watch this if you think life is UNFAIR
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Hey lot of love form India...NICE WORK KEEP GROWWING 💗
Very good, reflective content. Especially the conclusions.
Really love this video idea
Damn, You're so beautiful💖💖😍
THANK you very much From HAÏTI 🇭🇹 for that video on UNFAIR Advantages Ruri! Let's keep the motivation and disciplin FEELINGS UP together on this chanel! THANK YOU again Ruri!
Life is unfair but if you are able to read this on a new phone, in a warm home, without being hungry or thirsty then you are already having a head start against at least 50% of the population.
Well still unfair to me. Look at Epstein. He live a dream life.
@@kazumakiryuu2668 well I don't know, I'd like not to die at the age of 66 by being hung or hanging myself, depending on which narrative you choose.
yeah but thats what makes me sadder, i feel so sad for the other homeless, hungry, thirsty people out there even kids... well i live in turkey thats a whole unfair thing. i always thank my life to have some money, warm house and etc but we're getting worse about life (poor in money, justice etc yk) day by day as a country. our situation as a family is not that bad but we barely can reach stuff we want as teenagers. even education and health system are like crap. we all wanna run from the country but lol we need money for that too. whatever you might know how bad turkey is so...
@@cilginkizseni7376 lol it seems he have a similar thoughts. I'm from India and I do wanna flew away from my country...
@@sura_jongs im sorry for us :( and i hope we'll make our dreams come true, please dont give up 🥺
Keeping comparing to others is very unhealthy. We all have ups and downs,
so, why no one wants to live in Afghanistan? or Pakistan???
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What if someone's life have been continues downs? Not everyone's gets happy moments.
according to who? you?
you can appreciate what you have more and the good that is in your life instead of complaining
Your vlog about "feeling like a failure" and the speed at which your channel blew up made me motivated to continue vlogging despite sharing my opinions on certain topics and sometimes getting hate for it.
Me 2 🔥💃🏼
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Thank you for this comment I feel similar. Ruri is excellent, intelligent and very helpful ❤️
A great watch on how humanity is defined th-cam.com/video/S5f5zKsN1DE/w-d-xo.html,
You've got quite nice to watch videos on your channel, I like it - it's a good beginning with no doubts, you have cool voice etc. Don't worry and continue what you do, much love from Poland :D (didn't expect to meet some Poles here, lol)
Life is definitely unfair. You can work just as hard as another person, yet circumstances can still affect your results. Should we then continue to compare ourselves to others? No. I think that there is beauty in the story of overcoming financial and mental struggles just as much as taking longer.
Eventhough life is unfair you must find your passion
A great watch on how humanity is defined th-cam.com/video/S5f5zKsN1DE/w-d-xo.html,
I know a guy who cheats on his life partner with many women yet he still have successful career & living a safe life. I know some of my friends bought / cheated their bachelor thesis and work at Shopee / have lucrative jobs, because they got it before the pandemic hit in 2020. I know corrupt politicians who went unpunished, like Ferdinand Marcos of Philippines.
@@Etendard1708 yeah man. I try to never cheat and be honest knowing I've worked hard yet being in a toxic environment can derail your career back for even a year or two. That's me.
@@lecryptojames life is unfair but I don't want to be a part of that unfairness.
*Life is definitely not 100% fair. However I still think that you can build a life you are proud of if you put in the work.*
Kesinlikle
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by the time it's built. I feel like I am already pass the time of marriage lol
Maybe
I think hard work is a lie
It's refreshing to watch these kinda video. I mean most video usually just give you toxic positivity, but ruri always speaks the truth.
Truth is truth. Truth can be positive or negative
@@kazumakiryuu2668 did you even know what toxic positivity means?
Toxic positivity ... thats an accurate expression.
Yep, in these channels they say life is fair and keep with the good vibes and everything is gonna be fine bulshit...
Thanks ruri ❤
I'm 18 years old and I have an entrance exam this year and things are difficult for me and sometimes i really lost my motivation and feel so bad , because education system in Iran is a completely disaster, and we have big problems in this regard .
I'm trying to learn English and new skills to improve myself to achieve my goals and live my own life . And all the time your videos really help me 😁❤
Good luck, you can do it!
Why education system in Iran is disaster?
@@zarandmarin8970 isn't it?
A great watch on how humanity is defined th-cam.com/video/S5f5zKsN1DE/w-d-xo.html,
@@zarandmarin8970 at this point I've started to feel every country's students feel their education system is disastrous. I see Indian students complain about our ES all the time while preparing for entrance exams which are highly competitive.
So true, the only truths are that life is hard and we’ll all die. There are things we can’t change - but stacking the deck and using our unfair advantages means we can make the best of what we have! My unfair advantages include my education/being a doctor, empathy/communication skills, problem solving skills, video editing/graphic design/music for my own YT channel… There are things that I would change if I could (without going into detail) - but I am still so grateful for the advantages that I have been given, and will try my best to use them to help myself and others around me!
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You know this video was nine different types of refreshing to watch. Never really considered much of my background to be an unfair advantage until now. It’s inspiring and empowering tbh. Thank you.
Thx for being there when I need to hear this the most, cause it's filling the confidence that I'm lacking right now in life.
Thanks ruri I have anxiety and depression and I really needed to hear this
Also agree in regards to physical attraction. I think that should motivate us to want to look to the best of our ability.
Thanks Ruri,
I just discovered your channel and it came like a bless right now in my life, I was really going through a bad mental breakdown with all of those subjects you know so well how to talk about it. It's like you're resolving all the issues I had in my mind since so many years.. and I can see it differently now.Thanks to this video and the failure video one.
Thank you very much for these i'll subscribe to your content 😊
I've watched a lot of productivity videos and I feel like it's for it to get to your head, but this is genuinely life changing advice!
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YOUR CHANNEL IS REACHING A DEEPER and more mature level in 2022 and I LOVE IT!! really inspiring. amazing you are producing high quality content twice a week right now. can't wait to see the inspirational content you make this year!! thanks Ruri 🙏 頑張れ! 🙇♂️
@@ponderingspirit he is Dr. Justin in Japan
@@ponderingspirit You mean, like you?
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My daily dose of motivation 👏🏽
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Very well explained and appreciated the real world examples from your own experiences. Thank you!
Agreed, Life is really unfair making one individual so damn good looking and talented
Probably crony capitalism
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I was one of those book smart students in school. And you are absolutely right, now that I am a little older, I know for a long time that there are more types of intelligence which I am not good at. Creativity, social interaction, emotional intelligence. I am bad in all of that. I am doing ok now, but not as good as I could, I guess.
I understand all the points you wanted to convey but I honestly believe that not everything can be circled around to become an advantage. if you were born in Eastern Europe for instance you could be as ambitious as much as you want but it would be 10times more difficult to achieve a normal life standard. Just like in the Middle East for instance. There are still some countries where it is better to be born than in others, and there is no way to spin it around. Other points make sense ofc.
That's the same feeling I had watching this video. There are some systems that actively work against a person, much like how the United States has systems set in place to disenfranchise black people, that can make overcoming them extremely difficult. That being said, I'm more in the mindset that communities and working together with others can and usually do help in overcoming and changing the systems at play to enfranchise one another. Also, of course, working towards yourself and empowering yourself, but understanding the systems at work and what changes need to be made to get to where you want to be. It's both realizing one's personal strengths and the strengths of communities.
Existence is designed to work against each individual, in some way.
Believing that not everything can be turned into an unfair advantage is a fatalistic and limited view on existence.
Allowing One’s life to be ultimately dictated by their circumstances is weakness. Period.
There are PLENTY of people born in the Middle East/Eastern Europe who have used such to their advantage.
Simply because you are not aware of any, does not imply they do not exist.
If you believe there are some unfair advantages that cannot be such..
Well, you’re correct.
If One believes everything has potential to be such, and it’s all a matter of perspective and how One chooses to use it..
Well, that person is, also, correct.
@@XOChristianaNicole So basically, you are using the religious type of philosophy? If you can believe it, you can achieve it. Life is not a Disney song tho.
+1 Having a low IQ due to genetics is a disadvantage you can not turn into an advantage in the vast majority of cases.
@@Fleischgewordener_Sterbehelfer
Pretty much. I don't know what my actual IQ is but I'm dumb and slow at everything, it would take me 10x longer to learn than average people. Although it does give you some kind of stoic mindset due to always being disappointed and failed lol. Now I never expected things to turn out well but I still do it anyway.
I like that you are not just describing the book, but your adding your commentary, from your perspective / experiences
Hi Ruri, I am in love with your fluency of English language. Excellent.
Hi Ruri, I realized that when I change my mode positively my life improves. Mostly I was getting what I believe that. Despite the fact, I am still fragile. Whenever I have little tiny problems, I can't prevent going back. I guess I need to prepare a more powerful routine for the rest of my life.
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Crystal Clear and crisp, tq for the valuable information Ruri
Yes;Your videos always inspire me Ruri. Your looks and confident is definately the most undauntable UNFAIR ADVANTAGES.Just keep it up .
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tysm ruri, you have no idea how your videos help me!
You always giving me passion to start and I’m very grateful for that,and always I found that thing that I’m looking for ❤
everytime after I watched Ruri's video, I feel like confidence and grab my future in my hand. I know what to do and she really helps me a lot !
Amazing! Very interesting subject especially about being an outsider in a certain community. It feels the same for those who have parents from different cultures in the same country too.
You inspire me to be better each day! I’m watching all of your videos! Thank you very much for sharing a lot of good informations, experiences.
You’re the first person that mention one feeling that I was believing to be the only one person in this world feeling this… My grandparents were Japanese🇯🇵 but I was born in Brazil 🇧🇷 (my parents also). For Brazilians, I’m Japanese, but I’ve been in Japan, and definitely I’m not because I can’t speak properly, and my appearance is different. I’m living in UK now, so for them, I’m Chinese 🇨🇳 😂 (a lot of Chinese stay angry when I don’t answer them in Mandarin or Cantonese). I’ve been in Hong Kong 🇭🇰 and I realised that maybe, my ancestors can be from there, because I saw a lot of people like me😂. When my husband ask something, the people answer me in Cantonese and not him in English😅. Some people were so mad, because I told them my background. It’s so sad… Maybe just Asians can understand these differences… Thank you for create a “world” that we can be “accepted”! “Diversity” that’s the word! Less pre-conceptions, judgements! For a better world!Multicultural! 🌎❤️
Ruri iyiki bu kanalı açmışsın gerçekten bana bazı konularda karar vermemde çok çok çok yardımcı oluyorsun çok teşekkürler
Thanks Ruri for making this video, your videos are very informative, helpful and inspiring.. I love watching your vlogs too, You are awesome.
Hi Ruri, this is the first of your videos I have watched. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You sound extremely intelligent and it is an advantage to me that you are able to talk about these challenges we all face. I have unfair advantages in my life that sometimes can feel like a burden. I practice gratitude to remind myself of that things are always working out for me and to appreciate the contrast and lessons.
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she's just amazing!
this is exactly what i would like to hear in this moment. Thx
Haven't seen the video as of yet, bit I still feel like this quote is important "saying you shouldn't be unhappy because others have it worse is like saying you shouldn't be happy because others have it better"
Yeah that never made any sense. But to be honest telling people to be ok with whatever they are and have would be in her worst interests so I don't think we can except her to ever say that!!!
This is weird, I've been struggling with some mental battle and how I get discouraged when I'm not achieving anything but this is actually really helpful and its weird how this is pretty recent
This was the best ad for Turkey I've ever seen
"I know that I'm attractive!...I mean, people say it, so..." That had me in hysterics 😂.
Great video, pretty much different from "failure". You covered this perfectly, thanks, Ruri.
Thank you Ruri for recommending The Unfair Advantage! 🤓
Like that! Thank Ruri and youtube algorithm for this video. I believe that every person have theire own way, so it's normally to have problems that other have not. Maybe we just need to learn to live with yourself and enjoy life.
Well said, you explore this topic really deep and practical as well. Mindset matters and like the idea to appreciate connecting to others in order to learn from others. Like the way u make this video🙏
I love this video so much, when I regret about my advantage I always come to watching this video. This video always handle my life.
Thank you so much ruri you are a genuine being 💓💕💕♥️
Omg I was waiting for this video! Glad you made one :)
Thanks for the book recommendation, added to my reading list.
your advices are priceless and the way you explain everything to make it looks simple and easy to get is amazing 😍😍🥰
Life is a great journey and the thing that I’ve learned is that you receive the most when you least expect it. Work hard, do great, and most importantly help others along the way!
This channel is the only thing that keeping my stress away thesedays, you wouldn't how much i appreciate every single one of these videos.
I think your personality is just beautiful and anyone who can become your friend, they are the fortunate one ;) take care and be safe always.
This was A Good Reminder for us Thank You
I've been feeling down lately and your videos have really helped me! Glad to be a new subscriber!
This is one of your best video.
Respect!
Thanks ruri for the advice....i also like how you pronounce unfair advantages its so professional 😎
I love your all videos. They motivate me so much. Thank you 💛💜
Just discovered you... and... wow! You are really wise, it's pleasure listening to you :)
Thank you for this detailed video about undair advantages❤️❤️
Thanks for the video! I find it really useful!
Motivated me 😊 thank you.
This was really good, thanks a lot 🙏💕
thank you for the book recommendation & thank you for shifting my perspective :) i think that i have found my unfair advantages
You're right! We should know first what we wanna do. I'm still figuring it out
Hi Ruri! I would like to thank you for recommending this book. I have read it and it is amazing.
This is what Ive.been waiting forrr ! tysm ruriiiii ❤✨
Thanks for sharing these valuable insights 😊
You clearly got lucky with the looks part... Your accent is also so cool
Hi Ruri. I’m purely Japanese. But I’m a transplant surgeon trained in Japan, Australia and US, that your insights have lots I understand and agree. I’m really enjoying your video. 頑張って下さい。
Wow amazing. Recently there’s a guy who swap his heart for a pig heart.
Yes, Ruru, you are attractive and you can monitize it. You're also smart and industrious. And you deliver value in a unique and esthetically pleasing way!! Thank you!
Jean-Paul Sartre said” Breathe! Everything happens for a reason!” Ruri explains why, in this video! Thanks Ruri for the inspration many more people one more time as usual!😊🙏
Where is my "hi guys, im ruri-chan"
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Eye opening stuff, well put altogether!
Young lady, you are a blessing.🌷
After watching your channel , you inpsired me to keep going to create a life i love making content on youtube to help and influence people as a content creator.
Thanks for your recommendation. This book is really amazing. I read it a week ago.
Actually life is unfair
That's the truth
We just have to deal with it
I love the topic! I was really thinking about this topic few months back like "luck vs hardwork".
14:17 favorite part! haha :D
You made my day girl, thx ❤️
You are beautiful, but your mindset is even more beautiful! Keep going!
Glad you upload a new video, Ruri. ❤️
This girl is the sign I needed from god thank you gorgeous 💕💕
my unfair advantage is a nearly insatiable desire to discover all the esoteric knowledge i can and be self suffie=cient in every domain possible. i also get to live rent free on my grandparents property. im now in college (a bit late to finally go, im 30) but i have a 4.0 and colllege grants pay me enough that i dont have to work. im going to get another online job soon though, possibly a call center job. i really enjoy your videos and hope im doing well enough one day to ravel the world, and maybe ill even get to meet you someday. i also want to start a youtube channel, and soon i will have the equipment to do that. youre a beautiful (and quite pretty) inspiration. thanks for the content and the insights.
Robbie
Your channel is Amazing, in one of your video you mentioned "the unfair advantage" book i just started reading it!
A beautiful message.
everyone is different. most people will not understand our journey. keep being you
Thank you for a great video.It went deep with information ,was very motivational and very useful advice.You doing great keep it up👍
I won't get bored watching all your videos because you combine ( information and beauty and a very nice presentation ) together
i may be wrong but i'm gonna always be greateful of being alive and experience love, the fact that i get to exist as a being that is healthy and normal not crippled not limping not in a wheelchair not missing an arm (im not trying to make fun of anyone btw -.-) that is i appreciate, life is always gonna be hard, because our existence is a constant struggle :( at the end of the day is better to look forward and onwards and do always your best, much love to everyone and thank you ruri for speaking of such topics
tq and this is seminar quality...amazing!
Ruri, that also applies on me as well. During my high schoolers, my place's living costs are so expensive and the environment are totally toxic. I dont like that and i was been misfits for 2 years. Then, i feel highly priveledged when i was relocated in rural area with cheaper living costs plus a real good environment. Salam from Malaysia and thank u fr the sharing Ruri
The difference between your first video and your last video is seriously unbelievable
positive or negative? :)
@@leosleon1171 of course positive
Thanks ruri you helped alot
The deepest pain I ever felt was denying my own feelings to make everyone else comfortable 🥺 ...............
I can relate to this
Life s so unfair literally my parents say no to almost everyth8ng life soufair I wanna move away and do stuff on my own
Thank you for your sharing and advice, I have been following you for a long time, and I have benefited a lot from your videos. (Haha I'm watching your videos to learn English right now. Thanks)
Ruri Ohama, gostei da forma que vc incentiva as pessoas, inclusive as mais jovens a desenvolverem outras habilidades, independente do ensino escolar. Todos temos dificuldades, uns mais outros menos, e temos que supera-las. No seus comentários você coloca alguns exemplos de supera-las, e ainda cita como você iniciou seu canal no youtube.
Hey Ruri! Em your big fan. You are my inspiration and motivation. I really admire you. Seni çok seviyorum.
Very good point of view, Ruri.
I'm watching this while procrastinating and comparing me with others and of course overthinking... I can't believe I'm such a pro avoiding the things I must do to reach my goals.
Thank you for making this video.
Really! You're doing great ruri....!! 👍