What Guys Think Girls Find Attractive vs. What Girls ACTUALLY Find Attractive (& vice versa)

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  • @michaeldanchez9530
    @michaeldanchez9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    So weird I was just thinking of this. Like you’re a woman that happens to also be attracted to women so you’re going for the same effect that most guys are going for plus you also have the nose of a woman. Your opinion on fragrances are super valid

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Thanks Michael!

    • @bmoregorillas828
      @bmoregorillas828 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Super valid!!!

    • @ismaeljim94
      @ismaeljim94 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel this same way, love her opinions because she’s always on point!

    • @ismaeljim94
      @ismaeljim94 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melissanacional9662 thanks for everything you do🙏🏼

  • @Teamshmo
    @Teamshmo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    That is what everyone has always said about Aventus. The girls like it, but it is more of a boxer dropper. All the guys love it, but girls just kind of like it

    • @the_9ent
      @the_9ent 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@seansimmons73 How so? Dressed in which way?

    • @moustachio334
      @moustachio334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aventus: overrated, overpriced, and overhyped.

    • @Dom-pi1gj
      @Dom-pi1gj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@seansimmons73 so dressed like the 90s lol

    • @bigbelafonte8237
      @bigbelafonte8237 ปีที่แล้ว

      Woman love aventus. A lot of em

    • @luckystone2293
      @luckystone2293 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What kinds of women is a real question. I've never seen a decent woman compliment it loudly ever. Same with Bleu de Chanel and Sauvage.

  • @quique7764
    @quique7764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Interesting you mention this cus a close family member worked w/ JPG during the early 90's & apparently the idea or motivation behind Le Male was it meant to be worn by men to attract other men, specifically in nightclubs. So essentially it was made w/ the gay man in mind & it makes sense given how many designers of frags are gay.

    • @moustachio334
      @moustachio334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That was always my suspicion (the bottle: just look at it)

    • @quique7764
      @quique7764 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@moustachio334 Yeah it's pretty obvious esp if you look at the ad campaigns. They were def. trying to market to a specific crowd.

    • @DwyaneWadeCounty
      @DwyaneWadeCounty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Interesting, too, because I am new to fragrances and I tested Le Male and my very first impression was that the smell was too feminine. Supposedly women like this fragrance (Jeremy Fragrance, Ashley Weston), but do they actually want their men to wear this?

    • @ThisisFerrariKhan
      @ThisisFerrariKhan หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@moustachio334the bottle is gay. That was enough to keep me away from it. 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Alexander-vs2ee
      @Alexander-vs2ee 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂

  • @Robert-zo1ym
    @Robert-zo1ym 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I do appreciate how you include and talk about women's fragrances as well in your videos. I find that very refreshing. and thanks for going off the beaten path and introducing us to less popular fragrances! great job Melissa !!

  • @littleshoeshopper
    @littleshoeshopper 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thanks for bringing up an interesting topic. It's an insightful observation regarding the perception of smell. It's rare that someone will say things about fragrances that are thought-provoking. I really appreciate it.

  • @toribunkerducks4311
    @toribunkerducks4311 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i love the way you are, something about you makes me feel cozy

  • @creepertech3077
    @creepertech3077 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the video and the topic u should make a video on lists on more fragrances that fit each gaze and what each gender thinks is attractive vs what they actually find attractive

  • @DeadliestEvil
    @DeadliestEvil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love this and I agree 100%, that's why I wear whatever I want now. Especially being a collector now I have so many scents that I probably rarely smell the same day to day lol. I will say I am obsessed with la nuit de lhomme though and bleu electrique and I'm upset they discontinued it already before I could make it my signature scent.

  • @JcFabuleux
    @JcFabuleux 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is what I’ve been saying!!! You did it again Melissa 💯

  • @1987Toeiii
    @1987Toeiii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Truly eye-opening content!

  • @Goatonomics
    @Goatonomics ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive grown to like your opinion on fragrances. Been watching your vids from time to time. After my 2 year cologne collection journey. I can confirm. Its weird because typically the fragrances I don’t care too much for, are the ones that hit. SMW isn’t my fav, but I’ve women walk by and say omg something smells good. Now it’s my go to lol.

  • @ciz8091
    @ciz8091 ปีที่แล้ว

    You be dropping facts

  • @vxbrance8477
    @vxbrance8477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m completely new to fragrances and you‘re making me broke lol but glad i found the channel!

  • @nias.balata
    @nias.balata 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You absolutely right 👍
    I have PDM Layton I actually just like it but I hear girls really love it!
    Same with Herod I have it too.

  • @habitualgl0ckdumper149
    @habitualgl0ckdumper149 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First time viewer, your reviews are so valid and real, insta subscribe, you’re the GOAT

  • @DatDudeBull24
    @DatDudeBull24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content! Which is why I love Pegasus. I think it smells great personally…but females absolutely love it. I know you think it’s feminine and that’s probably part of the attraction of females when I wear it

  • @michaelvonahnen3050
    @michaelvonahnen3050 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Again ty 4 the information.

  • @jamestaylor1162
    @jamestaylor1162 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So funny you used the example of good girl, my girlfriend got it as a gift last year and I absolutely love it, it’s easily my favourite from her collection 😃

  • @jessieusitalo516
    @jessieusitalo516 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would LOVE if you did a video on Very Good Girl by Carolina Herrera (if you have it or can get a sample). I pretty much always agree with all of your opinions on fragrance and I'd love to see what you think of it!

  • @bellantwain21
    @bellantwain21 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the video Melissa stay motivated Dream big 1 mill on the way nice review

  • @Phantom_madman
    @Phantom_madman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think for women, most guys don’t like the bright fresh white floral smelling perfumes. More something sweet and creamy like the dior poison line

    • @martinil.6196
      @martinil.6196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Trueee

    • @sumgi1537
      @sumgi1537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup I hate those generic female fragrance that are floral,

    • @Dom-pi1gj
      @Dom-pi1gj ปีที่แล้ว

      True that

  • @boitumelomthethwa1006
    @boitumelomthethwa1006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really enjoyed this video. 😅I may just get that good girl fragrance after all. I honestly didn't care for it and what you say is so true. What women find basic, men love the scent and vice versa. I generally love clean,aquatic but dark scents on men yet my significant other loves his sweet,spicy and woodsy scents. 🤦🏾‍♀️I don't care for them really especially in the heat. I'll get him the YSL thank you ❤️

  • @GuroM94
    @GuroM94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t like The smell of Tuxedo but I bought it because you and CubaKnow recommended this as 🔥 Waiting for delivery. Will let you know

  • @dionknibb585
    @dionknibb585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really like you ..your perspective is really different from all the fragrance reviews..blessings

  • @the_9ent
    @the_9ent 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How interesting. More content on this subject would be most welcomed. Thanks

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks for watching. I’ve made a few videos of this topic :)

  • @xolax6403
    @xolax6403 ปีที่แล้ว

    True good girl is amazing

  • @DrWoc
    @DrWoc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah I love Dolce and Gabana light blue forever, all male fragrance TH-camrs love it. But the generic public of women and fragrance TH-camrs that are women say it’s either straight grapefruit or grapefruit mixed with salt.

  • @Franowayne
    @Franowayne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good Girl is one of the best thing I smell on a girl. That thing is what I call the baby maker.

  • @robertduncan3267
    @robertduncan3267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i like to wear MFKGrand Soir,and Killian Angel Share,Creed Royal oud,and Fragrance Du Bois NY Intense and Arabian Oud Resala.i am 55 yrs old also

  • @alaxemeyianna5052
    @alaxemeyianna5052 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    actually la nuit de l homme rock at summer too

  • @TheOfficialprincessa
    @TheOfficialprincessa ปีที่แล้ว

    I bought Born in Roma because of the pretty bottle but also because girls kept saying it was a compliment getter…. I never received one compliment on it lol. Delina on the other hand… men and women compliment me 😊

  • @twinsoul1137
    @twinsoul1137 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've had some amazing compliments when wearing Ultra Male.. and they were ALL from women! 😉

    • @campish3510
      @campish3510 ปีที่แล้ว

      Definitely

    • @GodBodyKing98
      @GodBodyKing98 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. In my personal experience, I’ve gotten tons of compliments from women while wearing ultra male.

  • @ytr4
    @ytr4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Melissa, wondering if you could get your hands on Ted Lapidus Poker face as it's apparently a very similar clone of YSL LNDL. Would love to see your thoughts on this perfume!

  • @chriscampos7217
    @chriscampos7217 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said👍

  • @Iamloveandloveisme
    @Iamloveandloveisme ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your advice is unique. No one like you on TH-cam and I agree 100% (I'm a straight lady) and from the beginning to end of this video, I found you so insightful. We think alike. New subscriber for life! Keep it up.

  • @_stillyellowsnow
    @_stillyellowsnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like bottega veneta Ilusione and the blue Mugler alien for men.

  • @ericmartin9041
    @ericmartin9041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not only gender, but age, and ethnicity play a factor

  • @togetlostistolearntheway6386
    @togetlostistolearntheway6386 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was laughing so hard when you listed what people think fragrances can do or all types of name’s giving to fragrances …

  • @Smackheem1991
    @Smackheem1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your aura

  • @Se7enLuckyslevin
    @Se7enLuckyslevin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    my 2 favorite fragrances to smell on a woman are like she said Carolina herrera Good girl and Chance Chanel Eau Fraiche(green apple one) also dkny be delicious
    ... if youre a girl and you want a fragrance that attracts men well then make sure it is fresh and has pepper in it, not powdery or sweet

  • @BourneIdentity45
    @BourneIdentity45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Creed Aventus is a prefect example of something guys hype tf out of but from what I've heard girls don't mind it, bu just on the fact guys like it more than girls means that the 400 dollars spent on it could be spent on something cheaper that actually gets a good reaction from a female, but either way I've found tuxedo is the type of fragrance that I love and girls love though I need to get a another bottle of it my 8.4 oz is in its last third

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aventus is definitely more of a boxer dropper. I’ll do a video about this but if you want the female gaze on Creed…. SMW > Aventus. And yes Tuxedo is HEAT

    • @moustachio334
      @moustachio334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The worst is when people spend that money on a fragrance but not their clothes and expect women to find them attractive in their New Balance and straight cut jeans.

    • @mike.pittsburgh3466
      @mike.pittsburgh3466 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I recommend Aventus to other guys… Let them waste their money on attracting other guys… 😂… Meantime, I’ll be wearing something to draw in the ladies. 😏👍

    • @mike.pittsburgh3466
      @mike.pittsburgh3466 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melissanacional9662I can’t find Tuxedo, but I do have Mustache. 👍😉

  • @BetterPlay
    @BetterPlay ปีที่แล้ว

    I wear ysl DNLH, but just bought chanel egoiste. was wondering what your opinion was.

  • @brycechapman1440
    @brycechapman1440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ysl La Nuit De L’homme was one of my first scents. I absolutely love it. Women love it (the ones I’ve encountered), but unfortunately it doesn’t last long on my skin :’(

    • @Bam305_
      @Bam305_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It last like 2hrs on me

    • @Stoicexpression
      @Stoicexpression 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Layer some iso e super and will last all day

    • @brycechapman1440
      @brycechapman1440 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Stoicexpression I might have to give that a try

    • @burntlithium9437
      @burntlithium9437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And make sure you apply lotion to areas you apply fragrance as well if you don't have extra molecules to layer

    • @tomazhb1692
      @tomazhb1692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You need to spray more mate
      Like 15, and layer iso e super over it

  • @DarkHorseDanny
    @DarkHorseDanny 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So in simple terms... if I don't like it, then the women will love it 😂

  • @FrankYoung1128
    @FrankYoung1128 ปีที่แล้ว

    Facts.

  • @darklawdshadow5679
    @darklawdshadow5679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No1 type that mama🤣🤣🤣.... What i furst typed was. "Whats the best cologne to buy in 2015

  • @MusicFanOnline
    @MusicFanOnline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Also, with unisex fragrances, some may smell really good, but as a woman, I found that guys may not really like a "unisex" fragrance on me so much. Instead, I found that they prefer a more :"feminine" fragrance on me--- like when a woman walks by, a nice "feminine" scent will trigger the thought that "ahhh, there goes an attractive WOMAN!"
    Interesting topic, and sometimes I wonder what guys might think of my more "unisex" fragrances. Like, take the fragrance "Side Effect" for example- a really nice fragrance, but I saw a comment from a guy saying he likes the fragrance but would not really want to smell it on a woman.

    • @michaeldanchez9530
      @michaeldanchez9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As a guy I think that unisex or even some more masculine leaning fragrances smell really nice on women. I’m not every guy though of course and idk what the overall consensus is among guys but a lot of really feminine fragrances can be too floral and sweet and girly girl it gives me a headache. Plus a girl shows she’s unique when she wears stuff she’s not “supposed” to

    • @MusicFanOnline
      @MusicFanOnline 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@michaeldanchez9530 Thank you. Those are some good points, and I think many other guys would agree (but I hear conflicting opinions, and, of course, that is because we all have our individual preferences, but it makes me curious sometimes about what guys think). I understand your point about the "too floral" notes and I also tend to avoid those. I tend to usually prefer unisex fragrances that lean feminine; for example, Oud Satin Mood Extrait.

    • @michaeldanchez9530
      @michaeldanchez9530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MusicFanOnline for sure, and I think women who aren’t deep into fragrances and know all their options and what smells good on them and matches their personality, it feels like it would be hard to find feminine fragrances that smell mature but not like old woman mature and not like a young girl either. My ideal feminine scent to smell on a women would be something that makes them smell smart and mature without smelling old lol if that makes sense

    • @MusicFanOnline
      @MusicFanOnline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@michaeldanchez9530 "Smart and mature without smelling old" -- yes, I like that, too!

    • @alisweid3810
      @alisweid3810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a guy i hate women wearing feminine fragrances , its just nauseating

  • @GuroM94
    @GuroM94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great information, All the fragrances in my collection that my wife finds attractive. I don’t like. I wear them anyway cause at end of day The point is to please the person your trying to smash 😂

  • @moneyhavingbobby
    @moneyhavingbobby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Goodgirl smells bomb asf to me i would love a girl to wear it

  • @kristianpeterson2571
    @kristianpeterson2571 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would you say Side Effect is one that girls like more on guys?

  • @jrrydha
    @jrrydha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm a guy and La nuit de l’homme is one of my all-time favorite designer frags.

    • @kleeblattchen38
      @kleeblattchen38 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeah I’m wondering what kind of guys don’t like la nuit, cuz most guys online do praise it… maybe it’s not that popular among people outside the fragcom, I do notice that I’m basically the only one wearing la nuit nowadays, never smell it on other guys… I only have one friend who wears l‘homme edt, that’s it

    • @ssnbenedn847
      @ssnbenedn847 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kleeblattchen38 have u tried the newer 2022 batches? and does it smell the same as the older ones

    • @kleeblattchen38
      @kleeblattchen38 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ssnbenedn847 i own a 2013 and 2020 bottle and there are differences but I really like both actually… some people might even prefer the newer one cuz it’s a little less spicy but more versatile… but it is probably recommendable to macerate newer bottles, let it sit in your collection for a while first cuz they do smell kinda weak fresh out of the box… i purchased a 2021 bottle and thought it smelled different to the 2020 bottle despite it technically being the same formulation (code is on the back of the box after the ingredients list, in this case C167049/1). this has been the same code since 2015 until 2021 so there shouldn’t be too many variations between these batches but there has actually been a new formulation since the end of 2021 or something, noticed it on a 2022 bottle (code: N70011799/1)… i don’t really know about that one, so maybe get a 2015-2021 batch if you can…

  • @remydenhartog2398
    @remydenhartog2398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    can you do a review of xerjoff tony iommi and torino 21?

  • @AzulaPrinzessin
    @AzulaPrinzessin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    3:57 But la nuit de l'homme is reformulated
    The older version is so much stronger.

  • @alisweid3810
    @alisweid3810 ปีที่แล้ว

    True

  • @facepullsscents
    @facepullsscents 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To be honest I don't like JPG Ultra Male and the flanker (also I don't like all JPG fragrances), but when I use it my wife is like crazy. I live in tropical country mostly female here love JPG Ultra Male and Le Male.

  • @jodee8831
    @jodee8831 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My favorite fragrance is Initio Side Effect... but my wife doesn't think it's anything special... she prefers earthy, green, fresh fragrances... which are some of my least favorite profiles

  • @alexanderflores-hu3zq
    @alexanderflores-hu3zq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lune domme??? What's that cologne called??? 🤔

  • @crharper25
    @crharper25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Video had me cracking up...are you native to Hawaii. You remind me of a lot of the women I met over there.

    • @westernsellers9148
      @westernsellers9148 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Native to Japan possibly 😂😂

    • @15HunnetBlockGoon
      @15HunnetBlockGoon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s Micronesian. Not Polynesian

  • @swa99a10
    @swa99a10 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is that bottle with the feather in the backround.

  • @diegoe751
    @diegoe751 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree about JPG, even the bottle if u like man u like the bottle, I wear feminine fragrance/ clothes but girls attracted and I don't imagine myself grabbing Le Male's bottle 😂

  • @pleasestop1760
    @pleasestop1760 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let your informed objective guide you.

  • @localchief
    @localchief ปีที่แล้ว

    Hold on hold on… she got her back broken 🤔. My wife needs this

  • @sumitworld97
    @sumitworld97 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree for both. I find Ultra male too strong and I don't like LNDLH either.
    If I ever have to go on a date, I will pick DHI, WBN, PLRB, or Lucky.

    • @BourneIdentity45
      @BourneIdentity45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are the last 3 you're talking about lol, I'm trying to figure it out but idk

    • @mowainwright73
      @mowainwright73 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BourneIdentity45 Azzaro Wanted By night, Prada Luna Rossa black, Paco rabanne one million lucky

    • @sumitworld97
      @sumitworld97 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mowainwright73 correct + Dior homme intense

    • @BourneIdentity45
      @BourneIdentity45 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mowainwright73 thank you 😂😂😂

  • @DaveJuan72
    @DaveJuan72 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hate the way Aventus, Layton, & Hachivat, but my wife loves it... To me the perfumes smell like coconut, "Bengay," and metallic synthetic... But my wife smells grapefruit and musk.

  • @ethanear175
    @ethanear175 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Have you tried amouage reflection man? What do you think of it on a guy?

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have, tbh I didn’t care for it

    • @Teeb2023
      @Teeb2023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I had it, and traded it for Bracken Man. Reflection is a fantastic scent IMO, but I found it a little too feminine, too floral maybe.

  • @donreynaldo
    @donreynaldo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    To take it deeper it's based on your chemistry. I have worn fragrances to wear dudes will ask me what I have on. They have the same fragrance .When I learn what notes worked well on me I always get compliments...oh and making sure my ass is washed lol 😆

  • @MeKali_
    @MeKali_ ปีที่แล้ว

    A simple example that I experienced, I was in doubt between perfumes L'Interdit Rouge and Intense. ALL perfumers recommended Rouge to me, I ended up blinding it, and it smells good, but it reminds me a lot of a luxury prostitute. I found out later that the real magnetism for the guys comes from Intense's elegant way of vanilla and sesame. And NONE of the women suggested the intense as a sexy and conquering scent, unlike the Rouge that is in ALL the videos of sensual perfumes and in practice does not give any results.

  • @martinil.6196
    @martinil.6196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive met many females that arent crazy about la nuit, it depends always

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Of course Scent is subjective. But the amount of women who dislike La Nuit is disproportionate to the vast majority that do

    • @jacklan4103
      @jacklan4103 ปีที่แล้ว

      I gifted my dad La Nuit and he has been receiving compliments from coworkers and patients alike.

  • @DudeCoreExpress
    @DudeCoreExpress 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the girl who wore good girl found bane at her party and he broke her back

  • @vidanmai166
    @vidanmai166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like your channel Melissa and appreciate your view. But in fairness, I feel this video is very biased. From my experience I feel girls had better reaction to Ultra Male than guys had. I personally and my guy friends did not enjoy Ultra Male. But I received several compliments from women.
    There are so many factors going into what and who when it comes to fragrances.
    Especially, when you yourself claimed you were dissapointed with Ultra Male, making it obviously biased. The fact that you speak on behalf of females as if most females share your opinion is misleading (in my opinion).
    Otherwise, great channel and I'm subscribed.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I didn’t speak on behalf of all women. Only the ones who told me that hated it when they smelled it in my collection. And like i said a million times, fragrances are subjective so bias will always be there

    • @vidanmai166
      @vidanmai166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melissanacional9662 Understandable. It's interesting how I experienced the opposite of you. Girls enjoyed ultra male but I personally found it too sweet. But I live in a colder climate.

    • @jasonbarbosa708
      @jasonbarbosa708 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fragrance is subjective, she’s going off her experiences, while you’re going off on your own.
      Now if you can’t objectively step back and realize that…and still claim one over the other due to preference or experience then you have created that bias yourself.
      There’s nothing wrong with that. Again at the end of the day everyone is different, it’s all subjective…more reason to just wear what you enjoy.

    • @vidanmai166
      @vidanmai166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasonbarbosa708 yes and I never disagreed with the fact that fragrances are subjective. That was the point of my original comment. Read it again.
      My issue mainly lies with the way she generalizes her personal experience onto the male and female gaze (which is a very general thing).

    • @vidanmai166
      @vidanmai166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasonbarbosa708 ofc she says from my experience and many other girls' experience and so on. But throughout the video basically says:
      If you like it then wear the shit out of it but most females dont share this taste/opinion
      Which in my opinion becomes misleading when that becomes the main takeaways from the video.
      But I just wanted to highlight it. Wasn't intended to rub anyone wrong here.

  • @ramandha3311
    @ramandha3311 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I N S I G H T !

  • @JoeVegaGaming
    @JoeVegaGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly fragrance don’t drop anyones pants lol you have to wear the fragrance not the fragrance wear you and you have to have confidence the fragrance just sits on your skin and won’t do the work for you

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s common sense. But that mixed with a sexy fragrance can definitely cause those reactions

    • @JoeVegaGaming
      @JoeVegaGaming 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melissanacional9662 not sure it gets mentined enough in videos or titles and these alone dont do any of what they say it does

  • @kleeblattchen38
    @kleeblattchen38 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what kind of guys don’t like LNDL? 😂

  • @MarkStark-dx9dm
    @MarkStark-dx9dm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings from Denmark.
    I don't know about women, but I think many guys have some sort of blind faith in videos like "Top Ten Panty dropper", "Top ten compliment getters" etc.
    I love La Nuit and I love fragrances like Terre D'Hermes but also an oldie like Boss Bottled. To me it's very much about making the fragrance you wear your own. In the end a fragrance is only an accessory to your personality. A person like Tom Hiddleston or Ryan Gosling could wear a $20 fragrance if they wanted, and it's wouldn't change much about how attractive they are. In the end it's about personality.
    I generally hate the expression Panty Dropper. All women are different and have individual tastes.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve made a video about this before. Of course you have to have a personality. Fragrances Are just the cherry on top, that’s just common sense

  • @lecrapface5270
    @lecrapface5270 ปีที่แล้ว

    What I do is I figure out what my wife's boyfriend wears and then I wear that....yeah I know... I'm pretty damned smooth 😎

  • @merom.1248
    @merom.1248 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great example of this is Versace Dylan Blue..
    All girls love this but most guys don't.

  • @Dude10946
    @Dude10946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, I’m a guy and I LOVE La Nuit. Maybe it’s because I’m a gay male? I don’t know, but I think it’s one of the best in the world. Along with YSL L’Homme EDP.
    That said, I liked Ultra Male but not as much as La Nuit.

    • @barrettwissell9708
      @barrettwissell9708 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a straight guy, LNDL and L'homme are the two best fragrances I've ever smelt. Been wearing them for a decade, I never tire of them. Sex and sophistication in a bottle.

  • @yomnasoliman6495
    @yomnasoliman6495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Melissa .. try Le male edt .. the OG has a fresh sweet mint take .. I think it’s better than ultramale .. I would actually wear it myself

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need to retest that one. I’ve tried it before but can’t remember it

    • @yomnasoliman6495
      @yomnasoliman6495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@melissanacional9662 the fresh sweet mint opening is addictive 🕊

    • @sumgi1537
      @sumgi1537 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Smells like baby powder, i enjoy it tho. I have a 1997 bottle 👌

  • @whtaccizdis
    @whtaccizdis ปีที่แล้ว

    As a woman, I don't like Ultra Male 😂

  • @Btrue1983
    @Btrue1983 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Straight Gaze

  • @gusruz2001
    @gusruz2001 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm confused

  • @iamva1679
    @iamva1679 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a guy and YSL smells annoyingly sweet to me even kind of cheap

    • @Smackheem1991
      @Smackheem1991 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s what girls like

    • @ariaelein
      @ariaelein 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are u talking about the ysl black opium one?

  • @russellbonell
    @russellbonell 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not a massive fan of the smell of good girl. All smells are subjective and work differently on peoples skins. People should like what they are wearing themselves and if you get a good reaction then great.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes that’s common sense lmaoo. Not the point of the video though

    • @russellbonell
      @russellbonell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@melissanacional9662 kinda is though isn't it. I know girls who go mad for ultra male and some don't like it..I personally don't like it and I'm a bloke but I know some girls love it and go crazy over it. Also chris Hemsworth is on top of most lists of what girls want and not Tom. I think you're putting across your personal opinion far to much. No male has ever said to get ultra male or that they like it, it's not on top of the list for most guys so I don't even understand where that comes from. Maybe it's different over here but from what you've said I could make a video of the complete opposite from what I've "seen"

  • @ianarn
    @ianarn 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The Gaultier bootle alone looks a bit too homosexual for my own personal tastes!

  • @letterkeys4440
    @letterkeys4440 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    years late but how is le male le parfum to the female gaze. I despise ultra male so im praying over here

  • @enessque
    @enessque 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How ultra male sweet vanilla bomb is a guys guy scent pls. aventus is a guys scent but ultra male... you should be living in a different universe. Guys are even afraid to wear ultra male because its too sweet i really dont understand you

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The amount of guys that have messaged me saying they bought ultra male because a guy told them girls love it, are the same ones telling me they’re disappointed because only guys compliment them. Not hard to understand 😂

    • @enessque
      @enessque 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melissanacional9662 i dont wear it that often but when i wear it i get asked by girls like what is it what are you wearing. When i am getting real good reactions it is really hard for me to belive that girls dont like it. The only girl who didnt like it is my sister and she doesnt really like any sweer kinda fragrance.

    • @jmb2467
      @jmb2467 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@enessqueguys are scared to try ultra male? It was one of their best sellers…you must be from another universe.

  • @stealth1077
    @stealth1077 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aren't you a girl who likes girls? So essentially you are a guy telling guys what girls like.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There’s no way you actually typed that out and didn’t see how dumb it sounded lmaoo

    • @stealth1077
      @stealth1077 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@melissanacional9662 Wouldn't you have the same taste as guys. You're a woman, but you kind of have a sexual preference that men have. If I was looking for a cologne to attract women i would want to hear the opinion of someone who likes men. That's not dumb because we don't fully understand the mentality of people who are abnormal. People who like the same sex.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No

    • @martinbax4182
      @martinbax4182 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a perfume thread for those interested. If your extreme Conservative sentiments are offended by "abnormal mentality' of people preferring the same sex - there are many "abnormal reviewers" and I suggest you join a more appropriate thread for your views.
      I am not gay but don't care others are

    • @jmb2467
      @jmb2467 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stealth1077I think I lost brain cells reading what you wrote 😂.

  • @8LeftEarth
    @8LeftEarth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I only wear what the girls like...so..i only listen to the fragrance youtubers that are women. 🤷🏽‍♂️made sense to me lol

  • @thundersword99
    @thundersword99 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If a girl finds a guy hot he can wear febreze air freshener and she'll go crazy for him. If a girl thinks a guy is ugly then he can wear tuxedo ysl and it won't do anything. Not saying fragrance doesn't matter, as it certainly does, but your looks matter more.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Not what this video is about lol. Everyone knows personality over all else. It’s common sense

    • @thundersword99
      @thundersword99 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melissanacional9662 Fair enough. Good vid btw!!

  • @eloygameno379
    @eloygameno379 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Women not girls

  • @dankovur5550
    @dankovur5550 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ya my chick hates jaun Paul

  • @kippage2719
    @kippage2719 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What are your top 3 , girls find attractive ?

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Honestly, the ones in my top 5 video for February 2022 lol

  • @calvinthestormfreak
    @calvinthestormfreak ปีที่แล้ว

    FACE FACE FACE THAT’S allllllllll cut the bull shi*

  • @raoulrusso7405
    @raoulrusso7405 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Perfume Is subjective like food. This video has non sense. Thats my opinion. I Hope you not get offended ,you know, you american lesbian asiatic feel offended for everything...😏

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I literally said perfume is subjective in this video lol. Why are you mad that you agree with me hahahahaha

    • @jmb2467
      @jmb2467 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re not the sharpest tool in the shed are you Raoul? But that’s just my opinion.

  • @eldotjay
    @eldotjay ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *Women are not a monolith. Some women (my wife for example) much prefer a Chris Hemsworrh over a Tom Hiddleston any day of the week. She actually thinks Hiddleston is very ugly 😂. So your advice may work for your circle of women but you cannot talk as if it’s universally applicable. It’s simple guys, know the girl you’re pursuing!*

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You just repeated what I said

    • @eldotjay
      @eldotjay ปีที่แล้ว

      @@melissanacional9662 no you never made this point. You said you can _wear whatever you want._ But your point in the vid was the _guys think women like x_ when _women actually like y._ You never qualified it by saying “this isn’t the case for all women”, or “this is what happens to be the case amongst the women in my circle” or even added a disclaimer saying “not all women are the same so *know the woman you’re trying to pursue”.* It was _“this is what you think women like, this is what they actually like but wear whatever you want”._ That’s not the same point.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @jmb2467
      @jmb2467 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eldotjaynaw man, she mentioned that it’s subjective with the ultramale example.
      You just sound triggered. Over a fragrance video….

  • @RiseUpToYourAbility
    @RiseUpToYourAbility 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I disagree with this. Just because we like something ourselves doesn't mean we like it on the opposite sex. For example a lot of women will love to wear a pair of louboutin heels, but I'm sure that doesn't mean that they want their guy wearing it. I love Sauvage, but I don't want my GF wearing it. It makes her feel more like a dude. When I smell her in a nice Jo Malone, I find that a lot more attractive.

    • @melissanacional9662
      @melissanacional9662  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You missed the point of the video. a fragrance being comforting and balanced between masculine and feminine can’t be compared to a man wear heels. And I’m talking about what girls find attractive not guys 😂

    • @j1430
      @j1430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      who doesnt want a man in heels 🥵

  • @peterfriel5129
    @peterfriel5129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any guys watching this listen to Melissa .

  • @november-bravo
    @november-bravo ปีที่แล้ว

    Not my boy JPG 🥲
    Yeah this is too true though. I love smelling Ultra Male, it smells so sexy to me. I’d probably be weak if a woman wore it.