1. Your worth is not tied to a relationship - Being single does not mean you are weak, it means you are strong enough to wait for what you deserve 2. Love has no expiration date - Love can form at any age 3. Cultivate joy in the present moment - If you can't with yourself, you won't be able to with someone else 4. Embrace the journey of self-discovery - Spend time with God and yourself 5. Keep an open heart and mind because any day God can send your person into your life 6. Seek empowerment and not validation - Queens are validated by their heavenly Father and self-awareness - Validation from someone/something else can lead to emotional sabotage 7. Life is unpredictable - You could have a man tomorrow - The most meaningful relationships can come unexpectedly
@@empresshunt7280facts I realize if I would settle I would be in a relationship right now at this very moment but the fact I’m not worrying about a guy and I’m focused and know my worth It makes you real picky about the kinds man you let in your life
Amen. In Jesus name i enjoy being with myself, being myself and love me a lifetime. I want to travel and do whatever i want whenever i want without toxic incompatible wrong people
A man will age you. All of my friends who got married aged about 15 years. I always get asked what my secret is to not aging. I always say, “not being stressed out by any man.” I praise God that I am not married. I have a wonderful life and absolute freedom…Praise God! 🤩🏀🙏🏻💗🙌🏻
The freedom is great but them urges and desires for that deep soul feeling of connection, protection, passion, and just tender Love is a reality.. But there is also nothing like the freedom from arguments, disappointments, cheating, wondering, guessing, and everything negative that May come with it..
Absolutely not! You sound a tad bitter … being grateful for not having a man is not right… men are wonderful beings! My man fill my house with flowers, my mind with peace and my heart with gratitude. My man makes me feel younger. You can be grateful for where you are in life without diminishing another human being.
My grandma never made Valentines about romance, she always brought her children and grands chocolates, cards, etc. it was a day to express love, so I never tied it to a man. I raised my daughter the same way. Just sent my daughter and sister some treats in the mail❤
I remember back in 2018 I was anxious about not being in a relationship and I came across your videos. Now in 2024 I can honestly say that I am no longer anxious. Better late than never 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Same here!! It took a little bit of time, I am only 2 years out from leaving a 21 year relationship, but finally feel comfortable, happy and mostly peaceful and unbothered!!!
Yes. We have to enjoy ourselves. Take yourself out to eat. I enjoy going to the movies. Maintain a walking routine every other day. I love listening to my favorite music. I like talking to God. I tell him all kind of stuff. I imagine He look at me and shake his head sometimes 🤭.
This is the first Valentine's Day of all my 64 years of life that I'm not fearing the day with all my emotions. Finally, I'm empowered, not depressed. I honor the coming of love
I am 58 never been married or engaged. All the things you said I already know, but from time to time need to be reminded. Thank you so much for the love and words of encouragement. Finding your videos have really changed my mindset about being single. Bless you and thank you!
I’m here for this message. In the thick of it right now! I left the marital home in May purchased another home in August of last year and still no peace so left my home and took another position in another state! I’m not sure if I will sell or rent. I’m just in search of peace! I was treated horribly, like an animal, intentional abuse all because I wouldn’t obey his delusional way of thinking. Now left with the residue, but i’m pressing through in Jesus name! The anxiety is real but I fall out of agreement with it! I refuse to be trapped again! I will make it and God will provide!!!!
Moving around will not help. You must heal from all that you've gone through. Continue with R.C., there's also Louise Hay & Dr. Miles Monroe who's incredibly helpful. They're all on this platform. Louise Hay's work is phenomenal.
I’m Happy for you and your fresh start. Sometimes having a change of scenery and new people in your life can be invigorating! I wish you all the best in your new home! God bless you!!!
U my beautiful brother should have millions of followers, but some ppl don't want to hear the truth. I truly appreciate u. Please keep up the great work! Isaw on a talk show many yrs ago a couple in their 80s who had recently married. The lady was 80 yrs old & lost her virginity on her wedding night. She saved herself for 80 yrs for the right man. They were both in a nursing home & were just beautiful!!!
Thank you so much, RC and Lisa, for all that you do for all of us ladies in particular. Can't wait to hear what you have to help us with now. I am 74, live in Augusta, GA. I have been married 3 times. All of them have passed away. I wait on God still to send a good man into my life. Meanwhile, I work on me. Again, thanks to you and Lisa for your guidance. 😊
I’m in the same position as you. 77 with 2 out of 3 husbands passed away and divorced from the third. I would love to experience the “ right one” I’m learning about God’s timing. God bless your journey. 😊
so excited to listen in- been single for so long not even sure I'm even phased anymore by this but I always welcome the opportunity to listen to pastor and fellowship with you ladies ❣
With you in that place, DD! ☺️ Only can be the Lord that does that miracle, sending our Boaz. Thank you for the anointed prayer you prayed over us at the end, Pastor! And for calling us "your Babies". You're the BEST. Thank you for being that wise Father to us that we so need! Lord bless you. ❤️✝️🕊❤️
"Being single does not mean you are weak. It means you are strong enough to wait for what you deserve." AMEN!!! And that comment about giving wife energy? I always remember this one guy that I was involved with said that what attracted him to me was that I acted like I already had a boyfriend. Now, I didn't make all the right choices in that encounter, but I always thought about what he said. And with all of the things I've learned watching these videos and reading the books, all the "gaps" are filled in, and I am so much more aware of my worth today. ❤
This is right on time 4 me,im fighting to disconnect from a 14 yr relationship with a narcissist.ive been back & fourth countless times and always go back & always regret it.
OMG I love this man, so much respect for women. He gives the best advice ever, and more people should be tuned in. Better than most psychologists tbh, truly amazing.
Greetings Mr. Blakes. I recently discovered you and your Queen Ms. Lisa on the "Dear Future Wifey" podcast and was immediately drawn to you both. Mainly because Ms. Lisa and I share the same story of being sexually violated by our fathers as young girls (unfortunately). To see her healed and enjoying life with the man of her dreams was absolutely breathtaking to me! I also admire your patience and ability to love her unconditionally through her healing journey. I have since subscribed to your channel and have been binge watching all of your various videos on a daily basis. You sir are a "Godsend" for me. Your wisdom and teaching style have blessed me in ways that words can not begin to express. I'm not a religious woman at all, but I do believe in The Most High and your presentation of Bible principles has renewed my Spirit and faith! I left the church decades ago once I was old enough to decide for myself what path in life I'd take. I was disgusted with all the foolery that was being allowed by the very persons who were in leadership roles (pastors, deacons, mothers of the church, elders in general); many of them were even involved in said foolery. I hated being a witness to them being in the pulpit preaching what they proclaimed to be God's word, however twisting it for their own selfish gains and also coming from a "do as I say, not as I do" mentality. I just couldn't and wouldn't be a witness to such despicable behaviors. You teach straight form the Bible and break down each lesson in a way that's easy to understand and apply in my life, without twisting the word to make it convenient for your personal agenda. You also live as a shinning example of being the best man that you can be and follow God's laws to the best of your ability (from what I've witnessed so far). I also respect how open and transparent you are about the man you USED to be. You are so genuine in your love for your community and your desire to assist us women with activating and embodying our femininity and Queen consciousness--THANK YOU! I'll be 50 years young in 2 weeks and for the first time since I was a teen, I fully respect and admire a man who carries the title of Pastor/Bishop. I live in DFW, TX, but if I lived near you, I'd happily attend your church services and would likely become a member of your congregation. You have been very instrumental in renewing my faith and trust that there are GOOD MEN of GOD who are sincere and passionate in their service to God and in the work that they have been called to do in improving the collective. I hope to be able to attend Queenology in AtL to meet you and your beautiful Queen Ms. Lisa, but if not this year, then next year for sure! Continued blessings to you Pastor RC and Ms. Lisa, keep on doing this wonderful work. You are definitely changing lives--you've certainly helped to shift the trajectory of mine! 💜💜💜
Bishop, thank you for sharing this message. I'll be 62 years old this year, and I, too, am single and desiring marriage again. I love myself very much and truly believe that God has a true man of God for me. I ask God each day for patience to wait on him. Thank you and Lisa again for the encouragement and wisdom you share with us. Happy Valentines Day to you both and all the ladies on this episode. 💜🙏🏽🙂
Amen,Pastor Blakes...My best friend always trying to hook me up and I have to let her know that I am fine..I can't lie and say that I wouldn't mind being with someone..but I rather wait on the Lord,because of my past relationships .So now I focus more on my relationship with the lord and let him guide my steps to where he wants me.Thank u ,Pastor
Lord continue to bless this man and all he loves . You are such an amazing inspiration to me. Your message is helping me heal and I thank you from the bottom of my heart and thank Jesus for you.
Everything he said is facts. this time last year I was so sad I journal everything so when I go back and read i'm really amazed how far I come. 2023 became my best year so far of me living i got close to God, let go of people I needed to let go, working on myself on a deeper level and enjoy my solitude and just kept gaining wisdom. This time valentines day I almost forgot it was valentines day my mom love holidays so she always reminds me but I don't feel sad or anything I feel good. But I still love this video and resonated with it as a 23 year old girl I truly feel like i'm on the right path I'm very mature for my age and desire to be a wife but i'm also very focused on me without a guy in my life this video just confirmed everything for me that I knew thank you!
Wow, to God be the glory! 😭🙌🏾💕 Pastor Blakes to you and Ms. Lisa, thank you. This was the video I needed to hear from a Father like figure all along and God led me to this video. The move of God is very evident in yours and Mrs. Blake’s life. Blessings, love, and protection to you and your family.
Man of God, I appreciate all of your messages. Whenever I feel tired of waiting and feeling desperate sometimes ,hearing you kinda kills the desire and the desperation that is in me . Since it's a long run, hearing your messages is like drinking water while running a marathon .❤❤❤ Im blessed. God bless you 🙏
Absolutely the very best most healing and hopeful counsel that I have ever heard 🎯🎯🎯regarding the longings of the ❤. You have amazing and original thoughts, ideas, and insight regarding this plight ,demonstrating profound depth and empathy backed by Scripture. Also, you are hilarious, sometimes, in your descriptions of the forlorn woman ( sitting in a bathrobe with a gravy stain on it 😂😂!!) Laughter is the best medicine. Thank you so much Pr Blakes ❤I enjoyed this discussion!! I like your delivery style and storytelling.
I. Died a bit listening to this message. I’m so appreciative of you. Thanks so much . I needed this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Keeping an open heart. Love does some wonderful things.
I can't wait for this premiere.For years now we have been blessed to have this ministry. I love the books that I've purchased from the ministry. I have some hard copies and I purchased the kindle book and the audio version of Pastor Blake's latest book on narcissism. I also went to his conference in Illinois before the Pandemic. We all can take some gems from every lesson that he teaches. ❤
1. Your worth is not tied to a relationship. (Psalms 139:13) 2. Love has no expiration date. (1 Corinthians 13:7) 3. Learn to cultivate joy. (Philippians 4:12)
@Victoria-qc9vw ...Pastor is funny om this one! I laughed so hard. " The Message, Grandmaster Flash & The Furious Five. This is exactly how I feel about being single.
Praise the lord Pastor RC Blakes. You are soooooo right, I'll known that my worth wasn't tied to a relationship many, many years ago. I have been single for many years, but I also have been saved in Jesus in name for many years. And sadly I have seen so many people who have said that the lord told them that He was their husband. Well if that were so why in the name of Jesus are there so many divorces in the church world. I feel that people don't talk enough and unfortunately every one who confesses Jesus are not living worth nothing. Or marry for money, sex or some other reasons. 😪
Great respect to First Lady Lisa & Bishop RC💪🏼! Each message is super fire international flow! Schoolin' me in solid Biblical Wisdom! Holy Ghost Truth!🔥🔥💯💯🔥🔥🙏🏼🙏🏼
RC you have helped me love me much more than I could ever dream possible. I love what Lisa and you have. I pray more who listen to you realize they deserve no less.
Bishop Blakes you are speaking directly to me and I’m going to apply this wisdom to my life! I really appreciate the knowledge that God gave you and how you share it with people like me .Thanks 🙏🏾🙏🏾
In my humble opinion... how can I say this. I dont need to be validated. It is everybody else who are married or really seeking to be. I hope that doesnt come off negative. I am often reminded that since I am single, i must be thirsty or unworthy or invalid. To which I do not respond to. I cut the conversation as if I'm turning off water... but my feelings be hurt. On the other hand... it's okay. I feel a song in my heart. "This joy I have, the world didnt give it to me..." That song cuts deep because it is a life lesson. I feel a stirring in my heart when I think about it. I am sure somebody knows what I am talking about. Edit: thank you for a beautiful and timely message. Also... i know that many people do not celebrate many holidays; but there IS Single's Day. 11-11. I thought that was nice. :0)
Beeing single is a blessing... i prefer having no men problems lol... and stay calm and enjoying my life freely and happy , having lots of options.... i see it as a bless.❤
Being a successful single all day every day. learning how to bring the joy to self and to others. I had so much fun giving joy and excitement on this Valentine's Day at my job.
I am SOOOO grateful for RC Blake and this plug in. " My value and my worth are not tied to a relationship. I am a "wife" at all times including as a single woman. I am not weak. I am strong enough to wait for what I deserve. 🙏🏽✨️✨️✨️✨️
And i love this time for letting god unfold his plans. I. Sure are better than mine lol. I have so much time for meditation at nights and prayer... i dont carry frustration about any guy ... its so expansive to enjoy our identity and our friends.
Im so grateful to you for teaching me the things the men in my life never taught me. I see clearly now and the games are very transparent. Nice shirt Pastor R.C.💕
Hello Mr. Blakes, just want to let you know that you have a father-like voice and it’s doing something good for my soul. Keep up the good work brother!
Thank you RC and Lisa for changing the mindset of several women about relationships and marriage. I was a victim of abusive relationship but ever since I started listening to your teaching I have developed a different mindset about my worth and what I can tolerate in the name of marriage. I thank God for your teaching. May God continue to give you the grace and wisdom to educate and empower women. Please let me know how to join your cyber church. I live in California. Thank you
Thank you, RC Blakes. A great presentation. I am in my singleness at 60. I understand I am not weak because of it. I am just waiting on God. I love this podcast. I've listened to it three times. Ameen
Thank you, Pastor R.C. Blakes, Jr. for this message. I am truly grateful and appreciative that you thought to discuss the topic and for the timing of it. Thank you, so much, for caring!
I dont know how you just end up putting up videos of what I ACTUALLY NEED AT THE RIGHT TIME!!!!!! Back to back for thr last one month I joined your channel, you've delivered videos that have been speaking directly to my pain points currently!! I wish i met you earlier 😢 Please Never give up in your fine works, i wish i had enough funds to make the trip for this year, but hopefully i do eventually 🤦😩
I love this segment. If I could add to this, showing love to those that already love you. Friends, family, others who may be experiencing their own season of singleness. I showed love to all those in my life who love me this year and it has replenished tenfold. God is Good!
1. Your worth is not tied to a relationship
- Being single does not mean you are weak, it means you are strong enough to wait for what you deserve
2. Love has no expiration date
- Love can form at any age
3. Cultivate joy in the present moment
- If you can't with yourself, you won't be able to with someone else
4. Embrace the journey of self-discovery
- Spend time with God and yourself
5. Keep an open heart and mind because any day God can send your person into your life
6. Seek empowerment and not validation
- Queens are validated by their heavenly Father and self-awareness
- Validation from someone/something else can lead to emotional sabotage
7. Life is unpredictable
- You could have a man tomorrow
- The most meaningful relationships can come unexpectedly
Thanks!❤
This is sooo helpful❤thanks!
This is for me😊
Thank you!❤
Thank youuuuuuu ❤
My worth is not linked to a relationship ❤
Ooo! I like that pledge. 👍🏾
When I realized that I wasn’t in a relationship because I’ve learned my worth, I began to feel better about not being in a relationship.
@@empresshunt7280facts I realize if I would settle I would be in a relationship right now at this very moment but the fact I’m not worrying about a guy and I’m focused and know my worth It makes you real picky about the kinds man you let in your life
@@empresshunt7280
You're kinda better off right now. Your growth will draw 'The One' to you. In the meantime, preserve yourself. 😉
I loved that “being single does not mean you are weak! It means that you are strong enough to wait for what you deserve”!! 🔥🔥
Yes 🙌🏽 💥💯
I do things that make me happy travel, get closer to God, I enjoy me being by myself, loving me
Period, Amen!
Amen. In Jesus name i enjoy being with myself, being myself and love me a lifetime. I want to travel and do whatever i want whenever i want without toxic incompatible wrong people
A man will age you. All of my friends who got married aged about 15 years. I always get asked what my secret is to not aging. I always say, “not being stressed out by any man.” I praise God that I am not married. I have a wonderful life and absolute freedom…Praise God! 🤩🏀🙏🏻💗🙌🏻
Me too here. But sometimes I miss a good company
The freedom is great but them urges and desires for that deep soul feeling of connection, protection, passion, and just tender Love is a reality..
But there is also nothing like the freedom from arguments, disappointments, cheating, wondering, guessing, and everything negative that May come with it..
No. The wrong man will age you.
Absolutely not!
You sound a tad bitter … being grateful for not having a man is not right… men are wonderful beings! My man fill my house with flowers, my mind with peace and my heart with gratitude. My man makes me feel younger.
You can be grateful for where you are in life without diminishing another human being.
Praise God indeed!!
My worth is not tied to a relationship ❤❤❤
My grandma never made Valentines about romance, she always brought her children and grands chocolates, cards, etc. it was a day to express love, so I never tied it to a man. I raised my daughter the same way. Just sent my daughter and sister some treats in the mail❤
That's how I do it too! I get my girls vday gifts. And I also treat myself
Beautiful
To me Valentines Day is every day w/those we ❤
I remember back in 2018 I was anxious about not being in a relationship and I came across your videos. Now in 2024 I can honestly say that I am no longer anxious. Better late than never 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Same here!! It took a little bit of time, I am only 2 years out from leaving a 21 year relationship, but finally feel comfortable, happy and mostly peaceful and unbothered!!!
Amen
Happy Valentines Day, everyone
Perfect timing because every man in the store “may be my husband” 😂 it’s the harassment of thoughts for me 😂😂
Me2 fren😂😢
Sis not this comment tickling my soul 😂😂
This the one sis. 😂
😂😂😂
Yes! I feel you sis 😊
Yes. We have to enjoy ourselves. Take yourself out to eat. I enjoy going to the movies. Maintain a walking routine every other day. I love listening to my favorite music. I like talking to God. I tell him all kind of stuff. I imagine He look at me and shake his head sometimes 🤭.
3. Learn to cultivate joy in the present moment.
YES AND AMEN!!! I AM ENJOYING MY SINGLENESS AND SELF DISCOVERY🙋🏿♀️🙋🏿♀️
"When loves finds you it will make you younger" 😂 😂
Why wait to be younger now.
This is the first Valentine's Day of all my 64 years of life that I'm not fearing the day with all my emotions. Finally, I'm empowered, not depressed. I honor the coming of love
Yes wait..be patient..God will send your partner in his perfect timing..only at 60 i really experienced love and fulfillment in a relationship.
I am 58 never been married or engaged. All the things you said I already know, but from time to time need to be reminded. Thank you so much for the love and words of encouragement. Finding your videos have really changed my mindset about being single. Bless you and thank you!
My uncle married for the first time at age 80🩵❤️
I have the 'Ultimate' relationship with God! I run to Him and is SAFE!
I’m here for this message. In the thick of it right now! I left the marital home in May purchased another home in August of last year and still no peace so left my home and took another position in another state! I’m not sure if I will sell or rent. I’m just in search of peace! I was treated horribly, like an animal, intentional abuse all because I wouldn’t obey his delusional way of thinking. Now left with the residue, but i’m pressing through in Jesus name! The anxiety is real but I fall out of agreement with it! I refuse to be trapped again! I will make it and God will provide!!!!
Peace be with you Sister, hope you come back and join these messages, they are really helpful ❤
Moving around will not help. You must heal from all that you've gone through. Continue with R.C., there's also Louise Hay & Dr. Miles Monroe who's incredibly helpful. They're all on this platform. Louise Hay's work is phenomenal.
I’m
Happy for you and your fresh start. Sometimes having a change of scenery and new people in your life can be invigorating! I wish you all the best in your new home! God bless you!!!
You got this🙏
I would love a relationship, but not at the cost of my happiness in God!😢
2. Love has no expiration date!
Being single doesn't mean you are weak- it means that you are strong. Strong enough to wait on Gods perfect timing- that's a word!
U my beautiful brother should have millions of followers, but some ppl don't want to hear the truth. I truly appreciate u. Please keep up the great work! Isaw on a talk show many yrs ago a couple in their 80s who had recently married. The lady was 80 yrs old & lost her virginity on her wedding night. She saved herself for 80 yrs for the right man. They were both in a nursing home & were just beautiful!!!
5. Keep an open heart and an open mind.
Experiencing self love and peace for the first time and I absolutely love it❤❤...
4. Embrace the journey of self discovery. (Jeremiah 29:11)
5. Keep an open heart and an open mind. (Hebrews 11:1)
Being single is a protection ❤ from God!😊
This word is so VALUABLE. We are TRULY blessed to receive it.
AMEN!!! YES IT IS!!!
Thank you so much, RC and Lisa, for all that you do for all of us ladies in particular. Can't wait to hear what you have to help us with now. I am 74, live in Augusta, GA. I have been married 3 times. All of them have passed away. I wait on God still to send a good man into my life. Meanwhile, I work on me. Again, thanks to you and Lisa for your guidance. 😊
I’m in the same position as you. 77 with 2 out of 3 husbands passed away and divorced from the third. I would love to experience the “ right one” I’m learning about God’s timing. God bless your journey. 😊
God is the 'Right One' my Beloved. Keep hope alive! 👍🏾
so excited to listen in- been single for so long not even sure I'm even phased anymore by this but I always welcome the opportunity to listen to pastor and fellowship with you ladies
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With you in that place, DD! ☺️ Only can be the Lord that does that miracle, sending our Boaz. Thank you for the anointed prayer you prayed over us at the end, Pastor! And for calling us "your Babies". You're the BEST. Thank you for being that wise Father to us that we so need! Lord bless you. ❤️✝️🕊❤️
Lord I hear you and I receive everything coming from this ministry tonight ❤
I am not anxious. Life is good. I have a great dog , 18 chicken and great gym life. All good.❤
"Being single does not mean you are weak. It means you are strong enough to wait for what you deserve." AMEN!!!
And that comment about giving wife energy? I always remember this one guy that I was involved with said that what attracted him to me was that I acted like I already had a boyfriend. Now, I didn't make all the right choices in that encounter, but I always thought about what he said. And with all of the things I've learned watching these videos and reading the books, all the "gaps" are filled in, and I am so much more aware of my worth today. ❤
Thank you for this comment. ❤❤❤
*GLORY!!!I'm favoured, $255k every 3weeks! I can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.*
congratulations!!
I will love to be your friend dear as well. as sharing some ideas which you're benefiting.
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The professional is Ms Angelia Marie.
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Love has no expiration date!!!! Amen😊
This is right on time 4 me,im fighting to disconnect from a 14 yr relationship with a narcissist.ive been back & fourth countless times and always go back & always regret it.
Hi I understand what your going through just curious do you have support system and if so do find it helpful or easier to leave
STOP❤
OMG I love this man, so much respect for women. He gives the best advice ever, and more people should be tuned in. Better than most psychologists tbh, truly amazing.
Greetings Mr. Blakes. I recently discovered you and your Queen Ms. Lisa on the "Dear Future Wifey" podcast and was immediately drawn to you both. Mainly because Ms. Lisa and I share the same story of being sexually violated by our fathers as young girls (unfortunately). To see her healed and enjoying life with the man of her dreams was absolutely breathtaking to me! I also admire your patience and ability to love her unconditionally through her healing journey. I have since subscribed to your channel and have been binge watching all of your various videos on a daily basis. You sir are a "Godsend" for me. Your wisdom and teaching style have blessed me in ways that words can not begin to express. I'm not a religious woman at all, but I do believe in The Most High and your presentation of Bible principles has renewed my Spirit and faith! I left the church decades ago once I was old enough to decide for myself what path in life I'd take. I was disgusted with all the foolery that was being allowed by the very persons who were in leadership roles (pastors, deacons, mothers of the church, elders in general); many of them were even involved in said foolery. I hated being a witness to them being in the pulpit preaching what they proclaimed to be God's word, however twisting it for their own selfish gains and also coming from a "do as I say, not as I do" mentality. I just couldn't and wouldn't be a witness to such despicable behaviors. You teach straight form the Bible and break down each lesson in a way that's easy to understand and apply in my life, without twisting the word to make it convenient for your personal agenda. You also live as a shinning example of being the best man that you can be and follow God's laws to the best of your ability (from what I've witnessed so far). I also respect how open and transparent you are about the man you USED to be. You are so genuine in your love for your community and your desire to assist us women with activating and embodying our femininity and Queen consciousness--THANK YOU! I'll be 50 years young in 2 weeks and for the first time since I was a teen, I fully respect and admire a man who carries the title of Pastor/Bishop. I live in DFW, TX, but if I lived near you, I'd happily attend your church services and would likely become a member of your congregation. You have been very instrumental in renewing my faith and trust that there are GOOD MEN of GOD who are sincere and passionate in their service to God and in the work that they have been called to do in improving the collective. I hope to be able to attend Queenology in AtL to meet you and your beautiful Queen Ms. Lisa, but if not this year, then next year for sure! Continued blessings to you Pastor RC and Ms. Lisa, keep on doing this wonderful work. You are definitely changing lives--you've certainly helped to shift the trajectory of mine! 💜💜💜
Bishop, thank you for sharing this message. I'll be 62 years old this year, and I, too, am single and desiring marriage again. I love myself very much and truly believe that God has a true man of God for me. I ask God each day for patience to wait on him. Thank you and Lisa again for the encouragement and wisdom you share with us. Happy Valentines Day to you both and all the ladies on this episode. 💜🙏🏽🙂
I needed to hear this. I am single but I am actually loving it. I have time to work on myself and do things I love.❤
Amen,Pastor Blakes...My best friend always trying to hook me up and I have to let her know that I am fine..I can't lie and say that I wouldn't mind being with someone..but I rather wait on the Lord,because of my past relationships .So now I focus more on my relationship with the lord and let him guide my steps to where he wants me.Thank u ,Pastor
You’re an Excellent Teacher!
I totally agree!!! Bishop is definitly an excellent teacher❤❤❤❤😊
Hi from Orlando, FL 🙋🏻♀️ Happy early Valentine’s everyone. 🙏🏼 🌹
Lord continue to bless this man and all he loves . You are such an amazing inspiration to me. Your message is helping me heal and I thank you from the bottom of my heart and thank Jesus for you.
❤ I am on 🔝 I am going higher. Father thank you for always pouring so much wisdom and discernment in Bishop RC Blakes in Jesus mighty name 🎉.
Everything he said is facts. this time last year I was so sad I journal everything so when I go back and read i'm really amazed how far I come. 2023 became my best year so far of me living i got close to God, let go of people I needed to let go, working on myself on a deeper level and enjoy my solitude and just kept gaining wisdom. This time valentines day I almost forgot it was valentines day my mom love holidays so she always reminds me but I don't feel sad or anything I feel good. But I still love this video and resonated with it as a 23 year old girl I truly feel like i'm on the right path I'm very mature for my age and desire to be a wife but i'm also very focused on me without a guy in my life this video just confirmed everything for me that I knew thank you!
Thank you RC Blakes, wishing everyone lots of love ❤️
Wow, to God be the glory! 😭🙌🏾💕 Pastor Blakes to you and Ms. Lisa, thank you. This was the video I needed to hear from a Father like figure all along and God led me to this video. The move of God is very evident in yours and Mrs. Blake’s life. Blessings, love, and protection to you and your family.
Man of God, I appreciate all of your messages. Whenever I feel tired of waiting and feeling desperate sometimes ,hearing you kinda kills the desire and the desperation that is in me . Since it's a long run, hearing your messages is like drinking water while running a marathon .❤❤❤
Im blessed. God bless you 🙏
AMEN!! THAT PART BISHOP!! OUR WORTH IS NOT LINKED TO A RELATIONSHIP🖐🏾🖐🏾REAL TRUTH FACTS💯💢💢💢
Absolutely the very best most healing and hopeful counsel that I have ever heard 🎯🎯🎯regarding the longings of the ❤.
You have amazing and original thoughts, ideas, and insight regarding this plight ,demonstrating profound depth and empathy backed by Scripture.
Also, you are hilarious, sometimes, in your descriptions of the forlorn woman ( sitting in a bathrobe with a gravy stain on it 😂😂!!) Laughter is the best medicine.
Thank you so much Pr Blakes ❤I enjoyed this discussion!! I like your delivery style and storytelling.
Finally got here in time, must be for me to hear this One?/!!! EXCITED!! HELLO ALL 😅
God will bring me my husband this week! Claim it ladies 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
It’s been a month. Has your husband come yet?
I. Died a bit listening to this message. I’m so appreciative of you. Thanks so much . I needed this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Keeping an open heart. Love does some wonderful things.
Say it Pastor RC Blakes, Thank you Jesus for this wonderful, truthful message.🤩😇
I can't wait for this premiere.For years now we have been blessed to have this ministry. I love the books that I've purchased from the ministry. I have some hard copies and I purchased the kindle book and the audio version of Pastor Blake's latest book on narcissism. I also went to his conference in Illinois before the Pandemic. We all can take some gems from every lesson that he teaches. ❤
This was so inspiring if I’m 80 then I’m elderly bride 👰♂️ n im happy if that’s what god sees for me
thank you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much🥰
Definitely needed to hear this message today. My worth is not tied to a relationship.
My worth is not tied to a relationship
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1. Your worth is not tied to a relationship. (Psalms 139:13)
2. Love has no expiration date. (1 Corinthians 13:7)
3. Learn to cultivate joy. (Philippians 4:12)
Pastor rapping the truth
LOL! He was. I laughed so hard.
Where
@Victoria-qc9vw ...Pastor is funny om this one! I laughed so hard. " The Message, Grandmaster Flash & The Furious Five. This is exactly how I feel about being single.
Praise the lord Pastor RC Blakes. You are soooooo right, I'll known that my worth wasn't tied to a relationship many, many years ago. I have been single for many years, but I also have been saved in Jesus in name for many years. And sadly I have seen so many people who have said that the lord told them that He was their husband. Well if that were so why in the name of Jesus are there so many divorces in the church world. I feel that people don't talk enough and unfortunately every one who confesses Jesus are not living worth nothing. Or marry for money, sex or some other reasons. 😪
Thank u for all you do for your spiritual daughters. We definitely need someone like you to keep us motivated and focused 🥺🙏🏾
Great respect to First Lady Lisa & Bishop RC💪🏼! Each message is super fire international flow! Schoolin' me in solid Biblical Wisdom! Holy Ghost Truth!🔥🔥💯💯🔥🔥🙏🏼🙏🏼
RC you have helped me love me much more than I could ever dream possible. I love what Lisa and you have. I pray more who listen to you realize they deserve no less.
Being Single doesn’t mean I am weak it means I am strong enough to wait on what I Deserve desire and require 💯💯
Bishop Blakes you are speaking directly to me and I’m going to apply this wisdom to my life! I really appreciate the knowledge that God gave you and how you share it with people like me .Thanks 🙏🏾🙏🏾
"God bless you my babies" was the sweetest thing to say at the end 😇
In my humble opinion... how can I say this. I dont need to be validated. It is everybody else who are married or really seeking to be. I hope that doesnt come off negative.
I am often reminded that since I am single, i must be thirsty or unworthy or invalid. To which I do not respond to. I cut the conversation as if I'm turning off water... but my feelings be hurt.
On the other hand... it's okay. I feel a song in my heart.
"This joy I have, the world didnt give it to me..."
That song cuts deep because it is a life lesson. I feel a stirring in my heart when I think about it. I am sure somebody knows what I am talking about.
Edit: thank you for a beautiful and timely message.
Also... i know that many people do not celebrate many holidays; but there IS Single's Day. 11-11. I thought that was nice.
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Bishop came in HOT with the bars 😅
Grand Rising Bishop & Lisa Blakes ❣️😊
Thank you,, Bishop and First Lady Lisa. 💖
This is perfect timing!! Priceless Word of God. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
It’s the title for me! We’re ready pastor!
Beeing single is a blessing... i prefer having no men problems lol... and stay calm and enjoying my life freely and happy , having lots of options.... i see it as a bless.❤
God bless you a thousand times, sir.
Being a successful single all day every day. learning how to bring the joy to self and to others. I had so much fun giving joy and excitement on this Valentine's Day at my job.
I am SOOOO grateful for RC Blake and this plug in. " My value and my worth are not tied to a relationship. I am a "wife" at all times including as a single woman. I am not weak. I am strong enough to wait for what I deserve. 🙏🏽✨️✨️✨️✨️
And i love this time for letting god unfold his plans. I. Sure are better than mine lol. I have so much time for meditation at nights and prayer... i dont carry frustration about any guy ... its so expansive to enjoy our identity and our friends.
Keep a open heart ❤️ and a open mind
I’m just here to read the comments, because I know they’re not going to disappoint.
This message came at the perfect time for me. Thank you Bishop..
Yessssssss!! If it happens Awesome, else I’ll still enjoy my Awesome life!!!
Thank you for being my spiritual father!!! 🙏🥰
Im so grateful to you for teaching me the things the men in my life never taught me. I see clearly now and the games are very transparent. Nice shirt Pastor R.C.💕
Hello Mr. Blakes, just want to let you know that you have a father-like voice and it’s doing something good for my soul. Keep up the good work brother!
Good evening Bishop and Lady Lisa 🙏🏽❤️🌹🙏🏽
Glory to God!
Love you! Thank you! My step daughter & I really needed this today! ❤
God bless you Bishop, thank you ❤❤
Amazing! Indeed, Queens dont need an unfulfilling relationship. No need for validation. You can be powerful and single 😌💪🌹
Praise God strong enough to sit and wait for what I deserve
Thank you RC and Lisa for changing the mindset of several women about relationships and marriage. I was a victim of abusive relationship but ever since I started listening to your teaching I have developed a different mindset about my worth and what I can tolerate in the name of marriage. I thank God for your teaching. May God continue to give you the grace and wisdom to educate and empower women. Please let me know how to join your cyber church. I live in California. Thank you
Thank you, RC Blakes. A great presentation. I am in my singleness at 60. I understand I am not weak because of it. I am just waiting on God. I love this podcast. I've listened to it three times. Ameen
Thank you, Pastor R.C. Blakes, Jr. for this message. I am truly grateful and appreciative that you thought to discuss the topic and for the timing of it. Thank you, so much, for caring!
My worth is not tied to a relationship. I am in self discovery.❤
Love has no expiration date !! ❤
I dont know how you just end up putting up videos of what I ACTUALLY NEED AT THE RIGHT TIME!!!!!! Back to back for thr last one month I joined your channel, you've delivered videos that have been speaking directly to my pain points currently!! I wish i met you earlier 😢
Please Never give up in your fine works, i wish i had enough funds to make the trip for this year, but hopefully i do eventually 🤦😩
I love this segment. If I could add to this, showing love to those that already love you. Friends, family, others who may be experiencing their own season of singleness. I showed love to all those in my life who love me this year and it has replenished tenfold. God is Good!
Much ❤ Self Love expressed
Never have to be Alone and Lonely!!!
Learning to b filled and content. U have to love yourself ❤.
Good Evening, this is exactly what I need to hear. Thank you for all you do.
Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for everything you shared to us about all the ladies. God bless you and your lovely wife Liza.