UNDERSTANDING WHAT A MANS INTENTIONS ARE BY RC Blakes

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  • @afarongordon
    @afarongordon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +185

    1. 17:58 🚩He is at the risk of disrespecting you for sexual advancement
    2. 23:52 ✅a man that has honorable intentions will take his time and be patient and respect your boundaries
    3. 25:12 🚩he’d text rather than call you to build a connection
    4. 29:22 ✅A men that wants to build connection is active and emotional available
    5. 32:02 🚩He frequently shows up late
    6. 33:59 ✅When a man values you he will make an effort to be on time
    7. 38:54 🚩he doesn’t not have any questions of interest about you or your life
    8. 40:02 ✅He will want to know about your dreams, fears and experiences
    9. 44:49 🚩He doesn’t expose you to his family
    10. 48:58 ✅introducing a partner to family is a level of seriousness
    11. 49:58 🚩 when a man doesn’t have longterm intentions he causes disruptions
    12. 51:48 ✅a man that loves a woman avoids arguing with her

    • @allisonp.190
      @allisonp.190 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Thank you

    • @afarongordon
      @afarongordon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@allisonp.190 you’re welcome

    • @cheyennenuelle6711
      @cheyennenuelle6711 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You're the GOAT! Thank you!

    • @afarongordon
      @afarongordon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@allisonp.190 you’re welcome

    • @ChancelineAnita
      @ChancelineAnita 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@cheyennenuelle6711seriously

  • @proper.role.model.819
    @proper.role.model.819 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +260

    Growing up we always heard how sex was the way to a mans heart as well as food. I can tell you Im 37 and STILL SINGLE. None of it has got me ANYWHERE pathetically. I would literally sleep with men thinking it was all said to be true and it is a bunch of bullshit lies society tells us. I've ended up hurt everytime. I was always told Im a great girl, why are you single? blah blah yet no one ever wifed me up. Now Im healing from years of hurt and bitterness and shame.

    • @Lovely0710
      @Lovely0710 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't lead off with your ass

    • @Am-mm6iz
      @Am-mm6iz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Rejoice in the Lord and let all that bitterness go and you will become a new woman

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wish I could put this comment in the sky for all the red pill idiots insisting that women put out for ZERO commitment to see... it doesn't benefit us so NO MORE

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Shout it from the mountain top . I felt this way at 37 too. I cried. I took it personally. The audacity of men to say we should choose better when we've been told over and over we won't get a relationship unless we give sex. Now I am 43 and on my glow up journey over 40... and I am holding my no sex position firmly. It's they who 'need' that more.

    • @proper.role.model.819
      @proper.role.model.819 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@nzingahoney Yes!! I never understood because I KNOW girls who sleep with guys early on and got into relationships almost every time..but I could never get one from them? I know I'm a good catch and have gone after the wrong men but still. It never worked for any of them. i'm always told Im a good girl, cute, sexy, great personality..just more introverted and am sexy intellectually. I'm sorry you have gone through similar. I blamed myself for a long time. And yes, I was always told sex, sex, sex. pff!

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +318

    Amen...that happened with me, i had a man approach me in church ..he held a nice conversation with me and of course he asked for my number..Pastor Blakes,he did end up calln me..He held a decent conversation with me and then he asked me about fulfilling of each others needs..Right away i let him know that i was a celibate woman and i will not sleep with a man unless he was my husband!(My Queens,this supposedly be a man of God,had the nerves to tell me---THAT I WAS WASTING HIS TIME, SO I TOLD HIM FINE .RIGHT THERE HIS MIND WAS ON MY BODY INSTEAD OF MY HEART.(BY the grace of God i have been celibate for 14 years now)🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏Thank u Pastor Blakes for speaking on this...

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      🙌🙏👏 8 years for me Abstinent. I don't want those nasty 🤢 dogs putting unclean SPIRITS in my flesh. I've cleansed for far too long. I'm waking easy. I'm walking in Peace. I'm rejuvenated. Cleansed of all UNRIGHTEOUSNESS.🤷🙌👏

    • @stephaniemcfarlane4571
      @stephaniemcfarlane4571 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      I've held on to my commitment to God, myself and my future Boaz for 4.5 years as a Solvent woman of God preparing for His timing.

    • @stephaniemcfarlane4571
      @stephaniemcfarlane4571 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Please forgive my spelling. My word correction is Sulvant

    • @empresshunt7280
      @empresshunt7280 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      What is the meaning? I looked on Google. To no avail. Thank you.

    • @raneesroom
      @raneesroom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Beloved… tbh the church men be the worst in my experience. Him asking you for sex being the least to worry about.

  • @Didi-fr5ic
    @Didi-fr5ic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

    I cannot wait, 3 years ago I was a broken concious woman who needed guidance and your youtube videos kept coming up but I ignored it everything single time, until youtube recommended your videos to me for 3 months straight and i finally listened..that was god telling me you need to listen and learn ❤❤❤ I will always be so truly gratefull, I move differently now.. you must see me, so beautiful and radiant 😊
    I have been abstaining from s*x for 2 years now, I am extremely proud of that, I haven't had a relationship with my mom for 8 years, we are building our relationship now all because of the healing and wisdom from these videos and actually do these actions in real time. Thank you Sir.

    • @mysterylady4655
      @mysterylady4655 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Awesome 👌 👏 👏 👏 👏 😊 ✌️

    • @bettylewis221
      @bettylewis221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Oh praise God, good things comes when we're striving to be in God's presence and doing things His way, restoration for your relationship with your mother 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯 beautiful Queen, stay strong in Jesus

  • @amorosadama1817
    @amorosadama1817 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Listening to you has made me emotionally stronger 💪 Thank you so much! You’re a light in this darkened world.

  • @RashekaWalters
    @RashekaWalters 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    For a woman that has been abstinent waiting for the right one, this is a must watch tonight. Seems like soon as you tell them you are abstaining from sex, they either get EXTRA or ghost lol. Idk if they are genuine or just imposters. Let’s see what my virtual father has to say tonight. Thank you God for the wisdom pastor has to speak and mentor to women. A man that truly respects ALL WOMEN! Thank you pastor. Peace and blessings upon you!

    • @bettylewis221
      @bettylewis221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where are the men??? You would think that our men would be interested in godly ways to cultivate a godly relationship in the way our Heavenly Father projects in the word of God, relationships can be a testament when two individuals are sold out to God physically and emotionally and spiritually and mentally.
      We as followers of Christ that have a relationship with God let us continue to stand in Faith no matter what, God will prevail, let us pray 🙏🏾🙌🏾💯 one for another, and pray for our brother's in the church and the world, and vice versa, we need strong men and strong women in order to raise strong children, NOTHING is impossible with God, let US hold onto God's word and remain faithful.
      Love listening and applying this Rich wisdom to my life, it's so beneficial and helpful, thank you, may God continue to bless and keep you for the encouragement you give to us to carry ourselves as Queen's and King's, men and women of the Most High God!!!!!

  • @jas1034
    @jas1034 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Nowadays men do all these things but still have bad intentions I’ve been introduced to mama, grandma, kids and he still was playing games. He calls, FaceTime, and shows up early. But what I learned is to give enough time to see his pattern. That will show if he is serious or not. Keep your legs closed and eyes open ladies.

    • @thelmadouglas8942
      @thelmadouglas8942 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I’ve learned that lesson

    • @valarieford1778
      @valarieford1778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I had one introduce me to his best friend mama. He was a mamma boy spoiled. I let him go

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Abstinent 8 going on 9 years.🙌👏🛏️✌️ Proud of me respectfully taking care of my body, self esteem and Self respect. Period. Got too many dishonored me wrongfully. I Desired marriage since Early age. Nobody wants marriage since I was 19. When I endured them only wanting Sex i got myself chin checked 😮 and woke up 😮. I'm God's child and I am a Queen 👑 I walk in my Queendom. No Man taking me off my throne. I Love ME

    • @LuisLopez-dc3ig
      @LuisLopez-dc3ig 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      WOW YOU PRACTICING A LOT DISCIPLINE AND SELF CONTROL 🎉🎊🎉🎊 CONGRATULATIONS
      THIS WORLD IS SO SAD

    • @LuisLopez-dc3ig
      @LuisLopez-dc3ig 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am LISSETTE using my friend phone

    • @LeahGatlin
      @LeahGatlin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good info based on the word of God

  • @englishforcanada
    @englishforcanada 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    “Never connected, just attached” 😮

  • @lisamiller4671
    @lisamiller4671 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    You gave a dummy what a dummy wanted....Thank you for keeping things soooo real😅

  • @leonablack3516
    @leonablack3516 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I was dating a man and i did meet his family. I was also asked to dinner at Christmas with them, then 1 week before that he ghosted me . I had been dating him for 3 months , Long time ago now . Odd 1, so ladies take time in a relationship because when he lets you down the amount of what you have given to this man measures the pain you will feel when he betrays you.❤

  • @evawilliams2873
    @evawilliams2873 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Ladies stay out of the bed and close your legs and keep your dress down

  • @DIAMONDGIRL57
    @DIAMONDGIRL57 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Phantom arguments allows him to blame you so he can go out and do what he wants without guilt.

  • @mysterylady4655
    @mysterylady4655 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Yes, Queens I know many of us are staring into space just thinking where was Pastor Blakes years ago right? I am wishing I could begin my life over from baby with the wisdom I've acquired and still learning. 👏 👏 👏 👏 Thanks Pastor. 🙏

  • @mysterylady4655
    @mysterylady4655 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Ladies please tap the like button. Where else will we get these genuine lessons? 🤔

  • @shenika1979
    @shenika1979 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    The daddy I never had. Your wisdom is so on point!

  • @babyjells
    @babyjells 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in this video, Pastor Blakes! I remember complaining to an aunt that a guy I had gone out on three dates with didn’t ask me any questions about myself- absolutely no curiosity about me, my life, my experiences etc. I was very curious about him and asked him A LOT of questions- absolutely no reciprocity on his part. So I told my aunt, I was turned off by that and was going to cut him off. She begged me not to because according to her, guys only ask questions when they are invested in someone and 3 dates wasn’t enough time to be invested in someone 🙄 She proved my point!
    You don’t have to be invested in someone to be curious about whom they are! I love the process of getting to know people regardless of wether I’m romantically interested in them or not- I’m genuinely curious about people, their thoughts, outlook on life etc.
    Anyway- I dumped the guy- his proposal for the fourth date, which also coincided with my birthday- Valentine’s Day- was to come over to his house for chocolates 🙄🤣🤣🤣 Nope! Absolutely not! I took myself on vacation to Hawaii instead 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @HIWWPI_2024
    @HIWWPI_2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    “Because if you don’t understand the intentions of a man, You may be taken on a ride that you did not anticipate and you may be dropped off at a location your heart can’t handle.” ❤❤❤

  • @lindaharrell1871
    @lindaharrell1871 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I was very foolish. At the age of 24. I married a male for all the wrong reasons. After 13 years of wasted time. Three Children.And him having many affairs. He one day told me he was not going to take care of me anymore. He also told me that if we had sex before marriage. He wouldn't have married me. He was at that time involved with a married woman on his job. I also wanted the marriage more than he did. It was a total disaster. I was out of The will of My Heavenly Father. When I married him. This was an amazing teaching. Many women can benefit from this teaching. Thank you Pastor Blake's.

  • @evawilliams2873
    @evawilliams2873 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Ladies please do not lay down with a unsafe man that don't want to be in a relationship

  • @alij5424
    @alij5424 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    I have been a widow for 2 1/5 years after 29 years of marriage to a wonderful man. I since have had 3 clowns ask me to dinner, of which I declined. But a fourth gentlemen who I met through a friend, asked to a fund raiser, where I met some of his friends and even his son. Then later he invited me to see the Rolling Stones with his daughter. Later on a few other non-traditional dates. And the end, all he ever does is give me a nice hug. Not one of those, squeeze me real tight hugs. We have spent many hours just talking together. I have never met a man like this. But I'm very layback I never call him. I'm not running to check out rings, I'm just watching to see his next moves. So far I really like this man, I respect the respect he has for me. I have prayed about this man, not sure what the Lord has planned for me. But who does?

    • @theladyandsonplus2
      @theladyandsonplus2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Keep your breastplate of righteousness on and the best 👌 to you.

    • @janicesmiley6473
      @janicesmiley6473 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Sounds like a good man, but I would suggest a little reciprocity if he calls you it may be OK to call him somewhat, not a lot, he sounds like a keeper most men the first thing they want to do is B.E.D., not him don’t lose him.

    • @SnjezanaCrnogorac
      @SnjezanaCrnogorac 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Make sure you "drop the handkerchief" and show your affection just a little bit. Let him know you approve of his demenour and favour him. Don't risk losing this gentleman over him not knowing your intentions. Good luck and God bless!

    • @JA-du7fw
      @JA-du7fw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep praying. The Lord will reveal otherwise why you are praying. If you're not sure what the Lords plans are for you, he will reveal it. You can pray ephesians 1:17-23 for clarity

    • @morenabonita8834
      @morenabonita8834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He deserves reciprocity. Sounds one sided.

  • @KAAT2239
    @KAAT2239 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    ❤❤❤Bishop you ain’t never lied!!! Thank you for speaking life!!! These talks help us live our best lives!!!

  • @amorosadama1817
    @amorosadama1817 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    You’re so right! Women, we need to have more self respect and don’t let men have it so easy! Being easy, devalues you and therefore, men see us as an object to use. Unfortunately, that’s a harsh truth.

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Having intercourse alone does NOT devalue you in the eyes of anyone who isn't blind to your non sexual value. The fault is in men, not in us, that they consider us worthless unless they have to work for us. We are not lands to conquer; we are human just like them. We too want connection and pleasure and this is no crime as rape is. However the creator knew the blind, shallow nature of the male and that is why I think marriage was insisted upon.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​Men err & so do women. We ALL have sinned. Abide in Christ.

  • @iwig2714
    @iwig2714 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Yep that's what they do create conflicts to be with someone else then come back like nothing happened.

  • @SherryGlover4Real
    @SherryGlover4Real 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I was delivered from this experience. We dated and was engaged 💍 for 3.5 years. The Holy Spirit revealed that "enough was enough." I broke it off that same night. He begged for months to continue, but God said NO! Then, exactly 1 year later, he died.😢
    Holy Spirit revealed that from day one, he was speaking about not "dying" alone. At the same time, I was speaking of sharing "life" with someone. It was sad that it took me 3.5 years to even see that. But God... Whew, I'm glad that class is over!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      3.5 years is too long to be engaged unless your 16 years old. I had a man string me along for 5 years because he was dying & wanted me there but he didn't make good on his promises to marry. Thank the Lord we weren't in sexual sin. It would have crushed me.

  • @lyndasexoticessenceincnatu885
    @lyndasexoticessenceincnatu885 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I met a man two months ago. Seems sincere, but something is not right. He has a daughter that is 11 years old. Told me that he felt something when we met, but cannot explain. We have been out on a date once. This man is self employed and a mr. mom. Seems to be a keeper, but does not call me, waits for me to call or text him. when I ask why he does not call or return text, this is his explanation. He is raising his daughter by himself, does not want her asking questions. Does not want to bring different women around her in case it does not work out (I get that part). He does not have a lot of time to talk, but has to schedule time for us to go out on a date. I get the fact that he is really busy, so am I. Now when we do chat, the conversation always goes left to something sexual. I have been celibate for over a decade and plan to keep it that way until I am married. I refuse to defile my bed and go through those emotions because of a soul tie. I am really paying attention to words and actions. I will not allow myself to go on a roller coaster ride.

    • @mycharieamor
      @mycharieamor 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Drop him like a bad habit, sis. Red 🚩!

    • @Kjmummy06
      @Kjmummy06 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen 🙏🏽

    • @natashanatasha7408
      @natashanatasha7408 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He do not want you therefore he will not lady meet his daughter if he doesn't want you.

  • @J_Elle30
    @J_Elle30 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    We also need discernment between a man who has genuine questions vs wanting a roadmap to every traumatic experience you’ve ever had to later exploit or take advantage of you.

    • @ForeverCurious7
      @ForeverCurious7 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know… I get confused with this too.

    • @noneya-hv2vu
      @noneya-hv2vu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Whew😮😩

  • @Dr.Alexxis
    @Dr.Alexxis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    My first time on the actual LIVE 😭👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 I watch your videos almost everyday…God Bless you and your family abundantly Bishop RC Blakes. Truly and sincerely, THANK YOU for your teachings, wisdom, and mostly your obedience to your purpose. So many lives and generations transformed because of QUEENOLOGY 👸🏾 May you never lack and always have joy. God Bless You Sir and Mrs. Lisa Blakes and family ❤️ -Dr. A

  • @baneshiawyatt3156
    @baneshiawyatt3156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The grown women in me needs more than that… come on sir 👏👏❤️❤️🙌🙌✅✅

  • @imcheyenne_
    @imcheyenne_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    We gotta stop ignoring red flags for the sake of wanting a man/woman.
    Bishop, I’ve learned so much from this lesson & pray everyday for my kingdom husband 🙏🏾

  • @shavon2139
    @shavon2139 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Queens ask questions that only kings can answer!!! that was so good!!

  • @mysterylady4655
    @mysterylady4655 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    There are only 645 likes and 1200+ viewers. Please support their ministry and tap the like button.

  • @larsandradouglas3119
    @larsandradouglas3119 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    A lot of them will still bring you home to family a be playing the whole time

    • @lovebug6388
      @lovebug6388 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Yeppers! My brother is notorious for this. Now we don't even get excited or invested. He needs deliverance 😢

  • @AchemySoul
    @AchemySoul 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Questions are the building blocks of intimacy ❤

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    THERE IS WAY, MORE TO LIFE! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

  • @peggyboss4960
    @peggyboss4960 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Hi Pastor. You had such good things to say. I wish every single woman of all ages knew what you know. You give me courage to live by godly boundaries and values.

  • @ministerwwoods
    @ministerwwoods 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The emotions are off when you bed down before marriage. Hold your posture and then you can see

  • @starbright2683
    @starbright2683 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This was a red flag 🚨 I noticed with the last two men who claimed to be interested in me: no questions, no conversation, no trying to get to know me, no trying to make sure our values align, no trying to build a connection... Thank you for validating what I felt.

  • @katriciaridgel9039
    @katriciaridgel9039 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I wish my Daddy would have had these talks with me when I was younger...

  • @QIKWIA
    @QIKWIA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    👀 ...if you look carefully, you can see a halo around our beloved Brother Bishop Blakes head🙏🏿

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    BROKEN 💔 mislead the broken. LADIES get your life by healing every scar these Men afflicted upon you. I had too. I'm healthier ❤️‍🩹 on all levels because of Pastor Blake's teachings

  • @lwarfield52
    @lwarfield52 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Right on time!! Bishop and First Lady Lisa! Thank you for saving my life repeatedly!!!!! 🙏

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The term or concept of Firsy Lady is not biblical but we love Lisa and RC.

  • @preciousstone2782
    @preciousstone2782 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Nor is referring to you as sexy a compliment....

  • @afarongordon
    @afarongordon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    A good man will watch the entire episode and take notes 😏 and then leave notes for the everyone in the comments lol

  • @sonyagutierrez1557
    @sonyagutierrez1557 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    A relationship is not my choice. I hope for love. But I can't make a man want me. I come across idiots that want one thing. They aren't even trying to fool me. They immediately ask me if i want to go to bed with them. I sure will do my best to never allow an idiot to make a fool out of me ever again. I may never find a man to want me the right way. But i would rather be un happy alone than with somebody.

  • @MWisdomWisdom
    @MWisdomWisdom 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    CELIBATE FOR 6 YEARS THANK GOD 😊🙌🏽. YOU CAN TELL WHEN A GUY JUST WANTS SEX BECAUSE iF THAT'S ALL HE TALKS ABOUT THEN THAT'S YOUR ANSWER.

  • @CL-do5eq
    @CL-do5eq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This hurt a bit but it’s true. I’m so glad to receive this wisdom from God through you. I needed to hear this.

  • @GORJ.E.S.
    @GORJ.E.S. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    LoL... RC you had me rolling with that "bad guy" or whatever voice 🤣😂🤣😂
    DEFINITELY NOT tryna date him...
    But THANK YOU for this teaching per usual... STAY BLESSED 🙏🏾

  • @sylvieb5498
    @sylvieb5498 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have come across too many little boys. Father, thank you for confirming that I am on the right track; waiting patiently for my king; the man God has for me.

  • @QueenOfPrinciple
    @QueenOfPrinciple 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I cannot wait to hear this one! It will be good and so need for many, included myself! Thanks for being that father figure my us (ME) haven't had.

  • @lynnmartin1548
    @lynnmartin1548 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The week before Valentine’s Day he creates an argument.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Definitely that's the oldest trick in the 📖

    • @brendaotega6687
      @brendaotega6687 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I am sorry to laugh but 😆😆😆😂😂😂😂

    • @theladyandsonplus2
      @theladyandsonplus2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hope u took yourself out to Ruth Chris and a spa date.❤

    • @zionmcclellon9503
      @zionmcclellon9503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One of the oldest tricks in the book smh

  • @tondabrown953
    @tondabrown953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    On time message Pastor. Unfortunately, I’ve recently (and in the past) have met individuals who has checked all the boxes of
    Not intentionally wanting to be with me but my body!!! Wow!! This was powerful and I know better.

  • @lesliesmith8725
    @lesliesmith8725 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    We have to pay attention to his patterns!!! Starting those arguments close to those Long Holiday weekends😳… Pay attention ladies!

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Tell Lisa, that I said Hi. 🙏💐. GOD BLESS her!

  • @favouronyemelukwe5007
    @favouronyemelukwe5007 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I pounced on the link of this podcast and liked it at once on this channel, then clicked on "play" ... but it didn't. I looked again only to see it will take place on the 11th! 😅😆 Can't wait 😥

    • @toshikoroberts8023
      @toshikoroberts8023 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hi Queen. The video is coming up today 8pm (CST). Hope to see you there 👍🏽

    • @corijayy
      @corijayy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Today, June 10th. 🤭😁

    • @nzingahoney
      @nzingahoney 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Maybe It is her time zone?

  • @kitaevans8686
    @kitaevans8686 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank you, Bishop I'll really learn a lot from your teaching over the last year. And I'm so grateful for you and first lady Lisa 🙌❤️

  • @CarolynDJamerison
    @CarolynDJamerison 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    💫Hi Family....
    Hectic evening for me. Will definitely watch from the beginning. Love the teachings and comments ❤️‍🩹

  • @misstownes
    @misstownes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    A whole sweat suit and a helmet was hilarious! 😂❤

  • @AuthenticallyTee
    @AuthenticallyTee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m screaming 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂the middle of the bed😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @evawilliams2873
    @evawilliams2873 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Good evening everyone please listen to pastor blakes

  • @ladielox
    @ladielox 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I will be at Queenology 2024! This will be the most exciting and beneficial trip I will be taking thus far! To GOD be the GLORY for Pastor RC Blakes Jr.!👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️👑❤️✨️

    • @LynnePJacobs
      @LynnePJacobs 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      See you there!!

    • @Sojourner_TruthBW44
      @Sojourner_TruthBW44 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about the ones that call etc but still mentions sex

  • @ms.triciam7982
    @ms.triciam7982 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is going to be and eye opener and very well needed

  • @Bell-or5kt
    @Bell-or5kt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love your content. could you please do a video on when a man is always fighting, trying to create drama, stress, strife and contention?

  • @ladyzinada5341
    @ladyzinada5341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Pastor Blake's healed my spirit, SOUL too. I dedicated myself to Soul and Spirit Detoxification in 2019. God led me to him and since then I've changed what i do🥹, how I move, pay attention what a Man do, say, or behavior wise no matter what. It's offensive for a Man to try getting me in thr 🛏️ bed. I cannot stand disrespectful Men. I tolerate nothing anymore. I don't care who people are.

  • @janettemccuien4249
    @janettemccuien4249 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    JAH continue to bless you and your family in Jesus Christ name!!!!

  • @ladymc5849
    @ladymc5849 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What this all boils down to is a healthy grown man vs grown toxic boy

    • @inettawalker9387
      @inettawalker9387 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Too many grown toxic boys pretending to be healthy grown men. I'm calling it quits. Been with a gtb for 6 years now, I am emotionally and mentally checked out. Gotta get my job back then I can physically check out🎉

  • @PoSHEmediaglobal
    @PoSHEmediaglobal 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I recently had a joker circle the block to tell me he loves me when there is not one single action that proves it
    I have recently realized many men move like the devil and that’s how you know to stay away from them cos they come to steal from a life they have sown nothing into , kill and destroy. If you discern the first trick, run!

    • @GogiraFire0806
      @GogiraFire0806 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂 where are my sneakers lol

    • @PoSHEmediaglobal
      @PoSHEmediaglobal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GogiraFire0806 😂 outside somewhere

  • @lynnlamont8942
    @lynnlamont8942 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    At a location you can't handle. Bishop speaks real talk👍🏽💯

  • @YanNatalie1
    @YanNatalie1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    From the first video a couple years ago I watched from you, I knew that god had sent you

  • @patriciamitchell1924
    @patriciamitchell1924 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    @Pastor Blakes, I was told that a man does not want a celibate woman,all i want to know is why? To keep me from bringing disgrace upon my God,i have to Stay in Prayer, because of the Temptation thats out here..I haven't dated in years and I'm sure its because of my Godly standards on sex without marriage...So my Queens, we have to be smarter than the man that just wants Sex from Us..God bless u all.pls keep me in prayer, always 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏I luv u all...I will celebrating my 66th birthday this Saturday (Thank God)

    • @bettylewis221
      @bettylewis221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Happy birthday 🎂🎈 Queen 👑 God 🎉🍰 protect 🎊🎉 and keep you, hang in there 🙏🏾🙌🏾 with God

    • @patriciamitchell1924
      @patriciamitchell1924 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@bettylewis221 Good morning thank you and God bless u😇😇😇

    • @bettylewis221
      @bettylewis221 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@patriciamitchell1924 you're welcome Queen 👑 stay strong

  • @LindaRobinson-vt5hk
    @LindaRobinson-vt5hk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This has been so encouraging. You r a blessing to women around the world.

  • @noziphodesireemkhize1549
    @noziphodesireemkhize1549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Bishop I fully understand now and please forgive us we as woman are so used to guys putting effort on us to mislead us as all they want is sex,we have become sceptical if a guy doesn't want us sexually,but thanks to your wisdom we have a better understanding that a man who really wants us will wait and wants to learn more about us THANK YOU.Nozipho in South Africa ❤

  • @carmenkamberos1156
    @carmenkamberos1156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Father God for your redemptive power, and Pastor Blake for looking after us woman. Blessings

  • @gwenjackson6458
    @gwenjackson6458 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes Bishop, I've been in this situation, years ago. I got to the point where I said, Don't come in here with that mess. If you want to go do something, GO! That's when I walked away.

  • @CBReal1290
    @CBReal1290 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a wonderful gift you gave us your time are you are on vacation or actually the pre-recorded time but the fact that you’re thinking about us so we’re not skipping a beat and we have time to get our act together before you get back in town. Thank you so much, brother. The prayers are always well spoken needed and on time as well as the message and love the scripture. I try to share this with other women, but they’re a little slow to come around but keeping in prayer and in prayer and motion, love to all safe travels back in there.

  • @barbarabreaux8341
    @barbarabreaux8341 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I will not put any work into another relationship! I have learned so much from dudes, men, males!

  • @DSmith-e5e
    @DSmith-e5e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Inaccurate. I chose the wrong person with core values different from mine. I won't take the blame.

  • @jilliansimpson9698
    @jilliansimpson9698 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My Lord help us! Jesus!!

  • @MaryLovelyaka
    @MaryLovelyaka 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    All facts!!! Smh…. This is some of the realest information on the net today.

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    50:00 - deliberate conflicts , yes! Biggest red flag . Run for the hills

  • @desireeweiss
    @desireeweiss 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have a husband abusing me shooting me with stun guns , even after I left him. Saying he loves me but causing me all kind of pain. I am not safe in my home. Even after I left him. Please help

  • @aprilcloyce7426
    @aprilcloyce7426 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I gave up. This is not the times for commitment. Men these days want options or marry and still cheat. I’m just going to have sex I trained my soul for the times we live in. It is what it is. Times are different. I don’t want a husband ever

  • @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
    @ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are truly the voice of the father many women in the world never had. Thank you for your powerful ministry.

  • @truebelieverinthelord7823
    @truebelieverinthelord7823 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    God bless you! Thank you for this message!🙏🏽❤️

  • @samanthasingh49
    @samanthasingh49 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New errors of men who want to use women these types play all the roles of a mature man, but the key is to keep it close. However, some will wait 2 years perfectly just to mess up your life.

  • @hopeinhumanity.
    @hopeinhumanity. 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    “He listens with his eyes”. Yes this is definitely discerning between that of lust/conquest or a genuine desire to be know and be connected to you.

  • @amandaadams9170
    @amandaadams9170 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I wish I'd heard this advice over a year ago 😢

  • @Annie-qu9ik
    @Annie-qu9ik 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thankyou this is a very good and important message women need to hear and hear it well.

  • @ruthbyrns8841
    @ruthbyrns8841 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yassss now you're on to something.. Bishop RC Blakes I really appreciate you and Lisa. ❤

  • @teresabrown174
    @teresabrown174 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Absolutely loved this word my Bishop!! This was most definitely a Mic 🎤 drop word!! I receive it in Faith and Love and I thank you ❤️🙏🏾

  • @lonnasingletary6289
    @lonnasingletary6289 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yes, yes, yes on all accts. Seems every time i speak on my feelings about something .. he would immediately tell me hes done trying and then blocks me as though to punish me for opening up. Im always shocked by this behavior. This has happened several times. Thanks for the clarity. I know now this is exactly what i face. Soul ties, are definitely a thing. The back and forth, the constant push and pull, and the uncomfortable trauma bonds it creates. So very toxic ! Certainly not what one might expect from a person who claims to love them. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking about it.

  • @beverlywilliams9690
    @beverlywilliams9690 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much for accepting the call of the Lord on your life and teaching us women and young ladies the rules to be honorable women in society.

  • @scorpiored3871
    @scorpiored3871 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow, Bishop Blakes, this happened to me .Ladies, be careful!Thank you, Bishop ❤

  • @TinaMarieCobb
    @TinaMarieCobb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love Love Ur Teaching .. U Be Putting Us Real Woman (That Wants To Grow And Learn) Up On So Much. U Are Amazing And I Am Very Grateful For Ur Knowledge 💖

  • @tondabrown953
    @tondabrown953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That no question thing is on point!!! Haven’t asked not one yet….Ive asked so many questions and haven’t been asked much of nothing.

  • @adele9925
    @adele9925 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Six months ago I met a man online. He is 72, I am 68.
    I have been unable to forgive myself for allowing him to take advantage of me. While we didn't engage in intercourse, we were still in an intimate situation. The next day when he called, I explained that he had overstepped the mark, especially as he was going to remain on the dating site while seeing me.
    I feel so foolish and my heart is truly hurt and broken because I allowed this unhealthy situation to occur, because I followed my need for connection.
    When you said it wasn't my fault he was premature with sexual attention, I began to cry. I used to think I owed it to a man to agree with his wants, now I finally know better. Thank you for teaching me my value. I feel so much better about myself after listening to you. How I wish I had found your channel decades ago. Sending you and those who follow you, an abundance of love and light. 🙏✨️💞

  • @sandy1231
    @sandy1231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my God, l needed to hear this message 3 times in 48 hours. Poweful teaching! Thank you pastor Blakes!

  • @SK-sj3sz
    @SK-sj3sz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Well some of the stuff you wearing is questionable " 😂😂😂😂😂. You are the best @rcblakes ❤ thank you

  • @creativewithk1002
    @creativewithk1002 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Or when he can only call at certain times but won’t text , it’s because he’s married and doesn’t want text receipts.

  • @NyNy-ly9js
    @NyNy-ly9js 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That was beautiful Bishop. 🙏🙏💜