My husband of 14 years walked off and left his family for the other woman..... We divorced and that relationship didn't last a year!!! Everything Bishop said in #5 came to pass for him!!! He's still struggling til this day in every area of his life!!! I've been single for many years now and God has healed me from that betrayal. I'm free in my Spirit, mind and ❤️ 🙏🏽!!!
I experienced this!! My ex left me with the kids ages 3 and 5 yrs old. For another woman. It hurt and I thank God for deliverance. We are good now. We are me and my children. I don't know how he is living bc I've moved on.
Same we were only married for a couple of months he left I filed secretly for divorced didn’t beg or chase him left him and side piece alone man didn’t even know we were divorced him and his other woman barely last after I went to court alone and finished lol he tried to come back without an apology haven’t seen or spoken to him since 2021 we were married in 2020
@@MB-xv7er Of course you have a free will, but you also will reap the consequences and make your life miseable. You can choose to be proud about wrecking another woman's marriage, but it won't change what this makes you to be! I feel sorry for you!
@ sunnyday6400 Women do not owe other women loyalty. Your husband owes you loyalty but the fact you Blake the other woman and choose to stay with the husband means you clearly don’t mind him cheating so I said what I said ❤️
Well in all honesty they also get the lowest amount of sex in many occasions. My own husband cheated eventually but I must stay honest - we had loads of issues, I had no desire in him the past 6 years and eventually he just couldnt take the no sX anymore (once a month). Men are humans too. Women often do it as a chore yet the man also wants to feel loved and desired. They see cheating as just satisfying a one big missing need (no woman could ever understand a mans need for sX as our testosteron levels are incomparable). They dont want to leave their family for something that can be arranged in 5min a few times a months with someone else. It feels nasty for us woman, yet in all honesty its logical
In my situation the man LIED. Then after all my heart and feelings are involved I accidentally found out. I didn't knowingly want to be a side chick. It was once of the worst heartbreak I've ever experienced
You're not at all alone. I was lied to and manipulated as well. One of the worst, terrible feelings ever when I found out.. I'll never understand why some people do the things they do.. I always remember the verse, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. Try not to hold any hatred or resentment towards them, they will get what is coming to them in due time.
I put him out now hes with the other womam . He was living a double life and i found out . I will never tolerate disrespect . He wamted to keep me also . I know i deserve better .
This is an important lesson. One of my aunties from the Mississippi delta used to say “If I can’t be the big bear, I am not going to be the teddy.” She was happily married for many years and said she made that decision early in life. Precious words of wisdom.
Never, it may last for a month, or maybe longer, but eventually it will fall apart. My husband left me after he got someone pregnant, now they can't stand each other and she doesn't get what she thought. He cheated on her and now is with someone else. Ever since then his life hasn't been any better, in fact he isn't making more financially, health wise he hasnt been 100% ever since, God isn't going to reward him or anyone else that does that.
@@lori929 she replaced you. Became you. Thank her send her the prettiest roses you can find. Remember God don’t bless no mess. You won celebrate yourself sweetheart.
My kids dad cheated on me and made the girl his girlfriend now he tries to cheat with me on her I just listen to rc all day to keep me away from that toxic traumatic narcissist boy
Why would you even entertain that? Once a cheater always a cheater. Laugh in his face and praise God he is no longer in your life. Know you deserve better. God bless you.
@@thelmathomas9399so if she was the wife would that miraculously make his cheating better? Would it make the hurt better because at least she’s the wife? Would that make any diseases he gives to her from his cheating magically go away because she’s a wife? You sound funny with your obsession with a marriage title. “My husband my husband my husband” while he disrespect U left and right It’s good that she didn’t marry him it makes it easier for her to cut ties to him instead of having to get a divorce lawyer and trying to divide the assets.
Whaaaat? It's your birthday Bishop???? Well a Happy Birthday to you! The world is a better place because of you!! I am a better woman, a better Christian, a better friend, thanks to you. Blessings! 🙏🏼
Leo's the lion are just what they say king of the jungle they are very powerful outspoken will tell u the real weather u like it or not and can be some real players if thats what they wanna do they are people person they can juggle many task and are very intelligent good hearted they fun tho my 1st love is a leo i have friends leos we stay friends 4 life im a Aries im in the fire sign boat withbthem a Sagittarius they just too much to the point they wreckless smart but stingy/greedy u gotta watch them they sneaky
Its very easy to throw words like low selfesteem and what not yet life is not that black and white. Sometimes ppl just deeply fall in love with a completely wrong person. Absolutely nothing to do with self esteem. These are very addictive hormons and as all addictions make ppl do dmb things. Anybody who has ever had an ex can agree with that - stuck around too long coz love makes us tolerate stupid things
I Am Looking So Forward To This Video. Being The Other Woman is Hard. 1/ The Other Woman Has To Navigate A Double Life. 2/Living With Enormous Amount Of Guilt. 3/Constant Fear Of The Affair Being Exposed. 4/Longing For The Relationship To Be Like A Normal Relationship. 5/ The Pain Of Being Cheated On Knowing This Person Is Sleeping With Someone Else. 6/You May Began Dealing With Depression/Anxiety .And Other Mental And Health Issues. 7/ Sadness This Is What I Dealt With Dealing With A Malignant Narcissist..IM Finally Seeing A Therapist. I Have A Month Of No Contact!!!
I just left a situation after on and off after 9years he never chose me. I had to finally chose myself because I dealt with abusive men for 20 years I found my strength. I felt so disappointed of myself. I told him I had no more years to give him 😢I am 40 . I appreciate you RC Blake for sharing your heart with us 😊
Wow, this video is wonderful, It is helping me heal. My ex of 15 years (engaged for 2 years) whom I share 5 children left me while pregnant, for another woman for all of these reasons you mentioned. Everyone told me to move on and get over it but you are helping me understand why. I knew why, but there was no one I could talk to to confirm my beliefs. It's been 4 years and I am finally starting to heal. Thank you, Sir, I appreciate you.
The other woman took over my home finally its gonna be 4 years now and they are having a second child but all i know for all the pain she caused me it shall never be well with her one day is one day it will surely catch-up with her soon or later i believe u cnt build a happy home over another woman's tears
@@nathalian.7209Agree! People forget or don’t care that GOD holds the mistress accountable as well. They act as if man has the final say when it’s God who we should fear.
HI Pastor. Several years ago a woman who had been the other woman told me her story. Besides all of the problems you outlined, she lost her business. The man she had the affair with married her, but he died within just a few short years, leaving her penniless. When I knew her she had to take a minumum wage job and finally moved to anothher country because she could not afford to live in the United States. When I think of this now, I feel very sad regarding the situation. It was tragic.
That is so true Pastor Blakes,I was young at the time and he did let me know that he was married and that him and his wife had a mutual understanding..yes u felled in that trapped before getting saved.When approached by a married man I have enough self respect for myself to walk away..That's why I was looking forward to hearing what u had to say..Thank u and God bless u always ❤
there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..
Good news for you and your wife I'm glad that it is working out the way it's supposed to , it's takes two for a marriage to work regardless of the mistakes if the mistake was final for you of your marriage and you have not went back to it , God bless you , congratulations on your marriage
Facts!!! I TRIED to tell my sister this! She is the other woman. Her now husband cheated on his exwife with my sister! That man was with his wife 20 years & he makes it known that he still wants his exwife but she doesn't want him. He needed a place to live & my sister was one of his other women. He immediately asked my sister to marry him because he was living with his mama. Now my sister is dealing with karma. He doing the same thing to her & she is too shame to divorce him. Smh
This is so sad. The terrible thong is that women carry so much shame that they don't even know who to turn to for strength and guidance on how to get out. Most people will judge them, which kinda leaves them trapped. God bles RC Blake's for for obeying the Holy Spirit to discuss this topic.
I was in a situationship for 20 years. When I met this man, he was separated and a year later, divorced. I knew he wasn't going to get into another serious relationship. But 3 years into knowing him, I asked where we were going. He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone. But I had a feeling he was seeing someone. Long story short, he was seeing someone. So I backed off, he wouldn't leave me alone. I made the mistake of coming back time after time. I stopped dealing with him about 14 years into the situation. I dropped him for 8 months and in that time he married her! Yet I stayed for another 7 years!!! Knowing he was married now. I just let him go for good now about a month ago and this time it's for ever!!
And the sad part about it is soooo many of them do not have shame about what they’ve done. If he will do his wife like that, what makes you think you’re different! He’s gonna do you WORSE because he sees what you are willing to be to him, which is an option and available when he’s ready. Smh.
❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much for this! Every word the truth.. Almost 2 months no contact since my eyes opened with Gods help. All girls - be brave 💪- you will rise from the ashes, but the burning comes first..
This is an important topic! This is excellent! It is not okay to disrespect wives or women who are in committed relationship. Being the other woman is not an option.
Even if a married man leaves his wife for the other woman, I don’t see how she could ever trust him because he’s obviously capable of cheating. My father cheated on my mother many years and even had two “outside” children that I found out about when I was 14. My mother finally left him and you know what, he blamed HER (the other woman) for ruining his marriage and dumped her for good. My mother still divorced him. I vowed I would never enable a married man to cheat from a young age. If he wants to cheat, he needs to go elsewhere. A few have tried and hard but there was no way.
Thankyou Pastor Blakes❤! I am THANKFUL i am NO LONGER approving Self deprecation. First time ever hearing this message! I appreciate your guidance and protection❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💫💥👏🏽
I've been the other woman and i now know God is disappointed in me and he wont give me a husband cause I've hurt the other woman. Lord I'm so sorry. Im ready to change for you and do what is right.
Please pray for me to break away from a narcissistic cycle. I am also praying for everyone. I thank God for pastor Blake’s Jr with his always right on time word. I can now start my exit strategy and live in the true value God has given me. Amen
Awe man, it will be alright I believe you will decide not to mess with that again, The Lord loves you Jesus will forgive you , he also wants you on his path for you , know that you are not alone ,and know you don't have to go back to that lifestyle again, I hope this helps and be kind to yourself, get the Bible out or get a Bible and start spending some time with Jesus ,he will never leave you nor forsake you, God bless you , prayers for you 🕊️🙏♥️
Thank you for touching on this! Soooo many women say.. well…it’s on the husband. While yes he is the one committed, GOD does hold the mistress responsible when she knows he’s married. It’s absolutely ridiculous hearing the excuses and now proud label of side chick for some. You reap what you sow. Had a friend I no longer associate with because she was messing with someone’s husband and making excuses for it. Fast forward years later…a mutual friend says she is married and upset her husband is stepping out on her. We remembered the position she used to be in as a mistress ane now she’s the wife getting cheated on. Funny how the tables turn. Wrong is wrong!
Sadly, there are t- shirts, fragrances, hairstyles, songs themed around being a 'side piece'. Mainstream media promote it. ⚖️what you do comes back to you⚖️👏🏿✨️
I am not thinking that a man who cheats on anyone truly loves either party. A love based on obligation is not a love that is fulfilling. Nor is a love that is based on deception. There is no respect in either case ....... neither is love in my opinion
Happy birthday 🎈🎉 Pastor Blake’s!! Can’t wait to hear about this subject. I’m not, or have been the other woman. It’s a “sad” and “broken mind set” to have.
Amen thank you I appreciate you putting this message out for us women that are in these situations thank you for letting us know that we are deserving of a good relationship that's our own
I hope the women who may have cut Pastor off, will come back. 😆 This truth needs to be heard. Wise women don’t accept another woman’s raggedy husband. Happy Blessed Birthday, Pastor Blakes!! 🎉
Being married hurt many women more than being the other woman hurt...I have seen it often. But the devil is a lie! I choose to be alone, most men in my culture hurt.
I agree especially since the married woman is responsible for taking care of the man. Many times she doesn't know why he is neglecting the kids and her. The betrayal is very deep.
Happy birthday bishop.RC Blake's wishing you many more blessed years ahead. Thank you always for standing with the women have learned a lot from you and i get better every other day.🎊🎉🎂🙏
I guess my husband has went to a reprobate mind, because he’s unemotional available to me and ever since his 10yr affair was exposed he’s been mentally unstable!
Mine cheated and we divorced. He is with the other woman but complains to everyone in earshot what he lost. He was cheating while we were married with a yt one and another one from work. God saw to it that I found out. I’m healed, happy and whole and happily single. Meanwhile, he told me he wanted me back because he knows what he had. Glad we never had kids together.
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Thank you pastor 😇😁 I love you 😘😇♥️
God given work and passing encouragement to us🙏
Happy Birthday RC Blakes I see a lot of people mention it 🎉🎂🎈🥳
AMEN
THAT'S TRUE
My husband of 14 years walked off and left his family for the other woman..... We divorced and that relationship didn't last a year!!! Everything Bishop said in #5 came to pass for him!!! He's still struggling til this day in every area of his life!!! I've been single for many years now and God has healed me from that betrayal. I'm free in my Spirit, mind and ❤️ 🙏🏽!!!
God can’t bless that mess!!!!
He reaping what he sow
I experienced this!! My ex left me with the kids ages 3 and 5 yrs old. For another woman. It hurt and I thank God for deliverance. We are good now. We are me and my children. I don't know how he is living bc I've moved on.
@@lwarfield52 So happy for you Sis. May God continue to cover you and your children 🙏🏽🤗❤️
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Same we were only married for a couple of months he left I filed secretly for divorced didn’t beg or chase him left him and side piece alone man didn’t even know we were divorced him and his other woman barely last after I went to court alone and finished lol he tried to come back without an apology haven’t seen or spoken to him since 2021 we were married in 2020
OFTEN THE MARRIED MAN you’re dealing with is not somebody you would want to date even if he was single …. he’s not a good man in many respects.
Yes its starts with not telling the other women he has a wife , any man with that character is not a safe man.
Exactly right. A man who is married and cheats on his wife is a man with a degenerate character no good woman would ever want.
@@Didi-fr5ic
The other woman must always VERIFY a man’s marital status …. because they will lie. 🗣️
True.
Married men act more single than anyone else.
Sadly, many of them do, but they need a willing participant to see the b.s through. That's why ladies must say no.
@ nikkyshamz2696
We aren’t obligated to say no just because it hurts your feelings. We will sleep with whoever we want to
@@MB-xv7er Of course you have a free will, but you also will reap the consequences and make your life miseable. You can choose to be proud about wrecking another woman's marriage, but it won't change what this makes you to be! I feel sorry for you!
@ sunnyday6400
Women do not owe other women loyalty. Your husband owes you loyalty but the fact you Blake the other woman and choose to stay with the husband means you clearly don’t mind him cheating so I said what I said ❤️
Well in all honesty they also get the lowest amount of sex in many occasions. My own husband cheated eventually but I must stay honest - we had loads of issues, I had no desire in him the past 6 years and eventually he just couldnt take the no sX anymore (once a month). Men are humans too. Women often do it as a chore yet the man also wants to feel loved and desired. They see cheating as just satisfying a one big missing need (no woman could ever understand a mans need for sX as our testosteron levels are incomparable). They dont want to leave their family for something that can be arranged in 5min a few times a months with someone else. It feels nasty for us woman, yet in all honesty its logical
In my situation the man LIED. Then after all my heart and feelings are involved I accidentally found out. I didn't knowingly want to be a side chick. It was once of the worst heartbreak I've ever experienced
You're not at all alone. I was lied to and manipulated as well. One of the worst, terrible feelings ever when I found out.. I'll never understand why some people do the things they do.. I always remember the verse, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. Try not to hold any hatred or resentment towards them, they will get what is coming to them in due time.
I put him out now hes with the other womam . He was living a double life and i found out . I will never tolerate disrespect . He wamted to keep me also . I know i deserve better .
😢😮. That's pitiful. It's a lot of them out there doing foolishness.
So so sad. Exactly my situation. It was enough of the disrespect had to let him go. I could not be his fall back plan my whole life.
So happy that was exposed Sis. You deserve so much better. Blessings to you ♥️
This is an important lesson. One of my aunties from the Mississippi delta used to say “If I can’t be the big bear, I am not going to be the teddy.” She was happily married for many years and said she made that decision early in life. Precious words of wisdom.
That relationship will never be blessed causing another pain.
Never, it may last for a month, or maybe longer, but eventually it will fall apart. My husband left me after he got someone pregnant, now they can't stand each other and she doesn't get what she thought. He cheated on her and now is with someone else. Ever since then his life hasn't been any better, in fact he isn't making more financially, health wise he hasnt been 100% ever since, God isn't going to reward him or anyone else that does that.
@@lori929 she replaced you. Became you. Thank her send her the prettiest roses you can find. Remember God don’t bless no mess. You won celebrate yourself sweetheart.
@@ReRe_642 Its been over 7 years, and I am not bitter, I am happy and have never been so happy. Peace is where its at.
@@lori929 Amen sister live your best life. Be blessed God freed you from evil.
This needs to be posted 1000 times. Who reaps a blessing causing pain and betrayal?
My kids dad cheated on me and made the girl his girlfriend now he tries to cheat with me on her I just listen to rc all day to keep me away from that toxic traumatic narcissist boy
In your situation sounds like neither one of you were the main woman because neither one of you was his wife.
good that you stay far from that he has no respect for you or that other woman
Why would you even entertain that? Once a cheater always a cheater. Laugh in his face and praise God he is no longer in your life. Know you deserve better. God bless you.
@@ReRe_642 amen
@@thelmathomas9399so if she was the wife would that miraculously make his cheating better?
Would it make the hurt better because at least she’s the wife?
Would that make any diseases he gives to her from his cheating magically go away because she’s a wife?
You sound funny with your obsession with a marriage title.
“My husband my husband my husband” while he disrespect U left and right
It’s good that she didn’t marry him it makes it easier for her to cut ties to him instead of having to get a divorce lawyer and trying to divide the assets.
Spoke NO lies!! Men that do this walk completely in the flesh and are without self control . Happy birthday Bishop!! ❤️🥰🥳✨✨
Whaaaat? It's your birthday Bishop???? Well a Happy Birthday to you! The world is a better place because of you!! I am a better woman, a better Christian, a better friend, thanks to you. Blessings! 🙏🏼
Amen
@thelovelylife7451 yeah, his wifes bday is this month. He's a cancer ♋
Bishop RC is a Leo @@sabreenwilson7276
Leo's the lion are just what they say king of the jungle they are very powerful outspoken will tell u the real weather u like it or not and can be some real players if thats what they wanna do they are people person they can juggle many task and are very intelligent good hearted they fun tho my 1st love is a leo i have friends leos we stay friends 4 life im a Aries im in the fire sign boat withbthem a Sagittarius they just too much to the point they wreckless smart but stingy/greedy u gotta watch them they sneaky
@thelovelylife7451Followers of Jesus Christ need to leave astrology and horoscopes alone. It's demonic.
I feel that is desperation when a woman settles to share a man.Thank you, Bishop, for this beautiful advice!❤
And low self esteem
Okay! I agree!
Its very easy to throw words like low selfesteem and what not yet life is not that black and white. Sometimes ppl just deeply fall in love with a completely wrong person. Absolutely nothing to do with self esteem. These are very addictive hormons and as all addictions make ppl do dmb things. Anybody who has ever had an ex can agree with that - stuck around too long coz love makes us tolerate stupid things
I Am Looking So Forward To This Video.
Being The Other Woman is Hard.
1/ The Other Woman Has To Navigate A Double Life.
2/Living With Enormous Amount Of Guilt.
3/Constant Fear Of The Affair Being Exposed.
4/Longing For The Relationship To Be Like A Normal Relationship.
5/ The Pain Of Being Cheated On Knowing This Person Is Sleeping With Someone Else.
6/You May Began Dealing With Depression/Anxiety .And Other Mental And Health Issues.
7/ Sadness
This Is What I Dealt With Dealing With A Malignant Narcissist..IM Finally Seeing A Therapist.
I Have A Month Of No Contact!!!
You are so strong sis!
@KraftyScorpio THANK YOU IM TRYING
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Is this your personal history? Because I can't find the same steps...😮
I mean what bishop had said in his message
That word "Love" means nothing if it's not backed with action...
I just left a situation after on and off after 9years he never chose me. I had to finally chose myself because I dealt with abusive men for 20 years I found my strength. I felt so disappointed of myself. I told him I had no more years to give him 😢I am 40 . I appreciate you RC Blake for sharing your heart with us 😊
How many of us know the intro song 🎶 by heart? ❤️ Love it!!!
When I get offended I literally hum this song to my soul with my spirit to shake my mind back to life.
I do❤😂
I know and ❤ the song
Healing
Love the song❣️
Forgive me Father for I have sinned. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
What did Jesus say to the woman who was found in adultry Jesus said go and Sin no more.
Jesus forgives you sin no more
Been in this situation, 11 years but now I can say I am free.....
Me too ✋
Me too, 15 years. Finally free. Thank you Lord for your mercy and Thank you Bishop.❤️🙏🏼💪🏽
Wow, this video is wonderful, It is helping me heal. My ex of 15 years (engaged for 2 years) whom I share 5 children left me while pregnant, for another woman for all of these reasons you mentioned. Everyone told me to move on and get over it but you are helping me understand why. I knew why, but there was no one I could talk to to confirm my beliefs. It's been 4 years and I am finally starting to heal. Thank you, Sir, I appreciate you.
The other woman took over my home finally its gonna be 4 years now and they are having a second child but all i know for all the pain she caused me it shall never be well with her one day is one day it will surely catch-up with her soon or later i believe u cnt build a happy home over another woman's tears
He will do it again
Sorry to hear that but it's your ex's fault. He broke you and he.
@@sunnysuney5845it’s both fault. The man and the other woman.
Someone asked a man if he was married, and he said my wife is.
@@nathalian.7209Agree! People forget or don’t care that GOD holds the mistress accountable as well. They act as if man has the final say when it’s God who we should fear.
Never wanted to be will not be the other woman.🙋🏽♀️
I have been on both sides of the fence, neither side feels good. I’m Not perfect and I’m learning 🙏🏾Thank you for the good word.
Me too! We are definitely not alone Sis.
Me too. You are not alone.
HI Pastor. Several years ago a woman who had been the other woman told me her story. Besides all of the problems you outlined, she lost her business. The man she had the affair with married her, but he died within just a few short years, leaving her penniless. When I knew her she had to take a minumum wage job and finally moved to anothher country because she could not afford to live in the United States. When I think of this now, I feel very sad regarding the situation. It was tragic.
Happy birthday Bishop RC Blakes 🎉🎉🎉
Bishop RC Blake's birthday is in July not March.
I'm not the other woman 😁😛 and never will I be that but I learn from pastor's wisdom always 😇❤️
That is so true Pastor Blakes,I was young at the time and he did let me know that he was married and that him and his wife had a mutual understanding..yes u felled in that trapped before getting saved.When approached by a married man I have enough self respect for myself to walk away..That's why I was looking forward to hearing what u had to say..Thank u and God bless u always ❤
This finna be good and hurt feeling at the same time
Yep
AGREED!💯
And is! It’s the finna for me. 😂😂😂
@@sultryzulusmusic5081 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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That prayer was beautiful!! 🙏🏽 thank you Bishop!!!
there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..
lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..
this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her
You definitely should. she is right there online. You wont regret it
Good news for you and your wife I'm glad that it is working out the way it's supposed to , it's takes two for a marriage to work regardless of the mistakes if the mistake was final for you of your marriage and you have not went back to it , God bless you , congratulations on your marriage
Facts!!! I TRIED to tell my sister this! She is the other woman. Her now husband cheated on his exwife with my sister! That man was with his wife 20 years & he makes it known that he still wants his exwife but she doesn't want him. He needed a place to live & my sister was one of his other women. He immediately asked my sister to marry him because he was living with his mama. Now my sister is dealing with karma. He doing the same thing to her & she is too shame to divorce him. Smh
This is so sad. The terrible thong is that women carry so much shame that they don't even know who to turn to for strength and guidance on how to get out. Most people will judge them, which kinda leaves them trapped. God bles RC Blake's for for obeying the Holy Spirit to discuss this topic.
I was in a situationship for 20 years. When I met this man, he was separated and a year later, divorced. I knew he wasn't going to get into another serious relationship.
But 3 years into knowing him, I asked where we were going. He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone. But I had a feeling he was seeing someone.
Long story short, he was seeing someone. So I backed off, he wouldn't leave me alone. I made the mistake of coming back time after time.
I stopped dealing with him about 14 years into the situation. I dropped him for 8 months and in that time he married her!
Yet I stayed for another 7 years!!! Knowing he was married now. I just let him go for good now about a month ago and this time it's for ever!!
when you destroy someone life know your life will be destroyed
And the sad part about it is soooo many of them do not have shame about what they’ve done. If he will do his wife like that, what makes you think you’re different! He’s gonna do you WORSE because he sees what you are willing to be to him, which is an option and available when he’s ready. Smh.
❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much for this! Every word the truth..
Almost 2 months no contact since my eyes opened with Gods help. All girls - be brave 💪- you will rise from the ashes, but the burning comes first..
Alcohol was my gateway into a silly situation🤦♀. I had to quit alcohol and pray A LOT in order to get some common sense.
" The moment the light of truth shines lust will be revealed as hate " WOW , you just kill it every time , that statement is life changing ❤
This is an important topic! This is excellent! It is not okay to disrespect wives or women who are in committed relationship. Being the other woman is not an option.
Keyword wife. Girlfriend/baby mama is a scam. If a man is not married, you are just one of his women
Even if a married man leaves his wife for the other woman, I don’t see how she could ever trust him because he’s obviously capable of cheating. My father cheated on my mother many years and even had two “outside” children that I found out about when I was 14. My mother finally left him and you know what, he blamed HER (the other woman) for ruining his marriage and dumped her for good. My mother still divorced him. I vowed I would never enable a married man to cheat from a young age. If he wants to cheat, he needs to go elsewhere. A few have tried and hard but there was no way.
Our men do not care if their wives find out, and sadly many do leave their wives...please pray for us..
That man doesn’t belong to anyone. He belongs to his own lust.
Our? “Our” who???
Thankyou Pastor Blakes❤!
I am THANKFUL i am NO LONGER approving Self deprecation. First time ever hearing this message! I appreciate your guidance and protection❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💫💥👏🏽
Happy Birthday Bishop..... May our Abba give you your deepest heart desires to His Glory.....in Jesus Christ name.
I love the father daughter talks!! Thank you RC Blakes!!
Amen and Thank you Lord Jesus for you being a vessel on time. Always ❣️🙏🏾🙏🏾
I've been the other woman and i now know God is disappointed in me and he wont give me a husband cause I've hurt the other woman. Lord I'm so sorry. Im ready to change for you and do what is right.
Please pray for me to break away from a narcissistic cycle. I am also praying for everyone. I thank God for pastor Blake’s Jr with his always right on time word. I can now start my exit strategy and live in the true value God has given me. Amen
Your words are so true. I have been the other women for 10 years and I am in complete shame!
I hope you find healing soon
@@janetholmesyes so true I like your comment bc it's tru
@@janetholmesHuuuuuuuuuuuug. You're a kind individual. God and Christ Bless you.
Bishop!!! The teaching in this video is worth it's weight in gold sir!! You're saving lives and changing mindsets.
This is a great message. Only the other woman if she knows the man has a wife or girlfriend made a conscious Choice and not a mistake.
Not girlfriend as that status means nothing.
I have to run this back I really needed to hear this this is literally what I’m dealing with right now
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Awe man, it will be alright I believe you will decide not to mess with that again, The Lord loves you Jesus will forgive you , he also wants you on his path for you , know that you are not alone ,and know you don't have to go back to that lifestyle again, I hope this helps and be kind to yourself, get the Bible out or get a Bible and start spending some time with Jesus ,he will never leave you nor forsake you, God bless you , prayers for you 🕊️🙏♥️
Got to love yourself and heal.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
Yes and know that Jesus is always with you too.
you are some of the good man I know and love thank you for making me a good boy.
Thank you for this blessing
Thank you for touching on this! Soooo many women say.. well…it’s on the husband. While yes he is the one committed, GOD does hold the mistress responsible when she knows he’s married. It’s absolutely ridiculous hearing the excuses and now proud label of side chick for some.
You reap what you sow. Had a friend I no longer associate with because she was messing with someone’s husband and making excuses for it.
Fast forward years later…a mutual friend says she is married and upset her husband is stepping out on her. We remembered the position she used to be in as a mistress ane now she’s the wife getting cheated on. Funny how the tables turn. Wrong is wrong!
Sadly, there are t- shirts, fragrances, hairstyles, songs themed around being a 'side piece'. Mainstream media promote it. ⚖️what you do comes back to you⚖️👏🏿✨️
Good evening, from one Pisces to another. Happy birthday, Pastor Blake. God bless you. 🎉🙏🏽
Self Reflection and Introspection 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I appreciate this prayer. Thank you for this teaching.
I am not thinking that a man who cheats on anyone truly loves either party. A love based on obligation is not a love that is fulfilling. Nor is a love that is based on deception. There is no respect in either case ....... neither is love in my opinion
What is love based on?
@@beac8238 Honesty + respect are good starts
Happy Birthday Bishop
I have never been the other woman nor will I ever be. My belief has always been, I’m second to none.
Happy birthday 🎈🎉 Pastor Blake’s!!
Can’t wait to hear about this subject.
I’m not, or have been the other woman.
It’s a “sad” and “broken mind set” to have.
Happy Birthday to this Amazing, Godly Father to all of us daughters!
May God Bless You With Many Many Mnay more years of wisdom!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏💃🏾
I was the other woman. I'd be happy to come on and chat with you and tell my story of karma, healing and forgiveness.
Happy birthday pastor Blakes enjoy your blessed day 🎁🎂🎊🎈
Beautiful Prayer 😪😪😪thank you so so much Pastor ❤🙏🏾👑
IM SO GLAD THAT U BROUGHT BACK LETS TALK ABOUT IT WITH RC BLAKEEEESSSSSS
Very important lesson indeed
Amen thank you I appreciate you putting this message out for us women that are in these situations thank you for letting us know that we are deserving of a good relationship that's our own
We are here mama Li and Paps. Looking forward to learning from the best. Your daughter from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼.
Right on!!!! Always the fun factor the reason of preferring the other woman. Wow what a truth!!👏👏👏 you can’t b the fan and the wife🎉 aleluya
God bless you for your guidance
Good Evening Pastor Blakes, Lady Lisa Blakes
It was such an amazing weekend celebrating our , my First Lady Birthday Lisa Blakes 🎉❤🎉❤
I will never be the other woman- I will be gone 👌🏽
what a sound lesson
Happy Birthday Bishop R C Blake’s 🎂🎁🎈🙏🏿🙌
I appreciate this lesson and I commit to making my life better with the help of my god.
Ladies it's just not worth being the other woman
Even though this message doesn't apply to me,it's good to know what's going on in society these days
I hope the women who may have cut Pastor off, will come back. 😆 This truth needs to be heard. Wise women don’t accept another woman’s raggedy husband.
Happy Blessed Birthday, Pastor Blakes!! 🎉
Yes so glad to be here, you are a Godsend
Thanks for the message to women tonight everywhere ❤🙏 to all you. This was good😮 Good night everyone. Stay mindful of married people 😮❤🙏💯
Thank so much for this message, Pastor & Mrs.Blakes.these types of messages are so needed in these last days.thank you so much
Happy Birthdayyyy Bishop!🎂🎉🎉🎉🎉..many more blessings to you.Thank you for all that you do🫶
Being married hurt many women more than being the other woman hurt...I have seen it often. But the devil is a lie! I choose to be alone, most men in my culture hurt.
I agree especially since the married woman is responsible for taking care of the man. Many times she doesn't know why he is neglecting the kids and her. The betrayal is very deep.
Happy birthday bishop.RC Blake's wishing you many more blessed years ahead. Thank you always for standing with the women have learned a lot from you and i get better every other day.🎊🎉🎂🙏
Truth Truth Truth!!!
Congratulations lady Blakes on your counseling degree! Thank you Pastor for the word!
Yes Lord let’s talk about it! Thank you uncle pastor RC 🙏🏾❤️
Thank You Lord❤
Happy birthday Pastor Blakes..May the Lord bless u with many more years to come 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
" raising royal consciousness"❤
As always I thank you and appreciate you Pastor RC Blakes Jr!
I love it!! She fills me up !!! She is my Queen!!!!♥️🌺🙏🎵🙌🇵🇷
BISHOP THIS IS EXCELLENT TEACHING!! ALL SISTERS NEED TO RISE TO THEIR QUEEN CONSCIOUSNESS!! 🙏🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I guess my husband has went to a reprobate mind, because he’s unemotional available to me and ever since his 10yr affair was exposed he’s been mentally unstable!
Wow. Stay prayed up.
HAPPY birthday Pastor Blake's 🍰🎂
Thank you for this message I needed it
Mine cheated and we divorced. He is with the other woman but complains to everyone in earshot what he lost. He was cheating while we were married with a yt one and another one from work. God saw to it that I found out. I’m healed, happy and whole and happily single. Meanwhile, he told me he wanted me back because he knows what he had. Glad we never had kids together.
Thanks to you and your family for always reaching out..
Love your WONDERFUL prayer RC!🙌🏾🙏🏾
💯Amen.......🙏😊🙌💯
Happy birthday, Bishop. I truly appreciate your inspirational videos. They have been very beneficial to my healing.