Female Sh*t Tests (TIER LIST)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ธ.ค. 2024
- In this video I go over female interest and congruence tests, also know as sh*t tests. They're subconscious games women play to disqualify and filter out certain men in the dating field, while rewarding the men who pass these tests. This tier list ranks all the female sh*t tests based on their difficulty to pass. Let me know if you agree with the ranking in the comments below.
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maybe I’ll just try to find a relationship that doesn’t revolve around playing 4D chess 24/7
Good luck, all women do this though so
Most.
Find a man
@@Serpicouk😂😂😂
@@Serpicoukexactly what I've been thinking. modern problems require modern solutions. there is lesser demand on femboys, easier prey.
Girl told me my jacket was ugly. I told her “good thing you’re not wearing it then”
@@omokok1877 Nice one
Sigma
Bro your actually a sigma 🥶🥶🥶🥶 chills bro chills
@@agdunking3075 I do my best 😌
Then she will say I am not feeling cold.
I failed a shit test so brutally the other day. Needed this video
The test goes hard when they start drinking 😂
Wanna share more detail about it. Just asking to know what that shit test was
Live and learn
@@AdamJones-s4k hangin on the edge of tomorrow
@@mohidkhan6039There was this shy girl in my class that I liked and I would always try to talk to her and it went ok but I wasn’t getting a ton of reciprocation and I didn’t think she was into me so I kind of stopped talking to her. Then out of nowhere she sat next to me just started talking to me and I knew immediately that meant she was interested and I wasn’t expecting it all and my brain short circuited. I started stuttering and shit… yeah it was nightmare fuel bro
I'm a 5'5" Indian Janitor, can confirm.
stay hard king.😤
Rise mofo 😤
@@ウジコ大好き人間literally
i'm 5'3 bro im worse
I am from India as well Brotha.
Thrilled to see Indians embracing the Red Pill awakening!
Btw I'm 6'0
What it boils down to pretty much is to not take them seriously😂
Yes!
nothing they do or say should truly be taken seriously.
That gender is too random.
Definitely take some of these seriously dude 😭😭
boils down to date as much women as possible, build a circle, have options, and treat women as regular person. also being good looking as its core value.
@@Looksmaxspartanism ngl great advice. from what i have seem this works best.
@@Looksmaxspartanismbros tryna build an irl harem😭😭💀
After watching some your vids I am starting to realize that women do things to weed out emotionally weak/needy men. I think the best way to not be emotionally weak and needy is to realize you don't need a woman to be a man.
Duh
If you needed to have a gf/ wife to be yourself "a true man " then would you not exist anymore as a living individual being, and or have a complete body death, the moment you didn't have a gf?
Whats the end product? Despite all this weeding out they always seem to end up with a toxic bad boy that then goes on to traumatise them.
Bro, I'm gonna be real, this stuff looks exhausting. I don't think I could put up with this for very long. It's almost hard to believe that all women do this, because if that's the case, I don't think I can handle dating.
Unfortunately they all do it, it's a subconscious thing, alot of them don't even know they are doing it.
If you have a bit of a spine it's actually fun. Bro you've evolved to handle this
Just don’t give a F about them. Respect yourself and don’t fall for those stupid games. Feminine women unconsciously follow masculine men. Treat them indifferently unless they have the same energy ad you.
Some countries, and some women, do it more than others. Just develop yourself, work on you first, this shit comes natural to men who are confident and on their shit! Don't worry I felt intimidated about this shit when I first learned about it too!
Its all a learning process, and its alright that this is part of how things work!
Godspeed brother, you got this.
yeah too much work for little gain
The accuracy is unreal.
They also like to pit you against other men subliminally, which is terrible.
Great tier list
Been there, however he was a friend of me and we manage the situation
@ It’s rough out there comrade.
To me that’s the worse one, when the men are too emotionally invested, they can destroy each other.
I’m glad you resolved it the right way 🫡
@@Truthseekingorb Thank you my boy truthseekingorb. Make sure y’all go check out his channel too. He has based takes 🫡
@ Thank you bro 🫡
Bro this is so helpful for me and I don’t even have a girl I’m chasing or anything I just use this knowledge on my sisters and mom. (I’m the only guy in the household) I constantly am being manipulated by them and when I confronted them about it they said I was acting crazy but then while they said that they continued to manipulate me without even realising it. I just started laughing then and there. I stopped caring about what they say and there arguments and now I feel free and unburdened if I just ignore it all and don’t care it all goes away. Thanks man!
❤ Estrogen can't think straight
You’re a weirdo mate
hahah yeah same shit with my mother and sister
@@Sebastian-pi5ro I’m glad this helped you bro. No alabama though
At first I thought you say it as a joke for not having a girl
You can never fail if you don't play, choose who chooses you - easy. If you can walk away at any time, you will always be the winner! Work on yourself so that you always have many options.
One time she gave me one of the dumbest shit test, we were walking together on the street and without me realizing she started to accelerate to see if was gonna accelearte too, at the beginnning i walked a bit faster without realizing it then i i realized i was losing the shit test so i just got back to my normal pace while she was at that fast paced walking it looked ridiculus honestly
What happened afterwards?
@@ekamonthewise2395 lol
@@ekamonthewise2395 he woke up
😂😂 women are literally kids ngl LOOL
What😭😭
Shit tests are so difficult for guys who aren’t red pill aware. I passed the “don’t apologize” shit test, but I’d failed so many other shit tests before that, that my exwife was furious with me for not apologizing. I’d already lost so much frame in our relationship that she was baffled I would pass this shit test. She couldn’t handle it. Guys, You’ve got to pass ALL of these
if you played the test you lose. better leave these people alone because shit test are annoying asbhell.
I was not expecting the advisor giving us some of his dating experience but here we are.
What is next, he will be honest to women about their behavior?
Discovered your channel tomorrow loving it man. It’s like free revision.
Tomorrow? 😭
lool@@havocmg
My nigga u come from the future or what cuh
@@Flootyyyeah I am from 3024
damn near had an aneurysm trying to understand this comment
It's a good day when YBCTooCold drops a vid
@@ErenYeager-tz8rj ❤️❤️
27:06 Women openly talk about using this tactic but it often backfires when they are dealing with confident men.
The difference between a manipulation and a shit test is conciousness.
Manipulation is concious, shit-tests are natural and thus subconcious.
This shit happened to me bro and I just dipped immediately.
Bro the purse one😭 same level as chicks asking u to buy em a drink
how should you respond if they ask you to buy em a drink ?
“You see that guy over there? He’ll buy you a drink. Then come back and talk to me.”
@@Martin14159 how do I know when to cold approach or not when there are no choosing signals
Man, when I was in middle school, some random chick ask me to come get her purse, I did which I feel like a doormat afterwards, the next day she asked me again, I completely ignored her, and she was baffled that I ignored her.
Can't agree with some of them.
1- if she says she has a bf, it means you can be an orbiter and nothing more;
2- if she breaks up out of nowhere, don't take her back. Because it is so disrespectful, and there is a high chance there is another dude that she preferred;
Pro Tip: even if she does little and minor shit tests regularly, it means whether she has no interest/respect for you, or she is so toxic that cannot control her impulses to not do these behaviors. It will be hell, so just leave her.
But what do I do about the shit test: "Who are you and how did you get in my house?"
@samscorch8252 Masculine frame. Assert your dominance that her house now belongs to you, and that you will do as you please (don’t worry about the restraining order, it’s also another test)
@@ybctoocold 💀
@@ybctoocold😂😂😂
Make a version of "shit tests" that man can do, like, how to test her fidelity, test if she is satisfied with our body, if she thinks we are ugly and is only dating out of pity or revenge for her ex-boyfriend.
IMPOSSIBLE lMAO. Women are hardwired to be dishonest, its like a survival tactic
She used me for revenge on her ex😂. I would have rather had genuine interest and dated her but nah im glad i found that out because at the end of the day k was still hitting lol
Yeah, good one!
like if u cant recognize that she dates you only out revenge and still has the other guy in her mind in a few days of talking stage, thats on you boss
women are really easy to see through
Its incredible to see all the tactics revealed so purely.
I was dating a girl for 6 months, and even though she was really into me and overall I kept a good frame, she still shit tested me. Mainly apology fishing and trying to insult me, last one is very common with Latinas though they’re poking you all the time
Blocked one for it, she one morning blocked me on snap, and I was like okay if you don't wanna be w me then just don't be, I ain't ab this immature ass bs. So I blocked her on everything and moved on to other people/things and other person/things etc. plus my roster at the time. I feel very embarrassed to even admit ever having a roster. As in a woman it's disgusting.
I look better now. If a girl loves me despite my "ugly old pfp" on TH-cam , then .............................
Another one is if she purposely misses or dodges your questions. She answers some but refuses to answer others-that’s a shit test, and I would crown it as disrespect. If you call her out on it and she refuses to acknowledge what she’s doing, then she just doesn’t like you that much. Leave her dry and delete her.
Another one is if you’re the one constantly reaching out or starting the conversation. If the conversation wouldn’t move unless you initiate it, this shows she doesn’t respect or value you that much.
Another red flag is if she creates way too many rules for you-like not allowing open communication or constantly denying you whenever you try to talk to her in a certain way or bring up intimate topics. If she truly wanted you, she would break down those unnecessary rules and talk to you freely. You’d be able to have intimate conversations without her shrugging you off or being too closed off.
There should be an extra tier that's outside of the tierlist and is optional, the purse one for example, its up to you, I held my girlfriend's purse all the time and she's nuts for me and is now my wife, the thing about holding the purse is you can either be whiny and tell her you dont want to hold her purse or you can just hold it, so maybe you'll tell her you dont want to hold the purse and you might look tough and confined in your principles and all or maybe it will look insecure like you're afraid of a purse as if holding a purse is all it takes to make you look like less of a man. To say it again in a different way maybe you'll agree to hold the purse, but you'll grab the purse and agree in a weak "okkkay" voice and then start looking all weak with bad posture like you just took a blow while holding the purse, or maybe you'll just grab the purse and hold it and still be the bad dude who you are like nothing and holding the purse doesnt phase you. So its just up to you how you handle it, whether you hold it or not, its the way you act and are perceived afterwards about it.
Missinformation and fake news
When she pulls away, she's got a huge rotation of dudes texting her. There is nothing us guys can do. Even if she's in a relationship, she is still going to have tinder or bumble downloaded on their phones.
Biggest takeaway I’ve gotten from watching this vid is that the biggest shit test is life. You won’t know you’ve been shit tested until you’ve experienced it
This is probably the best video you’ve made on your channel
@@genix5700 glad you got value from it man
Thank you man, this video is really good. For the last one, just make sure you're not scheduling a date like 2 weeks in advance or else she's gonna forget and not show up. If you schedule it a few days from when you invite (NOT ASK) her, then she'll probably show up, and if she doesn't so what, you get to have a fun time doing something by yourself, and she'll like your confidence, like YBC said.
Yeah, if a woman makes plans with you weeks out and says she is "sooo busy" that is a sign of no interest. You might be in a friend zone or an orbiter where she does not want to reject you explicitly, but if she says she can only see you three weeks from now, she will not show up and if you try to confirm a few days before, it is 100% she will say "oh yeah, sorry! I have "x" and cant make it, raincheck?" It is a way of spinning your wheels. Even if you back off and she starts texting you again or whatever, she will usually do the same thing again. She wants attention only.
@@bobross1829 literally happened to me
I passed all these tests and she kept shit testing. I wasn’t super into her and told her that chemistry is not what I’m looking for. She laughed and said I hope you find what you’re looking for
Annoying ahh women
She is now obsessed with you.
Dude this will help out upcoming generations so much.
I respect you so much man ty very much!
@@Akash-hu3vb Thank you for your support bro. We going strong 💯
Ur opinion on crossing boundaries was very unique and beneficial.
Your take on "boundary setting" is actually extremely interesting. I thought I was being very masculine by communicating effectively and setting boundaries with this girl I was only seeing for a few months. It makes sense to me now that it showed a level of interest.
I think I got confused with this specific relationship because I took her Love Bombing as a sign of high interest. The streets can be tricky out here.
The amount of times I've got the "i bet you do/say this with other girls." from women is crazy.
2:44 the pulling away is literally the easiest test to pass. I mostly mirror their behaviour so if I know they don't like me, I'll just be like "I don't chase."
The timing of this video is actually insane, I was on the verge on failing one of these tests accidently.
All of these shit tests can be passed by
Focusing on yourself, not getting too attached and be willing to walk away,
being your honest self, and if she doesnt like your honest self? who cares move on to the next girl who likes your honest self.
When she looks you in the eye when shes talking to you, dont move your eye contact until she looks down in intimidation
Don't take them seriously. Understand that most behave like toddlers. Don't take it personal. Have fun.
And remember, for every one that turns 30, another turns 18.
Highly underrated video, YBC must be havvin aimbot cause he never miss
Smooth
@@Qntmmchncs 👑👑
24:15 I would argue that the only way to pass this test is to straight up ghost her and don't look back. Some of them "break up" or "need to take a break" because they just saw a guy who they wanna cheat on you with (especially if it's out of nowhere) and when they have their fun, they want to come back to their safe and locked down guy. If you wanna pass this, don't let her do any of it and simply don't take her back. Bonus points if you manage to get with someone before she wants to come back
28:15 there are countless videos of girls saying they have a boyfriend and then giving away the number anyway. It doesn't always mean the boyfriend is made up, it just means they don't respect him
31:00 from my experience it's in the man's best interest not to text when the date is set up. Let her fantasize. If you don't text her the details (other than the time, place and what she's supposed to wear) and don't really talk to her about any other topics unprompted, you're living in her head rent free the entire time
shout out from kazakhstan 🇰🇿🇰🇿 love your content man, this is peak entertainment right here
@@hollowwings 🇰🇿 🇰🇿
“We are not hooking up” during this section you were speaking straight facts. Had this happen to me recently and by the end of the night she was saying “put on a condom” and asking for another round 😂. I ignored her everytime she said that because I knew it was going to happen. I built it all up beforehand with physical touch when we were out didnt have to say anything when we got back to the house.
Watching this and getting flashblacks of all the shit tests like when the guy swallows the super pill in limitles
This right here is the only channel you need to understand women to the absolute fullest
bros chill out. Instead of spending money on gifts, dates, dinners etc.; you can do way better things. Don't be stupid, just go and spend it on cheap fast food, or games, or hobbies. Buy a pay-to-win item or two from your favorite game. Go and buy something about your hobbies, such as buying a guitar? Buy a 1/20 scale big replica of your favorite vehicle (not including ships and planes, 1/18 is way too big). Go to a pawn shop or vintage items seller, hunt for old but gold items. Go and buy ice cream at the worst case scenario. Even though I'm almost 20, it still feels really good. Don't misunderstand me, of course make friendly connections and hang around with people but do not get into the toxic scene of dating. Love is dead at 21st century, just face it. We are romantically worthless and trying hard on it will only damage us.
Probably the best video you made so far bro. I love the clear instructions on how to deal with every one of these.
Low key one of the most informative videos on your channel bro i'll subscribe next thursday
@@Jesz-l7h Why next Thursday bro 💀
"7-days free trial" ahh guy
Bro thinks its an actual subscription
Waht
28:55 - I don't agree with you, because she can confuse it with beta traits. Relationships are made by phases. Maybe in the first stage, yes, you should not care because there's no commitment, but pay attention to the red flags. you should not be thristy to settle down in the first date, she should be passing by a trial where you analyse if she's fits to be your girlfriend. I'd recommend to date her as much as possible so you create an emotional bond as fast as you can, giving her good experiences in / outside bed where she has a lot of pleasure. And as the relationship progresses, you should be demonstrating these "masculine traits", by passing her tests. The first thing you should absolutely do if you want to keep dating her, is to positionate yourself after probably a month or 2, where in these months she is constantly dating you, seing you and you've did everything right. There are a lot of steps in these months, and I can't write it in the minimal details here, but you need to lead the relationship and you have to be willing to walk away (thats a positive trait). As I said, relationships are made by phases. You should first settle to keep the relationship only between you and her, both are not gonna be with another person, and by the time passes, you need to be pointing to her these red flags and be willing to walk away. She's gonna test you, so be ready to walk away and keep your composure. Never demand or yell at the girl. She must be more interessed than you and liking you more to create that relationship, you just set the parameters for her, and its her choice to "work" for the relationship or not, thats the catch. Being authentic and honest helps, because she sees that you're not easily manipulated and you are a man. But you need to show that you have options, etc.. (not literally, she has to think through your mistery, etc) while you are dating her, so she sees you as a good option. If she's a complete redflag, dont date her. Gold tip: Only fall in love with her AFTER everything is settle down, after things are "secured". Before that, be a rock. By letting her be passive, you let her be in her feminine energy, but its so subtle and thats the hard part, its not easy as it says and there are a lot of more steps, because its not a formula, you should know how to play the cards correctly by each situation, in order to keep the girl. If the cross the boundaries, just walk away. She doesnt see you as a man she respects and you're not her match. You cannot bluff with girls. They will test you. Be authentic.
Great comment, thanks brother!
I agree with all of these, other than some I would bail on even if a ST. Like "I have a BF" is just usually she does have a BF. It is just a light rejection. And even if you can master play it so she gives you her number or whatever, she kind of has all the power. Plus, if the dude finds out you are potentially putting yourself in a bad situation over a woman you are not even with. If she does not have a BF and this is a ST just to test confidence or whatever, the odds that it is the other stuff is just too high to mess with. Plus, it kind of shows you are the type of person who would hit on a woman that does have a BF/husband, which can be a turnoff. Maybe at a club or bar I might try anyway, but anyone else, just say "lucky guy" or whatever and back off. If it is a ST, like the others when you pass, she will usually be the one to reach out or give you her number and you can tease "I thought you had a BF", because you backed off and passed.
Same with breaking up with you or cancelling plans. It might be a ST, but if a woman does this kind of stuff it is soo drama it is a red flag and you are better off without her.
Saving this video for future use. Thank you!
Pure gold info and presented with peak humor - this detailed abundance and elaborative explanation is a comprehensive overview of what young mens need nowdays
This channel is really underrated. Full of cheat codes and advices. Thank you bro
Ways u end up in the friendzone (tier list) 😂
Heavily disagree with the last one. Im getting that confirmation for that date, like an hour or 3 before. Im not gonna waste my time and get dressed if she has something else planned instead for our date
This is why you invite her to do something you’re already doing. Whether she’s there or not.
watching this video twice so i remember it better
This is actually really good advice tbh, thanks for it
I appreciate your effort. This is knowledge that every male individual should once heard about because I see a lot of these feminine man getting manipulated by their girls. Keep going man
i hope you know that seeing you changed my dating life. you're a blessing bro alhamdullilah
Great tierlist and great tips bro . Thanks so much
If she says she has a boyfriend, I've always equated it to her either having one, or it's a polite way of saying she's not interested. I guess there's room for interpretation on that one.
Aren't shittests toxic and unhealthy for a good releationship?
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bro literally mentioned that in the video lol
imo they are harmless if you are immune to these
Every single women on the planet does them so
Men can easily test a woman by looking at her body to see how fertile it is. Women need to test a mans strength somehow. It's all unconscious.
Women are more flow orientated. So they act on their subconscious more.
it's great to know all these test lead to successful relationships and high marriage rates.
If a girl insults you and you ignore it or turn it into a joke like "Oh you just want me without my shirt off don't you" that's not a good way to deal with disrespect. A woman should respect you, you should either disrespect her right back or call out her behavior. Setting boundries as a man is important can't let shit slide
@@RoadToStrength-nv8ei That’s what you’d think, and maybe objectively this is true. But chads don’t really care, they play along. This boundary stuff has a lot of nuance
@@ybctoocold You really need to reconsider the information you're feeding to young impressionable men assuming this channel isn't a content farm (which it looks like it is).
The part about her having a boyfriend is a common defense mechanism to ward off dangerous men, because they view having a boyfriend as a no-go zone compared to her just saying no. It's sad but it's the way it is, because men couldn't just take the no for an answer. Why you would even continue to push those boundaries if you have an abundant mindset is mind boggling to me, it doesn't make her feel any safer and it's an obvious no-go. Just keep it pushing unbothered.
That was just one part of the video out of many parts where it didn't make any sense. But it's the most dangerous part I had to speak up about. If you want to become a dating coach or whatever, I highly suggest you do more in-depth studying about how the genders interact with each other.
My rule of thumb is if the insult is about something you can change or no, but in most cases, and not only for girls, it’s best to just dgaf
Does anyone else feel like they tend to chalk up shit tests as signs of disinterestedness and just pull back? Feels bad man.
Just don't care, if it's not easy it's not worth it
I like that you know of Zherka and his game, although i feel like he's lost himself these past years with women and drugs, he spits absolute gems here and there and a lot of his life advice (which is really just re-wiring your mindset) helped me a lot when i was younger.
The Less of these “tests” a woman does shows how mature and how high value she is. The fact that she can find qualities in you without testing you and being toxic, prove her qualities and intelligence as a queen. Toxic traits are hard to get rid of especially when they’re reinforced by society. So I usually give women three chances. I play along into the third test then I’m out.
Stay strong kings.
women dont test guys they genuinely attracted to. and she is only attracted to facial attractiveness. lmao over.
I'm so glad I watched this video, this will help me immensely in life and will save so much nerves and time
My list:
(1) Final Boss
- none
(2) Advanced
- breaking up out of nowhere
(3) Intermediate
- "Spend more time with me"
- gradually walking back
- "You are not my type"
(4) Rookie
- "I have a boyfriend"
- Jealousy test
- "You seem like a player"
- "I bet you do this with all the girls"
- "I only date guys who..."
- "We are not hooking up"
- disagreeing
(5) Disrespect:
- pulling away
- crossing boundaries
- apology fishing
- being dry
- insulting you
- pointing out something about me
- "Small d energy"
- showing up late
- going on her phone too long
- posting while on "delivered"
- "I'm busy"
- posting another guy
- "A real man would"
- talking about another guy
(6) Not on the video chart:
- tries taking control of the frame (I lose attraction and/or patience)
- asking to hold purse (If my hands are free and I'm not doing or about to do something, I don't care to do that)
- trying to argue (I lose attraction and/or patience)
Your video is so good, it is to the point and funny in some bizar way because it is true
blud at this point i might just give men a chance, i dont care enough about a girl to memorize this shit ill just ignore all of it cant be bothered dawg
GAAYYYYYY
Maybe.
or a trans woman
The important point he made is dont accept too many shit tests guys. Dont buy the shit that you always gotta be the ones to pass the tests and keep ur relationship together. Life is stressful enough as it is and u dont want a woman whos constantly putting pressure on u. Go for a woman whos supportive and gives u energy instead of draining it. Good luck on the hunt boys 💪
They all do tests, just get a woman that doesn’t do them often, and that aren’t super stupid
So much value in 1 vid
will you make vídeos on teenage relationships? you're like a father for us all
Just wanted to say bro, you’re doing good work, so many men are illiterate to all this, I was to most of these. You’re setting up men for success
As always with any of these, be cautious of mental health. If she's feeling terrible in her head and you think she's "playing games" or "testing you", she'll break up with you and tell everyone you're an asshole, easy as that. Best way you can help or encourage better behavior is to "just be there" and "be available" when she finally wants to talk again.
Only exception you should be aware of to have a healthy relationship, especially if you want to do so with a depressed person, they might withdraw for a week straight, barely responding to you but these rules still apply, let her "go through it" and don't over-text. She probably wants peace of mind and to calm herself down. Same goes with depressed men surprisingly.
This is mostly advice towards clinically depressed people you're dating and you'll see them pulling away in all aspects, not just from you, that's how you know it's not personal and not applicable according to these shit-tests.
Chill guy passes these easily😂
Okay this is older guy advice, the purse test is situational. For example if she's in a clothing store trying on stuff and she asked you to hold her bag. It's probably to make her feel more secure so it doesn't get stolen.
The worst thing you could do in this situation is hold the bag and be a statue. Close in proximity, be active tell her what looks beautiful on her.
Do not go for neutral "hhheeeyyyy bff" adjectives. If you're dating say words like you look sexy, I like how that frames your body.
If you're getting to know her still insert that masculine energy but be suave with it
About the last one, I usually say at the day of the date something like, "I will be 10 mins late" + a possibly valid reason like the lecture took longer then expected, or the bus is late etc.
To see if she’s responding?
@emiliano.dueckmann yep and to implicitly remind that there was a date scheduled
@ 6head move, will do the same from now on🤙🏽 Doesn’t come of insecure, just a gentle reminder
very valuable resource right here
Imo the idea of trying to pass a shit test automatically cucks you. If you have a vibe of "I dont need you, you need me" you will naturally pass all of these.
It shouldn’t feel like you’re trying to do anything. That’s the point
Girls love doing the “we’re not doing anything tonight” just do nothing. I like to double and triple down and say I don’t even want to. Even if tries later I’ll push it a couple dates. The dynamic will shift now she on ur head.
Lost my first and currently my last relationship to a shit test. Thank your brother for these tierlists they're a literal cheat code
I'm drunk as shit RN.
Gesus Christ my professor offered me yegermaister and now I'm drunk
lmao it be like that
this was amazing!Can you do a video about "the best ways to deal with woman in most situations" i feel like a lot of patterns align in previous videos and i am intrested if we can simplify it even more
Boys, we are imunne to shit tests now 🔥
Broski is truly doing the Lord's workkkkkkkk!!!!
Some of these seem more real than others, I'd add a few more to the straight disrespect section. A lot of it sounds like bro science but you make some good points and recontextualized some things I went through in the past so thanks for that. Thankfully I recently found someone who isn't insane enough to play so many games.
This is solid gold.
Ur spitting fr 🔥
Genuinely grateful for your videos . I love this channel ,i have watched most of your videos and your content really helps .
Man ngl, this guy sounds pretty toxic for a lot of these instances. After hearing the "Disagreeing with you" argument, I had to turn this dogshit off.
Thank you for the effort bro
Please do best cold approach tier list 🙏🏽
Keep up the amazing work man! I’m loving these consistent uploads! ❤
I was literally thinking of asking you to make this video yesterday, shits crazy bro
Jesus thinks your upside down T looks nice
@ brother I am 14 years old, if I had enough experience I would not need this videos, but I don’t want to make the same mistakes other people made.
You know what else is crazy?
People learn from experiences and from other people.
If you were atrying to ragebait, you failed.
Of course, your intent may be different , so I'm not gonna accuse you.
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@@Usedtobepg you really meant experience or just knowledge, maybe way of thinking?
YBC this is your coldest one yet. Appreciate you bro
19:30 due to NEETing and having lots of free time in the past I have huge time management problems and I'm almost always late everywhere, even on dates, work, events - and it's not a sh!ttest / lack of disrespect, just a negative traits of character I try to fight with low-to-none effect :(
The showing up late thing leads into another really big thing. Theres a push and pull to relationships where it's basically about disrespect vs safety. So sometimes a woman will take one for the team so to speak and say to herself "yknow what, i dont know who caused this problem if it was me or him but im gonna just do my part and listen more and take more of the arguments, even if he says little things to hurt me." - this is a sort of a sht test/last ditch effort to see if it improves the safety for her to just listen to the guy voice all of how he doesnt like being disrespected, or his monologue about how he wants the relationship to go. But if even after putting him first, she still doesn't recieve the safety, then it feels truly over, because she did everything she needed to do, but he didnt provide, so she's gonna feel unsafe, and alone in her efforts to reciprocate the relationship. That 'alone' feeling will make her be alone, and act independantly and leave.
A relationship is at its best when a woman is thinking of the man first. Not showing up late for example, because she cares about him and puts him first making sure it is a good experience for him. This can only be interrupted if she feels "he hasnt cared about me in ways x y and z so i dont feel safe to do that right now because im so stressed." A man can make her feel safe first, but it has to be his wants. If she asks then it feels like she's begging and got him to yeild. If he realizes she needs to feel safe, providing this can save the relationship from your end. From her end, she just needs to put you and not disrespecting you/doing her best first. This goes hand and hand with safety and not feeling like it's only trouble when she speaks to you about her feelings.
On the man's side, it's best when the man cares about his woman and comforts/soothes her when she needs. So if he doesn't do that consistently, she's gonna disrespect him and put his needs first less. You'll notice it here and there. If he doesn't soothe alot, itll happen more often. If a man is perfect and soothes all the time, the woman WILL fall in line, because she will see you as a perfect standard. If she notices you dont here and there, you WILL have arguments that will mess with your continuity and cause dissonance in her mind over time about what you stand for and how you treat her, as well as slowly build up a feeling that she is unsafe, which will lead to you and her needing to reset this balance more often and take one for the team which will feel one sided every time you do which could lead to resentment. This is key to keeping a relationship. Pretty much the only key if there had to be one.
When she tells me I seem like a player (or just any attempt to insult me and hit my ego) I just flip the script and ask her if she says this to any guy (but obviously keep it funny and lighthearted, *NEVER* actually get serious).
This was pretty useful. Totally worth half an hour of your time. I doubt i'll have to use this anytime soon but i'll try and keep this in mind.
i lowkey love to respond one time instantly couple times then not for 2 hours and just do what im supposed to do 😂