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Life sucks when you're broke with or without a woman

I’m a 72 year old male. Known a fair number of both types. Trying to think of exceptions to your synopsis. I’ll have to get back to you.🤷‍♂️

Single and free the way to be

Tools have the potential to do work. Women do not have tools, because it means work and also it is not immediate gratification.

I dont/ never got lonely, that's my leverage, I fortunately had that because I didn't win in the physical genetic gene pool lottery!

My mom went after my Dad's boss and had a fling with him (He's degusting). It was purely spite that drove it, all after providing her the stay at home life for 20 years with the freedom to pursue anything she wanted whether it be school or work but she never did any of that. She never had to work; just smoked weed all day and had us kids do most of the housework before Dad got home from working 9-10 hours often 6 days a week. After the divorce happened my father had to pay her a ton of money monthly, She stayed in the house while my dad tried to make payments on it hoping it would become his but finally realized that wasn't going to happen. All while working under the boss that had a fling with her! She then lived in a cheap apartment, so she'd have more money for weed, maybe other stuff (I know her previous habits). My sister cooked most of the dinners while we split the chores while my Mom sat on her ass most of the day. She worked a part time job in a kitchen at a college. Meanwhile my dad is barely surviving being forced to live with his sister then moved back in with his parents because he couldn't afford much. He saved money to give my sister and I fun times when we were with him but it destroyed him for awhile. Once she finally found a desperate semi-crazy guy with anger issues but with money she went after him and got him. My dad was finally free of paying a lot of money to her and was able to move on. He still had to work those 9-10 hour days sometimes involving Saturdays because that was his "Normal income" according to the state. At least he got split custody of my sister and I and was able to see us equally but man... those days were hard on him. It didn't really seem to phase my mother. He said screw it to relationships since then. The courts really favor women in my opinion in divorces and convinced me to likely never marry or have kids. I still love my Mom but keep her at arm's length. I don't know if I'll ever be close with her again after what she did. I think somewhere inside of me I just stopped caring to get in a relationship because of all of that. Why take the risk? I was popular in high school even with girls but I just couldn't go further than a short fling with them. -- My short story example of the topic.

You need to do a video on why / how women destroy relationships like Matt Cross 33 Secrets “3 ways women destroy relationships”.

You get drama and sex once a week :D You never know in what mood she will be next day :D You have to keep her entertained otherwise she will cheat on you and that will be her excuse for not paying attention to her

I love this video, it is very inspiring. In turn, I offer you my sermonette on being a single man. Hear me out, my brothers in Christ. All men should consider the words of St. Paul: "Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you single? DO NOT SEEK A WIFE."(1Corinthians 7:27). Therefore, if you are single, and you choose to stay single, then STAND YOUR GROUND and know that YOU HAVE GOD'S APPROVAL. And if God is for you, no one can be against you (Romans 8:31). What's more, being single means having more time and energy to give to friends, to family, to hobbies, and to God. And this will lead to men having healthier, happier lives. My five bits of advice for young single men are:Trust in God; Work hard; Stay healthy; Stay single; and Get a vasectomy. We've had women's liberation, NOW IT'S TIME FOR MEN'S LIBERATION. It is time that men left the slave plantation of gender roles and gender stereotypes altogether; and that we claimed our God-given freedom. And if God has made us free, then we are free indeed (John 8:36); regardless of what women and society have to say. So let's cast these three demons out of our lives: marriage, cohabitation, and reproduction. And let us "Stand fast in the liberty by which God has made us free, and not be entangled again with the yoke of bondage."(Galatians 5:1). I, personally, would rather die a free man than to live life enslaved or imprisoned. We should heed the immortal words of Patrick Henry: "Is life so dear, or is peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of CHAINS and SLAVERY? FORBID IT, ALMIGHTY GOD! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, GIVE ME LIBERTY or GIVE ME DEATH!"🗡

John Griffin has become the voice of reason + sanity that I need to hear everyday. Like an Uncle, older brother, Father or just a friend that I can relate to you. I live alone in Las Vegas / San Diego, and while there are no women for me anymore in America, I’m starting to realize that being a single bachelor in a quiet, peaceful home is pure paradise.

I often hear the statement that women get more college degrees than men and although this is true, what is far more important is the major of those degrees...

'I'm not happy' should have never been grounds for divorce. My wife and I made a contract, not with the government, with each other: There would never be a divorce. 37 years now.

From Zorba the Greek: Q: Are you married? Zorba: Am I not a man? And is a man not stupid? I am a man, so I’m married. Wife, house, children… The full catastrophe!

Great video John. You're absolutely right about freedom and independence. But, @LFA just had a video that discussed male loneliness. The younger generation, and even some older men, don't know how they've dodged a bullet. Stay single.

I like the shopping olympics reference. I think my late wife would have made team USA LOL. Never the less I love her and miss her. That is one sport where a women would trans gender herself to a guy to have a competitive advantage in the men’s division.

What about consulting your wife for advices?

They are deceitful beyond what men would believe.

John, I'm a 65 year old man who has been essentially a bachelor all of my life - apart from a short live relationship with a woman who was more like a room mate/friends with benefits - I was just a stepping stone as she was looking Mr. Goodbar. Marriage and life long commitment was never on the cards. Hearing these wise words reminds that the path that I've been on and am staying on is the ONLY one for me . Thanks and regards, Sean.

Being single is so lonely though i have no friends and don't know what to do with myself now I've found myself dumped and single

Yeah, movies and TV were trying to tell us...

Get a woman and never have to worry about being too happy nor living with a content person again.

Financial would have to be top one. Women have a high MPC Marginal Propensity to Consume Economics term. If you look closely at the economy it designed more for women to consume. What I find with women how many do you meet that are truly happy and content? I haven't meet many they seem to constantly chase happiness from their perspective of course but almost programmed to not reach it.

I thought they were the same thing.

The ironic thing about self sufficiency,is women find that attractive

As a women I have to agree. We can spend money. Big time. I own it and I love spending my OWN MONEY!

How many long-term relationships, working on life-long commitment, have you guys had, to be able to determine that "all women" are the same? Isn't it more logical to conclude that you were the one who was the same, and acted the same way, in those few longer relationships you have had time to have living experience of?

Thank you for your insight. I interpreted what you said near the beginning about mostly woman or liberal ideas forming the curriculum in early school as having a negative impact on young men nowadays. I definately saw the older generations of men (I am Gen X) as being more "chauvanist", but they still got on well with woman. Then I saw my generation and younger generations as being more accepting of the equality notion. Now, at 53, I am learning and seeing first hand some of the "truths" my elder generations referred to about woman. Back then I saw these positions or views about woman by men as being outdated and irrelevant and now, because of my experiences, they are simply anecdotal truths that are absolutely undeniable. Had I accepted these notions about woman when I was younger, I definately would have made some better choices and lead more in my marriage which is now failing after a devastating menopause for my wife of 25 years. So, like many TH-camrs state, feminism and "equality" between the two sexes is destroying society as we knew it - especially the the strongest unit - the family.

why is it ridiculous?

With modern marriage, say the last 100 years or so, men are putting up too much risk. What is proposed in today's video is 100% true with our rotten feminized culture, legal system. Strong independent masculine bachelors could even be the salvation from our impending decline.

so true brothere

People think I am 15 to 20 years younger. I tell them no stress, emotional parasites are taxing.

Go celibate.

Misogynists are better being single. Save humanity.

I went to see my sister who’s sick and she wouldn’t go in with me. She said I can’t see sick ppl, so much for better or worse. Ended soon after, imagine if I took ill

I’ll mirror the advice already mentioned: Make no major life decisions within 1-1.5 years following a divorce, as you change a lot in that time. Most of my interests changed in that time, and my career also changed in that time, both heading at an angle tangential to the interests and career that I had before. It pisses me off, if I’m honest, as I preferred the older version of me. Unfortunately, as the saying goes, the snake that cannot cast it’s skin has to die, and I was so depressed, and so at loose ends, that I have never come closer to suicide in all my life as I did in that first year. I truly lost everything, and had to start right from zero. Needless to say, having another relationship is last on my list of priorities, ranking far below zit squeezing.

Being a boring person is a blessing ion disguise. I have never met a woman who would have wanted to get married to me and as years have gone by I guess that's been like dodging a bullet.

there's a reason so many monks live for so long. God is the ONLY LOVE+

Never never never trust a woman ..80 years old married once ingaged once lived with older lady for 20 years...they all bad just in varying degrees..how much pain can yo take. How much gold can you afford to loose.just buy the p product you want and run never ever care it don't pay....

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i would like mariage, but the one where women live with grandmas and aunties, and i do my own stuff and i am not responsible for her feelings

Every relationship I've had since college ended bc I refuse to get married. I always ask my gfs why they pressure me to get married. They say it's so I just don't up and leave them. This proves what I've always believed that the only reason ppl want marriage is to trap. I also won't up and leave if you aren't a b-tch...

Great teaching.

refusing labels is big in society. so when does bachelor become a name? if not married at 22 you are not married, 31 not married same, but a bachelor kicks in at what age? if ever i am asked if i am a bachelor i just answer "what is that?" and questioner can fill me in.

The comment about society conditioning men to serve women like they're some kind of mythical creature. Is absolutely spot on. But let's never forget, civilizations were never built by women, nor were they the ones to maintain them.

You can bet she's watched this video.

I 72 single never married … just made my 2025 plans to visit Colombia, Southern Europe ( Switzerland, Germany, Austria, Czech Republic) and Asia meeting fun, fit, friendly, feminine young women ….

How are average men supposed to pass on their genetics as most women do not even look at us. I never met a good woman in the West I asked out a few but they all said no. Till I hit 34 and then the girls were interested and I knew having children is the ultimate goal.

I was discussing female reproductive autonomy and impact of men with chatGPT ( lol but i dont think I could have explored this idea with a real human without being judged and yes chatgpt also called me too pessimistic whcih I agree ). What I understood was with more reproductive agency given to woman, there will a very major shift in political power once women will use this to get their way. South Korea will become a great example for this. So I am kind of disillusioned that in male gender will be liberated from the cusps of society in near future or the integration will happen on their ( woman ) terms. I will be the first person to say that this is an over-generalization and a bleak possibility. But what is clear to me that we need to break out of the competitive mindset and move towards collaborative one in male spaces. There are a lot of men feeling hopeless and we need to ensure that they do not feel disenfranchised. I am saying a lot of incoherent nonsense but we need to liberate men from the provider responsibility now without reducing their sense of purpose in the world. This might be a blue pill solution but is the only way visible to the narrow-minded me. Maybe becoming more selfish is the way. I do not have solutions for it, apologies for it.

There are a lot of bitter men out there but the reality is a woman's standard of living drops while a man's standard of living goes up like 40 percent in a divorce. Usually, because the men either pay little or no child support. It is stacked against women. I laugh at these videos where everyone says they love being alone yet in reality most people are looking for "the one" no matter what age. It gets boring doing things by yourself and are you really going to hang out with the buddies all the time in your 50s? Most friends are busy working or are married or in relationships. By the way, women get of nasty surprises when they are married too. How many women have been cheated on or abused? How many women are with selfish and cold men? Add addiction. Very few divorce a really good guy. I've worked in heathcare and these "happy bachelors" are sitting by themselves in the Emergency Room.

Traveling with a wom@n can be a nightmare. They will create drama and complain about the smallest things. There's something about traveling that just brings out the worst in them.