I just eecaped a narcissist recently. Only because I was asking many questions, I was letting him speak and was digging deeper. This can really save your life 🌹🌸🌹
Yes, I think many fail to realize is when we are young and depending on how you were raised, we were so busy being told what NOT to do than WHAT to do. We only learn most times “after” the lesson happens. Narcissistic people weren’t a thing or heard of even 20 years ago. Young women today have information right at their fingertips, I hope they use it wisely.
@oliveevergreen5401 Someone have told Stacey Knight Dennis about this before she started shacking up with Radcliffe White and giving him husband privileges in the "middle of the bed"!!!!
I met a guy about two weeks ago. We’d only talked on the phone. I went and found your video that you put out about about two months ago. I took extensive notes. I asked him those questions. He answered my questions PERFECTLY. I mean, he gave me in-depth answers. We had deep conversation while I asked those 10 questions. Well, last night I received a call. A member of his family saw my number in his phone. The family member called to tell me that he’s married. I am a 49 year old well educated, Christian and veteran. Now, the whole two weeks I was talking to him on the phone, I learned that he’s very intelligent, his father was a preacher and knows the word. He’s also a veteran and he said he’s a musician. He works in a forensic lab. My spider senses kept going off. However, I wasn’t hearing red flags. Those “spider senses” that I speak of was Holy Spirit. So, he wasn’t your regular run of the mill man. Yet, he still proved himself to be a liar. I was disappointed in him. Not devastated though. I was thankful that God found a way to make me realize that was his voice that I heard.
I don't know how you get your topics each day, but truth is you always speaking the right topic at the right time for me! When I had narcissists all around me, your videos gave me clarity and helped me swiftly escape those demons, now cleansed and about to sit into my queenly position, you come with Queen related videos! Again you are the daddy I didn't have., serving me food AT THE RIGHT TIME!! Please never give up on us!
The investigating thing is real! In Nigeria, if a girl wants to get married, her family goes into thorough investigation of the man’s family. They take as long as they can gather information. It could take months. The girls mother and father travels to the man’s hometown to gather information about him. The man’s family do likewise.. it does really go beyond hiring experts if need be.. 😂
I left an 18 yr long toxic narcissistic relationship last year. I loved him until it turned physically abusive, because I was asking questions. I eventually found out that he was another relationship with a very young lady for about a year and a half when I found out. That is when I realized that I deserve better!! I have not been happier since I left. It really was a blessing. Thank you God for showing me the truth and my path.
I was very young, sweet, and naive and didn’t know anything. I just found out 2 months ago I have been with a narcissist for 34 yrs. All this time I thought something was wrong with me, BUT GOD 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽♥️
I am so happy for you!!! I was married 30 years to a Covert Narcissist and I didn’t know what was going on. My ex husband was a ordained pastor , I have been free from his demonic strong hold for 6 years this month.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
RC and Lisa are the ones who taught me about the Birds and bee's. Thankful for them and thanks be to God for sharing their teachings. I have never felt like a Queen in my life. It feels wonderful to know I'm worth way more than I thought. 😢❤😂🎉
1) A queen will investigate before investing 2) A queen will shift her brain from less than to greater than 3) A queen ask Probing Questions 4) A queen understand his kindness/kind =character, mind set where he's going 5)
We should probably add .. if the support only comes after you get into a relationship (not before), then the likelihood is that he will not be consistent with it unless he knows that he is getting something out of it.
This message was so profound. I have learnt so much from you Bishop that has made me stop in my tracks and think before making the decision on who to marry. I feel so blessed. Thank you Sir. God continue to bless you and your family ❤❤
Speak Pastor, women don't know that we are a prize and a treasure. Men need us not other way round. We were made to help not to give ourselves freely to men. Thank you Pastor for helping women. May God give you more wisdom. 🙏
I listened the first time, and then I listened again. I still need to know how to ask the right questions. And honestly, having the courage to ask those questions.
Mil gracias Pastor Blakes por su tremenda enseñanzas de que es convertirse en un a mujer “Queen consciousness “. Usted Es un mandado del cielo para cada una de Las generaciones de mujeres que estamos restableciendo nuestra feminidad , amor propio, auto estima y valorizarnos sanando heridas del alma de nuestra infancia , limpiando nuestras emociones, encontrándonos a nosotras mismas así también trabajando el transgeneracional de nuestro linaje ancestral que no tuvo la oportunidad de tener Esta sabiduría para trabajarse internamente y por fin atraer a un hombre masculino, eso viene en camino para mi . Declarado Bendiciones a su casa y ministerio.❤
Your story about your mom reminded me of my mom and dad. When my mom got tired of a job my daddy say my momma would throw that purse over her shoulder and leave that job and my dad would always have her back. 😂 They been married for 51 years and counting. They always have each other back ❤ Thank you Bishop for your wisdom and knowledge we appreciate it 🙏 ❤
Peace & Salutations of Love! I am grateful for this invaluable collection of QUEENOLOGY courses. THANK YOU to RC Blakes, Lisa and the entire team collective! Tuning in and taking it all in!!! -- 1
RC Blakes always gives good teaching videos. I had a man told me recently that I have asked too many questions. It let me know all I need to know about him. These were normal questions to ask to properly vet the person. He also told me the women don't ask him the deep questions I asked him. He said many of them told him he was handsome. He was fine but not to where I will not vet you. Queens asks questions.
Thank You for Clarifying & Confirming! Sexual attraction is natural; HOWEVER a man trying to rush a woman to the bedroom, simply NO need to invest time investigating...he's Already given you A RED 🚩 👑❤
OooooOoooOh! You had me waving my arms like I was really in Church today, Bishop! I pray all the men watch this as well!!! What a word God has put upon your heart! Yes, yessss! Amen!❤❤❤
Women are so thirsty for love. I was once we there myself, and yes I did learn from the hard way. A broken heart and a broken spirit. I had to suffer the consequences, and I was so hurt...But God, reached down an touched me, walked me through the pain. Helped me to realize, my need for the Father, that loved me agape love...and human love is carnal(temporary)
I am from South Africa and mostly miss your lives😭 I learn so much from you and Lady Lisa! Thank you much for the Godly work you do and please don't stop. You are for sure the father I didn't have.💐
I love this Bishop Blakes : Lisa,and I sit at the restaurant many a time and fuss, but by the time dessert gets there we're laughing again". Now that for me as a listener is great insight and ministry. Thank you!!
Bang! Bang! Bang! RC this stuff is beyond brilliant. It is wisdom. It is direction to lead us/me to a fulfilling life. I married a brilliant, handsome Professor who was a Master manipulator. My life was emotional and mental torture. These 7 steps aim at what I didn't have and turn me in the direction of Blessed Life. Thank you for giving me a new direction of understanding and knowledge.
What would my life be without Rc Blakes?This particular video hit really deep!An eye -opener indeed!..Its funny how I kept on choosing the men he describes in this video!.. I now know better....no more mistakes hence forth!
Great topic. I ran into an old high-school crush on social media after years of searching for him. As soon as we started chatting he asked for my number ....but regardless of how i felt about him i still dont know him anymore. After looking thru his account I realized he was married with kids now. So I told him I didn't feel comfortable giving my number or even chatting anymore. He said he understood was but was definitely down for an affair , because he is "about to leave his wife" Boy bye. Investigate before you invest.
I just eecaped a narcissist recently. Only because I was asking many questions, I was letting him speak and was digging deeper. This can really save your life 🌹🌸🌹
Yes, I think many fail to realize is when we are young and depending on how you were raised, we were so busy being told what NOT to do than WHAT to do. We only learn most times “after” the lesson happens. Narcissistic people weren’t a thing or heard of even 20 years ago. Young women today have information right at their fingertips, I hope they use it wisely.
left a narcissist a yr ago...he had a stroke I went to care for him., God is Love..I have my place he has his..
Narcissists do not like to answer questions. I had one … key word: HAD 😉
Good for you
What are the questions I need to ask the narcissist?
Key Points:
1. Emotional Intelligence
2. Consistency & Reliability
3. Adaptability & Flexibility
4. Shared Values and Goals
5. Growth Mindset
6. Respect & Support
7. Effective Conflict Resolution
Skills
GREAT Notes POINTS
@@tamara-vm2mb YES DEFINITELY!!!!
Thanks a million for this!❤
Great Lesson and points to keep in my memory TANK as a check off list 💯🔥🙌🤔
🙌🏾‼️🎉❤️🚀💃🏽🥰👏🏽
When you learn to love and appreciate yourself, you're not desperate to keep company with someone else.
this 👆
@oliveevergreen5401 Someone have told Stacey Knight Dennis about this before she started shacking up with Radcliffe White and giving him husband privileges in the "middle of the bed"!!!!
I met a guy about two weeks ago. We’d only talked on the phone. I went and found your video that you put out about about two months ago. I took extensive notes. I asked him those questions. He answered my questions PERFECTLY. I mean, he gave me in-depth answers. We had deep conversation while I asked those 10 questions.
Well, last night I received a call. A member of his family saw my number in his phone. The family member called to tell me that he’s married.
I am a 49 year old well educated, Christian and veteran.
Now, the whole two weeks I was talking to him on the phone, I learned that he’s very intelligent, his father was a preacher and knows the word. He’s also a veteran and he said he’s a musician. He works in a forensic lab. My spider senses kept going off. However, I wasn’t hearing red flags. Those “spider senses” that I speak of was Holy Spirit.
So, he wasn’t your regular run of the mill man. Yet, he still proved himself to be a liar.
I was disappointed in him. Not devastated though. I was thankful that God found a way to make me realize that was his voice that I heard.
😮😮
Wow SIS, HALLELUJAH FOR THE HOLY GHOST...MY LORD🙌🔥🤔💯🥺🙂
Wow 😮
Did you ask him if he was married?
Holy holy wow! Just goes to show! Omygosh wow. Thank you for sharing. This is an important scenario you’ve shared. Yes, you were protected 😌😇
"You can't rush relationships!" Thanks Bishop Blakes, this teaching is so helpful.
@GStewart-ci7oj No, you can't!!!
My dad never taught me any of this. I thank God I'm able to pass this video on to my 23 year old daughter.
Your dad probably taught you what he knew. Can't teach what you don't know.
So glad that God knew we Really needed the Father in BISHOP RC Blakes . What Treasure of a KING!!!🔥💯😊
@@RobetteRodgers-dq2vlAmen Sis ♥️
And even keep these for future generations
didn’t realize how much your content would heal me over the past 2 years. thank you for sincerely wanting to love God’s children back to life.
My discerning spirit won't let me not see the truth.
Praise God's gift intuition
I am 65 years of age , just getting the wisdom I needed long time ago..
You are not alone.
THAT IS GOOD ❤
I am a senior and also getting the wisdom that I should have received before dating age, but it is never too late to learn better Amen!!!!
Amen , I believe in continually learning and Growing. It makes life much better😇
I Don't arrive here on the side of the planet🙂
I wish I had heard this wisdom along time ago I’m with you on this
“ a man respects whom he loves”🗣
I don't know how you get your topics each day, but truth is you always speaking the right topic at the right time for me! When I had narcissists all around me, your videos gave me clarity and helped me swiftly escape those demons, now cleansed and about to sit into my queenly position, you come with Queen related videos! Again you are the daddy I didn't have., serving me food AT THE RIGHT TIME!!
Please never give up on us!
Amen 🙏🏽
The investigating thing is real! In Nigeria, if a girl wants to get married, her family goes into thorough investigation of the man’s family. They take as long as they can gather information. It could take months. The girls mother and father travels to the man’s hometown to gather information about him. The man’s family do likewise.. it does really go beyond hiring experts if need be.. 😂
I’m from Ghana and this is also very real!
I left an 18 yr long toxic narcissistic relationship last year. I loved him until it turned physically abusive, because I was asking questions. I eventually found out that he was another relationship with a very young lady for about a year and a half when I found out. That is when I realized that I deserve better!! I have not been happier since I left. It really was a blessing. Thank you God for showing me the truth and my path.
Thank You Lord!
Queens question 👑
Blessings to you! Please get tested 🙏
Congratulations 👏🏿. So many go thru a revolving door before they finally leave especially w/ DV
I'm very proud of you as a fellow survivor. ❤ Amen 🙌🏼
I was very young, sweet, and naive and didn’t know anything. I just found out 2 months ago I have been with a narcissist for 34 yrs. All this time I thought something was wrong with me, BUT GOD 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽♥️
I am so happy for you!!! I was married 30 years to a Covert Narcissist and I didn’t know what was going on. My ex husband was a ordained pastor , I have been free from his demonic strong hold for 6 years this month.🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
I am happy for you as well! I bet you now know all about gaslighting. It's such a blessing when our eyes are opened.
RC and Lisa are the ones who taught me about the Birds and bee's. Thankful for them and thanks be to God for sharing their teachings. I have never felt like a Queen in my life. It feels wonderful to know I'm worth way more than I thought. 😢❤😂🎉
1) A queen will investigate before investing 2) A queen will shift her brain from less than to greater than 3) A queen ask Probing Questions 4) A queen understand his kindness/kind =character, mind set where he's going 5)
I am a CPS worker and we use probing. I started doing this even in my relationship, kids, life in general now.
I learned so much from Rc and Lisa ❤❤❤❤❤
"Consistency is the cornerstone of healthy and safe masculinity."
"Consistency is the heartbeat of trust."
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Preach!
Much needed teaching 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Pastor you are preaching better than we shouting!!!!! This is on point, pastor🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Blessings to everyone in Jesus Christ name.
And to you ❤
The private investigator is Holy Spirit…..
So true regarding a man being uncomfortable with expressing emotion...he will have a difficult time understanding yours❤
We should probably add .. if the support only comes after you get into a relationship (not before), then the likelihood is that he will not be consistent with it unless he knows that he is getting something out of it.
I adore your teachings!! I listen to you all the time !!
Man looks at the outer appearance, but God looks at the heart. ♥️
💝PASTOR BLAKES: My " WHOLE SOUL" is GRATEFUL for your WISDOM, and INSIGHT....❤❤❤
This message was so profound. I have learnt so much from you Bishop that has made me stop in my tracks and think before making the decision on who to marry. I feel so blessed. Thank you Sir. God continue to bless you and your family ❤❤
Pastor Blakes, you provide very good teaching that fathers should have given and should give to their daughters. Thank you!
I love your message and the way you deliver it 👏🏾
U are a gorgeous sixty! U & Lisa are beautiful ppl. I pray GOD continues to Bless y'all with all your needs met.
Teach it Pastor 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Speak Pastor, women don't know that we are a prize and a treasure. Men need us not other way round. We were made to help not to give ourselves freely to men. Thank you Pastor for helping women. May God give you more wisdom. 🙏
Love, love
Deep, thank you
Thanks Pastor. Great INFO. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
This is sooo good. Such great information to help our Queens
This is pure gold. I wish I knew this 20 years ago when I started dating.
Great wisdom as always! Thank you Papa Blakes!
Preach!!!!!!! And taking notes😊
Thanks!
May God continue to bless you sir
I listened the first time, and then I listened again. I still need to know how to ask the right questions. And honestly, having the courage to ask those questions.
Mil gracias Pastor Blakes por su tremenda enseñanzas de que es convertirse en un a mujer “Queen consciousness “. Usted Es un mandado del cielo para cada una de
Las generaciones de mujeres que estamos restableciendo nuestra feminidad , amor propio, auto estima y valorizarnos sanando heridas del alma de nuestra infancia , limpiando nuestras emociones, encontrándonos a nosotras mismas así también trabajando el transgeneracional de nuestro linaje ancestral que no tuvo la oportunidad de tener
Esta sabiduría para trabajarse internamente y por fin atraer a un hombre masculino, eso viene en camino para mi . Declarado Bendiciones a su casa y ministerio.❤
Claro, verdad❤
Your story about your mom reminded me of my mom and dad. When my mom got tired of a job my daddy say my momma would throw that purse over her shoulder and leave that job and my dad would always have her back. 😂 They been married for 51 years and counting. They always have each other back ❤ Thank you Bishop for your wisdom and knowledge we appreciate it 🙏 ❤
Peace & Salutations of Love! I am grateful for this invaluable collection of QUEENOLOGY courses. THANK YOU to RC Blakes, Lisa and the entire team collective! Tuning in and taking it all in!!! -- 1
Amen Pastor Blakes. I thank God for you and the wisdom that you’re giving us.
Thank you sir.. I am just a better woman, mother, and human all around because God created you. 🙏🏾
I was really blessed by this rc,thank you and keep them coming,may god continue to bless you and your marriage
Preach. I love talks the testimonys as well as discipline to the flock from not your words but that of the holy Spirit
Your preaching better than we are shouting ❤
Thank You Bishop!!!!
RC BLAKES always dropping jewels I love it thank you 🙏🏾 much love from Jersey ❤️❤️
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Tell the truth Bishop!
Teach Bishop RC Blakes, Teach!
Solid advice that is easily actionable. Thank you.
P.S. Pastor, you're looking svelte! IMPRESSIVE! Happy Birthday! 🔥🔥🔥💪🏽
RC Blakes always gives good teaching videos. I had a man told me recently that I have asked too many questions. It let me know all I need to know about him.
These were normal questions to ask to properly vet the person. He also told me the women don't ask him the deep questions I asked him. He said many of them told him he was handsome. He was fine but not to where I will not vet you. Queens asks questions.
❤❤Awesome Lesson, thanks ❤❤❤
Amen .. this is so needed for us. thank you
I'm listening 👂 whole heartedly ❤
Thank you so much for being open & honest about your own emotional intelligence. So helpful to hear
Bishop, we love you🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️!!
Consistency puts fear to rest!❤
Thank You for Clarifying & Confirming! Sexual attraction is natural; HOWEVER a man trying to rush a woman to the bedroom, simply NO need to invest time investigating...he's Already given you A RED 🚩 👑❤
Amen.Amen.
Thank you, Pastor! I really appreciate this lesson, I needed to hear this, I'm definitely getting back on track, learning to love myself more.
Yep 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
OooooOoooOh! You had me waving my arms like I was really in Church today, Bishop! I pray all the men watch this as well!!! What a word God has put upon your heart! Yes, yessss! Amen!❤❤❤
Thank you so much Bishop RC and First Lady! Continued blessings! 💖🙏🏽
This was excellent ! So helpful!! Thank you so much!!
Blessings to you and Lisa!!
Thank you, Bishop. I'm listening I receive it 🙌 ❤
Very clear and concise teaching. Thanks for the God filled word of knowledge
Women are so thirsty for love. I was once we there myself, and yes I did learn from the hard way. A broken heart and a broken spirit.
I had to suffer the consequences, and I was so hurt...But God, reached down an touched me, walked me through the pain. Helped me to realize, my need for the Father, that loved me agape love...and human love is carnal(temporary)
I am from South Africa and mostly miss your lives😭 I learn so much from you and Lady Lisa! Thank you much for the Godly work you do and please don't stop. You are for sure the father I didn't have.💐
Bishop you are Truly A GEM Love You and May GOD continue to Bless You Abundantly🙏🙏🙏
Good point 👩🏻🎓 consistent in moods & intentions
Thank you. Great information.
I love this Bishop Blakes : Lisa,and I sit at the restaurant many a time and fuss, but by the time dessert gets there we're laughing again". Now that for me as a listener is great insight and ministry. Thank you!!
Thank you for these learnings say a prayer for me .Amen
Thank you; you have been a blessing in my life. Much love to you and Lisa. God bless you both.
Oh how I wish I knew about you/your teachings 10/15 years ago. I am smarter now, but OH how I could have used this info then. 👍🏾💯
Pastor Blake's, thank you for this powerful truth, I learned this lesson the hard way. Pray women will take this lesson, and don't loose your time.
Hey Unc, there's a channel Simon Sinex that's uploading ALL of your videos.
I clicked on one thinking your were doing an interview
Yes, i saw it too
I was just about to say the samething
I saw it also.
I just ignore it
THANK U FOR EVERYTHING YALL DO!!!
Thank you pastor Rc BLakes this word was for me to GOd be the GLory. God Bless you you are a man of God
We are so blessed to have you! God bless you sir, this content is honestly life changing! Love from London!
Bang! Bang! Bang! RC this stuff is beyond brilliant. It is wisdom. It is direction to lead us/me to a fulfilling life. I married a brilliant, handsome Professor who was a Master manipulator. My life was emotional and mental torture. These 7 steps aim at what I didn't have and turn me in the direction of Blessed Life. Thank you for giving me a new direction of understanding and knowledge.
This was timely confirmation... Thank you 🙏🏾❤
Gratitude 🤲 Your Way.
Father God Make A Way For Me To ATTEND QUEENOLOGY IN ATL IN AUGUST 🙇🏾♀️🙏🏾🙇🏾♀️🥰🙌🏾
Thank you Bishop & Lady Blakes…EXCELLENT, POWERFUL & IMPACTFUL TEACHING👍🏽
Good evening everyone i.hope yall.had a bless day
I'm so glad you are touching on this topic Especially for the poor innocent children.
What would my life be without Rc Blakes?This particular video hit really deep!An eye -opener indeed!..Its funny how I kept on choosing the men he describes in this video!..
I now know better....no more mistakes hence forth!
Tremendous !! 🌈
Great topic.
I ran into an old high-school crush on social media after years of searching for him.
As soon as we started chatting he asked for my number ....but regardless of how i felt about him i still dont know him anymore.
After looking thru his account I realized he was married with kids now. So I told him I didn't feel comfortable giving my number or even chatting anymore.
He said he understood was but was definitely down for an affair , because he is "about to leave his wife"
Boy bye.
Investigate before you invest.
I've heard that line before. He was stunned when I told him, "let me know when everything is final."
Teach Bishop RC Blakes, Teach! I'm Listening!!! Amen 💯🎯‼️❤️
Bishop RC & First Lady, I love you both dearly! This teaching has hit me like a ton of bricks!
Amen ❤
Love this ❤❤
Yep, sure do 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Thank you Bishop Blakes., keep bringing us these Truths!! I definitely appreciate it and you!