For me it's the opposite.. But perhaps I'm a bit younger than the woman speaking. I'm want only cuddles and not more if i start to feel emotionally unsafe in the relationship.
As a single, attractive older woman, I am propositioned by a lot of married men who have “permission” to have sex or an affair, since the wife knows he is not going to risk his home, family, and financial security by getting divorced. I can’t imagine anything worse than dating a married man.
Right! The wife agrees to it because she knows any woman willing to date a married man who’s not going to risk getting divorced will forever get the short end of the stick. She’ll always be lesser than. Pretty smart on the wives part tho, she gets all the financial benefits/stability without having to put in the sexual work for it lol
but can you imagine two married women feeling that way and therefore being married to 1 man. does it not make logical sense? this is why polygny is allowed in islam.
@@brooklynisbetta polygny is not fornication or adultery. otherwise that jehovah you are talking about wouldn't have alowed his prophets like Solomon to have multiple wives.
She is spot on with this ! That is exactly what happened to me in my last marriage. Not saying $ex is the most important thing in a relationship , BUT ! ! It is in fact IMPORTANT ! ! Because without it , you're just roommates .
I am almost 56, a woman, married twice. My first husband was not a good match (cheater etc.) and I fell out of love with him after 2 years but we stayed together for 8... Fast forward 10 years later, I met the man who was to become my husband. We have our highs and lows like any couple but I have never fallen out of love - nor lust even. 17 years later and we have sex maybe twice a week and wow... 😂 I can't speak for him but I still fantasise about him even when he's sitting right next to me. 😊❤
@@MrGeese85 Wrong, for a women to treat him like a man he must first learn to be a man for her. He needs a backbone and a set of balls. He cant make her feel secured. She dosent trust his manhood.
@@blackups__6554 well I am She allowed me to play around....she just stopped wanting it Finley I had enough and we split. Today my sidekick is 30 years my age..... some call me sick ...guys call me lucky
We both want intimacy in a relationship. For men it's more physical and for women it's more emotional. That's why women get upset when their man is pouring out his heart and soul to another women.
And that's is one of the reason a married men will cheat. To them, sexy is majority of the time physical. He can have sex with a women while loving other, majority of women can't do this. If they cheat, it's because they are emotionally attracted to other men. So when they cheat, the men almost never forgive, because to them the love is over. And majority if the time it is like that, the love was over. I think men and women weren't genetically made to stay together for a long period. Almost no other animal do this, we aren't especial.
Exactly. Maybe I would be willing to accept sexually open relationship. It would be difficult, but I’m not saying it’s impossible. But THERE’S NO WAY I would be able to accept romantically open relationship. In fact, if he cheats on me and feelings are involved towards the other party, he can move in with her.
Yes true when my partner was more happy with other party things changed... we still together but im v sad, doing it 4kids im not well 2with my energy health mentally im ok, I work, drive even train...
@@katarina5233you are too naive. Of course the sexual relationship will develop and will involve feelings, emotions and live. A lot of men love through sexual activities.
I completely agree. When I was younger I wanted sex all the time but when menopause hit it declined and now I have no need for it. I thought something was wrong with me at first. This needs to be talked about a lot more.
I think she was talking about her Muslim culture where "getting married" is basically the equivalent of our "getting your first serious relationship", they marry at 18-19-20 y old. So 10-15 years in her (their) culture is 18-28, when, of course you're going to have a lot of secs with your first steady boyfriend/ girlfriend.
It's funny how it's okay for one side to stop wanting to do something and it's acceptable but the other has to continue to do something throughout. 🤔 I think both should be held accountable and find ways to Love each other and reciprocate it.
exactly this! we can understand something but it doesn’t excuse it. we understand men and women are different so it just means we have to put in a little more work when it comes to those differences.
Hehe she is just trying to normalize her religion (islam).. the bitter truth is that as men get older can't get it up anymore and they don't know what they are doing in bed and how to give a woman an orgasm. That's why you are avoided by your partners uncles. 😘
@@michaelflamingsword3131 Truth requires no justification. Biological differences of the sexes are scientific facts and your myopic judgement of that makes no difference.
Listening to that one was a joke. I don't know what her "qualifications" are but I can only assume that she treats people on loveless matches. am almost 56, a woman, married twice. My first husband was not a good match (cheater etc.) and I fell out of love with him after 2 years but we stayed together for 8... Fast forward 10 years later, I met the man who was to become my husband. We have our highs and lows like any couple but I have never fallen out of love - nor lust even. 17 years later and we have sex maybe twice a week and wow... 😂 I can't speak for him but I still fantasise about him even when he's sitting right next to me. 😊❤ Btw, I know that maybe our relationship might not be that common but it cannot possibly be rare either. She probably isn't aware of people like my husband and me simply because we wouldn't need therapy.
Honest question: I wonder if those married women with decreased drive is due to neglect from their husbands? Or is it actually lack of physically needing sex?
It's women's nature. Nature created men to procriate the max they can, that's why they can make babies even in their 80s. Women was created to conceive life, and the process take a toll on their bodies. That's why they stop having babies at one point, to increase their chances to survive. Imagine a 75yo going through pregnancy, their life would be in danger. So it's logical that when they hit the menopause, their sex drive reduce. There is no biological reason to have the same amount of sex they had whrn they were fertile. Remenber, I didn't say social reason, I said BIOLOGICAL.
Its a functional, mental, and hormonal shift usually after having children. Sure some could be from neglect and abuse, but thats deflecting from a real thing healthy married couples face. I dont believe harems or swinging is the answer though haha
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
We stop feeling unsafe and distance ourselves when aren’t treated properly we fight it and go along hoping they will change but after years we are empty
yea yea the Majority of Women always feel that they are disrespected by their boyfriend , & or husband, & by basically every man on the planet no matter who the man is the only time a woman doesn’t feel disrespected, & or the only time that a woman will let that disrespect slide , & the only time she will let it slide is when the Man happens to be her male boss who signs her paycheck or when the woman is so head over heals attracted, & GA GA , & googley eyed over a man that she is with or when the man that she is with moves in certain circles, & he has that certain something that that woman can latch on to , & benefit from then all of a sudden many women’s self respect gets put on the back burner or when the woman has Childhood , & or past relationship Trauma then that woman will be Emotionally , & mentally stuck , & frozen in a state of denial or actual fear ? , & many times many times many women have no problem being toxic , & just down right rude , & verbally , & mentally , & emotionally , & psychologically , & physically nasty , & disrespectful to a man that is actually emotionally , & mentally, & intellectually balanced, & on point because she many times forgets , & doesn’t realize that the man that she is dealing with isn’t her Narcissistic Toxic misogynistic boyfriend , & so she continues to project those insecurities, & her past onto the good man !!!
This is an absolute fact. Even relationships where people aren't identifying that there's "abuse" bc it's not physical, you see that there is a definite lack of respect being projected toward the wife and she just continues to withdraw.
This beautiful amazing woman is the most gifted and talented relationship expert I have ever heard spoken. All her sessions, comments, conversations, contributions are factual and understandably logical. So inspiring and educational! Please TREASURE her!!
Sex in my relationships was never a problem. I always had the same drive as men, even 3 months postpartum, but what i realise is that throughout the relationship, i wanted more intimacy with words and gestures, but it's really hard to find a man that has that quality.
That's exactly the deal with my girlfriend we've been together over 6yrs now but I do try being intimate with the words and gestures, more gestures though than words for me like I do always have my hands on her somehow
Well, i am so glad so many women here were having happy marriage. I stopped wanting sex because i was exhausted and my husband acted like a spoiled teen, not wanting to be taking part in the family, but clubbing with his way younger 'colleagues' or playing games on his pc over every evening and weekend.
It's actually not true what she said about men and sex. From 50yrs most men's libido is no longer as wild, it starts to decrease. Everyone is not the same though
Heading on to 75yrsld.... muscle mass not the same as 60 yrs ago, but the drive's still there.... uncle is 101 and has remarried to a younger woman.... still likes his coffee from his Dolly Parton 'mug'..... I've been through a hyper-jealous sexless marriage and she's the one that departed with another woman..... My advice..... stay as far away from females as humanly possible. Haven't met one, yet, that's not a psychotic sociopath and pathological liar.... it's just their genetic template.... That's including nuns, family, highly educated to backwoods village marms.... there was something in that rib that tainted the whole pool. MGTOW
Yes. When she's comfortable enough to chunk up, and start saying,"no." Rather than get frustrated, a man can simply have another outlet... Then, the wife doesn't have full control over her man in that way. Competition anxiety kicks in, then she takes better care of herself and him... She gets a break, and a rejection of sorts, thus keeping her in line... It works for both...
The more I listen to her, the more I realize her content is purely based on anecdotal evidence living in Dubai. People need to stop getting educated from social media just because the influencer is good looking. It's bad science.
Yes, the more I listen to her I always feel that she views things from her surroundings and her faith and beliefs and she is sending a subtle message to justify it.
@@PratapShinde People are differente ,there are men who can handle and need more then one woman , is it a rule ? no , so don't see it from only ur prespective too and acuse her of the same thing.
@@desertnomadbilal4512 I would imagine the vast majority of her viewers, both male and female, do not live in a country where having 4+ wives is the norm.
You spend your all day to be romantic. Come on. Sometimes I just want sex without working for it😂😂😂 If she doesn't give, believe me, someone else will😂😂
You're lying to yourself and your partner. The point is that there is no internal drive on your part. It "helps"? Helps what.... to convince you? To get you "in the mood"? That's not desire and if you don't desire it, your partner is in fact not wanted. They can feel that. Dont get me wrong, love respect and romance are also an important part of a relationship. Just don't pretend or convince yourself you still desire your partner; you don't. At best, you can be convinced. Nobody has ever had to convince me to accept something I already wanted.
@@roykhan2730 I'm guessing those studies were done by vested interest. Because quite the opposite is true. I love when my man is working when I'm working too. Around the house. I'm vacuuming, he's dusting. Yeah, baby!
It's good to remember that she's not claiming this statement to appeal women or let alone win them... she's a business lady that I could do business with.
Women also would like to have another man, with better qualities and manners and respect towards their needs. Then they would be willing to have sex no matter their age. But women are conditioned to want less, because to tell that they want another man would put their lifes in danger traditionally and and conservative cultures.
And women are not doing themselves a favour to marry an older man. Older men many times have difficulties to understand what's going on in modern society, they are less open to change and therefore the woman will have to adapt to him and she will only see a decade or two later that she is trapped.
The problem is people marry people they can and not who they truly want. I know and heard personally many stories of couples who are in love with each other and have a healthy sex life.
Meh, we can't really be too mad at each other on this one. Men and women's libido are literally biologically set to different levels. Kind of a curse tbh.
Regardless gender, we should always put LOVE at the center of the relationship. Then everything would fall into place naturally including sex. It's simple as that. Men need to learn how to love the right way. Men that put sex at the center are emotionally immature.
This is definitely a WORLDLY View!!!! Yes sex is important and that is ADULTERY smh lol...man the world is lost.... JESUS is so needed...theres so much context missing
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
To each their own. I would only want my one wife. Edit: but she had to be Esther aka a virgin. I didn’t stay strong for this long for nothing. If I die alone prideful in the ways of The Most High then so be it.
I felt my life slipping away after twenty years without intimacy from my wife (27 years of marriage). I felt like a dog being kept in a cage. I'm very good-looking. Women were always flirting with me. Which made it more agonizing. I finally left her at 49 yrs old. Within a week, I was having sex with women. I had five women in six months! One was eight years younger than me! They were the ones approaching me when they found out I was separated. Holy crap. I'm 65, and they're still flirting with me, some are10 years younger than me! So, WHY are there no wives that are this horny!? I'd still be married to her if she had sex with me. Sex is like having to breathe for men.
What she omitted is the fact that most of the time women lose interest in sex because of husband’s mistreatment, lack of non-sexual affection and lack of full participation in the household chores. Most of the time, wives are struggling to be sexually attracted to man-babies. I’m a psychologist too by the way. She needs to look deeper than what her clients tell her and do more research as well.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
She let her internet fame go to her head. She just keeps spouting more and more nonsense. She works with only one demographic- rich men in Dubai and the women trying to get them and thinks that what she sees there applies to the whole world.
@@daeme2 still standing here 🙂and clearly she doesn’t know about women. She always makes wide sweeping generalizations and only works with dysfunctional men. You assume a lot about me and so I’ll assume that perhaps you’re someone incapable of having a long term connection and might want to hear it is ok to have more than one wife. Suggest you take advice from people around you in happy marriages - they know how to bake the cake and not take advice from people who only have microwave recipes.
@@hechoz4267 How's a man with a healthy $exdrive "dysfunctional"? It's a very widespread, very common problem that wives cease to be interested in healthy happy adult relations with their husbands. To not keep him trapped in a marriage she turned into a $exless desert was everything *_but_* dysfunctional. The Dysfunction is not happening on his side of the aisle when *_she's_* the one that loses interest.😆
@@manfredschmalbach9023 I never said that a man’s sex drive is a problem in fact it is awesome in a marriage, never said a sexless marriage was good - terrible actually, I’m talking about her approach and solutions. She offers nothing with this dumb comment to advance into a loving and fulfilling relationship for both parties.
And yet I know so many women who still want sex but their partner has gotten boring and lazy or is too tired, and the women are having to satisfy themselves instead. This is such a generalisation as it's definitely not all women like she says.
Also, some guys may want a lot of sex but it’s with different women, the novelty. Meaning when they’re in a relationship they get kinda bored with the same woman after the beginning stage and in turn may not make her feel desirable, and not have much sex with her because he’s not that excited anymore. Not to mention there’s a lot of ed out there as a result of addiction issues nowadays but no one really talks about that
Whem my wife only wants to cuddle, I remind her that if her mom would've said that to her dad the night she was conceived, she wouldn't have been born!
Yes,, I agree. Been with the hubby for 17+ years... I want it all the time and he doesn't. He slowed down at 8 years into the relationship. He did gain weight and I stayed the same. I wonder if that plays a big part in our six drives. 🤔
men with high testosterone are always up for it. i have to discipline myself to not always get busy with the wife. as i enjoy training in the gym so u better keep some energy for that. otherwise i would do it almost every night.
It not about libido you missing the point ,key words is sex drive do not decrease of years even low libido or hìgh libido that does not matter it does not decrease does are key words people
A Muslim man recently asked me if I was married, I said yes, but have been estranged for years. Then he abruptly declared he had three wives, then paused.. and told me to go back to my wife,.. I said I would but. . she has three husbands.
What a load of crap. My husband and I have been married for over twenty years and still enjoy sex more than five times a week. Women who avoid sex are sick to death of boring sex with a man who doesn't know how to do it for their women. Women get sick of trying to teach their men how to do it. Also, a lot of women have suffered trauma in relation to sex, being female, or abuse at the hands of men. Being 50 or 60 years old is not the reason women don't want to have sex with crap men. Women want sex as much or more than men.
Also broke (mentally) woman create relationships with broke man. So have always a look inside (man AND woman). It is NEVER only 1 partner and the other one is perfect.
@MichiZehnle true, but when a man justifies his right to have another woman/wife, and you get a stupid woman like this one who agrees with them, it devalues a woman. Trust me when I say, "No, 20-year-old girl wants a 50/60 year old man crawling on in the middle of the night. Unless they have no choice or the man pays her a lot of money.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
It's not only the justifiable reasons you mentioned but also the menstrual cycle of a woman. And pregnancy of 9 month period. On average with 4 wives it completes approx 12months cycle for a man to have sex with one wife (sex, conceive, give birth & again have sex).
I'm a man myself and why would I go for another woman because my wife doesn't wanna have sex with me? Sex will be the end of many men. If you got married so you can have sex regularly then you might as well not get married and go for hook ups. It's pretty much messed up when mostly men view love as sex.
MEN'S DRIVE DOES DECREASE.... enough of this BS of men aging less. If they're still 'sticky', when they get older, it doesn't yet mean they can, or even want.
She will always want sex with a man she is attracted to but his behaviour is a major factor also. He can't be too cold with her, neither too keen all the time
Hmmm….can’t be too cold, can’t be too keen…how is a man supposed to figure out the Goldilocks level of attention? I think both parties have to have clear open conversations about what they honestly want and assess if that is something each is willing to give. It can’t be left to chance or “you just outta know.” Both parties have to give something to the other.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
I’ve got a feeling juggling multiple women would be a very difficult way of life whether you’re married to them or not. I had to edit in one more thought. It would be difficult even if a man had lots of money. 😂
My wife and i, we’ve been married for 13 years with 2 kids and we don’t have those problems I think women need to be sarcastic and try to please her man even if she doesn’t feel like it And same way for man need to understand he’s women and be there for her and specially make her feel good and talk to her, that’s the key
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
Does this lady not know anything about hormonal changes in a woman’s body over time or menopause? Everything she stated can be explained through female human biology pretty straightforwardly.
It’s not about sex when we pull away it’s about the effort that men put in, in the beginning they make an effort and 10-15 years in not so much. I personally think this is not true or at least not true in most situations.
No. Men are not allowed multiple wives. Its called adutry. Except in nomadic environments. Where its accepted. This lady does not strike me, as nomadic. Stay on point, lady.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
Exactly. Hoping a woman to do job, then household work, taking care of kids and then to do s€x like a 20 years old young female is a cruel expectation.
This happens because they were not soulmates so the desire decreases as she gets to know him more. Some of us just realized we're in the wrong marriage after years of getting to know the man
That concept of soulmate is man made BS tbh. It can't even be proven. What she's saying is biological and can be proven. If soulmates do exist, what happens to those that die without ever being married or in a relationship or meeting their "soulmates" What happens to the "soulmates" that stay alive?
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
Exactly. We are no different than any male animals out there. I was told by a Turkish friend that his uncle had 4 wifes and they compete with each other while they are friends, but the man is pleased more often. As long as women are ok with it, it should be allowed and not judged
The older women get, the realization that their sexual behavior is boring increases so that’s why they’ll decrease it to the partner while trying to fool the guys they’re cheating with that it’s getting better. Denial is nasty work they’ve specialized in & expected by men who know better.
a woman who refuses her husband sex should not become jealous when he starts to desire other women. if she can no longer do it, then out of love for him, she could grant him another marriage. this is a great sacrifice out of love for your husband.
@@jeihka1to be honest after what I have seen it's pretty much on the woman if he rejects sex from her, and it's a problem that she either has to fix or it's a deal-breaker
but the question is could a man have done this for his wife? what if he gets problems with his libido or can't get it up anymore? what if he can't give her children because he thought it was so cool to smoke? where is the love and sacrifice of the man for his wife?
Well said. Women should be allowed more than one husband then. Why should a woman deal with a man who is too busy, uninterested, forever away, impotent, has ED, performance issues, small size, is lacking stamina and energy, has premature ejaculation etc?
Beutiful sister, you are are perfectly right, but most of us hesitating to speaking to truth. But fact is fact. Whether someone agrees or not. May Almighty Allah s.w.t guide you to real truth of religion. Thanks from Bangladesh.
By that logic a 50 years old man should have her present wife plus a 20 years old wife 🤦 Nothing can just defend having more wives, A normal woman would just feel crushed her man gives some other woman that attention Allowance of men to have multiple wives is just so misogynistic because a man would always say okay fk off I'll go to the other wife without having any need to keep his one wife happier... And that passes over for other wives as well... Plus men's drive does decrease with time
I disagree, i rather think that women find out too late that they are with the wrong man. Women neglect their personality for the sake of the family and realize too late that the personality of their man is not sufficiently attractive for them.
Would you rather a wife that provides you with sexual and financial security rather than mistresses? In the majority of cases men do not want another partner in or outside of marriage and women are not prepared to share their Spouse full stop .🛑
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia. She is a Muslim, by the way. Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
She said something that stuck...
When women are fully secured in the relationship, they are content with cuddles.
For me it's the opposite.. But perhaps I'm a bit younger than the woman speaking. I'm want only cuddles and not more if i start to feel emotionally unsafe in the relationship.
I want out if I don't feel safe in the relationship
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How much an hour does she charge he's very very beautiful and blues my favorite color😮
@@BarryWoodward-kg7rw simp
As a single, attractive older woman, I am propositioned by a lot of married men who have “permission” to have sex or an affair, since the wife knows he is not going to risk his home, family, and financial security by getting divorced. I can’t imagine anything worse than dating a married man.
Right! The wife agrees to it because she knows any woman willing to date a married man who’s not going to risk getting divorced will forever get the short end of the stick. She’ll always be lesser than. Pretty smart on the wives part tho, she gets all the financial benefits/stability without having to put in the sexual work for it lol
but can you imagine two married women feeling that way and therefore being married to 1 man. does it not make logical sense?
this is why polygny is allowed in islam.
No cant imagine. Most of women will not accept this, in certain muslim countries women are just forced to accept it@@zenastronomy
@zenastronomy but Jehovah our Creator of all prohibits us from engaging in fornication & adultery
@@brooklynisbetta polygny is not fornication or adultery. otherwise that jehovah you are talking about wouldn't have alowed his prophets like Solomon to have multiple wives.
She is spot on with this ! That is exactly what happened to me in my last marriage. Not saying $ex is the most important thing in a relationship , BUT ! ! It is in fact IMPORTANT ! ! Because without it , you're just roommates .
It's the most important. If you doubt it, ask 100 married men whether they would be married if they had no desire for sex?
I am almost 56, a woman, married twice.
My first husband was not a good match (cheater etc.) and I fell out of love with him after 2 years but we stayed together for 8...
Fast forward 10 years later, I met the man who was to become my husband. We have our highs and lows like any couple but I have never fallen out of love - nor lust even.
17 years later and we have sex maybe twice a week and wow... 😂
I can't speak for him but I still fantasise about him even when he's sitting right next to me. 😊❤
@@Canuckbelgowhat’s his secret? 😂
@@Canuckbelgo........lucky b@stard!!!
The Torah would not allow polygamy if it were not needed. 😁
A sexless marriage for 20 years of the 45 years we've been married. This woman speaks the truth 100% yet when I look at another woman she gets mad.
I feel yoy man!
F that. Get a side chick on the DL bro. The internet is your friend....no reason to put up with that in 2024.
That’s insane brother. You need a woman who treats you like a man. If your female is not sexual attractive to you that’s a red flag
@@MrGeese85 Wrong, for a women to treat him like a man he must first learn to be a man for her. He needs a backbone and a set of balls. He cant make her feel secured. She dosent trust his manhood.
@White-Rino lost half is shi when he's caught. Worth it?
Everyone is different. I’m tired of social media placing everyone in a box.
Are you and old man or and old woman, because if you’re neither then your opinion doesn’t count
@@blackups__6554 people are not a monolith. Enjoy your box.
me too.. i'm not married but i know if you're having problems like that Jesus is the answer.. Jesus is always the answer
Was that a pun for her box and how men want to be in it?
@@blackups__6554 well I am
She allowed me to play around....she just stopped wanting it
Finley I had enough and we split.
Today my sidekick is 30 years my age..... some call me sick
...guys call me lucky
WRONG. My husband's T-levels tanked at age 30. It's shockingly common. No drive at all. I'm the one suffering without it. Women in their 30s are wild!
And 40s and 50s!!! This woman is stupid AF.
Come to daddy hunny
Thanks for being the 1 out a thousand with that issue
He needs a better lifestyle. Exercise. Better diet. Less toxins like alcohol. Water intake.
@@lerothodi7933No cigarettes also.
We both want intimacy in a relationship. For men it's more physical and for women it's more emotional. That's why women get upset when their man is pouring out his heart and soul to another women.
And that's is one of the reason a married men will cheat. To them, sexy is majority of the time physical. He can have sex with a women while loving other, majority of women can't do this. If they cheat, it's because they are emotionally attracted to other men. So when they cheat, the men almost never forgive, because to them the love is over. And majority if the time it is like that, the love was over. I think men and women weren't genetically made to stay together for a long period. Almost no other animal do this, we aren't especial.
Exactly. Maybe I would be willing to accept sexually open relationship. It would be difficult, but I’m not saying it’s impossible. But THERE’S NO WAY I would be able to accept romantically open relationship. In fact, if he cheats on me and feelings are involved towards the other party, he can move in with her.
Yes true when my partner was more happy with other party things changed... we still together but im v sad, doing it 4kids im not well 2with my energy health mentally im ok, I work, drive even train...
@@katarina5233you are too naive. Of course the sexual relationship will develop and will involve feelings, emotions and live. A lot of men love through sexual activities.
And that's why a man gets upset when a woman has sex with another man..
I completely agree. When I was younger I wanted sex all the time but when menopause hit it declined and now I have no need for it. I thought something was wrong with me at first. This needs to be talked about a lot more.
It's interesting, because I heard after menopause some women desire more sex not less.
You're abnormal though, because for most guys the sexlessness starts way before menopause. Women in their 20s even withhold.
How many people is your husband married to?
Read the Song of Solomon in then Old Testament.
@@raulturturean1549yes menopause affects all women in a different ways, some of them lose sex drive for others it’s over the roof
10-15 years these days would be a lot . 3-5 years max with the stresses, the inflation and burdens put on both genders.
So true😅
I think she was talking about her Muslim culture where "getting married" is basically the equivalent of our "getting your first serious relationship", they marry at 18-19-20 y old.
So 10-15 years in her (their) culture is 18-28, when, of course you're going to have a lot of secs with your first steady boyfriend/ girlfriend.
3-5 years for sure.
She said 10-15 years lol, like you said try 3-5 years
Right
It's funny how it's okay for one side to stop wanting to do something and it's acceptable but the other has to continue to do something throughout. 🤔 I think both should be held accountable and find ways to Love each other and reciprocate it.
exactly this! we can understand something but it doesn’t excuse it. we understand men and women are different so it just means we have to put in a little more work when it comes to those differences.
Did you understand, fully, what she just said?
@@helmielcharabi5547 yes. did you?
@@helmielcharabi5547 Did you?
@@izeesh offended by something honey? Did I step on your tail? 🙂 was I even asking you?? 🤔
You are very accurate 💯☝️ This is very bitter truth for we WOMEN EVER!!👌👍❤️💟💯🙏😘😘😘😘
Hehe she is just trying to normalize her religion (islam).. the bitter truth is that as men get older can't get it up anymore and they don't know what they are doing in bed and how to give a woman an orgasm. That's why you are avoided by your partners uncles. 😘
As a man this is exactly what I’m experiencing. Spot on 👏
FINALLY !!! Honesty from a female of our species !!!Thank you 🌹
Don't look for confirmation of this....and justify yourself...
@@michaelflamingsword3131 Truth requires no justification. Biological differences of the sexes are scientific facts and your myopic judgement of that makes no difference.
Listening to that one was a joke. I don't know what her "qualifications" are but I can only assume that she treats people on loveless matches.
am almost 56, a woman, married twice.
My first husband was not a good match (cheater etc.) and I fell out of love with him after 2 years but we stayed together for 8...
Fast forward 10 years later, I met the man who was to become my husband. We have our highs and lows like any couple but I have never fallen out of love - nor lust even.
17 years later and we have sex maybe twice a week and wow... 😂
I can't speak for him but I still fantasise about him even when he's sitting right next to me. 😊❤
Btw, I know that maybe our relationship might not be that common but it cannot possibly be rare either.
She probably isn't aware of people like my husband and me simply because we wouldn't need therapy.
@khronosbest9448 Oh the one shoesize fits all is the right approach then in your biological conviction half study applied.
@@michaelflamingsword3131 yea ... whatever .
Honest question: I wonder if those married women with decreased drive is due to neglect from their husbands? Or is it actually lack of physically needing sex?
It's women's nature. Nature created men to procriate the max they can, that's why they can make babies even in their 80s. Women was created to conceive life, and the process take a toll on their bodies. That's why they stop having babies at one point, to increase their chances to survive. Imagine a 75yo going through pregnancy, their life would be in danger. So it's logical that when they hit the menopause, their sex drive reduce. There is no biological reason to have the same amount of sex they had whrn they were fertile. Remenber, I didn't say social reason, I said BIOLOGICAL.
Its a functional, mental, and hormonal shift usually after having children. Sure some could be from neglect and abuse, but thats deflecting from a real thing healthy married couples face.
I dont believe harems or swinging is the answer though haha
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
We stop feeling unsafe and distance ourselves when aren’t treated properly we fight it and go along hoping they will change but after years we are empty
yea yea the Majority of Women always feel that they are disrespected by their boyfriend , & or husband, & by basically every man on the planet no matter who the man is the only time a woman doesn’t feel disrespected, & or the only time that a woman will let that disrespect slide , & the only time she will let it slide is when the Man happens to be her male boss who signs her paycheck or when the woman is so head over heals attracted, & GA GA , & googley eyed over a man that she is with or when the man that she is with moves in certain circles, & he has that certain something that that woman can latch on to , & benefit from then all of a sudden many women’s self respect gets put on the back burner or when the woman has Childhood , & or past relationship Trauma then that woman will be Emotionally , & mentally stuck , & frozen in a state of denial or actual fear ? , & many times many times many women have no problem being toxic , & just down right rude , & verbally , & mentally , & emotionally , & psychologically , & physically nasty , & disrespectful to a man that is actually emotionally , & mentally, & intellectually balanced, & on point because she many times forgets , & doesn’t realize that the man that she is dealing with isn’t her Narcissistic Toxic misogynistic boyfriend , & so she continues to project those insecurities, & her past onto the good man !!!
"Stop feeling unsafe"???? I've never felt unsafe as a woman in a relationship. Isn't that an esteem issue?
@godsch then you haven’t been abused. Be grateful
This is an absolute fact. Even relationships where people aren't identifying that there's "abuse" bc it's not physical, you see that there is a definite lack of respect being projected toward the wife and she just continues to withdraw.
I'm an 23 years old young man(I'm neurotic as most women are)neuroticism is basically predicti'n if anyth'n being good or bad...
This beautiful amazing woman is the most gifted and talented relationship expert I have ever heard spoken. All her sessions, comments, conversations, contributions are factual and understandably logical. So inspiring and educational! Please TREASURE her!!
What's her name ?
@ Sadia Khan
Sex in my relationships was never a problem. I always had the same drive as men, even 3 months postpartum, but what i realise is that throughout the relationship, i wanted more intimacy with words and gestures, but it's really hard to find a man that has that quality.
True. Same struggle. And as a woman, it's hard to "go" without intimacy.
That's exactly the deal with my girlfriend we've been together over 6yrs now but I do try being intimate with the words and gestures, more gestures though than words for me like I do always have my hands on her somehow
You think it's not a problem because he probably never mentioned it.
@fabriceizzo2922 sei italiano giusto?
She is speaking of the norm. Don't catch feelings. She is soo correct. Women vibz are money an vanity.
Well, i am so glad so many women here were having happy marriage. I stopped wanting sex because i was exhausted and my husband acted like a spoiled teen, not wanting to be taking part in the family, but clubbing with his way younger 'colleagues' or playing games on his pc over every evening and weekend.
It's actually not true what she said about men and sex. From 50yrs most men's libido is no longer as wild, it starts to decrease. Everyone is not the same though
you're right
Heading on to 75yrsld.... muscle mass not the same as 60 yrs ago, but the drive's still there.... uncle is 101 and has remarried to a younger woman.... still likes his coffee from his Dolly Parton 'mug'.....
I've been through a hyper-jealous sexless marriage and she's the one that departed with another woman.....
My advice..... stay as far away from females as humanly possible.
Haven't met one, yet, that's not a psychotic sociopath and pathological liar.... it's just their genetic template....
That's including nuns, family, highly educated to backwoods village marms.... there was something in that rib that tainted the whole pool.
MGTOW
but lust and desire are still strong compared to women. And about that "thing" it depends on individual physical health.
Yes. When she's comfortable enough to chunk up, and start saying,"no." Rather than get frustrated, a man can simply have another outlet... Then, the wife doesn't have full control over her man in that way. Competition anxiety kicks in, then she takes better care of herself and him... She gets a break, and a rejection of sorts, thus keeping her in line... It works for both...
The more I listen to her, the more I realize her content is purely based on anecdotal evidence living in Dubai. People need to stop getting educated from social media just because the influencer is good looking. It's bad science.
Yes, the more I listen to her I always feel that she views things from her surroundings and her faith and beliefs and she is sending a subtle message to justify it.
@@PratapShinde People are differente ,there are men who can handle and need more then one woman , is it a rule ? no , so don't see it from only ur prespective too and acuse her of the same thing.
Truth hurts, what she is saying is the truth, but will be very hard to accept for many, even women know it's true....
🙌🙌🙌
@@desertnomadbilal4512 I would imagine the vast majority of her viewers, both male and female, do not live in a country where having 4+ wives is the norm.
Im 42years Old, I can vouch that she is 100% Correct.
Effort to be romantic helps otherwise it’s another chore like laundry.
You spend your all day to be romantic. Come on. Sometimes I just want sex without working for it😂😂😂
If she doesn't give, believe me, someone else will😂😂
You're lying to yourself and your partner. The point is that there is no internal drive on your part. It "helps"? Helps what.... to convince you? To get you "in the mood"? That's not desire and if you don't desire it, your partner is in fact not wanted. They can feel that. Dont get me wrong, love respect and romance are also an important part of a relationship. Just don't pretend or convince yourself you still desire your partner; you don't. At best, you can be convinced. Nobody has ever had to convince me to accept something I already wanted.
Look up the studies that revealed the more chores a man does the less sex he gets. He becomes a boyfriend to his wife
@@JMA159helps the relationship and connection. relax, bro 😂
@@roykhan2730 I'm guessing those studies were done by vested interest. Because quite the opposite is true. I love when my man is working when I'm working too. Around the house. I'm vacuuming, he's dusting. Yeah, baby!
Men it does change when your married to women who insult you everyday as men you don't want sex with a mean women.
For men it also changes, you think a 70 year old has the same sex drive a 17 year old boy has
It's good to remember that she's not claiming this statement to appeal women or let alone win them... she's a business lady that I could do business with.
Nowadays, Lots of people of both genders have low or no sex drive due to stress of education, jobs, unhealthy food, poor physical health etc
she is talking for current time only...
You are right.
Welcome
She is spot on.
It's so obvious why women hate her.
Rather than get a second wife.
Perhaps look at marrying with a 10+ year age gap
Yes, but .... now women leave the older husband and marry men 10 years younger. More potent😅
I agree. Age gap relationships are the norm in more traditional cultures for a reason.
@@The-Oneness11 They were not the norm in western societies in the past. You are speaking about a certain cultural group.
Women also would like to have another man, with better qualities and manners and respect towards their needs. Then they would be willing to have sex no matter their age. But women are conditioned to want less, because to tell that they want another man would put their lifes in danger traditionally and and conservative cultures.
And women are not doing themselves a favour to marry an older man. Older men many times have difficulties to understand what's going on in modern society, they are less open to change and therefore the woman will have to adapt to him and she will only see a decade or two later that she is trapped.
Not afraid to ask for it. Tired of asking for it and being rejected almost every time.
What about men who shame women for being sexual?? What?
We are talking about wives. Why would a wife be shamed for being sexual with her husband?
The problem is people marry people they can and not who they truly want. I know and heard personally many stories of couples who are in love with each other and have a healthy sex life.
Meh, we can't really be too mad at each other on this one. Men and women's libido are literally biologically set to different levels. Kind of a curse tbh.
No they worn out 😢women are worn out plus there are layers of pain shes been through. Men need sex we need love, respect, care acknowledgement.
Second shift burn outs. #Pace
Regardless gender, we should always put LOVE at the center of the relationship. Then everything would fall into place naturally including sex. It's simple as that. Men need to learn how to love the right way. Men that put sex at the center are emotionally immature.
This is definitely a WORLDLY View!!!! Yes sex is important and that is ADULTERY smh lol...man the world is lost.... JESUS is so needed...theres so much context missing
VERY TRUE.
I AGREE.
AT THE SAME TIME, BEST IS TO HAVE JUST ONE WIFE.
Even if she doesn’t give you sex like she said?
No, at least 2 or 3.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
To each their own. I would only want my one wife.
Edit: but she had to be Esther aka a virgin. I didn’t stay strong for this long for nothing. If I die alone prideful in the ways of The Most High then so be it.
Thank you.🥺🤲🏼
She is gorgeous.
I felt my life slipping away after twenty years without intimacy from my wife (27 years of marriage). I felt like a dog being kept in a cage. I'm very good-looking. Women were always flirting with me. Which made it more agonizing. I finally left her at 49 yrs old. Within a week, I was having sex with women. I had five women in six months! One was eight years younger than me! They were the ones approaching me when they found out I was separated. Holy crap. I'm 65, and they're still flirting with me, some are10 years younger than me! So, WHY are there no wives that are this horny!?
I'd still be married to her if she had sex with me. Sex is like having to breathe for men.
Sure we believe you buddy
What she omitted is the fact that most of the time women lose interest in sex because of husband’s mistreatment, lack of non-sexual affection and lack of full participation in the household chores. Most of the time, wives are struggling to be sexually attracted to man-babies. I’m a psychologist too by the way. She needs to look deeper than what her clients tell her and do more research as well.
Exactly!
But in general, she's probably right.
What peer reviewed research back up either statements from either psychologists?
She is an expert do research
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
She let her internet fame go to her head. She just keeps spouting more and more nonsense. She works with only one demographic- rich men in Dubai and the women trying to get them and thinks that what she sees there applies to the whole world.
You need to sit down now. You are so clueless. Clearly you have no idea about men. She's spot on
@@daeme2 still standing here 🙂and clearly she doesn’t know about women. She always makes wide sweeping generalizations and only works with dysfunctional men. You assume a lot about me and so I’ll assume that perhaps you’re someone incapable of having a long term connection and might want to hear it is ok to have more than one wife. Suggest you take advice from people around you in happy marriages - they know how to bake the cake and not take advice from people who only have microwave recipes.
After two failed marriages, she considers herself a guru in relationships. 😡😡
@@hechoz4267 How's a man with a healthy $exdrive "dysfunctional"? It's a very widespread, very common problem that wives cease to be interested in healthy happy adult relations with their husbands.
To not keep him trapped in a marriage she turned into a $exless desert was everything *_but_* dysfunctional. The Dysfunction is not happening on his side of the aisle when *_she's_* the one that loses interest.😆
@@manfredschmalbach9023 I never said that a man’s sex drive is a problem in fact it is awesome in a marriage, never said a sexless marriage was good - terrible actually, I’m talking about her approach and solutions. She offers nothing with this dumb comment to advance into a loving and fulfilling relationship for both parties.
That is why I have two Japanese chicks, Korean, Filipina, Venezuelan, Brazilian and a Mexican chick with me!
And yet I know so many women who still want sex but their partner has gotten boring and lazy or is too tired, and the women are having to satisfy themselves instead. This is such a generalisation as it's definitely not all women like she says.
It represents the majority not all
Also, some guys may want a lot of sex but it’s with different women, the novelty. Meaning when they’re in a relationship they get kinda bored with the same woman after the beginning stage and in turn may not make her feel desirable, and not have much sex with her because he’s not that excited anymore. Not to mention there’s a lot of ed out there as a result of addiction issues nowadays but no one really talks about that
If your wife says no to sex with you, she says yes you can have sex with other women.
When a man has more than one wife. It is saying women are inferior. I totally disagree with multiple wife's.
Whem my wife only wants to cuddle, I remind her that if her mom would've said that to her dad the night she was conceived, she wouldn't have been born!
Don't get confused with Sex and Love it's both different
Diff but both are imp
They both drive each other
Women becomes older early but Men are like wine getting older in 70's.
Some women have high libido and some don't and same thing for men. This is such a stereotype. She is talking about menopause.
Exactly on point.. In my society, men are approved by wives later have wives because they can't keep up to his demand.
Yes,, I agree. Been with the hubby for 17+ years... I want it all the time and he doesn't. He slowed down at 8 years into the relationship. He did gain weight and I stayed the same. I wonder if that plays a big part in our six drives. 🤔
men with high testosterone are always up for it. i have to discipline myself to not always get busy with the wife. as i enjoy training in the gym so u better keep some energy for that. otherwise i would do it almost every night.
Yes testosteron @@SB-wm2jv
It not about libido you missing the point ,key words is sex drive do not decrease of years even low libido or hìgh libido that does not matter it does not decrease does are key words people
A Muslim man recently asked me if I was married, I said yes, but have been estranged for years. Then he abruptly declared he had three wives, then paused.. and told me to go back to my wife,.. I said I would but. . she has three husbands.
What a load of crap. My husband and I have been married for over twenty years and still enjoy sex more than five times a week. Women who avoid sex are sick to death of boring sex with a man who doesn't know how to do it for their women. Women get sick of trying to teach their men how to do it. Also, a lot of women have suffered trauma in relation to sex, being female, or abuse at the hands of men. Being 50 or 60 years old is not the reason women don't want to have sex with crap men. Women want sex as much or more than men.
Also broke (mentally) woman create relationships with broke man. So have always a look inside (man AND woman). It is NEVER only 1 partner and the other one is perfect.
@MichiZehnle true, but when a man justifies his right to have another woman/wife, and you get a stupid woman like this one who agrees with them, it devalues a woman. Trust me when I say, "No, 20-year-old girl wants a 50/60 year old man crawling on in the middle of the night. Unless they have no choice or the man pays her a lot of money.
She is talking beyond 20. Up till 20 there is no issue. I also thought everything is going great until I hit it.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam.
Congratulations, you just cracked the largest mystery that every man in the world knows since the age of 34
I as women . I always feel sexually attracted to my man
Have you been married for 15+ years?
@@cogwugwaI have. Been married since 2006 and I'm still attracted to my husband. My sexual drive is as strong as his. Not all women are the same.
Part of the issue is that a woman can be fully "sexually attracted" and also "not in the mood" at the same time.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
It's not only the justifiable reasons you mentioned but also the menstrual cycle of a woman. And pregnancy of 9 month period. On average with 4 wives it completes approx 12months cycle for a man to have sex with one wife (sex, conceive, give birth & again have sex).
I think she's fine with her husband cheating on her 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are a wise and beautiful woman. Thank you for boldly saying the truth
My wife: "Women don't need it. Women can go months without it."
I am a woman. Right now I don't have a partner so I have to be celibate, but when I'm in a relationship, I prefer to do it at least once a month.
Where's the consideration for menopause? It's not about being content with little sexual intimacy. Menopause plays a huge role.
I'm a man myself and why would I go for another woman because my wife doesn't wanna have sex with me? Sex will be the end of many men. If you got married so you can have sex regularly then you might as well not get married and go for hook ups. It's pretty much messed up when mostly men view love as sex.
Then it would be a sin
Don't.
Judge a book by its cover. Naught all that glitters is gold.
Bro what the lady says is relatable n truth
@@parvezhossain999 well not for everyone tho. I have other things to do than to think of sex everyday.
@@Loverboy1213-c8c sure thing man. Sure. Thing
Good, the lady really understands and know man S. Drive very well. She's so, so honest.
Kudo! Lady. & she is pretty, isn't She, palsy?
MEN'S DRIVE DOES DECREASE.... enough of this BS of men aging less. If they're still 'sticky', when they get older, it doesn't yet mean they can, or even want.
I will never let a woman put me in that position…
I start to date other women if she do that, i have my needs and i respect myself enough…
She will always want sex with a man she is attracted to but his behaviour is a major factor also. He can't be too cold with her, neither too keen all the time
Hmmm….can’t be too cold, can’t be too keen…how is a man supposed to figure out the Goldilocks level of attention? I think both parties have to have clear open conversations about what they honestly want and assess if that is something each is willing to give. It can’t be left to chance or “you just outta know.” Both parties have to give something to the other.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
I’ve got a feeling juggling multiple women would be a very difficult way of life whether you’re married to them or not. I had to edit in one more thought. It would be difficult even if a man had lots of money. 😂
Protect this woman at ALL COST!
Lol
WHO ISS SHE??
@jamiekewl2361 a goddess
Why is her mouth crooked??!
She is Wrong
God creates this lady, not just with beauty but with intelligence. 😊
My wife and i, we’ve been married for 13 years with 2 kids and we don’t have those problems
I think women need to be sarcastic and try to please her man even if she doesn’t feel like it
And same way for man need to understand he’s women and be there for her and specially make her feel good and talk to her, that’s the key
You are blessed man
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
Does this lady not know anything about hormonal changes in a woman’s body over time or menopause? Everything she stated can be explained through female human biology pretty straightforwardly.
I mean, for women, isn't it linked to down-regulation of her sex hormones as well? I think testosterone drops off slower in men.
After menopause women cant get pregnant. Men stay fertile until the end.
No. They already start at a massively lower level, so you'll likely have this drive disparity in your 20s as well
Sex is not the reason why men in Islam are allowed to have up to 4 wives…
Marriage is scared if you can't respect it don't do it. If you're in a committed relationship than stop justifying cheating
Her point doesn’t justify the need for a man to have more than one wife.
Bro's stare at the begin says it all. He got lost in his thoughts looking at her.😂😂😂
He’s very happily married and does not agree with her!!!
@@kerrymillar1267 that might be him, but what do you think a majority of men will say.
It’s not about sex when we pull away it’s about the effort that men put in, in the beginning they make an effort and 10-15 years in not so much. I personally think this is not true or at least not true in most situations.
No. Men are not allowed multiple wives. Its called adutry. Except in nomadic environments. Where its accepted. This lady does not strike me, as nomadic. Stay on point, lady.
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
Many times the man a women marry is not the type of man she is sexually attracted to but someone who is responsible, provide and protect.
Woman already tired with jobs dan house course, in other side, man only has jobs, he still has the energy left
Exactly. Hoping a woman to do job, then household work, taking care of kids and then to do s€x like a 20 years old young female is a cruel expectation.
Even if you had three wives, they would all have a headache.
This happens because they were not soulmates so the desire decreases as she gets to know him more. Some of us just realized we're in the wrong marriage after years of getting to know the man
That concept of soulmate is man made BS tbh. It can't even be proven. What she's saying is biological and can be proven.
If soulmates do exist, what happens to those that die without ever being married or in a relationship or meeting their "soulmates" What happens to the "soulmates" that stay alive?
then realize it earlier plz
Marriage is about commitment.
Delusional ,, soulmates ? What's a soulmate ? WTHell.
Exist believe me, the detail is no everybody have the good luck to be with them. @@mickael1705
Women going without sex for years past their 50s?!!! Utter BS!!!!!
True. My now X wife asked me why do I want sex, sex is for making babies and I'm too old to get pregnant. 😢
No it's for pleasure aswell, men and women both need it, it's healthy lol
This proves her point
😅
I mean Sadi Khan point, that why it was men who married multiple woman and not vice versa
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
Exactly. We are no different than any male animals out there. I was told by a Turkish friend that his uncle had 4 wifes and they compete with each other while they are friends, but the man is pleased more often. As long as women are ok with it, it should be allowed and not judged
If anything, it increases if you are a healthy man
The older women get, the realization that their sexual behavior is boring increases so that’s why they’ll decrease it to the partner while trying to fool the guys they’re cheating with that it’s getting better. Denial is nasty work they’ve specialized in & expected by men who know better.
a woman who refuses her husband sex should not become jealous when he starts to desire other women. if she can no longer do it, then out of love for him, she could grant him another marriage. this is a great sacrifice out of love for your husband.
Exactly same goes for men.
@@jeihka1to be honest after what I have seen it's pretty much on the woman if he rejects sex from her, and it's a problem that she either has to fix or it's a deal-breaker
What if it's the other way round???
@@مهربان-ح5ج😂😂 they cheat you fool
Women cheat like it's their duty
@@kcb8130 that's your opinion. not all women cheat when they are married.
Dont split the people WOMEN
but the question is could a man have done this for his wife? what if he gets problems with his libido or can't get it up anymore? what if he can't give her children because he thought it was so cool to smoke? where is the love and sacrifice of the man for his wife?
Well said. Women should be allowed more than one husband then. Why should a woman deal with a man who is too busy, uninterested, forever away, impotent, has ED, performance issues, small size, is lacking stamina and energy, has premature ejaculation etc?
Beutiful sister, you are are perfectly right, but most of us hesitating to speaking to truth. But fact is fact. Whether someone agrees or not. May Almighty Allah s.w.t guide you to real truth of religion. Thanks from Bangladesh.
Looking at women like her, She's right!
Truest lines ever heard from a women
Exactly, God bless you but this is not the only reason
When there are other problems it results in no sex and the guy is looking somewhere else
Sex isn’t allowed with multiple women. Only your wife. Creating more wife’s isn’t the answer. Only in some cultures but even then it’s okay.
That's why society is gynocentric about women but chauvinistic about men...
This lady is so incompetent it’s really alarming that so many follow her 🤡
By that logic a 50 years old man should have her present wife plus a 20 years old wife 🤦
Nothing can just defend having more wives,
A normal woman would just feel crushed her man gives some other woman that attention
Allowance of men to have multiple wives is just so misogynistic because a man would always say okay fk off I'll go to the other wife without having any need to keep his one wife happier...
And that passes over for other wives as well...
Plus men's drive does decrease with time
This woman mind is sick
I disagree, i rather think that women find out too late that they are with the wrong man. Women neglect their personality for the sake of the family and realize too late that the personality of their man is not sufficiently attractive for them.
Would you rather a wife that provides you with sexual and financial security rather than mistresses?
In the majority of cases men do not want another partner in or outside of marriage and women are not prepared to share their Spouse full stop .🛑
Next time, she will justify why the prophet Muhammad practiced slavery and pedophilia.
She is a Muslim, by the way.
Muslims always try to justify the ugly thoughts of Islam,
PhD internet psychology. Cougars be like she say what 😂
Where is this woman from ? We been looking for woman like this for years! We love u 💯
Sadia is British with Pakistani roots
With reasonable maintenance, I also now understand why men just love their cars/bikes/boats so much 🥰