A karen says she'll kill me
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 พ.ค. 2024
- Classic say my name nonsense.
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“Say my name”
“Heisenburg.”
“You’re goddamn right.”
Lol
hahahaha
i wanna see thet interaction irl
You mean Heisenberg? xD
It's a matter of principle
I don’t understand immediately being so aggressive and then having to sit in an Uber ride the whole time after being aggressive. So awkward.
couldnt agree more... and yeah, its super awkward. But this woman was actually super cool I thought once we started chatting... alot of the times it just stays super weird.
@@Driver_Eddie see this is what we need, ya'll came to an understanding real quick when things were explained logistically, which wouldn't happen if you got hostile too, this situation shows how empathy and a willingness to understand each other can diffuse stupid issues and I respect you so much for it
@@Driver_Eddie The real question is, what did she tip lol?
It’s a lack of emotional intelligence and self awareness. She wasn’t thinking logically. She was thinking with her emotions (fear) and making stupid decisions because of it.
Female privilege
that wasn't karen, that was heisenberg
Out of all places I did not expect to see you here but hello anyways
HAHA SAY MY NAME
oh shit elyotto???
You're goddamn right.
"How about "Hi"?"
I died. Just an absolute savage.
“HI, may i have your name please.” Polite and courteous.
fr all she said was can i have your name like she was just trying to be safe and he took it so offensively.
@@covor2535 Who wouldn't? You don't greet someone like that. You can greet someone normally, then ask their name. It's pretty simple.
@@covor2535 No she didn't, she said "say my name". Big difference between a polite request and an order.
Exactly! I have literally said before “Hi, I’m so sorry I’m feeling a little nervous…do you mind confirming my name and yours, thanks.” It’s so EASY! Nobody has to be rude, the entitlement is deplorable!
people don’t have to cater to your feelings just bc they’re getting a ride from you. those two women were clearly concerned for their safety and in their minds, some guy’s feelings isn’t more important than being alive, what’s so wrong with that? it’s like this dude just goes around looking for problems
At least she seemed respectful afterwards and you had a respectful conversation. I know nothing about the stories in this video but its scary. Protection should be there for both.
couldn't agree more
Gotta agree. I can respect someone who listens and corrects themselves. Elaine was pretty cool.
This worked because you each acknowledged the other's point of view. Empathy is a powerful way to get peace and understanding.
Good on ya! You're a natural. The country could use you in the diplomatic corps. (Smile)
@@lilibetmargaret I think so many people could learn to listen and share each opinion without being offended. Very well put.
If the other girl joined her, it would have been non stop “ya but” arguments. Never changing their mind and constant shouting
@@majormarketing6552 yea thats possible.
I really like this video. It shows you're allowed to make mistakes, that you can resolve things, try to understand eachother's view, respect eachother's view.
Both of you started off more 'hostile' than you should have, and than you would have wished to, but both of you also handled it well afterwards.
As short, and perhaps uneventful this was... this video does give a big life lesson that most of the 300.000 people that watched this could have learned from.
Props to the lady for SHOWING the change. there is no shame in being wrong and Changing to be right. We all learn that way at some point.
I dont think she was wanting to be rude, she seemed fairly new and was just following what was being said.
Could've asked nicely.
agreed, she was even hopping onto some of the idea the uber driver had. she was respectful imo, her friend was not though.
Yea still she should’ve thought that Mabye it was a little rude
she is so oblivious to what like is like as a working class person
Yea that's how most women of her age are from my experience
I think the friend was the rude one. This passenger seemed quite open minded and chill after the initial “say my name” bit. Which was probably prompted by the friend. Good on you for having a respectful conversation and giving her some things to consider when dealing with drivers in the future. 👍🏻✌🏻
Yeah the friend was rude to accuse the driver of being a murderer
The passengers friend was a trouble maker for sure, great assessment on your part.
He was rude the entire time lmao, she was polite
#CurbYourKaren When the Uber driver turns out to be the Karen.
@@simrdownmon6431 Ah yes, cause threatening to kill someone and being aggravated about that makes you a Karen.
Your first 2 minutes of explaining your situation hit home with me to the core, and I've only been doing this for less than a year, people out there are weird.
That's right. I would look at the plate. I don't care about saying the name.
Feel like she was a little drunk, but it sounds like she was understanding
exactly! im glad she was willing to have a conversation about it instead of becoming defensive
True. She wasn’t full a Karen in true glory. Sort of Karen-lite. She not that bad.
@@Revelator2025 She wasn't even a Karen. People make mistakes.
Much respect to the passenger. She sacrificed her own ego to learn something new, which is very wise and admirable.
A very rare thing these days
I have a strong opinion about a lot of my beliefs but I always have an open mind and if I one day truly think my belief is wrong, I would change my beliefs to what I agree with more then
So you know Uber is telling people to ask for the driver's name but instead of telling her you opt for your own little powerplay.
While Uber does tell people to ask for names, it doesn't mean you should replce a simple greeting with an agressive "say my name". That's just rude.
Robert, watch the video about 5 more times. I think that should give you a good grasp of what's happening.
She actually genuinely seemed nice.
She says I like that. Lol
She sounds high
@@1600Walker sounds more like intoxicated, the way she’s slurring her words & can’t figure out how to buckle her seatbelt.
I was trying to figure out if she was saying that she likes the part about getting a free ride or the part about killing him
Yeah She loves that 🙃🤣
In one ear and out the other...
"You're very smart" - how drunk people respond to logical suggestions
Pfft, that’s how normal people respond to logic these days
@@danthompson5797 no doubt he's more aware than most people, but what he said honestly wasn't a breakthrough in philosophy :P
He was just practicing the lost fine ancient art which people once called "common sense"
@@xxCrimsonSpiritxx Well, to be fair, more people than ever have "common sense" these days compared to humans 2000 years ago. Imagine living in that age where almost everyone was the book definition of a moron.
@@rihasanatrofolo2472 Debatable, two thousand years ago when humans saw danger they run the other way, now adays we have people taking out their phones to film other people in distress for clicks and views
We didn't really improve in any way, we just found other ways to act like "morons" while patting ourselves on the back for past achievements as if we did them ourselves and not by hardworking decent people in their own times
People a thousand years from now may look back at us in history and think "look at those privileged morons, fighting about pieces of cloth that helps them limit the spread of a virus, and over the colors of each others skins and race as if they're not also humans, so glad I wasn't born then"
(and those are just two examples, I can go on alot lot more)
@@xxCrimsonSpiritxx that is aIso debatabIe. whiIe i beIieve our brains more or Iess haven't changed (though i beIieve they have), they haven't been stretched to their potientiaI Iike nowadays. communication is key.
That's how a nice person gets "intoxicated" with stories from the Uber/media and then thinks that every Uber driver are a danger.
Thanks for bringing her to "reason" calmly and not overreacting. And kudos to her for realizing she was in the wrong. It's a difficult time we live in, and I totally understand how one can get in such situations
You are correct allot of people show no emotional empathy for their fellow humans
Rational empathy is what the driver used to deescalate the situation. Which is the best way to handle those types of problems. Calm, rational and respectful.
"how about hi" i like that come back eddie
@@covor2535 his name and plates is on the app..... your entire argument makes no sense.
@@covor2535 do I need to add his picture is there too or is the last 2 claims I gave good enough......
@@covor2535 You're totally missing the point. Treat people like you'd like to be treated. The issue is not appealing to the request of "saying someone's name', ths issue is being an asshole about it. Eddie is right. Instead of demanding, be like ""Hey, how's it going! Hey, I know you probably get this a lot, but could you say my name? I just want to make sure you're my uber driver." Boom. Done. Drama avoided.
The way I was raised whether you’re talking to the president or a homeless man, you talk to them with respect. Not better than anyone. You’re not special.
What I also learned is treat people the way you want to be treated :)
@@Bobbyoung64 but some peeps dont wanna be treated the same way as you.
@@ameliaforever660 I’ve always held that opinion even though it doesn’t make sense. What if someone wants to be treated like shit? Just a thought.
@@oggiekrstic7171 Yeah I agrea. everyone is so diffrent.
It shocks me that most people aren’t raised that way.
Love how your responses in this video are on point man, responding including “information” and respect, wish i could man but im glad u can and show it to the world
She actually seems chill
I can see how the first interaction would have pissed anyone off. Just glad she was sober and adult enough to understand where you were coming from and she ended up being pretty respectful.
But she's still a "Karen" ... Even after he admitted that most ppl act like this. Shit's ruined my name. And having said this I'm ready for the barrage of what a "typical" "Karen" I am, total bitch, I should kill myself etc. I feel really bad for the ppl actually named Karen who can't handle it. It's quite overbearing on the internet.
She reminded me of my friend Dee. Just unaware of how rough she comes off but there's a heart of gold in there. She's largely misunderstood.
@Karen Lamb Yeah these two women are getting flamed for no reason, the women who said she’ll kill him was only saying it if her friend was killed by him. But yeah I wouldn’t go back for her
Lol I feel my boyfriend would have reacted the exact same as him, he doesn't like attitude from anyone
@@KARENboomboomROXX She wasn't a Karen... A Karen doesn't listen and come to an understanding.
Awesome seeing someone diffuse the situation with words. Most people either stop talking and take it, or escalate to unnecessary insults or yelling. Good job man
Ed is obviously the master of that
Yes, the passenger did a good job diffusing imo.
#CurbYourKaren When the Uber driver turns out to be the Karen.
@@simrdownmon6431 what are you talking about? that Dustin was the Karen? were we watching the same video? lmfao the women told him she'd kill him literally within 5 seconds of meeting him, I would've drove off, I don't have the patience for idiots like her, Dustin on the other hand diffused the situation.
“Hey how are you doing tonight?” “Awesome can you tell me my name from the app so I know I’m safe?” THAT SIMPLE TO BE NICE
You’re businessy she’s not. 📢
Lmao. That friend funny
Good on you mate, there really is no need for people to leave their good manners at home when we talk to one another :)
Who says she has any at home?
@Rock Wilson I can almost guarantee you that lady was a Trump supporter
If you look for a fight you'll find one.
@Rock Wilson Also, poor grammar, spelling, and punctuation. It's democrats, not Democrat's and it does reflect on your education and intelligence. This is like someone dropping a Jesusy comment where it doesn't belong.
@@jeaninepetty4923 pompous
I agree. People who think they have power a lot of times they abuse it. In less than 30 secs you’re being threatened? You are an awesome guy with how you handled this. You could have refused service but I’m glad you did take the time to educate her and us.
It's tough for drivers to deny service, even if they think they probably should. They may have driven miles to get to the pick up spot and if they decide not to take the ride, they get no pay.
I used to drive and the worst thing was when you'd get to the pick up point and the rider would have a small child with no baby seat. It would put you in the position of leaving a young mother stranded and no pay for you, or you break the law, putting yourself at great financial risk should something happen.
This happened to me several times and I would always refuse service, leading to an angry rider.
Sometimes these situations are no win, unfortunately.
This is such a great channel, love the narration as much as the clips themselves - one of those rare cases in which a TH-camr adds something from themselves that actually isn't redundant... appreciate your work ethic and view on things, keep it up man!
“why would I pick someone up who threatened to kill me in the first 5 seconds of meeting” LMAO
Ya riders think they have power over drivers... it’s called pay attention to the app. Now in NJ we have to have queue cards in the windows. Riders say our name and then we say their name that way drivers won’t get screwed over. She was like “I like that” on getting a free ride lol 😆
I miss jersey. Is that what’s been going on down there? Has it gotten better than last year? Middlesex county here
It's good that the rider says it first so people can't cheat drivers.
Shut up. Thanks
@@sundazed2975 ayee Bergen county here. Nj actually just got awarded best place to live in America😌
@@yungcee321 by who? Murphy?
If I recall the uber app also shows a picture of a driver, and also shares what kind of car they'll be driving, also you can track where the uber you're waiting for is. Which is how I once knew my uber guy was at a nearby McDonald's lol, and how I learned how an Uber Driver lives on the street behind mine.
Exactly! It’s up to the rider to get in the correct vehicle because they literally give them everything they need to know about the driver.
@@alexiskitchens i like your name
fr, for drivers basically all they get is a name and location. the name is the only way to confirm the passenger, whereas theres a bunch of ways that the passenger can confirm the driver
If it was PURELY about safety - they wouldn’t get into a car with a stranger. People are just assholes. And like you said, people love asserting their power.
When you said, "By me?" I was like THANK YOU!
1:15
Absolutely. I always check the make and model and license plate.
Many people forget common decency these days. You’re a good dude for reminding her.
Dude you handled this so perfectly. They have our picture, our name, plate, car make, model, and color.
All we have to identify a passenger is 1 first name.
I can't tell you how many times I have to explain how the "same my name" movement backfired on drivers.
*say
@@blackqweenmars
I was entirely clueless and quite frankly flabbergasted at what possibly “same my name” would mean and you’ve completely dispelled my confusion. Now I can die in peace knowing the truth thanks to you.
I award you one chocolate chip cookie.
🍪
“I like that! You’re smart!” Lmao broo she’s definitely had a few
this is why im glad i decided not to drive uber or lyft, i wouldve cancelled so many trip automatically off attitude issues lol
Working in service in general sounds awful. People always act like they own the place
@@ShaXCwalk oh trust me, I know. I used to be a bartender/bouncer lol
And this is why I'm taking anger management class😂😂
You're very good at choosing your words and being kind at the same time
U have such a great sense of speech!! I’ve tried to teach my kiddo to treat others how u want to b treated really simple rule, not sure why it’s so hard for some people!!! Good luck to u!! Thanks for sharing ur Uber journey!!😁
3:34 "If I say your name is Lindsey, then you can just get in, rob me..."
"Kill you, yeah I like that"
Hold up what 😂
Uber drivers have also been killed by their passengers too. I remember having a 50 year old man play the say my name game with me and I encouraged him to check the license plate. I was picking him up from the waste management open with 200,000 people so I definitely had to confirm he’s my rider
I wonder what's more likely, a male uber-driver getting killed by a 55 year old lady, or getting killed as a 55 year old lady by an uber driver impostor.
Why can't people be nice, especially to people that are providing a service to them?!
You couldn't be more right about the lack of perspective in society today. My oldest is afflicted with it, so I'm trying to make up for it with my 2 youngest. Please do your part to help others gain that knowledge. We definitely need it.
Was typing "why dont they just check license plate?" Then you said it before I could 😂
You’re a good guy Eddie. The world needs more of you bro. Keep up the good videos. Stay safe my friend.
“By us?”
“By me?”
Funny how that works.
“Uhh no I most certainly will not” 😂
there are some people who seem angry while they are just "seriously" joking
Eddie Doyle: making the world a better place one Uber ride / video upload / human interaction at a time. I love what you’re doing man. Keep up the good work...
For me, I always thought it was weird that when I got into Uber's they would just say: "Are you Patrick?", and I'd just say "yep", an they were cool with that. Me saying yep proves... absolutely nothing. They've got the whole pin system now which makes sense, but it was crazy how little verification there's been historically.
I never really felt unsafe getting into an Uber because like you said, I just have to check the license plate and then I know that you're the right person.
You handled that SO professionally omg
Eddie, holy cow my guy. I just have to say you have some great patience and I’m ashamed to think about how I would’ve responded to these ladies. Your remark to her saying, “By us?”, replying with ,”By me?” was just brilliant. Big props
I'm a young(isn, lol....eh, I'm getting old) woman living in a very large city, and I've taken a lot of Ubers (not even just in the country where I live, but other places too - and yes, all over the United States). I have NEVER spoken to a cab driver like that. Ever. In fact, I always make an effort to be nice and friendly.
It's not that hard. I manage to do it even though I actually was assaulted by someone years ago (not an Uber driver though), and even with the trauma from that experience, I've still never found it unnecessary to be rudely suspicious of my Uber driver.
If you're that worried about being kidnapped or assaulted, just make sure that the guy matches his picture, and that his car is the same make as the one your driver is supposed to have. The Uber app gives you a description of your driver's car, their name, and their photo. A potential attacker isn't going to match all these details.
That being said, I don't think the woman was a bad person - she was just following trends, and I think she realised what she did wrong what you pointed it out to her. We all make mistakes. What matters is how we react when we realise that we're in the wrong, and she reacted fairly and maturely.
It's a reasonable question to ask. She is just trying to verify that you are her driver.
Great message.
"Hi, you're Dan, right?"
-"yeah"
"Oh cool, could I have you say my name?"
-"yeah, it's Dumlesbo, right?"
"Yep."
Drive: Verified.
I always look at the license plate. I don’t want to force a driver to attempt to pronounce my name.
how do you pronounce your name beautiful
@@theshapekills it’s one of those names that is really easy but people complicate it. It’s Rah-Nell.
@@ranizzle10 that was my first guess it’s not complicated at all but it’s a nice name though don’t hear it often
@@theshapekills thank you! I’m not sure why it gets pronounced incorrectly all the time. I don’t care or anything but it does baffle me at times.
Someone greets me like that I cancel and drive off.
Bravo; a seemingly-rare instance of patience and reasonability arresting and neutralizing fear and the intoxicant of enabled power to reach a sane, mutual understanding…
Basically: You can't ask for respect when you're being disrespectful to someone.
I understand what he's saying perfectly. It's him trying to teach someone to just have a bit of common courtesy. I'm with you 100% Eddie.
Not everyone I don’t act like that and never will. Thank you for sharing
Oh please, she's hardly a karen. She did what she thought was right even if she wasn't being super cordial at first, and she also was very good about seeing it from another perspective. Come on.
No, you misunderstood. The other woman is the Karen
Do you not see how respectful the driver is?
Agree, I think the friend was being rude and a "Karen" but they also seem to be drinking by how the friend was slurring her words. I don't think they should be talked to that way by a driver for a company that specifically gives people rides. And as she says in the car, customers are told to ask the driver if they know their name. Both the driver and passenger were initially rude to each other, in my opinion, but the driver should've been a little more courteous no matter what. He is providing a service to paying customers. Asking if he knows her name isn't that rude and if I was spoken to by an Uber driver that way, I would've cancelled and asked for another driver or go with another company.
@@samuelsprings7245 bro
Welllll being aware that you have a hard time imagining what it's like to be in someone else's shoes is a huge step most people don't take - never underestimate the difference!
“Say my Name”
“Karen”
“You’re goddamn right!”
😜😗
thank you for being such a real person, I hope you are having a good day!
Took her about 2 minutes to put her damn seatbelt on😂
The one dislike is the Karen
The ultimate mom just rode backseat lol
I like that she was cool enough to have an actual conversation and be open to understanding your point of view
She seems like she was drinking, then they get a little rude. I think they were ok.
oh for sure! I thought this was a cool example of how people can resolve a little misunderstanding like adults, ya know?
80% of people they pick up after dinnertime have been drinking. :)
Female privilege, have a guy say "I'll kill you" and see how it goes with Uber
@@briangereau788 I love how ppl assume everyone is like they are when drunk, we aren't all holding anger inside like u bruh
@@BACNandEGGS ummm okay? Your comment makes zero sense.
The fact that we cant seem to put ourselves in other peoples shoes is the reason why we're in the position we're in today! The movie joker is a great example. I respect the way u handle yourself.
We truly don't as a society,behave decently to each other anymore.My grandparents would be mortified by the world today!!😥
Loved the way you handled this
That was crazy.... Kate 🤣
Elaine ended up showing humility in their conversation.
another thing that could be a factor. its a tough world out there, especially for older people like my parents. people are wired to run a certain way, to get through life. they seemed pretty stressed out about that ride, weather it was a friend, or a teenaged grand daughter who told them how to treat uber drivers because of a recent murder, or a tiktok, or whatever. im not really sure how to explain my thoughts on this. but I blame society once again.
I like how you checked her😂 super hilarious but totally on point.
That Karen was the best nicest karen I’ve ever seen
Dude just say their name so they know they’re safe....what’s the big deal
Exactly my point too, but he needs an interesting video I guess...
She was receptive and empathetic when you explained your situation to her. She was a nice lady. Most people don’t even want to listen to alternate points of view
Really enjoy your videos!
I wouldn't have even unlocked my door to let them in.
You handled that well man. So stupid they'd email riders to say "say my name." Sounds like some Heisenberg type stuff.
Don’t they show the picture, name, and car model of your driver ? Riders have so much more info to keep them safe.
@@alexiskitchens yea it makes no sense how people end up in situations where they get into the wrong car.You have 3 different identifying factors to verify if it’s the correct car.Not to mention a GPS showing you exactly where the car is.z
for real, wouldn't "what's my name" be a little bit more polite than that condescending demand?
Lol her “your so smart” is just her lacking common sense. It’s ok some people are just slower then others we’ll all catch up eventually.
Says the one that can't spell you're and than
@@unie5085 maybe your sister can tutor me on some spelling?? Tell her call me back.
@@kidd6286 what if his sister is like 4 bro you gonna catch a case.
Damn whats this comment section lol
@@unie5085 bro it’s just a spelling mistake fuck
She turned it around. Most people don't. Good for her 😊
Eddie, you're such a nice person. Thanks for being you.
the people getting defensive about the "say my name" thing are entitled sociopaths that dont even see you as a person because they lack basic empathy. This Karen doesn't seem like a bad person at all but she is genuinely surprised when you explain your POV as it hadn't even crossed her mind that YOU might be worried about who is getting in your car.
The story the woman is referring to at 5:00 is about a woman who ordered a Lyft to meet a man in a park that she had connected with on an escort-like dating service website. She was never seen again, and until the real killer was captured, the Lyft driver who dropped her off was suspect. That's why for something like rideshare, dashcams are incredibly important. This video was shot with an Vantrue N2 Pro Dashcam (and if you use the code "Eddie17" at www.vantrue.net/ you'll get 17% off your total order).
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Hey Eddie
@@anythingchannelsilence7679 still lost i see. Somebody get the man a map!
@@truepancakes3941 hello! this video is about the "say my name" campaign... kind of like the campaign you are running! haha
Lol you’re still awesome
Man, you have the patience of a saint. Unreal.
Thanks for sharing... I learned something today... and, yes, kudos to the rider for being open- minded.
You handled this VERY well!
In recent news there was an Uber driver who had his mask ripped off by a passenger. Be careful out there!
Right! Even with food delivery. You never know where your going until your on ur way & ive had a couple scary encounters. luckily I deliver with my guy which I don’t think they were expecting one time..be safe❤️✌🏼
Should have responded “I accept your challenge, let the duel to death commence”
This women is nothing like a Karen. Karens are usually narcissists demanding to be "obeyed".
I think he's talking about the lady in the beginning who wanted to kill him
The" Karen "comment was for the woman at the building where the pickup..and " Kill you " comment..occured
No a Karen is someone who thinks they deserve some higher form of respect just for doing what a normal person does like going to a grocery store for some years or even riding in a uber a respect so high that they think no one should question them.
@@pheonicninja2259 You just described narcissism.