She knows good and well what he does to that poor baby boy. She absolutely is not a good mom. Givin some new boyfriend "permission" to discipline her kid?! Plumb ignorant!!! She's as guilty as him. " If" she leaves him, she'll just get with some other WHACK job, and let him "discipline" her kid too. Smh. It'll never end.
My kids called my fiancé 3 months into the relationship but we were engaged and he NEVER has put his hand on them. Grounding and yelling if it constitutes it
@@shannonwhipple6466Yeah sorry that’s wildly irresponsible. Y’all easily could’ve broken up, and you’re allowing them to view him as their dad? I truly hope you guys stay together but still, that was a reckless decision on your part, and instead of trying to justify it, maybe just acknowledge it’s not right.
@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother who says if we broke up he wouldn’t be dad. I was responsible and we discussed before. They weren’t made to. And btw 11 years and still happily married. Guess I made the right choice 💁♀️
Mia Balthazar that’s the point women don’t understand no need to trust a mean with ur child just so he see u can trust him no trust comes before u leave him
Totally agree! Even though things didn’t work out with my sons father I don’t even let guys know where I live and I let them know right off the bat you’re not gonna meet my kid or be in my house. So if you want keep seeing me we can meet in public. And to tell you the truth most men who are interested in women who have children lose interest right away when you say you cannot meet my kid.
When I met my partner my son was only 5 years old and I did not let him meet my son till we had been together for 4 years my son absolutely loves him and refers to him as dad as his bio father left me when I was pregnant and has not had any contact with him and has recently signed his rights away so my partner is going to be officially adopting him
Yeah treats him like is own personal punching bag and spanks him leaving red marks & bruises !! He may not hurt a fly but beyond any doubt he’s hurting your child lady !!
If a child is hit by one parent,and the other sees it happen ,but doesn't do anything to stop it,is that parent just as responsible as the one that hurt the child,be it son or daughter?
YES! This comment deserves FAR more likes! The way she let out a heavy breath after he passed a question says a lot, too. She _knows_ he’s violent and she’s going to stay.
@10 Minute Physics that's not true when somebody is telling the truth they speak normally and when they are lying they don't because they're trying intentionally replicate something that happens so naturally so it's hard to replicate
No... I have 3 kids and none of them ever did stuff like that. They were not perfect little angels, but were very easy and well behaved fir the most part when they were little
@@Totalchaos0228 and that’s a good thing for you! However, we have to understand not every set of children or individual children will act the same. Your children may have been angels but there are still children who react like this.
Sounds like a child acting out in anger because he is being beaten and treated with anger and mom doesn’t listen so to get attention he lashes out.. it’s sad honestly
If anyone else tried to discipline my son then mumma bear coming out. If a woman can pick a man over their own flesh and blood child, they shouldn’t have kids then 🤦🏻♀️
There's absolutely nothing wrong with letting other adults discipline your kids. Obviously nobody should be allowed to abuse a child but discipline doesn't necessarily mean corporal punishment. I got onto a group of dumb kids the other day and took their lighter from them. I technically disciplined them and I have no clue who their parents even are. I'm absolutely certain though if the parents knew the story they'd give me a thumbs up
he wouldn't hurt a flea, its children he hurts. she's so desperate for a man she lets a stranger hit her child..that's "hit", causing pain...she will definitely go back with him.
I can not stand a woman that lets a man just come in and discipline their children. Makes me angry so much!!! 😡 And then he feels he has the right too beat the child and call it “discipline”
Chituga Khalifa yess that’s not it Some mothers simply don’t give a fuck if their kid is safe or not I’m mother of two and my fiancé is not my daughter father but sure as hell never made her call him dad she did it from her only that he accepted because it came from her I never said call him daddy and he literally never was alone with her until we actually moved in together and that was only for couple hours cuz I was in ER
Exactly, b/c it's just like somebody asking you if he/she can borrow your car. You NEVER, & I mean "NEVER", roll the dice for ANYBODY!!!! Don't EVER give anyone the benefit of the doubt!!!!
FACT! I’ve been a single mother and have dated a man for 2 years. I said NO WAY will you ever punish my son. If he does something wrong, tell ME, AND I WILL TALK TO HIM. I ended up leaving this guy because he was way too possessive of me. The moment I saw that red flag I left. I would never even let a man I just met or for two years be alone with my son. She’s a terrible mother for that.
Soooo your man comes to live with you after 8 months, and at the same time you give him permission to physically discipline your child? I truly believe she saw something and wanted to act blind. That’s why the son had to tell someone else. Her face told it all.
I wouldn't let my kid live with a strange man it would take a year or more for a man to gain enough trust to meet my kid and I'd never let anyone hit my kid either
Lol if u and the south everyone u now can whip your children from GA corpal punishment however it's spelled is preached highly lol hell principle could whip u in elementary school when I was growing up in the 90s and not hand belt or switch
My father remarried eventually after my mother's death. She died when I had already moved out, but the woman he married had a daughter still in middle school. He never disciplined her, and his wife in turn never disciplined my sister. They established it was out of bounds and the responsibility of the biological parents.
When my mom started dating the man who adopted me. He was aloud to take something if my sister and I were fighting *it would be like mma between her & I at times* but he wasn't allowed to spank us. That was mamas job. If we didn't stop after him taking something away he was allowed to make us sit in a chair and hold hands. That was his punishment that he was allowed to give. And he always got my mothers approval. Even after they married he's never had to do more then take something away. Now my brother, who's his, he's spanked him once, in a Walmart lol. He gave his verbal warning and when he talked back and kept acting up he stopped my brother in his tracks and spanked him once. My brother is a good kid in Walmart.
Shannon Larenzo sorry but that’s all depends on the man tbh some step fathers can decipline a child but not to the point it’s a mark that’s a fuck no to me My fiancé dicipline my daughter and our son I’m okay with it but no beating none that shit or abuse of any kind
Their is a correct way to discipline you don’t need to beat or hit a child. Talking to them and praising them for always trying to make the right choices. Asking them do they think their making a right choice now. By agree not to say nothing can give off the vibe you don’t have to respect that adult in the household.
Did that just apply to physical discipline? I have a hard time seeing that work if they couldn’t get on to them and tell them to stop if their being bad or put them in timeout. (Depending on the age of course).
So sick of people letting others beat and abuse their kids and being too weak, pathetic and desperate for some tail and a relationship to actually do anything about it and play dumb. Sad as hell
It’s not hard trust me my partner isn’t my kids real dad but he’s raised them for 4 years as his never raised a hand to them shouted at them , this women and others just don’t care about if their kids are safe as long as their needs are being “met”
I would NEVERRRRR let some random dude that I've only known for 8 months to discipline MY child. That's MY child. These women need to stop trusting random men with their kids.
When the women said "he wouldn't hurt a fly" by the way his face looks I thought to myself "he would scare a fly away". This lady needs to protect her Son and the monster off I really hope she didn't go back to that dirt bag. As for the creepy low life he has no business being around kids or being with anyone for that matter.
@@highwayxj9397 No, they don’t. 😂 Flies do not care what humans are doing; they’ll fly around/settle on your face, your food, your arm/leg, etc. You can wave them away, but they just come back!
The fact that she hesitated and had to think before answering the question "How does he treat you" said everything you need to know without a lie detector test.
I hoped and prayed that Danielle and her Boyfriend, George will be arrested and charged with Second Degree child Abuse, Domestic Violence, and Child Neglect
I couldn’t just bring any woman around my children. Hell, it’s bad enough that some women (and some men too) do enough damage to their own biological children but I can’t imagine what my reaction would be if my child had told me that someone hurt them in a bad way. I know I’d be pissed first and foremost but I know violence wouldn’t be the answer as well
@@jaileneramos8411 You took the words right out of my mouth. I 100% agree with you. NO man biological or not should NEVER hit a child and that goes for women too.
1st off...9 months into a relationship does NOT equate to George even being around her son! Let alone calling him Dad or have ANY rights to discipline! None! Please tell me that her Son comes first! Always!
@@user-ou3nf3qr2p Evidently not in this case & certainly not long enough to start calling him Dad. Always run searches, background checks & medical history. Children Always come First!
@Cutthroat Alex Absolutely not a dig at ANYONE, especially medically. Children Always come first. They were placed in harm's way. Children have no way of defending themselves. That's what the parents are responsible for. Many Blessings to you.
Stop bringing strangers around your kids & allowing them to be alone with them, also never allow anyone to hit your child. There is no reason anyone should hit your child. Why would someone want to hit a child that isn't there's? I'd never hit my child especially not someone else's child ever. What dose hitting a child do nothing positive, it only creates fear distrust & thinking that hitting people are how you sort out problems. I blame her too she put her child in this situation.
My bf of 7 years.. a grown 29 year old man, is forever scarred by an incident with his mothers boyfriend when he was a kid. Ladies... protect your children!
He's a scary looking guy too, can't begin to imagine what goes on in these big men's minds, how can they even think of raising a hand to tiny children :'(
The way she kept touching her hair nervously seems like she knew or had an idea it was happening🤦🏼♀️ She is way to calm and stoic. She is definitely not going to leave him she said yes she was but she shook her head no🙄 It’s seriously sad that some mothers really act like this
D Gray that’s devastating and I’m sorry if I sounded in any way like I was saying only men are bad because I never meant my praise or advice to sound this way, any parent mum or dad should love their children unconditionally and put their safety and happiness above a partner. It’s devastating to think of a parent harming their own children just to hurt the other but your right it happens💔best wishes🙏🏻🌸
I can always trust Steve to ask the right questions. My first thought after hearing in the mom's interview that her son calls this man Daddy after 8 months, was *WTF IS HE DOING CALLING THIS GUY DADDY!!!?* I don't care for her excuse that this is the only father figure her son has known, and he took it upon himself to call him that. As the mother you tell your child "No son he's not your dad." I don't feel for one moment that she was doing that to benefit her child. She allowed it to happen, and maybe even pushed it to make her loser bf happy.
As a child I told my teacher that my parents were beating me. I still to this day don't know why I said it because my parents were really good parents and never ever hit me. Maybe I was looking for attention I don't know. Nothing ever came of it. it was investigated. Thank God for that. Every time I see these shows I'm reminded of what I said.
He’s wonderful and treats her well, and yet physically smacks her son after just 9months? No man would touch my son that way, not even their biological father!
The minute Steve said, "You did *not* tell the truth," my mind would've been made up to leave him once and for all. I'd also be wondering what the hell I was even thinking for being with him. I refuse to tolerate that *at all*
A tooth for a tooth would've been my motto INSTANTLY just outta instinct. Especially when it comes to my baby boy. 👊 "Every little boy runs to his mother" & every mother/parent should protect their child NO MATTER WHAT!!!
savvy Wilson No excuse at all for this behavior. Either she needed mental help or was a alcoholic and drug addict. I could not see anyone doing something like this if they were and are mentally ok. Sending you a hug 🤗
This is exactly why I will never stand behind any kind of abusive actions towards children being called or considered "discipline". You don't want to teach the child an important lesson because you can do that without laying your hands on them at all, you purposely WANT to cause harm to the child, which is why you found an excuse to physically lay your hands on them. I will NEVER be okay with that, ever.
Back in August 2014 my ex bf wanted to spank my son. I told him so fast .. hell to the no. No one disciplines him but me. He chased my son trying to hit him. My ex was 6ft 6 and over 300lbs. He thought he had my son and he had me. My ex bf damaged my back. My son was 16 back then. I always told him if my son does something wrong and I am not home send him to his room or outside to his friends house down the street and I would deal with my son when I would get home. I spent 4 months in physical therapy.I kicked the ex out so fast and sent him packing to the homeless shelter. My high school sweet heart got word of what happened and made sure the ex left us alone. My high school sweetheart and I just recently got engaged.
So after 8 months she thinks it's okay that her son is calling this man dad 🤦. People need to Stop letting ther new girlfriends and botfriends put their hands on their children!
George your a real tough guy huh, knocking a tooth out of an 11 yr old! No man or woman would hit my child as I wouldn't hit my child. Mother's take care of your children!
Take the kid away from her. Thats not a mother. Let a mother who can give the child a good home. Didnt she see his red bottom at bathtime.Hes as guilty as hell. Social care should keep a very close eye on this child.
Why would you let some dude you’ve known 8 months discipline your kid? That’s YOUR kid, discipline should be from the mother in that case. This man is clearly not capable of caring for children and shouldn’t be around any children. “I’m pretty sure I’m not going to fail” what you mean “pretty sure” you either know if you did it or not. The mother is really to blame for the situation.
I be DAMNED if I let some man come in and do a damn thing to mine smh... Women need to be more careful on who they let come in and be around their kids smh
WHEN I WAS DATING.. AFTER MY HUSBAND DIED. THE 1ST THING I TOLD ANY GUY I INTRODUCED MY DAUGHTER TO WAS DON'T EVER PUT YOUR HANDS ON MY DAUGHTER FOR ANY REASON. DON'T RAISE YOUR VOICE AT HER & DON'T CORRECT HER. SHE LIVES HERE YOU DON'T & EVEN IF YOU DID, THE RULES ARE THE SAME.... I WOULD NOT ALLOW MY MOTHER TO PUNISH HER A GUY WOULDN'T STAND A CHANCE.
LETS PRETEND YOU'R RIGHT he can’t correct her yea parenting there done wrong He can correct her if she do something wrong and ur not around or she will never learn There don’t have to be arguments or raising his voice at her nothing normal voice tone saying w.e she did was wrong In order to have a good child they also have to learn to respect everyone unless they broke that respect
@@sakuraogami6885 So is the child is running around with Scissors or trying to put a fork in a outlet the man shouldn’t tell them to stop? Of course you shouldn’t let someone whip yo child but not let them correct them is over the top.
At 5:43 to 5:47 watch her reaction to finding out he did it... if you ask me this so called “Mother” is just as guilty as him it’s like she was smirking trying to hold back a smile and then she turns around a few seconds after to hide her face like she had to put on a front smh 🤦🏻♀️ SICK asf! I hope they both rot in hell for this because I see not one but TWO child abusers on this stage!
How is it a good idea to let a man you've known for eight months move into your home, have your child refer to him as "Daddy," and allow him to "discipline" your son?
She's struggling to hide her smug grin when she comes out. She also fought to keep a straight face when she heard the first failed lie detector question. She's not taking this very seriously. I sense she doesn't care a great deal - she's just acting. I couldn't imagine two worse people to be caring for a child.
PSA: hitting your kids is literally like the least effective form of discipline. Do not hit your kids, do not even spank them lightly. Kids who are hit tend to hit others as they grow up, which gets them into trouble and reinforces that "violence is an okay way to express dissatisfaction/anger/sadness" . Praising your kids for good behavior encourages positive behavior because SURPRISE!! Kids like being praised!! They don't understand pain. DO NOT HIT YOUR KIDS. Don't let anyone hit your kids!! It's 2020, we're better than this, people 🙄🙄🙄
I agree never hit your kid to the point they are bleed, but I would say that I understand pain. When I got a whooping I knew never to do that again because first my mom gave me warnings not to do thing but I kept doing anyway so that when she got the belt.
galaxy see, it affects everyone differently. when i was hit as a kid it didn’t teach me not to do it, it taught me to lie, hide things, and it taught me that violence is the only thing to resort to when you’re upset. it made me resent family members and at one point just made it worse. i can’t say that’s how it is for everyone, but i know a lot of people who turned out to be violent people when they grew up
When I was a kid, if I got a spanking I deemed unfair(after fighting with my younger ones) I would wait up till my dad got home and report my mom or if it was my dad, report my dad. For a four year old not to be able to tell his mom that so called daddy hit him, the mom has failed her mothering duties. Children that age see their parents as superman and tell everything
My step-dad lived with us for YEARS from age 5 to age 18 when they split up, although he's still my Dad in my eyes & we have an excellent relationship to this day. That said, I didn't start calling him Daddy instead of by his name until I was 12. Also, in _all_ the years he lived there & helped raise me he _never even once_ raised a hand to me - my mother would have *murdered* him. He was allowed to ground me, take away privileges, but it was made _abundantly_ clear that if he ever hit me, done-zo, finito, the end.
Same exact experience here, as far as I’m concerned that is my father but the disciplining was ALWAYS my mothers job even when they had two biological children of their own my mother still remained the disciplinary hand and my dad never arrested or even had to try because my mother was SURE to always have us in line and I live both of them beyond words and still live at home with them today at 21 while I’m in college
Steve is awesome! I personally never had a father figure but when I watch Steve and how he handles different situations , the way he gives advice to women is so heart warming. Steve isn't my father but he is a wonderful example of the more men we need like that in the world.
I've been with my man 4 years and I wouldn't even let him correct my dog aggressively how you letting a man you've known less than a year punish your kid?
I don’t hit my children EVER. What kind of mother would let some strange man discipline her son? A BAD MOM!!! This woman will be back with him in a week Update please upon rewatching, she’ll be back in two days. It won’t even take a week. When she described how “ wonderful “ he is that was the tip-off .CPS should be involved, and a safety plan with NO corporal punishment should be put in place.
He has absolutely no right to touch her children! They are not your kids You have known each other for 9 months !! You don't know him !!! Why would you trust him around your children??? The abuser will always go to the wife or girlfriend and try to manipulate them into thinking it's not true but it is true !!
Every time Steve calls someone a dirtbag an angel gets its wings 😉
You never let some guy hit your kids are you crazy.
Big Facts😂😎🙌💯💯💯
Nah someone goes to jail😂😂😂
Nah a man gets jail
And every a dirtbag gets away, an angel sets itself on fire.
“He wouldn’t hurt a fly”
Looks like an entire prisoner that’s been serving life in prison since he was 12 🙄
God you're funny😂😂😂
actually, age 10
True
Exactly
Lol exactly what i was thinkin... he looks like he belongs in jail forever just look at em
Now my opinion...this guy looks creepy and scary as hell to any little boy or girl and she's no mother either.
Yes he does look creepy. I agree with you
LMFAOOO
And dude has a scar from what looks like brain surgery.he may have alot more issues than just the creep factor.shes an idiot
She knows good and well what he does to that poor baby boy. She absolutely is not a good mom. Givin some new boyfriend "permission" to discipline her kid?! Plumb ignorant!!! She's as guilty as him. " If" she leaves him, she'll just get with some other WHACK job, and let him "discipline" her kid too. Smh. It'll never end.
@@melindafrench9385 I don't think either one of them is quite all there upstairs! That little boy ain't got a chance. 😔
Eight months & calls him daddy ???? Shame on that negligent mother.
My thoughts 💯 exactly!
My kids called my fiancé 3 months into the relationship but we were engaged and he NEVER has put his hand on them. Grounding and yelling if it constitutes it
@@shannonwhipple6466Yeah sorry that’s wildly irresponsible. Y’all easily could’ve broken up, and you’re allowing them to view him as their dad? I truly hope you guys stay together but still, that was a reckless decision on your part, and instead of trying to justify it, maybe just acknowledge it’s not right.
@@ScreamingDucksShotMyMother who says if we broke up he wouldn’t be dad. I was responsible and we discussed before. They weren’t made to. And btw 11 years and still happily married. Guess I made the right choice 💁♀️
@@shannonwhipple6466girl that's irresponsible.
STOP TRUSTING THESE PEOPLE THAT YOU BARELY KNOW AROUND YOUR CHILDREN🗣️🗣️
Mia Balthazar that’s the point women don’t understand no need to trust a mean with ur child just so he see u can trust him no trust comes before u leave him
Totally agree! Even though things didn’t work out with my sons father I don’t even let guys know where I live and I let them know right off the bat you’re not gonna meet my kid or be in my house. So if you want keep seeing me we can meet in public. And to tell you the truth most men who are interested in women who have children lose interest right away when you say you cannot meet my kid.
True...what’s sad is, you can know a man for years and he can still do so this...even the own father smh
But they're desperate for cak
When I met my partner my son was only 5 years old and I did not let him meet my son till we had been together for 4 years my son absolutely loves him and refers to him as dad as his bio father left me when I was pregnant and has not had any contact with him and has recently signed his rights away so my partner is going to be officially adopting him
"He treats my son like he is his own" I'd hate to see how he would treat another child!!! Slimeball😡😠
Yeah treats him like is own personal punching bag and spanks him leaving red marks & bruises !! He may not hurt a fly but beyond any doubt he’s hurting your child lady !!
I don’t think she’s actually done with him
Me either, she’s staying
I don't think so either, and if she does go back to him then she is a failure as a parent.
Agreed
If a child is hit by one parent,and the other sees it happen ,but doesn't do anything to stop it,is that parent just as responsible as the one that hurt the child,be it son or daughter?
Probably in his bed already 🤦🏼♀️🤮
5:02
When she cut her eyes to him for confirmation it shows EXACTLY how he treats her.
YES! This comment deserves FAR more likes!
The way she let out a heavy breath after he passed a question says a lot, too. She _knows_ he’s violent and she’s going to stay.
"Yes, I'm done with him." Shakes her head no. Common slip of someone who is lying.
It’s a Freudian slip
Yes!!!
@10 Minute Physics well this girl seems dumb enough to do something like that
Daisy S actually it what Dr.phil calls leakage.Episode about a woman who faked cancer
@10 Minute Physics that's not true when somebody is telling the truth they speak normally and when they are lying they don't because they're trying intentionally replicate something that happens so naturally so it's hard to replicate
“He would scream, he would kick the wall.”
*sounds like a child being a child to me*
No... I have 3 kids and none of them ever did stuff like that. They were not perfect little angels, but were very easy and well behaved fir the most part when they were little
It’s not normal for nurotypical and non-traumatized child. Sounds like possible ADHD and/or Anger Issues/bad emotional regulation
@@Totalchaos0228 and that’s a good thing for you! However, we have to understand not every set of children or individual children will act the same. Your children may have been angels but there are still children who react like this.
Sounds like a child acting out in anger because he is being beaten and treated with anger and mom doesn’t listen so to get attention he lashes out.. it’s sad honestly
The screaming part yes…. kicking the wall, that’s a little aggressive.
Toddlers do scream lol keep pretending they don’t perfect parents😅
I don't know why women pick guys over their children, my mama bear would be out and that guy will no longer be around my kids
My mother let my step dad wrestle me and kick me out of the family home when I was in my teens. I haven't spoken to them for years now.
If anyone else tried to discipline my son then mumma bear coming out. If a woman can pick a man over their own flesh and blood child, they shouldn’t have kids then 🤦🏻♀️
He would be an above the knee amputee when I got done with him.
ashleelmb wtf!! I completely understand why you don’t talk to them!
Mikkii Lee I’d be in jail for murder if they lay a finger on my babies
Never have I ever given anybody permission to 'discipline' any of my children. Vile 🤮
Exactly 💯 I don't even let my mom discipline my daughter
There's absolutely nothing wrong with letting other adults discipline your kids. Obviously nobody should be allowed to abuse a child but discipline doesn't necessarily mean corporal punishment. I got onto a group of dumb kids the other day and took their lighter from them. I technically disciplined them and I have no clue who their parents even are. I'm absolutely certain though if the parents knew the story they'd give me a thumbs up
he wouldn't hurt a flea, its children he hurts. she's so desperate for a man she lets a stranger hit her child..that's "hit", causing pain...she will definitely go back with him.
Shes LyiNG
Yes she will
She may go back but that does not mean the son will. DCF will stop that
@@annettecadet5364 i hope so thanks
I can not stand a woman that lets a man just come in and discipline their children. Makes me angry so much!!! 😡 And then he feels he has the right too beat the child and call it “discipline”
The boy stopped running to his "MOTHER" because she wouldn't listen, and she left him with a monster again and again
My thoughts exactly this one got to me bc a parent not listening to their child period is just terrible to me.
Poor guy had to tell at school because she wouldn't help him
I love that Dan has gone from just briefly explaining to steve and the audience to calling out the dirtbags on the stage
Mothers, don't let strange men around your kids and abuse them!!!
If this happens, that could mean mothers are addicted to Ritalin or Provigil and don’t want to molest their children!
Chituga Khalifa yess that’s not it
Some mothers simply don’t give a fuck if their kid is safe or not
I’m mother of two and my fiancé is not my daughter father but sure as hell never made her call him dad she did it from her only that he accepted because it came from her I never said call him daddy and he literally never was alone with her until we actually moved in together and that was only for couple hours cuz I was in ER
Agreed
Exactly, b/c it's just like somebody asking you if he/she can borrow your car. You NEVER, & I mean "NEVER", roll the dice for ANYBODY!!!! Don't EVER give anyone the benefit of the doubt!!!!
FACT! I’ve been a single mother and have dated a man for 2 years. I said NO WAY will you ever punish my son. If he does something wrong, tell ME, AND I WILL TALK TO HIM. I ended up leaving this guy because he was way too possessive of me. The moment I saw that red flag I left. I would never even let a man I just met or for two years be alone with my son. She’s a terrible mother for that.
The lie detector guy LOVES when Steve calls him out 😂😂u can tell he practices his lines the night before
Facts
Soooo your man comes to live with you after 8 months, and at the same time you give him permission to physically discipline your child? I truly believe she saw something and wanted to act blind. That’s why the son had to tell someone else. Her face told it all.
And y do you have ur son calling him daddy
I wouldn't let my kid live with a strange man it would take a year or more for a man to gain enough trust to meet my kid and I'd never let anyone hit my kid either
she minimizes everything these guy is doing to ger kid she is very calm about it she is not angry at all
Lol if u and the south everyone u now can whip your children from GA corpal punishment however it's spelled is preached highly lol hell principle could whip u in elementary school when I was growing up in the 90s and not hand belt or switch
@@tayhorsley404 that was a whole different generation no one should discipline your child except you especially not physically
They're both guilty. She's full of it. Good for the kid telling someone.
She should take a test about what she's seen (or even done)
"He couldn't ever hurt a fly!"
And then they cut to THAT face😳😳😳
My father remarried eventually after my mother's death. She died when I had already moved out, but the woman he married had a daughter still in middle school. He never disciplined her, and his wife in turn never disciplined my sister. They established it was out of bounds and the responsibility of the biological parents.
When my mom started dating the man who adopted me. He was aloud to take something if my sister and I were fighting *it would be like mma between her & I at times* but he wasn't allowed to spank us. That was mamas job. If we didn't stop after him taking something away he was allowed to make us sit in a chair and hold hands. That was his punishment that he was allowed to give. And he always got my mothers approval. Even after they married he's never had to do more then take something away. Now my brother, who's his, he's spanked him once, in a Walmart lol. He gave his verbal warning and when he talked back and kept acting up he stopped my brother in his tracks and spanked him once. My brother is a good kid in Walmart.
Definitely no man will ever lay there hands on my kids he wanna pray he can run fast
Shannon Larenzo sorry but that’s all depends on the man tbh some step fathers can decipline a child but not to the point it’s a mark that’s a fuck no to me
My fiancé dicipline my daughter and our son I’m okay with it but no beating none that shit or abuse of any kind
Their is a correct way to discipline you don’t need to beat or hit a child. Talking to them and praising them for always trying to make the right choices. Asking them do they think their making a right choice now. By agree not to say nothing can give off the vibe you don’t have to respect that adult in the household.
Did that just apply to physical discipline? I have a hard time seeing that work if they couldn’t get on to them and tell them to stop if their being bad or put them in timeout. (Depending on the age of course).
"When George moved in, I gave him permission to discipline my son" ... mistake number 1❗
They say don't judge a book by its cover but this damn man is the type you have to just judge 💀💀
Yup. He doesn't look right at all.
@Emily Wickler I feel like he might have hurt her and she is to scared to admit it
So sick of people letting others beat and abuse their kids and being too weak, pathetic and desperate for some tail and a relationship to actually do anything about it and play dumb. Sad as hell
this is ridiculous. how hard is it for these women yo choose a guy treat them AND their kid right?
A better question is why are women so quick to bring a man into their child’s life...
Single mothers make bad decisions involving men which is why they’re someone’s baby momma and not someone’s wife/fiancé
It’s not hard trust me my partner isn’t my kids real dad but he’s raised them for 4 years as his never raised a hand to them shouted at them , this women and others just don’t care about if their kids are safe as long as their needs are being “met”
One Punch what a statement. I guess widows should have picked a husband who can’t die. Don’t put everyone in the same boat.
angelique707 do they really have to say “not all”
Isn’t it common sense?
I would NEVERRRRR let some random dude that I've only known for 8 months to discipline MY child. That's MY child. These women need to stop trusting random men with their kids.
When the women said "he wouldn't hurt a fly" by the way his face looks I thought to myself "he would scare a fly away". This lady needs to protect her Son and the monster off I really hope she didn't go back to that dirt bag. As for the creepy low life he has no business being around kids or being with anyone for that matter.
I mean, most people scare flies away
@@highwayxj9397 No, they don’t. 😂 Flies do not care what humans are doing; they’ll fly around/settle on your face, your food, your arm/leg, etc. You can wave them away, but they just come back!
The fact that she hesitated and had to think before answering the question "How does he treat you" said everything you need to know without a lie detector test.
You put your hands on my child, I put my hands on you.
Fact sis
Straight up!
And I won’t stop till I’m stopped
In Arnold voice- YOU TOUCH DA KID... EYE TOUCH YOU!
If anyone put their hands on me, my mother would send them straight to their ancestors.
I hoped and prayed that Danielle and her Boyfriend, George will be arrested and charged with Second Degree child Abuse, Domestic Violence, and Child Neglect
She’ll Probably still Go home with Him 🤷🏾♂️
And you know it!
She’s pathetic
I couldn’t just bring any woman around my children. Hell, it’s bad enough that some women (and some men too) do enough damage to their own biological children but I can’t imagine what my reaction would be if my child had told me that someone hurt them in a bad way. I know I’d be pissed first and foremost but I know violence wouldn’t be the answer as well
How are you gonna choose a man you’ve known for eight months over your son?!??
Absolutely disgusting
The more I watch these, the more I know what not to do as an adult
@@StrayWor1d yep that is a good thing and even though I don’t watch this show very often. But it’s the same thing either way me
I knew the moment she said “he wouldn’t hurt anybody” I didn’t feel right and I haven’t even watched the whole video yet, sketchy
*_"I'm pretty sure_* I'm not gonna fail."
Yikes.
George ain't his daddy so he doesn't have any business hitting him
Kitty Ayala even if it was his biological father shouldn’t be abusing at all
@@jaileneramos8411 I agree
@@jaileneramos8411 You took the words right out of my mouth. I 100% agree with you. NO man biological or not should NEVER hit a child and that goes for women too.
"I know, every little boy in this world runs to his mother" 😭
Father figure from the moment y’all got in a relationship? Yup, that’s where you messed up right there!
True story - if you don't use physical violence to discipline your kids and never allow others to do that either, this never becomes an issue. Weird.
1st off...9 months into a relationship does NOT equate to George even being around her son! Let alone calling him Dad or have ANY rights to discipline! None! Please tell me that her Son comes first! Always!
Huh????? 9 months is a long enough time to introduce a man you’re dating to your kid.
@@user-ou3nf3qr2p Evidently not in this case & certainly not long enough to start calling him Dad. Always run searches, background checks & medical history. Children Always come First!
@Cutthroat Alex Absolutely not a dig at ANYONE, especially medically. Children Always come first. They were placed in harm's way. Children have no way of defending themselves. That's what the parents are responsible for. Many Blessings to you.
Stop bringing strangers around your kids & allowing them to be alone with them, also never allow anyone to hit your child. There is no reason anyone should hit your child. Why would someone want to hit a child that isn't there's? I'd never hit my child especially not someone else's child ever. What dose hitting a child do nothing positive, it only creates fear distrust & thinking that hitting people are how you sort out problems. I blame her too she put her child in this situation.
She looks so afraid I think he beats she too but she just don't want to talk
He wouldn't touch me ever because he would have to go to sleep and i promise he would not ever hit another woman again
Agreed
Anice Felton so you stayed with him after he abused your son?
@@marywiththemunchies7
No she means IF she were in that position she would end him
Anice Felton I remember I use to have this mindset til it happened to me. Please don’t let a weak pos ever break that mindset away from you.
My bf of 7 years.. a grown 29 year old man, is forever scarred by an incident with his mothers boyfriend when he was a kid. Ladies... protect your children!
He's a scary looking guy too, can't begin to imagine what goes on in these big men's minds, how can they even think of raising a hand to tiny children :'(
The way she kept touching her hair nervously seems like she knew or had an idea it was happening🤦🏼♀️ She is way to calm and stoic. She is definitely not going to leave him she said yes she was but she shook her head no🙄 It’s seriously sad that some mothers really act like this
It’s people like her that make you lose faith in humans, and people like Steve that makes you gain It back. I love you Steve😘
she saw everything and likely alot more. give the mother a lot longer prison sentence.. horrible mother
When I have kids i would choose my kids over men in a heart beat ❤️and if someone tries to hurt them, you better run cause my claws would come out😈
Period Amen
Good girl🌸always put your children first🙏🏻as they love unconditionally and is heartbreaking when mum puts her man before them💕🌸
D Gray that’s devastating and I’m sorry if I sounded in any way like I was saying only men are bad because I never meant my praise or advice to sound this way, any parent mum or dad should love their children unconditionally and put their safety and happiness above a partner. It’s devastating to think of a parent harming their own children just to hurt the other but your right it happens💔best wishes🙏🏻🌸
I dont care how long i know a man i wont EVER let someone put their hands on my child.
I can always trust Steve to ask the right questions. My first thought after hearing in the mom's interview that her son calls this man Daddy after 8 months, was *WTF IS HE DOING CALLING THIS GUY DADDY!!!?* I don't care for her excuse that this is the only father figure her son has known, and he took it upon himself to call him that. As the mother you tell your child "No son he's not your dad." I don't feel for one moment that she was doing that to benefit her child. She allowed it to happen, and maybe even pushed it to make her loser bf happy.
As a child I told my teacher that my parents were beating me. I still to this day don't know why I said it because my parents were really good parents and never ever hit me. Maybe I was looking for attention I don't know. Nothing ever came of it. it was investigated. Thank God for that. Every time I see these shows I'm reminded of what I said.
Low self-esteem at it's worst..
I agree
no it's not
She went back with him
@@snowforest6487 Just crazy!!
He’s wonderful and treats her well, and yet physically smacks her son after just 9months? No man would touch my son that way, not even their biological father!
The minute Steve said, "You did *not* tell the truth," my mind would've been made up to leave him once and for all. I'd also be wondering what the hell I was even thinking for being with him. I refuse to tolerate that *at all*
What I like about this is that Steve asks the mother "What the hell were YOU doing?"
Watching for 20 seconds. That dude DEFINITELY did it...
A tooth for a tooth would've been my motto INSTANTLY just outta instinct. Especially when it comes to my baby boy. 👊 "Every little boy runs to his mother" & every mother/parent should protect their child NO MATTER WHAT!!!
That’s just I have no words a just because I’m a kid I can’t even imagine my dad doing this to me 😢😭
My daughter just turned 18 and I NEVER did anything remotely close to a smacking her like that.
savvy Wilson IK ITS HARD TO LIVE WHEN YOU HAVE HATERS LIKE EVERY TIME I GOT YELLED AT I TO IN MY ROOM AND JUST CRY CAUSE WORDS HURT🥺😔
savvy Wilson No excuse at all for this behavior. Either she needed mental help or was a alcoholic and drug addict. I could not see anyone doing something like this if they were and are mentally ok. Sending you a hug 🤗
He’s a wonderful man. Really sweet, kind until he gets mad at my 12-year-old and knocks his teeth out
This is exactly why I will never stand behind any kind of abusive actions towards children being called or considered "discipline". You don't want to teach the child an important lesson because you can do that without laying your hands on them at all, you purposely WANT to cause harm to the child, which is why you found an excuse to physically lay your hands on them. I will NEVER be okay with that, ever.
You’re one of the only sane people left.
Back in August 2014 my ex bf wanted to spank my son. I told him so fast .. hell to the no. No one disciplines him but me. He chased my son trying to hit him. My ex was 6ft 6 and over 300lbs. He thought he had my son and he had me. My ex bf damaged my back. My son was 16 back then. I always told him if my son does something wrong and I am not home send him to his room or outside to his friends house down the street and I would deal with my son when I would get home. I spent 4 months in physical therapy.I kicked the ex out so fast and sent him packing to the homeless shelter. My high school sweet heart got word of what happened and made sure the ex left us alone. My high school sweetheart and I just recently got engaged.
Look at how creepy he looks 💀
So after 8 months she thinks it's okay that her son is calling this man dad 🤦. People need to Stop letting ther new girlfriends and botfriends put their hands on their children!
i hope that she didn't went back to him!
she will
She probably did
She did go back its lust
George your a real tough guy huh, knocking a tooth out of an 11 yr old! No man or woman would hit my child as I wouldn't hit my child. Mother's take care of your children!
and dad
She does drugs with him, so that’s my opinion. Kids for the most part, WILL NOT LIE. What kind of mother let’s some strange man hit her kids?
Take the kid away from her. Thats not a mother. Let a mother who can give the child a good home. Didnt she see his red bottom at bathtime.Hes as guilty as hell. Social care should keep a very close eye on this child.
Kids lie all the time, even about abuse. Stop telling this lie
But you don't need to beat them down and.
Why the hell would you want toothless Joe being your son's father figure?! I'm astonished at these people
The little boy needs to go to foster care. I have a feeling his mom chose that animal over her flesh and blood!😤
Jeanetta McW. Not no foster he could get worst in there
Just a loving family who will care for him or a family member
No not foster care because they will put u with anybody wether bad or good
Even wild animals would fight to the death to protect their kids, this man is no father figure
She apologised to him for leaving him... id be making sure that he does time in prison!!
Why would you let some dude you’ve known 8 months discipline your kid? That’s YOUR kid, discipline should be from the mother in that case.
This man is clearly not capable of caring for children and shouldn’t be around any children.
“I’m pretty sure I’m not going to fail” what you mean “pretty sure” you either know if you did it or not. The mother is really to blame for the situation.
no both
I'm about to be a single mother and I watch these episodes all the time and it shows me people aren't just black and white.
I be DAMNED if I let some man come in and do a damn thing to mine smh... Women need to be more careful on who they let come in and be around their kids smh
Nobody should hit a child. Had he done this to my boy he would be walking like John Wayne. Desparate woman who needs a man, Shame on you
WHEN I WAS DATING.. AFTER MY HUSBAND DIED. THE 1ST THING I TOLD ANY GUY I INTRODUCED MY DAUGHTER TO WAS DON'T EVER PUT YOUR HANDS ON MY DAUGHTER FOR ANY REASON. DON'T RAISE YOUR VOICE AT HER & DON'T CORRECT HER. SHE LIVES HERE YOU DON'T & EVEN IF YOU DID, THE RULES ARE THE SAME.... I WOULD NOT ALLOW MY MOTHER TO PUNISH HER A GUY WOULDN'T STAND A CHANCE.
LETS PRETEND YOU'R RIGHT he can’t correct her yea parenting there done wrong
He can correct her if she do something wrong and ur not around or she will never learn
There don’t have to be arguments or raising his voice at her nothing normal voice tone saying w.e she did was wrong
In order to have a good child they also have to learn to respect everyone unless they broke that respect
Jailene Ramos lol chill. Just because you probably let your bfs hit your kids doesn’t mean it’s ok & doesn’t mean everyone else should.
@@sakuraogami6885 So is the child is running around with Scissors or trying to put a fork in a outlet the man shouldn’t tell them to stop? Of course you shouldn’t let someone whip yo child but not let them correct them is over the top.
@@dame3323 did I say that? No. You’re making crap up.
@@sakuraogami6885 Never said you did? The other comment pretty much said the same thing I did and you got defensive about it. So 🤔?
She needs to be behind bars
At 5:43 to 5:47 watch her reaction to finding out he did it... if you ask me this so called “Mother” is just as guilty as him it’s like she was smirking trying to hold back a smile and then she turns around a few seconds after to hide her face like she had to put on a front smh 🤦🏻♀️ SICK asf! I hope they both rot in hell for this because I see not one but TWO child abusers on this stage!
EXACTLY what I noticed. I wish they would have tested her, too. She's just as disgusting as him.
How is it a good idea to let a man you've known for eight months move into your home, have your child refer to him as "Daddy," and allow him to "discipline" your son?
You could tell she's going back home with him and they're just going to have a "talk" about the results.
She's struggling to hide her smug grin when she comes out. She also fought to keep a straight face when she heard the first failed lie detector question. She's not taking this very seriously. I sense she doesn't care a great deal - she's just acting. I couldn't imagine two worse people to be caring for a child.
PSA: hitting your kids is literally like the least effective form of discipline. Do not hit your kids, do not even spank them lightly. Kids who are hit tend to hit others as they grow up, which gets them into trouble and reinforces that "violence is an okay way to express dissatisfaction/anger/sadness" . Praising your kids for good behavior encourages positive behavior because SURPRISE!! Kids like being praised!! They don't understand pain. DO NOT HIT YOUR KIDS. Don't let anyone hit your kids!! It's 2020, we're better than this, people 🙄🙄🙄
THANK YOU.
I agree never hit your kid to the point they are bleed, but I would say that I understand pain. When I got a whooping I knew never to do that again because first my mom gave me warnings not to do thing but I kept doing anyway so that when she got the belt.
galaxy see, it affects everyone differently. when i was hit as a kid it didn’t teach me not to do it, it taught me to lie, hide things, and it taught me that violence is the only thing to resort to when you’re upset. it made me resent family members and at one point just made it worse. i can’t say that’s how it is for everyone, but i know a lot of people who turned out to be violent people when they grew up
Eh this is an opinion... And I have my own. We will leave it at that..
Exactly!!
Just. Look. At. Him!!!!! He radiates ANGER!!!
When I was a kid, if I got a spanking I deemed unfair(after fighting with my younger ones) I would wait up till my dad got home and report my mom or if it was my dad, report my dad. For a four year old not to be able to tell his mom that so called daddy hit him, the mom has failed her mothering duties. Children that age see their parents as superman and tell everything
My step-dad lived with us for YEARS from age 5 to age 18 when they split up, although he's still my Dad in my eyes & we have an excellent relationship to this day.
That said, I didn't start calling him Daddy instead of by his name until I was 12. Also, in _all_ the years he lived there & helped raise me he _never even once_ raised a hand to me - my mother would have *murdered* him. He was allowed to ground me, take away privileges, but it was made _abundantly_ clear that if he ever hit me, done-zo, finito, the end.
Same exact experience here, as far as I’m concerned that is my father but the disciplining was ALWAYS my mothers job even when they had two biological children of their own my mother still remained the disciplinary hand and my dad never arrested or even had to try because my mother was SURE to always have us in line and I live both of them beyond words and still live at home with them today at 21 while I’m in college
“Been knowing each other” Is there a more trashy term? Couple of real geniuses here.
GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone.
i knew as soon as he said “i’m pretty sure i’ll pass”
Steve is awesome! I personally never had a father figure but when I watch Steve and how he handles different situations , the way he gives advice to women is so heart warming. Steve isn't my father but he is a wonderful example of the more men we need like that in the world.
Keep these "men" outta ya houses.. please and THANK YOU!
No it's please and your kids thank you!!
I've been with my man 4 years and I wouldn't even let him correct my dog aggressively how you letting a man you've known less than a year punish your kid?
Great show Uncle Steve!🙏🏽 it might be emotional but I'm still enjoying your show.👍🏽
I don’t care who you are, if you’re not my sons father, you may not discipline my son. If you are not their parent, do not discipline.
And that my friend is why you don't let someone you know for only 8 months near your children
I don’t hit my children EVER. What kind of mother would let some strange man discipline her son? A BAD MOM!!! This woman will be back with him in a week Update please upon rewatching, she’ll be back in two days. It won’t even take a week. When she described how “ wonderful “ he is that was the tip-off .CPS should be involved, and a safety plan with NO corporal punishment should be put in place.
Yep she’s staying with him
Oh my gosh... While playing the child loses his tooth... That is very rough playing...
From the moment she said she allowed him to discipline her son, I knew he beat that little boy. Hell she said it herself
He has absolutely no right to touch her children! They are not your kids
You have known each other for 9 months !! You don't know him !!! Why would you trust him around your children???
The abuser will always go to the wife or girlfriend and try to manipulate them into thinking it's not true but it is true !!