What Makes A Man Attractive To Women | Male Attractiveness | Part 1
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What’s the quickest way to improve your dating? Simple you need to discover a few things (1) what is it that you are doing that’s pushing women away (2) how do you self reject (3) how do women experience you? You’ll be surprised how such simple things make such a difference once you see that it’s not about attraction women, but rather what’s preventing your natural ability to attract the feminine? That’s exactly what we teach at Fearless live events - click below to learn more
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It’s a lot of process and action to be taken at the same time... so let’s say I did all the points you mentioned, what’s next? Just asking normal questions or what?
It doesn't matter. Guys u can pull tall girls. Any kind really
@thefearlessman bro I tried this before and the few girls to whom I did it to kinda felt scared of me. They couldn't look at me the whole time and even the next time we met. These girls are actually my clients. Any thoughts?
Guy has balls of steel doing this on camera. Impressive.
Even though that's true, the fact that this qualifies as balls of steel is the whole problem
@@louwaars agreed.
Actually Emily is a extremely Gorgeous woman in my personal opinion and I too would have the balls as well. Emily is my favorite model.
Listen man
“Only the confident win” -What a tagline man. Great video. I love the energy aspect that’s a requirement. Keep these videos comin
Glad it connects for you. Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events
Until i found this channel, I felt like I was the only one feeling these things. I thought I was cursed to forever be alone inside. I realized I have been holding myself back so much. I still am as well. Thank you for giving me the right direction to go in.
Glad the channel is helping! Hope to meet you at an event
fake account luuuulz what is 2+2? pls reply
@@fankyroll9454 2+2= diminishing other people in your mind will not compensate for low self-esteem.
Shitting out judgement and negativity into the world is not a valid way of building your self-esteem.
@@fankyroll9454 2+2= diminishing other people in your mind will not compensate for low self-esteem.
Shitting out judgement and negativity into the world is not a valid way of building your self-esteem.
@@fankyroll9454 2+2= diminishing other people in your mind will not compensate for low self-esteem.
Shitting out judgement and negativity into the world is not a valid way of building your self-esteem.
Man,.... I can see/feel the energy difference.... Good job on some how translating the feeling into a visual medium...
Glad to hear it translated!
These videos answer so many questions about male-female interactions that I've had, quickly and with examples. I've just recently discovered the PUA world and have been tearing through different channels and their content. I'm much more attracted to the aspects of effective and enjoyable communication and connection rather than the "I want to bring girls home" part (although I'd be lying if I said that wasn't a part of it). I like that you focus on underlying foundations rather than quick and sexy pick up lines and openers. "Think from your gut", "Feel from your stomach". I've watched two of your videos tonight and got the chills from some of the things you said, it resonated with me that much. I live up in my head so often and believe it's a frequent source of anxiety. I will move down to my gut. I will relax, and practice leaning into the tension. Thank you Brian Begin.
EDIT: Forgot to add, I've watched some of Tyler Free Tour, Apollonia Ponti, and Playing with fire (rated by helpfulness in ascending order), and straight up you're the best so far. You'll get more subs for sure.
If you are really interested in those aspects than you should look into the Mushin state (No Mind). The state where you have no thoughts, or extended gaps in between each thought. This totally changes interaction because your mind is empty, so all you have are 99% spontaneity. This means that not only do you have no idea where the conversation is going, or what it will be, neither does she. Bear in mind that I was not learning the Mushin state to pick up women, it was for myself, but I just happened to notice the difference when I talked to them afterward.
This is the BEST STUFF! We have all these people making videos talking about it and finally someone sets up these scenarios and break it down. Reeeally help show what little things do!! Subtile differences are all the difference with women.
This is crazy vital!!!!! I've watched these types of videos after I had a nervous system illness hit me over year ago, I never had a problem with my energy around people until then at all so I've been trying to pinpoint what I've lost (i can't settle for 'mojo'-though it is). Not one of the videos of attraction energy I've seen aside from this one touch onto how about how important it IS to be encouraging towards yet owning of this nervous energy. Confidently nervous is an amazing way to put it and I respect the people involved making this video. & DamN she's fine! - it's the way she stood as confidently owning her display of inner sexual worth + her expression says "I'm judging you to see if you're enough to even amuse my high standards, have you got what it takes?" damn damn.
Just subscribed. Of all the TH-camrs doing this stuff this guy’s the best. The coaching, the explanations, the psychology and the real life examples ( beautiful) I feel like I’m being coached one on one.
Brian keep doing what you are doing bro. Ever since I started watching your videos I have been obsessed.
Great video Brian, very detail and technical on the topic of masculine and feminine energy with body language. Not many coaches do that. Keep it coming.
My maaan doing a good job, You have to start somewhere. Proud of You!!
I just finished the video, and I do believe that a product such as the one you described at the end of the video would be beneficial to people. As long as you keep up the events. Those imo are your bread and butter and where you help your clients the most. And yall are the best I've seen in terms of not only workshops but the variety of what you teach on them. Plus, I cannot tell you how many incredible coaches slowly cut out coaching all together in favor of solely online products because that's you can sell more that way.
Events aren't going anywhere! And you're right-working with guys in person is certainly the most powerful. Glad you thin a product would be valuable, though
He is so shy, props to him for doing all of this
Exactly the type of videos I need...all these other vids out there about how to tell if she likes you...here I can work on my skills I so desperately need
The visuals actually seeing the interactions is much better for me than just talking about it much more helpful
This guy knows his stuff. Powerful content. Looking forward to his U.S Tour.
OMG!!! This is absolutely incredible! Everybody is great! Even the student, he is so brave, and Brian mirrors everything so well, and Emily speaks so intelligent. Wow!!!
Glad you enjoyed!
This is very eye opening we get to see how interactions are done 1 on 1, with a student and a model. I would love to see more of these videos in the future !
This is insanely enlightening to me. I now know why many of my interaction still don't go smooth, why people feel creeped out or unsure of me.
I love this TH-cam channel, it teaches so much valuable things to us modern men that was lost to a society that oppresses the masculine.
Noted!
Glad this connected for you!
I really like this, I did see a change in his body language slightly, but I saw which is really exciting! So please do more!
This content is helpful. What I like the most is the emphasis on the energy flow and how you feel your body. Definitely helps if you meditate, that way you can feel shifts in emotions in your body more clearly. As a side effect I also noticed my voice becomes deeper, because I relax the front of my body
This is exactly what I needed. I started watching the previous mini serious, and I found it a little hard to understand (from watching it through a camera and not having a good example of someone who has these nervous habits with a women) The volunteer helps a lot, I'm learning a lot about the subtle communication that I have never been perceptive enough to read before. But thanks to your videos on how to be more in your body, and this video series, I think i finally "get" what I've been missing.
Mind it doesn't mean I can fix it instantly, but I know how to improve now. Great work Brian, as always. Keep it up.
Glad it helped!
Great job🏆 and very good perspective 🔴
Thank you and keep going ✊
you know a video & teacher is great, when it gets you up to physically take action and practice these tips alongside the video. thats freakin huge. man your awesome
Love to hear that!
I was rooting for him as I was watching this. Come on Ian you can do it bro! Make her feel your ballzzzzz!!!
This is amazing stuff, guys! Very clear. Remarkable how a screen is able to transmit the energy in that room! I felt exactly what she described. Mind you: I seriously wonder if I will ever be able to reach Brian's level of peace and confidence anytime soon. But I've already experienced some pretty wonderful things, making baby steps. For example: the other day I was out with a very pretty Latina, we have a group of mutual friends. After a group meet-up she invited me along for a drink or two, just her and me. Since a few months I've had the feeling that she's interested in me, but wasn't sure, and didn't do much with it. So this time I just told her what I felt and wanted, and (suprise!) she didn't flinch. In fact, she confirmed what I already thought. I also just relaxed into my body, feeling and savoring every bit of scared-shitlessness that I felt. At the same time I let myself enjoy her presence, her smile and beauty and my turn-on at full swing. No apologies. No trying to hide it. It totally changed the vibe: her whole body language changed, aimed more directly at me. She got more talkative, even taking intiative in the conversation. The whole downside to this is that she turns out to be in a bad, unfulfilling relationship (her words). She also told me that if she wouldn't be, our "reality" (as she put it) would be a very different one, probably "actively getting to know each other". This is awesome!!!
Only the confident wins
.....what a tag line.... Says it all...!!!!
Only the confident LIVE ;)
I literally said "fuck yes!" When I saw the thumbnail and title for this video. A demo series that goes more in depth into not only what you teach, but how you teach it. I've been waiting for this and I can only hope that I can attend at Least a few workshops by y'all once I get the funds settled in a couple years.
I look forward to meeting you!
one thing I always wondered, if you can actually feel the chakras / energy emanating from then, or energetic states and configurations... via (youtube) videos!!! it totally seems and feels like it. After many years still wondering about this phenomenon.
You are a frickin shaman, that's awesome. loved the video
Great vid and examples ! Thanks , I learned a lot !
That’s dope how you said in other video Brazilian jiu-jitsu helps with this. & yoga helps with bjj too. And all this helps with relaxing and being aware of breathing and being relax under “tense” sit. It’s awesome how it all works together universally.
Great stuff here ah !! Great job!!Now I understand a lot of things! Thanks a lot.
You're welcome! Glad it helped. Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events
Getting to see the visual feedback is great. I'm getting a feel for what to look for. Thanks !
Glad it connects!
This is similar to what I used to do to train my sales reps on how to connect and interact with their prospective clients but obviously on a professional level. How we make the prospect feel is far more important than what we say and how we say it. I thought them that:
The 5 C’s of Correct Communication
- Connection
- Congruence
- Compassion
- Confidence
- Consistence
Once they were able to focus on genuinely connecting with each person, speaking with them as if they are the only person on Earth and one that you truly care about, their sales skyrocketed as they no longer got hung up on what to say, what sales strategies to use, or the most effective techniques to get them to buy. All of the was secondary at best. I learned this through 15 years of door to door sales experience and was able to go beyond mastery.
I got so good that most people simply couldn’t tell me no and what I realized was that my genuine compassion and ability to connect with others is what ultimately made me so successful. I had a great product that solved some of their problems at the best price but none of that mattered unless they trusted me, which they felt through my ability to connect with them, my compassion/concern for their well being, my congruence, and confidence.
I’ve used these universal principles in all areas of my life as it’s naturally who I am but when I get in front of a woman I find attractive and it’s not a sales presentation (If it’s a sale presentation, I never got nervous regardless of her attractiveness), suddenly I go into my head and ruin the interaction, usually by being to logical and friendly. However, I have gone on to date some amazing, beautiful women but it was always when I wasn’t trying.
Well said
love it! keep it up man.
one of the best contents ever. love this video. now i understand what you do at the intensive workshop! thanks so much
Glad it connected!
Great video and work. I'm loving the energy and wisdom of your channel.
Glad you're enjoying! Hope to meet you at an event
It actually helps me a lot to watch this so far
Great job student and the girl was great at giving some awesome feedback. Yeah sounds like a good product.
Glad you enjoyed and see value in it
So abstract and felt, yet so real. Wow. I try to describe this stuff to my friends but they dont understand
Its really great.. I found only u..out of most of the other ones who just talk..about but u actually doing it with energy..that's really appreciated and learnable.. The basic n simple vibrations.. Ur way of talking and showing and teaching is awesome.. Very loveful..which can touch anyone's heart.. God bless man.. :)
Glad it hit home for you! Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events
Yes to the product. Please include conversation after the approach in it.
I have managed to get a lot of this right on my own via youtube, inner work, meditation and grounding, but I know there is more work to be done.
Noted!
Beauty needs a witness. Love it!
I am looking forward to watching more videos with Emily in them because she knows how to explain things clearly
6:45 he taught me how you can enjoy her smile (any aspect that you enjoy) to bring you into a state of enjoyment
I think he feel's a bit imposed because that girl is so much taller than he is
Maybe, but that too is a story (limiting belief)
And she djs and plays 8 instruments, is an MMA fighter, and owns her own business
She's 5'7. He just has that short asian gene.
@@theawesomesausage 5'7" with heels looks like ? which would make her like 5'10" at least .. that's quite tall for a female .. but yeah it's all limiting belief bullshit .. all in your head
real alphas don't even usually go for tall women. I see them and sometimes there is small disparity with her slightly... taller, but they rarely end up with them.
You have to compensate too much with other values to make up with that one.
It was educational to see the 1% difference. It was fun feeling the energy with such an amazing and pleasant lady like Emily. Amazing lady to see her willingness to endure awareness and yet still emulate a desire for Ian to succeed. Class, grace and beauty very elegant combination in a lady.
definitely a good video, I'm a visual learner so all of this is golden
Glad it connected!
I would definitely be interested in bying the product brian. It would be my pleasure to learn and to also give you something because your videos have taught me so much. Still have much to learn, but great great video.
You're program is impressive. The energetic work is a good approach and can't be faked
Glad it resonates
It's about feeling comfortable with who you are and expressing your intentions to her. You have to get out of your head and stop being self-conscious of everything.
Amazing Series and would definitively buy the Finished Product, really really Amazing, giving us a lot of Awareness and Understanding on even how to stay within, the thing I was really working on lately, how to stay present even during the work and from how you showed it and explained in at 14:13
Man you are doing an Amazing job, thanks for all these videos can't wait for more and the final product :)
Thanks-glad it's helpful and you're interested in a product!
awesome video and very helpfull ,you should do thatprogram ! i could littery feel the energies on both of the interactions
Glad to hear it! noted
Wow this is great man you are really good teacher.
Omg this is so unique!!!!! Thank You!!!!
You're welcome!
Yes that was very helpful,, More more,,,More thank you
This shit is so cool lmao! We are energy at our core, our thoughts, beliefs shape all our actions
Confidence ; It freaks me out that someone would then learn about a deeper problems I have!
Best part starts at 15:21 and continues lmao 😂 😂😂”the smile is a little fake” props to the young mans courage to be up there though
props to Ian to agreeing to do this which was going to go on TH-cam
Great stuff!!!
it's obvious she doesn't like him; she shows zero tension and she is trying hard not to laugh when the dude steps closer and closer. this tension technique only works if she is attracted to the guy, otherwise she will laugh her ass off and probably think he is a creep.
MikiMaki76 Hahahah I saw that she was trying not to laugh because that guy was way to funny looking cause he was serious
MikiMaki76 true! agreed.
Didn't you now what laughing is a way to release tension? When I was kid were was a game in which you should look someone in the eyes without turning away and doing nothing while trying not to laugh - guess what, no one could last for too long. When you do nothing and just create tension with a person then laughing out is a way to release the tension. When you learn how to create and keep tension then women would laugh randomly when you talk to them, they will laugh at even most stupidest jokes and actions. It doesn't mean what she laughs at you. When guy entered the room both he and the girl felt tension and were unable to keep it you can see it from how he have this stupid smile on his face, he can't take the tension, unlike the coach dude who holds it pretty well.
Nice breakdown of the situation
EXCELLENT teacher, excellent video
It's really done well I can see the energy exactly! Interesting
Glad it translates!
Just awesome. Even while watching 3rd person perspective i could feel what i saw. O.O
it was very useful to see the whole energy play evolving. It would be grate that when the student reaches the point, you're satisfied with, to repeat the video with the same model to make kinda a comparison. Love the channel btw it helped me understand and learn a lot. Thank you very much.
Glad it was helpful!
I think the reason why I subscribed immediately is because the host isn't a perfect looking guy as opposed to those perfect looking folks giving advise that only works for them ,however I am aware that every woman I come across won't necessarily be interested and that's ok because I comfort myself with my confidence when I get rejected by backing off in a respectable fashion, so yeah man confidence is everything
I think that is a product i would DEF be interested in..
understanding how attraction works.. Especially for men is i believe an essential..
We men need to be less timid with females. Atleast i know i do
Cool video, bro!
Yes on the product!
this fearless dude got a nice voice
Great Video . My biggest take away: don't be afraid to be you. Just be a better you. You are going to need a lot of positive small talk to yourself which will result in you showing that you can be more confident this video seems to be about learning how to be you but more confidently you. It ALL starts from within First!
Exactly. Great takeaways! Thanks for sharing. Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events/
Wow, I am actually at a point where I can figure out my style. I feel and think I am more expressive and seductive when I move my body. Very very lightly. Like my hips, my shoulders, my chest, my head, my feet. It's like, I DO NOT like stagnation. The energy gets trapped in my body. I experienced it this morning. It reminded me of that song, brush your shoulders off. Just lite movements would make me not latch on to insecurities. I would flick them off. And if I have to I just meditate for how ever long until I release the energy.
Wow just found a new fantasy and that’s to line up all the models in the video 😁
That sample at the beginning of the video was very cool music, I want to know where was this sample from a Rap song or what it from?
You picked a good newbie. I could see and understand the difference in his approaches. Maybe it also helped that she's taller than him, it exaggerates his lean back from having to look up and feeling more exposed by being the short one. Looking forward to seeing how the next one goes.
Yes, the height is just another story, but "feeling more exposed" may be a part of what he was feeling. Thanks for sharing here
we got a natural here luuuulz
He felt intimidated at first a bit stronger than nervous. when making eye contact you have the power to make her feel as if the instructor is not in the room. I would love to see you or your students in some more real world scenarios.
Just be yourself. That's all it is. Don't worry about saying the right/wrong things (which is the most common mistake guys make). As long as you ground yourself into your own authentic self, nobody is gonna care if what you're saying is awkward/weird. It's all about how your energy comes across to others as you're feeling it from within yourself. When you ground yourself, you can say whatever you feel like saying and it will always come across as cool/chill, and people will resonate with that - men or women. The only thing that makes a conversation awkward is your energy.
Well said. We just need to learn what being ourselves really means, and that's where most are struggling
THIS!!
Agree 100%
How can you be yourself when your fear/tension stifles you?
Start a confidence/tension journal. Really do it. www.thefearlessman.com/do-this-exercise-everyday-for-30-days/
Am going to look in to this now! I would love to do this in person!
Give us a call or message us on our facebook page!
Definitely saw a change. I am going to try this grounded idea.
Also, I think you should create a product like this style. The talking and the action components solidify the lessons.
Glad it connected! And noted!
I am loving this, I need some practice!
Get out there and do it. And think about coming to an event: www.thefearlessman.com/events
... Ballsy young guy. Love it!
wooow look i was shy first time i see your videos after a month nd i just keep watching your videos i changed i recive your confidance energy you are amazing
Glad they're helping!
he's my favourite monk. love this guy
I felt he did way better than what they were telling him.
its amazing content man
"Beauty needs a witness... Just enjoy what you liked about her" - she wants her beauty to be acknowledged and she wants her to be found attractive and how does she know this? If she is able to trigger attraction in you AND you can enjoy it (instead of feeling running away), SHE gets to enjoy this feeling of being able to arouse that desire for her and when you stay in that zone, she can continue to keep feeling good about her. When you run away or Suddenly drop it and become nervous, you just deprived her of one of her most fundamental needs being met.... No wonder girls instantly shut you out in such cases....
Would highly appreciate an in-depth program. I noticed myself cringe because I myself do that, giving me second hand embarrassment. Fundamentally, this is what guys should be learning before exploring the world of pick ip
Definitely for a reasonable and affordable price for many
Se nota que a la Emily le interesa que aprenda Ian. Gran video!
Yes a product will be awesome.
wow i like that part when you hold his head back make that sound hhm sound i felt the difference. good teacher
Amazing.
Pure gold.
Cool stuff. 💯👫
When a girl is teasing you and joking around like that as in where she says "I dj on the weekends and play 8 instruments," I take that as she's trying to impress me. I'll play it right back. I would say, "Oh yeah? I actually work for the children's miracle network and I'm curing cancer on the weekends."... You see what I did there? TEASE AND JOKE RIGHT BACK IN A SERIOUS MATTER. Show her you're calling her out on her bullshit but in a playful matter. Then I'd say, "I hope that got your libido going a little." Increase the convo with a sexual comment but don't be creepy when you say it. You wanna keep it playful. What does this show her? You're NOT INTIMIDATED BY HER LOOKS. You're used to talking to beautiful women and you don't take life too seriously. Just my two cents.
This mind blowing woah 🤯
That was a good exercise for him. Emily is pretty, tall and doesn't flinch. I'm going to try to practice my grounded energy on others. 😈
Let me know how it goes!
As an introvert it's quite difficult to force the meek and timid out and own your space. You're also tricked into thinking that it's the dominant and direct that's going to make the woman intimidated and jumpy, and so the timid guy will put her at ease - safe and comfortable.