Things that push a Good Man away?

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  • @mntw6062
    @mntw6062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +875

    I’d rather be slapped by the TRUTH, then kissed by a LIE. 😘

    • @CaramelKissez
      @CaramelKissez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      100%

    • @sheilaverdell1370
      @sheilaverdell1370 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      'Nice' comment Ms. Mtim

    • @Angel-tv5lq
      @Angel-tv5lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Never a truer word spoken 🙌🏼

    • @Unique-ds3bo
      @Unique-ds3bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wowww!! Yesss, Aman youu spoke nothing but the TRUTH!!!! 😊🙏🏽

    • @montricec8795
      @montricec8795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

  • @syneetrawilliams3165
    @syneetrawilliams3165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +327

    A man approached me two weeks ago to date. He said he wants to get married at some point and wants to abstain from sex until marriage. He's an alpha male. He's consistent and truthful. I let him talk the most and take the lead. I'm really enjoying getting to know him.

    • @elizabethlake4665
      @elizabethlake4665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      That’s great news! Please post updates! Excited to hear because this gives me hope!

    • @gogetter7978
      @gogetter7978 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I want to know how this goes. I am in my forties and an empty nester. I want to meet a guy just like you have described.

    • @godschild8953
      @godschild8953 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Congrats sis! Plz keep us updated

    • @ebonysharee
      @ebonysharee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      awww I hope it works out for you

    • @colleenrainbowblack8762
      @colleenrainbowblack8762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Red flag!!!!!How long have you known this guy? Usually if you've just met and they are talking soulmate or getting married...RUN...RUN...AND KEEP RUNNING!!!!!!!!!!

  • @missbee201
    @missbee201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    1. Nagging
    2. Insecurity
    3.Yelling and Cursing
    4. Excessive Alcohol Consumption and/or Drug Use
    5. Negativity and Doubting

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    It's a complete turn off for a man that curses & smokes weed.

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree 100%💛✌🇱🇷

    • @jeannetteurena1223
      @jeannetteurena1223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Also, smoking cigarettes, yuck 😝

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@jeannetteurena1223 yes I agree, nasty and stinky breath.💛✌🇱🇷

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Women too. I have heard women curse like sailors. I was like no ma'am. Lol.

    • @amiralove342
      @amiralove342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      YESS ABSOLUTELY!! And it’s really hard to find someone that doesn’t do that because that’s all they do nowadays.

  • @lifeafterdeath48
    @lifeafterdeath48 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Remember this!! It takes a strong woman to walk away from a toxic relationship, and a weak woman to stay in it. Which one are you? When you refuse to lie down and die after a bad relationship.....YOU LIVE!

    • @lifeafterdeath48
      @lifeafterdeath48 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eternity With Christ I am so sorry that you went through that! I pray that the strength that God gives you keep you out. God loves you and He did not put you here to be a doormat. You are a survivor!!! Stay strong in Christ Jesus. God bless you!!!!❤️❤️🙏

    • @jeannetempest9127
      @jeannetempest9127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I walked away from 8 year toxic relationship. I was in it because I had kids with him, I just wanted for my kids tp have a father and full family but when I got pregnant I admit that I cried a lot because I realised that my hesitation and fear of not finding other person for me made me choose a wrong person. In those 8 years I wanted to go out from relationship so many times because he sabotaged my dreams, I had to sacrifice a lot and had 3 kids coz I had problems with pill effectiveness and my sisters and friends said to try to fix things. My sister still says we can make up in the future and I say I never were happier. Better be single, struggle but happy ^^ I will have an audience for a domestic violence too

  • @DynamicallyDC
    @DynamicallyDC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    "A good man wants a woman who has self love and not self hate!!" 🙌🏽☑

  • @lynnjones7695
    @lynnjones7695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Idk who God has for me, I been single a long time now but I still have faith & I know he’ll show up...

  • @tejuanahardison7516
    @tejuanahardison7516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    I have been told that my mouth is a turn off in terms of me speaking recklessly as well as using profanity so I am aware that i HAVE to stop cursing and I need to be more respectful. Thank you Tony

    • @saetae9208
      @saetae9208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's very honest. Thank you

    • @brick_housedee6711
      @brick_housedee6711 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good to know that you can acknowledge this not many would very proud of you 😊

    • @gogoldiego
      @gogoldiego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You don't need vulgar language. Your beauty is to powerful for that, it devalues your natural beauty. To acknowledge that is power, that's a great characteristic to have.💛✌🇱🇷

    • @kingdom4610
      @kingdom4610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      See: Meditation on Google. It really helped me become a better person.

    • @ohhstoopiesbark8259
      @ohhstoopiesbark8259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At least u recognize your faults tho shawty. .

  • @Here4theComments_
    @Here4theComments_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    It really does boil down to the 3 B's, being abstinent, having solid standards, knowing your deal breakers and sticking to them 100% of the time while dating. If we do this, we won't be sticking around nagging and being insecure when they start testing us with games. We will just silently exit stage left.... We have to know our worth. We have to know we deserve respect. We have to stop operating in fear and desperation and instead operate in power and positivity. We are worth THE BEST treatment ladies!!! If they can't handle that, we must stop giving them our time and energy and invest in caring for ourselves. Be blessed Tony!!...

  • @ky184
    @ky184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    Can somebody please tell Uncle Tony that us women do not suck our teeth and go “Ooohhh” every time we’re about to say something!!!!! 😂 I crack up every single time!!!! LOL 😂

    • @aishacansler8183
      @aishacansler8183 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He is waaaaay hilarious. I laugh hard every single time.

    • @ky184
      @ky184 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aisha Cansler Every single time! I cannot wait until his live tonight! Always a good vibe!! He’s funny without even trying which makes it all so much funnier, “you hear me” !??! 👈🏾in his voice of course 😂

    • @angitee1956
      @angitee1956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My cousin from the South would speak that way....a woman

    • @dswannbeautyartist
      @dswannbeautyartist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ky lmao yes in dying laughing every time he suck his teeth and go ooooooh lmao

    • @sunshinelove8090
      @sunshinelove8090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too 😂😂😂😂

  • @QueenRonny
    @QueenRonny 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I’m working on eliminating my negative mind set and cursing like a sailor.

    • @kenyaflores228
      @kenyaflores228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too🙌🏽❤️ I have a more positive mindset but I still curse when I’m frustrated it’s so hard not too.

    • @Sassy233
      @Sassy233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤yessss

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    What really drives us to cheat?! It's a selfish act, inconsiderate of the heart that has become vulnerable in order to be loved, not broken. There's no excuse....NONE!

    • @irepchrist1763
      @irepchrist1763 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chris Parker is it true that all men cheat? Is Tony right? So discouraging

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@irepchrist1763 No, not all men cheat, though we ALL are never above falling short of glory.

    • @andreacoatney2424
      @andreacoatney2424 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be blessed

    • @tdeniseechols7434
      @tdeniseechols7434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree. If it's that serious and you are that unhappy go to therapy or leave.

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tdeniseechols7434 Those are better choices, but so many choose selfishly.

  • @RandomPortaits
    @RandomPortaits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    THE LESS A WOMAN TALKS IT SEEMS TO WORK AT HER ADVANTAGE. HAVE SOME STANDARDS
    ABOUT YOURSELF.

  • @9188jenni
    @9188jenni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    I think when a woman cheat they subconsciously want out of the relationship

    • @shaunoffrange8122
      @shaunoffrange8122 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      When I was a personal trainer all my married clients tried to get at me because they were bored at home.
      A bored wife is a dangerous woman!

    • @itsme3k
      @itsme3k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      @@shaunoffrange8122 Bored means their husband isn't paying them any attention.

    • @lolitatchambake6361
      @lolitatchambake6361 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Tamika Mayes It can also mean that they (women) cannot live by themselves and depend on their men.

    • @chynadoll77cyn59
      @chynadoll77cyn59 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Idled mind is the devil work shop , when I was a little girl my mama used to always tell me this, that’s stuck in my head. It’s still no excuse to cheat. Ijs I was in relationship for years and felt empty, but never did I cheat . Just not in my character.

    • @9188jenni
      @9188jenni 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@itsme3k right. I would imagine in a way that makes you feel single but your married so you feel single but trapped. And if there's no attention there's probably more issues

  • @sharongregorio
    @sharongregorio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Oh man, you said it Tony! “Don’t let a man make you think your intuition is an insecurity!” This is exactly what I needed to hear!!! Wow.

  • @begee5847
    @begee5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

    If Tony and his wife ever have a daughter I think Tony’s teachings would go to a level unknown. The wisdom is already powerful but I know there’s much more yet to be revealed. 🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yesssss

    • @marciamcgann1075
      @marciamcgann1075 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha ha ha ha
      Oh my gosh

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought about this… imagine if Tony had a baby girl!! Ooooooof

    • @begee5847
      @begee5847 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@christinedozier2154 He’d be so different than what he already his, having girls change men. So I can only imagine.

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The adam and the goat storey took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 15:20

  • @iriswilson7387
    @iriswilson7387 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    “He has been talking to that goat for 8 hours” 🤣🤣🤣

    • @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082
      @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's a trip!!!

    • @missmarymack3457
      @missmarymack3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Girl I hollered so loud lol

    • @bonnie16
      @bonnie16 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had to rewind that thing at least 3x. Omg! 😂😂😂😂

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    “A real man of God doesn’t curse.” TG. Be blessed.

    • @django628
      @django628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha you people are so stupid.

    • @darlenacooper9491
      @darlenacooper9491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blessed you and your family.

    • @danasermons7419
      @danasermons7419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Really ? Is it your place to judge ? Is Jesus hiring ?

    • @Dr.Elaine1
      @Dr.Elaine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dana Sermons
      If you are asking me do I agree with Tony’s quote, then yes, I agree. I don’t have to judge what God has already condemned. All I have to do is repeat what God says. Are you judging God?
      Ephesians 4:29 KJV. Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
      James 3:10 KJV. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.

    • @Dr.Elaine1
      @Dr.Elaine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dana Sermons
      Yes. It’s the Christian’s place to judge according to God’s word/standards not their own. Jesus tell us clearly how to do this in Matthew 7:5 KJV
      Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye.

  • @marieperine7732
    @marieperine7732 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I love how he talks about his wife. This is the way I want my man to speak highly of me and vice versa.

  • @sequoia4631
    @sequoia4631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    8 hours of talking to a goat 😂 "Lust and hip hop and Atlanta house girlfriends" 😂 Your points landed with me today. Thank you, be blessed

  • @faithmoore3243
    @faithmoore3243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I can not stop laughing; I love to hear him give an example on how some women and men talk!

  • @lekeshial418
    @lekeshial418 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I've learned, you have to be able to discern your intuition from your insecurities.

    • @keyanna2633
      @keyanna2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      VERY TRUE!!! Had to learn this the hard way.

    • @MariaMahd-ee7sw
      @MariaMahd-ee7sw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well Alright Nah,Yes Mam💯✔!!A+ on ya comment baby.Spoke volumes

  • @shantayhodges
    @shantayhodges 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    “Caveats and nuances”

  • @itstimefortea4582
    @itstimefortea4582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    “OHHHHHHH Well” Takes me out every time 🤣🤣🤣

  • @eyesaidit5195
    @eyesaidit5195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    They gone be real mad about that "women cheat less" statement!😂🤣😂😂💯💯💯

  • @iloveangelmonroe4864
    @iloveangelmonroe4864 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I noticed all these things after many mistakes I’ve made in my 20s... now I’ll be 30 this year and ready to be a better woman going fwd

    • @daughterofyah8823
      @daughterofyah8823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too sis

    • @naishiashante1576
      @naishiashante1576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The fact that you recognize that speaks volume about your growth! Go ahead Sis 💜

    • @lishredman4566
      @lishredman4566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @lixy2066
      @lixy2066 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here.

    • @trevelbrown2557
      @trevelbrown2557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So a good man wasnt good enough in your 20s?

  • @bethanymcgill7527
    @bethanymcgill7527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I had Toney playing in my car while my son was in here and when Toney mentioned about people getting certificates as continued edu from taking his courses on life love and business, my 7yr old son says, "yeah that's just like when I get a certificate from Lexia and Dream Box at school and that means I completed it!". I mention all this to say that not only am I getting the knowledge and able to apply it to my life but so is my son, and it made me smile lol. Thank you Toney and many blessings to you! 🙏

  • @doriscrumpton2980
    @doriscrumpton2980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Be Blessed 🙏✝️🙂 A grown boy is to me an immature grown man that never matured. He didn't have a father around that was mature as a man to teach him. He has no clue what is to be a grown man. He only has false perceptions from the world of what a grown man is. Thanks ♥️🙂 Coach Tony

  • @kenyaflores228
    @kenyaflores228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Every time I suspected something of my ex I was right my intuition was always right. Never was It out of insecurity . I can appreciate another beautiful women and not see her as a competition. I’m my only competition.

  • @naturegaze5667
    @naturegaze5667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    "Just let him struggle through that" lol .... Talking bout making a peanut & jelly sandwich ... That was so funny to me!! 😂🤣

    • @ShyXoxo1920
      @ShyXoxo1920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lisha Parish it was funny as heck

    • @Mistysfedora
      @Mistysfedora 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

  • @sunshinegoddess1074
    @sunshinegoddess1074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Mr Gaskins, Would your wife ever agree to do a Q&A with you live one day?

    • @nickbry7357
      @nickbry7357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree Tony...I hope she.agrees.

    • @begee5847
      @begee5847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope she agrees I think she will when they release A women’s influence. ☺️🙏🏽

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg.....Sheri and Tony doing a Q and A Live, they will shut the internet dowwwwwwn💯

    • @ashleyrolle2214
      @ashleyrolle2214 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG yessss that would be off the hook!

    • @letrinanichols8537
      @letrinanichols8537 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

  • @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
    @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    You bin flippin and tossin and suckin and duckin” 😂😂😂 help me Jesus. Too funny

    • @christigarcia8645
      @christigarcia8645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I can't stop laughing.. He said you plucked her off the pole--what do you expect. LOL

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow wow right tony is telling real truth.

    • @narconaterx8146
      @narconaterx8146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂 that took me out!!

    • @michellegarcia9785
      @michellegarcia9785 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That statement made me scream lmao

  • @ebonyflowers7599
    @ebonyflowers7599 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Tony is hilarious! When he was writing down on his notepad I was dying LOL this made my day as usual. Be blessed!

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Sis, if you found that funny, you just have a good spirit. You find the good in everything, then. God bless you! Thank you for the support!

    • @thechristiansocialite1222
      @thechristiansocialite1222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too 🤣

  • @lizl2825
    @lizl2825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've had men do that to me (nagging me about I'm not doing it the way he thinks I should - makes me feel like I'm not good enough yet I know I am).

  • @judithstevens4323
    @judithstevens4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Very TRUE Tony MOST women that are with a man ESPECIALLY if they are happy with them DON'T cheat!! How TRUE about the "season"!! IT'S just like fashion!! I LOVE your looks challenge term!! Lol

    • @sharoncobb2547
      @sharoncobb2547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Judith you are correct! I didnt cheat even when I wasn't happy because a woman cant do what a man does and still be a lady!Also we are the ones that can become pregnant! We have to be very careful!😘

    • @judithstevens4323
      @judithstevens4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      To Eternity with Christ. Get it RIGHT! I NEVER said CHEATING equals happiness!! HONESTY does NOT mean that people won't cheat or commit any other sin!! DON'T TWIST my words!! HONESTY is a character trait!! Remember we ALL fall short of Jesus & are NOT PERFECT NO MATTER HOW MANY GOOD CHARACTER TRAITS WE MAY POSSESS!! I CLEARLY AGREED WITH TONY! THAT MOST WOMEN DO NOT CHEAT IF THEY ARE HAPPY WITH THEIR MATE!! GET IT RIGHT.

    • @judithstevens4323
      @judithstevens4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sharoncobb2547 AMEN sister I couldn't have said it better myself!! I have NEVER CHEATED either. If a relationship wasn't working for me I left it. However I realize there are plenty that DON'T & take the CHEATING route! I have married girlfriends that both they & their spouse CHEAT on each other yet stay together. Makes NO sense to me. But everyone lives their own LIVES!! And LET'S NOT FORGET ABOUT ALL OF THOSE NASTY STDS OUT THERE!! THAT IN ITSELF SCARES THE CRAP OUT OF ME!!

    • @sharoncobb2547
      @sharoncobb2547 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@judithstevens4323 that's right judith it's just not worth it!be blessed!😘😘😘😘

    • @judithstevens4323
      @judithstevens4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sharoncobb2547 same to you dear! And may YOU have a blessed Easter!

  • @DeeDee-no7bb
    @DeeDee-no7bb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    We should always self reflect and improve. Self love is everything!! This is a really nice video Tony! Be blessed

  • @genevasanders1883
    @genevasanders1883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This young man speaks nothing but TRUTH. BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Lust And Hip Hop, Real Atlanta house Girlfriends 😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾

    • @TonyGaskins
      @TonyGaskins  4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ohhhhhh! Welcome to the Blessed Tribe! I’m so glad you joined us!!

    • @aminastoned5687
      @aminastoned5687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TiffanyB TV 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @LovelyCeee
      @LovelyCeee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TiffanyB TV 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂THIS IS FACTS THO!!! Lol

  • @robinwhitley7825
    @robinwhitley7825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "You done plucked her off the pole" Come on Bro...lol!

    • @bonnie16
      @bonnie16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣

  • @valarieford8417
    @valarieford8417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    You have to heal before you get into a new relationship you can't make a new man pay for what your last man did you will lose the new one

  • @microbito66
    @microbito66 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I used to curse a little bit in the past, but now I cringe when my friends curse so I stopped.

  • @cherh
    @cherh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Prime example Kenya Moore & Marc. Her husband was not with all the drama i watched the episode of his event party and she was nagging and being so negative. The next day he filed for a divorce. The way he treated her or talked to her you can tell he wasn't really into her. Over 50 and still nagging & bringing misery to other people. Smh. Great points TG! Be blessed all 💫

    • @tanitrarobinson7477
      @tanitrarobinson7477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Um it was destined to fail....she was in her back the 1st 3mths...plus they hadn't dated 12mths....

    • @cherh
      @cherh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanitrarobinson7477 probably...but her ways were messy

    • @yw6502
      @yw6502 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So quick to judge ladies, she filed for divorce and he ain’t a perfect man either. Otherwise his first marriage would have worked.

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @J Designer true, but a man will do anything in his case for exposure. Being married to her got his name & business name to be known.

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @J Designer no, I'm sure he liked her but it's clear he didn't love her. They got married because that's what she wanted to be married and start a family. I agree she does deserve better but she has to do better as well. She's no angel. ijs

  • @judithstevens4323
    @judithstevens4323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    TELL THE UGLY TRUTH TONY!! WE NEED TO HEAR THE TRUTH!!

  • @fah232
    @fah232 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I'm sorry, I can't stand that loud woman that's trying to be seen, I used to work with one.

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think it stems from childhood! Having to compete for attention or something with siblings or mom's boyfriends?? But it is quite obnoxious when adults do it!

    • @rozh8321
      @rozh8321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me 2 ..loud mouth and breath challenging.😂😂😂puff the magic dragon we call her

    • @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082
      @fluffypinkglitterwingz8082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes. I can't stand those. Always trying to be the center of attention or just looking for attention period.

    • @missmarymack3457
      @missmarymack3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol @ puff the magic dragon lol 😂 OOOH LORD

  • @RandomPortaits
    @RandomPortaits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'M NICE HOWEVER I'M NOT NICE. PREACH!!!

  • @lifestylewithkey1860
    @lifestylewithkey1860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “not sucking in ducking” that took me out! 😂

  • @whitneyhodge7422
    @whitneyhodge7422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He said Adam was talking to a goat for 8 hours. 😊 Poor Adam 😊

  • @lynettejohnson8418
    @lynettejohnson8418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BE BLESSED!! KNOWLEDGE IS POWER!! THANK YOU TONY GASKINS!!🙏

  • @ndm529
    @ndm529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Keep these videos coming. I get educated and get a good laugh at the same time. Be blessed.

  • @et427
    @et427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I gotta watch this again!

  • @angelicagabrieli7169
    @angelicagabrieli7169 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your video is a pure gold of information! Be Blessed Tony and Your Beautiful Family! WE LOVE YOU!

  • @cooldaisylu7683
    @cooldaisylu7683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very good points made with this. Some things brought up I had already noticed and started to change. Others have become glaringly obvious. Good work! Thank you for your wisdom.

  • @brittneysworld6886
    @brittneysworld6886 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amen! Amen! And Amen!!! Tony be giving us the GAME💯💯💯

  • @RandomPortaits
    @RandomPortaits 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    YES! YOU ARE RIGHT SIR. EVERYONE ESPEICALLY WOMEN WANT ATTENTION. YOUNG LADIES
    YOU WANT ATTENTION? JUST PLEASE YOURSELF, PAY ATTENTION TO YOU DRESS TO IMPRESS
    YOURSELF AND DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND WATCH WHAT HAPPENS
    I DARE YOU TO TRY IT.

    • @sisterinchrist4698
      @sisterinchrist4698 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      watergate1965 please yourself?? We aren’t supposed to use handgelia

  • @ericabostwick4033
    @ericabostwick4033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for always breaking it down and giving us the truth!

  • @damio686
    @damio686 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be blessed all of you!

  • @analeahh
    @analeahh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love the new t shirt! Be Blessed!!

  • @GoodGrief101
    @GoodGrief101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this. It really did hit home. I know what I’ve been through. That’s why I’m mindful about what other people may be going through. We all have stuff. Thank you again, Tony and be blessed!

  • @angelag.7867
    @angelag.7867 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You had to be born to your position. I recently started your channel and I have learned so much and received much confirmations. Your accent is a gift that adds another level of healing because it’s sounds honest. You and wife be blessed.

  • @jacquelynlinn1505
    @jacquelynlinn1505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The truth only steps on your toes when you walk out of line!!! Awesome Thanks Tony! Love what you are doing and saying and so thankful you and your wife are doing what you are doing. Thanks to her also!!

  • @1godsgift237
    @1godsgift237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Be blessed watched the entire video... Thank you Mr. Gaskins.

  • @cheekscheeks5840
    @cheekscheeks5840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    That’s a mans favorite line your insecurity going to cause you to be alone when u knowing something is wrong and they know they doing wrong when u have facts

  • @joiagenae
    @joiagenae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be blessed! Thank you for the consistent wisdom Tony!

  • @stephaniefletcher2720
    @stephaniefletcher2720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be blessed, from Canada! You’re definitely on point.

  • @zelloresharrison7035
    @zelloresharrison7035 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    man I needed this...my man has constantly told me this....thank you Tony...I really need to take a step back in my relationship and evaluate myself frfr...you are a God send

  • @Dabupa1185
    @Dabupa1185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Be blessed. This is in my faves. A lightbulb went off. I've missed out on good relationships due to my pain points. Thank you, Tony👏👏👏

  • @kaya_itskaya
    @kaya_itskaya 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be blessed! These videos are so insightful like this is way better than anything I could be watching on Netflix lol

  • @starznmyeyez8906
    @starznmyeyez8906 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Outstanding wisdom you shared. I hear you. Be Blessed.

  • @rebeccalist509
    @rebeccalist509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Tony , love your wisdom ! You're my 2020 person of the year !!

  • @None-of-yours22.
    @None-of-yours22. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I need that T-shirt in my life.....To respond to this video, your words are meaningful and you are appreciated.

  • @madzbadz
    @madzbadz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I binge watch these videos while I’m at work 💯💯Thank you Tony I needed this

  • @s.r.125
    @s.r.125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is amazing! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!

  • @kgonz3988
    @kgonz3988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Be blessed!!! I can’t stop watching your videos you popped out and god led me too these to learn and become better in his way!!!

  • @tamikamatthews4905
    @tamikamatthews4905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Tony Gaskins, I love your video's. Keep them coming. Have a bless day.

  • @LeafsIn2024
    @LeafsIn2024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent, to the point, accountable, measurable, tactfully communicated and the last few minutes have a punch line summary that softly but powerfully hits it all home.
    A definite save and re-watch.
    Thank you, Tony.
    Be blessed.

  • @Nuvision19
    @Nuvision19 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be Blessed...This video helped me to identify a few insecurities that can be remedied; however I am proud of myself for having self love and not being a pushover - the good outweighed the bad.

  • @et427
    @et427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    *let me write these down, hmmmm, hmmm" I am dying! 😂😂😂😂

  • @TiffanyDanielle7
    @TiffanyDanielle7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tony is a comedian 🤣 but he's telling the truth.

  • @gerijohnson3850
    @gerijohnson3850 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rony this episode was epic! So many gems I can't pick one and I am over 60 years old. What an anointing God has bestowed on you. Keep walking in your purpose! Blessings of God on you and your family!

  • @blackpeoplewillread
    @blackpeoplewillread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Tony you really is annointed to do this. When you talk about pain points I had to check myself and now I know why I am the way that I am. Frfr What a revelation for me. Thank you Be blessed my brother

  • @KayThePA
    @KayThePA 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I come to watch Tony Gaskins videos just to hear his girl impersonation "Ohhhh why everything got to be about looks" 😂😂😂 He's so naturally funny!!

  • @anointedone7683
    @anointedone7683 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    A few of these stepped on my toes but I needed it. Still work to be done but I’m making progress!! And you right just because I’m “nice and country doesn’t mean I’m dumb”, don’t take my kindness for weakness!

  • @arkmcdan
    @arkmcdan 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Always great messages and stories. Be blessed!!

  • @liveinviolet2908
    @liveinviolet2908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be blesssd! 🙏🏽✨ Awesome points! I’m on a healing journey and this video is extremely helpful. I’ll have to listen to this again to remind myself of various adjustments. 🙏🏽✨

  • @peaceatferngully8369
    @peaceatferngully8369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brother Tony, I laughed & cried and jotted some notes down too. I was so blessed by the anointing God has given you to give understanding to those like me seeking it. I love it when you talk about the Ebon & flow between you and your beautiful wife. As you described her spirit my heart was touched. I want 2 be more comfortable in letting that side of me be exposed more often and I'm praying for that. Can't wait for my book to arrive ...again I can't thank you enough.
    Be blessed!

  • @vanessaa.balladares2358
    @vanessaa.balladares2358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Be Blessed. Thank you for articulating the mind of a man so well. I look forward to listening to your insight and your point of view on love, relationships and business. You explain your concepts so clearly and with great humor; this combo really helps drive your points home. I'm so grateful that you met Sheri, grateful that the love you two share helped you change your life and also grateful that you submitted to your calling. God bless you and your family.

  • @deborahwhiteside4738
    @deborahwhiteside4738 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was great information!! Thanks for keeping it real with a grown woman. Be blessed!!!

  • @cathleentenorio3333
    @cathleentenorio3333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We need more men like you !!!! Keep spreading your word and influence not only the men but us women !!! This video covered so much , thank you !!! Sharing your videos !

  • @elizabethhousen9778
    @elizabethhousen9778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    'Be Blessed' Ty!💯💪😊

  • @1godsgift237
    @1godsgift237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This video 🙏🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That's straight 💯 regarding a woman being Faithful... That's me all the time but I'm learning how to be faithful and devote my time to the right man who wants to commit, Husband Material. Amen 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾🛐

  • @keyamoore6995
    @keyamoore6995 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be blessed! Thanks for this!

  • @u4riacy
    @u4riacy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That last 5 minutes! Whew said EVERYTHING!😂👍🏽 Be Blessed!

  • @shaunabee
    @shaunabee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Be Blessed 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @AngelaRCurry
    @AngelaRCurry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Be Blessed..I ordered my t-shirt. Yes, sir.

  • @marondarobbson1725
    @marondarobbson1725 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real talk. Be blessed!!

  • @CoachMoniqueKitchen
    @CoachMoniqueKitchen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video as always!🔥🔥🔥

  • @Leochick-kj2cz
    @Leochick-kj2cz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Be Blessed💙

  • @biancamajanja3516
    @biancamajanja3516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love the shirt. Lol be blessed

  • @edowling7646
    @edowling7646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be blessed and thank you for this

  • @lisanicolew.5241
    @lisanicolew.5241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man you honestly rock, I thank God and you for your wise words!