@TheSnookman I'm not sure if I entirely agree with that one as once they become liberated, the man loses at least half of everything that he has; including his retirement. 🤔😲
Mothers pass down a legacy of “I don’t need a man” to their daughters. It breeds the nature of competition in relationships that destroys the relationship. This contempt is so prevalent in all societies.
100% correct. Thanks to the Internet/social media, men are getting a true taste of female nature today and they're simply opting out of marriage and LTRs. I wish this information was as available back in 2010 when I got married. I'd have a fully paid off home, tons more money and had more time to develop my friends and hobbies.
Just turned 30 ... wife just left me weeks before our "10 years togeather 3 married" First few weeks were rough. Now almost 2 months later got a new place , working out more , eating better i feel great! Videos like this are great. Thank you!
@@rrrobeltnest7295- THIS! She WILL be back. Bet on it. It could be years in the future, but it will happen. Be prepared and make sure she knows that door closed long ago.
Men just require a great pet, a great hobby, a great job and adorable kids [adopted or surrogate] to complete his family..... Women on the other hand can cry for hypergamous 0.1% males.....
It got so bad for me I left the country. The horrible imbalance in favor of women finally led me to give up. Young men today face struggles I never imagined when I was their age. My only regret is I wish I would have left a lot earlier.
I lost my wife 1.5 years ago, I'm 44 with no kids. I've dated a couple times which messed me up even more mentally. I feel like I have no future here and want to leave. It seems like the only countries I can move to are just like here and the places that aren't are unsafe. Seems like there is no hope, so I just shut up and try to work myself to death, but I feel like I'm dead on the inside already.
Hey, as a 38 year old I have finally come to this conclusion. It took me a long time. Thank heavens I did not marry any of my girlfriends. It would have been a disaster
The woman you divorce isn’t the woman you married. Except she is, she really is. From the very first moment you meet, NEVER ignore the slightest negative comment or act. Those the brief moments she’s let the facade slip. If you call her out, the facade will quickly be restored, or she’ll do a runner.
Thanks John. My divorce was by far the worst thing that ever happened to me and I can tell no one understands how bad this really is. I appreciate you explaining the reasons for this because no one else does.
@@Job.Well.Done_01 +1. As you're going through it, it's the loneliest experience on Earth. It becomes clear how little anyone cares. But there are many of us who've been through it who understands.
@@plasmaarmelund It is not just that few care, but that FAMILY COURTS actively work AGAINST fathers and men. The whole divorce/child custody thing is totally rigged in the woman's favor. The courts turn men into economic slaves to their ex-wives.
@user-ld6wo4rv8h I would think the more accurate saying would probably be more of a lust thing than love. I have realized that I absolutely love my freedom. Women, you're right, (love?); no, not really. It's next to impossible to find a high-quality woman. Then let her hit menopause and her feelings will take over and run wild; leaving you in the poor house or out on the street because of the court system.
@@rogerwhoareyouyes, lust, not love. There needs to be restrictions put on women if society wants men and women to be together any more. The current system that rewards bad behaviour is unsustainable.
After my wife died 6 yrs ago i gave up trying to impress woman,,,it has been very very very liberating,,feels super great. , mgtow, positive redpill,,,===bigstack, Peace tranquility, no family courts.No cops, no money problems.No depression, no sadness, no confusion.No anger no fight.S no restraining order is just good.Good peaceful tranquil.Living lots of great sleep too oh yes lot of sweet sleep sweet sleep sweet sleep❤
You don't know what attitudes men can display: grumpy attitudes towards their partner taking short walks, sleeping 8 hours nightly, eating fruits and veggies, showering daily, meeting now and then with family - these are all vital to staying healthy. After divorce many women regain health, after having first mourned the need for a divorce and her own stupid illusions about a happy end to their difficulties. You could give one of the many women who has been through such things a new belief in humanity, Mike!
@@Mike-s7h5l a man needs a woman that needs him. There is nothing wrong with that. A man will give alot and just wants appreciation. Nothing wrong with that, it very little to ask for all that a man will give .
Watch her respect for you vaporize when she realizes you put her happiness before your own. As Rich Cooper coined the phrase: Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and F the winners.
It is painful learning to live on your own, but oh so much better once you adjust. Life without compromise. Just living becomes a meditation and wisdom is a natural byproduct.
That is so true. I have witnessed it and been in the situation of sacrificing my own health for a woman. In the end, she sacrificed our marriage for her happiness and longing for replaying the days of her youth; drinking, etcetera where she could be irresponsible, do what she wanted and enhance her feelings.
@@rogerwhoareyou 100%. What I am also seeing as more common now are the already mythical "good girls" being utterly corrupted via toxic friends and social circles, to a degree unheard of pre-social media. I've seen good marriages get absolutely obliterated because the "good wife" fell in with one wrong person and the bad behavior snowballed quite rapidly.
@essbea8727 Yes, I have noticed that, too. I found out towards the end that one of my wife's friends would cheat on her husband and leave him periodically. Move in with the guy she cheated with, or sometimes even a different guy. Then, she would go back to her husband after about 5 or 6 months. When my wife told me about her, my first question was, "And you're still friends with tgis gal." My wife would say yes, but she only does it because her husband is abusive to her. To which I would say, "Well, I wouldn't know about that, but it seems that he is kind of stupid, and I don't really like the idea of you hanging out with her." It was not much more than about a year after that my wife decided that I was mean and moved out. We tried the marriage counseling thing with a female therapist of her choosing. She quit because she felt that the therapist was taking my side. She's not coming back now either; she has made hints every now and then, and I just say nope. Of course, now, I am also abusive and she has started accusing me of cheating. Nope, I would rather just get graped by the court system and take my losses. The female race can just go be with themselves. Peace, calm, quiet and no drama are all that I am looking for at this point in my life. MGTOW
I work in a sector which is overwhelmingly women -- 60% to 40% -- and this variation keeps increasing. The sector still continuously seeks to provide more opportunities for women to join than men. At this rate, there will be very few men, very similar to the education sector.
Just had my snow tires installed. I spent a good half hour or so just chatting with one of the mechanics about cars, braking systems, engineering. Brilliant stuff and something you couldn’t do with a chick.
TMy grandmother adored men. My mother was an angry feminist yet lived off a man draining the life from him. I was a very confused teenaged girl as a result. My husband was a strong and patient man nonetheless it took him many years to show me the goodness and value of men. Thank God ❤. Young women, smarten up quick! Men just need to be needed. They want to provide and protect and all they want is appreciation and a soft spot to land. You are not ALL THAT but you will be to that man if you show him you need him, and you really do whether you know it or not.
I am 71 years old. I have been in a number of relationships and was once married for 24 years. Looking back, my only regret was ever having anything to do with women.
@GeraldJackson-o4s I am so sorry this is your experience. There are just so few women who realize the true value of men in their lives. We need to be smarter and I'm sorry we are not. Any woman with brains will at least regret not appreciating the value of the men in her life. Men may not like it or want to deal with it but the fact is that ALL women are screwed up by their mothers, women's liberation.,and society. We love men, want men, need men but are taught we are weak and stupid to feel that. But we do. It's all so messed up.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white...
The divorce opened my eyes to all of this. That was a frightening experience. Seeing her mask fall. Meeting my then wife for the first time as who she really is in that court room. I will have nightmares about the divorce and family court system for eternity. The kids suffer more than anyone. Sad. Legal system is broken. Men getting ram-rodded just for being a man. Military veteran? It will be used against you. Good person? Sacrificial? Educated? Good provider? Good- more Child support through the D.O.J. Who will run you down to the ends of the earth for that CS money. Mark my words, they will. Your wife? Your blushing bride? Her mom and sisters? The masks will fall. You will be collateral damage in a f e m i n i s t system that hates men who aren’t millionaires.
Society is working to destroy men and men are being knocked down pretty bad. They want weak men. Weak men won’t fight back. A man that has great wife and children will fight against tyranny. They want you all weak. You have more power than you will ever know. Women can’t see this and society has made us too materialistic. We will realize too late. Sorry this happens to you. As a woman I’m careful of woman friendships because I see how they are ever since I was a young girl.
@@john-griffin It's nice not having any holes for a while! haha Love conquers Hate!!! I am Rich, I am Strong!!! Thy will be done! Believe in Jesus Christ for Salvation~!
8:45 i personally experienced this in of all places, court over a speeding ticket. The judge was very lenient towards the young woman before me even though we had been going the same number of ‘miles over the limit. She had just returned from China and the judge had a short chat with her about her work and trip and was moved by the stress of her returning. Strangely enough i had also visited China as a preteen in a sort of cultural exchange program. I was afforded no nice conversation about anything and was hit with a fine while the young woman was free to go. I looked at my public defender during this and he gave me a knowing look and shake of the head. A look i immediately understood to mean “shut up. Yes, you’re getting treated differently. Do not push your luck.” He had gotten the fine reduced so i sat my ass down and said nothing. This experience always stayed with me and i dont quite know why. Just though i would share it here since i never have to anyone
Yes we need to discuss the legal fratenity and the role they play in this nonsense. I know of a young man that was going through a recent break up and a female judge very quickly issued two restraining orders. I say 2 orders because one was for the young man, the other was for the young mans father. For those willing to take a leap of faith both men are good men, totally non violent, non coercive, the whole family are good people. The small community they lived in were stunned at the judges actions. Special conditions were also put in place for the young man and the grandparents to see his very young child/the grandkid. It was a disgrace. I cannot imagine what it would be like to have a judge who has never met you and has zero evidence of any wrongdoing place a label on you. Not surprisingly the judge did not live locally. Now why did the former partner ask for the restraining orders? Simple, to obtain additional leverage. Here in Australia if there is a separation and the man or even the mans family has some dough or the capacity to access debt due to good equity the family court judge will often ask for payout to cover a house or unit in a particular capital city. 15 years ago that could be $500k AUD minimum before even discussing child support. No idea what some people could be up for today. But yeah the legal fratenity allowing a bad scenario to become a worse one. Just awful, nasty and on many occasions totally devoid of accountability.
@@user-ld6wo4rv8h Not so! Women judges see through this double standard and hate it. iI's stupid old men who want to be these twitchets' daddy that treat them like Daddy's Little Girl.
@18:50 Personally, I do not need to be respected by society to have purpose. When I was 8 years old, I discovered my purpose in life: electronics engineering. Because of this, I have no desire to chase after social status and lust.
In Australia we have the Owellian "Department for Men's Behaviour" but not the "Department for Woman's Behaviour". I feel that's the magnitude of what you're asking here, asking for logic from human beings who make decisions on emotions, decisions based on what they feel right now.
@@john-griffin total discrimination john.. this believe all women nonsence is out of control.. no evedence required,, she just makes a statement and u have to prove it didnt happen,,, NOW,, thats the hard part,, how do u prove something didnt happen,, that never happened !! think about those words.. men are getting backed into a corner in australia.. we are REALLY getting shafted and men polititions are makeing these Laws against men.. i believe the men pollys are running scared,, they get told by women pollys,, u better vote for this or else,,, IE, there careers will be ruined by a false allergation like,, he touched me on the bum.. thats actually happened by the way..
This is one of your best John. You have allowed me to view my own experience with family breakdown with a new perspective. Still hurts 15 years later but I understand it better today.
In recent years I simply play dumb when it comes to helping woman in any way . For example dead batteries in the parking lot or flat tire ect . I find most of them are ungrateful and down right obnoxious. It's not normal to me but necessary in today's society.
I thank God for my wonderful wife! She really, really gets it. She has always been a "trad wife" even before it was a "thing". We're 30 years in now. The kids are grown, we still laugh, we're still in love, we still have good sex. I feel terrible for the folks who want this and can't find it in today's messed up culture.
@@hratchchaderjian-vb9pf The subject interests me greatly. I am 56 years old and spent my growing-up years in a culture of Mary Tyler Moore, Betty Friedan, and Gloria Steinam. It took me years to undo the effects of feminist propaganda on my own sense of masculinity while the availability of positive male role models in the culture was very limited. My own father died when I was 13 and I had to sort a lot of things out on my own. Now, I have two daughters, one of whom is engaged. It has been of the utmost importance to me to provide a positive male role model for my daughters so that they choose their spouses wisely and keep themselves from the male-bashing fray. All of this is in addition to my general interest in history, theology, and cultures. These are substantial parts of my hobby life and they all touch upon feminism to a certain degree.
@@hratchchaderjian-vb9pfhe is seeing that others are struggling to have what he has. Seeing comments like these make me feel glad that some people get what so many of us want.
@@jacksonripper-mp8dr There is a big difference between education and the education system. I have learnt far better by teaching myself than the system. Having a mentor who is not part of the system is also beneficial.
Something i heard mentioned that might be worth looking into is the effect of removing large numbers of men from roles like Teachers during the 20th century and the effect that had on the education system and western society.
Love the videos. One thing I notice is being financially well off not only does it give you the pick of the litter, it also attracts many undesirable people to you whose intentions are to try and use you. So I think even being financially secure comes with its own set of problems when it comes to all relationships not just romantic ones it’s like the old saying of when you become rich and all your former friends all of a sudden pop back into your life like magic.
Our boys, too. It's much less costly in all ways to raise boys into manhood as whole people rather than try to fix badly developed, traumatized men after the fact.
As a woman I thank you all for all you do. Without men I wouldn’t have what I have today. Everything I have is because a man thought it and built it. We need each other. Our society needs to hard times to make us all reset.
It is so simple. Just give them what they want, prove society right. They treat you like you are useless, and second rate, then become useless for everyone except yourself. PUT YOURSELF FIRST! Leave societal expectations behind (along with women) and live how you want to, become what you want to. Chasing dreams is a more rewarding, and fulfilling pursuit than chasing women, so do that my brothers!
This was a wonderful video to listen to while splitting kindling for the coming week. It's like a basket of little "I love you"s that my husband can pick from when he gets home in the evening and makes a fire in the shop woodstove. Yeah, he could take the time to split some fresh every evening when he's tired and soggy, but having them right there (and a fire stack set up if I get the chance in between chasing kiddos) lets him know, in just one small way, that he is cared for. I think something that everyone who has a man in their life can lean into is showing your appreciation for him in ways that he might not expect, but that will show how much you pay attention to him.
Even more misunderstood is what "deserve" entails and its implications. Women are hitting 30-35 now, deciding that they _deserve_ a good man… Let's consider an extreme, say a low- to mid-40s man, Christian, virgin: he's spent 25-30 years keeping himself, striving to be a good man, a romantic streak to give his virginity to his wife on their wedding night, a way to show with action _"you were worth it"_ - Let's assume he does marry you. How long until life gets rough, there's a fight, and you decide to shame him for the honor he showed you, insulting him as "inexperienced" or "not as good" as your other lovers? How long until you get mad at him, perhaps taking out on him the upset that he's not your first choice, and "starfishing"? How long before you take "he's not exciting" or "not fulfilling me sexually" or spending time/effort at work to provide as an excuse to cheat? …and, if you're a single mom, what are the chances that you'll repay his kindness, protection, and provision with _"Oh, I don't want another child"_ …saying to him the evil of _"let your line die with you!"_ and returning evil for good? Is *that* the reward for good men? Because, in effect, what you have written with your life, using yourself up and then suddenly "deserving" a good man, is that the reward for good men is trash. Jesus can, and does, fix broken people but your "deserve" is pure pride.
Mothers and fathers used to teach their daughters to find a good husband.. Now they buy them a condo, a car, and 4 years at their favorite university. How does a young man compete with that?
No need. Cause sadly even that daughter gets banged by other dudes in the low even if he does not have money like that. It's like guys. It's not men vs women. It's healthy men and women vs lame boys and girls. The poop type of people will end up together and the healthy ones will end up together as well just a matter of time. Better things to come. And it's not women fault it's simps fault those types of dudes need to just drop.
So glad I found economic success much later in life at 55. I will never lose it in divorce as I’m older and WISER! Now that I have money, I can get whatever I want with no strings attached. Tbh, you don’t pay them for the segs, you pay them to go away and not bother you after the act. Winning!!! 😎
I appreciate you and favour your talking points, but respectfully I think the level of rational and logical reasoning will fly over many Women’s heads .
John I always like your videos, this one was your best as far as I’m concerned, you have an ability to put words and thoughts together as I wish I could, this video really resonated with me!
Judge not, lest ye be judged. Womenism was all about judging men (unfairly). Men's rights is finally, the second half of that adage from the Bible. It is women's turn to stand before the consequences of their collective behaviour and be judged by men. And it is men, afterall, who gatekeep the rules and regulations of civilisation. So once we change our feelings on the matter of women, the party at our (and the children's and the sustainability of civilisation's) expense is over.
@@asdfasdf-dg2qxbeing a woman hater won’t solve anything. Without woman there would be no man and without man there will be no woman. You all don’t know how to talk. The future is both male and female. You all pick horrible woman and then yap how bad it is. Today we allow horrible things to happen in our society because men and women don’t think. Men u all carry half of the blame in this problem we have. U were called to lead but u failed to. I will not kneel to a weak over bearing man. 27 and have never slept with any man and I thank God because only someone worthy deserves the gift of a real woman. I’m here because I listen to both sides. From my research and observation both sides need Jesus. Everybody needs to turn back to God. We need to heal has individual to be able to have strong families. If I never marry I am very happy knowing I died keeping my standards.
A woman's highest calling is to lead a man to his soul so as to unite him with Source. A man's highest calling is to protect woman so she is free to walk the earth unharmed. ~ Cherokee Proverb.
Never felt so lost. Confused messed up. And I shouldn’t be at this stage in life. Many men are going to grow up either more in touch with themselves or it’s going to be a mess. With the introduction of the pill, allows less responsibility and now with ivf tech there is an no need for men view. Worth a topic of discussion
I’m glad you mentioned education as the majority of teachers are women. 54% of American adults have the literacy skills of an 11year old, so what does that say about the teachers?
@@downtostandupI concur. Let us brothers come together and help one another, excluding those who have betrayed us for so long. This video is somewhat of an example of that. Take care brother.
There used to be an appreciation for men in society, the hard work, skilled labor, braveness. The meat and potatoes of what keeps our nation in tact. That appreciation has disappeared.😢
I am late 50s and for the first time in my life i learn what "role" "society" expects from me in youtube videos. I lived 57 years without caring about that and ever being confronted with it.
As a woman I agree with what u say here. We need a right view of men and women again. Media and government is working to destroy men. Lots of women can’t see this. We live in a selfish society. Men need to step up and take back this countries from weak politicians.
Regarding your point about men not wanting to get into a fight with women, I don't think it's so much a psychological thing about "a fight might be to the death", I think it's much simpler. Men are taught all their lives - don't hurt women, don't offend women, don't be mean to women, don't look at women the wrong way, women are special. Women are not taught any of this about men at all, on the contrary, they are taught - be wary of men, don't trust men, stand up for yourself against men. Now how is any conflict in a relationship between a man and woman likely to go?
Men are afraid on being lonely, which is why they will throw their lives away chasing women. A man could have a nice house, car, could indulge in many past times like martial arts, endurance racing, and golf. Yet, instead, he chooses to chase women, throwing away much of his potential in the process. Even if he realizes that by doing so, he is hurting himself. Men then use women as an excuse to not chase the things he knows to be most valuable in his life. He will exclaim that he would perform such an act but I have an wife. I would pursue this goal but I have a girlfriend. Then when he invariably, feels the contempt that comes from forsaking his personal goals, he takes it out on other men.
Marianne Legato wrote a book 📙 in 2009, WHY MEN DIE FIRST. I have my own hardcopy, dog eared pages, with notes written in the margins. I am watching Victor Davis Hanson, author discussing WW II leaders at Pepperdine School. Hanson is one of my favorite authors
Most readers of the books that are sounding an alarm about boys and men are women who feel for any victims of oppression or hardships. And for rehabilitation of criminals. Like this: th-cam.com/video/35QL080lkAw/w-d-xo.html Nevertheless it is hard for women in personal relationships to help men, it is so normal that men don't help boys or men, and that men don't want women to help them, they want their service, but not leadership from women, though they need it. But if anybody helps and gives accepted help to a man, then it is mostly a woman. Mothers, sisters, daughters, and also wives are huge helpers.
Just sharing, Leslie Van Ness, , described as a powerful personality, Illinois TV anchor, executive dead at 42 after becoming ull during Florida vacation, 2023...... Gone to young 😢
It's really an education problem in the west with regards to relationship dynamics. If young girls were taught the virtues of men and told that they need a man instead of what is now the complete opposite of that then we'd be in a better place. Feminism movement not only ruined things for men, but women too, yet they gaslight themselves into thinking it was the best thing to ever happen to them. They'd rather work 9-5 for the man instead of raise children because that is somehow less noble than being a corporate slave.
I walked away. From a dating relationship that I had for 2 years 6 months ago due to 30% feminism. Well, I guess in her eyes 30%. Feminism wasn't too bad but I tried to put up with it and I couldn't tolerate it. I'm red pill Mgtow My life is a great,,,After 2 years she put pressure on me to marry,,so just walked away. She was shocked and wants me back,,its not happaning,,,
A few years ago i found out that my partner of over 7 years was cheating on me. I can safely say that this is one of the best things ever to happen to me. The peace and happiness i have for life and living on my own is unmatched.
I often hear the statement that women get more college degrees than men and although this is true, what is far more important is the major of those degrees...
Very good episode...I wonder how long it takes for John to prepare for each presentation. Everything is always very accurate with men and women's behavior considering that there exceptions..but very rare. Can someone inform me the meaning of the "red pill"...never heard the term used.
Red Pill is having an enlightened view of relationships with women through the prism of their natural behaviors. It also requires men to hold a traditional masculine role in the relationship and to lead women into a more traditional feminine role. Bringing women into your frame as opposed to you trying to accommodate her. The man is the leader in the relationship and sets the boundries. There is a list somewhere of all the characteristics, but that is the basics.
An older cousin just drunk himself into a coma. He's in hospital on the machine that goes ping. Apparently he is always depressed because he is alone even though he has a high paying job, owns his house and has money. I enjoy being alone, doesn't bother me.
It sure has to start with *men complaining* out loud, and sharing their feelings of disappointment, loneliness, and not being understood and helped when in trouble or grief. The problems become visible in threads like these. The unfair treatment of boys is one of my greatest complaints. They are raised with fear as the main method, wheras they need compassion as much as girls do. When the brain is occupied with fear, it is difficult to learn and be creative, and even to protect oneself - instead one relies on instinctive behavior.
From my own observations, they more men do for women, the less happy they are, and the more they want. Men have made life much easier than a century ago. Washers & Dryers, Dishwashers, Ready to heat and eat meals, etc. Yet, women continue to bitch about how hard they have it. It gets really old
I would like to compliment you on yours thought, I´m on your side in many considerations you make. You´re completely right on point of view. Greetings from BRAZIL.
An unattractive man with high economic success that attracts a physically beautiful women most likely knows she is there for his money more than him, those relationships are transactional IMO. If an unattractive man has high success and a beautiful women truly loves him for him he has something more than just money.
No beautiful woman is going to have any guenine desire for an unattractive and/or ultra-short guy. Beautiful women are guided by looks & height, i.e. a "Chad." So many unattractive/ultra-short guys don't understand because they have poor "attraction IQ" 🤣
If this man's shocked at the fact that men live 5 years less than women imagine how shocked he will be looking at 12 year expectancy difference in Russia
Women: we are underrepresented let's improve those numbers! Government: absolutely! Men: hey we are now the underrepresented group can we even things out? Government: best we can do is WW3 😂
Since they see us as tools and not humans, they judge us solely based on what we can give them.
100%
They dont care about anything what so ever except for them selves
idk what gender ur referring to but its true for both sadly.
@nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo stop it. Most guys worship chicks
@@nfvjgrofgjvoldlkgvlo no
For every 'liberated' woman is a man who's able to retire early.😂
That’s brilliant!
@TheSnookman I'm not sure if I entirely agree with that one as once they become liberated, the man loses at least half of everything that he has; including his retirement. 🤔😲
@ Good point! That’s only applies if you never married the feminist in the first place.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Very true. Feminism has sent men free, some just didn't realize that.
Mothers pass down a legacy of “I don’t need a man” to their daughters.
It breeds the nature of competition in relationships that destroys the relationship. This contempt is so prevalent in all societies.
Great insights
@ Thank you John
100% correct. Thanks to the Internet/social media, men are getting a true taste of female nature today and they're simply opting out of marriage and LTRs. I wish this information was as available back in 2010 when I got married. I'd have a fully paid off home, tons more money and had more time to develop my friends and hobbies.
So accurate and has been engrained into the black community. It’s so bad that many of them no longer care or desire marriage.
@@gtharo Meanwhile, many of them are crying out for "real men" to "step up" and take care of single mothers :D.
Just turned 30 ... wife just left me weeks before our "10 years togeather 3 married"
First few weeks were rough. Now almost 2 months later got a new place , working out more , eating better i feel great! Videos like this are great. Thank you!
I’m glad the videos are useful
Living a great life is the best revenge!
Stay single, you got this
@@rrrobeltnest7295- THIS! She WILL be back. Bet on it. It could be years in the future, but it will happen. Be prepared and make sure she knows that door closed long ago.
As a man who was married 26 years and then lived with a woman for 3 years before living alone for 7 years now...STAY SINGLE
Men can be happy with much much less than women require to be so. That’s what makes being a man so amazing.
Very well said
Men just require a great pet, a great hobby, a great job and adorable kids [adopted or surrogate] to complete his family.....
Women on the other hand can cry for hypergamous 0.1% males.....
Many women buy that big house, typically through a man, not because she needs it but to rub it in her friends faces.
Absofreakinglutely! 😉😉
We need like 1% of what wmn need to be _truly_ happy, not *pretend* to be. 😂👏🏻😎🗿👍🏻
It got so bad for me I left the country. The horrible imbalance in favor of women finally led me to give up. Young men today face struggles I never imagined when I was their age. My only regret is I wish I would have left a lot earlier.
Where did you go?
I'm not leaving the best country in the world just because I can't get no 😸 here. Female nature is worldwide.
You won't escape this... everything will burn down.
And good riddance... if there is any higher justice, humanity need to collapse fully.
This guy would call that "Anti-Social" behavior.
I lost my wife 1.5 years ago, I'm 44 with no kids. I've dated a couple times which messed me up even more mentally. I feel like I have no future here and want to leave. It seems like the only countries I can move to are just like here and the places that aren't are unsafe. Seems like there is no hope, so I just shut up and try to work myself to death, but I feel like I'm dead on the inside already.
I want to thank all feminists for pushing me towards red pill.mgtow my life is wonderful.Now.Thank you thank you thank you
Absolutely true
Hey, as a 38 year old I have finally come to this conclusion. It took me a long time. Thank heavens I did not marry any of my girlfriends. It would have been a disaster
Ditto!! Thank you to all the Bitchy Whorish women
The woman you divorce isn’t the woman you married. Except she is, she really is.
From the very first moment you meet, NEVER ignore the slightest negative comment or act. Those the brief moments she’s let the facade slip. If you call her out, the facade will quickly be restored, or she’ll do a runner.
Thanks John. My divorce was by far the worst thing that ever happened to me and I can tell no one understands how bad this really is. I appreciate you explaining the reasons for this because no one else does.
Oh, I understand.
It is the worst thing that ever happened in my life it nearly ruined me.
@@Job.Well.Done_01 +1. As you're going through it, it's the loneliest experience on Earth. It becomes clear how little anyone cares. But there are many of us who've been through it who understands.
@@plasmaarmelund It is not just that few care, but that FAMILY COURTS actively work AGAINST fathers and men. The whole divorce/child custody thing is totally rigged in the woman's favor. The courts turn men into economic slaves to their ex-wives.
Staying stuck to a woman you want to divorce is worse.
I barely survived it and am still recovering (if I ever do) from the collateral damage.
I love women.
I love freedom more.
There’s nothing to love about women.
@user-ld6wo4rv8h
I would think the more accurate saying would probably be more of a lust thing than love.
I have realized that I absolutely love my freedom. Women, you're right, (love?); no, not really. It's next to impossible to find a high-quality woman. Then let her hit menopause and her feelings will take over and run wild; leaving you in the poor house or out on the street because of the court system.
@@rogerwhoareyouyes, lust, not love. There needs to be restrictions put on women if society wants men and women to be together any more. The current system that rewards bad behaviour is unsustainable.
I don't love women, but I don't hate them either. What I really love is p*ssy.
Correct. Better said, "I love the fantasy of what a perfect female companion could be."
After my wife died 6 yrs ago i gave up trying to impress woman,,,it has been very very very liberating,,feels super great. , mgtow, positive redpill,,,===bigstack, Peace tranquility, no family courts.No cops, no money problems.No depression, no sadness, no confusion.No anger no fight.S no restraining order is just good.Good peaceful tranquil.Living lots of great sleep too oh yes lot of sweet sleep sweet sleep sweet sleep❤
I have been MGTOW monk living alone. I could never go back to living with anyone. Why surrender your peace?
All a man wants is a woman who appreciates what and who she has, and looks after her health.
So true
You don't know what attitudes men can display: grumpy attitudes towards their partner taking short walks, sleeping 8 hours nightly, eating fruits and veggies, showering daily, meeting now and then with family - these are all vital to staying healthy. After divorce many women regain health, after having first mourned the need for a divorce and her own stupid illusions about a happy end to their difficulties. You could give one of the many women who has been through such things a new belief in humanity, Mike!
@@Mike-s7h5l a man needs a woman that needs him. There is nothing wrong with that. A man will give alot and just wants appreciation. Nothing wrong with that, it very little to ask for all that a man will give .
@@DNA350ppmwhat’s wrong with sleeping 8 hours?
@@lynnkowalla1315 Exactly. The attitude of gratitude.
It's a funny thing that when a man hasn't anything on earth to worry about, he goes off and gets married.
--Robert Frost
Watch her respect for you vaporize when she realizes you put her happiness before your own.
As Rich Cooper coined the phrase:
Women don't care about your struggles.
They wait at the finish line and F the winners.
The more I watch this channel, the more I see John is a advocate for men ❤
@@st1ch3s38 oh he is bigtime for us men lots of diamonds coming out of this btothers mouth,,he tells it like it is,,!!!
It is painful learning to live on your own, but oh so much better once you adjust. Life without compromise. Just living becomes a meditation and wisdom is a natural byproduct.
Glad this information has come out, Australia is the most affected place for this insidious destruction of society
It’s all of the western world, but I agree Australia is numero uno
Men sacrifice their happiness for their family.....women sacrifice their family for their happiness
That is so true. I have witnessed it and been in the situation of sacrificing my own health for a woman. In the end, she sacrificed our marriage for her happiness and longing for replaying the days of her youth; drinking, etcetera where she could be irresponsible, do what she wanted and enhance her feelings.
@@rogerwhoareyou 100%. What I am also seeing as more common now are the already mythical "good girls" being utterly corrupted via toxic friends and social circles, to a degree unheard of pre-social media. I've seen good marriages get absolutely obliterated because the "good wife" fell in with one wrong person and the bad behavior snowballed quite rapidly.
@essbea8727
Yes, I have noticed that, too. I found out towards the end that one of my wife's friends would cheat on her husband and leave him periodically. Move in with the guy she cheated with, or sometimes even a different guy. Then, she would go back to her husband after about 5 or 6 months.
When my wife told me about her, my first question was, "And you're still friends with tgis gal." My wife would say yes, but she only does it because her husband is abusive to her. To which I would say, "Well, I wouldn't know about that, but it seems that he is kind of stupid, and I don't really like the idea of you hanging out with her." It was not much more than about a year after that my wife decided that I was mean and moved out. We tried the marriage counseling thing with a female therapist of her choosing. She quit because she felt that the therapist was taking my side. She's not coming back now either; she has made hints every now and then, and I just say nope. Of course, now, I am also abusive and she has started accusing me of cheating.
Nope, I would rather just get graped by the court system and take my losses.
The female race can just go be with themselves.
Peace, calm, quiet and no drama are all that I am looking for at this point in my life. MGTOW
In the man's case he paradoxically gains both -- even if it is sabotaged by the woman. In the woman's case she ends up with neither.
true
I work in a sector which is overwhelmingly women -- 60% to 40% -- and this variation keeps increasing. The sector still continuously seeks to provide more opportunities for women to join than men. At this rate, there will be very few men, very similar to the education sector.
80% of psychology students today are female - and the few men who major in those studies are brainwashed feminists - otherwise they get washed out.
Just had my snow tires installed. I spent a good half hour or so just chatting with one of the mechanics about cars, braking systems, engineering. Brilliant stuff and something you couldn’t do with a chick.
Yeah but you president want to f "*k him
@@philipswain4122 or at least 1 out of 1000 chicks
The majority of women do not have a single intelligent thing to say about anything substantive. They are children in adult bodies.
@@frakismaximus3052 true. A rarity.
@@frakismaximus30521 out of 10,000.
TMy grandmother adored men. My mother was an angry feminist yet lived off a man draining the life from him. I was a very confused teenaged girl as a result. My husband was a strong and patient man nonetheless it took him many years to show me the goodness and value of men. Thank God ❤. Young women, smarten up quick! Men just need to be needed. They want to provide and protect and all they want is appreciation and a soft spot to land. You are not ALL THAT but you will be to that man if you show him you need him, and you really do whether you know it or not.
I am 71 years old. I have been in a number of relationships and was once married for 24 years. Looking back, my only regret was ever having anything to do with women.
@GeraldJackson-o4s I am so sorry this is your experience. There are just so few women who realize the true value of men in their lives. We need to be smarter and I'm sorry we are not. Any woman with brains will at least regret not appreciating the value of the men in her life. Men may not like it or want to deal with it but the fact is that ALL women are screwed up by their mothers, women's liberation.,and society. We love men, want men, need men but are taught we are weak and stupid to feel that. But we do. It's all so messed up.
@@lynnkowalla1315 Too late for me. I just wish someone would have warned me like I have warned others.
Yes. You get it.
My mother was often down on men. It sure did get exhausting. stfu Mom
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient..
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things.
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white...
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks..
You wont regret it.
Yep, got married in 2004, divorced in 2011... never again.
The divorce opened my eyes to all of this. That was a frightening experience. Seeing her mask fall. Meeting my then wife for the first time as who she really is in that court room. I will have nightmares about the divorce and family court system for eternity.
The kids suffer more than anyone. Sad.
Legal system is broken.
Men getting ram-rodded just for being a man.
Military veteran?
It will be used against you.
Good person?
Sacrificial? Educated?
Good provider?
Good- more
Child support through the D.O.J. Who will run you down to the ends of the earth for that CS money.
Mark my words, they will.
Your wife? Your blushing bride? Her mom and sisters?
The masks will fall. You will be collateral damage in a
f e m i n i s t
system that hates men who aren’t millionaires.
Facts! As the saying goes: "You don't really know someone until you go through a divorce with them".
@@plasmaarmelund So true that!
Are NOT Millionaires??? They hate them too.....even more.
True, and most men don't see this coming until it happens
Society is working to destroy men and men are being knocked down pretty bad. They want weak men. Weak men won’t fight back. A man that has great wife and children will fight against tyranny. They want you all weak. You have more power than you will ever know. Women can’t see this and society has made us too materialistic. We will realize too late. Sorry this happens to you. As a woman I’m careful of woman friendships because I see how they are ever since I was a young girl.
Hey man, you are providing such invaluable insights and for free that I am compelled to contribute for your excellent content. Keep it up...
Much appreciated! Thank you!
Still can't find any holes in these videos. All valid points as usual.
Glad you like them! Thanks
@@john-griffin It's nice not having any holes for a while! haha
Love conquers Hate!!! I am Rich, I am Strong!!! Thy will be done! Believe in Jesus Christ for Salvation~!
8:45 i personally experienced this in of all places, court over a speeding ticket. The judge was very lenient towards the young woman before me even though we had been going the same number of ‘miles over the limit.
She had just returned from China and the judge had a short chat with her about her work and trip and was moved by the stress of her returning. Strangely enough i had also visited China as a preteen in a sort of cultural exchange program. I was afforded no nice conversation about anything and was hit with a fine while the young woman was free to go.
I looked at my public defender during this and he gave me a knowing look and shake of the head. A look i immediately understood to mean “shut up. Yes, you’re getting treated differently. Do not push your luck.” He had gotten the fine reduced so i sat my ass down and said nothing.
This experience always stayed with me and i dont quite know why. Just though i would share it here since i never have to anyone
Yes we need to discuss the legal fratenity and the role they play in this nonsense.
I know of a young man that was going through a recent break up and a female judge very quickly issued two restraining orders. I say 2 orders because one was for the young man, the other was for the young mans father.
For those willing to take a leap of faith both men are good men, totally non violent, non coercive, the whole family are good people. The small community they lived in were stunned at the judges actions. Special conditions were also put in place for the young man and the grandparents to see his very young child/the grandkid. It was a disgrace.
I cannot imagine what it would be like to have a judge who has never met you and has zero evidence of any wrongdoing place a label on you. Not surprisingly the judge did not live locally.
Now why did the former partner ask for the restraining orders? Simple, to obtain additional leverage. Here in Australia if there is a separation and the man or even the mans family has some dough or the capacity to access debt due to good equity the family court judge will often ask for payout to cover a house or unit in a particular capital city. 15 years ago that could be $500k AUD minimum before even discussing child support. No idea what some people could be up for today.
But yeah the legal fratenity allowing a bad scenario to become a worse one. Just awful, nasty and on many occasions totally devoid of accountability.
Women should not be allowed to be judges. It’s ridiculous.
@@user-ld6wo4rv8h Not so! Women judges see through this double standard and hate it. iI's stupid old men who want to be these twitchets' daddy that treat them like Daddy's Little Girl.
@18:50 Personally, I do not need to be respected by society to have purpose. When I was 8 years old, I discovered my purpose in life: electronics engineering. Because of this, I have no desire to chase after social status and lust.
In Australia we have the Owellian "Department for Men's Behaviour" but not the "Department for Woman's Behaviour". I feel that's the magnitude of what you're asking here, asking for logic from human beings who make decisions on emotions, decisions based on what they feel right now.
Bettina Arndt is how i became aware of what the situation down under is like. You boys are in the trenches, i don’t know how you do it.
That sounds like discrimination to me
Take peace my brother - no Matriarchy has survived the test of time..
Gynocentrism at its finest.
@@john-griffin total discrimination john.. this believe all women nonsence is out of control.. no evedence required,, she just makes a statement and u have to prove it didnt happen,,, NOW,, thats the hard part,, how do u prove something didnt happen,, that never happened !! think about those words.. men are getting backed into a corner in australia.. we are REALLY getting shafted and men polititions are makeing these Laws against men.. i believe the men pollys are running scared,, they get told by women pollys,, u better vote for this or else,,, IE, there careers will be ruined by a false allergation like,, he touched me on the bum.. thats actually happened by the way..
This is one of your best John. You have allowed me to view my own experience with family breakdown with a new perspective. Still hurts 15 years later but I understand it better today.
Did you ever consider getting married again?
Glad you enjoyed it
In recent years I simply play dumb when it comes to helping woman in any way . For example dead batteries in the parking lot or flat tire ect . I find most of them are ungrateful and down right obnoxious. It's not normal to me but necessary in today's society.
Tell her to call AAA. I don't bother men for car mishaps. 😂
The only ones I will help are the elderly ones who remiind me of my late Mother who was a great mother and wife
@@monicaspector2388and chances are 98% that it will be a man that shows up from AAA.
@@AAB371exactly…I will help the elderly…that’s it. These young hoes can suck the tire off.
they are highly likely to post a picture of you changing her tyre and calling you a simp.
I thank God for my wonderful wife! She really, really gets it. She has always been a "trad wife" even before it was a "thing". We're 30 years in now. The kids are grown, we still laugh, we're still in love, we still have good sex. I feel terrible for the folks who want this and can't find it in today's messed up culture.
Why would you be on here watching this if what you say is true?
@@hratchchaderjian-vb9pf🤔
@@hratchchaderjian-vb9pfI always think this. What did a happily married man search or watch to lead him here
@@hratchchaderjian-vb9pf The subject interests me greatly. I am 56 years old and spent my growing-up years in a culture of Mary Tyler Moore, Betty Friedan, and Gloria Steinam. It took me years to undo the effects of feminist propaganda on my own sense of masculinity while the availability of positive male role models in the culture was very limited. My own father died when I was 13 and I had to sort a lot of things out on my own. Now, I have two daughters, one of whom is engaged. It has been of the utmost importance to me to provide a positive male role model for my daughters so that they choose their spouses wisely and keep themselves from the male-bashing fray. All of this is in addition to my general interest in history, theology, and cultures. These are substantial parts of my hobby life and they all touch upon feminism to a certain degree.
@@hratchchaderjian-vb9pfhe is seeing that others are struggling to have what he has. Seeing comments like these make me feel glad that some people get what so many of us want.
The education system and reality are two different things. The education system punishes creativity. Reality requires creativity.
But without education, it's very difficult to have an insightful creativity.....
@@jacksonripper-mp8dr There is a big difference between education and the education system. I have learnt far better by teaching myself than the system. Having a mentor who is not part of the system is also beneficial.
Something i heard mentioned that might be worth looking into is the effect of removing large numbers of men from roles like Teachers during the 20th century and the effect that had on the education system and western society.
@@jacksonripper-mp8dr it isn't being about educated it's about slavery
Love the videos. One thing I notice is being financially well off not only does it give you the pick of the litter, it also attracts many undesirable people to you whose intentions are to try and use you. So I think even being financially secure comes with its own set of problems when it comes to all relationships not just romantic ones it’s like the old saying of when you become rich and all your former friends all of a sudden pop back into your life like magic.
Great Points, thanks
We men definately deserve more appreciation and respect.
Our boys, too. It's much less costly in all ways to raise boys into manhood as whole people rather than try to fix badly developed, traumatized men after the fact.
As a woman I thank you all for all you do. Without men I wouldn’t have what I have today. Everything I have is because a man thought it and built it. We need each other. Our society needs to hard times to make us all reset.
I can't go through again what the last one put me through. All I need now is nature and a dog or two.
It is so simple. Just give them what they want, prove society right. They treat you like you are useless, and second rate, then become useless for everyone except yourself. PUT YOURSELF FIRST! Leave societal expectations behind (along with women) and live how you want to, become what you want to. Chasing dreams is a more rewarding, and fulfilling pursuit than chasing women, so do that my brothers!
@@mehdihaider8036 yea and once you do that the pussy will Naturally follow you anyway lol
We did not evolve to compete with each other, but to complement each other. Any group of humans that did the former rapidly died out.
This was a wonderful video to listen to while splitting kindling for the coming week. It's like a basket of little "I love you"s that my husband can pick from when he gets home in the evening and makes a fire in the shop woodstove. Yeah, he could take the time to split some fresh every evening when he's tired and soggy, but having them right there (and a fire stack set up if I get the chance in between chasing kiddos) lets him know, in just one small way, that he is cared for. I think something that everyone who has a man in their life can lean into is showing your appreciation for him in ways that he might not expect, but that will show how much you pay attention to him.
Thanks
Even more misunderstood is what "deserve" entails and its implications.
Women are hitting 30-35 now, deciding that they _deserve_ a good man…
Let's consider an extreme, say a low- to mid-40s man, Christian, virgin: he's spent 25-30 years keeping himself, striving to be a good man, a romantic streak to give his virginity to his wife on their wedding night, a way to show with action _"you were worth it"_ - Let's assume he does marry you. How long until life gets rough, there's a fight, and you decide to shame him for the honor he showed you, insulting him as "inexperienced" or "not as good" as your other lovers? How long until you get mad at him, perhaps taking out on him the upset that he's not your first choice, and "starfishing"? How long before you take "he's not exciting" or "not fulfilling me sexually" or spending time/effort at work to provide as an excuse to cheat? …and, if you're a single mom, what are the chances that you'll repay his kindness, protection, and provision with _"Oh, I don't want another child"_ …saying to him the evil of _"let your line die with you!"_ and returning evil for good?
Is *that* the reward for good men?
Because, in effect, what you have written with your life, using yourself up and then suddenly "deserving" a good man, is that the reward for good men is trash.
Jesus can, and does, fix broken people but your "deserve" is pure pride.
Mothers and fathers used to teach their daughters to find a good husband..
Now they buy them a condo, a car, and 4 years at their favorite university.
How does a young man compete with that?
No need. Cause sadly even that daughter gets banged by other dudes in the low even if he does not have money like that. It's like guys. It's not men vs women. It's healthy men and women vs lame boys and girls. The poop type of people will end up together and the healthy ones will end up together as well just a matter of time. Better things to come. And it's not women fault it's simps fault those types of dudes need to just drop.
John your video on the lies myth about woman is a master piece. Wow i said i cant belive some one said it
Thanks!
So glad I found economic success much later in life at 55. I will never lose it in divorce as I’m older and WISER! Now that I have money, I can get whatever I want with no strings attached. Tbh, you don’t pay them for the segs, you pay them to go away and not bother you after the act. Winning!!! 😎
I'm sure glad I came across this, the way you come across with it, with your humor makes it also awesome 👍💯🤘💪 free agent lifestyle
Thanks
I appreciate you and favour your talking points, but respectfully I think the level of rational and logical reasoning will fly over many Women’s heads .
You’re probably right
Men and women should get along very well. Our differences complement each other.
Fr. We have gay men turning other men around and lesbain weird women doing the same.
John I always like your videos, this one was your best as far as I’m concerned, you have an ability to put words and thoughts together as I wish I could, this video really resonated with me!
Glad you enjoyed it thanks
The suicide rate in Australia for men compared to the murder rate of women is 12 to 1 !!!!!
Wow!
@@john-griffin Actually, it is 20:1. Last year 2455 men killed themselves while 125 women were murdered (not all domestic or all by men).
@ that’s crazy. If it were reversed it would change.
@ true
Judge not, lest ye be judged. Womenism was all about judging men (unfairly). Men's rights is finally, the second half of that adage from the Bible. It is women's turn to stand before the consequences of their collective behaviour and be judged by men. And it is men, afterall, who gatekeep the rules and regulations of civilisation. So once we change our feelings on the matter of women, the party at our (and the children's and the sustainability of civilisation's) expense is over.
Smart men give zero fs what women think.
That’s the problem we have today. We don’t listen to one another. We don’t communicate.
That includes you stacy
@@asdfasdf-dg2qxbeing a woman hater won’t solve anything. Without woman there would be no man and without man there will be no woman. You all don’t know how to talk. The future is both male and female. You all pick horrible woman and then yap how bad it is. Today we allow horrible things to happen in our society because men and women don’t think. Men u all carry half of the blame in this problem we have. U were called to lead but u failed to. I will not kneel to a weak over bearing man. 27 and have never slept with any man and I thank God because only someone worthy deserves the gift of a real woman.
I’m here because I listen to both sides. From my research and observation both sides need Jesus. Everybody needs to turn back to God. We need to heal has individual to be able to have strong families. If I never marry I am very happy knowing I died keeping my standards.
Most women don’t love you , they love what you can do for them !!!
Yuh
A woman's highest calling is to lead a man to his soul so as to unite him with Source. A man's highest calling is to protect woman so she is free to walk the earth unharmed.
~ Cherokee Proverb.
Never felt so lost. Confused messed up.
And I shouldn’t be at this stage in life. Many men are going to grow up either more in touch with themselves or it’s going to be a mess.
With the introduction of the pill, allows less responsibility and now with ivf tech there is an no need for men view.
Worth a topic of discussion
I’m glad you mentioned education as the majority of teachers are women. 54% of American adults have the literacy skills of an 11year old, so what does that say about the teachers?
also no role models for boys in the class
All they talk about is rumors their kids or themselves.
Really amazing thoughts, John 💙
Thanks!
Very true and wise points of view. Protect this man at all cost :)
Thanks
Sounds like a whole lot of good reasons to walk away from it all and refuse to help the community.
This current society is not worth it
@@downtostandupI concur. Let us brothers come together and help one another, excluding those who have betrayed us for so long. This video is somewhat of an example of that. Take care brother.
21:15 John must be from the future.
Last time I looked it was still 2024 ! 🤣
Thanks
Maybe we can change the laws....because nothing will improve until that happens. That is just the plain cold truth.
the laws have been made since the 60s along with Corn to inflict this situation on western humanity
There used to be an appreciation for men in society, the hard work, skilled labor, braveness. The meat and potatoes of what keeps our nation in tact. That appreciation has disappeared.😢
I am late 50s and for the first time in my life i learn what "role" "society" expects from me in youtube videos. I lived 57 years without caring about that and ever being confronted with it.
As a woman I agree with what u say here. We need a right view of men and women again. Media and government is working to destroy men. Lots of women can’t see this. We live in a selfish society. Men need to step up and take back this countries from weak politicians.
Nah we just need to get rid of the weak people who put others down.
Boy or girl don't matter.
Thanks
Regarding your point about men not wanting to get into a fight with women, I don't think it's so much a psychological thing about "a fight might be to the death", I think it's much simpler. Men are taught all their lives - don't hurt women, don't offend women, don't be mean to women, don't look at women the wrong way, women are special. Women are not taught any of this about men at all, on the contrary, they are taught - be wary of men, don't trust men, stand up for yourself against men. Now how is any conflict in a relationship between a man and woman likely to go?
You, friend, are saying things that suggest YOU are moving in a direction the NO ONE wants to go.
Ive been watching your videos for months. This is my favorite so far
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks
You're a Saint that the church can't comprehend.
Thanks
Uuuuaaaaauuuuu, what a statement!!!!! Thanks, se need to pass this message forward.
Excellent video!
Glad you liked it!
Men are afraid on being lonely, which is why they will throw their lives away chasing women. A man could have a nice house, car, could indulge in many past times like martial arts, endurance racing, and golf. Yet, instead, he chooses to chase women, throwing away much of his potential in the process. Even if he realizes that by doing so, he is hurting himself.
Men then use women as an excuse to not chase the things he knows to be most valuable in his life. He will exclaim that he would perform such an act but I have an wife. I would pursue this goal but I have a girlfriend. Then when he invariably, feels the contempt that comes from forsaking his personal goals, he takes it out on other men.
True
Marianne Legato wrote a book 📙 in 2009, WHY MEN DIE FIRST. I have my own hardcopy, dog eared pages, with notes written in the margins. I am watching Victor Davis Hanson, author discussing WW II leaders at Pepperdine School. Hanson is one of my favorite authors
Why women live longer than men? Cause they dont have to marry women
Most readers of the books that are sounding an alarm about boys and men are women who feel for any victims of oppression or hardships. And for rehabilitation of criminals. Like this: th-cam.com/video/35QL080lkAw/w-d-xo.html
Nevertheless it is hard for women in personal relationships to help men, it is so normal that men don't help boys or men, and that men don't want women to help them, they want their service, but not leadership from women, though they need it. But if anybody helps and gives accepted help to a man, then it is mostly a woman. Mothers, sisters, daughters, and also wives are huge helpers.
Why...BECAUSE WOMEN MAKE US WANT TO DIE FIRST!!!
Just sharing, Leslie Van Ness, , described as a powerful personality, Illinois TV anchor, executive dead at 42 after becoming ull during Florida vacation, 2023...... Gone to young 😢
Wowww
Thanks again John. You help me to breathe more easily.
It's really an education problem in the west with regards to relationship dynamics. If young girls were taught the virtues of men and told that they need a man instead of what is now the complete opposite of that then we'd be in a better place. Feminism movement not only ruined things for men, but women too, yet they gaslight themselves into thinking it was the best thing to ever happen to them. They'd rather work 9-5 for the man instead of raise children because that is somehow less noble than being a corporate slave.
I walked away.
From a dating relationship that I had for 2 years 6 months ago due to 30% feminism. Well, I guess in her eyes 30%. Feminism wasn't too bad but I tried to put up with it and I couldn't tolerate it. I'm red pill Mgtow My life is a great,,,After 2 years she put pressure on me to marry,,so just walked away. She was shocked and wants me back,,its not happaning,,,
Excellent
you can be sure the other 70% was being hidden until after the big day.
Great stuff John 💯. Everything you say is spot on and needs to be heard by all men because their life depends on it.
your best video yet. Thank You
Glad you think so!
Agreed
Very true and important msg
A few years ago i found out that my partner of over 7 years was cheating on me. I can safely say that this is one of the best things ever to happen to me. The peace and happiness i have for life and living on my own is unmatched.
I often hear the statement that women get more college degrees than men and although this is true, what is far more important is the major of those degrees...
Only truth here again today. Who'da thunk it?! Well, anyone who pays attention during John's videos.
Remember to Watch 5 things Dr Andrew Hubberman can't live without with Shawn Ryan show today .I just watched it.
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This story is as old as time. It goes back to Adam and Eve. Genesis Chapter's 1- 3.. the fall of man.
Wow!
In 1967, the United States estimated that 11,363 American soldiers were killed in the Vietnam War.
For every occupational death, there's probably at least 10 injuries. Many of which are very serious.
That’s true. I should’ve talked about that.
Very good episode...I wonder how long it takes for John to prepare for each presentation. Everything is always very accurate with men and women's behavior considering that there exceptions..but very rare. Can someone inform me the meaning of the "red pill"...never heard the term used.
Red Pill is having an enlightened view of relationships with women through the prism of their natural behaviors. It also requires men to hold a traditional masculine role in the relationship and to lead women into a more traditional feminine role. Bringing women into your frame as opposed to you trying to accommodate her. The man is the leader in the relationship and sets the boundries. There is a list somewhere of all the characteristics, but that is the basics.
Dude, im a tech dinosaur. This drone stuff is so clever, autoflying around you , im impressed 😂😂
Thanks
An older cousin just drunk himself into a coma. He's in hospital on the machine that goes ping. Apparently he is always depressed because he is alone even though he has a high paying job, owns his house and has money.
I enjoy being alone, doesn't bother me.
You like solitude. He does not. We are all different.
It’s all perspective. What we tell ourselves about ourselves matters.
Your ability to stay on topic without getting personal is a rationale men need to develop when dealing with emotions.
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It sure has to start with *men complaining* out loud, and sharing their feelings of disappointment, loneliness, and not being understood and helped when in trouble or grief. The problems become visible in threads like these. The unfair treatment of boys is one of my greatest complaints. They are raised with fear as the main method, wheras they need compassion as much as girls do. When the brain is occupied with fear, it is difficult to learn and be creative, and even to protect oneself - instead one relies on instinctive behavior.
Your best work
Thank you so much 😀
From my own observations, they more men do for women, the less happy they are, and the more they want. Men have made life much easier than a century ago. Washers & Dryers, Dishwashers, Ready to heat and eat meals, etc. Yet, women continue to bitch about how hard they have it. It gets really old
What a world that would be, one can dream.
I would like to compliment you on yours thought, I´m on your side in many considerations you make. You´re completely right on point of view. Greetings from BRAZIL.
Thanks for sharing!
I lost my daughter to a man hating feminist (her brain washed self).
brought out all the hateful women in the comments…
It’s great! Maybe we will change some minds
Thank u for this i like ur content well said! Appreciate u being for men! A handle on emotions is very important! Ur right, im MGTOW for life!
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An unattractive man with high economic success that attracts a physically beautiful women most likely knows she is there for his money more than him, those relationships are transactional IMO. If an unattractive man has high success and a beautiful women truly loves him for him he has something more than just money.
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you last sentence is wishful thinking that is fantasy
No beautiful woman is going to have any guenine desire for an unattractive and/or ultra-short guy. Beautiful women are guided by looks & height, i.e. a "Chad." So many unattractive/ultra-short guys don't understand because they have poor "attraction IQ" 🤣
If this man's shocked at the fact that men live 5 years less than women imagine how shocked he will be looking at 12 year expectancy difference in Russia
Women: we are underrepresented let's improve those numbers! Government: absolutely!
Men: hey we are now the underrepresented group can we even things out?
Government: best we can do is WW3 😂
Women make up 54% of the registered voters in the United States.