THE PROBLEM WITH BEING THE OTHER WOMAN by RC Blakes 2024

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    THE PROBLEM WITH BEING THE OTHER WOMAN by RC Blakes 2024
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  • @RCBlakesJr.
    @RCBlakesJr.  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    FAMILY! Thank you for coming in tonight. Will you take a second to LIKE and SHARE on Facebook and TWITTER?

    • @heatherbzdawka3350
      @heatherbzdawka3350 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you pastor 😇😁 I love you 😘😇♥️

    • @seaborndonielle
      @seaborndonielle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      God given work and passing encouragement to us🙏

    • @Ruth-vy1qj
      @Ruth-vy1qj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Happy Birthday RC Blakes I see a lot of people mention it 🎉🎂🎈🥳

    • @sophiastaples9638
      @sophiastaples9638 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      AMEN

    • @sophiastaples9638
      @sophiastaples9638 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THAT'S TRUE

  • @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498
    @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    My husband of 14 years walked off and left his family for the other woman..... We divorced and that relationship didn't last a year!!! Everything Bishop said in #5 came to pass for him!!! He's still struggling til this day in every area of his life!!! I've been single for many years now and God has healed me from that betrayal. I'm free in my Spirit, mind and ❤️ 🙏🏽!!!

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      God can’t bless that mess!!!!
      He reaping what he sow

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I experienced this!! My ex left me with the kids ages 3 and 5 yrs old. For another woman. It hurt and I thank God for deliverance. We are good now. We are me and my children. I don't know how he is living bc I've moved on.

    • @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498
      @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@lwarfield52 So happy for you Sis. May God continue to cover you and your children 🙏🏽🤗❤️

    • @India423.
      @India423. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    • @GHO5tMod3
      @GHO5tMod3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Same we were only married for a couple of months he left I filed secretly for divorced didn’t beg or chase him left him and side piece alone man didn’t even know we were divorced him and his other woman barely last after I went to court alone and finished lol he tried to come back without an apology haven’t seen or spoken to him since 2021 we were married in 2020

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

    OFTEN THE MARRIED MAN you’re dealing with is not somebody you would want to date even if he was single …. he’s not a good man in many respects.

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes its starts with not telling the other women he has a wife , any man with that character is not a safe man.

    • @l.christinejones8164
      @l.christinejones8164 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly right. A man who is married and cheats on his wife is a man with a degenerate character no good woman would ever want.

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Didi-fr5ic
      The other woman must always VERIFY a man’s marital status …. because they will lie. 🗣️

    • @Elle3211
      @Elle3211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True.

  • @NikkiBNice
    @NikkiBNice 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    Married men act more single than anyone else.

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Sadly, many of them do, but they need a willing participant to see the b.s through. That's why ladies must say no.

    • @MB-xv7er
      @MB-xv7er 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ nikkyshamz2696
      We aren’t obligated to say no just because it hurts your feelings. We will sleep with whoever we want to

    • @sunnyday6400
      @sunnyday6400 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@MB-xv7er Of course you have a free will, but you also will reap the consequences and make your life miseable. You can choose to be proud about wrecking another woman's marriage, but it won't change what this makes you to be! I feel sorry for you!

    • @MB-xv7er
      @MB-xv7er 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @ sunnyday6400
      Women do not owe other women loyalty. Your husband owes you loyalty but the fact you Blake the other woman and choose to stay with the husband means you clearly don’t mind him cheating so I said what I said ❤️

    • @nikajsify
      @nikajsify 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well in all honesty they also get the lowest amount of sex in many occasions. My own husband cheated eventually but I must stay honest - we had loads of issues, I had no desire in him the past 6 years and eventually he just couldnt take the no sX anymore (once a month). Men are humans too. Women often do it as a chore yet the man also wants to feel loved and desired. They see cheating as just satisfying a one big missing need (no woman could ever understand a mans need for sX as our testosteron levels are incomparable). They dont want to leave their family for something that can be arranged in 5min a few times a months with someone else. It feels nasty for us woman, yet in all honesty its logical

  • @sherylsmith4219
    @sherylsmith4219 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    I put him out now hes with the other womam . He was living a double life and i found out . I will never tolerate disrespect . He wamted to keep me also . I know i deserve better .

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      😢😮. That's pitiful. It's a lot of them out there doing foolishness.

    • @highlyfevad
      @highlyfevad 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      So so sad. Exactly my situation. It was enough of the disrespect had to let him go. I could not be his fall back plan my whole life.

  • @rparris27
    @rparris27 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    In my situation the man LIED. Then after all my heart and feelings are involved I accidentally found out. I didn't knowingly want to be a side chick. It was once of the worst heartbreak I've ever experienced

    • @deijam
      @deijam หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're not at all alone. I was lied to and manipulated as well. One of the worst, terrible feelings ever when I found out.. I'll never understand why some people do the things they do.. I always remember the verse, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,” says the Lord. Try not to hold any hatred or resentment towards them, they will get what is coming to them in due time.

  • @debsee9338
    @debsee9338 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

    This is an important lesson. One of my aunties from the Mississippi delta used to say “If I can’t be the big bear, I am not going to be the teddy.” She was happily married for many years and said she made that decision early in life. Precious words of wisdom.

  • @ReRe_642
    @ReRe_642 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    That relationship will never be blessed causing another pain.

    • @lori929
      @lori929 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Never, it may last for a month, or maybe longer, but eventually it will fall apart. My husband left me after he got someone pregnant, now they can't stand each other and she doesn't get what she thought. He cheated on her and now is with someone else. Ever since then his life hasn't been any better, in fact he isn't making more financially, health wise he hasnt been 100% ever since, God isn't going to reward him or anyone else that does that.

    • @ReRe_642
      @ReRe_642 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lori929 she replaced you. Became you. Thank her send her the prettiest roses you can find. Remember God don’t bless no mess. You won celebrate yourself sweetheart.

    • @lori929
      @lori929 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ReRe_642 Its been over 7 years, and I am not bitter, I am happy and have never been so happy. Peace is where its at.

    • @ReRe_642
      @ReRe_642 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lori929 Amen sister live your best life. Be blessed God freed you from evil.

    • @Elle3211
      @Elle3211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This needs to be posted 1000 times. Who reaps a blessing causing pain and betrayal?

  • @demigaines5644
    @demigaines5644 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    I Am Looking So Forward To This Video.
    Being The Other Woman is Hard.
    1/ The Other Woman Has To Navigate A Double Life.
    2/Living With Enormous Amount Of Guilt.
    3/Constant Fear Of The Affair Being Exposed.
    4/Longing For The Relationship To Be Like A Normal Relationship.
    5/ The Pain Of Being Cheated On Knowing This Person Is Sleeping With Someone Else.
    6/You May Began Dealing With Depression/Anxiety .And Other Mental And Health Issues.
    7/ Sadness
    This Is What I Dealt With Dealing With A Malignant Narcissist..IM Finally Seeing A Therapist.
    I Have A Month Of No Contact!!!

    • @KraftyScorpio
      @KraftyScorpio 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You are so strong sis!

    • @demigaines5644
      @demigaines5644 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @KraftyScorpio THANK YOU IM TRYING

    • @aprilexceptforgrace5920
      @aprilexceptforgrace5920 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🎉

    • @nakakuava1361
      @nakakuava1361 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is this your personal history? Because I can't find the same steps...😮

    • @nakakuava1361
      @nakakuava1361 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I mean what bishop had said in his message

  • @keasyasanders2809
    @keasyasanders2809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    My kids dad cheated on me and made the girl his girlfriend now he tries to cheat with me on her I just listen to rc all day to keep me away from that toxic traumatic narcissist boy

    • @thelmathomas9399
      @thelmathomas9399 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      In your situation sounds like neither one of you were the main woman because neither one of you was his wife.

    • @blessedchildofgod9112
      @blessedchildofgod9112 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      good that you stay far from that he has no respect for you or that other woman

    • @ReRe_642
      @ReRe_642 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why would you even entertain that? Once a cheater always a cheater. Laugh in his face and praise God he is no longer in your life. Know you deserve better. God bless you.

    • @blessedchildofgod9112
      @blessedchildofgod9112 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ReRe_642 amen

    • @Bri-nc8yp
      @Bri-nc8yp 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@thelmathomas9399so if she was the wife would that miraculously make his cheating better?
      Would it make the hurt better because at least she’s the wife?
      Would that make any diseases he gives to her from his cheating magically go away because she’s a wife?
      You sound funny with your obsession with a marriage title.
      “My husband my husband my husband” while he disrespect U left and right
      It’s good that she didn’t marry him it makes it easier for her to cut ties to him instead of having to get a divorce lawyer and trying to divide the assets.

  • @kaoshi_kutie
    @kaoshi_kutie 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Spoke NO lies!! Men that do this walk completely in the flesh and are without self control . Happy birthday Bishop!! ❤️🥰🥳✨✨

  • @bonitajolie9341
    @bonitajolie9341 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Whaaaat? It's your birthday Bishop???? Well a Happy Birthday to you! The world is a better place because of you!! I am a better woman, a better Christian, a better friend, thanks to you. Blessings! 🙏🏼

    • @Alabasterbox
      @Alabasterbox 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen

    • @sabreenwilson7276
      @sabreenwilson7276 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@thelovelylife7451 yeah, his wifes bday is this month. He's a cancer ♋

    • @dellhall1530
      @dellhall1530 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bishop RC is a Leo ​@@sabreenwilson7276

    • @dellhall1530
      @dellhall1530 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Leo's the lion are just what they say king of the jungle they are very powerful outspoken will tell u the real weather u like it or not and can be some real players if thats what they wanna do they are people person they can juggle many task and are very intelligent good hearted they fun tho my 1st love is a leo i have friends leos we stay friends 4 life im a Aries im in the fire sign boat withbthem a Sagittarius they just too much to the point they wreckless smart but stingy/greedy u gotta watch them they sneaky

    • @Brandiisbeloved
      @Brandiisbeloved 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@thelovelylife7451Followers of Jesus Christ need to leave astrology and horoscopes alone. It's demonic.

  • @smileyglitter852
    @smileyglitter852 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    That word "Love" means nothing if it's not backed with action...

  • @scorpiored3871
    @scorpiored3871 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    I feel that is desperation when a woman settles to share a man.Thank you, Bishop, for this beautiful advice!❤

    • @amerokeewiya1320
      @amerokeewiya1320 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And low self esteem

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Okay! I agree!

    • @nikajsify
      @nikajsify 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Its very easy to throw words like low selfesteem and what not yet life is not that black and white. Sometimes ppl just deeply fall in love with a completely wrong person. Absolutely nothing to do with self esteem. These are very addictive hormons and as all addictions make ppl do dmb things. Anybody who has ever had an ex can agree with that - stuck around too long coz love makes us tolerate stupid things

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

    Forgive me Father for I have sinned. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @barbaradixon8659
      @barbaradixon8659 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      What did Jesus say to the woman who was found in adultry Jesus said go and Sin no more.

    • @Madefromscratchhomestead
      @Madefromscratchhomestead 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus forgives you sin no more

  • @brookegazy2096
    @brookegazy2096 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    How many of us know the intro song 🎶 by heart? ❤️ Love it!!!

    • @nowKissthaQueen
      @nowKissthaQueen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When I get offended I literally hum this song to my soul with my spirit to shake my mind back to life.

    • @doinmeeh2006
      @doinmeeh2006 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I do❤😂

    • @briggettmumphrey3226
      @briggettmumphrey3226 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know and ❤ the song

    • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
      @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Healing

    • @renee560
      @renee560 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love the song❣️

  • @jasminenaomilumierjacques4086
    @jasminenaomilumierjacques4086 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    The other woman took over my home finally its gonna be 4 years now and they are having a second child but all i know for all the pain she caused me it shall never be well with her one day is one day it will surely catch-up with her soon or later i believe u cnt build a happy home over another woman's tears

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He will do it again

    • @sunnysuney5845
      @sunnysuney5845 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sorry to hear that but it's your ex's fault. He broke you and he.

    • @nathalian.7209
      @nathalian.7209 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@sunnysuney5845it’s both fault. The man and the other woman.

    • @gwendolynhall788
      @gwendolynhall788 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Someone asked a man if he was married, and he said my wife is.

    • @lifeventures6651
      @lifeventures6651 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@nathalian.7209Agree! People forget or don’t care that GOD holds the mistress accountable as well. They act as if man has the final say when it’s God who we should fear.

  • @jacinthabrice5296
    @jacinthabrice5296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Being married hurt many women more than being the other woman hurt...I have seen it often. But the devil is a lie! I choose to be alone, most men in my culture hurt.

    • @TheGospel4Women
      @TheGospel4Women 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree especially since the married woman is responsible for taking care of the man. Many times she doesn't know why he is neglecting the kids and her. The betrayal is very deep.

  • @Msjltriplett
    @Msjltriplett 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Never wanted to be will not be the other woman.🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @sierrabuck7826
    @sierrabuck7826 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I just left a situation after on and off after 9years he never chose me. I had to finally chose myself because I dealt with abusive men for 20 years I found my strength. I felt so disappointed of myself. I told him I had no more years to give him 😢I am 40 . I appreciate you RC Blake for sharing your heart with us 😊

  • @blessedchildofgod9112
    @blessedchildofgod9112 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    when you destroy someone life know your life will be destroyed

  • @kenyettagould6364
    @kenyettagould6364 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    This finna be good and hurt feeling at the same time

    • @keeter44
      @keeter44 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yep

    • @roxancooks7077
      @roxancooks7077 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      AGREED!💯

    • @sultryzulusmusic5081
      @sultryzulusmusic5081 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And is! It’s the finna for me. 😂😂😂

    • @kenyettagould6364
      @kenyettagould6364 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@sultryzulusmusic5081 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @MzCarolynsPlace
      @MzCarolynsPlace 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤😂

  • @mariareresutton2859
    @mariareresutton2859 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Been in this situation, 11 years but now I can say I am free.....

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Me too ✋

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Me too, 15 years. Finally free. Thank you Lord for your mercy and Thank you Bishop.❤️🙏🏼💪🏽

  • @TIGRESSA73
    @TIGRESSA73 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was in a situationship for 20 years. When I met this man, he was separated and a year later, divorced. I knew he wasn't going to get into another serious relationship.
    But 3 years into knowing him, I asked where we were going. He said he wasn't ready to be with anyone. But I had a feeling he was seeing someone.
    Long story short, he was seeing someone. So I backed off, he wouldn't leave me alone. I made the mistake of coming back time after time.
    I stopped dealing with him about 14 years into the situation. I dropped him for 8 months and in that time he married her!
    Yet I stayed for another 7 years!!! Knowing he was married now. I just let him go for good now about a month ago and this time it's for ever!!

  • @peggyboss4960
    @peggyboss4960 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    HI Pastor. Several years ago a woman who had been the other woman told me her story. Besides all of the problems you outlined, she lost her business. The man she had the affair with married her, but he died within just a few short years, leaving her penniless. When I knew her she had to take a minumum wage job and finally moved to anothher country because she could not afford to live in the United States. When I think of this now, I feel very sad regarding the situation. It was tragic.

  • @nzizacharity
    @nzizacharity 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've been the other woman and i now know God is disappointed in me and he wont give me a husband cause I've hurt the other woman. Lord I'm so sorry. Im ready to change for you and do what is right.

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Alcohol was my gateway into a silly situation🤦‍♀. I had to quit alcohol and pray A LOT in order to get some common sense.

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I have been on both sides of the fence, neither side feels good. I’m Not perfect and I’m learning 🙏🏾Thank you for the good word.

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Me too! We are definitely not alone Sis.

    • @courtneykirk478
      @courtneykirk478 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me too. You are not alone.

  • @heatherbzdawka3350
    @heatherbzdawka3350 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I'm not the other woman 😁😛 and never will I be that but I learn from pastor's wisdom always 😇❤️

  • @kourtney101
    @kourtney101 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Sadly, there are t- shirts, fragrances, hairstyles, songs themed around being a 'side piece'. Mainstream media promote it. ⚖️what you do comes back to you⚖️👏🏿✨️

  • @drchontay8129
    @drchontay8129 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Happy birthday Bishop RC Blakes 🎉🎉🎉

    • @lwarfield52
      @lwarfield52 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bishop RC Blake's birthday is in July not March.

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    That is so true Pastor Blakes,I was young at the time and he did let me know that he was married and that him and his wife had a mutual understanding..yes u felled in that trapped before getting saved.When approached by a married man I have enough self respect for myself to walk away..That's why I was looking forward to hearing what u had to say..Thank u and God bless u always ❤

  • @chelseasmith2943
    @chelseasmith2943 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Wow, this video is wonderful, It is helping me heal. My ex of 15 years (engaged for 2 years) whom I share 5 children left me while pregnant, for another woman for all of these reasons you mentioned. Everyone told me to move on and get over it but you are helping me understand why. I knew why, but there was no one I could talk to to confirm my beliefs. It's been 4 years and I am finally starting to heal. Thank you, Sir, I appreciate you.

  • @Lexlove95
    @Lexlove95 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    And the sad part about it is soooo many of them do not have shame about what they’ve done. If he will do his wife like that, what makes you think you’re different! He’s gonna do you WORSE because he sees what you are willing to be to him, which is an option and available when he’s ready. Smh.

  • @user-yy9mt6kl3h
    @user-yy9mt6kl3h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..

    • @user-sk7kd8vs2w
      @user-sk7kd8vs2w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @user-yy9mt6kl3h
      @user-yy9mt6kl3h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..

    • @user-sk7kd8vs2w
      @user-sk7kd8vs2w 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her

    • @user-yy9mt6kl3h
      @user-yy9mt6kl3h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You definitely should. she is right there online. You wont regret it

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good news for you and your wife I'm glad that it is working out the way it's supposed to , it's takes two for a marriage to work regardless of the mistakes if the mistake was final for you of your marriage and you have not went back to it , God bless you , congratulations on your marriage

  • @yolanda5756
    @yolanda5756 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Facts!!! I TRIED to tell my sister this! She is the other woman. Her now husband cheated on his exwife with my sister! That man was with his wife 20 years & he makes it known that he still wants his exwife but she doesn't want him. He needed a place to live & my sister was one of his other women. He immediately asked my sister to marry him because he was living with his mama. Now my sister is dealing with karma. He doing the same thing to her & she is too shame to divorce him. Smh

    • @TheGospel4Women
      @TheGospel4Women 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so sad. The terrible thong is that women carry so much shame that they don't even know who to turn to for strength and guidance on how to get out. Most people will judge them, which kinda leaves them trapped. God bles RC Blake's for for obeying the Holy Spirit to discuss this topic.

  • @user-ne6jh8ty1c
    @user-ne6jh8ty1c 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    " The moment the light of truth shines lust will be revealed as hate " WOW , you just kill it every time , that statement is life changing ❤

  • @jacinthabrice5296
    @jacinthabrice5296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Our men do not care if their wives find out, and sadly many do leave their wives...please pray for us..

    • @nathalian.7209
      @nathalian.7209 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That man doesn’t belong to anyone. He belongs to his own lust.

    • @amerokeewiya1320
      @amerokeewiya1320 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Our? “Our” who???

  • @mstessa1160
    @mstessa1160 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Even if a married man leaves his wife for the other woman, I don’t see how she could ever trust him because he’s obviously capable of cheating. My father cheated on my mother many years and even had two “outside” children that I found out about when I was 14. My mother finally left him and you know what, he blamed HER (the other woman) for ruining his marriage and dumped her for good. My mother still divorced him. I vowed I would never enable a married man to cheat from a young age. If he wants to cheat, he needs to go elsewhere. A few have tried and hard but there was no way.

  • @goatslivesmatter2096
    @goatslivesmatter2096 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Your words are so true. I have been the other women for 10 years and I am in complete shame!

    • @janetholmes
      @janetholmes 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I hope you find healing soon

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@janetholmesyes so true I like your comment bc it's tru

    • @courtneykirk478
      @courtneykirk478 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@janetholmesHuuuuuuuuuuuug. You're a kind individual. God and Christ Bless you.

  • @caur739
    @caur739 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    I am not thinking that a man who cheats on anyone truly loves either party. A love based on obligation is not a love that is fulfilling. Nor is a love that is based on deception. There is no respect in either case ....... neither is love in my opinion

    • @beac8238
      @beac8238 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What is love based on?

    • @caur739
      @caur739 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beac8238 Honesty + respect are good starts

  • @MsAljonushka
    @MsAljonushka 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much for this! Every word the truth..
    Almost 2 months no contact since my eyes opened with Gods help. All girls - be brave 💪- you will rise from the ashes, but the burning comes first..

  • @TIGRESSA73
    @TIGRESSA73 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    That prayer was beautiful!! 🙏🏽 thank you Bishop!!!

  • @janettemccuien4249
    @janettemccuien4249 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Happy Birthday Bishop..... May our Abba give you your deepest heart desires to His Glory.....in Jesus Christ name.

  • @stephanies.3198
    @stephanies.3198 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Amen and Thank you Lord Jesus for you being a vessel on time. Always ❣️🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Plat56
    @Plat56 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    you are some of the good man I know and love thank you for making me a good boy.

    • @Plat56
      @Plat56 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for this blessing

  • @angelafelder1804
    @angelafelder1804 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Happy Birthday Bishop
    I have never been the other woman nor will I ever be. My belief has always been, I’m second to none.

  • @LatoriaCoeAddison-wc7me
    @LatoriaCoeAddison-wc7me 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I love the father daughter talks!! Thank you RC Blakes!!

  • @keasyasanders2809
    @keasyasanders2809 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I have to run this back I really needed to hear this this is literally what I’m dealing with right now

    • @tameekaharris6425
      @tameekaharris6425 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awe man, it will be alright I believe you will decide not to mess with that again, The Lord loves you Jesus will forgive you , he also wants you on his path for you , know that you are not alone ,and know you don't have to go back to that lifestyle again, I hope this helps and be kind to yourself, get the Bible out or get a Bible and start spending some time with Jesus ,he will never leave you nor forsake you, God bless you , prayers for you 🕊️🙏♥️

  • @LandosLady
    @LandosLady 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I guess my husband has went to a reprobate mind, because he’s unemotional available to me and ever since his 10yr affair was exposed he’s been mentally unstable!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Wow. Stay prayed up.

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is an important topic! This is excellent! It is not okay to disrespect wives or women who are in committed relationship. Being the other woman is not an option.

    • @nikkibreezy6058
      @nikkibreezy6058 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keyword wife. Girlfriend/baby mama is a scam. If a man is not married, you are just one of his women

  • @gwendolynhall788
    @gwendolynhall788 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Ladies it's just not worth being the other woman

  • @lifeventures6651
    @lifeventures6651 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you for touching on this! Soooo many women say.. well…it’s on the husband. While yes he is the one committed, GOD does hold the mistress responsible when she knows he’s married. It’s absolutely ridiculous hearing the excuses and now proud label of side chick for some.
    You reap what you sow. Had a friend I no longer associate with because she was messing with someone’s husband and making excuses for it.
    Fast forward years later…a mutual friend says she is married and upset her husband is stepping out on her. We remembered the position she used to be in as a mistress ane now she’s the wife getting cheated on. Funny how the tables turn. Wrong is wrong!

  • @Msjltriplett
    @Msjltriplett 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Got to love yourself and heal.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes and know that Jesus is always with you too.

  • @ShonWoods-km1ob
    @ShonWoods-km1ob 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Happy birthday 🎈🎉 Pastor Blake’s!!
    Can’t wait to hear about this subject.
    I’m not, or have been the other woman.
    It’s a “sad” and “broken mind set” to have.

  • @nikkyshamz2696
    @nikkyshamz2696 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I get so ANNOYED when a married man tries to talk to me and I make sure my displeasure is communicated cos to me that's the height of an insult to try to get me into such profound foolishness. Keep that nonsense far from me. Satan is busy and God is not pleased. Ain't nothing a taken man can do for me. Not a taken boyfriend, fiance or husband. I want mine and mine alone. I don't share men

    • @stephaniewilliams3460
      @stephaniewilliams3460 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen sister!!!!

    • @tjohnson5760
      @tjohnson5760 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know that’s right Sis 👏🏽👏🏽, I grew up an only child & I never shared my toys with anyone so I know for a fact I ain’t sharing no man. It’s funny that’s all that approaches me, is the married men. I had to tell one married guy, I’m no one’s place holder. I can’t be a side, I’m the main course with an appetizer. 💯💯💯

  • @theantoinettewells
    @theantoinettewells 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Bishop!!! The teaching in this video is worth it's weight in gold sir!! You're saving lives and changing mindsets.

  • @Sherrie04
    @Sherrie04 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I will never be the other woman- I will be gone 👌🏽

  • @lindathomas3610
    @lindathomas3610 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Good evening, from one Pisces to another. Happy birthday, Pastor Blake. God bless you. 🎉🙏🏽

  • @ALICEPOOLE-es1xq
    @ALICEPOOLE-es1xq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    HIS BIRTHDAY IS IN JULY
    IT WAS LADY LISA BLAKES BIRTHDAY 3/8/24 AND SHE’S BEING CELEBRATED THE ENTIRE MONTH OF MARCH 🎉❤🥳💙

    • @Msjltriplett
      @Msjltriplett 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for correction🙏🏽

  • @IT_BABE
    @IT_BABE 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a great message. Only the other woman if she knows the man has a wife or girlfriend made a conscious Choice and not a mistake.

    • @nikkibreezy6058
      @nikkibreezy6058 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not girlfriend as that status means nothing.

  • @smileyglitter852
    @smileyglitter852 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I will say this ....."I hold the man accountable since he was the one I was in a contract with". That demon 👿 will get his from God no doubt...

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's a spiritual battle, God is able all the time , focus on you and Jesus Christ, he forgave you it's in the sea of forget full mess

    • @SergioTaylor-kq4tx
      @SergioTaylor-kq4tx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😊

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Right on!!!! Always the fun factor the reason of preferring the other woman. Wow what a truth!!👏👏👏 you can’t b the fan and the wife🎉 aleluya

  • @ruthfelix8
    @ruthfelix8 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I appreciate this prayer. Thank you for this teaching.

  • @anitaharrell6790
    @anitaharrell6790 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Happy birthday pastor Blakes enjoy your blessed day 🎁🎂🎊🎈

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Self Reflection and Introspection 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Elle3211
    @Elle3211 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "God's hand is against it. This cannot produce anything fruitful. " Yes, that too goes for women and men producing children born of adultery. God does not bless that which He rebukes.

  • @frankwright7795
    @frankwright7795 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's a sad deal. Many will be the other woman for gifts or money. She believes that he will buy her many gifts and will have her thinking he is leaving his wife and even his children. There are some women who don't want a real relationship but just a sexual partner with benefits.

    • @amerokeewiya1320
      @amerokeewiya1320 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      But their emotions always get involved, so she will get jealous of the wife…

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is just sad but it's a real lesson, that is called future faking and love bombing, when they show you who they really are believe it , forgive them and yourself, ask the Lord to help you move forward and repent and turn away from the wickness,

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There are some men like that too not everyone is like that but it is when the decernment from the Lord the holy Spirit guides you and not to lean on your on understanding , we all make mistakes the question is are you going to keep doing that ? Or turn from it ? Jesus convicts , Satan condemns.

  • @ALICEPOOLE-es1xq
    @ALICEPOOLE-es1xq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Good Evening Pastor Blakes, Lady Lisa Blakes
    It was such an amazing weekend celebrating our , my First Lady Birthday Lisa Blakes 🎉❤🎉❤

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Beautiful Prayer 😪😪😪thank you so so much Pastor ❤🙏🏾👑

  • @thelmadouglas8942
    @thelmadouglas8942 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Happy Birthday Bishop R C Blake’s 🎂🎁🎈🙏🏿🙌

  • @Mildred-b7r
    @Mildred-b7r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thanks for the message to women tonight everywhere ❤🙏 to all you. This was good😮 Good night everyone. Stay mindful of married people 😮❤🙏💯

  • @pat4502
    @pat4502 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I didn’t want to share but I am…since I was a young girl I never cared to talk to guys that had a gf…and as a woman I never cared to but unfortunately I think I found myself being the other woman with this last guy I talked to…he told me upfront that he was still living with his woman but that she was supposed to be leaving soon bcuz they ended the relationship…it didn’t sit well with me but I was operating in my flesh and lust and figured he won’t be here long so whatever…but as time went on it would tug on my heart that this was not me…and eventually I let that go bcuz of my relationship with God…praise Abba, our Father ❤

    • @Yellow-oc4sl
      @Yellow-oc4sl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      GOD is good , I heard not that long ago that there are times whe God don't answer our prayers to what we want Now and thank God for that too although he does answer prayers his ways are not like ours , thank you for sharing some of your experience, I was able to let this dude know of a three hour phone conversation praise God , that your lies and manipulation are nothing new and I have been through that before smh it was a civil conversation, after that he discarded me he got what he wanted and then I don't her from him for like almost three months and out of the blu he text a link to a song that was it , well you know Satan bag of tricks are nothing new at all , I didn't respond I prayed about it and the Lord told me to be still thank you holy Spirit, I can not and will not go back to a life style that the Lord already brought me out of , and learning this lesson and mistake has brought me to repent and get more closer to God , and ask him to show me more decernment, he did a lot of future faking and he is a church goer , well guess what I already told him I forgive him and myself and repented , if he was to ever come back around like that behavior he shall leave and go else where ,

  • @nyashakurasha7699
    @nyashakurasha7699 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    We are here mama Li and Paps. Looking forward to learning from the best. Your daughter from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼.

  • @DaughterofthemostHigh313
    @DaughterofthemostHigh313 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Amen thank you I appreciate you putting this message out for us women that are in these situations thank you for letting us know that we are deserving of a good relationship that's our own

  • @TB-fk4qm
    @TB-fk4qm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthday to this Amazing, Godly Father to all of us daughters!
    May God Bless You With Many Many Mnay more years of wisdom!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏💃🏾

  • @corinthianasmith2176
    @corinthianasmith2176 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I will never be the other woman or my man cheating on me. I know how to put out the trash AMEN 😂

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes Lord let’s talk about it! Thank you uncle pastor RC 🙏🏾❤️

  • @user-yo2wk9un2n
    @user-yo2wk9un2n 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I appreciate this lesson and I commit to making my life better with the help of my god.

  • @drchontay8129
    @drchontay8129 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    " raising royal consciousness"❤

  • @margretnyakiomuturi843
    @margretnyakiomuturi843 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy birthday bishop.RC Blake's wishing you many more blessed years ahead. Thank you always for standing with the women have learned a lot from you and i get better every other day.🎊🎉🎂🙏

  • @gail_7192
    @gail_7192 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthdayyyy Bishop!🎂🎉🎉🎉🎉..many more blessings to you.Thank you for all that you do🫶

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    HAPPY birthday Pastor Blake's 🍰🎂

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Happy birthday Pastor Blakes..May the Lord bless u with many more years to come 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @goddessglow6996
    @goddessglow6996 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In my case he chased me relentlessly until I fell for him

  • @anettemensah89
    @anettemensah89 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    IM SO GLAD THAT U BROUGHT BACK LETS TALK ABOUT IT WITH RC BLAKEEEESSSSSS

  • @goatslivesmatter2096
    @goatslivesmatter2096 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you for your guidance

  • @LadyMO488
    @LadyMO488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank You Lord❤

  • @Reshay87
    @Reshay87 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    what a sound lesson

  • @monadeberry9060
    @monadeberry9060 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes so glad to be here, you are a Godsend

  • @ShonWoods-km1ob
    @ShonWoods-km1ob 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Dave Hollister sings this song.

  • @A.l.a.c.
    @A.l.a.c. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I've never been the other woman, but said the prayer anyway. 😂

  • @Tamera-love
    @Tamera-love 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mine cheated and we divorced. He is with the other woman but complains to everyone in earshot what he lost. He was cheating while we were married with a yt one and another one from work. God saw to it that I found out. I’m healed, happy and whole and happily single. Meanwhile, he told me he wanted me back because he knows what he had. Glad we never had kids together.

  • @luzvargas1063
    @luzvargas1063 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love it!! She fills me up !!! She is my Queen!!!!♥️🌺🙏🎵🙌🇵🇷

  • @martal662
    @martal662 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Even though this message doesn't apply to me,it's good to know what's going on in society these days

  • @KeliseWilliams-zn6eu
    @KeliseWilliams-zn6eu 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthday Bishop RC Blakes🎂🍰🧁🍦🥮🥧🍩🍪🍨👑❤️🌹🎁🎈🥳🎊🎉

  • @carriesimmons9506
    @carriesimmons9506 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BISHOP THIS IS EXCELLENT TEACHING!! ALL SISTERS NEED TO RISE TO THEIR QUEEN CONSCIOUSNESS!! 🙏🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @RocSteady78
    @RocSteady78 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Belated Birthday First Lady 🎉❤💐🎊🎈🎁💯👑

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤Happy❤ Birthday, 🙏🏽and thanks again for your wisdom and prayers on your blessed day 🎉🎉🎉🫶🏾

  • @Msjltriplett
    @Msjltriplett 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Birthday Lady Lisa 🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹🎂🎊🎂🎊🎉💐❤️