he will test sexually he will test you emotionally he will test you mentally he will test your standards he will test you spiritually he will test your insecurities he will test how you make decisions he will test your confidence or lack there of. Good stuff Tony...
Chrissy chriss the only reason you will hate the test is if your not ready or don’t think you are sound enough to pass. If you do the work they won’t even be any test to you because you’ll just be that person naturally and all the things will naturally be checked.
Chrissy chriss Yes & when you learn how to use the tools of being a confident woman, you won’t stick around for tests...you will realize that he could be a low value man who needs to work on himself & has nothing to do with you.
Akua !!!! Like I feel like I gained so much knowledge about how to date a man. Like not get played ,at this point knowing how they think I BE DAMNEDDDDDDDD!
I’ve been telling people that for the longest! When we meet these men, we want the well put together man, where there is no work involved. We expect him to “know” to open doors, flowers, etc...but you have to teach your husband how to be YOUR husband. God gave him permission to marry you and a few pointers on how to handle you, but YOU have to teach him how to be YOURS!!! Setting boundaries etc, which makes him that man you’ve always wanted. It takes time and work, but YOU have to be willing.
Hi Ladies, It took me years to figure this out too. I use to give so much and Loved so hard. Then I saw other Women who loved very minimally and chilled/ fell back from a Man and got handed the World.
@ Charlotte, As Women We have to learn to put Ourselves First and Stop putting the Man on an Unrealistic petal stool. I have seen that Woman who do Less Get More from Men.
I agree! I had to tell my inconsistent ex to lose my number the last time he cancelled a date with me, and the next day he acted like we never had plans. I told him I’m not the ticket-I’m the prize
I’ll never forget when this guy tried to kiss me and I said no, then all of a sudden he got busy and needed to get his life together. Boy byeeeeeeee lol
I just had a 59yr old grown man ask to take me out on a date then followed up with asking me if I drive. When I said yes he said “good we can take your car” I hung up and blocked that man IMMEDIATELY!!!
A term a friend of mine used today that I hadn't heard in a while. That low down dirty sap sucker! He is an old fool with nothing to offer not even a car. You did the right thing. Keep it moving sis.
The best and fastest way to past every test with flying colors is to NOT sleep with him. AND to let him know upfront that it’s not happening until he puts a Ring on it. I know this because I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years & I’ve been drama-free & man-problem free ever since 🤣💜
Yasssss sis!!!! Abstinence until marriage really keeps you emotionally sound and in control making intellectual descions! Best decision I made in dating! Lord continue to give grace in this area. It's a protection all on its own.❤😇🙏🏾
Personally what he says I've been taught or I've learned through life however it feels like he's my brother and he gives a different perspective. I listen to him when I need a pep talk
Not me cause soon as opportunities present I forget and have to KIM , until I go look at my notes to make sure I know all the points and why he standing like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I used to feel the same way but even mature, high value men test us. My focus is to learn the tests and how to pass them because I will be 80 years old waiting for a man that never tests me.
The last guy who was a player disguised in a nice guy, used a lot of emotional turmoil excuses, his last breakup (9months ago!) and having to process emotions, while he was in fact juggling many women from the app! And I felt we had a connection.. It's disheartening.
I wish I found Tony 3 years ago! I would have avoided an abusive relationship. I failed every test in the beginning, he was my first boyfriend. That will never happen again!! Thanks Tony, you're doing the Lord's work!!
ms judyyyy… i feel u with the failed every test & first bf but just kno to keep studying to kno how to pass every other one tho. cant even let it get to u. gotta stay on your own path !
I had a grown boy test me like that weeks ago. Kept saying he was going to call me and hit me up that night. I didn't hear from him that night nor the next day. I blocked him on my phone. We work at the same store together, so when I saw him the next day after blocking him, he asked me if I was good. That's it..."you good?" So smiling I said, "Yep, I'm good!" lol Well, I left him on block and haven't said a word to him about it ever since. He hasn't said a word either. Done and done. I still speak to him, and I'm always nice, but he will never get a chance to be in my world again.
@@toniwilliams9817 I agree with Lauren, don't block them. That way you know if they reach out or not. And take in the pleasure of not answering back. Just look and delete
I’m only 23 and I’m dealing with a 29 year old and this helped me , he wait 10 hours to text me back, but was on social media posting,! But when he texted me I’m just not responding back to him
Girl one did this and kept doing it then … why did he wait a whole day girl I went off and left and never looked back… he had every excuse in the world. Nobody got time for that bullshit
This grown boy university is the best education i have every received, and there is no student loan attached. God bless you Tony! 😂😂😂 I’m crying with laughter...
A guy cancelled a day before claiming he had to travel due to family issues. Mind u the date was supposed to be an apology for ghosting me earlier this year. I texted back thanks for letting me know on time so I don't have to cut my other appointments short. And that's the last he will ever hear from me
This video is 100% correct. I failed the first few tests and i ended up getting punched and chocked out. He was a MMA fighter. Dont ignore them red flags. They are always there. He will do it to you, he will do it to someone else. Be safe ladies! Be smart!
TG stay giving us gems. Remember when he said don't give a man a second chance if you're not sure he's changed. Look at Princess & Ray j....she filed for divorce he begged her back..she took him back and a month later he filed for divorce. The man wants the last laugh. Be careful out here. Stop allowing these dudes to be disrespectful to you. Kids nor marriage will make a man love & respect you. Peace, wealth, & wine ✌🏾💵🍷🥰
💯 They sometimes cancel a date and then turn around and ask you to come over the same night. 🤨 Tony keep speaking the truth because there are grown boys in their 50s still using these tests.
I did last week after a horrible experience and it’s like I don’t learn. I just want to be in a good relationship but I just feel like I lack confidence in saying no. So I end up doing things I regret then it doesn’t work out. Dude wasn’t even over his ex and now I feel stupid. After about a month....I just left him alone but still
I’ve heard all this. Guys will make you feel so bad about not sleeping with them or “We should know what it’s like together before we get married” omg I’ve heard this a lot lately. The dumbest excuse. Being sexually assaulted and thinking it’s your fault because “you look so good”. It’s terrible.
No its a test of truth .... He's messing with other woman and with one of the dancers that he been spending money on to make her jealous😂 dumb but truth. If you have a three and the relationship didn't go anywhere you played yourself
@@yeahthatsme921 I never said any of this happened to me personally ...but I’ve heard several different stories from other women, where that was the males intentions.
I can’t help but think that if men today had integrity, women wouldn’t need constant coaching sessions. I’m not saying that we as women don’t get it wrong at times however, I find men are looking for a woman who has the stability they cannot provide. This is not the balance God intended and I will be single my whole life before I do for a man what he should have been planning for his whole life for me. This is my belief and I stand on it.
Omg yes! My dad stayed on us about making sure a man has integrity. He would also preach to me over and over about keeping my dignity, which I have found a lot of young women lack. That is why these men get away with so much and I seem like a lot work to them compared to what they are used to. At this point I don’t even care anymore. My peace means too much to me.
It’s crazy how Tony literally scripted out my life by what a guy has said to me and the game he played. This man knows exactly what he is talking about.
Cancel a date on me that first time and he'll never hear from me again. If it wasn't an emergency and I spent 2+ hours getting ready, I'm blocking his number on the spot. I don't play that 🙅♀️🚫
Tony, you said in your video that Grown boys love shortcuts. As soon as you said that i received a word in my spirit. It goes as follows; The shortcuts will please his flesh, but the Work will please his spirit. This is where we as women can make a big impact‼️ His flesh might not understand the work he has to put in, but on a subconscious level, his spirit is being impacted positively. This brings about real change in a man's heart, when our words and action feeds his spirit first. Thank you Tony. This is confirmation to me that you are indeed anointed by the Holy Spirit. I'd also like to add, that this proves that when we lay on our backs/ fornicate with the man, we bypass the opportunity to feed his spirit. So he continues to operate in lust. Makes complete sense‼️‼️
This is such a great comment. Like I feel like I’m going through this right now with my now ex boyfriend. He was my 1st bf ever and I had no clue what I was doing but I knew that these “tests” that I definitely failed were to teach me a lesson. He wants to get back together but presses sex and I absolutely refuse. I don’t want a man operating in lust but have been positively feeding his spirit from a distance
Ladies, they will certainly try you. I tell them all that there is nothing they can do that hasn't already been tried and done, nothing they can say that I haven't already heard, in one way, or another. I will check them every time. Believe it or not, men appreciate a woman who does not let them disrespect her, in any way.
He didn’t call...What had happened was... Who knew we had to go to school to get tested in dating and relationships Tony. Thanks for the real education.
I’ve just witnessed Tony the Actor Comedian & Truth Teller. I’m showing this to the Single ladies & men at the Church. These tests are real & have consequences as well. Thank you Tony for identifying them. 🙏🏽
I wish I had seen this sooner. This is absolutely the game! And Tony has the playbook. I may not have passed every test, but now I’m restago. Tony is like the Uncle that’s going to get you together! We need someone to talk candidly like this. Gems 💎
If you take a lion to a gazelle market, he’s gonna want to pounce. -TG Translation: You can’t play into these grown boy games. We women have to learn to think with our heads, not our emotions. We would win more on relationships if we listened to our intuition. If something doesn’t feel right never let a grown boy talk you into it.
Tony, man you just blew my mind. I feel right now like I am at a truth serum night club. I am 71 and live in senior housing. A beautiful little place. I hope I don't get complaints about comedy club laughing. Man you are 10,000 percent so right. I'm repenting right now. The half and half friend that I have had for the last six years, I am to done. I will do a complete work on myself for me. Thank you Tony. No my pastor can't talk to me like you do. Anyway I am old enough to know better. I am closer to 100 than 40 years of age. I will take care of myself so that I can make it to 100. My morals, standards and standing on the Word will get me there.
I had a guy cancel on me twice, first was a family emergency than an urgent matter with a friend 🥱🤔 I seen right through them games and told him I'm sorry but I don't think this is going to work out ✌🏽
I literally fell asleep with my phone and just woke up upset again to find It at my head. I looked up the dangers and of course Google said there is no link to cancer. I used to be able to find out how bad it was online as well as om TH-cam but they are hiding the information now. Where can I find the information, anyone know?
A canceled date for me means he must not wanna take things further so bye 😂 when I was desperate i would’ve been the one trying to reschedule. Nope. I literally have a schedule so my free days are my free days, sir.
facts. Even grown boys who get married try this too. Trying to be a GOOD man and BEING a "good" man are two different things. The things I could share...tsk tsk tsk.
I am laughing all the way in South Africa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank God for the internet and you Tony for sharing these teachings with us. So informative and so funny …. Love it ❤️❤️🙏🏾
he will test sexually
he will test you emotionally
he will test you mentally
he will test your standards
he will test you spiritually
he will test your insecurities
he will test how you make decisions
he will test your confidence or lack there of.
Good stuff Tony...
I appreciate your realness to the sisters!
Yes, I love this!
I hate these test ugh.
Chrissy chriss the only reason you will hate the test is if your not ready or don’t think you are sound enough to pass. If you do the work they won’t even be any test to you because you’ll just be that person naturally and all the things will naturally be checked.
Chrissy chriss Yes & when you learn how to use the tools of being a confident woman, you won’t stick around for tests...you will realize that he could be a low value man who needs to work on himself & has nothing to do with you.
I’ve never felt so entertained yet informed at the same time 😂😂😂
No , seriously! This is why I watch him
Me too! Tony gaskins is legit God's blessing to us
😂😂😂 Gurrrllll!
Hahha same!
Akua !!!! Like I feel like I gained so much knowledge about how to date a man. Like not get played ,at this point knowing how they think I BE DAMNEDDDDDDDD!
This shit is exhausting. Makes you wanna stay single.
Foreal. I truly have no desire to date .
Im just that tired and exhausted
@ Honey..lol
This.
Girl. Been single for three years. The men today want you test you everyday.
Forever.
If someone cancels on you, don't you dare waste the outfit, makeup and hair. Still go out!
Yes! Take yourself out!
Agreed!
Exactly what I thought.
That's what I say!
Yes ♥️
"Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you" ~TG
Get your standards in order ladies. Know your worth 🌹❤
Cher H, I stopped by to pick up your mic for you , well said 🎤
@@tinajones1932 thank u Queen! 💯🥰
I’ve been telling people that for the longest! When we meet these men, we want the well put together man, where there is no work involved. We expect him to “know” to open doors, flowers, etc...but you have to teach your husband how to be YOUR husband. God gave him permission to marry you and a few pointers on how to handle you, but YOU have to teach him how to be YOURS!!! Setting boundaries etc, which makes him that man you’ve always wanted. It takes time and work, but YOU have to be willing.
@@nashyaw3933 you better say that!!! They better start people these grown boys in check life is worth living not putting up with a grown boys bullshh
@Jack Frost, nah we good over here. Thanks for the invite. We'll keep chilling where we are!!!
The best way to a Man's heart is not to care about him so much and to chill. Trust Me it works.
I’m learning the hard way. Thanks for this wisdom.
Yep. Very true. I’ve been learning to this with the guys I talk to now.
Hi Ladies, It took me years to figure this out too. I use to give so much and Loved so hard. Then I saw other Women who loved very minimally and chilled/ fell back from a Man and got handed the World.
Does this really work?
@ Charlotte, As Women We have to learn to put Ourselves First and Stop putting the Man on an Unrealistic petal stool. I have seen that Woman who do Less Get More from Men.
"I don't give three strikes. This is not baseball. This is my life.."
- THIS ☝️👊❤️💎👑
THIS ONE!!!! 💥✔️✔️✔️✔️ Mannnnn did I need this one when I was at the height of "pick-me" misery my 20's 😭😭😭😅
I agree! I had to tell my inconsistent ex to lose my number the last time he cancelled a date with me, and the next day he acted like we never had plans. I told him I’m not the ticket-I’m the prize
Fr.
I’ll never forget when this guy tried to kiss me and I said no, then all of a sudden he got busy and needed to get his life together. Boy byeeeeeeee lol
Yooooooo! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
😂😂
I'm crying lmfaooo
“You gotta starve lust” Amen 🙏🏽
I just had a 59yr old grown man ask to take me out on a date then followed up with asking me if I drive. When I said yes he said “good we can take your car” I hung up and blocked that man IMMEDIATELY!!!
Lol....SMH! You did the right thing!
What the hell?!! Even these old ass grown boys trying it...oh hell naw!!
A term a friend of mine used today that I hadn't heard in a while. That low down dirty sap sucker! He is an old fool with nothing to offer not even a car. You did the right thing. Keep it moving sis.
You mean grown boy lol
As you should have!!! Girl!!!!
The best and fastest way to past every test with flying colors is to NOT sleep with him. AND to let him know upfront that it’s not happening until he puts a Ring on it. I know this because I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years & I’ve been drama-free & man-problem free ever since 🤣💜
Yasssss sis!!!! Abstinence until marriage really keeps you emotionally sound and in control making intellectual descions! Best decision I made in dating! Lord continue to give grace in this area. It's a protection all on its own.❤😇🙏🏾
@@iasiagregory4558 Yes, Sis! Amen 💜🙏🏾
@Marie Jones I don’t mind being single for life.
Yep
Popping into say that my abstinence will reach 5 years in a few months! PTL! 💃🏾🙌🏾 But I’ve healed & I’m ready to enter into marriage season 🥰🙏🏾💗
Who else walk around feelin like they got the game on lock after they listen to Mr.Gaskins 👀💯✔😂
Frfr
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Personally what he says I've been taught or I've learned through life however it feels like he's my brother and he gives a different perspective. I listen to him when I need a pep talk
Not me cause soon as opportunities present I forget and have to KIM , until I go look at my notes to make sure I know all the points and why he standing like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I didn't before but I do now. And every single reaction he says a man will have to the T. It happens.
STOP letting a grown boy talk you of your common sense! TG
Grown boy
DimpledNatural My bad!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 lol
This really shows, it's not about having a big heart, you need boundaries! A big heart don't mean be a doormat..
Now I can see how desperate a woman can look in a mans eyes
And I was looking desperate and didn't even know it smh 🤦🏾♀️now I know
@@iamsadeashley I think we all were.
We all have at one point or another! I will never allow myself to do that ever again!!!
Atleast we all got learning experiences out of this.
💯💯💯💯
It’s all testing boundaries and how much he can get away with.
“Go to the lash lady with FIVE stars.” 🤣🤣🤣
Ruby L 😩😩😂😂
Hilarious 😂 🤣🤣
Right 👌😂😂
And get the 1 eyelash to 1 eyelash. 😂😂😂
😂
I think tests and mind games are the purest form of disrespect. If they valued you, then they wouldn’t have tried it at all.
I used to feel the same way but even mature, high value men test us. My focus is to learn the tests and how to pass them because I will be 80 years old waiting for a
man that never tests me.
lol. Yes I thought of it this way too. I am fed up of these disrespecting tests men from dating app have thrown at me. It seems even worse on there.
ShesaQueen19 right. And they always try to get you to come back so “they can explain”. And I’m like nope you are blocked for life
The last guy who was a player disguised in a nice guy, used a lot of emotional turmoil excuses, his last breakup (9months ago!) and having to process emotions, while he was in fact juggling many women from the app! And I felt we had a connection.. It's disheartening.
I think they need to pass the Smith and Wesson test. 🔫
This is golden bible for dealing with players 😂😂😂😂😂
I wish I found Tony 3 years ago! I would have avoided an abusive relationship. I failed every test in the beginning, he was my first boyfriend. That will never happen again!! Thanks Tony, you're doing the Lord's work!!
ms judyyyy… i feel u with the failed every test & first bf but just kno to keep studying to kno how to pass every other one tho. cant even let it get to u. gotta stay on your own path !
Girl me too!!!!!!
“The reason why grown boys test women is because they love shortcuts.” TG
100%
Love this part
They don't want to put the work in.
Yeah...shortcuts to knowing whether or not you're wasting your time. Men vet women out too. This guy married too 😂😂😂😂 L.
Truth to be told. Never give them shortcuts 😉 we women deserve a man to work for us 🙏🏽🌹💎
I had a grown boy test me like that weeks ago. Kept saying he was going to call me and hit me up that night. I didn't hear from him that night nor the next day. I blocked him on my phone. We work at the same store together, so when I saw him the next day after blocking him, he asked me if I was good. That's it..."you good?" So smiling I said, "Yep, I'm good!" lol Well, I left him on block and haven't said a word to him about it ever since. He hasn't said a word either. Done and done. I still speak to him, and I'm always nice, but he will never get a chance to be in my world again.
Dont s where u eat baby. A man outside of the work place is better for your health and independence. 😊🙏🏻
You shouldn’t have even blocked him . I would have let him keep texting and just not reply . Lol
@@laurenlocd3180 haha...it's still to be continued...lol
@@toniwilliams9817 I agree with Lauren, don't block them. That way you know if they reach out or not. And take in the pleasure of not answering back. Just look and delete
@Toni...Way to go Queen. You did right, God reveals, You remove. Queens have no time to entertain peasants.
LMAOOO "You turned his text message into your diary" LOL too much !!
I’m only 23 and I’m dealing with a 29 year old and this helped me , he wait 10 hours to text me back, but was on social media posting,! But when he texted me I’m just not responding back to him
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Good👍 wish I had learned early, would have saved a whole lot of wasted time on jokers
Yes!!!
Girl one did this and kept doing it then … why did he wait a whole day girl I went off and left and never looked back… he had every excuse in the world. Nobody got time for that bullshit
I JUST CLOSED THE BOOK ON ONE OF THOSE. SAME EXACT THING!!!!! A clown from Kenya
I think Tony needs a daughter lol 😂 That lil girl would be so solid!!
Fr 😂
I’ve been thinking tony needs a daughter! And share would be the best girl mom!
We are his daughters...some like myself are too old to be his daughter, but I’m o.k being an auntie learning from my nephew
Why would he daughters if anything he needs sons because ain't NOBODY raising theirs right
He’d have to take some out…😂 if a 🥷 even thank he could or would 😂😂😂😊
This grown boy university is the best education i have every received, and there is no student loan attached. God bless you Tony! 😂😂😂 I’m crying with laughter...
for real!!!
He is the best
Lol
Lol
🔥🔥🔥🔥
A guy cancelled a day before claiming he had to travel due to family issues. Mind u the date was supposed to be an apology for ghosting me earlier this year. I texted back thanks for letting me know on time so I don't have to cut my other appointments short. And that's the last he will ever hear from me
Ong the same thing happened with an ex of mine too... exact same wording how odd.
This video is 100% correct. I failed the first few tests and i ended up getting punched and chocked out. He was a MMA fighter. Dont ignore them red flags. They are always there. He will do it to you, he will do it to someone else. Be safe ladies! Be smart!
I appreciate how Tony gets into CHARACTER during the lesson lol
Natalie Fin loooooool right 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, that’s the best part. Lol!
It’s the head pat scratch for me! 🤣
Lmaooo 😂😂😂
It makes it hilarious 🤣 with the eyelashes comment.
His wife obviously don't play about getting all dolled up, cause where he be getting alllllllll these examples from AND he know the prices 😂😂
Righttttt
It costs money to look great .... you can’t waste expensive makeup on dusty men
It's like having a protective brother, cousin or cool uncle that's schooling you 💙 I love it😌🙏Thank you lord
He so 💣 💣 💣 💣 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I feel blessed to hear his messages daily 🙏🏽
When he said about being exposed too early & the body craves smh so true. The flesh is so weak. NEVER AGAIN!
“ listen here jezebel spirit” I’m dead 💀
lol
TG stay giving us gems. Remember when he said don't give a man a second chance if you're not sure he's changed. Look at Princess & Ray j....she filed for divorce he begged her back..she took him back and a month later he filed for divorce. The man wants the last laugh. Be careful out here. Stop allowing these dudes to be disrespectful to you. Kids nor marriage will make a man love & respect you.
Peace, wealth, & wine ✌🏾💵🍷🥰
@@LA-wv7gf yes! Men can be very twisted. As TG would say, "you don't know that man" idc how long you been with him
Facts i peeped that too
Lol at peace wealth and wine 🍷 lol true stuff ❤️
@@PrettyDreadie 💯
@@glendanesmith yes ma'am. Women should let that be their focus and allow love to come in God's timing.
I wish I had these videos 20 years ago
These re-enactments are hilariously accurate 🤣
💯 They sometimes cancel a date and then turn around and ask you to come over the same night. 🤨
Tony keep speaking the truth because there are grown boys in their 50s still using these tests.
Amen sista!!! Professional men with multiple degrees with grown boy tendencies. How can men be trusted these days.
That’s called manipulation
That literally happened to me and I turned that grown boy down!
Yep because they like shortcuts and don’t want to have to put in all that work just to smash
Omg that’s the worst!!!!
I can honestly say I failed some of these tests
Same...and did a few days ago. Chasing after a grown boy.
I did last week after a horrible experience and it’s like I don’t learn. I just want to be in a good relationship but I just feel like I lack confidence in saying no. So I end up doing things I regret then it doesn’t work out. Dude wasn’t even over his ex and now I feel stupid. After about a month....I just left him alone but still
@@nellelove4899 pray and grow sis pray and grow. We all have fallen for nonsense. So grow from here.
Don't feel bad. But now you know
We all have. Gotta just take the L and learn from it lol. No worries.
A man told me I had emotional issues bc I wouldn’t sleep with him within weeks of meeting him....🤦🏾♀️🤮😂
He tried and lost
girllll...who he thought he was gone manipulate? lol certainly not you
Lmao they never cease to reveal themselves 🤦🏾♀️
that’s gross 😢
I’ve heard all this. Guys will make you feel so bad about not sleeping with them or “We should know what it’s like together before we get married” omg I’ve heard this a lot lately. The dumbest excuse. Being sexually assaulted and thinking it’s your fault because “you look so good”. It’s terrible.
it really is, i feel u Sestra. 💛
“Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you”😳 Whoah. That’s deep. I love it.
Correction : I WILL NOT FALL FOR IT
Crazy. But so true
“You can’t take a lion to the gazelle market - he fitna pounce” 🤦🏾♀️😂🤣😭
Tony so silly 😂🤣
Lol
😂😂
😆🤣😂😅
😂😂😂😂
Somebody get TG a network because ain't nobody got your attention for 59 minutes on TH-cam entertaining and being informative!!!
Exactly
We can’t turn it down Ladies without a relationship with God !!! Impossible! The Lord is our Strength 💪🏽🔥🔥🔥
The test about men asking their woman to go to the strip club is also a test to see if she will be down for a ménage a Trois.
You are sooooooo right about it!
Yep
No its a test of truth .... He's messing with other woman and with one of the dancers that he been spending money on to make her jealous😂 dumb but truth. If you have a three and the relationship didn't go anywhere you played yourself
@@yeahthatsme921 I never said any of this happened to me personally ...but I’ve heard several different stories from other women, where that was the males intentions.
That's what I thought he was going to say.
“You faking like you not picky, cause you want a husband” 😂😂😭😭😭
that whole segment took me out! i instantly liked the video and commented hahahahahaha
@@Luuve lol omg me too 😂😂😭😂
Whole truth n nothing but...I tell ppl... you better off waiting 2 husband's in and I'm still about to be single...
Somebody needs to give Tony a network ASAP 😂😂🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾Thank God for Tony‼️
Omg Tony is a comedian I am dying laughing 😅😅😅😅
I can’t help but think that if men today had integrity, women wouldn’t need constant coaching sessions. I’m not saying that we as women don’t get it wrong at times however, I find men are looking for a woman who has the stability they cannot provide. This is not the balance God intended and I will be single my whole life before I do for a man what he should have been planning for his whole life for me. This is my belief and I stand on it.
Omg yes! My dad stayed on us about making sure a man has integrity. He would also preach to me over and over about keeping my dignity, which I have found a lot of young women lack. That is why these men get away with so much and I seem like a lot work to them compared to what they are used to. At this point I don’t even care anymore. My peace means too much to me.
Amen 💯
Yasssss!
Beautiful comment. Thank you.
Ew chile! Say it louder!
Indeed!! A grown boy will test you to see what they can get away with and one test leads to the next.
Yep
Truth
"Well what about 9 o'clock...voice cracks...well what about 10'o clock." Too funny! crying tears.
It’s crazy how Tony literally scripted out my life by what a guy has said to me and the game he played. This man knows exactly what he is talking about.
He’s a man men know exactly how men play us
“GAHT TO GO” 💨
Soultanicals 😂😂
My favorite line 😂😂😂
Man you are a lowkey comedian lol, the tracks itching and eyelashes had me rolling
Omg! Me too I had to watch it twice..
Me too 😂
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That. WAS.HILARIOUS!
I'm 46 years old... Tony is the lil brother i needed but never had... soooooo insightful!!!!
Cancel a date on me that first time and he'll never hear from me again. If it wasn't an emergency and I spent 2+ hours getting ready, I'm blocking his number on the spot. I don't play that 🙅♀️🚫
“Must have been bit by a Cockroach!” 😂😂😂😂
Right with a nanny though lol.
That had me cracking up!!!
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LOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!
I died and ressurected 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 this is pure comedy
Every woman that feels they have been dating a narc needs to watch this as I feel most of them are very immature grown boys like Tony describes.
Truth!
Yes!
Now Tony how did you have that much information on lash extensions?! I’m screaming!!! 😂😂😂
when you said his text messages became your diary.. That made me hollered!!! 100000% facts!!
Sooooo I guess ima be single forever cuz soon as dem games start 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
“You got yo lil vanity that you didn’t have room for in yo house in the corner”
I cannot with you!!!! Mr.Gaskins😭😂
I felt attacked 😂😂😂
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I know this video isn't new but I'm over here crying because this is accurately hilarious 🤣
"You've got to have your belief and support system in place" so much gold!
“A real man doesn’t happen until he meets a real woman”. Tony!!!! Crack the Code please for the people!
I love this brother u women better listen God is jealous u women love God no one comes before God 🙏
Say that louder sis ...they can't hear you!!!
They're not trying to listen to Tony....they're busy listening to WAP and thinking of ways to get the bag from guys dancing to that on the ' gram!
You better say that! I keep telling women and they look at me like I'm crazy.
@Angel Herron God bless you
@@lakeshiawilliams8649 God bless you
Words cannot express how anointed this man is.
He said “TONY SMASHIN”. . .”They Want Dark Skin Women Cause It’s BLACK LIVES MATTER”😆😂😂😂
Why is this man not on 1 million subs yet? 🤔 🤦🏽♀️. He’s too too Real🙌🏽🙌🏽 well maybe that’s why ..😹
"Them tracks start to itch because that tension running through your body" 🤣🤣🤣 Tony say get classic volume 💪💪💪🤣🤣🤣
He wasn’t lying though Lmaoooo
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Tony, you said in your video that Grown boys love shortcuts. As soon as you said that i received a word in my spirit. It goes as follows; The shortcuts will please his flesh, but the Work will please his spirit. This is where we as women can make a big impact‼️ His flesh might not understand the work he has to put in, but on a subconscious level, his spirit is being impacted positively. This brings about real change in a man's heart, when our words and action feeds his spirit first. Thank you Tony. This is confirmation to me that you are indeed anointed by the Holy Spirit. I'd also like to add, that this proves that when we lay on our backs/ fornicate with the man, we bypass the opportunity to feed his spirit. So he continues to operate in lust. Makes complete sense‼️‼️
This is such a great comment. Like I feel like I’m going through this right now with my now ex boyfriend. He was my 1st bf ever and I had no clue what I was doing but I knew that these “tests” that I definitely failed were to teach me a lesson. He wants to get back together but presses sex and I absolutely refuse. I don’t want a man operating in lust but have been positively feeding his spirit from a distance
A word God is so good ❤
Scream laughing when he said the tracks start to itch cause of tension 😂🤣😂🤣
Ladies, they will certainly try you. I tell them all that there is nothing they can do that hasn't already been tried and done, nothing they can say that I haven't already heard, in one way, or another. I will check them every time. Believe it or not, men appreciate a woman who does not let them disrespect her, in any way.
He didn’t call...What had happened was... Who knew we had to go to school to get tested in dating and relationships Tony. Thanks for the real education.
cindee D Yes! So grateful for Bro Tony!💯💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’ve just witnessed Tony the Actor Comedian & Truth Teller. I’m showing this to the Single ladies & men at the Church. These tests are real & have consequences as well. Thank you Tony for identifying them. 🙏🏽
I wish I had seen this sooner. This is absolutely the game! And Tony has the playbook. I may not have passed every test, but now I’m restago.
Tony is like the Uncle that’s going to get you together! We need someone to talk candidly like this. Gems 💎
So true! You have to starve lust.
If you take a lion to a gazelle market, he’s gonna want to pounce. -TG
Translation: You can’t play into these grown boy games. We women have to learn to think with our heads, not our emotions.
We would win more on relationships if we listened to our intuition. If something doesn’t feel right never let a grown boy talk you into it.
Omg this man got me literally crying on here from laughing so darn hard, but the message and delivery was outstanding!
They get soo mad when they get denied. Throw an entire temper tantrum. Lol
I’m 50 and learning so much from you. Thank you and may God bless you 🙏🏼
who else be rolling on the floor laughing while also getting some good information?? Tony be cracking me UUUUUUUP. 😂😂
Chile me , I’m freaking dying!!
My eyes so damn teary 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“You got your little vanity that you didn’t have room for in your house but you found room in the corner “💀😩😂😂😂😂TG!! I can’t with you ...
😂 he funny
Tony, man you just blew my mind. I feel right now like I am at a truth serum night club. I am 71 and live in senior housing. A beautiful little place. I hope I don't get complaints about comedy club laughing. Man you are 10,000 percent so right. I'm repenting right now. The half and half friend that I have had for the last six years, I am to done. I will do a complete work on myself for me. Thank you Tony. No my pastor can't talk to me like you do. Anyway I am old enough to know better. I am closer to 100 than 40 years of age. I will take care of myself so that I can make it to 100. My morals, standards and standing on the Word will get me there.
I had a guy cancel on me twice, first was a family emergency than an urgent matter with a friend 🥱🤔 I seen right through them games and told him I'm sorry but I don't think this is going to work out ✌🏽
"That 5G radiation on your phone they dont want that in the office" 🤣🤣
I was surprised to hear that comment! Bravo TO THAT!! Most don't know a thing about the dangers of 5G!
I literally fell asleep with my phone and just woke up upset again to find It at my head.
I looked up the dangers and of course Google said there is no link to cancer. I used to be able to find out how bad it was online as well as om TH-cam but they are hiding the information now. Where can I find the information, anyone know?
A man can test all he wants. I trust myself to pass them.
That’s the best way too look at it
@@toriyt2714 there's no way around it. Just because he holds out a hoop doesn't mean u have to jump thru it.
“If you waitin to meet him…. You’ll be dead first!” 😅😂
I mean, saying I've never laughed so hard would be an understatement, sir.
I bet your wife stays cracking up!
God bless y'all!
Oh lord. This takes me back to my twenties when I had no wisdom around me to help me out.
A canceled date for me means he must not wanna take things further so bye 😂 when I was desperate i would’ve been the one trying to reschedule. Nope. I literally have a schedule so my free days are my free days, sir.
Boom 💥
facts. Even grown boys who get married try this too. Trying to be a GOOD man and BEING a "good" man are two different things. The things I could share...tsk tsk tsk.
"LooseBooty901" ALWAYS has me dying laughing. Lmao
Ladies we are in for a ride with this series 😂😂 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yes I love it !!! Ahahah everyday I'm looking for a grown boy video
Tony say "You ain't take your melatonin waiting on him!" 🤣🤣🤣
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I am laughing all the way in South Africa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank God for the internet and you Tony for sharing these teachings with us. So informative and so funny …. Love it ❤️❤️🙏🏾
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Ya wife got a comedian😂😂 God bless you Tony & everyone on these comments!!!! I have learned so much from you
“Is this thing working? Call my phone real quick” omg that used to be me... so sad
All of us has been there before.
16:45 Tony’s female impression .... man I can’t breathe 😂😂😩😩
Same😂😂😂😂😂
Your wife has you filled in on all the good stuff! I’m rolling 😂😂
OMG!! I'm cringing 😬 I literally just went through all of these test from one person! Lord have mercy, luckily that mess is over and done!