"When the wife is ready, the husband will come". I completed a three years self journey, preparation, working on me inside-out and unexpectedly He showed up. I've been single for ten years, I'm 39 with two kids from my previous relationship. I never thought it would be possible to love or be loved again this way. 🙏🏾 This is my testimony ladies, work on you because God is working on him, for you.
I know this is what I needed to here. I guess I’m so bought up in missing certain aspects of a relationship. It has made it very hard to just focus on my self and my daughter. I miss having adult and deep conversations with someone I’m really into. I miss kissing someone, hugging someone, going to see a adult movie and not a child’s movie. Being a lonely is not fun. Being a lonely single mother is really not fun. I’m too busy with work, my education and helping my daughter to even focus on myself.
I’m a single mom and I never thought I would be alone for going on 7 years. I don’t know what I am supposed to start working on. My daughter keeps me busy. I barley have time to think. What were the first steps you took to work on yourself?
Thank you... it almost seems nowadays women are basing their value on getting a man. Just live you best life regardless. If he shows up great, if not just know you lived ❤️💯
@@JM-ip1es unfortunately, it's always been this way bc that used to be what made a women valuable in the eyes of society; being married and having children. Society's view has changed somewhat but I wouldn't say that it's been a huge shift.
@@erobinson3839 Try getting coaching from Tony or therapy. Often times we need things to be shown from another perspective. The truth hurts, but it will change your life.
So basically become the person you want to attract. While you're becoming that person build yourself mentally, physically, spiritually, & financially. Seek therapy and/or coaching if needed. Invest in yourself not just those labels you buy to try to cover up the pain. He will come when you least expect it. Happy New Year everybody! Here's to a New Year Better You! Be great! 💫🙏🏾😌❤
I married at 26 after together 7 years and divorced at 31. It was pure hell from beginning to end. An amazing man on paper, nice on the eyes, charming and some. He was NOT my husband from God, the lost and damaged girl in me (with help from satan) picked him. Tony and his wife bout the only example I have of a healthy marriage and I know because I did it the wrong way and every married couple I know are sadly miserable just like I was. To sum it up, I know being single gets lonely 😩 but the lonely is far better than the stress and depression from an undivined marriage.
I just had to end my engagement yesterday because my fiancé refused to give up smoking weed. He spends way too much money on bad habits that he could be using to pay bills. He has great qualities but I’m not sacrificing my life and allowing him to lead my household unless he cleans up his vices. It hurts but I love myself more. 💁🏾♀️
I found my husband came when my spirit was ready. This was when I personally didn’t want a husband. I genuinely just wanted to grow and know the things of God. My husband had to pursue me for over 12months because of how satisfied I was with myself and God
"Don't be jealous, be inspired" This really hit me. I was criticizing a celebrity's Instagram and realized I was just plain jealous of their beautiful home decor and designer clothing because I can't see myself ever having those things. The bible says don't compare yourselves to others for a good reason.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! " U ARE A BEAUTIFUL UNIQUE SOUL "!"WONDERFULLY MADE"!"AND " BLESSED "!" BY GOD ALMIGHTY! GLORY! GOD LOVES ! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! " DO WHAT MAKES U FEEL HAPPY AND LOVED! DO YR OWN THING! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
I won't chase, anymore, and I'm not bothered by being replaced. I prayed for a great, honorable, intelligent, faithful, loving, protective, providing "house-bond" and none of them were it. God's got better for me.
The key is trusting God, working on yourself, and getting prepared to be found by a good man. "When the wife is ready the husband will appear...Presentation, Mindset, Spiritual, Purpose"-Tony Gaskins👏👏👏
"You want prize treatment but you're not doing prize behaviors." ouch, ouch, a lot of hurtful truths here. Your words are so profound, thank you very much!!!
I think as women, we automatically think we're ready. Never really giving attention to the things in our lives we need to heal from before exposing a man to our insecurities and hang ups. Single means a whole....use that time to heal. Be made WHOLE!
I'm not interested in being in a relationship but I listen to these type of videos because I genuinely appreciate the advice. I've learned a lot by doing so.
I’ve cleaned up my mental and have grown so much with a lot of healing. Now I’m working on my body to loose 50 lbs by June with Eat Like a Bear and Keto, will work on learning how to dress myself in a classy way, I’ve always been a bit frumpy lol. I’m ready for the next level, for me 1st though!! Then the man will come if it be His will!!
For me, I used to be obese so when I smiled at a guy that I thought was cute, he would laugh at me or smirk at me. So it screwed up my self esteem so much, so now I am starting to learn again to look at people in the eyes. It's still hard after years of being made fun of for my weight. I lost a lot of weight and now I am borderline overweight/ healthy and men treat me much differently now. Now when they smile at me, I am thinking to myself why is he smiling at me. Until later I realized oh he was interested. My mind is screwed up right now to date , but I have been trying to meet men. I don't think anyone will see this comment, but at least I got to write it out. Lol
@Morgan Taylor aw thank you. I started it off with keto and slowly progressing my workout. Now I cardio and workout for 4 hours a week. A mix between cardio and strength training.
@Morgan Taylor I'd say it is, if it something you can stick with for the rest of your life. Try it out , and you can make tweaks to it, if it is not working out. I couldn't stick with full keto, so that's why I am now doing low carb.
I love how tactfully you told fat chicks and broke chicks to stop wanting in-shape men and men with their finances together until they're ready to match him in those areas. Kudos.
@Cylestine Andrews I hear you sis. I wasn't necessarily agreeing with him. I was just impressed with his tact. LOL. Sorry for not making that clear. I'm a plus size woman too and I agree with everything you've said!
Ladies, Tony is SO correct.💯 You have to focus on yourself, fully let go of the past, & make changes within (& outwardly). Basically, read 'Mrs. Right' & apply everything you read. I'm not even looking for a relationship right now, but because I have positive female energy & applied Tony's teachings, I've recently experienced men wanting to date me (quality men too!). Just keep doing the work, ladies. Your man will approach you when you least expect it.😉
Totally agree! When you take time to let God make you over inside out you will begin to turn heads and get noticed- this is proof you are in the right track to meeting your mate- its been happening to me too 🌈✝️👑
I used to pray all the time for an husband in my early twenties. I’m sooo thankful that GOD did not answer my prayer, but instead I gained ALOT of insight of myself. I believe it was because of him. I have humbled myself completely. I have been extremely transparent with myself by asking myself would I see myself as a prize, and at this moment, the answer is absolutely not, because I don’t love myself. I can honestly say though that I have been taking the right steps to get there. I’ve come a long way.
Omg!! Not hair style looking like viola Davis in the help!😂😂😂😂😂 I can't!!! This man tooo funny but this is real. Love the version of you that you are looking for in your husband ladies. Be blessed!! This was too good
Tony is speaking the truth ladies. Thanks partly to Tony Gaskins, I went through 9 months of working on myself mind, body, spirit and working on God’s timing! I released it and have just met someone who fits everything I’ve wanted so far and vice versa. It’s a good feeling when you follow your Intuition. Be patient and do the work while you’re waiting. Blessings to us all in the new year.
You are a blessing to so many women and men ! Your teachings have helped my relationship so much ! Keep glowing Tony Gaskins and thank you thank you thank you ! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I’m building a brand new me by praying and reading word, intermitted fasting and running on my new treadmill and listening to Tony talk for hours! After Tony I watch the makeup and skin beauty channels. Life is better Life is good! Thank you Tony! 🙏🏽 Happy 2021🎊🎉
Yes absolutely- we need to learn to be our best - above average and not mediocrity- God values us too much to settle- when i began to better my physical appearance with hair and makeup, losing weight you will start to get attention from the opposite sex- they may not be the one but those are signs you are progressing and growing because that was not happening 10 yrs ago ✝️🌈👑❤️
“ I believe in living. We only get one chance, you hear me?” YESSSSS Tony! It’s so motivational to see a black married couple living a luxurious lifestyle. I love it here🥂
Basically, what I'm learning from Tony is to become what I'm looking for. On that note.... Here's to a year of working on myself and being the best version of my self. The journey of "BECOMING" continues🙏🙏
TG, your wife is a woman after my own heart! As a Jamaican too, I'm not a fan of the locks, gold teeth, and shaved legs in a man. I like a man who is clean cut, and well-educated. Still waiting for him to find me. As a professional, with a MA, looks, and a decent body, hopefully he will find me, soon. I will not settle for less than the value I place on myself. Let's stay blessed.
KEEP GOD FIRST IN ALL THINGS! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! THAT'S THE KEY TO YR HEART! GOD LOVES US ALL! GOD BLESS US ALL! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!
Men definitely notice jealousy. I went to a business lunch once with one of my male clients. I have my own practice and I sometimes take my clients to lunch. The waitress who was serving us was an African-American lady likely around my age if not a few years younger. She had a defensive presence about her from the time we ordered to the time I brought out my card to pay the bill. I tried to ignore it so as not to ruin the lunch. At the end of the lunch, my client, who is an older white gentleman, looked at me and said matter of factly, “She doesn’t like you.” I was honestly embarrassed because I didn’t think he noticed our dynamic. When I pressed him about what he meant, he said, “I think she’s jealous of you.” In hindsight, I should have been more embarrassed for the waitress. Jealousy is not something that you can hide with a smile.
When women are concerned with wanting a man or husband, it shows how ungrounded in purpose she is, and how much more she needs to learn and love herself, first. When you are at your best, it radiates, your energy glows, and that's the flower who gets picked. You have to be at your best, already happy, whole and perfect (ie. the best version of you) in order to attract the best one for you. I don't want anyone prematurely and I'll enjoy being perfected, until that time comes.
Wow I am impressed by such wording 😘 Someone I know really needs to hear this! It may break their hearts to know the truth but it’s worth it to know the energy we all put out on ourselves. Some women just need a warm body next to them to make them feel beautiful and wanted all for the wrong reasons.
This is why we need you Tony. I know it sounds like common sense but I’ve literally never heard most things you say from anyone else. Learning & growing 🤍🕊💫
Tony u stepped so hard on me, I now have hammer toes.😂 But seriously, thank u for being so honest with us. I will be 59 in March, divorced in 2012, haven’t dated in 8yrs, haven’t been on my back(I know hard to believe) and a empty nester. Used my children as an excuse and now the last of my 4 graduated and moved to his dads, May 2020. I’m a God fearing, spiritual woman and truly believe that my Father is waiting on me to get into my purpose and get a healthy lifestyle. Because the brotha I want is exactly what I’m not doing or being. Continue being and doing what Jehovah God purposed for u to do. And on a side note, I absolutely love seeing u, ur wife and the kids living life!! It truly gives me hope that there is an empty nester, such as myself, my age and still has a zest for life. Yep, I pray he’s gonna come, but I have to get me there first☺️ BLESSINGS to u, ur beautiful wife and ur wonderful children! Sorry so long....❤️🙏🏽
It’s not hard to believe. I’m 53. My husband died in 2015. Haven’t dated and been off my back too. I am a Christian woman as well and my 19 year old daughter just left . Thanks Keely. I’m waiting on God too.
You still have to be strategic in love and put yourself in proximity of where your husband/high value man resides. As the women you still have to put in the feminine work as well!💯
No. If you adjust accordingly, your husband can find you anywhere. I've had men approach me while I was pumping gas at the gas station or shopping at the grocery store, out to dinner with my girlfriends or walking in the park. If a man is interested in what he sees, he will approach. I've been approached everywhere.
Thank you Tony! I'm a 16 year old girl and your videos truly help me so much, I was going to go off track today but after watching this I'm level headed and back on the right path! God bless you and your wife
Young lady you are going to be so far ahead with the wisdom you ate getting now. God bless you and keep listening to Tony. You are going to help so many people.😀
Healing yourself from past experiences, trauma and finding yourself who you were created to be is A MUST. When you meet that person( that’s YOU😉) God created you to be, and stay firmly in your stance with that belief, you will attract the one person God has for you. It’s a law of attraction, and it works every time and with everyone. You must do the inner healing daily, and move on from a mindset that keeps you in unhealthy place. Don’t ever forget who you were created to be ladies!✨✨✨
It's a simple thing of waiting on God. Stay close to Him. He'll tell you what to do to better yourself...mind, body and soul. It's all about His timing. Don't worry about all the other stuff....focus on God being your every thing.
Great call last night Tony. I had just posted about getting out of survival mentality and becoming the best version of ourselves and you confirmed it. I'm 42 and haven't married, totally single, no male friends... But, had I married before last year I would have totally been divorced. Blessings tribe 💯
Hey Reina!! I'm 43, never married and always worrying about that. As an introvert, it can literally be difficult to dress up and leave the house. Nevertheless, I have loved myself this past year more than any other year in my life, and the worrying is not so strong. It will happen, and I will be more ready than I could have ever been.
@@ButterCookie1984 thank you for commenting sis. I'll be 43 in three weeks 🥳 I'm ready and I'm going to continue becoming the best version of myself. I'm also an introvert and I don't go out much. I used to be lonely. I used to pray every holiday season that I'd have a husband for the next. I didn't do that this holiday. I just realized that as I was listening to Tony. He's coming....🙌🏿 All the best to you in this new year 🎉
I have listened to almost all of your videos, I truly have to say this has blessed me the most. If this video wasn’t for anyone it was truly for Me. God woke me up at 5am and told me “stop looking” and I seen the head line of your video, I laughed but after listening to everything I realized I need to re-evaluate what I am missing and afterwards learn to be patient and trust God’s timing. May God continue to bless you and your family thanks.
@ 17:03 you described me right now. God has me in protective custody. God gave me a dream about the man I was seeing and I could literally see in the dream that his heart was totally hardened towards me. Tony just put into words what God was showing me. Wow, thank you for being obedient to God and your purpose Tony! I just purchased one of your books last night!
The truth isn't too painful when you already have some self awareness and come into a space where constructive criticism from the right people, helps motivate the process of growth. We have to get out of our own way sometimes. I learned that lesson way too many times because of being hard headed and stubborn. Work in progress.
Yes 🙌 Agree ! Good summary. Observation & constructive guidance can be very beneficial. I feel This is generally what Tony Gaskin is offering in his videos. Although I find most people are afraid to offer their helpful opinions, observations and constructive guidance. Either they secretly want you to fail ! Therefore don’t want to offer helpful advice!! or they couldn’t possibly receive the same in return without being offended themselves…. or they may be afraid the person they say it to won’t be able to see the wisdom in the comments & become offended .
Tony confirmed everything for me in this video. I am in the processing of working on me. I was the girl that have not tapped into fashion and now I'm trying to correct and improve my style. Not just for a man but I realize when I dress up I feel more confident. I always needed that big sister figure. I know my presentation and my energy was not right. Thanks Tony I knew you were the real deal when i discovered your videos .
Hi Tony, I was the one that asked this question on the call lol! Thank you for the advice, I love all your content. Please keep making it for the young crowd and I look forward to the rest of the calls next week! God bless 💙💙💙
Some of us just have to be willing to to have the Rebecca spirit. Just serve him. Don't be a door mat, don't be manipulative, don't be fake, don't be selfish (anticipate something in return), don't lie, don't be a pushover or a victim, don't be treacherous.....just be kind. Be a woman of kindness. Dont talk to much, or demand anything. Just do it for your God. Represent him in the most best possible way. God is a king you are a daughter of a king. Behave in that manner. Be gentle, be kind and be of high quality. Not boisterous or condescending. Be the princess of your father and a queen for your soon to be king. Trust and believe he will know.
This HITS! The thoughts, trauma, the dressing that repels men, feeling vulnerable, the sign on the forehead, the refusing to sacrifice to become, the seeking of approval in the lazy complacent state. I truly have not been a ready wife. I believe that all you are saying is true.
This is very interesting post. I recall telling a guy that he needed to focus on himself instead getting into a relationship based on some unfortunate encounters he faced before we met. The saying is “you can’t be good to anyone else if you aint good to yourself”.
I healed so much, he came back showed he truly changed. Now on my low days he reminds me of how strong I am. And rebukes the spirit of going back. I.e my low times
You definitely don’t want to rush into nothing in these days in time. A lot of these men are not right. Hearing some of these talks with Tony makes me feel better with being single. Work on yourself and love will find you!
Tony don’t stop showing how God is blessing you and your family. I would not tell anyone about the blessings God had showered me and my family with either. 2021 I am letting it all out the bag. If anyone has a problem with how my husband , two sons and I are living ! They can take it up with God.
I'm so glad that you defined success. So many ppl equate monetary value, education etc to success. There are plenty of ppl that have the education, looks, and money yet are still single! The most important thing is to live and operate for God. God will give you vision and purpose not just for this side of eternity but the next.
I'm living for me ( loving me ) not for what the opinion of men have to say about me. Bc I can be 1000% to perfection cook, looks good, great personality, spiritual, mental, physical, emotional. It's a man out there that will still see downfall on that. So I'm done with caring about other people think of me. I love myself regardless.
Amen Tony! This is truth! I have been married twice. And now a guy that I dated at 18 wants to marry me. I never looked for a husband. I am 48 years old. I'm turning my mess into a message. Working on me so if I decide to say yes this time will be it. And I'm watching your videos which has truly blessed me and has inspired me to live my purpose. Just finished my Life Coaching Certification with your Academy. Thank you! The guy that I'm dating and wants to marry me we are working individually on ourselves and we are growing together. And I am continuing to get new knowledge. Thank you Tony!
I needed to hear this. I am going through so much right now and this video helped me focus on the areas that I can improve in. I don't want to take any shortcuts, I tried that. It's time to lock in.
Truth sets is free. Teach Tony!!! Looking inward, without shaming ourselves, self love, letting God heal the wounded heart from the last relationships or abuse/trauma from past. Heart vs Head. We must we will to change, surrendering our hearts to God. Stop Comparing, getting to know myself. Trusting God with my relationships.
I was on the call last night and Tony is on FIRE 🔥🔥🔥🔥 This message is SO dope!!!! He TEACHES. it was a SPIRITUAL block that was holding me back. It’s so strong but the work must be done! It will attract to you the same kindred spirit!! Amen & thank you Tony!
Tony, just wanted to say thank you for putting healthy advice about dating on TH-cam. There's a lot of TH-camrs who offer band-aid advice. For example, they'll say what to text a man who pulls away, or exactly how to rope an uninterested guy into a date. Those are short term solutions, and not very effective. Your advice is about how to live a healthy life and attracting healthy people to you. Dating and marriage is a result of living your life to the fullest. I'm still single, but I've made conscious choices to better myself and I feel much more optimistic and peaceful. I'm not going to stress over mind games, just live my life. The right guy will come along when we're both ready. And also thank you for normalizing chastity. I'm waiting until marriage and I'm glad there is a dating coach out there who thinks that is not only normal, but encouraged.
I appreciate you so much Tony. I’ve been binge watching all your videos. You’re my older brother in my head. God bless you and your beautiful wife. Thank you for your time and love to correct us and help us be better for whatever God has for us. Thank you, thank you.
I am so in love with this man! He is determined to get us together ladies! If it is the last thing he does on this earth, he is going to set us on the right path about these men!
I'm so glad for this video. Everyone tells me I'm too picky for wanting a man who cares about what he eats... Eating bad by choice, consistently is a deal breaker for me.
Love this topic! Tony really challenges us about ourselves and what we attract. We have to do the work about shifting our mindset and honestly, it really is uncomfortable because we have been conformed to blame others, not taking responsibility to do the work from the "inside out." The truth truly sets us free. Thank you Tony! God bless you and your family and success for 2021!
Hi Tony!!!! I got married last week! 💖 Thank you so much for your advice. I used a lot of your advice in my relationship. I also share your advice with my teenage daughter now. Thank you! I hope to be joining your mentor team!
Thank you for breaking down Gods word. I love how you stated that there was no mistake in it. I love it. Thank you for this perspective it is so beautiful.
I needed to hear this ☝️😹 sometimes I get so desperate and lonely but it’s okay. It’s my time to be alone and improve myself I know ❤️I have to be patient he will show up
Thank you Tony, I watch your videos alot and now I need to figure out what it is that I need to change or fix. I'm 50 years old, I work alot, maybe too much lol. I'm so tired that I just rather stay in the house even tho subconsciously I really want to be out there going for a walk or doing something. I've been cheated on by every guy I've dated and I have that mentality that all men are the same (liars and cheaters), but yet I do wish I was married to a man that will treat me like a a queen someone to grow old with. I'm not like most women that love to go to the mall and go shopping. I never have liked that. I have worked 2 to 3 jobs a day all my life and maybe I'm just burned out. Maybe the stress has changed me and men can see that. I don't know, I wish I could figure it out. This video seems like it was for me. I'm Hispanic with long black hair, I dress nice not flashy or trashy, like I said I'm 50 but I've been told I look as young as 28 lol great genes. I'm 5'3" tall, I'm a little heavier than I want to be. So I've lost 15 lbs. So far. I get hit on by a lot of men, but usually old men 70 + or 22 year Olds ( um no old guys for me and im not no cougar) I just want God to send me a decent guy. The problem is, I've just been hurt to much and really I'm stuck. Thank you for your advice. Happy New Year 2021 to you and your family!
A woman in PURPOSE won't be single for long!
Wow
Amen oui
Love you Latoya Okeia...I watch your video alot 😘
Very true!
That’s right
"When the wife is ready, the husband will come". I completed a three years self journey, preparation, working on me inside-out and unexpectedly He showed up. I've been single for ten years, I'm 39 with two kids from my previous relationship. I never thought it would be possible to love or be loved again this way. 🙏🏾 This is my testimony ladies, work on you because God is working on him, for you.
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I know this is what I needed to here. I guess I’m so bought up in missing certain aspects of a relationship. It has made it very hard to just focus on my self and my daughter. I miss having adult and deep conversations with someone I’m really into. I miss kissing someone, hugging someone, going to see a adult movie and not a child’s movie. Being a lonely is not fun. Being a lonely single mother is really not fun. I’m too busy with work, my education and helping my daughter to even focus on myself.
Thank you! I needed to hear that!!
I’m a single mom and I never thought I would be alone for going on 7 years. I don’t know what I am supposed to start working on. My daughter keeps me busy. I barley have time to think. What were the first steps you took to work on yourself?
this is beautiful thank you
I'm not looking for a HUSBAND. A HUSBAND is looking for me.
AMEN 🙏🏼 🙌🏼
Yes and Amen🙏🏾 !!!!
Ayee!!! That's it, sis!! That needs to be on a shirt.😊
Yaaaaas!!
Just be careful with that affirmation because somebody’s husband can and will come along. But I know what your trying to say.
Dont idolize having or meeting a husband , live in the purpose God has for you 💕
Thank you. I just saw a video on romantic idolatry. Good stuff.
Thank you... it almost seems nowadays women are basing their value on getting a man. Just live you best life regardless. If he shows up great, if not just know you lived ❤️💯
@@JM-ip1es Yes ma’am. We got to get in our purpose.
@@JM-ip1es unfortunately, it's always been this way bc that used to be what made a women valuable in the eyes of society; being married and having children. Society's view has changed somewhat but I wouldn't say that it's been a huge shift.
Exactly! We have to be responsible for our own happiness and fulfillment outside of a man.
“ You attract at your level. You have to become what you want to attract “.
Yes
YOUR On Point. I have to Become what I want to Attract? Warmest ALoha
That is true. But I try all the time. But it seems I attract married men, ppl with someone elsa. Im tired of it.
@@erobinson3839 Try getting coaching from Tony or therapy. Often times we need things to be shown from another perspective. The truth hurts, but it will change your life.
Charline Charleston. That’s really good. Thank you for your advice.
So basically become the person you want to attract. While you're becoming that person build yourself mentally, physically, spiritually, & financially. Seek therapy and/or coaching if needed. Invest in yourself not just those labels you buy to try to cover up the pain. He will come when you least expect it. Happy New Year everybody! Here's to a New Year Better You! Be great! 💫🙏🏾😌❤
Be GREAT! You are DESTINED TO BE GREAT! Yes yes yes! Stay blessed beautiful Angel!
“He will come when you least expect it”. This is absolutely true!!!
@@ClaraCouturexo Amen! Thank you Queen! 🙏🏾😌❤
@@alenkabkk yes! That's why we must focus on our journey.
@B Real facts! But it's never too late to change & be better for the next
I married at 26 after together 7 years and divorced at 31. It was pure hell from beginning to end. An amazing man on paper, nice on the eyes, charming and some. He was NOT my husband from God, the lost and damaged girl in me (with help from satan) picked him. Tony and his wife bout the only example I have of a healthy marriage and I know because I did it the wrong way and every married couple I know are sadly miserable just like I was. To sum it up, I know being single gets lonely 😩 but the lonely is far better than the stress and depression from an undivined marriage.
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THIS IS A LESSON. Thank you for sharing 🥰
I hope your next husband is the right one 🙏💜💙
Thank you for sharing
Your 100 percent right.
Tony cracks me up when he imitates a woman, the rolling of the eyes, the change in his voice, the beginning of a statement with "Oh" 😂😂😂
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Me too 😂😂
Yes! It's that "oh" that brings on the storm! 😂😂😂
Girl yes HILARIOUS 😂😂😂. I be saying it like him being silly lmaooo
I just had to end my engagement yesterday because my fiancé refused to give up smoking weed. He spends way too much money on bad habits that he could be using to pay bills. He has great qualities but I’m not sacrificing my life and allowing him to lead my household unless he cleans up his vices. It hurts but I love myself more. 💁🏾♀️
You dodged a bullet Sis well done 🌺
@@Rita-cy3qw For sure Sis
Well done. I waisted 13 years on a man that picked weed over our family
@@polisticyoga Ouch 😣
How are you doing now Sis?
I found my husband came when my spirit was ready.
This was when I personally didn’t want a husband. I genuinely just wanted to grow and know the things of God.
My husband had to pursue me for over 12months because of how satisfied I was with myself and God
The truth hurts before it heals. -TG
Amen ! Amen
Wow!!! Powerful
Amen! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! MAY2021
"Don't be jealous, be inspired" This really hit me. I was criticizing a celebrity's Instagram and realized I was just plain jealous of their beautiful home decor and designer clothing because I can't see myself ever having those things. The bible says don't compare yourselves to others for a good reason.
Amen I try not to compare myself to others either
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! " U ARE A BEAUTIFUL UNIQUE SOUL "!"WONDERFULLY MADE"!"AND " BLESSED "!" BY GOD ALMIGHTY! GLORY! GOD LOVES ! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! " DO WHAT MAKES U FEEL HAPPY AND LOVED! DO YR OWN THING! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
Much Respect for your honesty. Most of us would of never utter those words.
He will find you. Amen. So ladies keep taking care of yourself. Focus your attention on getting your life together. Pray , read your word and be open.
Amen! HALLELUJAH!
Hallelujah, I did that for three years, minding my own business one day and He just showed up.
@@reesimone9372 Look at God 🙌
Amen 🙏🏾
@@reesimone9372 oh Wauw i happy for you ❤We are Next ❤
“Even your somebody may require that you do a little more preparation than you’re doing.” TG
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
Be inspired. Go and Live!!! My Mother and Grandmother always said "stay ready". Leave the house as if you are going to meet "the one" everyday!😎😎😎
Honey say it louder so the women that wear pajamas and Bonnets to Walmart can hear you 🗣🗣🗣
Amen
@@goddessblack8787 lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
your so right the days that i was feeling sick and not dressed up i used to run into everyone . that's when i started dressing like i was going out .
@@goddessblack8787 😂😂😂
I won't chase, anymore, and I'm not bothered by being replaced. I prayed for a great, honorable, intelligent, faithful, loving, protective, providing "house-bond" and none of them were it. God's got better for me.
The key is trusting God, working on yourself, and getting prepared to be found by a good man. "When the wife is ready the husband will appear...Presentation, Mindset, Spiritual, Purpose"-Tony Gaskins👏👏👏
"You want prize treatment but you're not doing prize behaviors." ouch, ouch, a lot of hurtful truths here. Your words are so profound, thank you very much!!!
I think as women, we automatically think we're ready. Never really giving attention to the things in our lives we need to heal from before exposing a man to our insecurities and hang ups. Single means a whole....use that time to heal. Be made WHOLE!
i listen to tony everyday, it’s a lifestyle lol.
love from the Philippines 🇵🇭
Me too Girl I listen to him between both my jobs,on errands,workout,walking my dog,shopping,cooking,etc I don’t think I have missed a video yet
10000%
Perioood!
Same! Love from SouthWest Florida
Same!!! Love from Australia 🇦🇺
I'm not interested in being in a relationship but I listen to these type of videos because I genuinely appreciate the advice. I've learned a lot by doing so.
Me too
I’ve come to the realization of this as well!
Me too! Glad l am not the only one.
Yesss
I hear you. At my age ( 62), divorced X3, I would like steady companionship rather than a marriage but I love this advice.
Deleting dating apps now....
Same.
I did a couple of weeks ago
Yayyyyyy
You go girl!
I just did that too lol no more I get weird ass people no thank u
I’ve cleaned up my mental and have grown so much with a lot of healing. Now I’m working on my body to loose 50 lbs by June with Eat Like a Bear and Keto, will work on learning how to dress myself in a classy way, I’ve always been a bit frumpy lol. I’m ready for the next level, for me 1st though!! Then the man will come if it be His will!!
Rooting for you 😉
You got this. Working on my 3 Bs too
Thank you. It’s your time.
You got this! I’m sure you will do it before that 6 month mark! ❤️🙏🏽
Awesome wish you all the best Jennifer!
For me, I used to be obese so when I smiled at a guy that I thought was cute, he would laugh at me or smirk at me. So it screwed up my self esteem so much, so now I am starting to learn again to look at people in the eyes. It's still hard after years of being made fun of for my weight. I lost a lot of weight and now I am borderline overweight/ healthy and men treat me much differently now. Now when they smile at me, I am thinking to myself why is he smiling at me. Until later I realized oh he was interested. My mind is screwed up right now to date , but I have been trying to meet men.
I don't think anyone will see this comment, but at least I got to write it out. Lol
we saw the comment, you are cute sis, keep doing the inner work, get your self esteem up.
@Morgan Taylor aw thank you. I started it off with keto and slowly progressing my workout. Now I cardio and workout for 4 hours a week. A mix between cardio and strength training.
@Morgan Taylor I'd say it is, if it something you can stick with for the rest of your life. Try it out , and you can make tweaks to it, if it is not working out. I couldn't stick with full keto, so that's why I am now doing low carb.
Congrats on working on you!!
We see you!!! Keeping working on you and he will come.
8 months being single. Listening and growing 🌱
Keep the lessons coming TG
The people who dislike this video aren’t ready to work on themselves 🤷🏽♀️
Meanwhile..I'm back here listening for the 3rd or 4th time..🧐😏
why concern yourself with who disliked this and why....focus on the reason you came here instead. You don't know why they disliked it.
@@twintwo278 indeed
@@twintwo278 AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
Make 2021 the year you don't quit on yourself ❤️❤️❤️
I love coming to this channel, it shows that im not the only single woman out there watching videos like these.
Girl naw !! you ain’t the only one and I prefer tony over everybody because he’s a Christian and loves the lord lol
I love how tactfully you told fat chicks and broke chicks to stop wanting in-shape men and men with their finances together until they're ready to match him in those areas. Kudos.
@Cylestine Andrews I hear you sis. I wasn't necessarily agreeing with him. I was just impressed with his tact. LOL. Sorry for not making that clear. I'm a plus size woman too and I agree with everything you've said!
@@Neeks6.6 I love your response ☺️
Be blessed...If you want a butterfly you gotta be a butterfly.
Amen! Hallajuauh!!
Ladies, Tony is SO correct.💯 You have to focus on yourself, fully let go of the past, & make changes within (& outwardly). Basically, read 'Mrs. Right' & apply everything you read.
I'm not even looking for a relationship right now, but because I have positive female energy & applied Tony's teachings, I've recently experienced men wanting to date me (quality men too!). Just keep doing the work, ladies. Your man will approach you when you least expect it.😉
Totally agree! When you take time to let God make you over inside out you will begin to turn heads and get noticed- this is proof you are in the right track to meeting your mate- its been happening to me too 🌈✝️👑
Tony is 100000% correct!
I used to pray all the time for an husband in my early twenties. I’m sooo thankful that GOD did not answer my prayer, but instead I gained ALOT of insight of myself. I believe it was because of him. I have humbled myself completely. I have been extremely transparent with myself by asking myself would I see myself as a prize, and at this moment, the answer is absolutely not, because I don’t love myself. I can honestly say though that I have been taking the right steps to get there. I’ve come a long way.
@Alicia Woods Agree 100%.
Honestly, think about those men that you bypassed. Trust me you wouldn't have wanted any of those men that you were presented with in your 20's.
@@patricescott922 You are absolutely right. All of those guys were either an abuser or womanizer. It was never really my loss.
@@aliciawoods8925 God was protecting you all along and saving you for the right man.
@@patricescott922 Yes he was 🥰.
“You looking smart, you looking kind, you looking important.” 😂
Ahahahahahahhahahaha omggg I litterally spit my water out when he said thisss!
😂😂😂😂😭😭
I’m laughing so hard 😭😭
I’ll never understand why people refuse to try something new when what they’re doing isn’t working.
Self defeating patterns that sometimes stem from trauma. Have to do some healing then it takes practice.
Omg!! Not hair style looking like viola Davis in the help!😂😂😂😂😂 I can't!!! This man tooo funny but this is real. Love the version of you that you are looking for in your husband ladies. Be blessed!! This was too good
"Don't look like all you do is eat Thanksgiving dinner" 😂😂😂
I am just through for today...😂
Aahahahhaahahaha I am cryinggggg
But it’s my favorite holiday! ☹️
LOL 😜😜😜🤣🤣🤣♥️♥️♥️
He was talking to me 😭😭😭Cinnabon’s did me in
😂😂big back activities!
Are you approachable? That's a big deal for men because they fear rejection. What aura are you sending out?
Tony is speaking the truth ladies. Thanks partly to Tony Gaskins, I went through 9 months of working on myself mind, body, spirit and working on God’s timing! I released it and have just met someone who fits everything I’ve wanted so far and vice versa. It’s a good feeling when you follow your Intuition. Be patient and do the work while you’re waiting. Blessings to us all in the new year.
You are a blessing to so many women and men ! Your teachings have helped my relationship so much ! Keep glowing Tony Gaskins and thank you thank you thank you ! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I’m building a brand new me by praying and reading word, intermitted fasting and running on my new treadmill and listening to Tony talk for hours! After Tony I watch the makeup and skin beauty channels. Life is better Life is good! Thank you Tony! 🙏🏽 Happy 2021🎊🎉
Yes absolutely- we need to learn to be our best - above average and not mediocrity- God values us too much to settle- when i began to better my physical appearance with hair and makeup, losing weight you will start to get attention from the opposite sex- they may not be the one but those are signs you are progressing and growing because that was not happening 10 yrs ago ✝️🌈👑❤️
@@overcomerbtboj Amen!!
Energy, presentation and timing are the key factors in meeting ppl.
“ I believe in living. We only get one chance, you hear me?” YESSSSS Tony! It’s so motivational to see a black married couple living a luxurious lifestyle. I love it here🥂
♥️♥️
Tony’s wife isn’t black though right?
@@fitnessen2860 Yes, she is a black woman.
Basically, what I'm learning from Tony is to become what I'm looking for. On that note.... Here's to a year of working on myself and being the best version of my self. The journey of "BECOMING" continues🙏🙏
TG, your wife is a woman after my own heart! As a Jamaican too, I'm not a fan of the locks, gold teeth, and shaved legs in a man. I like a man who is clean cut, and well-educated. Still waiting for him to find me. As a professional, with a MA, looks, and a decent body, hopefully he will find me, soon. I will not settle for less than the value I place on myself. Let's stay blessed.
KEEP GOD FIRST IN ALL THINGS! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! THAT'S THE KEY TO YR HEART! GOD LOVES US ALL! GOD BLESS US ALL! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL SEE US THRU! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! PEACE AND HARMONY FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!
Men definitely notice jealousy. I went to a business lunch once with one of my male clients. I have my own practice and I sometimes take my clients to lunch. The waitress who was serving us was an African-American lady likely around my age if not a few years younger. She had a defensive presence about her from the time we ordered to the time I brought out my card to pay the bill. I tried to ignore it so as not to ruin the lunch. At the end of the lunch, my client, who is an older white gentleman, looked at me and said matter of factly, “She doesn’t like you.” I was honestly embarrassed because I didn’t think he noticed our dynamic. When I pressed him about what he meant, he said, “I think she’s jealous of you.” In hindsight, I should have been more embarrassed for the waitress. Jealousy is not something that you can hide with a smile.
It amazing to me how someone you don't know can be jealous/ intimidated by you
@@sophisticatedmm3632 it’s the most common thing really. Everyone has at one point felt intimidated by someone mainly because of insecurities
I don’t need TV, this is pure entertainment 😭
Yes lol I am cracking up. Love this guy❤️
When women are concerned with wanting a man or husband, it shows how ungrounded in purpose she is, and how much more she needs to learn and love herself, first. When you are at your best, it radiates, your energy glows, and that's the flower who gets picked. You have to be at your best, already happy, whole and perfect (ie. the best version of you) in order to attract the best one for you. I don't want anyone prematurely and I'll enjoy being perfected, until that time comes.
Beautifully said! 🙌🏾
This is beautiful. Thank you.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
Wow I am impressed by such wording 😘 Someone I know really needs to hear this! It may break their hearts to know the truth but it’s worth it to know the energy we all put out on ourselves. Some women just need a warm body next to them to make them feel beautiful and wanted all for the wrong reasons.
@@supermommy2717 thank you!
" with the situation that God gave you"....tony has a way of telling us
This is why we need you Tony. I know it sounds like common sense but I’ve literally never heard most things you say from anyone else. Learning & growing 🤍🕊💫
Tony u stepped so hard on me, I now have hammer toes.😂 But seriously, thank u for being so honest with us. I will be 59 in March, divorced in 2012, haven’t dated in 8yrs, haven’t been on my back(I know hard to believe) and a empty nester. Used my children as an excuse and now the last of my 4 graduated and moved to his dads, May 2020. I’m a God fearing, spiritual woman and truly believe that my Father is waiting on me to get into my purpose and get a healthy lifestyle. Because the brotha I want is exactly what I’m not doing or being. Continue being and doing what Jehovah God purposed for u to do. And on a side note, I absolutely love seeing u, ur wife and the kids living life!! It truly gives me hope that there is an empty nester, such as myself, my age and still has a zest for life. Yep, I pray he’s gonna come, but I have to get me there first☺️ BLESSINGS to u, ur beautiful wife and ur wonderful children! Sorry so long....❤️🙏🏽
It’s not hard to believe. I’m 53. My husband died in 2015. Haven’t dated and been off my back too. I am a Christian woman as well and my 19 year old daughter just left . Thanks Keely. I’m waiting on God too.
59 😳😳Girl u look great I hope I look like you at 59
Wow, you look amazing! From your profile picture you look like you’re in your 30s!
You just told me about me. Thank you. I have to become what I want to attract.
@@cindeed4422 INDEED!🙏🏽❤️
You still have to be strategic in love and put yourself in proximity of where your husband/high value man resides. As the women you still have to put in the feminine work as well!💯
No. If you adjust accordingly, your husband can find you anywhere. I've had men approach me while I was pumping gas at the gas station or shopping at the grocery store, out to dinner with my girlfriends or walking in the park. If a man is interested in what he sees, he will approach. I've been approached everywhere.
“The Help” reference sent me 😭 Tony why are you like this 😂😂
Gurl! I hollered😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣!!
Took me out!!!!!! 😂🤣😂🤣💀💀💀💀
😩😩😩”you is smart, you is kind , you is important “ 😩😩😩😂😂😂
Hilarious 😂😂😂😂
@@SixFootofFitness I cackled 😂😂😂
Thank you Tony! I'm a 16 year old girl and your videos truly help me so much, I was going to go off track today but after watching this I'm level headed and back on the right path! God bless you and your wife
Young lady you are going to be so far ahead with the wisdom you ate getting now. God bless you and keep listening to Tony. You are going to help so many people.😀
Keep it up.
Healing yourself from past experiences, trauma and finding yourself who you were created to be is A MUST. When you meet that person( that’s YOU😉) God created you to be, and stay firmly in your stance with that belief, you will attract the one person God has for you. It’s a law of attraction, and it works every time and with everyone. You must do the inner healing daily, and move on from a mindset that keeps you in unhealthy place. Don’t ever forget who you were created to be ladies!✨✨✨
When the wife is ready, the husband will appear. Love that.
It's a simple thing of waiting on God. Stay close to Him. He'll tell you what to do to better yourself...mind, body and soul. It's all about His timing. Don't worry about all the other stuff....focus on God being your every thing.
Great call last night Tony. I had just posted about getting out of survival mentality and becoming the best version of ourselves and you confirmed it.
I'm 42 and haven't married, totally single, no male friends... But, had I married before last year I would have totally been divorced.
Blessings tribe 💯
Hey Reina!! I'm 43, never married and always worrying about that. As an introvert, it can literally be difficult to dress up and leave the house. Nevertheless, I have loved myself this past year more than any other year in my life, and the worrying is not so strong. It will happen, and I will be more ready than I could have ever been.
@@ButterCookie1984 thank you for commenting sis. I'll be 43 in three weeks 🥳 I'm ready and I'm going to continue becoming the best version of myself. I'm also an introvert and I don't go out much. I used to be lonely. I used to pray every holiday season that I'd have a husband for the next. I didn't do that this holiday. I just realized that as I was listening to Tony.
He's coming....🙌🏿
All the best to you in this new year 🎉
@@reinaquisha9418 Same to you!!💜💜👍
Amen! God has a plan for your life! Jeremiah 29:11 Happy New Year! @@ButterCookie1984
@@ButterCookie1984 ❤️
Tony is saving lives out here. Thank you brother. We are listening.
Amen ! I know for sure I’m listening & learning 😊
Invest in yourself. That is what I am hearing
Exactly! 👍🏾
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JUNE2021
I want you to know Tony I really appreciate these TH-cam videos
because you could be charging for all this wisdom..thank you so much God bless you!
I hollered at that entire “The help” scenario.
Yessss! I had to replay that part. He is hilarious 🤣
I had to rewind that back lol
Right 😂what women walking around like that though , I don’t see none
I have listened to almost all of your videos, I truly have to say this has blessed me the most. If this video wasn’t for anyone it was truly for Me. God woke me up at 5am and told me “stop looking” and I seen the head line of your video, I laughed but after listening to everything I realized I need to re-evaluate what I am missing and afterwards learn to be patient and trust God’s timing. May God continue to bless you and your family thanks.
Ladies, become what you want to attract. Yes, that hit me.
I need to keep putting in work. Thanks, Tony.
@ 17:03 you described me right now. God has me in protective custody. God gave me a dream about the man I was seeing and I could literally see in the dream that his heart was totally hardened towards me. Tony just put into words what God was showing me. Wow, thank you for being obedient to God and your purpose Tony! I just purchased one of your books last night!
The truth isn't too painful when you already have some self awareness and come into a space where constructive criticism from the right people, helps motivate the process of growth. We have to get out of our own way sometimes. I learned that lesson way too many times because of being hard headed and stubborn. Work in progress.
Yes 🙌 Agree ! Good summary. Observation & constructive guidance can be very beneficial. I feel This is generally what Tony Gaskin is offering in his videos. Although I find most people are afraid to offer their helpful opinions, observations and constructive guidance. Either they secretly want you to fail ! Therefore don’t want to offer helpful advice!! or they couldn’t possibly receive the same in return without being offended themselves…. or they may be afraid the person they say it to won’t be able to see the wisdom in the comments & become offended .
Hi Tony met a wonderful man he treats me like a Queen l dont have to ask him for anything they good men out there
Tony confirmed everything for me in this video. I am in the processing of working on me. I was the girl that have not tapped into fashion and now I'm trying to correct and improve my style. Not just for a man but I realize when I dress up I feel more confident. I always needed that big sister figure. I know my presentation and my energy was not right. Thanks Tony I knew you were the real deal when i discovered your videos .
Hi Tony, I was the one that asked this question on the call lol! Thank you for the advice, I love all your content. Please keep making it for the young crowd and I look forward to the rest of the calls next week! God bless 💙💙💙
I was on the call also. I really enjoyed the Q&A. Thanks for asking this question. Be still and wait on God. God bless you 🙏🏾
This message is exactly what God has been dealing with me on.
Tony you are so right..We have to be prepared when our husband appears..I'm working on me!
Some of us just have to be willing to to have the Rebecca spirit. Just serve him. Don't be a door mat, don't be manipulative, don't be fake, don't be selfish (anticipate something in return), don't lie, don't be a pushover or a victim, don't be treacherous.....just be kind. Be a woman of kindness. Dont talk to much, or demand anything. Just do it for your God. Represent him in the most best possible way. God is a king you are a daughter of a king. Behave in that manner. Be gentle, be kind and be of high quality. Not boisterous or condescending. Be the princess of your father and a queen for your soon to be king.
Trust and believe he will know.
Mr. Gaskins, you're an amazing gentleman!! I discovered your channel about 3 months ago. Thanks for enriching my life.
Amen
boy you be having me crying laughing frrrr. i love the message with a little humor man. not the viola davis tight curls lmaooo
I’m sorry but I lost it at the part where he stated ‘you is smart, you is important’ 😅😂😂
This HITS! The thoughts, trauma, the dressing that repels men, feeling vulnerable, the sign on the forehead, the refusing to sacrifice to become, the seeking of approval in the lazy complacent state.
I truly have not been a ready wife. I believe that all you are saying is true.
This is very interesting post. I recall telling a guy that he needed to focus on himself instead getting into a relationship based on some unfortunate encounters he faced before we met. The saying is “you can’t be good to anyone else if you aint good to yourself”.
🙌🏽Do the work, prepare and be ready to be Ruth to Boaz, got it👍🏾
I healed so much, he came back showed he truly changed. Now on my low days he reminds me of how strong I am. And rebukes the spirit of going back. I.e my low times
"You dress like a stripper on her break" 😂 well damn...
You definitely don’t want to rush into nothing in these days in time. A lot of these men are not right. Hearing some of these talks with Tony makes me feel better with being single. Work on yourself and love will find you!
hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me WhatsApp me let's chat better.
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It wasn't painful lesson, but a blessing.
Tony don’t stop showing how God is blessing you and your family. I would not tell anyone about the blessings God had showered me and my family with either. 2021 I am letting it all out the bag.
If anyone has a problem with how my husband , two sons and I are living ! They can take it up with God.
I'm so glad that you defined success. So many ppl equate monetary value, education etc to success. There are plenty of ppl that have the education, looks, and money yet are still single! The most important thing is to live and operate for God. God will give you vision and purpose not just for this side of eternity but the next.
When he slang that “purse” I lose it every time 😂😂😂
I'm living for me ( loving me ) not for what the opinion of men have to say about me. Bc I can be 1000% to perfection cook, looks good, great personality, spiritual, mental, physical, emotional. It's a man out there that will still see downfall on that. So I'm done with caring about other people think of me. I love myself regardless.
Amen Tony! This is truth! I have been married twice. And now a guy that I dated at 18 wants to marry me. I never looked for a husband. I am 48 years old. I'm turning my mess into a message. Working on me so if I decide to say yes this time will be it. And I'm watching your videos which has truly blessed me and has inspired me to live my purpose. Just finished my Life Coaching Certification with your Academy. Thank you! The guy that I'm dating and wants to marry me we are working individually on ourselves and we are growing together. And I am continuing to get new knowledge. Thank you Tony!
I needed to hear this. I am going through so much right now and this video helped me focus on the areas that I can improve in. I don't want to take any shortcuts, I tried that. It's time to lock in.
Truth sets is free. Teach Tony!!! Looking inward, without shaming ourselves, self love, letting God heal the wounded heart from the last relationships or abuse/trauma from past. Heart vs Head. We must we will to change, surrendering our hearts to God. Stop Comparing, getting to know myself. Trusting God with my relationships.
Amen Tony 🙏🏾. You are such a blessing🙌. Love the raw truth.
The hairstyle that Viola Davis wore in the movie The Help. Omg! I'm hollering😂😂😂
I was on the call last night and Tony is on FIRE 🔥🔥🔥🔥 This message is SO dope!!!! He TEACHES. it was a SPIRITUAL block that was holding me back. It’s so strong but the work must be done! It will attract to you the same kindred spirit!! Amen & thank you Tony!
How were you able to identify your blockage was spiritual?
Tony, just wanted to say thank you for putting healthy advice about dating on TH-cam. There's a lot of TH-camrs who offer band-aid advice. For example, they'll say what to text a man who pulls away, or exactly how to rope an uninterested guy into a date. Those are short term solutions, and not very effective. Your advice is about how to live a healthy life and attracting healthy people to you. Dating and marriage is a result of living your life to the fullest. I'm still single, but I've made conscious choices to better myself and I feel much more optimistic and peaceful. I'm not going to stress over mind games, just live my life. The right guy will come along when we're both ready. And also thank you for normalizing chastity. I'm waiting until marriage and I'm glad there is a dating coach out there who thinks that is not only normal, but encouraged.
I appreciate you so much Tony. I’ve been binge watching all your videos. You’re my older brother in my head. God bless you and your beautiful wife. Thank you for your time and love to correct us and help us be better for whatever God has for us. Thank you, thank you.
I am so in love with this man! He is determined to get us together ladies! If it is the last thing he does on this earth, he is going to set us on the right path about these men!
I'm so glad for this video. Everyone tells me I'm too picky for wanting a man who cares about what he eats... Eating bad by choice, consistently is a deal breaker for me.
Love this topic! Tony really challenges us about ourselves and what we attract. We have to do the work about shifting our mindset and honestly, it really is uncomfortable because we have been conformed to blame others, not taking responsibility to do the work from the "inside out." The truth truly sets us free. Thank you Tony! God bless you and your family and success for 2021!
Hi Tony!!!! I got married last week! 💖 Thank you so much for your advice. I used a lot of your advice in my relationship. I also share your advice with my teenage daughter now. Thank you! I hope to be joining your mentor team!
Tony is back!!!!!!
Thank you for breaking down Gods word. I love how you stated that there was no mistake in it. I love it. Thank you for this perspective it is so beautiful.
I needed to hear this ☝️😹 sometimes I get so desperate and lonely but it’s okay. It’s my time to be alone and improve myself I know ❤️I have to be patient he will show up
Thank you Tony, I watch your videos alot and now I need to figure out what it is that I need to change or fix. I'm 50 years old, I work alot, maybe too much lol. I'm so tired that I just rather stay in the house even tho subconsciously I really want to be out there going for a walk or doing something. I've been cheated on by every guy I've dated and I have that mentality that all men are the same (liars and cheaters), but yet I do wish I was married to a man that will treat me like a a queen someone to grow old with. I'm not like most women that love to go to the mall and go shopping. I never have liked that. I have worked 2 to 3 jobs a day all my life and maybe I'm just burned out. Maybe the stress has changed me and men can see that. I don't know, I wish I could figure it out. This video seems like it was for me. I'm Hispanic with long black hair, I dress nice not flashy or trashy, like I said I'm 50 but I've been told I look as young as 28 lol great genes. I'm 5'3" tall, I'm a little heavier than I want to be. So I've lost 15 lbs. So far. I get hit on by a lot of men, but usually old men 70 + or 22 year Olds ( um no old guys for me and im not no cougar) I just want God to send me a decent guy. The problem is, I've just been hurt to much and really I'm stuck. Thank you for your advice. Happy New Year 2021 to you and your family!