Sexually Abused as a Child and He Doesn't Believe Her! | Steve Wilkos
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ต.ค. 2024
- Beth endured years of sexual abuse as a child. No one believed her back then, and now her own boyfriend, Howard, doubts her story. Beth wants to prove to him and her family she's telling the truth. Furthermore, Howard says he's leaving if it turns out she's lying.
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"hey babe I know you had a suuper traumatic experience, your family is calling you a liar, and now I'm calling you a liar, but could you like stop? It's very inconvenient to my life." What a jerk.
honestly she needs to get her shit in order and stop playing bullshit games. I could care less about some lie detector test, they lie.
@@viperdemonz-jenkins get therapy
viperdemonz jenkins youre also disgusting lmfao . i cannot . get help dude .
@@viperdemonz-jenkins bruh you really need help
he has the emotional intelligence of a bread crumb and doesn’t love her. girl, you need to run.
“Get over it” as a survivor... that grinds my gears to the bone. She needs therapy and to leave that family and boyfriend in the crusty dust!
PREACH
Right, you can’t really get over it. It’s a life long healing process.
Get over it
@@calebpittman7444 you get over your bullshit
I didn't open up to ANYone, not even a therapist, until I was almost FORTY!!! Get over it??? Go away ASShole!!!
Beating a dead horse it's called PTSD Post Traumatic Stress Disorder people with that it's hard to get over tragic stuff like that men like this don't understand though
THANK YOU!!!!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼💯💯
She should walk away from him he is a selfish prick you can not just get over being sexually abused it happened to me from the ages of 6 till I was 16 I'm now 40 and still have trouble dealing with it
@Yorkshire Tea Yeah me too
@@mummyofafurbaby9237 I'm sorry and I agree
@@mummyofafurbaby9237 It happened to me from age 3-13 and it still affects me too. I have a really hard time trusting men and get terrified if I'm alone with a man.
"She said she was sexually assaulted... I think she's lying" My boyfriend could NEVVAAAA
Honey no REAL MAN would EVER say that bumb S@^#
I didn't tell anyone until I was 50 and I am 64 now and I have PTSD and it is a constant struggle everyday. I wish people would understand.
I've been through it myself, so I understand. I think only people who have been through it themselves understand.
Kathleen Quinian...I totally understand stay strong.
Im so sorry you struggle.
Stay strong. As someone who is also been abused I’m so sorry that happen to you. I’m saying a prayer to you and I wish I could give you a hug
Ma'am we're here for you, you deserved help, and you deserve our love.
He does not deserve you. He’s selfish and only thinks about himself.
How is that selfishness? He even said it would change a lot of things if he did actually happen, he even got on his knees to apologize and said he'd give it time to heal over before asking to marry her again. I don't know about you, but that doesn't seem like a selfish man to me.
120mm Smoothbore what? His fake ass apology? Your naive ass believes that? What a joke lmao. He’s a selfish & repulsive human being.
@@sakuraogami6885 I don't know many people who'd get on their knees to "fake ass apologize" - especially if it's not meant. I don't believe it, and frankly I don't care. I just wanted yo respond to the dumbass op who only got likes being the entire comment section is so effeminate.
Argent Knight: Artemis how do you know if it was fake or not I’m just saying I’m not tryna start a fight
Sofiahype 101 because look at it? It’s half-assed, there’s 0 emotion, he literally acts like he doesn’t care. Because he doesn’t.
She needs an apology from her family and fiancee....Victim blaming at its worst.
I had a similar thing happen to me
I’ve never wanted to punch the hell out of anybody more than her boyfriend. Sis, you deserve better.
You don't get over something like that. I was a victim of rape from my own father. I'm 34...I still have nightmares and it's been 24 years and years of therapy.
Stacey Boyd me 2. it was my uncle.
@@isaacmettle I'm sorry that happened to you love.
Stacey Boyd im sorry 2. ATLEAST I DID NOT END UP LIKE R.KELLY!! he was molested by his sister. LOOK HOW HE ENDED UP!!
@@isaacmettle Damn!! Is that true about R. Kelly??!! 😰😰
Johnathan Patrick yep
I think the color of the boyfriend's teeth is called "buttered popcorn." That's just disgusting.
😭🚪🏃🏾♀️ I just commented something like this
Omg! 😂😂butter popcorn😂 cause he jus "Extra"Gud1
😂😂😂🤣🤣😂
He needs this 🪥🧼
Is he the only one with teeth?😢
She’s doesn’t need to get over it but she does need to get help. There’s no way she can be happy thinking about it everyday.
Ashlee A I like turtles
What she has is Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and alot of people who have been abused in many ways suffers from this.
You do not have to be a Military Veteran to suffer from this, you can suffer through this with all kinds of abuse and bullying can bring this on.
Yes. She needs Therapy from a Professional who has training in this and it will be very difficult for someone to just stop the thoughts. Asking someone to stop traumatic thoughts is just like demanding someone to eat soup with a fork.
The only way she can control the thoughts is through individual therapy and group therapy.
Agree.
I think she needs to forgive the person that’s did that to her. Forgive her self for letting that person get that much power over her.
@@christy812 I wouldn't forgive, that isn't something that can be forgiven. Forgetting about that person and living your life the way you want, is what lets you be free.
Im sooooo glad Steve stepped in for that input. Damn coward didn't have the courage to believe for himself, had to take someone else's word for it. Good for her!
Why is he making everything about him? He’s disgusting.
That's what abusers do
Jazzelynn Gayle I like turtles
He's a horrid human
If I were her, I would tell him and all of the non-supporting family members to kick rocks! I'm glad Steve stood up for her at the end though.😉
Because she is making everything about her. If he smart he would just leave her be... she obviously needs to heal.
She deserves better. Honestly.
He's not worth you. He's beneath you.
Righttttt!!!!
Hooooo boy I had so many thoughts when this episode ended. This man actually resents her for being abused as a child, and make no mistake, he’s going to keep throwing it in her face if she keeps him around. She couldn’t even say a good thing about him but said he was her best friend. If he resents her so much he needs to leave her so that someone who loves her and will be there to help her get through the trauma not whine about how he wants to go “have fun”. There’s a reason he’s keeping her around and it’s not good. What he’s doing is emotionally abusive. She needs to leave him, he is a sad, little boy with a cold soul.
EdgarAllenHoe omg hello fellow crimson ghost pfp!! i love ur username lmao
I literally went to a therapist for 5 years, never told them once about my abuse
The guy getting pissed off about having to comfort his wife is disgusting. People who don't go through this stuff don't realize how hard it is to deal with
True but im still trying to figure out why it took her so long to mention it??
It's not always easy.. I told on my rapist when I was 6 and he tried to rape my sister he was never arrested .. we were taken to foster homes and they never made him face his actions.. if it was as easy as just speaking up alot more rapists would be in jail ..
@@REXae86 some people are scared to speak up about it. And once they finally have the courage they need to be heard
R.E.X so we’re still doing this?
@@REXae86 it's scary. Things like this happen when people speak up...they dont believe you. That's the #1 reason victims stay silent. Some people never bring it up.
When he’s down there begging, she should have been like, I don’t believe you and slapped the ring out of his hand 🤚
U can’t tell her how to get over things wtf is wrong wit him .
Get fucked this girls brain damaged I've been in the same place as she has n I wouldn't treat my boyfriend like that. Can't blame him for not believing her if her own family don't, girl needs to grow tf up
Yeah you eventually realise it makes you a bigger n stronger person,, yeah a lil crazy but damn this bitch is a maniac😂
@@shaniafoster8367 i dont think her mental damage has anything to do with it. Just cause you had to get over it, and did, that doesnt mean everyone will or should at the same pace. Especially with her whole family constantly doubting her. Hell, she said someone SAW that shit happening and ignored it. Ignored her. She was 8 years old, naked, violated, and nobody did shit. You can't blame her for her reaction. Everyone she told in that family should face charges for child abuse.
@@shaniafoster8367 Lets start a #me too here. Same happened to me too for real and I didn't spend my whole life whining about it even had counselling but at the end of the day you have a choice move on or let it destroy your life and that's fine but you will end up sounding like a broken record where no one wants to be around you. As for humiliating your boyfriend like that was way out of order. She is choosing to stay in victim mode. That's her problem not his.
@@omariramsey1154 I feel child abuse is abit exaggerated I get it yeah child neglect but I dknow she just proper brought out the victim card every minute but I guess that's what makes good live tv
She doesn't need to get married, she needs therapy
Girl! 😑 Leave him! He does not believe you. Go get a man who will stand by you through all the hard times.
Ms_nibri28 he sounded so weak saying sorry ....
@@mildredcapellan3450 Because it was half-assed. Inside he's still not believing her, and it's infuriating. Like nibri said, Beth needs a man who will stand by her side through the calm waters and the rough seas. Howard needs to find another woman, he's Mr. Wrong.
Johnathan Patrick i would of left him ASAP .. f*ck the history between them , if my man didnt believe me i would leave and pray it dont eat my alive
him: will u marry me
steve: *actually lemme jus-*
For real he says get over it! You don’t get over something like that you learn to cope and move on but you never really get over it. I think she needs to seek some counseling where they teach her to move on.
Fr!
@Johnny Atkins getting help is really hard for victims. That means no longer ignoring those traumatic memories and reliving everything.
She needs to dump him
@Johnny Atkins You never get over it. It follows you to your grave. No amount of learning how to cope and getting therapy will fix what has happened to you.
And sure, it doesn't define you, you can go on to live a happy normal life, you can even 'move on', I completely agree with that statement. But it is a part of you forever. And when you least expect it, it will come back to haunt you. Whether it's in your nightmares, or in a flashback many years from now.
No one is in any position to dictate how a victim deals with their trauma. Just because it inconveniences them in some way? Really? Sure chief.
Hard to not wallow in it when no one believes you.
Hes a jerk and she deserves so much better. Im glad steve interrupted the proposal to say something
She annoys you?! Oml- He has to go.
Right? If you don't believe me move on. I don't need another hater.
Hell yeah 😎
disgusting
6:52 that’s not the face of someone who regrets something. He wants to laugh so hard but tried his best to hold it in. He doesn’t care about her at all, he enjoys watching her breaking down.
This is disgusting. People who haven't gone threw this would never know how it feel. It takes so much away from you. You struggle with yourself, you struggle with having ANY sexual contact with ANYONE, and it constantly replays in your head. I would know...
As someone who was in the mœlested when they was younger. I have not "got over" my molestation been like five years. No matter what everyone has some kind of trauma, and with that no matter how long it's been. There's not a set time for you to heal. someone who is 105 may still not a fully healed because there's no set limit for healing! And this upsets me because I hate when people what always say oh "you should get over this" or like "you should get over a breakup." It could be that or you should get over your breakup or your childhood trauma urbanex your family because they 99% of the time have never been through. Whatever cause you that pain!
This guy is an absolute tool. Girl, drop him!
A tool! He is, a giant one.
I love that expression fits him exactly
Don't ever be with anyone who doesn't support you.
I don't get her with how she wants to stay with him. Him not believing her is a deal breaker to me. Her horrible family and what happened to her has obviously caused her to have no self worth.
As a survivor as well, this man is absolutely vile, disgusting and so inconsiderate. She needs to leave him!
You can never get over sex abuse. Those scars will carry on.
Yes I agree. My Aunt's husband molested me when I was nine. I'm now 51 and I just finally forgave him about seven years ago. It definitely took alot off of me. I of course have not forgave him face to face because I can't see him. If I see his pic on FB I just have to scroll on. I had to forgive in order to be forgiven. It beverages leaves your mind.
@@tinadickerson4322 I'm sorry for your tramua.
How do you tell someone to just get over sexual abuse. Childhood abuse has the potential to ruin someone's life. You don't just get over it. She needs to ditch him.
I’m sorry but if he questions his gf about if she was a victim of sexual abuse then hes not a good boyfriend
And he certainly ain't husband material. All throughout the story, I, I, me, I, me. Very little about trying to comfort Beth. 😡😠
FOREAL
THIS BEAUTIFUL GIRL IS GOING THROUGH IT AND HE DOESNT BELIEVE HER
She needs to loose that Zero and find herself a Hero.
The last thing she really needs right now is not to be in a relationship. She needs to work on herself through Therapy. Both individual and group. The Therapist needs to have clear cut training on Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder in order for this young lady can have a positive, successful breakthrough.
She would be alot more happier if she lives alone with a goldfish and puppy than having a juvenile jerk as a boyfriend who doesn't have a clue and in his own way can become abusive. A man doesn't have to beat a woman black and blue to abuse her, he can become, verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive and that to can become very traumatic in itself.
She should put herself and recovery first and not look for a man. When the timing is right then the right man will come along and treat her like the Beautiful Queen that she is and will be patient and understanding
All you girls bashing the guy yet you didn't listen to his side at all. The man wants to lead a normal life and is tired of having to suffer because she is mentally unstable. She says it herself he treats her well outside of not believing in her and is the one that helps her calm down when she has a mental break. Even though he doesn't believe her he still goes out of his way to comfort her and make her feel better, yet he is such a horrible human being for wanting to be happy. It is okay for the woman to be selfish and think solely about herself and not think about the strain she puts on him and his life, but as soon as he decides that he wants to know the truth for his own mental well being and happiness, then he turns into a greedy pig of a man. Just plain disgusting how you all can act like you are benevolent beings who are trying to virtue signal and yet ignore the feelings of everyone else. Get off your high horse and try putting yourself in his shoes, his entire life is limited because of her and he sticks with her because he loves her. Yet it is so easy for all you who are so perfect to stand up on your pedestal and talk down to people who you have absolutely no understanding of. The saddest thing of all is the thing you are giving this man shit for is what you are all doing yourselves. Hypocrites.
Anthony Payne lmao, imagine complaining about something you could help. He could of tried to give her that shoulder to lean on and help her instead of whining and complaining about the restrictions they BOTH share.
Steve I’m addicted to your show it’s too good and your doing good locking up these bad people
What in the living heck is wrong with her family
She should day no.....period
kayla acaedmy shut up you dont get it you werent hot enough
Bobbi Lapdog fucking sicko
@@bobbilapdog8023 Just stop before you look even more stupid... 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️😡😠
@GodBotherer1 They hound you for not giving them grandchildren...?? WTF??!! 😡😠 I swear, sometimes I ask myself why do many kids have to be born by horrible parents...
I’m sorry, I just can’t get over his teeth 🤢
Eww gross🤢
I feel sorry for Beth, I hope she gets justice. As for her family, it’s going to be too late to apologize to her unless they want to make things right for her.
Her family and the people (who did not believe her) are going to wish that they believed her from the beginning. If I was her friend, I would have wanted to help her out. The person who ruined her is going to pay the ultimate price and can rot for eternity.
This is exactly why abuse survivors are afraid to speak up because they are afraid that they won’t be believed
I’m so happy this show is on TH-cam 🥰🥰🥰😇😇
Charles Kloss if you download the app nosey you can get the full episodes !!
I like turtles
@@cashouttdan so do i
Me too
@@cashouttdan ditto
The lady at 10:24 , her facial expressions says it all for me. I would be side eyeing the hell out of this relationship.
Lol 10:24 is end of video also how r you I'm that girl and side eye it all y want we aren't together n y also don't know the INS and outs of the show b how extra they tell you to ve
“I gotta step in before you answer it.” He jus made my day . 🤣💀
the number of times I have been told that I'm beating a dead horse when I spoke about my past with assault literally makes me grind my gears hearing him say that to her...
It's hard to talk about because people dont believe it
Its been 16 yrs. since I was violently attacked in my home & I still deal with PTSD...I'm so thankful for my family & my love of my life...He has been understanding & changed things to support me.
She deserves to be healed and anyone who was a victim and not believed.
Amen and thank you!!!! I agree!!!!
It’s heartbreaking that she went to everyone she felt she could trust and no one even listened to her… she had to suffer that trauma alone and even those who are supposed to love and care for her, didn’t even support her.
"at some point you gotta get over it" he says. how easily/quickly would HE get over sexual touching against his will at a young age hmm?!?!
he doesn't deserve her
I didn't tell anyone until I was 35 and it is never easy to get over it even with thrapy it will never be be forgotten
He should have believed her until the results and then if it says she lied he could leave her but he was just doubting her from the gate she deserves better
1 min of her speaking and you know she's not lying..x x
Thank you I am her and I appreciate your comment sad tho that a complete stranger can see the truth but my own family still cannot
I wanna hug this girl so bad 🙁 I feel so bad for her
Steve really just shut that man down💀what a legend
He’s not good for her
If this guy finds it so exhausting to help his broken girlfriend, then leave her so she can find someone who will put in that energy, love, and support. She deserves better
It’s no one job to fix something they didn’t break that’s her job to get the help she needs not his
Steve: takes 1 step
Crowd: STEEEEEEEEEEEEEEVEEEEEEEEEEE
So true tho-
I’m still in shock, I’d expect better treatment from my enemies. An abusive family have obviously set her up to believe this is as good as it gets! She needs to find a whole new life!
Throw the whole man away ffs 😥 all I hear from him is "me me me". She deserves so much better than that.
You don’t get over it, but you learn how to cope in a healthy way. He’s right, you can’t let it define you. It sounds like she needs serious therapy. She needs help living her life.
I'm a victim of being raped and for him saying that bullcrap and he's saying that she needs to get over it and his stupid behind needs to shut up seriously and she can't just get over it
@@charlenemorris4166 it is possible to learn how to live our best life, with good quality therapy and a solid determination to help ourselves.
It doesn't define who we are, it shapes how we see the world, and we can change that.
What defines us is our character, and how we respond to life's experiences.
I am speaking from rock solid experience myself here and I love my life now.
I experienced multiple abuses, all three - physical, sexual and emotional. None of those defines who I am now.
I have grown into a strong woman with courage, perseverance and determination. ❤️
@@GypsyGirl317 first of all i'm so glad you survived, recoverd and found joy in your life you deserve all of it and i'm so sorry you had to go trough that it's terrible. But everybody is different, everybody copes different, recovers different and deal with it differently.
He don't love her, she needs to leave him, the way he talked about her and to her was sickening. Steve really makes people think about what's going on.
Now that's really sad when your own family doesn't believe you she was only a child why would a child lie about something like that
After he got on his knees & apologized I would’ve said “ ok bye “ and leave
A family is meant to protect their own🙏🏽
Who the f is he to tell a victim of a sexual assault to "get over it"? To say she should be moved on by now? He's no prize. It shouldn't even be a second thought to leave him and find someone who actually loves her. Sadly I don't think she's going to take any of Steve's advice and as soon as they get home tell her friends she's getting married
The highlight of my quarantine
Yes I swear
Him: "If she's telling the truth, I wanna marry her."
Me: "Why would she say yes to you after you just bitched about how much it controls your relationship, and how it pisses you off when she has flash backs?"
She should run from him cause he’s the freaking worst.
You know what sucks? This is why I never came foreword in boarding school when terrible things happened to me. I knew all the guys would look at me like damaged goods. I knew there was no way to prove anything. I knew people would get tired of me being the girl who had some sort of trauma that might “ruin the party” so to speak. You don’t get over it. This man is trash. He is garbage, Mary! Get your CDs and leave!
My heart goes out to her. I hope she gets help.
I really hope that things work out for both of them.
I pray GOD heals you. Sending love and prayers 💕💕💕💕💕
Thank God for Steve!
Haven't seen the whole video but I am a survivor of horrifi abuse from a neighbor let me be clear there is NO time line for healing even with therapy
I'm so sorry you were abused as a child. May you finally find closure and peace in your life.
Wtf she needs to leave him and her family alone smh
When he smiled I almost threw up🤢🤢
She really signalled Steve to step in damn
She needs to find a more understanding living boyfriend
"She should be over this by now." Spoken like someone who never had to deal with any kind of trauma.
Sounds like the dude needs to move on, be single and enjoy life. Chick needs therapy and needs help before she dates anybody. Black and white.
You nailed it. 💯
The Maverick Mind ummm she should leave him he’s insensitive and a asshole u dont believe someone over ur spouse
Exactly. It's a 2 way street. Yes, he needs to be supportive and stop taking her issue lightly. AND... she needs to get help to deal with her trauma . Her having been abused does not give her the right to drag him down to hostage land. She needs to stand up for herself, seek theraputic assistance and begin to rebuild her own foundation.
@@Mhel2023 Spot on!!
Mhel 2023 You don’t get to tell a victim how to deal with their abuse. Who the hell do you think you are ? You sound like him telling her to get over it and blaming her for not seeking help.
Absolutely not. He doesn't have her back, he's a spineless coward who will turn against her if someone pushier or louder gets in his ear. That's a useless man right there.
I have been throu the same as she did for 5 years. You never get over it.Trust me!
Come ON, girls! *Please* have some more self respect for yourselves! Do not EVER accept treatment like this woman does. This is not normal, this isn't a respectful, caring relationship with a man that truly loves you.
This is settling. Settling for something less than you deserve. Nobody, man or woman, deserves to be treated with such disregard and callousness. If you truly love someone, you always believe them and trust in their word. You don't need a lie detector test to tell you they're telling the truth that they were sexually assaulted. You don't need their family to believe that it happened, you don't need anyone else to believe that it happened. When you love and *trust* someone, their word is enough.
If this woman stays with him and marries him, she will be miserable forever. This is a person, (not a man, a person), that is too much of a coward to stand up and fight for and believe in his woman. When you're with people like him, you'll never be truly happy. There will always be another reason why he doesn't trust her completely or believe her word alone. He puts her down and tells her to just get over it. As if the pain is a switch that can be turned off. He's a pathetic scumbag.
She needs to get rid of him
I was in therapy for 4 years before I came out about my sexual abuse, things take time. I hate ignorant people.
Am I the only one cringing at the proposal? Even if he did promise that he’d propose if she passed, why do it there? Attention? Wrong move buddy :/
Damn Steve should also be a relationship counselor 😂❤️
I love Steve. His shows are so good. He is better than Maury and Jerry combined.
I love steve he is crazy I'm glad he got his own show to look at like I say he speaks for the innocent
My family don’t believe me either, this man is disgusting. It hurts so bad being told to get over something that ruined your life. I pray this woman is okay and she deserves way better.
Audrey Reid you deserve better too .
Shyanina Lissaint God bless you sweetheart. Thank you 🙏🏻
Audrey Reid God bless you too ,your welcome ❤️
I'm so sorry that you had to go trough such trauma you did NOT deserve at all and your family is causing even more trauma and are noot believing you!!! I hope that you can find closure one day and perhaps someone (wheter it's a love interest or a good friend) who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, with love and affection! Keep your head up you are a incredibly strong survivor!!! 💕💕💕💕💕
My heartbreaks for this poor woman :(
She needs a special kind of man to help her heal and to take care of her and he is definitely not it.
And the nations heard her from many miles away ❤️ I’m glad she proved them wrong to be basically called a liar is just heartbreaking especially a situation like that
He better beg for forgiveness
He better hit the bricks and leave her alone. He's a super jerk.
She didn't have to take it and run with it
F-- him!! He doesn’t deserve her or anyone. If you don’t trust and support your partner, you don’t deserve one.
I’ve been there and it sucks. Family doesn’t want to admit that something bad happened, so it’s easier to accuse the victim of lying. No victim can get past something when they’re so held down by self doubt and pain. They need to be believed and lifted up.
I KNEW SHE WAS TELLING THE TRUTH, WHICH IS WHY SHE SHOULD NOT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP; SHE NEEDS HELP AND NEEDS TO HEAL :)
Thank you that means a lot
How much of a partner can he ever be if this is as supportive as he can be about something so traumatic?
Sometimes it’s hard for a victim to speak out when they are scared
Steve is that: Dad, Uncle, Grandpa, Brother we ALL need!!!
Oowwe. This Guy Seems Selfish. But I'll Keep Watching 👀