable his brother, Seve, got over the course of the episodes in opening up.
Thank you Kendall and Josh for continuing to care and wanting to help us get justice for Jelani, I truly appreciate the both of you. I appreciate everyone that cares and wants Justice for my son, this is not a easy journey but your support and prayers are truly appreciated.
Thank you so much for your strength and love. Our thoughts are with you.
You’re welcome Carmen, we’re happy to help. Thank you for taking the time to come out to Colorado and record with us and trusting us with his case. JUSTICE FOR JELANI DAY!
Your strength is admired. I will
Continue to keep you and family lifted in prayer. I asked the lord to provide Justice for Jelani and continued strength, grace and mercy for you and your family. ❤
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I pray you find peace and can let go of some of the guilt you feel. You are an amazing mother and are doing everything you can for your son even now you are still fighting for him.
I'm continuing to pray for your family. Thank you for sharing Jelani's story with us. Something isn't right and justice needs to be served for Jelani. I pray for comfort and peace in your family. You are a incredible mother. 💙💙
the way Carmen sounded so heartbroken at the beginning but was lighting up when talking about Jelani’s life was so touching omg 🥲
I was thinking the same thing. It must take immense psychological and spiritual stamina to keep on fighting for answers.
Right she’s so strong, and raised such incredible children for the sound of it. I believe her love for her son will get the justice he deserves. It’s beautiful to see such a tight family 💙
I watched this episode three weeks ago and I have been moved by the way these parents raised their children. We may never know, fully, what happened to Jelani, but no one could possibly doubt that he was loved.
The FACT that the head of the group of coroners in the area proposed a peer review of Jelani's autopsy that was DENIED ( and this caused him to actually leave his position) says everything about the disregard for finding the truth for this incredible family ...
With 2 additional autopsies would that have even have made a difference honestly?
@@susanw9111Yes it would have. At times different eyes and experiences can see other things that could have been missed 🙄
@paradoxtru5831 You're so right. Fresh Eyes. Many cases have been solved because a fresh set of eyes comes in and assist with the case. Blessings to The Day Family.❤ Justice for Jelani. 🙌🏾🙏🏾💪🏾
Whaaaat?! I haven't made it to that part yet!
Along with fresh eyes.. they can call out any actions they did that were not done properly . The fact anyone is thinking “will this even help” anything at this point will help.. and wouldn’t you want everything and anything done if this was your son or brother.. 🙄
I love you Josh and Kendall for bringing the victim's loved ones on your show. It shows you do care. Mama Day, my heart goes out to you and your family.
Man I think about Jelani often.. I can’t explain why but hearing Carmen talk brings me to tears .. she’s such an incredible person. As is Seve and the rest of the family. I know they take care of their mama you can tell how much they support each other. So much love to this family, I hope his case reaches the masses. Thank you so much Kendall and Josh for always advocating for victims and their families. JUSTICE FOR JELANI DAY!
me too 😢😢
The sound of Jelani’s mother’s voice is so broken. God Bless this family. Thank you Josh & Kendall for giving them this additional platform. Justice for Jelani ❤
I am a speech-language pathologist, and the loss of Jelani has been felt by so many in our field. It takes a very specific type of person to pursue speech- the light and love Jelani would have brought to his patients and students is unimaginable. Praying constantly for this beautiful family. Their ability to turn such tragedy into light and love is truly inspiring.
the one thing that keeps sticking out in my mind is Cara Boester contacting a “police friend” to help out… who is that friend and how involved were they
Was she ever investigated???
I think she said at the end she was never even questioned
There’s something so off about her. My mind just keeps circling back to her
Same thing i said
yep here we go ......
I can totally understand why Jelani would call his mother at the end of each day just to hear her voice. She has such a beautiful, calming, and comforting voice.
What a truly beautiful person she is. Inside and out. It radiates out of her. It’s no wonder her children are so close and so protective of her.
This family is such an inspiration and we need to protect them and help them in any way that we can.
Lets do this. Let’s get justice for Jelani.
It made me smile how Carmen would say "Jelani *is*" because that's how I just naturally refer to my grandmother that passed away, in present tense. Because her presence in my life has never left me.
Carmen should be extremely proud of all her children. I pray her and her family get answers and soon and that they can heal.
I noticed that, too, her speaking about him in the present sometimes. What a heartbreak it must be to lose a child.
The pain on her face as she recollects what happened. It’s so heart breaking. I hope they receive justice soon.
This episode made me so angry!!! I can feel the frustration, and there is no denying the negligence of the investigators on this case. It is always so impactful listening to the family give their personal insight.
Thank you for always providing us with resources on how we can help!!
Me too!! I’m sitting here furious too! I sat through this whole thing didn’t move once!! And to see the ending…with the PO Sarah?!!!! Sitting there chuckling with pics of HER child behind her!!!! Ooooo I’m mad!!!!
I can’t even imagine the pain. He would not of just drove there, someone done this to him! Those are facts!
I was a student at ISU when he went missing and this situation was very heartbreaking to watch. Thank you for giving his family a platform and continuing to promote his story. Hopefully we can get justice soon❤
Carmen, last year I watched Kendall’s video about Jelani. Of course none of the stories Kendall covers are easy to listen to, but I was particularly moved by Jelani’s story specifically. Part of what stood out to me was how beautifully you spoke about your boy and how active you’ve been in seeking justice for him. Because of your efforts, I immediately remembered Jelani’s story when I saw that Mile Higher had posted a new video today. Your work has been so effective and you are honoring your son’s legacy while also helping other people get a sense of the incredible young man he was. While it’s just so unfair that none of us will have the privilege of meeting him ourselves, I know I’m not alone in feeling like through your use of your voice, I’ve been able to get to know Jelani.
Thank you for sharing your son with the world. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into his gorgeous, vibrant life that should have been four times longer than it was. I am so, so sorry for your profound loss and I so desperately wish that you and your family didn’t have to endure this pain. You are so correct in saying that Jelani loves you-not past tense, but present and future. He loves you with all his being and he will love you forever, from now until the day you two meet again and beyond that. This stranger is sending all of the love and strength I can muster to you and your beautiful family. I think you are an absolutely remarkable woman and you are the best mom in the world.
Thank you so much for those words, I hate speaking of my baby in past tense. He loves me and I love him, I can't think of a time when I haven't been there for him until this happened and I'm angry because I wish I had of been there. But God allows everything to happen for a reason, I don't know the reason as of yet but Jelani has a purpose, I miss my baby so much.
This was one of the most impactful interviews I’ve ever seen. I’m so sorry what this family has been through. I hope and pray for justice, however it may come about.
Couldn’t agree more
So sweet to hear Carmen talk about Jelani always wanting to hear her voice, what an amazing son
I loved that part so much 🥺
Thank you so much for bringing this to your podcast as well. I was a senior at ISU when Jelani went missing and it impacted our community so deeply. My heart aches for his family and I hope he gets justice ❤
Hey Mile Higher Team! Just a small note. On the thumbnail of this video, you used an image from the University of IL campus. This is a different school and in a different town than IL state university, which is where Jelani attended. Just nit picking but didn’t want people to think Jelani was in Champaign-Urbana when he went missing as that might confuse any potential witnesses. Thanks!
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They changed it btw everyone! Thanks Mile higher!!
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Former crime analyst. It takes a very long time to go through a phone!!! If they really tried to say "there's nothing on it", that's BS. I spent months on one case going through a Cellebrite extract. This doesn't sound right at all, especially considering everything else.
Well...in a matter of 24 hours they told me that there was nothing in the phone, that it was connected to cellebrite and brute force...
I know this can't be possible
@mininjas !!
@sashas7837 girl, he didn't delete a mfing Thing. He could've been on a call. He could've been doing a lot of different things. But, what you don't need to do is come on here talking about something you know nothing about. Unless you coming to march with the family or clean ,mop, wash clothes you need to go somewhere Ms. Daisy 🤬 🤬 🤬
@@Mysterymachine3 even if information was deleted, Cellebrite would show that something was deleted, which is an indication of activity. Meaning, there's not "nothing".
Almost 4 hour podcast ??? Yes PLEASE !!
And THANK YOU for so thoroughly covering Jelani's case. He deserves his justice & I don't think his case is ever covered in enough depth.
I am 43 years old and it was this case that opened my eyes to what a Sundown town is. The ripple effect is also education. I will be making a donation to your foundation and I want to thank you, and Jelani, for continuing to teach me the hard things I wasn't taught in school.
The playbook idea is genius. Wishing this family peace, and praying they get the answers they’re searching for and deserve.
Agreed! Amazing mom, son, and family.
This family is so educated, tight knit, and well spoken. What class they showed in a time when they are so frustrated by the lack of movement in this case.
god bless their family. Praying for justice.
She is such an amazing mother!
All of her kids are brilliant and beautiful!
It hurts so much when decent people have it this hard.
Kendall, you did such an amazing job helping them show us what an amazing person her son was!
I’ve been watching this episode over time to make sure I get all the information and try to really understand. One thing, the way that boy took the phone from his mom after just one change in the tone of her voice. 😢 what an amazing child, protecting his mom from the pain, what an incredibly strong family. This episode is tearing at my heart. 😭
I noticed that too. What a wonderful mom and son.
I love that his momma said he was the busiest kid.. so sweet and warmed my heart. Prayers and love for justice for Jelani and his family
1:48:24 Just to reinforce what Carmen said - during COVID at the Beyond/Hello dispensary (when masks were still required for entry), all customers were required to briefly pull down their mask and look at the security camera. This was a security measure to verify that their identity matched their photo ID given while at the store.
In Canada, we had to do this as well.
We had to pull ours down for the attendents to see us in MA so this makes sense
I’ve been to dispensaries in Massachusetts and a few of them required you to look directly into the security camera.
I work front desk at a dispensary and we do this to verify who you are.
@_nadib.1013 I think that might have varied depending on your province. In QC, you absolutely couldn't take your mask off or pull it down.
Wow. This case had me in tears. I had no idea about it. Which goes to show you that the media needs more involvement in missing persons cases. Being a southern Illinois native and not far from this is so heartbreaking and unnerving. I will be signing petitions and helping in anyway. Thanks for putting this out in the light Mile Higher.
I have a friend that went missing from Missouri in 2005. Its so sad how law enforcement blows off the family. She was experiencing some mental health issues at the time but she didn't leave her kids. The only person that supposedly seen her was her ex husbands cousin. She was a respiratory therapist and hasn't used her license since. The LE in our small town threatened her mom w harassment when she kept "bothering" them about looking into her disappearance. Her mom was in Flordia and couldnt relocate here to see they did their job. So sad, I hope you get closure.
As a funeral director, I see a lot of autopsies. Never ONCE have I seen a pathologist or medical examiner remove someone’s jaw. Ever.
Carmen is such a strong, devoted mother and her never-ending persistence in the face of poor case management shows so much resilience. Jelani and his family deserve so much better. Thank you Kendall + Josh for working with families in this capacity and holding space for them to share their grief. This work is so important.
During the first 10 mins i was already crying because you can physically hear the pain in his moms voice. I am so sorry this happened (and is still happening) to your family.
When she said “if anyone should be angry, it should be me” I felt that to my bone. She is so resilient and strong.
In all honesty whenever you guys have guests the sadness of these stories amplifies on another level especially when you hear these personal details of Jelani's life.
Kendall and Josh thank you so damn much for doing all this work.
You guys make this world a better place.
Jelani,a restless and helpful soul that deserves all the justice.
I'm sending all the love and support to his beautiful and courageous family.
Listening from Ireland. My heart goes out to Jelani, Carmen, and the Day family. I pray for this beautiful family. “I arise today, through the strength of heaven, the light of the sun, the radiance of the moon, the splendour of fire, the speed of lightning, the swiftness of wind, the depth of the sea, the stability of the earth, the firmness of rock.” - irish blessing for Strength
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I’m 1hr into this podcast, not even into the details of Jelani’s disappearance/death, and I’ve been crying for a while now. Hearing his family speak of how Jelani was, their family dynamic, their stories and relationships - it’s so heartbreaking to think that such a key part of their family is gone and that they have to fight to keep his name alive and for justice. What you do here is so important, thank you. ❤
Same!
Kendall, could you please put this or portions of this on your main channel as well? It would get to such a wider audience and help push Carmen’s and Jelani’s families voice out to the masses
Let's be honest...
If we watch this channel we are also watching her channel too 😂
Peru isn't a Sundown town. I lived in this area my whole life. Anyone walking through LaSalle-Peru with no clothes on would have caused police to be called.
God bless you guys for bringing on his family!!!
This is why you guys are so successful. You guys bless others with your blessings (one of them is this successful TH-cam channel) and you guys show humility and genuine care for your fellow human beings especially those in these kinds of situations.
You may not be believers but I firmly believe you guys are following a calling that God had planned out for y’all.
Thank you for helping others. Thank Jesus for you guys!
What makes me so mad the disrespect from these so called professionals treating this mother and her family!! Who were just trying to find answers of how Jelani died. His death is suspicious and no way he did this to himself. Jelani was murdered and they wasted so much time finding the answers. Thinking of the family. hope they find the truth!!!!! Justice for JELANI
The blue lives matter flag in the photo on police officer Sarah’s desk in that clip of her chuckling about Jelani… absolutely astounding. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and frustration Jelani’s family feel. My heart goes out to everyone 💓
You guys are so amazing for not just bringing awareness about these cases but always donating too. You are both incredible.
Thank you so much for continuing to cover Jelani's case. I'm from that area and an ISU alum, so this one literally hits close to home. My heart breaks for his family and I feel their frustration.💔
Since hearing Jelani’s case, I’ve thought and prayed for him and his family many times since.
I hope Jelani's family gets justice soon. Thank you to his mom and brother for sharing more about Jelani.
What a beautiful family, my heart goes out to them, what wonderful parents ❤
No mother should ever have to describe the condition of her sons decomposed body. This was such a hard listen. Prayers to the family.
I don't often get affected emotionally by cases but this one got to me. As someone who is extremely close with a parent (we call everyday) I cannot even begin to imagine the heartbreak his mama must feel. It hurts me to know that this family has not received justice after two years, that's not acceptable. I will be following this case and giving support to the family where I can. Thank you so much for covering this. Regarding the family - you all are so strong and I hope justice comes soon and swiftly
This is such a massive loss... He already achieved soo much in his short life and helped soo many.. i can't even imagine how much good he would have done or how many accomplishments he would have had if his life wasn't stolen from him. I love what Kendall and Josh are doing for this and soo many other families. I pray that he gets the justice he is owed and his family's questions are answered.
You can really hear the hurt and pain in Jelani’s mums & brothers voice, it’s heartbreaking 😢 Thank you both for been another voice for the family of Jelani and continuing to cover the case, sending love and prayers 🩵
i had chills this entire podcast. i adore his mother: strength, grace and beauty radiates from her. i hope to be a mother like her to my son!
this case has been so heavy on me. i’m from danville and this case rocked our community. kendall thank you so much for your work and for bringing Mrs Carmen and Seve on the podcast. 💜
Out of all the tragedies that you have covered, Jelani’s has been one of the saddest I think. Not only was he lost from his family and friends who loved him deeply, but a true loss to the world. All of us lost someone who really was determined to make the world a better place. It’s hard not to think of all of the kids who won’t get to see the Dr. They needed.
The teacher needs to be looked at. Why was he texting her all day? There is no reason for a student to text their student all day.
His mother keeps ignoring that
She has something to do with it IMO😮
Kendall, Josh, and Mile Higher crew… thank you for giving victims’ families the space to share their story. Thank you for caring so much about these wonderful people and the lives that were taken too soon. I am usually a silent viewer, but this episode touched me. You gave them the space to speak freely and factually, which is so so important. Carmen and Seve, thank you for coming to speak about Jelani. Your family is so incredibly strong and I’m so sorry your family has to even go through this. It’s clear Jelani was such a positive light and would have gone far. Your family has never stopped fighting, which is incredibly inspiring.
JUSTICE FOR JELANI DAY!
I STRUGGLE to watch this case. It always affects me a little more when the victims are poc and don't get the resources and investigations they deserve. I wanted to comment and give my condolences to Jelani's family. The police have failed you imo. I am more than willing to sign your petition and I hope Jelani gets true justice, because he deserves it. You can tell his passing was a huge loss for this world.
To be honest, I always tried so hard not to watch anything about this case, because the initial stories when he was found and the story the police spun, boils my blood and breaks my heart so much. I just took the courage to watch this and i still feel that strong feeling of frustration about it😢😢😢 What a beautiful soul cut off from this world. Beautiful family in and out, it is a real tragedy.
Can people outside the US sign this petition? This case breaks my heart so bad. I wish this beautiful family the strength to bear this painful loss and pray you get justice for Jelani, all my love from Nigeria❤❤❤❤
Wow a “playbook”, a guide for the loved ones of a missing person to follow… that is a great idea… hugs and prayers for the Day family…🙏🏻
Isn't it a great idea, what a beautiful lady to be hurting and still so pure of heart and caring ♥️ My heart breaks for this amazing family 😢 I pray for the answers for them.
Hearing her say, *_" don't know why I got to come out here to see you, but I'm here."_* Profound and heartbreaking.
That young man had so much going for him, a candle extinguished too soon. One day somebody will answer for his demise.
Still no answer
I think the police is hiding something. This is not right im so mad i could cry. I wonder if the teacher and her husband did something. Im so so sorry, rest in peace Jelani
Yes I am totally thinking the same thing. Something is fishy about this case. I hope this family & Jelani get justice one day.
@@mdd6896 Thank you and I hope they do too. I've put them on my prayer list along with many others.
total cover up... if the teeth are missing and they removed the jaw bone, its to cover up a fracture .. and a facial attack.... the cops are pushing the story they want, which is what they want everyone to believe, that he drowned himself... utter bullshit.. My heart goes out to his family... just shocking Huge Hugs
Been following this from the beginning- my daughter was Senior undergraduate in the same major at ISU. Thank you for humanizing him in a way the press has not done.
The strength this woman has, I'm in awe. I could never imagine going through what she's gone through and maintaining the composure she has.
I'm a speech-Language Pathologist just two years older than Jelani - I can attest to the stresses of all the schooling. My heart goes out to your beautiful family. Thank you Kendall and Josh! Fantastic episode to spread awareness. Justice is needed.
i swear that's the strongest woman on earth right there. i hope the whole family can find peace and happiness.
Thankyou for not just leaving people with just a name Jelani. You put a person behind that name and it resonates that much further. Jelani isn't just another statistic he was a son a brother a friend he lived he made impacts in peoples lives and if the police could see that he's not just another name maybe they would have done their jobs correctly. So many things were missed in this case it's infuriating.
My heart breaks for this family. Despite all the pain and everything she’s gone through, Carmen is so well spoken. It’s clear she is an intelligent woman and loving mother who just wants the answers she deserves. And Seve is so strong as well to stand by his mother and help with their investigative efforts. I really hope Jelani gets his justice. Kendall and Josh, thank you as always for truly helping the victims feel heard and supported.
I've been fighting tears hearing the strength to continue over the pain of this mother to keep going until she have the closure her family needs. God bless you all guys. Thanks
FINALLY! light shed on this horrible case. This haven't left my head since I've heard it! Thank for shedding light on this! Jelani day may you RIP and find justice!
Thank you so much for always showing such respect, care, and tact in the way you execute these podcasts; especially when you have family members on as guests. It adds a level to true crime that is much more personable than just retelling the events. It makes people feel. In a world where people have become so desensitized to true crime, that is so important. We are eternally grateful for everything y’all do 💚💙 praying to the universe for this family, they are so strong, the way they present themselves while battling this trauma is inspiring. 💜🤍
Josh and Kendall, I am a Bloomington-Normal native and to see you bring attention to a case so close to me is so touching. I've followed Carmen's updates about Jelani's case since he first disappeared. I sincerely hope for Jelani, his family, and our community that justice is brought to light.
Wow! This is the first episode in a long time that I watched over TH-cam instead of just listening over Spotify. This is truly heartbreaking. I absolutely fell in love with Jelani's mother the second she started speaking. Such an amazing person. I cannot believe the level of corruption and hate they experienced. Hopefully one day soon, Jelani will receive the justice he deserves
I'd bet anything that those police officers found tons of crucial information on that phone, and knew that if they turned it over it would look bad for them. It'd prove that they didn't do ANYTHING to help this family get answers. Why else would they refuse to give it to the family? The detectives have proven time and time again that they aren't interested in getting justice for this family. Unbelievable.
Thank you for this video. I live in Illinois. I work in Morton and Bloomington, and the fact that there has been radio silence on this has boggled my mind. I didn't know they found anything in Morton, and I know people who live there. I have been wanting an update on the situation. I'm so happy the family was able to speak. Thanks again.
Thank you for bringing awareness to this case. I am from Bloomington Illinois and I have followed this case since day 1. I am hoping and praying we can get answers for this family❤️
As a Momma of a girl born in '96, this story hits me straight in the heart. The love and heartache I have for this family, which makes me so sad. Momma and Daddy, y'all have raised your children right!! I am so sorry for your hurt and pain. I signed the petition and will absolutely send out the more aggressive email. Please reach out if you need anything 💓 It truly takes a community and we are all here for ya!!❤
The disrespect some of these police stations/forces have for families is something else. It makes me sad some people still don’t see it. I hope the family gets all the answers they deserve.
I don’t think I have ever left a comment and I watch it all - Kendall, Lights Out, The Sesh, etc - and have been a loyal fan for years. I am also a true crime junkie (obviously), but I hate to watch unsolved cases. However, I don’t think I have ever been so moved to tears and filled with empathy for a family as I am with this family. As a mother, the bond she describes with Jelani reminds me of my relationship with my son. I can’t even begin to fathom how I could even begin to breathe if I were in her shoes. She is so genuine, strong, compassionate, and has so much grace during a time when most people would just fall apart. I am going to share this on my socials and sign the petition. I also plan to purchase merch and donate to the Jelani Day Foundation. Please keep us posted on any developments. My prayers and love go out to the family. Kendall & Josh, you should pitch this to Netflix and Hulu. It was amazingly done. Now I think I’ll go squeeze my kiddos and remind them they are my entire world. ❤
i watch these on my days off while i'm walking around my house cleaning & tending to my momly duties. seeing this is an almost 4 hr video & the family is involved? made my whole day!
I still think of the case a lot, and I'm glad y'all are still talking about this one. Jelani would be so proud of his mom & family 💖
This case is one that has always bothered me. Hearing Carmen talk about Jelani brought tears to my eyes, my heart goes out to the family 🩷 & I hope they are able to find answers soon
Wonderful interview and both Carmen and Seve are so eloquent. You seem to be wonderful people and your family sound so close and loving. Carmen, you have such a lovely voice, so soothing and melodious. I remember Kendal talking about Jelani before and I'm disgusted at the treatment you've received. I truly wish you all the best and pray for justice for Jelani
You can just hear the pain in their voices. It’s so sad and heartbreaking. Prayers go out to the family and Jelani
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The way they have been treated is horrific. I just can't understand why they aren't getting the help from law enforcement that they need. I could not imagine what they are going through and I hope and pray to God that they can get answers as to what happened to their loved one. I am sending all of my positive thoughts and deepest condolences their way and will also be reaching out to law enforcement to let them know how poorly they have done and this family NEEDS answers. This is absolutely horrific.
So sad and senseless. Jelani had his whole life ahead. I hope the family gets answers soon. Sending lots of Aloha to Carmen and Seve. So sorry for your loss. Thank you Kendall and Josh for revisiting Jelani’s case. Breaks my heart. 💔
I absolutely love how involved and invested you guys are in the true crime community
As a mom of a son who is entering college this interview really got to me. My prayers are with Carmen and her family and I pray there is justice for Jelani.
Thank u for covering this story I appreciate everything you guys do
Not to be insensitive to the situation, but his mom does not look old enough to have a 25 year old kid. She’s beautiful on the inside and out. God please help their family receive answers. ❤
It’s incredible to listen to Carmen. What an amazing young man. All of those stories are so heartwarming. Such a tragedy 💔
I have so many things to say, I don't even know where to begin. First, thank you Kendall and Josh for allowing Jelani's mother and brother give us so much insight and background about Jelani and his case, and giving them a platform to get more coverage on this devastating case. Jelani didn't deserve this and it is obvious there is so much foul play at hand. We will get justice, I don't care what I have to do to help, but I will do my part!! His family has my prayers and support, its time to get in the FBI's behind, THEY NEED TO DO THEIR JOB
Ms. Day is a FIERCE MOTHER AND WOMAN OF GOD. I am in awe of her strength. I'm so sorry this happened to your family. I Pray Peace for your family and Justice for Jelani. You worked hard; God's got you and your family's got you. Rest, Jelani.❤🕊
Condolences and love to Carmen, Seve and family. Thank you Kendall and Josh for your contribution and for bringing awareness. I don't know how Carmen and Seve are so composed. Sending love from Australia.
this episode really got to me. my heart goes out to carmen and her family, this case is so upsetting. I’m going to grad school for speech pathology this fall and i’m truly inspired by jelani to put my all into it and to not give up when times are tough. rest in peace and may this family get justice
Kendall & Josh thank you so much for including the personal stories & memories about Jelani & his family. It really made this interview special & I was so touched hearing Carmen & Seve talk about the love they have for Jelani. This case is so heartbreaking & thank you for bringing his case more attention.
I knew about this case from your episode on YT. But this episode and seeing Jelani’s family and hearing them has torn me apart….I have no words. I have shared on my ig, signed the petition and donated what I could at the time. I am so passionate about getting answers. To the Day family, I cannot even fathom what you all have been through. I hear it in your voice and saw it on your faces…it moves me the way you all love each other and I wish so badly we could turn back time to make sure this never happened. I am sending all of my love to you guys and promise to do everything I can to help, for Jelani and your whole family. I am so incredibly devastated and I hope everyone takes action to get answers and Justice. Thank you for opening up to us so we can get the full picture, no matter how hard that must have been. Stay strong. ❤️
This case is beyond sad and frustrating. The pain in her voice is tangible and I can only imagine the sentiment she's describing, the torture of simply not knowing what happened and not being able to find answers 😔
This is mind boggling the incompetency of the people in proffesional positions in this case.
Sitting here listening to this poor mama talking about visiting her son's grave. I'm in tears. As a boy mom my heart just can't imagine. Stay strong mama, you will get your much deserved answers. ❤
I just moved to the Bloomington area and cannot wait to wear my Jelani Day shirt all over Bloomington and Normal
You guys are truly amazing at what you do. Thank you for using your platform for helping families, and allowing them a safe space to tell their story.
Such an amazing episode, and it tugged at my heart seeing how more comfortable his brother, Seve, got over the course of the episodes in opening up.
Carmen my heart goes out to you. I can hear the pain in your voice. You are such a beautiful soul, thank you for all you are doing