The entire dynamic of a relationship with a NARCISSIST is The narcissist trying to con you and you trying to not be conned. CON-SEQUENCES= A SEQUENCE OF CONS
I have not spoken to my Ex boyfriend who is without a doubt a narcissist! I danced with that devil one too many times off & on for years! List their contact as, THE DEVIL! Believe me you will never answer that call again! It worked for me for years! That’s exactly what he was in my life & I am so blessed with all this information on the internet to have learned I wasn’t as crazy as I thought I was! I saw what I saw! That dudes entire face shape shifted into something pure evil! I am happily married now to a good God fearing man who loves me with all his being 13 years now! He knows everything the devil took me through with the ex narc! We are in a small town, & until this day that ex Narc still drives pass my road! He owns a wrecker service & he lives approximately 25 mins away from where I stay! I don’t know why after all these years he still comes through my road when it is totally out the way! He calls from those texting & call apps & I don’t answer! I block them! The Narcs is just like their Father, The devil! They never give up! They come to steal, kill, & Destroy! Move on & live your best life because it destroys them! It’s then that you will begin to glow, & grow when make up your mind, your done dancing with the devil! When you let go of that accursed Narc, God will let go of all of the blessings that were held up dealing with them! When you go up, they go down! Thanks for the great video & keep pushing this information out there because everything you are saying are facts! For those that are still on that hamster wheel, I’m truly praying this will be your last time going around that circle! It’s time to get off that wheel so you can live in the best version of yourself & your life! They will never change! As stated in the video they won’t ever stop until they destroy you! 🙏🏾 & Never look back! May you all remain blessed forevermore..🙏🏾⬆️💪🏾✌️
No contact is the best weapon. They’ll respect you and you’ll be happier. They just come back to finish us off like Hario says. Don’t let them back it’s a deadly game they play with our lives.
My narc hoovered me today and left me a voice mail saying that she missed me. Yup! She missed torturing me. She missed cheating on me. She missed lying to me. She missed stepping over boundaries. She misses the job of totally destroying me…I deleted the message, I did not respond and started watching this mans videos so I can hear some truth.
I received my first hoover a week ago after 7 months of no contact. They never loved us . Love yourself and know that real love does exist. Do not allow this monster back into your life. Go do all of the things they took from you.... Stay around positive energy. Thanks Hario for another GOOD VIDEO .
No body in their right mind could really expect a relationship from someone who clearly show you year after year that they cannot be trusted. Truly sick creatures. Can you imagine they want to come into your life with utter disregard and terrorization. What kind of mental state these people are in. These are really the reprobate creatures the bible is talking about.
Yes ma’am, You are not alone. I have one of the Sisters that’s been crazy like this for years. But, all of this YT info got me the diagnosis I was looking for - NARCISSISM. The big blowup
Exactly!! They’re worrying about if we’re seeing anyone, but they’re in a full blown relationship. They’re probably fighting with that person and that’s why they hoovered! Then they have to punish you!!! 😠
👏. he had a whole woman at his house but he calling me a hoe because I started dating 😂 then came and professed his love saying he was jealous. its was so exhausting.
@@reesemonique I just left one and I thank God for giving me da strength and holy spirit too do so...My situation was just da same, a woman or should I say an old supply of 30 years, I didn't even know what da hell a narcissist was until I got with him. One year in and that's all she wrote...Out!!! Out!! Out! I feel like a new woman, I'm still kind, loving and forgiving towards other's, because that's just my character, my personality which he couldn't take from me, he really wanted my mind , not my heart and within a year's time, I realized that was not happening...I feel sorry for da other 30 year woman, but also thanking God it's not me after 1 year of learning what a Godless man is not. Living da rest of my life, da best of my life ! Continued luv& Blessings too u my beautiful survivor of a sister, just thought I'd share...Baby Lynn😇🙏
@@reesemonique omg sounds like my situation wanted me at home waiting on him while he stays with a woman smh! 🤦♀️ I left one day waiting on him so he arrived before me and LAWD I seen the devil 👿 he was so upset I even recorded the conversation now that I listen to it I realize how controlling he sounded!!!
OMG MINE TOO, even in relationship, he will mentioned it alot, that if one day we break up can we stay as friends... i said Na Ah! if it aint working out as a relationship it wont work out as friends especially cause we did and saw too much of each other... till i found out hes a narcissist, i stayed 0 contact
I got hoovered by my ex narc 2 hours ago. She used her friends phone to text me because I blocked her on EVERYTHING else. I ignored it and deleted it. I needed this video tonight. Thanks Hario.
The relationship with the narcissist is built on “hope and dreams”. It’s false hope and false dreams based on the narcissist’s manipulation technique of future-faking. The narcissist wants to keep you in a perpetual state of hoping and dreaming that things will get better, that your relationship will reach that point in the future that you long for… that’s what the narcissist wants you to stay invested in. But it’s an illusion. It’s like you are walking in the desert and the narcissist keeps pointing to the horizon… “Look, there’s an oasis over there. Let’s keep walking…” You can walk a long time in that desert (walking toward that mirage, that fake future) until you die of hunger, thirst, sunburn and heatstroke. It’s not worth it.
One thing I ve learnt is, Narcissists do not deserve to be with anyone. It's best they remain alone for the rest of their lives. Their selfish, wicked lives and spirit automatically pushes people away from them. That's why they never have successful relationships. It's best they remain lonely and miserable.
I’ve done so much research on this! Don’t let them back in, when they get you back it will be 10000000000000000 times worse. Continue to block and no contact!
Everything you said was so true! I was feeling better, losing weight and doing well. Been no contact for over 3yrs. Either him or someone he knows saw me smiling too hard and BAM! Hovering didn't work so he recruited flying monkeys. Going through the smear campaign and stalking. I do cry, not because of what he did. I cry because I don't want to end up going to prison for going super nova!
Been there feeling that I'd loose my freedom dealing wth the shit show.i did go supernova it nearly destroyed my entire life . spritualy mentally physically..long hard road back to finding my self & goodness forgiveness in my heart .
Lol @ Urban Kandake I know the feeling, I’m like don’t mistake kindness for weakness. The only thing keeping me from putting my Narc in the ground was God and fear of ruining my life and costing me my freedom with prison time.
Ty Hario your a genius. " The Object of The Game is to Totally Destroy You" . " As long as your communicating with them, there will NEVER be any respect".
I dont want to make up with no one try to destroy my life ...make up with some one that try to kill me ! Control me ....leave me high dry with STDs ....I dont think so ain't no discussion ...I told that sorry mother eff to keep it moving ...
I’m being hovered again. He really thinks that after being separated for 4 years that he can try to love bomb me and move back in as if nothing never happened. I thank God for waking me up and now I can see
I’m free 8 months from my narcissistic relationship including no contact & everything Hario is saying is very true. I was the new supply & I understand the angles. I even broke no contact month 3 out of the 8th & heavily regretted it but I appreciated it because it forced me to see that this was the life I was escaping from. I was blessed to be set free & I don’t want to be in anything God had to rescue me from. I have a peace of mind & im happy
@@Lanika1979 your baby is a blessing, I’m absolutely sure you know that. If I had a baby by my ex narcissist, it would’ve been a little challenging but I would divert all of my energy I to my child & have the courts intervene. He would never get to speak to me. 3rd party everything
@@thetravelhottie yeah im thinking of the courts but not sure i want to go that far its scary. I did the courts before and i didnt like the feeling of them making a decision for how much i can be with my child splitting visitation and all that. Ill go to social services get child support and do it that way. I do have a great paying job , i have a house , car and my child has her own room. I just dont like the courts because some people fight until they can gain custody and i dont want to go through that or take my child through that again it was awful. Im gonna have to manage some how its only been 7 days im hurt.
There are so many of them. I see my story in all of yours and it is overwhelming. Love isn’t in them, they are pretending. Don’t forget to love yourself first. Self care has to be priority for your healing journey. It will not heal overnight, but it will when you cut it off and stay no contact. Just like getting sober. One day at a time. Thank you Hario for reminding us and bringing us together. We win!!
I needed to hear this to stay strong and away from him!! No contact for 10 days! I truly feel blessed & extremely proud of myself!! Thank you for all your videos, you've helped me out tremendously💪💗
Right now my ex keeps coming and testing me lord God I pray that you block him that you send him on his way lord strengthen me on the inside lord vindicate me lord please fight my battles give me the strength and tools that I need to fight spiritually cause we wrestle not flesh and blood but against spiritual war fair in high and lower places lord chase him let him have no peace on his bed vindicate me lord lord you know what I've been threw you herd everything he did and said to me lord chase him down with you angles build a wall of protection around me send fourth your help lord fight my battles in Jesus name Amen 🙏
Amen Amen Amen. 🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪🕊🕊🕊🕊❤️❤️❤️, I hear you, sister, I will add you to my prayer list!!!! It's not by might, not by power, but by His Spirit. We have already won, cos Jesus won the victory at Calvary! Be in faith, be patient. He's doing it! God is not a man that He should lie, God bless you Christine 🤗🥰❤️
It's funny how those narc behave exactly the same, no matter which country, what race, religion....etc... I am from East Europe and my ex narc was doing hoovers two months after discarded me just to make me feel bad, to put salt on my wounds...
I told my ex that if I ever saw him in a public place; I'm going to look through him like he's Casper the Ghost. I will NEVER ACKNOWLEDGE his presence. Only family, friends and love ones deserve to be acknowledged and attended to 🤷🏾♀️
Focus on you God your family and stay away from toxic people places and things ...dont do things that would earn gods wrath will come upon you ....put your good foot forward move on with life I promise everything will be ok be bless
great vid👍the most important thing is never take them back...i got the hoover text 7 months ago 1 day before my birthday...it read happy birthday i just brush it off i never want her in my life again i saw her true color enough...
Hello! I am new here and I have to say I am just learning about this whole narcissist situation because I am in it and I am in a great deal of pain and shock. Thank you for sharing all this valuable information. It’s tough and painful to accept but it’s so true.
Congratulations for waking up👏 you had that gut feeling, you were driving yourself crazy telling yourself "maybe he didn't do that" maybe he didn't say that" "maybe it's just a bad day" "maybe I'm over reacting" "I know he's acting this way but it's probably something I did or said" " I know I'f I just do more or love him more he'll treat me better" and on and on....the things we tell ourselves over the years just to survive!
You just described exactly what I went through she called me telling me that she wants to put the family back together and as soon as I said yes she pulled back
They are gaming both of you....WHY would you speak to them, let alone say YES to her coming back?? You just feeding their addiction and they are satisfied just knowing you still available, it wasn't a serious request at all!! Better Go No Contact if you want a better life....
Just got a hoover yesterday. She wants to know if I'll be there if she needs me and if I still love her. She said " I've been around you more than anyone in the last 365 days, so I thought I'd ask you." She's nuts. She's absolutely delusional.
This just happened to me I was no contact for over a year, he used my daughter for the topic of the conversation, he saw a fake ring on my finger , the conversation quickly went south, he got so ugly
This is exactly what just happened!!!! And I went for it for the last time in Jesus name Amen! Thank God it was only for a couple of days this time! No more for me. That last time helped me close the door 🚪 🛑‼️
😂😂😂 that’s a transcript of the phone call I got. After that call I blocked him at all possible ways. Then I got anonymous calls which I didn’t answer. So pathetic!!
Hey y’all I’m having such a bad day I truly loved him just can’t believe I kept falling for the lies every time 🥲🥲🥲🥲 I’m having such a bad day guys why do ppl do good ppl this way 🥲🥲🥲
My ex narc was in front of my door when I opened the door there he was talking about are you ok do you need anything you look good ... I really had nothing to say, and on top of that a friend of mine was in the back round calling me from the kitchen ... my ex narc was about to cry so fake. It's almost a dam year and now you wanna come around he'll no I'm good...
PEACE HARIO, GOOD CONTENT AS ALWAYS LISTEN TO HIM FAM IT'S TRUE, I'VE BEEN NO CONTACT FOR 9 MONTHS GOT HOOVERED LAST NIGHT IT NEVER STOPS PEOPLE IF YOU'RE NEW TO THIS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS GET OUT STAY OUT NO CONTACT CUT THEIR FAMILY OFF FRIENDS OR HAD TOGETHER IF THE FEMALE NARCISSIST HAD CHILDREN AND EVEN IF HER CHILDREN WAS IN YOUR LIFE YOU CUT THEM TO YOU CUT EVERYBODY AND YOU HEAL. AND DON'T LOOK BACK, IT COULD BE 5 YEARS 10 YEARS THEY WILL STILL CHECK UP ON YOU EVEN THOUGH YOU LONG GONE BECAUSE THEY'RE SICK MIND YOU ARE STILL THERE'S. PEACE HARIO, 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
When he try’s to Hoover me I just be pushing him off iits been so peaceful since he’s been block and no contact . He sent me to court I won and he wanted to call children services on his own kids cuz I file for custody all I have is hate towards him.
So grateful for videos like these. I blocked emails but he makes new addresses to write from. He is sending a series of apology videos (i know from the titles. Am not watching them. So I'm holding the line but it takes me down a notch each time i see the mail come in!! But God. I ain't responding. Ever.
Saw the title & Facts! They know enough time away from them u will.snap back into reality. U under a demonic spell and influence when with a narc.Soulties are real.
I could had sometime the love booming would be describe for me as a fantasy world we must not enter. I think we are all finding a way to take our place in this world and maybe this is why we get stuck in those dynamic with a controller at their level. The narc does this to keep others to depend on them because they need to have control all the time.
No contact now for 5 weeks. He just started hovering this week. I finally blocked him on all social media. The funny things is when he sent the first text he acted as if nothing happened. He took a picture of an item at a antique shop. Said it made him think of me. 🤮 I never responded. He texted again days later…that he was thinking of me and how I was doing. I again ignored him. He finally texted me two days ago…that said so….you’re ignoring me I guess? Lol…yep! I never even responded. No way in hell! I win! Now blocked on my phone.🤗 You’re awesome Hario! Thank you!
You are by far one or the best I've listened to on TH-cam re: Narcissists.... I cannot thank you enough! Im at 11 days no contact after many times back and forth. When I feel tempted or if he hoovers.... I plan on listening to you again. I'll never understand how I can love a man that is so evil.
I agree. It’s like a never ending cycle of back and forth but the more I learn I see that all this back and forth with them is designed to keep us from healing and moving forward without them. We must daily plead the blood of Jesus to deliver us and set us free.
I filed for divorce on the 19th of July. She was acting like she was gone move out quick, but lied about apartment availability so wanted to stay longer. I called myself and found a spot that day. I see she was just happy I did something for her. They don't fathom the idea you are fed up with them until you get real and ensure they know you are finished and you could care less what happens to them. Choose yourself and see how they act. You get all your answers then and these videos put it out there. Done with they ass man. They really are wolves in sheep clothing. Save your life and bounce. It took me 13 years.
Thank you. my friend, you are helping me stay preparded and grounded! Keep speaking the truth, people out here need to hear it! You are helping tear down the devil's plans! I love your videos, energy and expressions!
U r sooooo on point about having a great day till that phone call that drains ur energy because it's just been taking over by negativity to destroy ur peace & happiness, mine has been stalking my house earlier, anything in his deceptive mine to deal will destroy me, but my life is full of abundance despite the turmoil I've allowed & I will not allow this decepticon drag me to hell where he resides. I came too far,& my babies deserve all what are to continue to be bestowed upon them. & Ur right, only one way for the blessings of positive complete build will only be when u stand comply in ur strength of a positive path, free of all of no good for u or ur family & that goes for PEOPLE, PLACES, & THINGS
This has me in tears cus that’s exactly what I’m dealing with.. how do u escape from these people? It’s been a year & some months and I still feel like yesterday .
Having a child with one is overwhelming and we have a 3 year old. I pray to god for healing I just want to live and be happy. I want to be happy again and even if that means being alone for the rest of my days. I dont mind being single for the rest of my life lord if that is what it will take. I just want to smile again without faking it.
50/50 that's a relationship. Everyone who's been with a narc and keeps meeting them you don't love yourself from not being loved. Love yourself and realise you don't need anyone to love you but yourself. That's the truth. Learn the lesson the universe is teaching you. Karma is a gift or a curse learn about yourself and stop blaming other people. Fact is normal people don't understand this. They ain't coming from abuse they didn't get it in their childhood. Concitrate on yourself and your loved ones. Be good. Heal yourself
Never knew that you can get such evil people walking all around us thankyou for teaching our woman to be more carefull who we see as our true friends!!!
He said exactly that too me, 1,000% Sotrue indeed….😡😡 I’m ghosting him, I’m so freakin tired of this BULL… PERIOD/CAP…. SERIOUS RECOVERY AND GET A BETTER ME BACK😊✌🏽
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They rather lose a lung instead of seeing you progressing
Lol...that serious.
Yop.
GIRLLLLLLLLL YES MAM.... JUST TOXIC
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow! Straight facts!! These things are sad pathetic envious souls
The entire dynamic of a relationship with a NARCISSIST is The narcissist trying to con you and you trying to not be conned. CON-SEQUENCES= A SEQUENCE OF CONS
That’s 🔥🔥🔥 Omg
Yes this is exactly it!!! Thank you!
Wow! Facts!
Wowww 🙌🏾❤️🔥
Brilliant
The pain of losing the few good times is better than tolerating their 💩 for one more second!
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Lisa
I loooove your comment...
Ikr the times without them are BETTER times.
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I have not spoken to my Ex boyfriend who is without a doubt a narcissist! I danced with that devil one too many times off & on for years! List their contact as, THE DEVIL! Believe me you will never answer that call again! It worked for me for years! That’s exactly what he was in my life & I am so blessed with all this information on the internet to have learned I wasn’t as crazy as I thought I was! I saw what I saw! That dudes entire face shape shifted into something pure evil! I am happily married now to a good God fearing man who loves me with all his being 13 years now! He knows everything the devil took me through with the ex narc! We are in a small town, & until this day that ex Narc still drives pass my road! He owns a wrecker service & he lives approximately 25 mins away from where I stay! I don’t know why after all these years he still comes through my road when it is totally out the way! He calls from those texting & call apps & I don’t answer! I block them! The Narcs is just like their Father, The devil! They never give up! They come to steal, kill, & Destroy! Move on & live your best life because it destroys them! It’s then that you will begin to glow, & grow when make up your mind, your done dancing with the devil! When you let go of that accursed Narc, God will let go of all of the blessings that were held up dealing with them! When you go up, they go down! Thanks for the great video & keep pushing this information out there because everything you are saying are facts! For those that are still on that hamster wheel, I’m truly praying this will be your last time going around that circle! It’s time to get off that wheel so you can live in the best version of yourself & your life! They will never change! As stated in the video they won’t ever stop until they destroy you! 🙏🏾 & Never look back! May you all remain blessed forevermore..🙏🏾⬆️💪🏾✌️
A HOOVER ONLY MEANS THEY STILL DON'T TAKE YO ASS SERIOUSLY WHEN YOU'VE CUT THEM OFF. A HOOVER IS NOT A COMPLIMENT WHAT SO EVER,
I blocked him from everywhere and changed my phone number. If he tries to hoover me, I am going to call the police. That's it.
very good 👍
@@Treasurehuntingmania 🙏💪❤ Thank you !!!!
Wow ! I changed my number and also blocked her we got this !
@@naomicrowder3444 Yeah!!!! 🙏💪❤
😂as you should
No contact is the best weapon. They’ll respect you and you’ll be happier. They just come back to finish us off like Hario says. Don’t let them back it’s a deadly game they play with our lives.
He has my kids
My narc hoovered me today and left me a voice mail saying that she missed me. Yup! She missed torturing me. She missed cheating on me. She missed lying to me. She missed stepping over boundaries. She misses the job of totally destroying me…I deleted the message, I did not respond and started watching this mans videos so I can hear some truth.
Block her and you won’t have that problem
I received my first hoover a week ago after 7 months of no contact. They never loved us . Love yourself and know that real love does exist. Do not allow this monster back into your life. Go do all of the things they took from you.... Stay around positive energy. Thanks Hario for another GOOD VIDEO .
Wowww after 7 months? Oh my god,
6 years for me
No body in their right mind could really expect a relationship from someone who clearly show you year after year that they cannot be trusted. Truly sick creatures. Can you imagine they want to come into your life with utter disregard and terrorization. What kind of mental state these people are in. These are really the reprobate creatures the bible is talking about.
They are Demons… anything human about them left a long time ago.
This is so scary accurate, it’s like you’re there!! This is exactly how it goes!!! This practically gave me ptsd listening, it was that accurate!!!
Exactly the same because I broke the no contact rule and was abused so badly and way worse than ever before
Yeah,He kno sum💯
Yes it was so accurate for me too!
Same
Same Here
I saw my narc sister after a month and she acted like we never had an argument. The acting is so good it’s scary.
Yes ma’am, You are not alone. I have one of the Sisters that’s been crazy like this for years. But, all of this YT info got me the diagnosis I was looking for - NARCISSISM. The big blowup
That's how my mom acts.
Yet another form of gaslighting
My sister in law to a tee
Exactly!! They’re worrying about if we’re seeing anyone, but they’re in a full blown relationship. They’re probably fighting with that person and that’s why they hoovered!
Then they have to punish you!!! 😠
👏. he had a whole woman at his house but he calling me a hoe because I started dating 😂 then came and professed his love saying he was jealous. its was so exhausting.
@@reesemonique unbelievable
I would probably answer ask why are you calling and hang up. My last text was and my gf wouldn’t like you texting me.
@@reesemonique I just left one and I thank God for giving me da strength and holy spirit too do so...My situation was just da same, a woman or should I say an old supply of 30 years, I didn't even know what da hell a narcissist was until I got with him. One year in and that's all she wrote...Out!!! Out!! Out! I feel like a new woman, I'm still kind, loving and forgiving towards other's, because that's just my character, my personality which he couldn't take from me, he really wanted my mind , not my heart and within a year's time, I realized that was not happening...I feel sorry for da other 30 year woman, but also thanking God it's not me after 1 year of learning what a Godless man is not. Living da rest of my life, da best of my life ! Continued luv& Blessings too u my beautiful survivor of a sister, just thought I'd share...Baby Lynn😇🙏
@@reesemonique omg sounds like my situation wanted me at home waiting on him while he stays with a woman smh! 🤦♀️ I left one day waiting on him so he arrived before me and LAWD I seen the devil 👿 he was so upset I even recorded the conversation now that I listen to it I realize how controlling he sounded!!!
This is 100% true. They hoover you all the while having lovers in the background and sayin they faithful and haven't done anything.
Narcs are just machines!
Truth
Or they have a secret wife and children
@@JahannamHellfire True
My narcissist is living with his new supply and deny having a girlfriend!!
They always wanna stay "friends" I told him you will never be my friend I am not friends with exes. he couldn't take it
Girl I said the same thing
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I said the exact same thing.
OMG MINE TOO, even in relationship, he will mentioned it alot, that if one day we break up can we stay as friends... i said Na Ah! if it aint working out as a relationship it wont work out as friends especially cause we did and saw too much of each other... till i found out hes a narcissist, i stayed 0 contact
That's literally what I just told mine, I told him we aren't anything!
No peace for the wicked no peace
I got hoovered by my ex narc 2 hours ago. She used her friends phone to text me because I blocked her on EVERYTHING else. I ignored it and deleted it. I needed this video tonight. Thanks Hario.
The relationship with the narcissist is built on “hope and dreams”. It’s false hope and false dreams based on the narcissist’s manipulation technique of future-faking. The narcissist wants to keep you in a perpetual state of hoping and dreaming that things will get better, that your relationship will reach that point in the future that you long for… that’s what the narcissist wants you to stay invested in. But it’s an illusion. It’s like you are walking in the desert and the narcissist keeps pointing to the horizon… “Look, there’s an oasis over there. Let’s keep walking…” You can walk a long time in that desert (walking toward that mirage, that fake future) until you die of hunger, thirst, sunburn and heatstroke. It’s not worth it.
Preach!!!
lol 😂 so true then get mad when you don’t believe I
Ain't that the TRUTH !!!
They’re obsessed 😭😭
It’s gross get a life weirdo
While pretending they aren't because they want the upperhand... and to be chased because they're so insecure and need inflated ego.
It’s demonic, they are demon possessed.
One thing I ve learnt is, Narcissists do not deserve to be with anyone. It's best they remain alone for the rest of their lives. Their selfish, wicked lives and spirit automatically pushes people away from them. That's why they never have successful relationships. It's best they remain lonely and miserable.
I’ve done so much research on this! Don’t let them back in, when they get you back it will be 10000000000000000 times worse. Continue to block and no contact!
Everything you said was so true! I was feeling better, losing weight and doing well. Been no contact for over 3yrs. Either him or someone he knows saw me smiling too hard and BAM! Hovering didn't work so he recruited flying monkeys. Going through the smear campaign and stalking. I do cry, not because of what he did. I cry because I don't want to end up going to prison for going super nova!
Nowwww, not prison. They don't understand that.
Stay strong , keep going
Not worth you going to prison over a N. ✌️
Been there feeling that I'd loose my freedom dealing wth the shit show.i did go supernova it nearly destroyed my entire life . spritualy mentally physically..long hard road back to finding my self & goodness forgiveness in my heart .
Lol @ Urban Kandake I know the feeling, I’m like don’t mistake kindness for weakness. The only thing keeping me from putting my Narc in the ground was God and fear of ruining my life and costing me my freedom with prison time.
Ty Hario your a genius. " The Object of The Game is to Totally Destroy You" . " As long as your communicating with them, there will NEVER be any respect".
I dont want to make up with no one try to destroy my life ...make up with some one that try to kill me ! Control me ....leave me high dry with STDs ....I dont think so ain't no discussion ...I told that sorry mother eff to keep it moving ...
I’m being hovered again. He really thinks that after being separated for 4 years that he can try to love bomb me and move back in as if nothing never happened. I thank God for waking me up and now I can see
I’m free 8 months from my narcissistic relationship including no contact & everything Hario is saying is very true. I was the new supply & I understand the angles. I even broke no contact month 3 out of the 8th & heavily regretted it but I appreciated it because it forced me to see that this was the life I was escaping from. I was blessed to be set free & I don’t want to be in anything God had to rescue me from. I have a peace of mind & im happy
Did u have kids together?
@@Lanika1979 No THANK GOD!
@@thetravelhottie i wish i had no kid with him
@@Lanika1979 your baby is a blessing, I’m absolutely sure you know that. If I had a baby by my ex narcissist, it would’ve been a little challenging but I would divert all of my energy I to my child & have the courts intervene. He would never get to speak to me. 3rd party everything
@@thetravelhottie yeah im thinking of the courts but not sure i want to go that far its scary. I did the courts before and i didnt like the feeling of them making a decision for how much i can be with my child splitting visitation and all that. Ill go to social services get child support and do it that way. I do have a great paying job , i have a house , car and my child has her own room. I just dont like the courts because some people fight until they can gain custody and i dont want to go through that or take my child through that again it was awful. Im gonna have to manage some how its only been 7 days im hurt.
He told me he been thinking about me and I am his soulmate lol
told me the same the had his ex at the house same night 🤦♀️
These narcs are full of shit
I got The same e-mail of my ex narc
Don’t take the bait
Narcissist, covert narcissist are the worse! These narcissist love polygamy, so who do they love?! Big joke
There are so many of them. I see my story in all of yours and it is overwhelming. Love isn’t in them, they are pretending. Don’t forget to love yourself first. Self care has to be priority for your healing journey. It will not heal overnight, but it will when you cut it off and stay no contact. Just like getting sober. One day at a time. Thank you Hario for reminding us and bringing us together. We win!!
I needed to hear this to stay strong and away from him!! No contact for 10 days! I truly feel blessed & extremely proud of myself!! Thank you for all your videos, you've helped me out tremendously💪💗
Heck yes ! I’m on day 8 no contact !
Right now my ex keeps coming and testing me lord God I pray that you block him that you send him on his way lord strengthen me on the inside lord vindicate me lord please fight my battles give me the strength and tools that I need to fight spiritually cause we wrestle not flesh and blood but against spiritual war fair in high and lower places lord chase him let him have no peace on his bed vindicate me lord lord you know what I've been threw you herd everything he did and said to me lord chase him down with you angles build a wall of protection around me send fourth your help lord fight my battles in Jesus name Amen 🙏
Amen Amen Amen. 🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪🕊🕊🕊🕊❤️❤️❤️, I hear you, sister, I will add you to my prayer list!!!! It's not by might, not by power, but by His Spirit. We have already won, cos Jesus won the victory at Calvary! Be in faith, be patient. He's doing it! God is not a man that He should lie, God bless you Christine
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It's funny how those narc behave exactly the same, no matter which country, what race, religion....etc...
I am from East Europe and my ex narc was doing hoovers two months after discarded me just to make me feel bad, to put salt on my wounds...
They come to destroy
Narcs dont want to bond...being committed in a relationship is not their goal or desire
my ex narc got engaged but didnt work out
I told my ex that if I ever saw him in a public place; I'm going to look through him like he's Casper the Ghost. I will NEVER ACKNOWLEDGE his presence. Only family, friends and love ones deserve to be acknowledged and attended to 🤷🏾♀️
As soon as I ignore him my hoover comes fast to the point that I'm the one that uses him for my personal gain and then I let him go until next time
Facts....its about emotional intelligence. Use and dump each time he hoovers .. He realizes after he's been gone 🤏🏽
Focus on you God your family and stay away from toxic people places and things ...dont do things that would earn gods wrath will come upon you ....put your good foot forward move on with life I promise everything will be ok be bless
I needed this!!! “The accuracy is scary” THANK YOU ❤️💯💪🏾🙌🏽
great vid👍the most important thing is never take them back...i got the hoover text 7 months ago 1 day before my birthday...it read happy birthday i just brush it off i never want her in my life again i saw her true color enough...
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They keep things stirred up all the time! always turmoil and conflict! It's exhausting and life stealing!
Preach Hario ! No contact is my daily anthem!
Yessssssss
Inflict massive Narc injury and they will never Hoover you!!!
Hello! I am new here and I have to say I am just learning about this whole narcissist situation because I am in it and I am in a great deal of pain and shock. Thank you for sharing all this valuable information. It’s tough and painful to accept but it’s so true.
Congratulations for waking up👏 you had that gut feeling, you were driving yourself crazy telling yourself "maybe he didn't do that" maybe he didn't say that" "maybe it's just a bad day" "maybe I'm over reacting" "I know he's acting this way but it's probably something I did or said" " I know I'f I just do more or love him more he'll treat me better" and on and on....the things we tell ourselves over the years just to survive!
One day at a time Sis! You’ll get there.
I kept on answering hoovers now I have to start ALLLLL OVER healing. Knowing all along when answering that I
was an ahole for doing it.
This has been going on for a 3 years I didn’t know what was going on i didn’t know what a Nac was I swear on my life I didn’t know what to do!
You just described exactly what I went through she called me telling me that she wants to put the family back together and as soon as I said yes she pulled back
They are gaming both of you....WHY would you speak to them, let alone say YES to her coming back?? You just feeding their addiction and they are satisfied just knowing you still available, it wasn't a serious request at all!! Better Go No Contact if you want a better life....
They only want you back so they can "pull the rug out from under you!" Another game they play to try and feel worthy.
Never say yes
Just got a hoover yesterday. She wants to know if I'll be there if she needs me and if I still love her. She said " I've been around you more than anyone in the last 365 days, so I thought I'd ask you."
She's nuts.
She's absolutely delusional.
😆mind blowing delusional ain't they . Where these people from Jupiter
@@juliechurch1799 Mine literally told me he's from planet Zoltar 😂
i got hoover 2 days ago from a fake ass profile hahahahhaa
She may want somebody to go abortion clinic with her.
Freaks lot of em !
This just happened to me I was no contact for over a year, he used my daughter for the topic of the conversation, he saw a fake ring on my finger , the conversation quickly went south, he got so ugly
They come back when you are healed
This is exactly what just happened!!!! And I went for it for the last time in Jesus name Amen! Thank God it was only for a couple of days this time! No more for me. That last time helped me close the door 🚪 🛑‼️
😂😂😂 that’s a transcript of the phone call I got. After that call I blocked him at all possible ways. Then I got anonymous calls which I didn’t answer. So pathetic!!
Wow, never thought of it that way. Well, blocked the blockhead. Doing GREAT!!
In the words of Alicia Keys “ I’m so Done “
I’m living my life the way that I want 🙏🏽😊❤️ No Contact Narc Free Blocked 178 days blocked I’m winning 🏅
And keep winning 🥇
That song helped me escape 1 year of Narc hell! My ex narc gf is causing havoc and hell to anyone around since my escape. Never again!
Hey y’all I’m having such a bad day I truly loved him just can’t believe I kept falling for the lies every time 🥲🥲🥲🥲 I’m having such a bad day guys why do ppl do good ppl this way 🥲🥲🥲
Morning. Great timing . The love bomb is on its way any day now ...
My ex narc was in front of my door when I opened the door there he was talking about are you ok do you need anything you look good ... I really had nothing to say, and on top of that a friend of mine was in the back round calling me from the kitchen ... my ex narc was about to cry so fake. It's almost a dam year and now you wanna come around he'll no I'm good...
If I didn't have Hario my head would have exploded with frustration by now. The patterns don't lie
And if you reverse it and contact them with they're own move. they'll ignore you.
These narcs are leeches. So hard to get them gone! 🤮
PEACE HARIO, GOOD CONTENT AS ALWAYS LISTEN TO HIM FAM IT'S TRUE, I'VE BEEN NO CONTACT FOR 9 MONTHS GOT HOOVERED LAST NIGHT IT NEVER STOPS PEOPLE IF YOU'RE NEW TO THIS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS GET OUT STAY OUT NO CONTACT CUT THEIR FAMILY OFF FRIENDS OR HAD TOGETHER IF THE FEMALE NARCISSIST HAD CHILDREN AND EVEN IF HER CHILDREN WAS IN YOUR LIFE YOU CUT THEM TO YOU CUT EVERYBODY AND YOU HEAL. AND DON'T LOOK BACK, IT COULD BE 5 YEARS 10 YEARS THEY WILL STILL CHECK UP ON YOU EVEN THOUGH YOU LONG GONE BECAUSE THEY'RE SICK MIND YOU ARE STILL THERE'S. PEACE HARIO, 💪🏿💪🏿💯💯
Thank you once again ❤ Scary that we all have the same book with a different cover...
Oh my goodness. This is so good! The mind games are crazy!!!
When he try’s to Hoover me I just be pushing him off iits been so peaceful since he’s been block and no contact . He sent me to court I won and he wanted to call children services on his own kids cuz I file for custody all I have is hate towards him.
This is the second and Last break up for me I'm Done! NO Contact! 2months and Running.
OMG... Prophecy!!! I'm so glad I found this channel nothing is without reason!!!
4 years no hovering just stalking my social media. I exposed the Narcissist and got away.
So grateful for videos like these. I blocked emails but he makes new addresses to write from. He is sending a series of apology videos (i know from the titles. Am not watching them. So I'm holding the line but it takes me down a notch each time i see the mail come in!!
But God.
I ain't responding. Ever.
I love you hario..
U just nailed it all the time
Your messages are fire! I think you need to be a minister !
Saw the title & Facts! They know enough time away from them u will.snap back into reality. U under a demonic spell and influence when with a narc.Soulties are real.
Hello Hario, this was so good. I have not heard from the nac over a year now. Thank you👍👍
I could had sometime the love booming would be describe for me as a fantasy world we must not enter. I think we are all finding a way to take our place in this world and maybe this is why we get stuck in those dynamic with a controller at their level. The narc does this to keep others to depend on them because they need to have control all the time.
Thank you so much. This has helped tremendously not to respond to my Narc
You are my personal counsellor....n I am doing good now...🤝🤗
Wicked serpent Jebel spirit..
No contact now for 5 weeks. He just started hovering this week. I finally blocked him on all social media. The funny things is when he sent the first text he acted as if nothing happened. He took a picture of an item at a antique shop. Said it made him think of me. 🤮
I never responded. He texted again days later…that he was thinking of me and how I was doing. I again ignored him. He finally texted me two days ago…that said so….you’re ignoring me I guess? Lol…yep!
I never even responded. No way in hell! I win! Now blocked on my phone.🤗
You’re awesome Hario! Thank you!
You are by far one or the best I've listened to on TH-cam re: Narcissists.... I cannot thank you enough! Im at 11 days no contact after many times back and forth. When I feel tempted or if he hoovers.... I plan on listening to you again. I'll never understand how I can love a man that is so evil.
I am right there with you. On and off for 3 years I've 35 times back and forth and I'm just realizing this and it's disgusting and evil.
I agree. It’s like a never ending cycle of back and forth but the more I learn I see that all this back and forth with them is designed to keep us from healing and moving forward without them. We must daily plead the blood of Jesus to deliver us and set us free.
Yes out of all the content creators I listen to he’s helped me the most!!
I needed this thank you I’m suppose to be at work
I filed for divorce on the 19th of July. She was acting like she was gone move out quick, but lied about apartment availability so wanted to stay longer. I called myself and found a spot that day. I see she was just happy I did something for her. They don't fathom the idea you are fed up with them until you get real and ensure they know you are finished and you could care less what happens to them. Choose yourself and see how they act. You get all your answers then and these videos put it out there. Done with they ass man. They really are wolves in sheep clothing. Save your life and bounce. It took me 13 years.
so bizarre what they do just cause you don’t want them anymore. like a 5yr old not getting their way…..completely twisted
My God this is so accurate it is frightening
Thank you. my friend, you are helping me stay preparded and grounded! Keep speaking the truth, people out here need to hear it! You are helping tear down the devil's plans! I love your videos, energy and expressions!
U r sooooo on point about having a great day till that phone call that drains ur energy because it's just been taking over by negativity to destroy ur peace & happiness, mine has been stalking my house earlier, anything in his deceptive mine to deal will destroy me, but my life is full of abundance despite the turmoil I've allowed & I will not allow this decepticon drag me to hell where he resides. I came too far,& my babies deserve all what are to continue to be bestowed upon them. & Ur right, only one way for the blessings of positive complete build will only be when u stand comply in ur strength of a positive path, free of all of no good for u or ur family & that goes for PEOPLE, PLACES, & THINGS
Facts on facts, Hario 🏁🏁🏁
You never let me down god before I need you now
This is definitely the truth!!!! I was good until he called on Father’s Day and it set me back.
This has me in tears cus that’s exactly what I’m dealing with.. how do u escape from these people? It’s been a year & some months and I still feel like yesterday .
So it happened again! My comment was 5 months ago, I blocked him
I avoided the hover
@@Xwaterwicca good decision. Never go back to eat from the trash . You can never heal in the environment that got you sick .
It's tragic but it's even more tragic to compromise yourself. Don't be that guy!
Having a child with one is overwhelming and we have a 3 year old. I pray to god for healing I just want to live and be happy. I want to be happy again and even if that means being alone for the rest of my days. I dont mind being single for the rest of my life lord if that is what it will take. I just want to smile again without faking it.
You will smile again. and that comes when you cut them off and out of your life.
@@lovelyone2031 i cut him off but its hard we have a child together
Thank you Hario ❤
50/50 that's a relationship. Everyone who's been with a narc and keeps meeting them you don't love yourself from not being loved. Love yourself and realise you don't need anyone to love you but yourself. That's the truth. Learn the lesson the universe is teaching you. Karma is a gift or a curse learn about yourself and stop blaming other people. Fact is normal people don't understand this. They ain't coming from abuse they didn't get it in their childhood. Concitrate on yourself and your loved ones. Be good. Heal yourself
Never knew that you can get such evil people walking all around us thankyou for teaching our woman to be more carefull who we see as our true friends!!!
They come with the old "Keith Sweat" songs...lol...But it doesn't work anymore! 😂
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You hit the nail on the head. 100% accurate. May God bless you brother 🙏🏾
Wow! Spot on!
These videos are like therapy for me❤
He said exactly that too me, 1,000% Sotrue indeed….😡😡 I’m ghosting him, I’m so freakin tired of this BULL… PERIOD/CAP….
SERIOUS RECOVERY AND GET A BETTER ME BACK😊✌🏽
The only relationship that has taken me so long to get over
Thanks for all of your videos Hario.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this! It's so absolutely true. Spot on!
Mine has dragged me through 4 states it's no joke! They are very sick twisted people!
Wow, thank you, you have filled in the gaps, perfectly for me! 🙏🙏✔️😎❤️💪💪💪