Physical Tension vs. Emotional Tension
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 มิ.ย. 2020
- In this video Brian talks with Ana Maria about tension and how it works. In this video specifically Brian and Ana Maria cover physical(masculine energy) and emotional tension(feminine energy).
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This video, I want to talk about tension, but I want to talk about it in a little bit of a different way than I have in the past, because I've been looking at it with deeper insights and more realizations, more understanding is coming to me, that is helping me to change clients faster. This is a Anna Maria, and she's going to be helping me to kind of break down some of these ideas around tension and how it works. One of the things I want you to understand is as we go into this and we begin to understand what tension is, we're talking about physical and emotional tension. So physical tension being my ability to car crash, I see a car crash and I run over and handle it, build a house. You know, I got to go out and build like, so say it's primitive times when I got to go out and hunt or build shelter or something like that.
That would be an example of physical tension. That's the masculine domain, the domain of physical tension, combat protection structure. That type of stuff is, is the male or masculine domain. The feminine domain like Anna Maria would be more of an emotional tension. The ability to look inside, what is he feeling? Where's he at? How can I stretch them here? How can I kind of push there and get them to feel a little bit more? And this is where if a man is really good at physical tension, he's going to use it to make the feminine feel safe. So the feminine can express itself more and more feminine ways. It's going to make the feminine feel protected. So the feminine can be that fully nurturing. Being that the feminine is if the feminine on the other hand is really good at what at feminine tensions, she's going to use the feminine to help the guy come deeper, realizations, deeper understanding, healing, and nurturing.
So literally we're creating a container and then a Anna Maria would then fill that container with the feminine. That doesn't mean she doesn't have masculine. That doesn't mean I don't have feminine, but if her body's designed to run feminine, that's going to be her natural calling. And if my body's designed to run mass, then that's going to be my natural calling. Does this all sound right so far? Yup. Okay, awesome. Okay, good. The first thing I want to take a look at is that I've been playing with a lot, is that with no tension, there is no reaction. This is the first thing it with no tension, there is no reaction. So if I used to be really zoned out all the time, I would have had this stone look on my eyes, even though it wasn't stoned. Matter of fact, I got stopped by a cop once a couple of cops going into apartment.
Cause there was, my roommate had had been having a party that night and I didn't know about it. I was coming home from work. I roll up on my place and the cops are there. They're about ready to go to the door and talk to my roommates. They stopped me and they're convinced I'm on drugs and they stopped me and they're checking my eyes and they're staring at a point on an eye chart and they're looking at me and that had a lot to do with how stone I always looked. And that was me numbing myself out. I literally I've seen this in other students since it used to be a big thing with our coach, Anthony. He always looked stoned. We nicknamed him Stoney for awhile because of this. And so I would literally effect, if you can see this on camera, I just zone out like this.
And I didn't understand this was my normal. And if you feel this, this is decreasing tension in the environment. When I walked through in a room and I'm like, Hey, what's up? How you doing? How does that feel to you off completely off? It's like, you're a machine walking around it, like, Hey, and would that, when you see somebody like that, can you feel that part of them? That's kind of almost like not being present in the room.
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"If you have to prove that you have the power - then you don't have it!" Mic drop.
where is the mic?
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Or put another way; "A rich man does not need to tell you he is rich, he just is"
Best men’s/life coach hands down
Agree 💯
“use the tension not to push but to bring her into your reality “ very good
It's all about energy you give off most people can't handle tension and the more you can handle tension you'll be successful not just with the ladys but in your own personal Life Nice video bro your very articulate when you speak.
Is it just me or was this video just the most gentle invitation to bring out your confidence .
He was smart to get her response on potential danger in a day. I have encountered that men don't see those dangers as women do. For instance: I run for good health, I was with a run group, 5 men & only 1 other woman . I talked about how I've been followed whether it was 5 AM or 5 PM and how I carry 2 knives with me while I run solo. The men of the group stated that they never thought or worried about being followed. It was something that never crossed their minds. The one was a father of 3 girls and he reported it was never something he thought of for his daughters. The fellow woman that was in the group understood immediately where I was coming from.
Another example: I worked with a guy once who poked fun of a woman driving 3 blocks to work (she worked 3rd shift). I replied, it's late at night, it can be opportunity for some bad person to do something on her way when it is so late & no one around. He reported he never had a thought of that being an issue. For him,the likelyhood of something negative or someone harming him was slim. He was a muscular dude and carried that alpha vibe. Just the differences in our genders.
The speaker also does a good job with his tone & voice & word rythm. It is soothing and comforting, yet reassuring of his strength. It is nice.
Hey man..
Not here for dating thing, i am here because what you teach really helped me in general interaction with people.
Keep doing what you are doing
LOVE FROM INDIA
These type of breakdowns with the women by far are my favorite. It makes the concepts so much easier to understand and apply!
I love how these girls give feedback like they are at all in control of the way they are being Influenced
They know their presence alone gives them immense control over someone, every thing else she says is just agreeable
Men who think most beautiful women are mean need to watch this channel -- this video, specifically.
Why? Because they look away and feel into the tension then look or because they feel unsafe teice a day so might do odd things?
I like how you and Ana Maria break physical and emotional tension down. The difference in the interaction seems subtle but when you change your base line I can clearly see how it feels like for the person you are connecting with. Excellent !
This looks like a fantastic series. I am excited about it! Thumbs up!
Lovely ! So many strong messages all compiled in this video. I am looking forward to the other vids
Awsome video guys felt everything that was said and looking forward to the rest of the videos. Keep them coming!!
Brian I love the advice, back then I was really blocked off with my own emotions, watching your videos helps me in a lot of ways, I started approaching woman in groups, went for the kiss etc.. If I was in USA I would've taken your classes with no second thought, but unfortunately where I am...I'm waaayy to far😂
I want to share something Ive learned aswell, ~ " *If you do not see your value as enough, you will act like someone else* "
I love your videos, Brian. Keep ‘em coming💪🏼
Excellent explanation first I didn’t understand the tension concept in the previous videos but now I do 👌🏽
I love you guys man 😅❤❤ you changed my whole view on this dating thing. Thank you so much.
Great insights on the balance of tension and why women enjoy it. Great illustrations that communicate complex ideas. What a classy lady Ana Maria is. Her beauty is like a massage for the mind.
This information is awesome.
Amazing video guys ♥️
Great content! I love these videos with the female perspective. Not enough teachers in the men's development world cover the subtleties of communication.
Thank you so much for this
So good.
Excellent. I love the deeper explication.
Glad it was helpful!
thank you Brian, really good content. love from Africa
Good you have you man - Andrew, TFM Team
Thanks Brian for the expose on tension. Could you do a video on insights of making a woman feel safe?
Take a look at our videos on connecting with women: th-cam.com/video/TVNPsr8OiZI/w-d-xo.html
There are multiple videos available on this. Connecting with a woman in the manners we describe will inherently help her feel safe.
Landon, TFM
Thanks Brian!
You're welcome!
Thank you so much
Everything he's explaining is easier
When you don't concern yourself with women
In the sense of getting laid.
I've so I should preface this by saying I've consulted and looked into hundreds if not thousands of different dating tips tricks people and profiles over the years and you sir just Hit the nail on the head I've been watching your videos for the last couple weeks and I think I finally understood what you were saying when you were talking about hating point A and just trying to get to point B and then talking about men knowing what they want.... You just made me realize I've been looking at it like a game my entire life trying to skip pointy to get to point B to pick up a girl and I'm actually trying to find marriage material but I'm playing it as if I'm not which I'm told a lot and often but I never understood because that's not what I'm looking for. But now it makes sense I understand how I look like a player girls feel that or think that even though I'm just trying to get through box a b and see as fast as possible to get married which is why I'm now 35 and still single and childless
I watched your conent over a week and i think man in next 10 to 15 years you will become the GOD of pickup.
Man I wish there were events in Sacramento, CA
Valuable stuff.
"if you hate pt A and want to escape to pt B, it won't work unless you resolve your issues with pt A "- Spiritual essence of many a religion !!!
She is a sweetheart, very informative video
amazing video and what was most interesting to me was the part that you said you can numb out tension with your face and this really struck me because i've been doing this alot and i used to smoke weed i thought this was cool, in fact every one around me who smoked did it but now i realise this isnt cool nor confident because there is nothing confident about numming tension out, instead of enjoying it
Yeah weed can be kind of sneaky in that way it does tend to block feeling and emotion especially if it's used regularly. - Andrew, TFM Team
Could you make a video explaining deeply the masculine-feminine dance and how it is displayed in every part of the interaction, even small ones?
He already did
@@martelly55 link?
@@CertifiedGigaChad here are a few videos that show this (1) th-cam.com/video/FbVFVaqAlFA/w-d-xo.html (2) th-cam.com/video/gFvfFi5dkXs/w-d-xo.html
In the new videos, I would like to hear more about using tension about drawing women out. That seems counterintuitive, since it's unclear how much tension is needed for women to feel safe.
Amazing
I was playing tennis on the beach. If both are not "holding their ground", managing the tension (of the hand, the weight of the ball, the racket, the arm, the entire body then it would be SIMPLY
impossible to play.
Because if you are not aware of those things you are what we call "distracted" (not in what we are trying to do)play tennis in this case.
"Physical tension . Is a subproduct, a cosecuense of an "emotional tension. They are the same. E-motion is energy in motion. Energy moving. You decide what to do with it.
Is all energy and we call it physical when we limit the energy movement only in the body. And emotional when is everywhere or at least more "expansive", not only in the body, also outside the body.
Am Vitim of this brian need more videos in this area🔥🔥🔥
Sunday, if you can do a search using something like: "tension, fearless man." You should find multiple videos populate.
Landon, TFM
@@TheFearlessMan thanks I want to correct this part. It as caused me to lose a lot.
I would really like to get to know Ana Maria. she seems very aware of herself
Good video
Nice video
Learned a little bit
INFJ here. As an empath I used to wear my pain on my face unconsciously so it was a combination of sadness and innocence. My mentor mentioned it so many times and I was just never aware of what it was that my face was doing. He once said for me to get what I looked like to picture a wet sad puppy. He advised me to practice and be conscious so I could catch myself whenever I was doing it. I look a lot better now but try as I might I could never get rid of that innocent face/aura. Still working on that.
Don't try to adjust your facial expressions; Work through the underlying emotions: www.thefearlessman.com/how-to-release-all-emotions-basics-of-fearless-letting-go/
The Fearless Man You’re right. I did have it backwards. I dealt with some of those recently. Will practice this method too. Thanks.
Love your videos how you go in to details what do u mean narrow or widen the gaze??
The truth of everything
wise words, from this beautiful woman, "empowered woman" that is not power in reality, if you need to prove that you have power, then you do not have it, because power shows, you do not need to prove anything.
When you zone out I can literally feel it in my body through the camera. Can you elaborate on how you actually do that? Is it like being in your head or it is something else?
It's important you mention that, ever hear of ESP? the CIA heavily studies all this stuff and it's real, look into project stargate, the feelings and energies are tangible and awareness is tangible
It’s like a camera losing focus basically, just unfocus an object
I love the face lift. Especially your profile photo on youtube. Super fresh!
18:12 "you say you are free to do anything, but is is constructive? You say are free to do as you please, but is it beneficial?" super hard paraphrase ...
Hi Brian, I just wanted to thank you. Thanks to you and your work I was able to get out of apathy and it's incredible what a difference it has made in how I perceive each and every day. I had a question when it comes to tension. Lately, I've started to feel like I'm high on life, and while it feels great most of the time. Sometimes it can feel like I'm all over the place. I'm able to ground it, relax into it, and enjoy it when I notice it, but is that normal? any suggestions? Also, I tend to smirk or smile a lot when maintaining eye contact I feel like it's because I'm enjoying it, but I want to make sure it isn't because I'm running away from the tension. Any experience on those two things? Am I overthinking it? Thanks!
Hey man, That's so great to hear that you have been able to get from a place of apathy to feeling a lot more joy. I'll pass that along to Brian. He always appreciates hearing those successes.
This kind of work creates non-linear growth so sometimes unexpected or surprising energies come up. In those times when you are feeling all over the place, try to take a simple task or practice like breathing or meditation. A lot of energy that was repressed can come up as we get more emotionally free so it just takes a little calming activity usually to calm you down. All in all, it is not some bad sign of course, just part of the unfolding process. Keep it up! - Andrew, TFM Staff
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So if a woman gives me a 7 second "fuck off" death stare, she's not rejecting me, she's just creating tension? Ok, got it.
Wow.. no offense to anyone but his physical looks appearance alone isn’t anywhere near anything I think/thought was attractive .... but his energy is everything I’ve ever wanted !!! ❤️
Valeu!
Great video guys you are awesome! I wanna ask a question. How can I change my starting point (what I think about my self)? How can I change the feelings about myself without using external things? For example if I get in a room and I feel like every person is better than me, even if I know it is not true, how can I change that feeling? (Reason doesn't work at all). Even just some tip will be appreciated. Thanks guys.
You need to change your perspective about yourself. Sit down and ask yourself,”what do I like about me?” You won’t feel like a perfect person unless you already are exactly why you want to be. So the next step is to ask,” what can I change to make myself even more of what I want to be?” And then continue to grow into the person you want to become.
I have a question, if you get too deep into tension, you have to draw back slightly to maintain the balance.
How do you do that? With humour? What if a guy isn't funny? Thank you!
I am going to start touching women more when I reach out to them. Thank you for the advice. 👋
I got a qeustion: I'm a male but stronger on the Devine feminine side , what's the best road to take for a guy like me?
Is there some breathing techniques that should be used while embracing the tension?
Don't worry about that man lol. Just talk to her :) If you are getting tense, you can maybe slow your breathing and relax you body (start with your legs). - Andrew, TFM Team
This woman is very attractive!
12:47 very suggestive haha
14”30 summary: the man that never can be dangerous will never provide any safety either.
Ana Maria is 🔥
Man she beautiful 😄
NO FAP is the answer to everything!!
Is she Portuguese descendant?
Hi , first thanks for the video is very high qultiy .
I am follwing your vid's for a whille and at first it really motivat me to act and talk nice womens , it was quite good nothing that was un expcted.
But at the last days i start develop a dipression , i dont think i can lose for real my nice guy syndrom .
It feels that it part of me and all i can do it to fake for few days or maximum weeks then it all come back .
I practice medition and working out some times , it not really help's .
I quit porn and all this shit.
And still i fill bad when i getting out side of my home.
Prefer stay home and do nothing some tims i cry but thats it.
Now i can go out and start talk to women but they all see at me something with no value .
I dont like my life and i realy dont expect some one alse will love it.
My ex's girlfrind's leave me and i can undestand them .
What a shame .
So maybe this life are for more talent persons that have the option to grow and expend , for nice guys like me it just suffer and waiting .
whats with winning woman's heart?? We are men, deal with it or walk. period!
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12:34
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Is a sense of humor allowed in the domain of tension?
She seems a bit nervous or stressed
Turn off the music
Any women out here?
Is she being paid to be there?
Hi Solomon, Ana Maria is one of the coaches at Fearless. - Andrew, TFM
You have not answered any of my comments or questions, so I see how this goes, but let me say it seems rather contrived that you bring in multiple women who are attractive. First of all are they part of the program? Are they taught the process or are they just validating what you say? Also, are you advocating only trying to meet the more attractive women. Seems kind of insulting to women and also you seem to favor women from outside the United Sates and most of the men here are looking for local women. Also you have established again that women know and understand everything yet many would oppose that notion since it is known that women behave in a more complex manner than men do and often have trouble sorting out their own feelings or behave contrary to their feelings or desires.
Brian you are so in your legs it’s ridiculous.
I think he's seducing her during this video 🤔
Ana maria is hot
Yes she is. ❤️
Yes , I needed a cigarette after this video 😀