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You want more success with women but your nice guy personality is holding you back.
Most guys know that being a nice guy doesn't work when it comes to attracting women, but they don't know how to change. They keep trying the same things that haven't worked in the past.
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Boy, this video is so spot on. After being emotionally abandoned and abused by my parents, you're the only person that's been able to articulate my deepest fear (even I couldn't articulate it). Liberating. Many thanks!
It's great to know this video had such a significant impact. Thanks for letting us know.
Landon, TFM
Same here
This is the best breakdown I've ever heard. I spent most of my life as "nice guy". It wasn't until I started looking inward and being open with others about what was fueling me. I used to put other people in charge of how I felt and what I thought as I didn't have the tools to be in charge of myself. Thankfully I do have and use those tools today.
Awesome video!
Anger is a tough one, since our parents’ anger is what we learned to be afraid of and appease by any means, which seems like another seed of nice guy syndrome (just ordered Dr. Glovers book 👍🏼)
I needed this 😭😭
Another paradigm shifting video. Really great work Brian 👏
Substantial information man. Thanks a lot
I love this video Brian. I have been avoiding getting in touch with my anger for a long time. This is a fantastic reminder to start allowing myself to bring it up and show it some love.
This is amazing insight
This is so on point Brian, I don’t identify as a nice guy and am comfortable expressing my needs but even still this video almost released a new layer for me to look at and it really speaks to your emotional intelligence. Inspiring stuff, cheers
Man you good I practice as you saying and I felt those emotions stuck in my belly and suddenly they came up afer that a sense of calm.. Wow ! Thanks man 🙏🏽
Best video so far!!! Amazing. Developemental psychology made useful for once 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Spot on ❤️
I was mentally f**ked up, Thank God I found this video and started realizing what was wrong with me... thank you so much brother
This is so spot on..I am going to do this
Incorporating anger and guilt into game is something I've never heard before. I'm new to game tho, but yeah, I'm gonna have to try this.
🔥🔥🔥🔥...deep staff man
Just wow ...
I know ive been around here for yeaaarrrrrssss, i get it, then i loose it once (and i just reqlized that), once i face a very shamefull experience.
I just realized that waves of shame come at me over and over all day long. And i didnt knew it was shame. Ive called it self hate. Ive always looked for people with shame up their necks and try to save and help them. And i always wondrr, why am surrounded with damaged people ?
I was docile then got stabbed countless time so i became very angry and the rage made me realize that am much much greater. But that high faded away once i faced a big shamefull experience and i didndt understand that back then.
Thank you. From a chronically ashamed man, constantly fighting and pulling the ropes. I salute you.
Ill never give up, ill eventually be free
Really helpful video. I wish i had watched it before thank you very much it helps me to understand my feelings.
Whoa! This is so timely for me and I’m ready to move thru it! Did my MKP weekend years ago and me s groups on and off, found Glover and it all came up.. brilliant video!
I love all your videos.❤️❤️❤️
I’m finally getting what your saying on this video. Re fear and shame guilt. I tend to operate mainly in lust, anger and pride but I can’t transform these into courage ‘
I'm going to go back to this video at the end of a busy day 5 days a week at 11:00pm.
I've watched this video three times now, and every time, I picked up something new, something deeper.
I only wish I'd gotten out of my head sooner, it would've made more sense - this is a process to be felt... not reasoned with.
Considering the constraints of video versus in-person, this is masterfully done.
Just wow!
Hey man please revisit tension journaling video. I think it suits really well for nice guy who are trying to change
This hits spot on brother. Since early childhood we are conditioned be be "nice guys" and this is why so many nice guys deny that they are nice guys or find it very hard to break free from this (I actually took a psychology class and the classical conditioning described in my psychology classes mirrors the way the nice guy problem develops). I'm glad that there are people like you on youtube that helped me understand and grow past being a "nice guy."
Thanks for your support, Jin. We're glad to have you here.
Landon, TFM
this is money! Thanks Brian!
I started to get chills after - 7:00
I fell off from watching these videos and I must say these are the best of the bunch, very well explained.
Learning 1% everyday ❤️🔥
Dude 30-90days of this anger practice and it’ll become muscle memory for the nice guy 👍 legend Brian. Thanks 🙏
Omg dude I know anger and pride are not bad but I still have bad beliefs running in the back ground around them.which brings up the guilt and shame around these energies omg Brian thank you! 🎉
Great video. Do you give examples on all this in real life events? I think examples of everything you talk about would help
Thanks!
@adamfaherty9104 thank you - appreciate your support.
This is incredibly informative 👍. (We nice guys) are fundamentally different from secure men. I always wondered why I had so much fear and anxiety . I always thought I could fight my way through it by dressing well, and acting like a cool guy but that doesn’t work. People see through it
I think I had the worst case of nice guy syndrome when I was a kid, I gradually became better but it was a struggle. I had a hard time even throwing away the packaging after I opened my action figures because the packaging might get sad, lol.
Get you a heavy bag guys. Let them hands go
Great
I can relate to this. I'm stuck in anger at the moment. So many people man and women have been testing me since being up in anger which fuels more anger.
How do i get out of it? Accept the comments and make them a positive by laughing off?
You might begin to get acquainted with the upper level emotions of Courage, Acceptance, Love, and Peace. Begin to meditate on these, looking within for times where you've felt Love (for instance). Then see if you can replicate/induce that same feeling of love in times where anger is triggered.
Landon, TFM
my mom has over 20 years of depression, her psychiatrist never explain this to her. I guess they just want to continually make money from clients!
Wow
My mom has been taking anxiety medicine from over 20 years
Anger is an survival emotion and triggers action like fighting and you are not a victim not like fear that is what women are.
Fear has his own place and It depends on the situation !
Yes, i don´t want to be angry at work all the time. Logical don't work with anger and fear because they are Survival Emotions and you don´t need
the mind when you fight or run.
Self-identifying as a “nice guy” can amplify shame as it’s kind of like a humiliation ritual one does to oneself that quite often does little more than validate someone else’s misperception that someone is “too nice”. While I do think this video points to something, creating an internal representation of oneself as such a creature CAN do more harm than good.
Great vid! I think this ontological pattern (hierarchy of being) that you've presented os well is a key to understanding reality and higher qualities of existence.
I also think that there are some ethical as well as existential questions we can ask ourselves here.
Who is the locksmith to this key and to whom should we give honour to? Is it an arbitrary pattern or is something/someone pulling us up the ladder? What is the nature of that source?
Is this pattern nested in a greater story and would it be possible to see this as a "method" to use for our corrupted or narcissistic motives?
I as a Christian ask these questions because I care about doing the right thing and not just seeking my own glory. What's true about the video is that we can't be in denial of our feelings, but instead immerse ourselves in them. Thus we don't escape from reality but act courageously by confronting the unknown. Jesus went all the way to defeat the arguments and lies of the evil one and invites us to follow his footsteps by trusting in him. This is a grand narrative which gives me great joy, confidence and hope as it tells that the living God loves you and me!
Thanks for this video!
God bless
Its really frustrating feeling all that anger and not being able to do anything about it, i still got a bit confused in how can we learn to express it but aside from that great vídeo.
Eye opening info , really helped realise and understand my anger
For the first time Stock images in the vid
I want to feel peace and free. Please guide me thru appropriate way
Kunal, Fearless is all about teaching you how to do this. Have you checked out our products and events page, by chance:
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Other sources include: "Letting Go" by David Hawkins, and "The Power of Now" by Eckart Tolle.
I hope this helps.
Landon, TFM
Thanks Brian, you have transformed my life since I started following Your youtube channel 4 years ago. I have been recently in trouble accepting my current partner sexual past, I feel a lot heavy emotions which I have never experienced every time I am with her and Think about it. She has much more sexual experiences than me, and I am getting to the point I am thinking in ending the relation just for this. Do you know if I can do something to heal this. Maybe you can do a video talking about this issue. Thanks so much for all the information you are giving the community with Fearless. Greetings from Mexico.
She's still the same person, dude, no matter what her body count. You're identifying her with something that isn't her.
Hola hermano, I’m going to tell this in English if someone else benefits also from this. Im also from Mexico and I’ve been there. At 28, I did lose my virginity with my actual girlfriend and of course, she did had various previous partners. The pain was almost unbearable, now I’m fine with it. It’s called “retro-active jealousy” and you are jealous not from possible present experiences but jealous of the things she did in the past. Although it is normal to feel repulsed by imagining your woman being with another dudes, it’s not normal to fixate your own thoughts on that. Your mind is leading you there because there is something there you need to integrate. Basically, you’re feeling insecure because you feel she might had been with someone better than you. You might feel inexperienced, unskillful, not enough, weak... I don’t know what’s your Achilles heel.
You might have to start thinking that, although she might had a high quality man in her past, she still chooses you, so despite what she experienced, she still thinks you’re worth it. For her, now (the past future) you’re the best option yet.
So, you have 2 choices: To accept her past is unbearable to you and if you feel there are things you lack, start living them, acquiring experiencing in order to avoid that sensation of being inexperienced.
Or, accept her past, making peace with the fact she’s a human who made mistakes or silly things and that you may experience lots of things with her also while you learn, develop and grow as a man. She might end up thinking she will never know anyone like you.
For better or worse, previous sex partners is more of a deal for a man than for a woman so don’t take it too seriously or personal.
Hope this helps a little, the rest is up to you. Mucha fuerza
Nah bro. If you feel like she's for the streets...then by all means...leave her there, my man!
Hi Brian are there any mens coaches like you in Ireland. I’m a typical nice guy and I’m struggling big time to attract women. I’ve read dr glovers book which is amazing. I understand the tension and stepping into it but I need help to get into gear.
i have the issue that whenever i have acceptance the lower scale kicks in again but i can't tap into anger anymore so i get stuck
Hello man. Thanks for the content. I wanna buy one of your program but i am confused which one to start with? i suffer from nice guy syndrome
Rishabh, I suggest contacting a coach and explaining your story. The coach can then make a better judgment on what course/event to suggest. Send an email to support@thefearlessman.com and they will connect you with the appropriate coach for your area.
Regards,
Landon, TFM
A lot of women have the same.
Brian, this content really resonates with me, especially since I just finished Hawkin‘s „Letting Go“. However, it all just feels like wishywashy. Like, how do I „get in touch with my anger“? What exact, practical steps should I do to move up the scale? Is it simply releasing/letting go? Or is there more to it? Thanks, man.
By letting it come up. Repressed anger is hidden and isn't going to show itself until you start welcoming it. You can literally just sit down, take a deep breath, relax then tell yourself ' I allow myself to feel anger ' with intention. Wait and see what happens. He said in the video to, can I welcome the anger that is behind this shame/ fear works too. Find the fear/ shame then welcome the anger, go up the scale 😉
That being said when the anger is there you will want to push it down because that's all you know. You need to the opposite and that means loving and acknowledging the anger when it is there.
Markus, now might be a good time to attend one of our workshops where you can begin to get your detailed questions answered. Have a look and see what you think. Give us a call, or shoot us an email and we'll be glad to provide more details.
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Regards,
Landon, TFM
Fucking great video! Grand slam! This has been the missing piece!
Thanks for your support, Roberto. We're glad to have you here.
Landon, TFM
I don't remember my mom ever withdrawing love from me like that at all.
Yet I still seem to have parts of the nice guy syndrome, what are some other causes?
Great video, Brian! Shame is the lowest emotion on another scale, created by David Hawkins. If you’re not familiar with Doctor Sarno, his whole thesis was that pain was caused by repressed rage.
I have to pause this video because it’s triggering me so much
Dam what did I do?!?!🤕
I feel shame at asking anyone for anything or getting in anyone's way or bothering anyone, because I was taught that as a young child. I suspect that's the correct thing to teach children, but at some point a boy learns to push past this behavior as he transitions into manhood. Sounds like another single-mother problem I've realized I had.
Good insight. Definitely some inner child work to heal, and let go of.
Landon, TFM
Getting more jacked every video
Hi Brian I’m struggling big time to meet a woman I’m attracted to. I am a nice guy “ . I had no problem when I was a young man because we went out in groups and I had no problem approaching when drunk. I was married for 16 years which happened v naturally at the time.
I’ve tried online dating for 22 months now but can’t attract a quality woman . I’ve had about 20 dates in the 22 months from online but none of the quality women wanted to meet me again. I live near a small city and have recently started going in to the coffee shops there but there are v few women in my age bracket to even think about approaching.
It’s really getting frustrating now and I don’t know how to proceed. ?
Rainer, I responded to this similar/same comment in another post you made. See if you can find that response.
Regards,
Landon
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First comment, nice!
You see Sir why you contradict yourself with multiple views? So confusing. One video non duality shoot for freedom which will bring out the nice guy and then this which is the real man coming alive and quitting being distracted and addicted and unhealthy.