I decided to change my life
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*“If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.” - Jim Rohn*
@MR IV so happy this resonated with you!
This comment gave me gossebumps
a big fan of Jim Rohn
For me also
Dammit man. You’re right.
Without getting bored you can't have fun. That is just the way it is.
yes unfortunately
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Very well put actually
Badly needed this kind of youtube videos right now ! First time watching you thank you so much !!!
God bless you more. Mental health is really important much love from the 🇵🇭
Thank you Ruri .. Output driven goals and Input driven goals. Thanks for that. God Bless
im seriously so glad i met someone who had the same idea of wanting to reset life. im trying to get my life together, stop thinking about self-doubts, reducing screen time, be consistent when studying and whatnot. ur one of the only people whos' realistic, you deserve so much love :( lets change together ruri !
No offense but you are doing what. Ruri advised against, you didn't 'meet' Ruri you watched a you tube video.
Ruri and Yunn changing the world
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You're right Yunn, and at this time in my life, as Ruri, said, I am more determined than ever, to FOCUS on what really matters to me and helps me to improve my situation. I don´t know about you Yunn, but I will be looking to get those three books Ruri recommended. If they helped Ruri, surely will help me too. Blessings to you Yunn. OXXO
This really touched me. I am so glad you decided to do this Ruri. Best of luck and keep moving forward. I think I needed to see a video like this to question some things about myself as well so I am sure there are a lot like me who will take this nice message from you and change their lives as well.
Glad to know that u follow Ruri's channel as well
Lol profe que hace aquí???
profe que hace aqui ? tiene que hacer video vaya vaya asdkasdkaskd mentira salu2
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Aguante Mr. Salas, vieja. ¡No me importa nada!
you appear to be a good person, competent and focused. I like the way you present your work. Congratulations.
Not only this video motivated me to change my life, but I also I realised a lot of mistakes that I do about my routine! Thankss!
I know it's difficult to socialize during this time of pandemic. I also feel that many of my friends changed before and after the repeated lockdowns. People are more politicized now, and has a stronger opinion. I also felt the burnout that you felt... Let's stay strong and be kind to each other, everyone!!
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I’ve also become more politicized, but I’m not sure if it’s because of the pandemic or me being 18 and leaving my adolescent bubble that I was always in.
@@gliiitched4429 ,,,
Good luck for every person with dealing with anxiety, burnout or any mental health issues ! Good luck in your journey ! Reading regularly gives you a healthy routine and we usually have to make time and priotize elements that matter for us. Inputs are very important indeed ! Very good video Ruri !
This is true!!! Think about your system every single day. Think about your goals once a week. Amazing ideas. Ruri. You are awesome!
Thank u so much. I will sure much, greeting from Ecuador
Just keep on moving forward, we are here for you Ruri ❤️❤️
How a wonderful thing that you can decide to changing your life in this age and thinking about responsibility of your whole life and your future 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I needed this. Randomly found your vlog and decided to watch. I'm on the verge of a burnout! I think your points might help me. Thank you for making this. ❤️
Thank u so much Ruri Ohama for this video .....❤️ The first part of this video help me a lot to get out of my laziness ...🥰✨
Totally!
Understood one thing for sure... No matter where you live in the world, what your country or ethnicity is, the problems of Young generation is similar all around, everywhere!
Much love to you Ruri💞❤️
This video is so refreshing! I'm so used to watching videos from people explaining how they prioritize themselves and do self-care online but it's like we've all forgotten that most of these videos are made by influencers that don't have similiar workloads to us viewers.... they usually just have a social media job and that's it (which is still a LOT, but its all focused in one life area at least)- it's no wonder I always left those advice videos feeling WORSE about myself for not being able to do more. But they are comparing themselves to us viewers who have more diverse workloads. This video was amazing to see what big things you have going on yet how you still MAKE time! The fact that you're in school and also have been in an inconsistent living situation while also doing youtube work.... it's like this is the first video i've see about how to take care of yourself from someone that lives a life similar to mine.
You ACTUALLY have so much going on and I can relate to it so this video gave me hope that I can also make the time for myself. Thank you!
Ruri happy to hear that you are back in full form life will always twist and turns never turn back the clock of regret.
Yes, I am so glad of seeing this video. I am going to have an IELTS test but play every day. I always tell myself that I would study after having a nap or something and have been on a cycle. There is still time allowing me to change, from the life pattern to my study schedule. Thanks and wish I could improve with you!
I've been struggling lately and your video has changed my mind! Thank you so muuuuch
You remind me a lot of myself at my early 20's, always trying not to waste Time rather than focusing on getting the most of myself in the little Time I can spend doing the things I actually want to be good at. Only advice I can give Is that trying to be better Is more complicated than just following a schedule.
Love your passion, reflection and always staying teachable. Making time for things that matter to you is super important to align with your own value system. Having a trusted network is important for feedback and contextualising but committing to who you are without anyone's approval is, for me, more important in today's societal pressures. Take risks, make mistakes and the recognition that you don't want to go back to things that didn't bring you happiness through sheer leaning, will drive to you discovering the unimaginable. You got this.
Wow this really resonated with my current life situation. Thank you for posting this
Hey ruri san, you know I am just following you from last week and by seeing these videos and couple of your productive videos , my life has already changed 😭 , thank you so much ✨💙
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I’m glad I subscribed to you. Its good to see other people feeling the same way about trying to get through the day while experiencing some form of stress. I just started this new job and trying to balance out other responsibilities is harder than I thought. It’s unfortunate that at some point you have to make some sacrifices to improve other aspects of your life to get a step ahead. I just hope it’s worth it over time….
I'm so glad I suscribed to your channel because these are all the concerns I have had in my daily life for a long time and I also wanted to change it, but so far I did not know how. Focusing on input based goals rather than only caring about the outcome will definitely help me!
It is very motivated message from you , Ruri ! What you have decided is the great decision. Thank you for your sharing and fully watched and stay connected.🌹🌹🌹
I was feeling exactly like shit lately but today i decided to change things and u uploaded this video. This gave me extra hope that i can make things better and be better. Thank u Ruri
Most welcome.
I've been trying to change my life almost couple of years and now is the right time. thanks for this video Ruri:) I will achieve!
You are one fine intelligent girl and you're just doing fine. And thank you for videos that out out lot of upbringing messages
The videos you upload are always enjoying. Best of luck.
Definitely going to join to this “challenge” or “marathon” idk how to call it. HERE WE GO AGAIN!
I really needed this, I did a 1 month challenge without my phone in September and I saw a huge progress in my life, I became more productive, my mental & physical health became much better, I've learned many things about me, anyways I totally recommend to everyone to take breaks in order to get your life together, Thanks for this video
How was you able to do it finally?i also want to do it.mobile is devastating me in all fields of life
im reading atomic habits currently and im glad i came across this video. From day one all your videos just help me so thank you.
The way you talk is so attractive. you giving me inspiring :)
You hit me hard Ruri! I really need to take it seriously to make time for better things to do in life. Thanks so much Ruri ^^
"The Nature of Personality" was life-changing for me. Gave me the tools to change my belief system. Emotions follow beliefs. Good for you that, however you did it, you improved your situation.
I was burnt out too but the moment I see your beautiful face Ruri now I feel like living again. Let’s do this!
After a burnout I'm feeling free!! your vlogs suit my current vibe. Thank you and hope you're doing better now
Thank you Ruri!! You’re so inspirational and imma start considering and doing what you’ve just said as well.. thanks a million 💕✨
Most welcome
You are a inspirational girl, best of luck for your health and study
God Bless you. Believe in yourself, you can do it. Lots of Love, strength and happiness.
This is even so refreshing to listen to you..
I am also motivated
whenever i feeling down, i rewatching Ruri's videos and feel motivated again. thank you Ruri for making these amazing videos❤️
Im so relaxed to hear that you have a exactly same goals as mine. I was feeling as if i am failing in life, but its good to see youtubers openup about thier burnouts. This is the video I needed and I will start implementing things right away keeping my goals realistic. Thank you :3
Am 34 n unmarried
Most welcome.
@@khushbuprasad9048 Keep trying..never give up.
you are such an inspiration in terms of sincerity with your awesome voice and gorgeous face added to your consistency and diligency
It seems goal setting for the prospect is something we all need to do , thank you , for sharing ( making changes ) changing your life for the better .🎀
I can’t help falling in love with Ruri’s videos…
I'm in love with Ruri herself with/without the videos.
me tooo
@@tropicaldimitri7374 Absolutely!
Me too...
Lol…!
Btw she’s gorgeous:)
I was burnt out too, and I was thinking about changing my life. But it was hard to decide because I decided to change my life so many times and I failed. So I just lost my self-confidence. But after watching this video, I felt that I can do it and I can change my life and be a better version of myself who is happier and knows how to control her stress :). Thank you so much, Ruri
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I'm so depressed 😭 Can we be friends?
I love that you have found a new direction. Lean into it. Life is ultimately about making mistakes to grow as a person, it may not seem great at the time but they are important lessons - life is a series of these wonderful affirming lessons. Embrace how you feel, recognise all those complex human emotions (sadness, regret, fear, doubt) but don't be anchored by them. When you can let go of the past failures and control what's in the present you'll find the stress melts away. I have lost a lot of family and loved ones fell into some deep dark places but human resilience is remarkable and adversity in the formative years is a huge advantage for the rest of your life. Stay present. Stay strong
@@TheHamsterpawz Thank you so much :) your words relieved me and gave me the power to move on
Keep it up! You're the best.
this was my first day and i watched your two videos and your content and your thoughts are very helpful and i am gonna watch your videos from now and on.
I liked the video even before watching because I know it was going to be good. By the end of the video I caught my self scrolling down trying to like it again. All the ideas you mentioned, Ruri, I would appreciate you making them. Notion seems like a really powerful tool, but kind of overwhelming if you don't know where to start.
*To all the hard workers out there, of course it's hard, it's supposed to be hard. If it were easy, everybody would do it. That's why its worth of achieving...*
Most compiled improvement guide u n get ...Simply awesome
I'm so happy that stumbled upon this video. I decided to change my life as well. I needed this.
It is incredible how I relate to this content. Like, it is all self-talk all day long about this type of stuff, and you summarized all of it. You even gave some tips that I should try.
Try also meditating/breathing techniques, it helped me a lot while feeling close to burn out (maybe I was burned out already). I'm trying to stick to it everyday to build up a routine that let me feel healthier from a mental and body perspective.
I wish you and all the people that are reading this, to achieve your goals, and more, but above all, a healthy mind and body, because it is truly important. It is a shame that I was unable to see it in my past years.
I guess you sometimes need to touch the bottom of the pool to swim back to the surface, and get higher that you never were before.
Stay strong everybody, and let's all become a better version of ourselves :)
Yesss love this transformation 🙌🙌 I'm also so grateful for our accountability trio chats ❤️❤️
Love you Izzy🖤
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I appreciate your sharing your experience of burnout. I am going through this very thing right now. Your symptoms resonated strongly with me. Thank you for helping me identify what is going on and maybe how to resolve it 💜
Another great video, thank you.
I'm still kinda depressed and yes I agree that doing journal entry does help somehow to reflect on things and to rant and acknowledge our own feelings and emotions by doing journal :3 I wish I can have coffee like you did but it's not good for me. Thank you for sharing your experience btw
ne yazık ki hayatımızda hep zorluklar var ancak bunları aşarak daha güçlü hale geliyoruz. senin hep arkanda olacağım. bol bol sevgi ♡
Thanks Ruri san! I'm glad that you're working on using your time and making decisions with more intention - we all should to grow. I'll start doing the same. Best of luck to all of us!
P.S. You should test the waters in livestreaming with regards to your accountability buddy session 💪
Inspiration for lots of us 🙏❤❤❤ Take care..God bless 🍫
Needed this
I just Take a break from Social sites untill I back on track
But sometimes feels giving up
I really needed this thank you Rurii let's grow together ☺️❤️
Keep going 🤗
watching you gave me a positive feeling coz I'm also procrastinating for my upcoming plans and randomly spending my time and also trying to get myself back into track! so thanks for this and lots of love 💕💕 from India!
i love how honest you are 💛💛
Very touching .. and good routine to reset your life in a positive direction ..
You just described my whole life.
Hey Ruri, thanks for the video, it was awesome. To be honest I’m trying to change some habits and try to control my life again, but I didn’t know how to start or maybe it was that I didn’t have the will power to do it. But with this video I fell more motivated and really excited to start. Thanks again.
There's definitely a reason why youtube is suggesting this video to me now ;-;
Ruri you're the best.. you really help me all the time
You have many beautiful keyboards. I love them.
Burnouts are real and people should feel encouraged to take a break and take care of themselves - unfortunately this society often expects us to work ourselves way above our limit and calls us lazy if we dont which is just wrong, taking care of yourself is a way better way to for a more sustainable life - and using social media the right way is also very important, really liked the theme of this video! 👏👏
To literally 1% who saw this comment, I hope you’re having an awesome day.
Go go go! I had depression and many things but some sport, drawing, painting, working, books are great for sure. Learning every Day also perfect (do it for many many years). Good luck, social media is something like time waste creature. Good video
Thank you Ruri you're now my favorite youtuber, I've learned a lot from this channel.
5 week passed since my school started.I can`t schedule a proper routine to improve myself and can`t finish all my tasks so it breaks my courage.But i will take a guide this video to change my routine and wrong habits.Thanks for this video:)
TYSM for this video! It was like a thing I really need to hear rn! All you said is very useful advice not only for burnout, but also for people with mental problems.For example, sports and the schedule of the day help us a lot. I have bipolar disorder and such a thing as burnout and depression is a part of my life that is hard to fight, but every time I returned to healthy habits it was always easier. The truth is in simplicity, but many people forget about it and often we become lazy :D I am very proud of you, even though recently on your channel! Thank you for such heartfelt videos!
I really appreciate your chanel. Thank you so much.
I liked your sincerity, so.. new suscriber. Cheers from .🇧🇴
Happy Sunday morning Ruri☕️Cheers!
I really love u girl! I love the feeling you inspire in your videos, I love your polyglot side, your personality and more xD so.. Well I just wanted to say it, love ya ❣️
You’re talented ✨❤
In the middle of the year my girlfriend broke me up because she felt insecure about herself and I understood, I felt a little sad and lost a lot of motivation, but recently I decided to move on and get better or at least I try it.
Your channel helps me a lot to learn english, I can understand everything but I'm so bad speaking/writting XD my first language is spanish.
Another great video! I experienced burnout in college. I was a business major and was miserable. I decided it was more about being happy in life and focusing on myself. I’m naturally an artistic person so switched majors to graphic design. So much happier now and do that for a living. I wish you luck! ☺️
Im in!! looking forward for this weeks vid!!
I liked what you said - especially about the need to socialize. And writing. BOTH are so therapeutic. :D Ken, Toronto, CANADA
Hola Ruri!!👏
He estado escuchándote por unos meses y eso me ha ayudado a mejorar mi ingles muchisimo. De hecho acabo de certificarme!!!!👀
Excelente vídeo, muchas felicidades!!👏
PD: Saludos desde México!!📝
thank you for this Ruri omg! i don't know how it works but when I need something refreshing that can put me into the right mood like in this period of time my fav youtubers post content like this! Somehow it works tho and I really appreciate it hahahah^^ trying to get myself together too here and I kinda believe that this is it, this time I will reach my goal :^)
How come I encountered your channel too late…Absolutely satisfying video and thank you for your uploading. 😊🌞 ありがとうございます 。引き続きuploadお願いします🤲
thank u ruri, your video encouraged me to be a better person, i admire u❤️
New Ruri unlocked: Wild Ruri. (NGL i like this one two)
I never really put effort in a schedule.. but since the last week I do and i am doing better.. still a lot of work to do.. but I feel motivated and happy. Thanks for your encouragement.
Você é incrível ❤️
E espero que todos consigam encontrar um momento para si, e se sentir feliz
Um br lmao
I'm feeling the same at the moment and this video just popped in my recommended videos...Ty so much ❤
Just found your channel. Will start looking at your library of vlogs. Thank you. This is a topic most can relate to *Awesome*
I had the same experience about 3 years ago. I just woke up and decided to be a better version of myself. Which meant exercising, eating healthier (meals preps/cooking), reading books, meditating, waking up at 4am, mindful thinking, and staying on my bigger purpose/mission. ngl its hard. theres so much distraction around us. But the benefits where worth. It made me mentally stronger, I havent been sad or anxiety about anything for 3 years and if I do its very short, I'm more happy, I got more money, I take full responsibility for everything so no blaming others, physically im more cut and fit, I learned new skills, I care for people more, etc. Before I was just a robot with no purpose. idk I just got tired having a little boy mindset in a mans body.
Did you start all those good habits at the same time or did you focus on one at a time?
waking up at 4am wont be healthy for sure
Love it! Ruri, you are an angel!!!
Wow thank you so much. I was feeling extremely burnt out recently and surprisingly, all the points that you mentioned in the video has crossed my mind several times even when i was lying in my bed being a braindead zombie scrolling mindlessly through social media.. But i never really got to do the things until now.. for anyone going through a similar phase, what helped me the most was remembering what kind of a person i was before the burnout and how that was me too.. So what i do today doesn’t have to be defined by what I’ve been doing the past few days. Every single moment is a new beginning and YOU yourself have complete control over it. Your actions , thoughts....everything will contribute to what happens in the moment as well as the near future. Good luck... I believe in you. And also remember to learn to forgive yourself. It’s okay to not feel okay all the time.. Take it easy.. 😊
You are absolutely right, we all should stop wasting time on social media. Recently I've decided to stop FB and IG and focus more on youtube videos, especially on the things that matter to me right now. I find youtube to be a reliable source of information and learning. Really enjoy your piece on this, really conforms to my current life's objective! Thanks!
Hayatini toparladigin icin sevindim Ruri.
Accountability buddy meselesi guzelmis, cunku insana insan lazimdir. Pazar gunleri bunu izleyicilerle paylasman guzel olacaktir her iki taraf icin cunki onlarda motive olacaklardir.
Ileride personal coach olarakta service satabilirsin cunku baya bilgilisin bu productivity olayinda. Simdiden basarilar dilerim, let's get it!